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| 1 | my boyfriend wants a threesomeBring this question over to /nonmonogamy with a more detailed and curious post, and they'll tell you all you need to know. That said, based on what you posted here so far I'd say you're not off to a strong start. You should do it because you want to as well, not just your boyfriend. And yeah, you'll need to learn A LOT about yourselves before you even attempt something like this, if you just go for it...you will fail, and your relationship will suffer or die. Do your research or shelf this idea.… | /r/seduction | 28/05/26 10:18 AM |
| 2 | Do you think men enjoy giving head or they just fake it?What an L take. Man here. Love eating pussy. It's the best and most reliable way to give her an orgasm. If that isn't important to you, then get out of this sub | /r/seduction | 27/05/26 01:17 PM |
| 2 | I've learned here's the best method to ask a girl out and maximize the odds she'll say YES and (most importantly) she won't end up FLAKING.It that's your style, all power to you. But lot's of people like coffee dates. They are cheap, low pressure, and if you don't vibe, easy to walk away from. The same is not true for evening drinks, and especially not dinner. Again, no judgement, but not everyone likes to go on evening dates as the first date. | /r/seduction | 24/04/26 12:39 PM |
| 5 | Those of you who don't get rejected...There's PLENTY of reasons you might not get a girl, and I'd refrain from the term "no excuse" in this instance, it implies that there's a correct combination of buttons you can push and any girl will fall all over you, and if you don't succeed that there's something wrong with you. It encourages young and inexperienced men to get pushy and bother women cause they think they are playing hard to get. Sometimes, you're just not her type. That alone is a benign and reasonable reason. She might be co… | /r/seduction | 30/01/26 12:22 AM |
| 3 | Those of you who don't get rejected...Outside of celebrities (and them a lot of times too) everyone gets rejected. If someone is telling you different, they're lying. There are just too many factors. Some women are taken, some are gay, or asexual, or just not interested in dating anyone right now. You can't charm just anyone into bed. | /r/seduction | 29/01/26 11:49 PM |
| 1 | Do models/highly attractive women have a lower body count?Who cares? | /r/seduction | 29/09/25 04:10 PM |
| 2 | Being a 22m virgin is making me suicidalFirst, stop putting sex on a pedestal. It's awesome, but not worth killing yourself over. If you learn the ins and outs of your own body and what you find pleasurable, there's very few women out there that can make you feel better than you can yourself. I don't say that flippantly, fact is most people are mediocre or worse at sex so you aren't missing out on as much as you think you are. Of course it's going to be a big deal your first few times, but eventually you'll learn it is not the end all… | /r/seduction | 22/08/25 05:40 AM |
| 2 | Lady Killers of Reddit. Whom have slept with a lot of women and had a lot of girlfriends. Do you still cold approach? Why or why not?I don't know what people consider a lot, but I think I'm just a few shy of ~50 so take that for what it's worth. Only one of those were from cold approaching, and honestly my buddy opened the set so it's not even like I like to take credit. I tried cold approaching for a little bit in my 20s, and it just wasn't for me. No disrespect for the people who do like to do it this way. I found that dating apps were the most approachable way for me. Everyone there knows that they are there for a particul… | /r/seduction | 20/06/25 10:31 PM |
| 67 | Stop Clowning YourselfYou can make people laugh without being a clown. People who vibe with you will just laugh because they are having a good time, whether you said something actually funny or not. | /r/seduction | 16/10/24 02:19 PM |
| 4 | Men who are in long term relationships - did you ever feel that you will ‘miss out’?I don't, but my gf and I are in an open relationship. Hell, she'd fuck the same girls with me if everyone was down. | /r/seduction | 06/06/24 07:48 PM |
| 196 | Besides porn, what job do you think would get you laid the most?My buddy was is also a male nurse. After his divorce, he was swimming. | /r/seduction | 09/02/24 08:42 PM |
| 1 | Is your sexual life going to be lower or over once you're past the age of 25?I got better at getting women as I got older, I easily pulled thrice the amount of sex in the last year than I pulled over the course of my first 5 years out of High school. Trust the wisdom and experience. And also remember that men get a weird advantage of becoming sexier as they age, or so I've been told. 🤷♂️ | /r/seduction | 25/10/22 10:29 AM |
| 1 | How to get laid: Have a normal easy going conversation about nice stuff then ask her if she wants to join you for a bottle of wine at your placeI'm not lying about anything. A woman of quality loves someone for who they are, not for how skinny they are or how much money they make, as the OP suggested. If they are problematic in these areas that it becomes a detriment, then sure, but they aren't and shouldn't be the leading factors in loving someone. | /r/seduction | 20/07/22 02:02 AM |
| 2 | How to get laid: Have a normal easy going conversation about nice stuff then ask her if she wants to join you for a bottle of wine at your placeLet me let you in on a secret. Women of quality don't really care about that stuff, and neither should you. | /r/seduction | 17/07/22 05:35 AM |
| 1 | Having a debate with friend: Does a 6’4 average looking guy need game?My very lonely late teens and early 20s were had despite my 6'5 stature. You absolutely need game. Tallness is like a lighthouse, it attracts attention but it doesn't keep the ships themselves from hitting the rocks. I have a modicum of game now and do fine. However, I still get rejected fairly often just cause we don't vibe that well, and that's totally fine. Nobody is out here banging me just cause I'm tall. | /r/seduction | 19/05/22 12:30 AM |
| 15 | Question to all the guys who actively get lucky with girlsStart with small, inconsequential social interactions in public with people you normally would not engage with. Make it a point to just say "hi" to 5 people, and don't only target attractive women. From here you can graduate on to smaller conversations, which is practice for when you get in frame with people in real life, such as commenting on "how my dog loves these treats!" to the next shopper over at Costco. While I'm not a subscriber to the manipulative tactics that came from the PUA lifesty… | /r/seduction | 06/04/22 02:59 PM |
| 49 | My friend met and had sex with a girl 1 day before I did. We both met her on Tinder. And it was a total coincidenceBetter add it to the EBDB | /r/seduction | 17/01/22 01:39 AM |
| 16 | Stop Being Ashamed of Your MasculinityPerhaps as a response to the OP saying "stop trying to be a nice guy" Obviously that doesn't mean just be a jerk, but there are those who might interpret it that way. I think "nice guy" is another fluid term that can have multiple meanings but not everyone is always on the same page. | /r/seduction | 21/07/21 02:45 PM |
| 38 | PostureDo a lot of yoga, it will help you not only with your posture, but your core and your mind as well. | /r/seduction | 08/06/21 02:13 PM |
| 7 | The one shit test that will make or break youGo one step further, tell her only if you can come and watch. | /r/seduction | 10/05/21 09:25 PM |
| 2 | How to impress a guy on first date?I like to remember an episode of Big Mouth, which I'm paraphrasing, "Just do what you like to do normally and bring them along." In the same sense of conversation, just talk about the things you like, for example Mortal Kombat action figures, and then ask him if he likes anything like that. People like to talk about themselves, so asking them questions, like how many siblings do they have, what do they aspire to be, do they have any cool vacation stories. You can google a million topics to bring… | /r/seduction | 10/05/21 08:34 PM |
| 18 | The Ultimate Guide To Passing Shit Tests (this should be easy)Yeah but I don't see any goats around here, do you? | /r/seduction | 06/05/21 05:18 PM |
| 3 | Dear “nice guys”........I like to say, stop being nice, learn to be kind. Nice is too often an invitation to not enforce your boundaries, avoid conflict in order to people please, and generally a suppression of your personality for doing so, along with all the resentment that comes with that. Kindness to me is instead treating people like people, doing things for them cause you want to and it makes you feel more fulfilled, living your life to a moral code that works for you and doesn't attempt to harm others and an una… | /r/seduction | 28/04/21 01:35 AM |
| 3 | The key to success is doing whatever the fuck you want (with a few exceptions)I'm not so sure. Lets say a date calls me a little bitch, breaks my t.v., and is generally just being a toxic mess. I want to punch her, but instead I curse her out as is proper, kick her out, maybe call the cops. My first instinct might have been a violent return, a very human thing to think of in a heated moment, but its also a crime, and everybody would think I was a little bitch for punching a woman even if she probably deserved it. The solution instead to set your boundary, in this case tha… | /r/seduction | 09/01/21 12:20 PM |
| 3 | The key to success is doing whatever the fuck you want (with a few exceptions)Yeah I'm here too. I'm liable to say some stupid shit if I just say anything I want without giving a fuck, but being able to stand behind the things you say, and having enough wisdom not to say some of the stupid shit that pops up is fitting with what OP was saying. Filters are still important, its just much more refined at this point. | /r/seduction | 09/01/21 12:00 PM |
| 1 | Here's what I've been doing on Tinder to get a casual fling every couple of months.Si | /r/seduction | 27/11/20 08:41 PM |
| 1 | Here's what I've been doing on Tinder to get a casual fling every couple of months.I just wanna say I appreciate your guide here and I'm going to return to it. A lot of it jived with my own philosophy, but it crystallized some parts I hadn't yet considered or found solutions for (particularly what kinds of profiles to consider swiping right on). Anyway, appreciated your outlook, stranger. | /r/seduction | 25/11/20 07:56 PM |
| 1 | Here's what I've been doing on Tinder to get a casual fling every couple of months.Sure, assuming you aren't ENM yourself. Just adding to your thought. | /r/seduction | 25/11/20 07:51 PM |
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