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Not if she willingly entered the situation knowing that she was helping someone break their faithfulness. The driver of the getaway vehicle is still a thief even if they're not breaking and entering.
/r/PurplePillDebate08/05/18 10:09 PM
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If the men lie about it, that's different, but if a woman willingly cheats with a man knowing he's married or in a relationship, she is just as much of a scumbag as he is.
/r/PurplePillDebate08/05/18 04:41 PM
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Oh look, more virgin shaming from the normies, surely this will not add to the incels further disconnection from society xD xD xD
/r/PurplePillDebate08/05/18 02:47 AM
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It's not okay for men to cheat. But the man isn't cheating if the other woman says "no" too. Takes two to cheat.
/r/PurplePillDebate08/05/18 02:44 AM
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Vast majority of them don't kill, but if you keep assuming they will, more will.
/r/PurplePillDebate08/05/18 02:39 AM
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They don't need to, they can just get social forces to shame men into getting what they want.
/r/PurplePillDebate07/05/18 10:40 PM
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It wasn't hard to be at a computer all day, it was impossible because fast internet and/or computers didn't exist.
/r/PurplePillDebate07/05/18 09:14 PM
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Feminism does that but for all women, and yet that's somehow not a big problem.
/r/PurplePillDebate07/05/18 09:13 PM
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I can hardly believe that 10% of men in their 20's are so repulsive as to be unfuckable. It's the other way around. Most men don't start as fuckable, they have to build up to it. Neutral does not make a man fuckable unless he's got good genes, whereas for women, neutral does make them fuckable.
/r/PurplePillDebate07/05/18 05:58 PM
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It depends if you have things to make up for it, or how much cosmetic enhancements (makeup etc) that those girls are using to look pretty. For instance, if you're less attractive but have a good job, a girl prettier than you is more likely to be interested in you than if you didn't have the job... which if you had to work hard or go to school to get that good job, then you actually did have to work hard in order to qualify for the pretty girl.
/r/PurplePillDebate07/05/18 05:56 PM
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They're really vicious places. I prefer r9k on 4chan because the accompanying images at least make things funny and/or show the person isn't necessarily expressing it legitimately.
/r/PurplePillDebate07/05/18 05:55 PM
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I dunno. If some dude challenges my extreme lack of masculinity, I know in the back of my head that I can drive my fist through his face, and it's somewhat socially acceptable (still a crime, but not crazy for men to have fights with each other). Regardless if I can win an actual fight against him, I can cause him physical damage and make him eat his words, so his policing of my masculinity means less. I can't do shit to a woman challenging my masculinity in a way where I come out the good guy a…
/r/PurplePillDebate07/05/18 05:49 PM
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It would mean a lot to me, because it would show someone actually has sexual interest in me.
/r/PurplePillDebate07/05/18 05:46 PM
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The internet brings everyone together.
/r/PurplePillDebate07/05/18 05:45 PM
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I'm pointing out that the criminal in question doesn't care either way, whereas the feminists like to shake their fingers at men in general about rape culture, as if we're all tacitly endorsing the man trying to get into someone else's car. We don't, that man doesn't care what any of us think, he's just intent on trying to commit a crime, and as we know that man doesn't care either way, the best thing to do is to properly defend yourself from encountering that man in a potentially dangerous situ…
/r/PurplePillDebate07/05/18 04:55 PM
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No, I think MWALT. In his case though, you're not going to find women who solely care about him regardless because so much of his status and wealth is what makes up his attractiveness in the first place. So in his case, AWALT
/r/PurplePillDebate07/05/18 09:13 AM
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If you didn't take steps to defend or protect yourself and something happens to you, yes, you are partly responsible for what happened. Criminals don't care about you and no amount of wagging your fingers at non-criminals about rape culture is going to make them stop. And generally as men, no one gives a shit about us if we don't defend ourselves so we learn quickly how to notice danger. Now if something just happens that you couldn't avoid, then it's shitty to blame them.
/r/PurplePillDebate07/05/18 08:40 AM
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You sure convinced me.
/r/PurplePillDebate07/05/18 07:54 AM
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I'd call it revenge, only high status men can pull that off to where a woman wants his commitment. There are way more men in friendzones than women.
/r/PurplePillDebate07/05/18 07:46 AM
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Of course he keeps on attracting the same people over and over, he's a high status guy with money, that's basically "all women."
/r/PurplePillDebate07/05/18 07:45 AM
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Maybe it's just that women in general are shitty, especially if they think they're gonna get money at the end of it
/r/PurplePillDebate07/05/18 06:50 AM
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My hypothesis is that women see a successful guy and feel overwhelming entitlement and then when I won't commit violence and rage ensues. Advice? Take the black pill instead of the red one.
/r/PurplePillDebate07/05/18 06:50 AM
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That's in the near future when a spot opens up and he's gotten enough experience. Or to put it differently, there are fucking nerds and guys with much less looks and charm than him that hold a job like that and still have families.
/r/PurplePillDebate07/05/18 12:13 AM
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He's in the military reserves, has a job in his passion, and is close with his family members.
/r/PurplePillDebate06/05/18 11:28 PM
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Black Pill I guess, Male, Early 30s These girls flirt just enough for boys to think they have a chance but when they make a move they are told that they only see them as friends. This has happened to me once or twice with girls when I was younger. I don't flirt and I don't find flirting fun so it hasn't really happened again in a serious way and I generally ignore it if it does happen. They use these boys for emotional support A lot, especially in middle and high school. I only offer that stuff …
/r/PurplePillDebate06/05/18 08:52 PM
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I have a theory that they think he's fun but they'd have to work too hard to keep him. A less attractive, less charming beta bucks is more likely to stay devoted and attract less attention and therefore competition from other women. He's pretty much one of the rides on the cock carousel, and can't find an LTR to save his life even though he wants one
/r/PurplePillDebate06/05/18 08:30 PM
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Untrue. I know a Chad type guy who has problems staying in long-term relationships because women just like having a good ride with him but don't want to stay with him. Also size queens wouldn't exist if women weren't objectifying singular body parts of men
/r/PurplePillDebate06/05/18 05:18 PM
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Kids who listened to Eminem were violent homophobic misogynists. Or maybe they were just laughing at edgy humour that horrified the people who didn't get it, like their parents, and now Eminem is considered classic.
/r/PurplePillDebate06/05/18 04:34 PM
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Feminists will defend Muslims even though they're a medieval patriarchy that treats women like second class citizen and is the textbook definition of toxic masculinity. That should tell you everything you need to know about how hypocritical feminism and feminists are at their core.
/r/PurplePillDebate06/05/18 02:08 PM
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Beta bucks is a shit deal, yo
/r/PurplePillDebate06/05/18 02:07 PM
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It's just women shaming men who are frustrated that they don't know TRP or whatever else to get women to have sex with them. If the genders were flipped, men would be the bad guys for being such stereotypical pigs or not feeling empathy for whatever depression or mental illness Incel Women are dealing with. Women hate virgins and awkward men, don't want them to have sex, and because they're easy targets, will take any and every opportunity to pile on them with everyone else, just like high schoo…
/r/PurplePillDebate06/05/18 02:04 PM
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Vast majority of Incels aren't praising or celebrating "Saint Elliots Day." Elliot is just an edgy meme the same way Pepe the Frog is. It's fucking crazy that you've lived in the age of the internet for 20+ years now and still can't detect irony... but also will defend Muslims, who actually do have ideological leaders who are promoting a Medieval Patriarchy in the world right now, and there's no irony there.
/r/PurplePillDebate06/05/18 01:05 PM
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Yeah, I dropped down to your level and showed just how weak your reaction and non-argument was.
/r/PurplePillDebate06/05/18 04:41 AM
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isn't the norm to split the bill? I've also seen quite often that men demand to pay because Muh Masculinity. Not as much as you'd think Last time i checked, only 6% of scholarships were of the "female scholarship" type And the other scholarships aren't going to just men? Gender quotas? Goes for men too, in nursing/kindergarten teachers etc. And those men are looked down on by women for not being masculine enough, and the ones working with children are treated like pedophiles If this is percieved…
/r/PurplePillDebate06/05/18 04:39 AM
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Women are the gatekeepers, their "failures" are accepted or rejected by them in the first place.
/r/PurplePillDebate06/05/18 04:34 AM
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Paid for dates. Paid-for schooling because the gender is being pushed forward. Jobs because they have vaginas. Men being nice to them because they want to have sex with them. Sexual and dating options. Social media likes for basic posts about nothing that would be ignored if they were men. Protection because they're women. The benefit of the doubt. The social power to be as shitty as they want and still claim victimhood.
/r/PurplePillDebate06/05/18 02:50 AM
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I'm not a Red Piller. I don't want to involve myself in a dating culture where Red Pill behaviour is rewarded, which unfortunately is what happens.
/r/PurplePillDebate06/05/18 02:47 AM
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The sad thing is, you probably believe the opposite
/r/PurplePillDebate06/05/18 02:47 AM
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Translation = "Women reward men for shit behaviour and don't incentivize good behaviour, don't act shocked when men actually respond to this negatively"
/r/PurplePillDebate06/05/18 02:46 AM
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no one thinks that, and most women dont get free stuff by existing Yes they do, they just don't notice it because it's normal
/r/PurplePillDebate05/05/18 11:59 PM
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Feminism deals in monolithic patriarchal entities and reserves individualism for themselves. See: The widespread condemnation of all incels as violent misogynists, but when you point out the shitty things women do, suddenly it's "not all women who do that."
/r/PurplePillDebate05/05/18 11:45 PM
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It tends to be brought up by feminists, who in turn exclude women from every problem because men are their enemy
/r/PurplePillDebate05/05/18 11:39 PM
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Toxic masculinity implies it's men who are the problem, when it's women who prop up toxic masculinity via their sexual selection rewarding that behaviour in the first place. It's a misnomer and misdirection at best.
/r/PurplePillDebate05/05/18 10:21 PM
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No. If you're hot, you can do whatever you want and it will mostly work out fine. There may be some looks or body arrangements that won't flatter you, but it has nothing to do with how plain or bombastic or alternative you're being and everything to do with how much it can accidentally expose your body's flaws or unflattering shapes/angles
/r/PurplePillDebate05/05/18 10:19 PM
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Most dating advice for men from women is a shit-test, she wants you to do the opposite because it's a way to weed out the weak, boring men and give her the actual asshole, abusive men that she wants.
/r/PurplePillDebate05/05/18 10:17 PM
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Most women. It is generalized and common enough behaviour that you can both expect it to happen and have a reasonably high percentage of being right. And because it's socially acceptable and encouraged for women to do this, no one's going to be blamed for the situation except the man himself. So rather than take the risk of being an emasculating beta bucks, he'll just try what he can get for with an alpha fucks, and if he actually makes alpha fucks, women will happily give to him anyways.
/r/PurplePillDebate05/05/18 10:15 PM
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As populated as this one?
/r/PurplePillDebate05/05/18 10:12 PM
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While perpetuating the idea of disposable interpersonal relationships? If you're a man, you are disposable
/r/PurplePillDebate05/05/18 06:48 PM
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That was the best, it removed all pretension that people were discussing things in a pinkies-up intellectual way and just ended up being blue pills savagely defending a system that worked just fine for them, red pills savagely defending a system that needed to be designed because the other one didn't work for them at all, and black pills just savagely trying to ruin them all. Just like in real life.
/r/PurplePillDebate05/05/18 06:45 PM
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I would just do what happened in that no-mods/no-rules week and let everything run wild.
/r/PurplePillDebate05/05/18 06:38 PM
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Assuming a PhD would bother marrying me when I'm not college educated or a PhD (big assumption): Fine by me.
/r/PurplePillDebate05/05/18 06:25 PM
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Sex robots would sure get invented fast, especially if she doesn't have to abide by the blood oath herself.
/r/PurplePillDebate05/05/18 05:18 PM
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6 more years and you get to be a wizard, which is likely also against your religion. Sins can be forgiven, but blasphemy gets you burned at the stake. Get to fuckin
/r/PurplePillDebate05/05/18 04:55 PM
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Women using men for beta bucks while giving it away for free to the "alpha fucks" ruined the "pay for her" part.
/r/PurplePillDebate05/05/18 04:46 PM
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You don't need a career woman to pay for cheap things.
/r/PurplePillDebate05/05/18 04:45 PM
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Women think most men have the exact same sexual options they do and don't understand that most men actually don't have a lot of orbiters knocking at the door waiting to give them free shit in exchange for it. Men misunderstand that women don't really mean what they say, they're just saying what's socially acceptable because they're programmed to be more socially minded. Taking women literally is a huge mistake.
/r/PurplePillDebate05/05/18 04:40 PM
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Imagine if every entry job you were applying for required 3 years experience, an 8 year degree, a solid plan for your future, and to work overtime for free and maybe they'll hire you. There's a point where you go "hey, is this effort I'm earnestly putting into this going to pay off, or am I just being taken advantage of by someone?" And then most times, it's the latter, and you get pissed because that's a shitty thing to do. That story is probably not uncommon for people seeking jobs, but that s…
/r/PurplePillDebate05/05/18 04:37 PM
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The media is feminist, they'll get fired if they write anything that's sympathetic to men (as if they would anyways, they're already university indoctrinated to believe girls are good and men are evil)
/r/PurplePillDebate05/05/18 04:31 PM
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It'll increase by a lot. Abusive behaviour is exciting and attractive to many women. Hence why a lot of them don't leave nearly as quickly as they do a boring man.
/r/PurplePillDebate05/05/18 04:24 PM
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Not American, so not as much riding on it (though Canada does tend to be behind America by about 5-10 years in political trends, we're currently in our "Obama's first term" but if Hillary had won instead). I get why he was voted in, I wasn't happy that he was voted in (it can and does affect Canada's economy when our closest trading partner starts wanting to start trade wars), but I'm getting so sick of the smug and high-horsed feminists, globalists and multiculturalists that I could absolutely …
/r/PurplePillDebate05/05/18 04:21 PM
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They don't want unattractive nerds to be able to trick them into being attracted to them. Duh.
/r/PurplePillDebate05/05/18 04:10 PM
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Will feminism ever achieve its goal of equality? Feminism's goal isn't equality. They already have it. Feminism's goal is revenge and power against men while claiming victimhood to make themselves seem like the good guys.
/r/PurplePillDebate29/04/18 02:20 PM
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Nope. If someone doesn't respect you, that means they won't give any shits about causing you harm. I don't give respect freely nor do I automatically assume you respect me until I've seen otherwise. That's how you get cucked/cheated-on/beta bucks'ed etc
/r/PurplePillDebate29/04/18 02:18 PM
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Because they're sluts and they can always blame the man and society will prop her up and protect her if something goes wrong?
/r/PurplePillDebate29/04/18 12:13 PM
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When there's a couple and one is very frugal and one is spendrift, I always seem to notice it's the guy who's frugal and the woman is the one who spends. "Beta Bucks"
/r/PurplePillDebate29/04/18 12:09 PM
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Every time I hear a man pontificate about “buyers remorse”, I always ask “Did you have to suck a dick for your job? So why should I have to?”. Many women are willing to. Maybe you should be vilifying the women who do that and reinforce the idea instead of blaming men.
/r/PurplePillDebate29/04/18 12:07 PM
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Do you think we might see more of these incidents in the future? Obviously. Feminism and entitled women aren't going away, so of course some of the losers of their system are going to retaliate.
/r/PurplePillDebate29/04/18 12:03 PM
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No, when I was younger I just fell more for the nice idea that a woman might actually want me for me and then I would do things for her that she'd appreciate it and in return she'd do things for me and I'd appreciate it. Unfortunately I max out at beta bucks which means that if I try really hard then I'm still not really wanted for me, just for whatever a woman pry out of my wallet. Which is where the "feminism means you can go make your own" comes from.
/r/PurplePillDebate25/04/18 02:55 PM
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Because being beta bucks is a personal insult and that's about where I max out at. Feminism means you can go do it yourself, so don't rely on me to do it for you anymore.
/r/PurplePillDebate25/04/18 02:29 PM
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It's probably easier to ask them the last time they didn't
/r/PurplePillDebate25/04/18 02:18 PM
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No, I think women think a woman's status relates to her attractiveness. You can be rich and ugly, but the queen bee of a social group is usually the hottest woman.
/r/PurplePillDebate25/04/18 02:17 PM
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Once up a time, I would've liked a woman to need me for something. Now, I don't want to be used for beta bucks, so the strong independent woman who don't need no man is fine by me, because she's not getting anything from me either way (not that either "type" wants me anyways)
/r/PurplePillDebate25/04/18 02:16 PM
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Autists tend to be more technically skilled and obsessive collectors, meaning they have more aptitude to collect and hoard things like money or obsessively use skills that earn them money. That doesn't quite jive with what women want (money and status). I think it's more that frustrated autists are dangerous in a "suddenly they snap" way. Criminals and thugs are dangerous and you know it (and if you're stupid enough to think they won't turn it on you, then you deserve it), autists on the other h…
/r/PurplePillDebate08/04/18 01:18 PM
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Notice, no. You can't truly tell. Judge, it depends. If she wants an LTR, yes I do judge, because that's a poor way of showing it and I think it makes any man she ends up with look like a sucker and chump. Otherwise, knock yourself out.
/r/PurplePillDebate06/04/18 01:42 PM
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No pill has worked for me :D
/r/PurplePillDebate05/04/18 10:12 AM
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If people get married when they're older, that means they're not feeling emotions as hard as when they were younger and their hormones were going crazy. So that's probably true, but not necessarily in the way they mean it to be.
/r/PurplePillDebate04/04/18 09:56 PM
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Hrmmm, you know the more attractive a woman is, the less I want anything to do with her. Hot = you're doing more work for less in return because they know they're hot and therefore feel entitled to it.
/r/PurplePillDebate04/04/18 06:27 PM
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This thread is not about only sensible people only, it's about everyone
/r/PurplePillDebate03/04/18 10:33 PM
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For a long term relationship with a guy worth being with So you're basically disqualifying people who absolutely do that (and it is a regular thing) just because you don't acccept them as "being worth it."
/r/PurplePillDebate03/04/18 08:03 PM
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Women like that still have zero problem finding men.
/r/PurplePillDebate03/04/18 05:06 PM
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Butch women are fine by me. Funny thing is, when I was in high school, gym-girls used to be considered butch and closet lesbians, and now gym girls are basic THOTs.
/r/PurplePillDebate03/04/18 04:54 AM
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That's all bullshit. Men don't have those same prerequisites for women, because none of that matters if they like them as people. Men don't care about women's careers (the ones that say they do are just telling women what they want to hear, because that's rule #1 if you actually want to get with a woman) because in a lot of cases, those are going to be stunted or go by the wayside once they start having children, and suddenly their financial shit won't be remotely in order at all.
/r/PurplePillDebate03/04/18 04:21 AM
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What you're missing from the equation is that woman as the choosers are the ones who are "picking."
/r/PurplePillDebate03/04/18 04:19 AM
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Yeah, it's just that a high-value man has more leeway to get away with it because he still might be valuable enough to her that she won't break up with him (see: Hill and Bill)
/r/PurplePillDebate02/04/18 11:24 PM
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She still picked him. And generally, the shitty behaviour of women is built around things like divorce-rape or cheating, aka, financially entrapping a guy and then taking money from him or having fun with the guy she actually wants on the side.
/r/PurplePillDebate02/04/18 11:22 PM
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Sure. Just not in the case of things that women incentivize. Guys will risk death to have sex, incentivizing shitty behaviour by choosing them and/or wanting them to choose you does not incentivize them to act like good people.
/r/PurplePillDebate02/04/18 11:09 PM
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Women don't have problems finding men who will commit to them, they have problems finding men that they want to commit to them. Meaning they're ultimately still making the choice.
/r/PurplePillDebate02/04/18 10:19 PM
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You can't incentivize behavior unless women allow you to in the first place, because they're the choosers and gatekeepers.
/r/PurplePillDebate02/04/18 06:09 PM
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And meanwhile, Plain Jane has men interested in her, but they're below her league, so she doesn't give them the time of day, thereby incentivizing those men to act like the men she's actually paying attention to.
/r/PurplePillDebate02/04/18 06:00 PM
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Plain Jane has problems finding men she wants to commit to, she doesn't have problems finding men who want to commit.
/r/PurplePillDebate02/04/18 05:47 PM
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Women are the choosers and the gatekeepers, that means they're the ones incentivizing and okay-ing that behaviour.
/r/PurplePillDebate02/04/18 05:20 PM
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Women incentivize terrible behaviour.
/r/PurplePillDebate02/04/18 03:18 PM
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Women care about and are attracted to status, men don't. So a dude with a college degree making money will have some degree of status, so the same woman who wouldn't give the time of day to the same man when he was younger might be attracted to him when he's older because of it.
/r/PurplePillDebate01/04/18 05:46 PM
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A little of both
/r/PurplePillDebate01/04/18 05:32 PM
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college Because they still haven't completely failed with women yet, becau$e women $tart to like men more a$ they got older after college.
/r/PurplePillDebate01/04/18 05:47 AM
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It's not ideology, it's "who treats me well and rewards me and who treats me like shit." Really only a small minority are true-believers, the rest are there because it offers them money/brotherhood/a better life than what the normies are offering.
/r/PurplePillDebate01/04/18 01:48 AM
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Toxic Masculinity is enforced and rewarded by women, ergo men use toxic masculinity in order to prove themselves the most masculine of men. Eventually if you treat someone like a social reject for long enough, they'll join with people who don't treat them as such, even if they're enemies of normal society, because normal society never treated them well anyways. You reap what you sow.
/r/PurplePillDebate01/04/18 01:39 AM
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settleing for someone like that and having children with them is even worse. Men were only doing exactly that for decades
/r/PurplePillDebate01/04/18 01:19 AM
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Guilty by association.
/r/PurplePillDebate31/03/18 10:33 PM
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Nah, people like you. I have sympathy and empathy for people, but not people like you, because people like you are the least inclusive and most likely to make things harder for someone like me, without necessarily realizing that I'm not invested in propping up or maintaining your success either way, and the way married people especially talk down to other people who don't do the same things they do, I'm absolutely fine with life being made harder for you because you are absolutely fine making li…
/r/PurplePillDebate31/03/18 10:18 PM
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If a rock is in your way on the road do you attack it? Or do you learn how to remove that rock from the road? You find out who put the rock on the road in the first place, and then you make their life harder.
/r/PurplePillDebate31/03/18 10:07 PM
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Yes they are you're supposed to show your worth and trustworthyness to lead. Nope, don't want to lead them anywhere, don't want to help them when they would turn offer none Life will give you obstacles. Never forget that the obstacle is the way. And the people who put up those obstacles are the enemy, and they should be treated as such
/r/PurplePillDebate31/03/18 10:00 PM
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Personally, I'd like to make things as difficult as possible for you people that things work out for, and especially your children. People like you are primarily the people who would never give empathy to people like me, and you should be party to the repercussions for it. Congratulations, you earned it
/r/PurplePillDebate31/03/18 09:57 PM
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People feel anxious for you because you do things they wish they could do but are too afraid to do so they try to stop you so you don't screw up. Yeah, that's trying to make you fail. They don't feel empathy for you, they're trying to make you fail They are actually rooting for you but testing your mettle of course they will be disappointed when you fail. No, they're not.
/r/PurplePillDebate31/03/18 09:55 PM
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The people that hate you give you power. They are secretly also your greatest fans. No they don't, and no they aren't. They restrict it and put up roadblocks to failure, and then shame you if you can't succeed.
/r/PurplePillDebate31/03/18 09:48 PM
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The assumption is that women's concerns are things that make them feel upset, jealous, undervalued, afraid, ashamed, etc. These concerns won't be treated as an actual problem, just overactions not worth immediate attention, if any. That's how men are treated if they feel any of those, even by women. So, you know, reaping and sowing
/r/PurplePillDebate31/03/18 09:46 PM
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Uh no, my "enemies" don't care about me one way or another and aren't my allies at all. In some cases (like feminism), they're actively working against anything that's good for me.
/r/PurplePillDebate31/03/18 09:44 PM
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Because 'enjoy the decline' means everyone fails. That's fine, as long as they don't succeed.
/r/PurplePillDebate31/03/18 09:41 PM
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A smile is deference and friendless. It's actually a way for apes to say "please don't hurt me, stronger animal."
/r/PurplePillDebate31/03/18 09:40 PM
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Why would you show empathy to anyone who would show you none in return if the tables were turned?
/r/PurplePillDebate31/03/18 09:36 PM
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Smiling men are weak, weak is bad. Telling a woman to smile is because women look nicer when they smile.
/r/PurplePillDebate31/03/18 09:33 PM
1

I feel like this is a chicken and egg situation. Because frankly, there is a lot going on with a man who would actively avoid or struggle to find financial stability. Young men are highly unlikely to be financially stable regardless. For men in this day and age, financial stability is their 'coming of age'. So they are shunned by more than just prospective mates if they fail to do so. Yeah, but no one really cares about what anyone else thinks.
/r/PurplePillDebate31/03/18 09:30 PM
2

They just mock that argument and say good luck with gold diggers or good luck with women who don't actually want you. Considering women refuse to get with men who don't have financial shit in order, that actually tells you that they don't actually want you either way, they just want the money This is simply talking about looks. Age literally affects men's looks less as long as they don't go bald. Women on here hate that their looks are tied to youth. It's also because our youth as men isn't priz…
/r/PurplePillDebate31/03/18 08:32 PM
18

"Men age better" has more to do with finances and ownership of a vehicle and house (or realistic ability to own them). It's also in comparison to women. Women are highly prized for their youth, so the farther out they get from it, the less prized they are for. Men aren't prized the same way, so an average dude in his 20s doesn't have as far to "fall" when he turns 40 the same way a woman in her 20s does.
/r/PurplePillDebate31/03/18 08:17 PM
1

Give them the behaviour they incentivize, and nothing but
/r/PurplePillDebate31/03/18 06:56 PM
1

You go, boy.
/r/PurplePillDebate31/03/18 05:34 PM
0

Yep, some guy who doesn't live here apparently knows my own country more than me.
/r/MGTOW30/03/18 11:51 PM
1

Burning a building? Unless you can barricade the exits to prevent anybody from escaping, what the fuck would that even accomplish? Bombing a building would be much more effective. Ask OP, he's the one who originally used the phrase. If not that, then I highly recommend grabbing your guns, heading downtown, and shooting every member of Parliament you can find, just like your forefathers would have wanted you to. Yes, the sane reaction to changing up government paperwork is to shoot everybody up.[…
/r/MGTOW30/03/18 09:49 PM
1

So ultimately, some people don't call you "Mr and Mrs" anymore and this is a horrifying injustice that we must burn buildings down for.
/r/MGTOW30/03/18 08:26 PM
1

Masculinity is high-testosterone behaviour. Risk-taking, muscles, sex, violence. Things that drop testosterone (like being a father) are non-masculine. Which doesn't make it bad necessarily, but there is a lot of chest-beating beta males who think they're manly when they're really not.
/r/PurplePillDebate30/03/18 08:06 PM
-6

Lotta drama-queens in here.
/r/MGTOW30/03/18 07:45 PM
5

Those are one and the same.
/r/PurplePillDebate27/03/18 07:37 PM
4

The "care about your partner's pleasure, tease her a bit, and then let her orgasm when she's had enough" rule. A lot of men don't follow it. No one wants nice guys.
/r/PurplePillDebate27/03/18 04:39 PM
1

Sir Chad has already plundered them loose, the local Beta Buckies grin and bear it as they plow the soybean fields, MGTOWs just shrug their shoulders when disaster strikes and someone needs to protect the women because they're not getting anything out of it either way
/r/PurplePillDebate27/03/18 04:08 PM
1

The White Knight galloping around the outskirts, waiting for the prime moment to enter and signal his virtue to all the ladies of the village
/r/PurplePillDebate27/03/18 04:00 PM
1

She didn't have points. And yet you kept reading something you didn't like.
/r/PurplePillDebate27/03/18 12:46 PM
1

It does, but that's how women size up men, so that's how we roll.
/r/PurplePillDebate27/03/18 11:39 AM
1

You didn't like what you were reading so you... kept reading it?
/r/PurplePillDebate27/03/18 07:59 AM
1

They're. Not. Relevant.
/r/PurplePillDebate26/03/18 08:41 PM
1

What you linked to is not socially acceptable. "Socially" and "Acceptable" are the themes of the entire thread.
/r/PurplePillDebate26/03/18 08:38 PM
1

the ENTIRE horror industry is based on revelling in male on female violence and everyone loves it, HORROR. Horror is meant to disturb you and be full of villains who don't necessarily get a comeuppance. It's an entire genre meant to do socially unacceptable things to instill a feeling of HORROR.
/r/PurplePillDebate26/03/18 08:31 PM
2

many of the crazy 88 were women and that stupid little GIRL CHARACTER SHE KILLS IS A WOMAN A few of the Crazy 88 were women, and it was all fine because she was a woman. If you changed the genders, it would change the complexion of everything because man-on-woman violence is treated much differently than woman-on-man violence, which is culturally acceptable.
/r/PurplePillDebate26/03/18 08:20 PM
3

in kill bill the death list has 5 people on it, 3 are women and 2 are men. And the Crazy 88. She massacred a lot of men in it. Flip the genders of that scene, suddenly it becomes a horror movie and the male version of the Bride (the Groom?) is the villain.
/r/PurplePillDebate26/03/18 08:12 PM
3

Gender swap all the characters in the scene with the Crazy 88. Suddenly it's a man dicing up a ton of sword-swinging women and one or twos dude. People would be horrified and no one would believe any justification the story tells you, because they're women.
/r/PurplePillDebate26/03/18 08:01 PM
3

You mean like the millions of movies where men cut up and murder women? Does that mean it's socially acceptable? Those men are the villains of the show. When a woman does it, she's the hero
/r/PurplePillDebate26/03/18 07:58 PM
1

Someone can still do things for you while treating you like shit and and demanding more and more from you that they think they deserve.
/r/PurplePillDebate26/03/18 07:08 PM
1

You can reciprocate individual actions but still be entitled to demanding more from someone.
/r/PurplePillDebate26/03/18 07:00 PM
4

Gynocentric mainstream media/entertainment combined with a lack of a flow of information. Before the internet, if you were gonna get redpilled, it was either by someone you knew or something that happened to you. Go back a few generations, and it becomes extremely rude to even talk about such things, nevermind get redpilled at all. Now all it takes is a basic, easy google search to find shitty things about women.
/r/PurplePillDebate26/03/18 06:17 PM
1

I mean, I could again relate this to the feminist notion that men have all the economic and political power and therefore are privileged and therefore women are oppressed and so their freedom of choice doesn't count and blablabla... but I suspect it'd probably fly over your head again anyway so I won't bother. That's to a different degree. Rich men have powers like that. Women don't notice it because they don't pay all that much attention to men who aren't rich. The comparison falls flat because…
/r/PurplePillDebate26/03/18 06:04 PM
1

So feels before reals then. The fact that a person can make choices to change the course of his/her life is invalidated if he/she FEELS that he/she has no choice... But this abdication of personal responsibility for one's own shit only applies to men, because women are a privileged class. It's almost like I've heard and rejected this argument from some other faction before... I can't quite put a finger on it. Women are the choosers and the gatekeepers, which actually does make them privileged in…
/r/PurplePillDebate26/03/18 05:45 PM
1

Stop arguing with me then. I have tits. Defer to my gynocentric privilege, you misogynistic shitlord. Nop, fighting the power That doesn't erase the inalienable FACT that it was YOUR choice to buy it. Those consequences are on your head. Yep, but a lot of men either feel they don't have a choice (because babies have to come from somewhere) or they've been tricked into thinking otherwise by a gynocentric society Okay, cool. We've established that analogies are beyond your comprehension. Here's so…
/r/PurplePillDebate26/03/18 04:59 PM
1

I took a poll -- you're in the minority there. You're a woman, people will back you up regardless Then clearly the deal isn't that bad, for the potential benefits. Buying something overpriced still gives you the thing you want, you just paid a lot more for it than it was likely worth and that you wanted to. Women are forced to give up their free time and their lives to get STEM degrees and work 100 hour weeks if they want to be CEOs! Smash the patriarchy! LOL. They'll get the job so the company …
/r/PurplePillDebate26/03/18 04:35 PM
1

The first part that you omitted from the context/didn't read where I reference adults being "poor sad victims of their own choices" (which was sarcastic in case it slipped by you) answers that part. Because it still didn't make sense what you were even responding to. If men actually regarded relationships with women as "being ripped off badly", they'd opt out. But they don't, despite it being a demonstrably valid option, so I can only conclude that the pros outweigh the cons. I think most people…
/r/PurplePillDebate26/03/18 04:21 PM
1

Uh huh. Maybe it's your English-reading that needs work? Obviously you need to look at what you said again: "Nah, that doesn't fly with me from feminists, and it's not going to fly coming from men, either." What doesn't, the thing you said or the thing I said? Who are you compared to feminists? And onwards. You said something that didn't say anything specific. Women choose careers that pay less, on average, than the careers that men choose for reasons that include individual interests, better wo…
/r/PurplePillDebate26/03/18 04:08 PM
1

Your English didn't make sense, so I tried to extrapolate what you were saying based on the words I saw and the Red flair you're using.
/r/PurplePillDebate26/03/18 03:42 PM
1

Feminists don't care either way, women are the choosers and the gatekeepers and feminism tells them that they're never wrong and they're completely in the right with all of their actions no matter how shitty they are. So men have to grin and bear being ripped off badly if they actually want something from women in general. Or get lucky and find a good woman, but those are few and far between.
/r/PurplePillDebate26/03/18 03:16 PM
61

Gay marriage is legal, just marry a bro, get an iron-clad pre-nup, save on tax
/r/MGTOW26/03/18 01:47 PM
9

If it wasn't, it wouldn't be advertised. Advertisers are extremely sensitive to culturally unacceptable advertising because it can hurt their bottom line. We just had the WWE name a battle royal at Wrestlemania after a woman who was probably pimping out her female wrestler students back in the day and letting the advertisers know is what led WWE to changing the name.
/r/PurplePillDebate26/03/18 01:14 PM
2

It would not end well for a woman who decided to start trashing my things, I like my things more than I like people and I understand that society is going to see me as a bad guy regardless of how I stick up for myself because she's a woman and I'm a man, so if I'm gonna get punished for it, might as well deserve it.
/r/PurplePillDebate26/03/18 01:09 PM
1

No we're not
/r/PurplePillDebate26/03/18 01:01 PM
4

Don't screw trashy hoes!!! That's most modern women though, and I think there's probably more men who want to have children than there are women who aren't trashy hoes.
/r/PurplePillDebate26/03/18 01:00 PM
1

Don't have child, don't ever have to support child regardless.
/r/PurplePillDebate26/03/18 12:59 PM
11

It actually used to make a lot of sense back when most women were expected to be stay-at-home-moms and homemakers. It was a way for a man to show a woman that he was serious about providing for her and any children they have together that she will be taking care of. However women make their own money now, so the practice is just a cultural throwback that women are fine taking advantage of. Don't give them your money, they can make their own.
/r/MGTOW26/03/18 11:19 AM
1

The important dimension is "entitled" vs "reciprocal". I don't even believe in this one, because you can be both at the exact same time.
/r/PurplePillDebate26/03/18 10:05 AM
5

Not losing any time or money to a woman when I could be using it on myself instead :)
/r/PurplePillDebate26/03/18 10:03 AM
1

They mostly don't. They're paying more for a woman to be around than the other way around, but you also can't get pussy without a live woman, so they grin and bear it. Even worse if you want children, then she's got you over the proverbial barrel no matter what.
/r/PurplePillDebate26/03/18 09:22 AM
1

Lol. Because he plays video games? What about the fact that he works out, boxes, fixes things around the house, is dedicated to his job, opens cans for me, reaches things on the tall shelves, babysits our nephew on one of his days off, mows the lawn, shoots guns/crossbows, prepares dinner at times, takes care of our dog, loves and protects me, gets shit done, and a million other things that makes him a quality, manly person. Weakness breaks the illusion of manliness. Video games are for nerds an…
/r/PurplePillDebate25/03/18 11:17 AM
0

Sorry, you've already revealed that he's not.
/r/PurplePillDebate25/03/18 10:43 AM
0

Oh I don't enforce it, and i"m not manly at all. But I also recognize what is and isn't manly and there's a lot of "xD" Millennial types who seem to be autistically ignoring it and somehow assuming they're manly, or a lot of women passing off an attractive man as "manly" just because he's attractive.
/r/PurplePillDebate25/03/18 10:36 AM
11

I would probably wouldn't be able to help myself at that point and just start asking her mundane or job interview questions rhythmically to my thrusts until she withdrew consent and then withdrew from my life forever.
/r/PurplePillDebate25/03/18 08:17 AM
0

Manliness is a well-defined thing. High testosterone, poor impulse control, generally dumb as fuck, no nerds allowed. We have this strange idea that we can just change the meaning of it so some fucking nerd playing video games can think of himself as manly or some skinny, froopy haired guy with colouring book tattoos can be called a man.
/r/PurplePillDebate25/03/18 05:29 AM
2

Girls complain when guys lie to them to misrepresent themselves, and then don't like it when a guy is honest and shares his feelings. I'm not sure why they don't deserve it when a guy lies to them and screws them over, because they're incentivizing that behaviour in the first place.
/r/PurplePillDebate24/03/18 05:38 PM
2

I think you're an idiot if you don't do it, and if she strays because you didn't do it, you were asking for it.
/r/PurplePillDebate24/03/18 05:33 PM
1

It's not meaningless to me. In some ways, it would be more meaningful to me than really any human beings, because I know it'll be there regardless, whereas people won't be.
/r/PurplePillDebate24/03/18 03:37 PM
55

Driving giant corporations out of business by neglecting to supply them with new customers is fine by me :]
/r/MGTOW24/03/18 12:07 PM
0

Video games are not manly at all, thinking otherwise is completely delusional
/r/PurplePillDebate24/03/18 11:55 AM
0

Oh yes it is. The only people who used to play them were children or nerds. Source: Living in the '80s and '90s It's also a sedentary activity, which leads to softness and fatness, which is not masculine.
/r/PurplePillDebate24/03/18 11:38 AM
0

Objectively, being unmanly in any way is a weakness. That weakness ruins the illusion of manliness. Most modern men do nerdy shit, feminine shit, or some combination of the two. Therefore, most modern men are weak and therefore, not manly. I've seen more than a few chest-beating retards who work desk jobs, wear horned rim glasses and play video games think that they're masculine in any way.
/r/PurplePillDebate24/03/18 11:32 AM
-1

Sorry friend, it's true
/r/PurplePillDebate24/03/18 11:26 AM
0

My own thoughts and opinions and experiences did ofc There's a lot of modern men who think they are masculine and manly where if you time-traveled them back a few decades, people would assume they're gay or complete wimps.
/r/PurplePillDebate24/03/18 08:11 AM
-1

he successfully chopped a shit ton of wood for our winter supply I do this yearly, and no one would ever mistake me for manly (even myself) He likes it when I watch him play video games (says they are more fun when I'm around) Real men don't play video games (which is why there aren't that many real men this generation)
/r/PurplePillDebate24/03/18 04:54 AM
1

It's what you want to hear. Notice how you're focusing on the 85% rather than the 15% who seem to approach you without it? Most women in OLD will ignore or block the 85% and focus on the 15%. You don't, so that must mean you like the negging and verbal abuse more than someone treating you as a person (just like seemingly most women do).
/r/PurplePillDebate24/03/18 04:41 AM
3

You can't overcome it, most of them are.
/r/PurplePillDebate24/03/18 04:38 AM
1

Nooooot at the levels I do it at. I'm not one of those "watches Raw, the Royal Rumble and Wrestlemania" kind of people, more the "I watch 7-10 promotions on the regular and some form of wrestling 5-7 days a week"
/r/PurplePillDebate23/03/18 05:07 PM
1

She advocates Found the flaw Being my true self doesn't help. I'm a weeaboo, a gamer, a pro wrestling fan, and I don't care about normie-type shit. I would have to fake a lot and hide a lot to buy enough time to where they might keep talking to me if I revealed any of the above.
/r/PurplePillDebate23/03/18 03:58 PM
8

People in my workplace and neighborhood have been really annoying about this matter. You don't get to determine anyone else's opinions
/r/PurplePillDebate23/03/18 10:28 AM
1

So 'blue pill' is your enemy? What truths have been obfuscated? And what is a 'blue pill' worldview? Blue Pill wants you to get it naturally, and if you don't, they'd rather you fail forever so they can make fun of you and extract what they want out of you easier. Blue Pill is definitely the enemy.
/r/PurplePillDebate23/03/18 09:54 AM
1

Narrow female advantages are not being shared, because no one respects a man who acts like a woman, including women themselves, and even including women who are feminists.
/r/PurplePillDebate22/03/18 05:04 AM
1

Women have female advantages too. Feminism is specifically about minimizing female disadvantages, keeping female advantages in check, and handing off male advantages to women. It's anti-male, you're not doing yourself any favours as a man by voluntarily giving your shit away to someone who will treat you worse once they have it.
/r/PurplePillDebate22/03/18 04:09 AM
2

Only rich men have those advantages, most of us are not rich men.
/r/PurplePillDebate22/03/18 03:53 AM
2

Because feminism is for the personal gain of women. If you're a man, you're not a woman, you're not gaining. If you let them take everything, then you have no one to blame but yourself for it.
/r/PurplePillDebate22/03/18 03:19 AM
2

Unless you're seeing a lot of different articles than what I've been seeing, male feminists seem to be doing alright in the romance department, not that that's the point of being a feminist. There's no other reason to support a movement that's anti-male if you're a male other than to get some.
/r/PurplePillDebate22/03/18 02:43 AM
1

I thought they were just random 4chan comics
/r/PurplePillDebate21/03/18 02:57 PM
3

There you go. It's not that women are immensively complicated, or that they are only attracted to a certain type of man. The problem is in your lack of interest in fitting in. Yes, a thing that you have to offer them, good game and put a lot of work into, like I originally said. They acted like this because this generation of young men are pussies. They are afraid of conflict, of getting their hands dirty, of getting their mouths punched. They are afraid of rejection. Nah, I've gotten my hands d…
/r/PurplePillDebate21/03/18 10:00 AM
3

By the time you're 17 years old, you've already gotten a few lays from different girls. You don't even need to be hawttt or have the social skills or Tom Cruise. All it takes is to be normal. Didn't happen for me, because I'm not "normal" enough or care enough about normal-people shit. A woman's company is something no porn video can ever come close to. A woman's voice. The way her eyes shimmer and sparkle when she sees you. The smile playing at the corners of her mouth as you give her an once-o…
/r/PurplePillDebate21/03/18 09:36 AM
3

Nothing you can say can do anything to me and nothing you can say can't be argued
/r/PurplePillDebate21/03/18 08:43 AM
2

Why not?
/r/PurplePillDebate21/03/18 08:36 AM
9

I thought the idea is that even they have a relatively easy time on the SMP compared to men, which men resent because they have to work hard for even that.
/r/PurplePillDebate21/03/18 02:42 AM
3

Polygamy is a bad outcome for the children, so no.
/r/PurplePillDebate21/03/18 02:38 AM
3

Be appealing. Have a personality that makes the woman want to talk to you and interact with you often. Find out whatever interests she has, and see if there's something you have in common with her. Use fashionable clothes that blend well with your body type. Use good shampoo, aftershave and perfume. THAT'S LITERALLY BEING INTERESTING, HAVING THINGS TO OFFER HER AND HAVING GAME Have you ever been balls deep inside a 20 year old girl that takes care of her apperance? No because they don't want me,…
/r/PurplePillDebate21/03/18 01:53 AM
8

A man doesn't need lots of interesting things to offer to have a girlfriend. He does if he wants to keep her Fucking porn can never be half as good as even kissing a woman is. Porn is good enough. There are people who choose porn over their real life spouses.
/r/PurplePillDebate20/03/18 11:47 PM
1

Probably the most obnoxious post I've ever read.
/r/PurplePillDebate20/03/18 10:54 AM
21

It's about ease too. Going out to a bar, looking your best, having good game, having interesting things to offer and hoping the right kind of person you want to meet happens to be there that night takes fucking work. That's not even involving relationships. Porn is in the comforts of your own home, as slobby and slovenly as you want, easy to access, and when you're done with it, close the tab. It's easy and it's "good enough."
/r/PurplePillDebate20/03/18 10:51 AM
1

I think red pill is what works on women. Blue pill is a combination of guys who already naturally utilize red pill ("Just be yourself" works for them because they just naturally do the right things anyways), and men who believe whatever popular culture tells them about women and dating but whose results may vary. Like the Matrix, the Red Pill knows what's going on is learning to exploiting the system, Blue Pill just exists in their world and that may work naturally and it may not not work natura…
/r/PurplePillDebate20/03/18 06:34 AM
3

Men's SMV is partly based on earning capacity, which tends to increase as they get older. But what you say is also not untrue, in that a woman who is getting older will start considering men she wouldn't have given a second look at or the time of day to in college and not much may have changed with that man.
/r/PurplePillDebate20/03/18 06:32 AM
1

I was under the impression that they were part of the TRP worldview. Dating is still easier for them etc
/r/PurplePillDebate20/03/18 06:30 AM
9

America's had them for decades, they're called "ghettos."
/r/MGTOW18/03/18 10:07 PM
7

It occurs to me that if the wrong guys are approaching you, stop going to the wrong places (bars, clubs etc) looking for quality men.
/r/PurplePillDebate18/03/18 10:02 PM
4

I think women have just been taught to reflexively react badly to it. Like someone choosing to do chores somehow sets back the gender decades and they can't be fighting the patriarchy if they're too busy making lunch.
/r/PurplePillDebate18/03/18 09:33 AM
0

A woman's past matters, for health reasons if she wasn't taking care of it and because the best way to predict future behaviour is to look at past behaviour. I'm of the belief that you have no one to blame but yourself for getting tangled up in someone that eventually cheats on you or uses you as beta bucks or whose past you ignored when there were obvious things pointing to what was going to happen to you.
/r/PurplePillDebate17/03/18 09:33 PM
1

Ad hominem means you don't actually have any rebuttal, which must mean I'm right 😎
/r/PurplePillDebate17/03/18 07:33 PM
0

All I know is that women needed to whine and complain to men until they got their way, whereas men just went out and did things to get there way.
/r/PurplePillDebate17/03/18 07:29 PM
0

It's more expensive to be single than be a couple with no kids. Once kids or other dependents enter into it, single is cheaper.
/r/MGTOW17/03/18 07:27 PM
1

Women are being given things by men, they're not earning it themselves. Men just don't have to bother propping up their lifestyles or their hopes and dreams, which apparently we're doing less and less of these days anyways.
/r/PurplePillDebate17/03/18 07:23 PM
1

I feel like women can separate the two better than men can. But that may also be because men focus on women's looks so much and there's so many tricks women employ to boost their looks that women don't develop the same kind of personality attractiveness on-average that men need to.
/r/PurplePillDebate17/03/18 06:35 PM
1

That's nice, but men won't really play along with the anti-male segment of feminism.
/r/PurplePillDebate17/03/18 06:29 PM
1

Maybe she just likes them crazy and incomprehensible.
/r/PurplePillDebate17/03/18 08:01 AM
1

They are fighting a battle. A battle for one of the few incredibly rare renaming men in a massively statist incredibly controlling society. And they're the ones putting the statism and control in place, if you really want to go down the crazytrain rabbit hole.
/r/PurplePillDebate17/03/18 07:49 AM
0

If it wasn't for tumblrina's, western women would be locked into the patriarchy? They're not fighting that battle here anymore and haven't been for a long time, they're very much trying to enforce choice for women and restrict it from men as we exist in our modern world. If feminists want to fight for actual rights, they can move to countries where those are actually restricted, which they don't seem to be doing that in droves.
/r/PurplePillDebate17/03/18 06:59 AM
3

Do tell me when your father sold you to a man and you were forced to grab your ankles and bend over for his cock. Yeah, because that was a regular thing that happened before feminism came around... [/s]
/r/PurplePillDebate17/03/18 06:24 AM
6

A lot of feminism is as anti-male as it is pro-female. It's about taking power and choice away from men, restricting the reactions and judgments of men for basically anything a woman does while completely okay'ing a woman's reactions and judgments if a man does or did the exact same thing, with an attempt to enforce it as morality (if you're not pro-feminist, that makes you a misogynist and therefore evil). It's not about creating equality as much as it is about giving women all the positives of…
/r/PurplePillDebate17/03/18 06:10 AM
1

No, I think modern feminism wasn't invented, it just evolved with technology to the point where you don't need leaders delivering a concise message to make yourself a movement anymore, just social media to make yourself a mass that supports a very basic idea (pro-woman) but isn't totally sure how to implement it and doesn't totally agree with where it needs to be implemented.
/r/PurplePillDebate17/03/18 12:12 AM
7

That I'd be able to trust her to stick around in tough times and that I can show my (pretty significant) vulnerability (that I keep hidden most of the time) without her losing attraction to me. Also assuming I had money or status, that she was actually interested in me as a person and not just that money and status, though not having money and status and seeing how little interest women have in me, I don't think I could believe that one even if a NAWALT woman was right in front of me saying othe…
/r/PurplePillDebate16/03/18 07:47 PM
5

It's more that someone is finger-wagging at them saying "how dare you feel good when we feel bad, you should be doing everything to make sure we feel good (even though we're in a much better off position than you are)." If you can't win either way, and they're a primary reason why you can't win either way, you're gonna help them to lose too.
/r/PurplePillDebate16/03/18 07:45 PM
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it’s just strange that you keep changing the topic back to how “men get attacked too!!” when the topic is “why do some men seem so dislike the sight of women feeling good about themselves.” That's not changing the topic, that is the answer. Women attack men so men can't feel good about anything, so men will attack women back so they can't feel about anything.
/r/PurplePillDebate16/03/18 07:36 PM
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Yeah. Online dating is basically someone looking at your picture for a second or two and maybe scanning your profile for how much money you make and then looking at the other 50 matches they got in the last two minutes. Cold-approaches, while they still may not work at all, at least give you the ability to present yourself in real life. Maybe the way you speak, the way you're dressed, the things you say, her mental state at the time, the place you do it at, might get you in, and at the very leas…
/r/PurplePillDebate16/03/18 07:21 PM
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I am a man, so in most cases, when female positivity comes up, also included is a feminist wagging her finger at a man for being part of the "negativity" of the situation in the first place.
/r/PurplePillDebate16/03/18 07:13 PM
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I think it's two things: 1) Feminism is finger-wagging and no one really reacts well to finger-wagging. 2) A good chunk of feminism feels like it's aimed squarely at changing the behaviour of men while that same behaviour is left untouched in women, or claiming that only women are the victims or worse off to men whose lives are pretty shit compared to a lot of those university-educated women wagging their fingers at you. If you're a guy who's already struggling, feminism feels like it's piling o…
/r/PurplePillDebate16/03/18 06:33 PM
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Unwritten code of the internet, I have to justify myself to everyone :p
/r/PurplePillDebate16/03/18 12:44 AM
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Edit: I’m imagining by “dead-end” though you mean like retail or service industry. More or less. I don't have things that would impress her or her social circle and there's nothing that a career woman has that I otherwise really need, so even though she would have higher standards, she would rank lower for the "which is worse for dating for men" because casual sex women can be pretty much anywhere.
/r/PurplePillDebate16/03/18 12:37 AM
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Oh, I mean I'm not exactly looking or bothering with that, I'm just saying more that I'm not exactly going to look at a career woman and think my prospects with her are going to be any good.
/r/PurplePillDebate16/03/18 12:28 AM
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A dead-end style job, not a high-expectation for higher or escalating earning capacity.
/r/PurplePillDebate16/03/18 12:24 AM
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They are assumptions, but based on generalizations. An individual woman who spent her youth on casual sex might be a great LTR partner the same way an individual career oriented woman might accept a relationship with a man below her status or career-stature, but you shouldn't go in expecting either out of most of them.
/r/PurplePillDebate15/03/18 11:56 PM
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The casual sex and meaningless relationships one. Past behaviour predicts future behaviour, and she's kind of "used goods" in a way. I wouldn't be able to trust her with any kind of meaningful relationship. Also is pertains to me, the career woman would have no interest in me because I'm not a career man, so the first woman also presents the most "danger." I think the career woman probably has it harder in dating, because her standards are high and she spent most of her youth doing something non…
/r/PurplePillDebate15/03/18 11:12 PM
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I bet some of it is just because women can be relentless about the things they care about and they don't always seem to match up to the things men care about. People don't work hard at things they don't care about no matter how much you try to shame them into it. Like for me, her friends aren't really my priority so unless I actually like them as people (because I'm not going to have sex with them and if the relationship fails they're not gonna stick around anymore), I'm not putting in more than…
/r/PurplePillDebate15/03/18 10:58 PM
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Contrary to what you seem to believe, Garcia and Reiber (2008) found that a large majority of women who engaged in short-term hook-up behaviors actually were hoping that such encounters would turn into long-term relationships. Sometimes seeming promiscuous is actually a long-term mating tactic. Not a very smart one. That old cliche about the cow and the milk comes to mind.
/r/PurplePillDebate15/03/18 06:31 PM
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Q4All: Why do women often feel "used" by sex? I think it's because either they were fooled into thinking they would like it or that the man would try harder for someone he barely knows, or they think that they're giving the man a "taste" that he will be unable to resist more of so that she can get herself into a relationship (thinking of herself almost like a hard drug), or that the man will make some kind of fair trade in return for her giving her body to him. tl;dr, It's nice-guy-esque, they t…
/r/PurplePillDebate15/03/18 06:25 PM
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"Some maintainance" is underplaying the amount of shit women do, as well as how much it costs. You ever seen how much make up goes for? To be fair, women aren't doing a lot of them for the sake of men.
/r/PurplePillDebate14/03/18 11:48 PM
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