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Debategangbangoldfolkshome/r/PurplePillDebate14/11/24 01:55 PM
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Ask yourself if women are really the problem that they only feel aroused by 5% of the men, or if it is men’s fault. Because I can go to any of the dating app related subs like r/Bumble or r/Hingeapp and filter by profile review threads and the guys who post there are a tragedy. And not only that, but they never take any feedback.
/r/PurplePillDebate30/11/24 02:57 PM
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Survivorship bias. They draw conclusions from a very narrow set of data because they have zero visibility in the rest of the data (how people meet in real life).
/r/PurplePillDebate30/11/24 02:52 PM
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This whole idea that you need to have common interests in order to feel attracted to each other or to feel a connection is the biggest Nice Guy myth I’ve ever heard. Can’t get stupider than this.
/r/PurplePillDebate30/11/24 02:51 PM
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You guys keep parroting this line, and in the same breath complain about unrealistic standards and stuck up women, lol. Make up your minds.
/r/PurplePillDebate30/11/24 02:49 PM
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The cope never ends.
/r/PurplePillDebate30/11/24 10:13 AM
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Is this a serious question or are you autistic?
/r/PurplePillDebate30/11/24 12:22 AM
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I’ve been with women that I’ve lost attraction to over time, but stayed around out of duty and fear (that I won’t be able to get another one). Fear is the real mind killer. I’m attracted to my wife, but new ass is the best ass.
/r/PurplePillDebate29/11/24 02:56 PM
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🙄
/r/PurplePillDebate29/11/24 09:33 AM
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You seriously the first woman who has heard that women fake orgasms all the time? You can’t be this thick.
/r/PurplePillDebate29/11/24 09:04 AM
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I’ve said this many times. We create our interpersonal reality with the way we think and behave with other people. If you consider the other sex the enemy and someone who is out to get you or someone who is unreasonable or someone who has something you feel entitled to, but they are also stubbornly withholding it from you, AND simultaneously see yourself as the righteous one, the nice one, the one entitled to love/sex, then it is only logical that you will behave in ways which will make the abov…
/r/PurplePillDebate29/11/24 01:08 AM
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Poor thing.
/r/PurplePillDebate28/11/24 04:15 PM
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Of course. Women make up only 50% of the population. But somehow pussy is scarce?
/r/PurplePillDebate28/11/24 04:15 PM
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That’s not true. You are making yourself miserable and not allowing yourself to feel good and feel confident. Being so needy for sex and women hasn’t really gotten you any (I assume), so not sure why you are clinging on to this idea so hard.
/r/PurplePillDebate28/11/24 02:33 PM
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That’s not how it works at all. If you’ve never been a non-needy guy, you can’t really speak to the power of non-neediness. But again, you equate sex to happiness. And conversely, lack of sex = misery, loneliness and loserhood. This belief is what creates neediness and desperation.
/r/PurplePillDebate28/11/24 02:27 PM
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Wrong. I’ve linked two videos for you above: https://m.youtube.com/watch?si=UkRyMgu_OzbiO1vv&v=Pjh7l-SbPS8&feature=youtu.be https://youtu.be/7SQsN3IY51g
/r/PurplePillDebate28/11/24 01:57 PM
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Ugh? For all men.
/r/PurplePillDebate28/11/24 01:33 PM
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First think what NOT having standards and criteria for women says about you as a man. That you would take anything just because you are desperate for pussy. Think about how it reflects on your quality in the market.
/r/PurplePillDebate28/11/24 01:33 PM
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Here is what guys always miss. There is a law of the universe which states: People NEVER want what they CAN get and ONLY want what they CAN’T get. This law is as true in hook ups, as it is in marriage, as it is in the workplace or job hunting, business, socially, etc. Here is the problem with the HUSBAND material guy. He is always described as this goody two shoes, has his life together, has a strong 401K, drinks warm milk before bed guy. Yes, sounds “perfect” but in reality he is boring and ava…
/r/PurplePillDebate28/11/24 12:11 PM
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Exactly! It’s all about your relationship with yourself actually, and not so much your relationship with the other sex. Fix the former and the latter takes care of itself. I literally turned myself from a needy, clingy guy who couldn’t get a second date to save his life, to a total sex magnet, by deciding that I could skip the middle man (woman) and approve of myself and find myself attractive instead of waiting around for women to approve of me or confirm my attractiveness before I could believ…
/r/PurplePillDebate28/11/24 12:03 PM
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It’s actually the exact opposite but okay: https://youtu.be/7SQsN3IY51g?si=T9LgT-Oi4n8gqTmO For those who are still confused: https://youtu.be/Pjh7l-SbPS8?si=UkRyMgu_OzbiO1vv
/r/PurplePillDebate28/11/24 11:56 AM
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What the vast majority of men can’t seem to grasp, is that if they adopted that same mentality or “I don’t need a woman to be happy, but I do value a connection with someone who is a net positive on my life”, they would increase their dating success exponentially. Neediness is the biggest behavioral turn off a man can display, yet none of them want to let go of this idea they cling on to that they absolutely need women or else they would be miserable and lonely.
/r/PurplePillDebate28/11/24 11:54 AM
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Hold on, are you the “use a fleshlight in your vagina because your vagina is too loose” guy?
/r/PurplePillDebate28/11/24 11:50 AM
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There is some truth in the observation that women tend to go for men who are “above” them so to speak. But what red pill calls hypergamy is an over exaggerated hypothesis that comes from a legitimate phenomenon, but it is completely misinterpreted. In reality, women cannot be attracted to a man who behaves like he is below them in any way. While RedPill believes that it comes down to tangible criteria, like height, exact amount of income, body fat and muscle mass, celebrity etc, in reality it is…
/r/PurplePillDebate28/11/24 11:10 AM
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Yawn
/r/PurplePillDebate27/11/24 10:31 PM
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I’m only a victim of hemorrhoids.
/r/PurplePillDebate27/11/24 09:29 PM
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When I was single and a woman would say something like “so do you only want me for sex?”, Id pause to think and say: “Well, I am actually a really good cook, I can clean my own small apartment and I own a backscratcher. So I guess, yes, sex is the only thing I need you for!”
/r/PurplePillDebate27/11/24 09:27 PM
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I can write a whole post on this. It’s a concept called “survivorship bias”. It originated from WWII when the Allies were sending bomber planes over Germany. Some were shot down, but many returned alive but with a lot of damage. So engineers plotted the patterns and figured out the damage spread was in this part and that part of the plane and predictably, they decided to reinforce the armor on those sections that got the most damage. But another, smart engineer, looked at the damage patterns and…
/r/PurplePillDebate27/11/24 09:25 PM
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If it’s an opportunity to meet the type of women you want, you go.
/r/PurplePillDebate27/11/24 07:53 PM
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I think a surface level glance over the comments here will show you one thing. Men act already defeated before they have even stepped out of the house. I would never go to war with guys like these. They are waving a white flag before they have even been issued a rifle. Here is another observation. Even if they go to these events or any other social event where they can mingle, they go out for the wrong reasons. They go out to get. They want to get approval, they want to be liked, they want women…
/r/PurplePillDebate27/11/24 06:18 PM
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In other news water is wet.
/r/PurplePillDebate27/11/24 01:41 PM
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Maybe you should try it sometimes.
/r/PurplePillDebate20/11/24 12:38 AM
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I’ve been at this for way longer than you, I can guarantee you that. But sure. You know everything.
/r/PurplePillDebate19/11/24 11:07 PM
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You better do you because no else is doing you, that’s for sure.
/r/PurplePillDebate19/11/24 11:00 PM
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Are you telling me that you have never materialized a hot boyfriend in your own bedroom using only the power of your mind?
/r/PurplePillDebate19/11/24 06:47 PM
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It’s like taking financial advice from broke people.
/r/PurplePillDebate19/11/24 06:44 PM
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Yes, there are some prerequisites to be the in the selector position. You have to know what you want and be confident you can get it. No, it’s not going to work for a meek, shy guy who is afraid of his own shadow. Part of the positioning exercise is to change your beliefs and frame of reference. When you have adopt a more useful frame, women will adapt by responding to you with the opposite frame. If you show up as provider candidate, they adapt by adopting the screener/selector frame. And you l…
/r/PurplePillDebate19/11/24 06:44 PM
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Wrong. Positioning yourself as the seller is why you are struggling.
/r/PurplePillDebate19/11/24 05:31 PM
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Exactly! And that’s actually because they are looking for problems, not solutions. If you ask yourself “why am I not getting laid”, you will come up with a thousand reasons. Nobody ever asks himself “how can I get laid more”. But they should.
/r/PurplePillDebate19/11/24 04:53 PM
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lol sure
/r/PurplePillDebate19/11/24 04:44 PM
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Ugh?
/r/PurplePillDebate19/11/24 04:43 PM
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The problem is you are looking so hard for problems that you start believing you have problems, which ends up making it real for you. At the same time, you completely ignore the things which are actually proven to work. Not only ignoring them but actively resisting them even.
/r/PurplePillDebate19/11/24 04:36 PM
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Makes total sense 🙄
/r/PurplePillDebate19/11/24 04:29 PM
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Okay
/r/PurplePillDebate19/11/24 04:23 PM
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Where did I say this?
/r/PurplePillDebate19/11/24 04:19 PM
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Married women go out for the exact same reasons. They want the attention of attractive men, but won’t do anything about it. Or they live vicariously through their single friends. I’m married and when I go out with my guy friends, I definitely pick places with attractive women as opposed to sausage farms.
/r/PurplePillDebate19/11/24 04:18 PM
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You forget that they also read a 15 year old blog post that’s a definitive established scientific fact about how women’s selection mechanism works. Also, TikTok reels!
/r/PurplePillDebate19/11/24 04:15 PM
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You literally have no idea because you have always assumed the role of “candidate provider” chasing women. So why should women need game to get you?
/r/PurplePillDebate19/11/24 04:14 PM
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Are you just finding out that inexperienced, virgin men are the top experts on how women’s sexuality works?
/r/PurplePillDebate19/11/24 03:57 PM
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Women absolutely want sex as much as men. The problem is not that they don’t want sex. The problem is that what sexually arouses men is very different than what sexually arouses women. It is evident in how the two sexes talk about this and how they project their arousal mechanism on the other person. Men always talk about having to have muscles and being super tall, because looks is the only thing that arouses them but how women are rarely interested in a guy who is hyper focused on his gym work…
/r/PurplePillDebate19/11/24 03:52 PM
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Women go out because they want to be approached by their Prince Charming. They will never admit it.
/r/PurplePillDebate19/11/24 03:47 PM
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Not having standards and not screening women is the biggest problem men have. They are satisfied with a pretty face only and then they spend all their time trying to prove what a great guy they are to the woman. Which actually forces women to take on the screening role. and women will always find something to screen men by (the infamous unrealistic standards that all men complain about).
/r/PurplePillDebate19/11/24 03:46 PM
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There is not a single ounce of truth in what you wrote. Actually, not only is what you have observed completely wrong, but that philosophy is what forces women to reject you. Men absolutely do NOT have to chase women. As a matter of fact; the more they chase, the more they tend to get rejected. Now, you and most other guys equate chasing with approaching/initiating. But that’s wrong. Approaching or initiating with a woman is not chasing her. It is simply the very first step in evaluating her and…
/r/PurplePillDebate19/11/24 03:44 PM
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It’s a really mystery that the human race managed to survive for hundreds of thousands of years. It’s all just dumb luck ain’t it? 🙃
/r/PurplePillDebate19/11/24 11:20 AM
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The Sarah Lawrence girls descend on the Lower East Side every weekend. The men there stand no chance.
/r/PurplePillDebate19/11/24 01:17 AM
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I mean they kind of did, just unwillingly. Young people internalize the environment around them and if you are told enough times that you are a villain and that you are automatically guilty of being a rapist or whatever, eventually you are going to believe all of this. Just waiving it off as “oh women aren’t taking about you they are only talking about the 99.99% of men who aren’t you” isn’t going yo cut it. For decades women have been told that they have internalized misogyny but all of a sudde…
/r/PurplePillDebate18/11/24 09:26 PM
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Good for you!
/r/PurplePillDebate18/11/24 07:51 PM
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This is more blue pill retardation. Believing that sex with young beautiful women is wrong and undesirable and something that we should save for old age. There is not man on earth who wants to delay having sex. The only reason you pursue all these achievements is that you have bought into the idea that you need to be a financially stable man with a nice 401K to attract women. This is the type of advice your mom gives you, because she doesn’t care for you to be a sexually successful man. She want…
/r/PurplePillDebate18/11/24 07:08 PM
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It’s a vicious cycle. Their first exposure to the opposite sex is via social media that is full of skanks and vapid influencers shitting on men. So these guys start assuming all women hate all men, and then they go into the real world with that expectation. But then they create a self fulfilling prophecy by treating t women like women are the enemy (which is what they perceived from social media which does make men into the enemy for clicks and giggles), and women do react to them in a negative …
/r/PurplePillDebate18/11/24 07:03 PM
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“Love it when people talk and actually don’t know what they are talking about” i can see that!
/r/PurplePillDebate18/11/24 12:05 PM
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I love it when self proclaimed virgins claim to know everything about women, even better than women themselves.
/r/PurplePillDebate18/11/24 11:53 AM
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It’s because society has installed a very insidious program in your mind since you were a little baby. This program is so ubiquitous that everyone believes it is just a biological reality, a fact written in stone. The program can be summed up as work = sex. In other words, you are told, not always directly, but indirectly and subconsciously, that the ONLY way to have sex with an attractive woman is to somehow contribute to society. If you contribute enough, society will value you and allow you t…
/r/PurplePillDebate18/11/24 11:49 AM
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No, she’s just being arrogant and it’s none of her business who fucks who.
/r/PurplePillDebate15/11/24 04:38 AM
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I don’t know what to expect from someone who posts on TwoX.
/r/PurplePillDebate15/11/24 02:36 AM
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Womp womp
/r/PurplePillDebate15/11/24 02:34 AM
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50/50 only when it suits me, by whatever definition I feel like making up today
/r/PurplePillDebate14/11/24 11:01 PM
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Just tell a woman: if I pay for dinner, then you will have to sleep with me. But if we each pay for our own food; then at the end of the date the decision is up to you.
/r/PurplePillDebate14/11/24 11:00 PM
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I’m smarter and more mature than these dumb bitches. Got it!
/r/PurplePillDebate14/11/24 09:14 PM
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What about 20 something year olds exploring older (70-90s) men? Do you call this elder abuse?
/r/PurplePillDebate14/11/24 08:53 PM
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Do what I say, don’t do what I actually do myself. Oy vey
/r/PurplePillDebate14/11/24 08:31 PM
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It all comes down to the man vs bear. Guilty by association just for being born a male. Oy vey
/r/PurplePillDebate14/11/24 08:29 PM
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A girl turns 18 and creates an OnlyFans page. She gets called “an empowered woman”! An 18 year old starts dating a 30 year old man: “what a monster, kiddie diddler, doesn’t he know women’s brains don’t fully develop until they are 25!!! Call the police on him!!!”
/r/PurplePillDebate14/11/24 08:28 PM
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I don’t even know what these words mean. Can you just speak plain English? But my view on this is the following. You are barking up the wrong tree by blaming women and their “unrealistic” expectations/standards. I bet I’ve been on this earth much longer than you have and know a thing or two about women. What you interpret as a requirement for a mate, ie what you describe as unrealistic, selfish demands are nothing more than socially imposed wants. But these are not psychological needs. Women hav…
/r/PurplePillDebate14/11/24 06:01 PM
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lol @ you if you don’t think that already happens.
/r/PurplePillDebate14/11/24 04:39 PM
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Well, men tend to perform the dangerous household tasks. But you never hear us complain about them. What’s the last time you climbed on a roof to inspect a leak? What’s the last time you moved around a washer and dryer? What’s the last time you fixed an electrical outage.
/r/PurplePillDebate14/11/24 03:51 PM
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Well, the problem is right now they either feel deeply ashamed and inadequate because they feel attacked or they try very hard to refute the accusations. Either way, being ashamed makes them unattractive. Instead, they should take pride in being the “baddie” and embrace the role that society has forced them into. Only when they finally take pride in the vilification and not let it lower their self esteem will they actually become desirable.
/r/PurplePillDebate14/11/24 03:37 PM
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Do you interact with liberals at all?
/r/PurplePillDebate14/11/24 03:14 PM
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Well, many of the men on the sub complain of having no sexual prospects. So banging a bunch of hookers (for free) and good rats would be a dream come true for them.
/r/PurplePillDebate14/11/24 03:14 PM
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Hey, the numbers speak for themselves.
/r/PurplePillDebate14/11/24 03:13 PM
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Yeah, lots of typos, my bad.
/r/PurplePillDebate14/11/24 03:12 PM
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Okay…..👌
/r/PurplePillDebate14/11/24 03:12 PM
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Oh; now you are going to start arguing that not all men are like that?
/r/PurplePillDebate14/11/24 03:11 PM
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You don’t need to change anything other than vehemently agree with being labeled as the bane of society merely for being born male. Embrace it!
/r/PurplePillDebate14/11/24 03:11 PM
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As I said, the bad thing about men is that they were born men. I mean, women attribute all these horrible traits to us regardless of the individual, so I say just learn to embrace them. When you push back that just gives people more ammo to attack you. When you embrace their negative labels and take pride in them, all of a sudden they become enamored with your confidence.
/r/PurplePillDebate14/11/24 03:10 PM
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You don’t need to be a serial killer or a Trump supporter. All you need to be is a man. Thats enough.
/r/PurplePillDebate14/11/24 03:08 PM
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I don’t have to pretend to be an older white male. I can’t hide that even if I die my greys.
/r/PurplePillDebate14/11/24 03:08 PM
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A bad boy? It’s someone who society doesn’t approve of.
/r/PurplePillDebate14/11/24 03:06 PM
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Thank you. Just embrace the evilness that is attributed to you whether it’s true or not. When given lemonade make lemonade.
/r/PurplePillDebate14/11/24 03:06 PM
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Ok. I think you missed the point of my point, but I agree with your views. A lot of truth.
/r/PurplePillDebate14/11/24 03:04 PM
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Well if you are a white male you are already presumed to be privileged and have unlimited power, so all you have to do is agree with the perception and embrace it, as opposed to denying it and painting yourself as insignificant.
/r/PurplePillDebate14/11/24 02:21 PM
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Yes! That’s what wearing it as a badge of honor means. Leaning into the perception as opposed to trying to refute it.
/r/PurplePillDebate14/11/24 02:20 PM
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You are spitting hairs. In my original post I was referring to men whose only crime is being born male (and white).
/r/PurplePillDebate14/11/24 02:18 PM
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No! Actually women, especially ethnic women love me, because I represent the terrible white oppressor they hear about in the news. And for some reason that makes them even more drawn to me.
/r/PurplePillDebate14/11/24 02:18 PM
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It is what it isn’t not. Up is down; left is right.
/r/PurplePillDebate14/11/24 02:16 PM
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See? You used the word privileged as a slur, thus proving my point!
/r/PurplePillDebate14/11/24 02:15 PM
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Well, but they are already assumed guilty of crimes, man vs bear debate for example. So it is implied they have already backed it up just by being born male.
/r/PurplePillDebate14/11/24 02:12 PM
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https://pmc.ncbi.nlm.nih.gov/articles/PMC3788090/#:~:text=Incarceration%20was%20associated%20with%20an,increase%20was%20seen%20with%20incarceration.
/r/PurplePillDebate14/11/24 02:11 PM
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Oh well. But let’s be real - what’s worst than a middle aged white man with a corporate job who voted for Trump?
/r/PurplePillDebate14/11/24 02:10 PM
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I don’t need to. I’m a white older male. I’m already vilified by social media and the liberals. I don’t actually have to do anything other than wear it as a badge of honor instead of being ashamed of it.
/r/PurplePillDebate14/11/24 02:10 PM
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Well, but society has labeled them as evil white male oppressors anyway, so they may as well embrace the stigma and wear it with pride. As I said, instead of fighting against being labeled as bad people, they should actually accept it and embrace it.
/r/PurplePillDebate14/11/24 02:09 PM
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Jesus Christ. Is this the first time you are hearing women creaming themselves over death row inmates and the like. Be real.
/r/PurplePillDebate14/11/24 02:08 PM
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That’s why I proposed that they should embrace the negative labels and wear them as a badge of honor with pride. Kind of like bikers. Back in the day some guy from the American motorcycle association referred to bikers as the 1% of motorcycle riders who are actually causing all the trouble and are the bad apples. So bikers adopted the moniker “1%er” as a badge of honor.
/r/PurplePillDebate14/11/24 02:06 PM
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Oh, but they do like bad guys. Criminals statistically have more sexual partners and progeny than normal guys.
/r/PurplePillDebate14/11/24 02:05 PM
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Okay weird
/r/PurplePillDebate14/11/24 02:04 PM
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No. I guarantee you, they will lean even harder into the man hate, until they become a total fringe group (hopefully). But there is a long way to go and probably another 2-3 major elections they need to lose.
/r/PurplePillDebate14/11/24 01:44 PM
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As I said, it’s useless. There is nothing wrong with being an asshole.
/r/PurplePillDebate14/11/24 12:14 PM
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Jesus you are thick as a 2x4.
/r/PurplePillDebate14/11/24 12:13 PM
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That’s the answer for both men and women, but people get too needy and desperate to just let things play out as they may. Being single is too scary for them, which also eliminates your power in a relationship (no choice, no power; not being able to tolerate being alone virtually removes your choice).
/r/PurplePillDebate14/11/24 05:52 AM
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Oh noes poor you, you have to schedule appointments. How unfair! But when the poor man has to replace a burnt out bulb on a high ceiling or move appliances around, you never hear him complain that you are too lazy or weak to do any of the dangerous household jobs.
/r/PurplePillDebate14/11/24 05:50 AM
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Right. Endless excuses. And when you do get money and looks, it will be something else.
/r/PurplePillDebate14/11/24 03:28 AM
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Who cares about introspection. Nothing good ever comes out of it. You might introspect so much that you figure out that hey, you’ve never tried a man’s penis before, so why not try it now. Introspection is useless. Being selfish is much more useful and important. Men who know what they want and set out to get it are exactly what every woman desires. It’s in their genes to respond to men like these. And it’s also in their genes to be repulsed by men who are in an endless state of excusing themsel…
/r/PurplePillDebate14/11/24 03:25 AM
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It’s never about your relationship with women. It’s always about your relationship with yourself.
/r/PurplePillDebate14/11/24 02:06 AM
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You know what is one common thing among all of them? They actually go for what they want instead of spending all their mental energy rationalizing why they are not good enough to mix their genes with a woman due to whatever shortcoming/s they imagine they have.
/r/PurplePillDebate14/11/24 01:55 AM
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All man needs to do is learn to handle his fears and phobias and defy the society program which tells me he is worthless unless he is able to provide. Your problem isn’t that you aren’t some masculine macho man. Your problem ia that your way to deal with fear is avoiding the things that make you afraid instead of confronting them head on.
/r/PurplePillDebate14/11/24 01:53 AM
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Got it! Only bang white women.
/r/PurplePillDebate13/11/24 01:58 PM
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Some scientific studies? Just say the match.com blog post from 15 years ago dog.
/r/PurplePillDebate13/11/24 01:56 PM
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I guess you only sleep with men you’ve slept with before.
/r/PurplePillDebate13/11/24 01:55 PM
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That’s because you are trying to get on with their program instead of having them get on with yours.
/r/PurplePillDebate13/11/24 01:02 AM
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There are a few hard set requirements. Don’t smell bad! As a matter of fact try to smell your best. Not only “I took a shower today” but make sure you eliminate all odors and just smell good. Dress like you meant to dress like that. If you meant to dress like your mother bought your clothes, then you have real problems to deal with. The rest of it, you should have a “take it or leave it” type of attitude. The more you try to impress and play by a woman’s rules, the more you will lose. Focus on w…
/r/PurplePillDebate13/11/24 01:01 AM
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Because they’ve been told their entire lives that they need a woman to be happy. The day you realize that this belief is 100% certifiably untrue, is the day you will be free.
/r/PurplePillDebate13/11/24 12:46 AM
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I will list some irrefutable facts. You make your own conclusions: There are more women alive in the US than men. Women historically outpace men in voter registration and actually voting In the last election, the majority of white women (the racial majority) voted for Trump. Most women chose to sit this one out. Again, make your own conclusions from the above facts. Happy to provide sources, but these are pretty common knowledge by now.
/r/PurplePillDebate11/11/24 05:21 PM
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You couldn’t even bother to get off your collective fat asses to go vote, but now you are going to deny men sex and relationships until you die? Lololollilliol bahahbahabahhahahahhaha
/r/PurplePillDebate11/11/24 12:44 PM
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I know a few, not GenZ, millennial. But I’ve heard comments like “he’s just a basic white guy”, referring to a guy she is dating who she got mad at because he wasn’t spending a ton of money on her. I’ve heard comments like “ugh, men are so stupid”, “all men lie”, etc. And these are just the Freudian slips. Who knows what goes on underneath the surface. But as another poster said, I think a lot of it is just bitterness and being disappointed in the very thing that you desire so much (in this case…
/r/PurplePillDebate11/11/24 11:38 AM
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That about sums it up.
/r/PurplePillDebate11/11/24 11:35 AM
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Okay bro. If you gonna pull stuff out of your ass this discussion is over.
/r/PurplePillDebate10/11/24 02:34 PM
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As I said, I struggle with what to begin with because so much of your world view is completely wrong. For one, your idea that the women are choosers of attraction and setters of standards is completely 100% wrong. The two sexes have evolved to have different mate choosing criteria, because men and women are very different. You make the assumption that men are intrinsically attracted to women but women are not intrinsically attracted to men, which cannot be true since our species have not only su…
/r/PurplePillDebate10/11/24 02:06 PM
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This is the exact same advice I would give men, but they don’t listen.
/r/PurplePillDebate10/11/24 01:29 PM
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Boy there are so many errors in your thinking that you present as facts, I don’t even know where to begin.
/r/PurplePillDebate10/11/24 01:24 PM
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Oh god; not this again. Jesus
/r/PurplePillDebate10/11/24 03:05 AM
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I thought you were all these tough red pilled guys, yet you let women give you the runaround like a bunch of wimps.
/r/PurplePillDebate10/11/24 03:05 AM
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It’s about time Europe woke up. We should be responsible for our own future. We should be investing more in our military. We should be energy independent. every major European country for the last 10 years even after having a major invasion by a nuclear power in your own content. And yet none of your countries have done jack shit or invested close to 2% of gdp in defense.
/r/PurplePillDebate10/11/24 02:26 AM
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The amount of times I’ve been called an incel simply for disagreeing or criticizing a woman is astounding. I’ve been married for 10 years.
/r/PurplePillDebate10/11/24 02:24 AM
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I said this in another sub. A friend of mine put it very succinctly. For most of recorded history women were either treated as property or pets. Now for the last 30-40 years that have enjoyed relative freedom and power. But with power comes responsibility and this is something women haven’t emotionally matured enough for. They are at a teenager level of emotional development, where everything is met with “don’t tell me what to do old man”, except that for them is “don’t mansplain to me, you dirt…
/r/PurplePillDebate10/11/24 02:20 AM
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So is 4B the female version of: “we men run society and all your services, so if we are not getting sex we will just let society collapse”?
/r/PurplePillDebate10/11/24 01:13 AM
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You are welcome to fuck all the fat ugly women you want. Fat chicks need loving too.
/r/PurplePillDebate09/11/24 02:29 PM
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Sure thing bro
/r/PurplePillDebate09/11/24 02:15 PM
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lol. They had almost 10 years to do this since Hillary lost and learned exactly ZERO.
/r/PurplePillDebate09/11/24 01:46 PM
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There are more women than men alive in the US. That means women couldn’t be bothered to get off their asses to go and vote.
/r/PurplePillDebate09/11/24 01:43 PM
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This is what people don’t get. Both sexes are driven by one single goal in their attraction: is this person the best for making babies. Yes, even if we consciously don’t want babies. That’s why men want young, fertile women, with a nice ass and boobs. Great hair, skin, hip to waist ratio, etc. are all indicators that the woman has great reproductive health and will likely produce a healthy baby. That’s why men don’t care as much about personality, etc. On the other hand women want a guy who is p…
/r/PurplePillDebate09/11/24 01:38 PM
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Still not quite sure what you are trying to say. But no, I’m not saying women didn’t vote because they were too busy having sex. I’m just saying there was so much on the line, women outnumber men in voter registration and voter turnout (historical stats: https://cawp.rutgers.edu/facts/voters/gender-differences-voter-turnout#NPGX) and also outnumber men in the general population (https://www.census.gov/quickfacts/), yet they chose not to massively exercise their right to vote. Or if they did vote…
/r/PurplePillDebate08/11/24 03:41 PM
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I stand somewhat corrected, because as exit polls new data keeps being published, stats are changing. But the reality is more women chose to sit this one out instead of voting to protect their rights: https://www.theguardian.com/us-news/2024/nov/06/election-trump-harris-women-voters At the same time, according to these stats from Rutgers University, at least up until 2022, women outnumber men in every single category: registered voters AND actual voters: https://cawp.rutgers.edu/facts/voters/gen…
/r/PurplePillDebate08/11/24 03:28 PM
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Are you sure about that? Women overwhelmingly either stayed home or actually voted FOR Trump.
/r/PurplePillDebate08/11/24 02:57 PM
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Can you check your grammar please, not sure I’m making sense of what you are asking.
/r/PurplePillDebate08/11/24 02:56 PM
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You are describing the majority of “communist” Western Europe.
/r/PurplePillDebate08/11/24 02:34 PM
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Nah, we just find it quite silly that women think abstaining from sex is more effective or easier than getting off your ass and casting a ballot once every 4 years.
/r/PurplePillDebate08/11/24 02:31 PM
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I was gonna say, those guys are not getting laid anyway, so why should they care that women who don’t want to sleep with them before are now saying they won’t sleep with them. Lol
/r/PurplePillDebate08/11/24 02:30 PM
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They will learn absolutely nothing just like they learned absolutely nothing in 2016 and ever since then. Or maybe they will lean even harder into restorative justice and DEI.
/r/PurplePillDebate08/11/24 12:41 PM
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You sound like the regular incels who want to watch society burn because they can’t get a girlfriend. I guess you are seeing the world from their eyes now.
/r/PurplePillDebate08/11/24 11:48 AM
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It’s pretty simple. Republicans won this time because their ideological war was based on the wishes of the majority (white men and women) as opposed to Democrats, who seem to only honor the wishes and needs of narrow minorities, like undocumented transsexual black Muslim lesbians. Okay, I say the last one in jest, but honestly, it’s not too far from the truth. Liberal policies in their desire to be inclusive and equitable, actually end up saying some people are more equal than others. And if you…
/r/PurplePillDebate08/11/24 11:47 AM
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So women find it easier to withhold sex forever than actually get off their asses and vote?
/r/PurplePillDebate08/11/24 01:35 AM
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Who cares what happened 4 years ago. Be concerned with the next 4 years about to start.
/r/PurplePillDebate07/11/24 09:52 PM
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Again, this is what these young men have been hearing from your side of the table for the past 10 even 15 years. And now you are Pickachu face that they overreacted in the other direction?
/r/PurplePillDebate07/11/24 09:46 PM
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You are putting the cart before the horse. It’s not only about being selective: the act of becoming selective and focusing on what you want as opposed to constantly worrying about what you think she wants, this is what makes you a much more attractive man. Women want a man who is strong and strong men know what they want and where they are going. Simple as that.
/r/PurplePillDebate07/11/24 09:44 PM
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For sure! I guess we were discussion GenZ in particular in regards to this issue and that’s certainly one of the things they are about. I’m much older than them and not susceptible to this brainwashing, but I’ve certainly been noticing this trend even when I was in my 20s.
/r/PurplePillDebate07/11/24 09:43 PM
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Sure thing.
/r/PurplePillDebate07/11/24 07:15 PM
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I rest my case, your Honor.
/r/PurplePillDebate07/11/24 07:10 PM
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I mean if women choose not to vote, then you are willingly giving men all the power. Look up the stats. Women overwhelmingly stayed home, less women voted for Harris than Biden or Clinton and white women, the majority overwhelmingly voted for Trump.
/r/PurplePillDebate07/11/24 06:58 PM
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And the men who observed what they observed went out to vote. They didn’t stay silent either.
/r/PurplePillDebate07/11/24 06:14 PM
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I didn’t pick it honey. Just making sense of what happened but as usual nobody will learn a lesson.
/r/PurplePillDebate07/11/24 06:10 PM
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Well, these kids live online perpetually. And honestly, I can’t blame them. I’m in my 40s and will scroll on Insta and look at comments under videos. If some female fitness influencer who is usually talking out of her ass is even remotely criticized, people gang up in the “offender” in the most hostile manner seen. I mean this becomes people’s reality. And then they react in the same hostile manner to women irl.
/r/PurplePillDebate07/11/24 06:03 PM
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There are more women alive than men in the US. That is a fact. https://www.census.gov/quickfacts/fact/table/US/LFE046222
/r/PurplePillDebate07/11/24 05:58 PM
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Look. I was watching this TikTok trend of young girls seeing the “grab them by the pussy” tape for the first time, because they were just kids when it first came out. So they didn’t even know who Trump really was. And it was awesome to see him I knew in my heart of hearts that none of them would actually go out and vote. Making TikTok’s is easy. Registering to vote and actually voting is boring as fuck.
/r/PurplePillDebate07/11/24 05:56 PM
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You have completely missed the plot. GenZ males are not upset that women are getting more educated and outearning them. They are pissed off because they grew in an environment that screams at them that they are inherently evil rapist incels…unless they toe the wokism line. Feminists scream about equality, but the message these men are hearing is “everyone is more equal than you are”. And if you are a woman, you are infallible and if you dare criticize me, you will suffer a fate worse than death.…
/r/PurplePillDebate07/11/24 05:51 PM
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Throwing the baby out with the bathwater.
/r/PurplePillDebate07/11/24 05:48 PM
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Enjoy what?
/r/PurplePillDebate07/11/24 05:37 PM
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I’m just making observations. If you really believe that the vilification of men that has been proliferating online and irl over the last 10-15 years is a nothing burger, it just shows me you are even more delulu than Kamala herself.
/r/PurplePillDebate07/11/24 05:36 PM
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Well, for one, enough with the “men are racists and sexist trying to take our rights away”. That’s not accountability. That’s blaming others.l based on their gender and vilifying them simply for being born men. Which is actually what got you in this mess to begin with.
/r/PurplePillDebate07/11/24 05:34 PM
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This is such a narrow view of the problems that are plaguing our society. Not a single word about the constant vilification of men as rapists, incels and oppressors just for existing. Although it is a given that you will deny any of the above actually happening call you need to do is scroll through any comment section where a male dare express his opinion that doesn’t toe the official woke line. I get it that women are finding their way and learning how to be free and responsible for themselves,…
/r/PurplePillDebate07/11/24 05:31 PM
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Don’t you know that the transsexual black lesbian vote is the only vote that matters in winning elections?
/r/PurplePillDebate07/11/24 05:26 PM
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Zero accountability for the fact that women couldn’t give two fucks about abortion rights in this election and overwhelmingly voted for Trump or simply sat this one out.
/r/PurplePillDebate07/11/24 05:25 PM
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Go to the GenZ sub and read the election thread there. You might be enlightened.
/r/PurplePillDebate07/11/24 05:24 PM
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I called this long time ago. The left swung toward batshit crazy wokism so hard in the last 15 years, that an over correction was bound to happen. In these cases the pendulum never comes back to neutral, it just swings in the opposite extreme direction. At one point only caring about the opinions of people who are trans, black lesbians in the US illegally and are also unhoused, and calling any penis owner an incel and oppressor just for existing or having a slightly different opinion that yours …
/r/PurplePillDebate07/11/24 05:22 PM
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In a way, there is a lot of truth in what you say about women being the selector. And in 99/100 cases they are the selector indeed. But…this is not something that is an intrinsic truth. The reason they are the selector is because men have bought into this belief system that they have to prove themselves to women. When men show up as the guy who wants to audition for the role of a leading man in her life, the woman automatically assumes the role of the selector/screener. Men are actually causing …
/r/PurplePillDebate07/11/24 04:38 PM
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You are playing by the rules of a game that is stacked against you. You will never win if you follow the society approved way of attracting women which is predicated on the idea that work = sex. Meaning, that men believe the ONLY way to get sex with the type of women they desire is to work hard and win the approval of society by fulfilling certain conditions, such as career, wealth, education, accomplishments, athleticism, etc. Of course, women buy into this as well, hence why so many of them ha…
/r/PurplePillDebate07/11/24 03:37 PM
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Sounds like you are putting on a pedestal.
/r/PurplePillDebate06/11/24 09:30 PM
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None of this matters. You have to consider yourself the Prize, the Catch, the Hot Commodity. If you can’t believe that about yourself, neither will women. That’s the only thing I know. Don’t chase older women, because they seem more picky. They are not. They carry a lot more baggage than a younger woman and are quick to blame the man for everything.
/r/PurplePillDebate06/11/24 09:18 PM
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How far up your ass did you have to reach to pull this ^ out?
/r/PurplePillDebate06/11/24 09:14 PM
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It’s actually not about women tbh. If men want to be more successful in dating, they need to improve their relationship with themselves. Women’s standards are quite frankly, completely irrelevant. If you analyze the language that men use when complaining about female standards, it becomes pretty clear that these men don’t have any confidence in their ability to get what they want. They don’t think highly of themselves and consider themselves inferior. Usually this is because they use socially ap…
/r/PurplePillDebate06/11/24 04:47 PM
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So a woman goes out and winks at a guy at the bar and next thing she knows she’s getting nailed in the ass. It’s so easy for her to hook up and cheat. But for the guy she hooked up with, it was so extremely difficult? Make it make sense.
/r/PurplePillDebate05/11/24 03:17 PM
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He was based on a real life WWII spy code named Tricycle - for his propensity for threesomes.
/r/PurplePillDebate05/11/24 11:22 AM
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Not even close. Every woman loves James Bond although he perpetually smells like pussy. As a matter of fact that’s why they probably love him. Stop trying to pretend you are a virtuous prude and just embrace your true feelings.
/r/PurplePillDebate05/11/24 01:23 AM
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Womp womp
/r/PurplePillDebate05/11/24 12:44 AM
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I was browsing a book shop with my wife the other day. I noticed a guy who walked up to a girl and tried chatting her up. He was dressed in old, out of date jeans, dirty, grandpa sneakers, had greasy long blond hair and were some nondescript jacket. I was like, bro, you seriously gonna go out and try to approach women in public looking like that? How fucking clueless are you. If you want instant sexy look, here is what you do. Get a charcoal or navy blue suit. Go to a tailor and ask them to tail…
/r/PurplePillDebate04/11/24 07:55 PM
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First of all, the validation of others is not the goal. It’s just a means to get yourself to feel good about yourself. So what’s the best way for a man to be validated? It’s to skip the middle man and validate themselves. Reward themselves with confidence and allow themselves to stand tall and command respect. You don’t need society’s approval to achieve that. As a matter of fact, if you are not a successful member of society, it will do its best to stop you from feeling good about yourself, bec…
/r/PurplePillDebate04/11/24 02:46 AM
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Why? So socially awkward autists have more places to avoid?
/r/PurplePillDebate03/11/24 05:36 PM
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High standards and female pickiness is a total myth. Women want men who are not excusers. Everything else is noise.
/r/PurplePillDebate03/11/24 05:35 PM
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Let’s see: an older woman knows what she wants, she has higher standards, less tolerance for BS and will keep you accountable. So of course, Id pick a younger woman.
/r/PurplePillDebate03/11/24 05:34 PM
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Here is the actual problem, Lilith. Women are very adaptable to the person who they are engaging with, hence why men seem to have such drastically different conclusions about women and their behaviors. Let me explain. The majority of men have been conditioned by society to see women a specific way and to approach them from a specific frame of mind. “Frame of mind” or your “frame” for short, which is a term used by the RedPill, but precedes it by many decades, is a set of beliefs about you and wo…
/r/PurplePillDebate03/11/24 01:32 PM
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They should have one girl and one boy for fun.
/r/PurplePillDebate03/11/24 01:17 PM
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Nooooo, haven’t you been reading PPD. Older men are fucking gross and disgusting. Thats why I have women in their 20s hit on me, a 43 yo old fart. Because im so disgusting to them.
/r/PurplePillDebate03/11/24 01:17 PM
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YES! Good idea! You are hired as my Vice Minister of BBL Quality Control. It’s a tough job, but someone’s gotta do it
/r/PurplePillDebate03/11/24 01:14 PM
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It really depends on how you bring it up. It most women reject you after you bring it up, it means you are saying something wrong. You need to understand that women’s greatest fear, even greater than the fear of rejection, is the fear of being taken advantage of. Think of it like this. You meet a girl you really like. You take her to a fancy dinner, then to a Broadway show and as you drop her off at her house and walk her to her door, you lean in for a kiss. And she stops and says “hey thanks fo…
/r/PurplePillDebate03/11/24 01:06 PM
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Because it works out much better when the woman pursued the man.
/r/PurplePillDebate03/11/24 12:59 PM
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I will mandate that all women get BBLs, I will ban fatness, and promote anal sex.
/r/PurplePillDebate03/11/24 12:57 PM
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You described a black guy. I’ve never met a white man who wears dreads and has gold teeth.
/r/PurplePillDebate02/11/24 03:57 PM
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Opinions are like assholes or something like that
/r/PurplePillDebate02/11/24 01:31 PM
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I will behind by telling you this. I’ve never met anyone who truly believed that they needed love or to be loved in order to be happy and a whole person who successfully found love. Sure, some of them are able to find a partner, but not really the love story they were hoping for. I do truly believe that this idea that love is a requirement for happiness is something that society manufactured and has fed to us over hundreds of years. We are bombarded constantly by sugary pop songs about “all you …
/r/PurplePillDebate02/11/24 11:55 AM
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Actually it’s not only about chatting for a few minutes and building rapport. The most important thing is to actually qualify the woman and find out if she has the qualities/values you are looking for. But for that, the man has to know what he wants and he has to be a bit more selective and discerning. If he is looking for anyone with a pulse and a wet hole to climb on his dick, it says more about him as a person than anything else. And it’s not good things that it says.
/r/PurplePillDebate02/11/24 11:39 AM
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Watch what men do not what they say. No, sorry, I mean watch what women do not what they say. No, what? Hold on, no, I think it is watch what men do not what they say….in so confused now.
/r/PurplePillDebate02/11/24 11:33 AM
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Well, if she has a black thing, I don’t know that I would be the best match for her.
/r/PurplePillDebate02/11/24 11:31 AM
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We live in truly weird times.
/r/PurplePillDebate02/11/24 11:31 AM
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You are observing a very real phenomenon but your hypothesis about it is actually completely wrong. Women are attracted to men with confidence and lack of fear. A woman can never be attracted to a man who is afraid of her and afraid of other men. Safety and protection is the biggest factor that plays into female attraction. So what you are observing is risk taking, confident men getting the women you want. Thats because women evolved to value these types of qualities in a man. A fearless, risk t…
/r/PurplePillDebate02/11/24 11:29 AM
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You are wrong, because all of the problems you later are actually self inflicted by the men. Women love chasing men, but men never give them the opportunity and space for the woman to get interested in them. They are always so pushy, aggressive and needy, that they usually end up causing their own rejection. I don’t care what 999 of society’s members do. I only care about me. As long as I implement this approach, I do fabulously well with women. It actually makes me stand out. But hey, you do yo…
/r/PurplePillDebate01/11/24 01:07 AM
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If you approach a woman as a candidate provider auditioning for the job, she will assume the role of the selector. So you are actually causing the behavior in women that you don’t like. If you approach a woman to qualify her for whatever qualities you are looking for, she will assume the role of the girlfriend candidate who is auditioning for you.
/r/PurplePillDebate31/10/24 09:14 PM
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Again, you are right in 99/100 of cases. Thats exactly how men approach women for the most part. They go to audition for them, try to prove themselves and impress and hope to get picked. That’s why most men are also extremely unsuccessful with women. Because they do the pursuing instead of letting the woman pursue them.
/r/PurplePillDebate31/10/24 09:00 PM
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You are defining pursuing as taking any steps to engage with another person. Do you really think women just sit there and men do all the work? I’m sure that’s how you imagine it in your bitter little worldview. Pursuing/chasing is when one person is more emotionally invested in gaining the approval of the other person. You can approach and ask a woman out on a date and it’s still her chasing, because she has to prove to you that she’s worthy of your interest. But I see why you believe men are th…
/r/PurplePillDebate31/10/24 08:13 PM
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I’m sorry you can’t exercise critical thinking. Maybe one day you will see the folly of tying your self worth to external achievements or making it conditional in any way.
/r/PurplePillDebate31/10/24 08:10 PM
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But is a person who doesn’t have the approval of society less worthwhile? If a man decides that he wants to do something for his own reasons and it gives him joy and he is confident in his goal, despite it going against the grain of what society values, is he someone that should not be respected? Didn’t Tesla, Einstein, Edison and many others go against the grain and against social expectations? Were they not worthy of respect?
/r/PurplePillDebate31/10/24 08:05 PM
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Why should a person consider himself worthwhile only when serving others? Hitler achieved a lot of things and affected many millions/billions of people. Is he worthy of our admiration?
/r/PurplePillDebate31/10/24 08:04 PM
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I don’t think that’s pursuing. That’s initiating or moving things forward. Let’s say you are an employer and are hiring job candidates. Is the job candidate the pursued because you called them up for an interview and then invited them for another interview and eventually made them an offer?
/r/PurplePillDebate31/10/24 08:02 PM
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Why is academic or career achievement more worthy of admiration than sexcapades? Or why should a person who doesn’t have any achievements be considered worthless? Says who?
/r/PurplePillDebate31/10/24 07:46 PM
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I asked how you define pursuing.
/r/PurplePillDebate31/10/24 07:41 PM
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Yeah that’s not how it works. It’s a very popular strategy but also has the worst rate of return.
/r/PurplePillDebate31/10/24 07:41 PM
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It took you that long?
/r/PurplePillDebate31/10/24 06:31 PM
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What do you consider/how do you define pursuing? Because it seems to me guys here think pursuing means “I took a shower and combed my hair before going out - I’m clearly the pursuer.”
/r/PurplePillDebate31/10/24 06:27 PM
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Everything that you are surrounded with that makes your life easier is because of overachievers who sacrificed their free time to invent it. There are many societies (tribes) where the work = sex equation is not that strong and they are basically still primitive. So not saying that this belief system is not beneficial to everyone, but men in general should really seek to pursue their own interest first and foremost. But I’ve literally had men say on this sub that they feel like a fraud or will b…
/r/PurplePillDebate31/10/24 04:48 PM
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The problem with the RedPill and most other BluePill advice is that it makes the confidence a man is allowed to have conditional. In popular culture, a man has only one way to get sex with the type of women he finds attractive. That way is to achieve something great or have something that society desires from him, stuff like athleticism, very good looks, being born to rich parents or earning his way by making a lot of money, becoming a famous musician, etc. This is by design! By conditioning you…
/r/PurplePillDebate31/10/24 04:31 PM
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Perhaps. But only if you buy into society’s value/belief system that says you are only worthwhile and deserving of respect if you are a good contributing member to society that helps push society forward.
/r/PurplePillDebate31/10/24 02:21 PM
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And what happens when you don’t have many accomplishments?
/r/PurplePillDebate31/10/24 02:13 PM
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I mean you are welcome to believe whatever malarkey you want to believe my man. Go ahead and make your self esteem and confidence conditional. See how it works out for you, lol.
/r/PurplePillDebate31/10/24 01:48 PM
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You are describing a value system that is manufactured by society and not an inherent biological truth.
/r/PurplePillDebate31/10/24 01:42 PM
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The absolute worst and most dangerous generalization I have ever heard around these parts is “women are born with value and men must EARN their value.”
/r/PurplePillDebate31/10/24 10:26 AM
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You are not quite getting it because you have a one track mind focused on obtaining women and extracting sex from them. That’s actually kind of creepy if you think about it. Serial killers and weirdos think about obtaining women and extracting things from them. Don’t be that. It’s the same energy. Instead, change your perspective. What qualities and values are you looking for in a woman? What are you doing to screen her and understand if she is good enough for you? Being the owner of a vagina sh…
/r/PurplePillDebate30/10/24 05:58 PM
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No, I wouldn’t, but I don’t find many things offensive unless they are racist and discriminatory.
/r/PurplePillDebate30/10/24 05:37 PM
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https://youtu.be/xc_LfiXJVmU?si=RYZia8i2TbfeSOAg
/r/PurplePillDebate30/10/24 05:15 PM
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You are misunderstanding. There is nothing wrong with wanting to sleep with a woman. The problem with you and an untold number of other men is that you make sex the prize. The be all, end all. When approaching a woman you don’t see her as an individual who may have interesting things to say, who is charming, warm, funny and sensual. You see her as a collection of moist holes that you want to stick your peepee in. You have to look at it from the perspective of women. They want to feel special. Th…
/r/PurplePillDebate30/10/24 03:04 PM
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Well, if it happened, I wouldn’t agree on it right away. Why? I don’t know anything about her and she doesn’t know anything about me. It’s clear she just wants to scratch a physical need and doesn’t quite care who she does it with. It wouldn’t make me feel very good about myself. Also, who knows if she’s a bitch, diseased, a thief and so on. The equivalent you should be looking for is if a woman messages you on an app with “Hey, wanna take me out to dinner (and the part she omits saying “which I…
/r/PurplePillDebate30/10/24 02:39 PM
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You are not getting it. You are trying to extract sex from women without giving them anything in return that they want. Getting sex for a woman is relatively easy. Getting good sex is harder. And finding a man who actually takes interest in her as a human being (and not just a collection of moist holes) is even harder. So your offer of sticking your peepee in her especially if she’s not particularly aroused by you, because you’ve demonstrated to only care about sex, is not really appealing. The …
/r/PurplePillDebate30/10/24 02:36 PM
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Well, he wants something of value without providing something of value back to the woman. Yes, he wants sex AND for her to be super interested and enthused about having sex with him, at the same time he couldn’t be bothered to offer anything back. I think there is a term for that? Entitlement? Acting like a spoilt child? Or something like that.
/r/PurplePillDebate30/10/24 10:46 AM
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Well, I think he also has the wrong understanding of women, but he is so set in his beliefs (that are completely wrong), that there is no helping him without him displaying extreme resistance as can be evidenced by all of his responses which are usually: “yes, but…”.
/r/PurplePillDebate30/10/24 10:42 AM
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Casual sex is just a short term relationship. Gosh, when will you women get it through you thick skulls. Omg /s
/r/PurplePillDebate30/10/24 10:39 AM
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No, but you don’t understand. When a man only wants sex, you are also getting sex from the interaction, so it’s a two way street. Don’t you get it? It’s like you saying: when a man pays for my meal although I won’t sleep with him in a million years, he also is getting to enjoy a meal and my company…See! It’s not the same at all….oh wait?
/r/PurplePillDebate30/10/24 10:36 AM
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I was having a coffee the other day and eavesdropped on a conversation two young women were having about dating. One was literally complaining about men who showed up on a date only wanting sex and said something to the effect of: “When I know that all he wants from me is sex, I feel like thats the last thing I want to give him.”
/r/PurplePillDebate30/10/24 10:25 AM
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Value is self awarded: you can choose to give yourself value and confidence and treat yourself well. No one else can do this for you.
/r/PurplePillDebate30/10/24 02:16 AM
0

MEN ARE RATIONAL CREATURES AND DO NOT RELY ON MAKING EMOTIONAL DECISIONS 👏👏👏
/r/PurplePillDebate30/10/24 02:16 AM
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Depends! Does she do anal or at least swallow?
/r/PurplePillDebate30/10/24 02:15 AM
4

Men generally don’t care much about women they don’t find at least a bit attractive unless we are talking family.
/r/PurplePillDebate30/10/24 01:13 AM
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You have zero and I mean ZERO understanding of how women work. It’s not even funny. It’s sad.
/r/PurplePillDebate30/10/24 01:10 AM
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https://youtu.be/8wLQTCbKppw?feature=shared
/r/PurplePillDebate29/10/24 11:35 PM
1

Well; you bitterness is definitely not helping you bud.
/r/PurplePillDebate29/10/24 11:34 PM
1

Well women don’t have the same pressure to be successful but they have more pressure to find someone who can guarantee their security, hence why so many women speak of commitment and exclusivity before sex, providers, no prenups, etc. A boyfriend/husband is a provider of security for them. Except, that nobody can provide security for you but you. Even then, security is just an illusion. Steve Jobs died of a horrible cancer with billions in the bank. Men have a similar need but with approval. The…
/r/PurplePillDebate29/10/24 10:19 PM
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You are wrong. Society pushes men to achieve and produce and consume. You’ve been raised since you were a baby to believe beyond any doubt that the ONLY way to get sex with an attractive woman is if you contribute to the society you live in and contribute in a particular ways. Basically work = sex. And if you are not a man who contributes greatly to society, then you are conditioned to feel worthless and have low self esteem and settle for an average dull woman. That’s why men feel bad then they…
/r/PurplePillDebate29/10/24 09:11 PM
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I’ve committed to women for a couple of hours. My commitment included a screaming orgasm and sometimes multiple ones.
/r/PurplePillDebate29/10/24 08:27 PM
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On average women want to have way more sex than they are currently having. But just like men, there are certain conditions that have to be met for them to become e sufficiently aroused to want to have sex. On average, a man needs two conditions to become aroused: A woman who is attractive “enough”, which is highly dependent on how horny he is, the last time he had sex or how many beers he’s had that night. The woman must appear willing When those two conditions are met, men are able to become ar…
/r/PurplePillDebate29/10/24 07:50 PM
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It’s something most men are conditioned/socialized not to do since an early age.
/r/PurplePillDebate29/10/24 02:34 PM
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Is this a thinly veiled transphobic joke? I think someone is going in the icebox.
/r/PurplePillDebate29/10/24 11:22 AM
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I’m sorry that you are too broke to feed yourself hun. Try selling some feet pics.
/r/PurplePillDebate29/10/24 11:12 AM
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There is a lot of truth in what you are saying. I sincerely believe that women are not able to feel sexual attraction to someone they do not respect and/or perceive as being below them. However, the mistake you and most other men make is that you judge a man’s “status” on external conditions, such as his ability to display status symbols, where he stands in the social hierarchy, his social proof, etc. And yes, those factors absolutely can influence how attractive a man is perceived to be. But th…
/r/PurplePillDebate29/10/24 10:52 AM
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For many men the scariest thing in life is to piss off a woman.
/r/PurplePillDebate29/10/24 10:37 AM
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You seem to be Christian. I’m the Bible it says man basically owns woman. You are considered property. So man inherently deserves being in charge. He was out in charge by God. Don’t take my word for it.
/r/PurplePillDebate29/10/24 01:37 AM
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Because she’s a woman and she has an emotional need to be in the company of a man who is in charge.
/r/PurplePillDebate29/10/24 01:17 AM
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No. Being the provider/sponsor is the least sexy role you can play in a relationship. It’s basically substitution Daddy, the social and economic sponsor of a young girl with Hubby, the social and economic sponsor of a grown ass woman. Women are perfectly capable of providing for themselves. I’m more than happy to provide for her emotional needs such as being in the presence of a man who can make decisions and confidently lead without having to ask her for permission.
/r/PurplePillDebate29/10/24 12:20 AM
5

If you look for an enemy that’s out to get you under every rock; you are bound to find at least some.
/r/PurplePillDebate27/10/24 12:11 PM
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You have this idea of dating and attraction that is completely wrong. The minute you do ANYTHING to try and impress a woman and I do mean ANYTHING, she realizes that “oh? This guy is trying to sell himself to me!” And as any good buyer, she will start acting disinterested, skeptical, will kick the tires and although she could make a decision right now, she would actually delay that decision until she has made sure that you are the best the market has to offer. And perhaps after a date or two, wh…
/r/PurplePillDebate26/10/24 12:25 PM
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As usual men are focused on the least important thing, thinking it will make the difference. That thing is the METHOD of meeting women, which can of course have some effect on your success rate. But by and large the most important think to focus on is not on the method but on being an ATTRACTIVE and INTERESTING person. And by ATTRACTIVE I don’t necessarily (only) mean looks, but your attitude towards life, women, your relationship with yourself. If you approach women wanting something from them …
/r/PurplePillDebate26/10/24 12:15 PM
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