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| 1 | Guys don’t forget, the girl also has to attract you.You could always just be honest and say "I noticed you from across the bar and just thought it would be nice to talk to you" followed by "so where are you from," and the other usual things you'd ask someone about themselves. I like it! Thanks .. And thanks for teaching me how to reply! 😅❤️ | /r/seduction | 20/09/20 03:53 AM |
| 1 | Guys don’t forget, the girl also has to attract you.Yea I think u’ve made a few good points. I’m brand new to reddit so I don’t know how to reply to certain sentences u wrote. But I guess my problem rn is I won’t really have a valid reason to approach someone who I don’t know and want to chat with. Other than bc I think they’re attractive...since I’m talking about a bar setting. I totally put effort into relationships. I just would like to be a better initiator. | /r/seduction | 20/09/20 03:26 AM |
| 3 | Guys don’t forget, the girl also has to attract you.Yea I’ll only get better by practicing/actually doing it. I really should be more confident about it. But it’s a skill I haven’t developed bc I’ve been taught to wait for guys to approach me....and that has def dropped since online dating has become so popular/socially accepted | /r/seduction | 20/09/20 02:53 AM |
| 4 | How to bring lube without seeming like a creep?Yea I think it’s gotta be the girl who wants to use it. Work to get her wet. If it dries up during sex, u either apply ur lube then or ask her if she has any. But yea idk if it’s a big deal anyways. Lube only says “I’m here to f***” if u bring it up ahead of time. I’m a female and I wouldn’t care if you had lube in addition to condoms. Would be weird if u only brought lube lol. However, I think u should try to f*** without applying any first. I might think ur a creep for putting some on before u… | /r/seduction | 20/09/20 02:25 AM |
| 34 | Guys don’t forget, the girl also has to attract you.I think this can be said about girls too. They forget common sense or ignore red flags bc a guys “so hot”. I personally want to be better about approaching a guy in real life (if we ever get back to it!). I wanna be braver in bars but I’m afraid of being awkward. I guess I could start off with a compliment (if I’m brave enough), but then what?! What’s the best way to keep the conversation going? | /r/seduction | 20/09/20 02:11 AM |
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