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| 11 | I think I’ve made a realization about the “female gaze” and why it seems like women tend to underestimate the importance of looksClothes, haircut, accessories, etc. | /r/seduction | 30/10/22 04:24 PM |
| 46 | want to get laid in europe as a tourist"Omelette du fromage." | /r/seduction | 01/04/22 05:02 AM |
| 6 | [deleted by user]You don’t. | /r/seduction | 24/09/21 03:47 AM |
| 2 | 16 Month relationshipBe less a Available because you found things that make you less available. Not just to make her chase you. Saying that, maybe give her attention in different ways. Maybe just buy flowers for no reason. Be a little spontaneous. Idk man, every situation is different. Hopefully you’ll find some advice that clicks but there could be a bunch of things going on. Hope it turns out well. | /r/seduction | 03/03/21 12:36 AM |
| 1 | "Never let one bitchy or unresponsive girl get to you or affect your outlook."So while I think the cab example is a little much, I think the gist of it is the title. Which is basically the abundance mentality. | /r/seduction | 03/02/21 06:21 PM |
| 2 | Men - how do you like to be flirted with?I know it’s been said here already but just to push the point, you can be direct. Men have different preferences but most will always enjoy a direct women. It takes almost all the burden off of them. Yes, you will be rejected a few times but that would happen no matter what answer someone gives you here. | /r/seduction | 09/10/20 04:30 AM |
| 1 | How do I (21F) escalate things past friendship?Glancing through your history I noticed you ask very similar but generic questions like, "How to I date?" or "How do I make friends?" Well let me turn around and ask what have you done so far? How often do you go out? Do you give guys your number? Ask them on dates? How do you flirt? It seems like there is an underlining problem that Reddit won't be able to help unless we get a bit more info. | /r/seduction | 18/03/20 10:11 PM |
| 1 | Need Urgent HelpHonestly it’s gonna be hard, your gonna be nervous and there’s not much you can do. When you accept that though, it becomes easier. To build on the other answer a little, complement something she decides to do and not just something she was born with. (I.E. “that’s a nice jacket” over “you have nice eyes”). And be honest, don’t hide your feeling too long or it’ll marinate into something nasty. Even if she’s not into you at least you’ll know quickly. | /r/seduction | 07/02/20 05:21 PM |
| 1 | (23M) How to approach Barista (20s?F) the second time?I don’t enough to give you a good answer on how to proceed. I don’t think you should TRY to see her outside but if you do just approach like any other girl. If you Really think there is something than the most I would do is write your number on the receipt and say something like “I know your in the clock but if you want something to do in your free time send me a text.” And then leave it at that. <—this is important, don’t chase a dead end. Maybe someone had a little more advice but that’s the b… | /r/seduction | 09/12/19 08:32 PM |
| 3 | (23M) How to approach Barista (20s?F) the second time?Golden rule: if she’s on the clock, it’s just her working. Nothing personal. “If she has a boyfriend I’m going to lose my mind.” If she tells you that she had a boyfriend than that’s the end of it. Why worry about it after that? | /r/seduction | 09/12/19 05:22 PM |
| -1 | Shit-Test: "What would you say, if I say that I have a boyfriend?"Uh bye. Lol I feel like there’s not much else to say. | /r/seduction | 18/03/18 05:25 PM |
| 2 | Awkward tension wherever talking to people(mostly dudes)If you feel like the world hates you they will. I'm not really sure what you want from us. An explanation of why these people are doing this? Or something that you can change to make them stop? | /r/seduction | 25/12/17 08:01 PM |
| 3 | How do you actually improve?Dude. Spoilers. | /r/seduction | 05/12/17 11:36 PM |
| 25 | Help: I Can Get a Girl To Bed, But I Personally Struggle w/Penetration - How Do I Improve?A shot in the dark is watch less porn and if that doesn't work maybe you should try getting more comfortable with the girl. Next time you're in bed relax your muscles and really think about whatever turns you on. I know whenever I try to get rid of a boner I tense up my leg muscles so hopefully the opposite will work. if it persist than take cocomales advise. good luck. | /r/seduction | 11/11/17 06:24 PM |
| 1 | How do I [18/F] seduce my boyfriend [22/M]?Um... | /r/seduction | 14/07/17 03:28 AM |
| 23 | New study shows women prefer men who use metaphorical language when paying compliments in a romantic context."You're thicker than a bowl of oatmeal" | /r/seduction | 11/02/17 02:38 AM |
| 2 | Seduction for the gay world?I agree with JesleyH. I have gay friends in america and even in my small town grindr does most of the work. all you would need to do is hit the gym a few times a week. Do that for a few months and sex is almost guaranteed. | /r/seduction | 04/02/17 12:28 AM |
| 3 | HELP WITH GIRL NOW!!Enjoy yourself, free weed. | /r/seduction | 17/01/17 01:45 AM |
| 1 | Is this MILF playing games or for real?See where it goes. Also, I don't think saying she wasted your time is the best way to look at it. Women don't waste your time unless you really let them. | /r/seduction | 10/01/17 08:29 PM |
| 3 | How to get over the fear of being confronted and shamed by the boyfriend of the girl I approach?I doubt a guy would punch you in the face for approaching his girl. If anything he'd be flattered. | /r/seduction | 27/12/16 03:50 PM |
| 20 | How to best absorb all the stuff taught in Models?dude. spoilers. | /r/seduction | 29/11/16 05:46 AM |
| 1 | All the major love theories & What to do to make people fall crazy in love with youAdvertising? | /r/seduction | 09/11/16 11:41 PM |
| 1 | For the more experienced in relationships - is this normal?Also, if you so end up staying try spicing up the sex life, maybe let her know you want to spice it up. If everything is good in bed you wont want to sleep with other woman (well you might but not as much lol). and don't worry about how many woman you've slept with, there isn't a magic number that you pass that always you to enter a relationship, if you're happy you're happy. | /r/seduction | 06/11/16 07:48 PM |
| 3 | For the more experienced in relationships - is this normal?If she hasn't given you a reason not to trust her I don't see a problem with it at all. Does she share your idea of a family yet? when do YOU want a family? and does she agree? I am not old enough to give you my experience but I'm sure eventually you will want to settle down. If she is awesome and you can see yourself with her when your old why not? | /r/seduction | 06/11/16 07:37 PM |
| 4 | girls posting about you (badly) on social media?If it's more than one girl (especially if they don't know each other) it might be worth taking a look at your interactions again. If they said anything that's not true, well than that's nothing to pay attention too (as long as it's not accusations or anything similar). maybe work more on trying to make the girl feel comfortable. | /r/seduction | 11/06/16 04:52 AM |
| 3 | Had a friend advise me to go to this sub for advice. Im socially awkward, and i tried asking a girl to dinner and it was horrifying and i got rejected. I need some help.A pretty good start is reading all the top post. They helped me a lot. | /r/seduction | 19/05/16 02:57 AM |
| 2 | How to be all of these things without being an assholeYou don't want to be an asshole? Understand why you do what your doing. you say your more concerned with being right than being kind. that is fine, but if you only want to be right to be right than thats being an asshole. but if you're more concerned with being right because you actually believe you're right, than it will come off as assertive natrually and not assholey. You say your unabashedly calling people out. Are you doing it just to call them out or is there a logical reason you're doing … | /r/seduction | 21/12/15 08:27 PM |
| 1 | Sedditor Locator 2015Pensacola | /r/seduction | 01/10/15 02:42 AM |
| 2 | She wanted to go out with me over the phone but has now text me saying she cant do it.I usually never try to have a conversation with a girl via text. (Unless its a sure thing and its an interesting conversation.) but even when I do it usually doesn't last very long (ask about the date, make a joke, end). Texting should only be used to plan for the first date. She was right you should save all questions for the first date and let kino and eye contact do its job. I would hold off on texting her and ONLY do it when it concerns the date. thats my two cents hopefully someone can add … | /r/seduction | 24/09/15 03:43 PM |
| 1 | Using seduction techniques in order to make friendsYeah this sub-reddit isn't just about talking to girls its about having fun, gaining confidence, improving social skills, and really just being an attractive person (to everyone). talk to everyone not just females. although I feel there is/should be a sub-reddit more for just helping people out with social anxiety. Read what this sub-reddit has to offer about confidence it should help. peace. | /r/seduction | 06/09/15 04:05 AM |
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