gantcha Archive

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6	[FR] Failed opening, looking for advice on a set of 3 girls with 1 guy at a club	Field Report	gantcha	/r/seduction	01/05/21 07:04 AM

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1	[FR] Failed opening, looking for advice on a set of 3 girls with 1 guy at a club This might’ve been the issue but I was trying to build some rapport around both being from out of town and said my friend and I thought it’d be fun if we bought the next bottle and joined forces. He was totally not down. So, I guess at this point I should’ve just moved on to the girls and ignored that guy. I think it was hard to pivot though - it would have been a really aggressive move to go from talking to that guy, walk all the way around the table to the other side of their group, and start …	/r/seduction	04/05/21 01:01 AM
1	I definitely ruined two women’s night lol whoops. I think a lot of life is confidently owning the stupid shit we say -- don't be afraid to self-critique yourself next time you say dumb stuff.	/r/seduction	01/05/21 07:19 AM
2	Nightly account #14. A few ideas for next time, but none of them are dogma: 1) Play with different venues and nights. You may find some bars are better for meeting less wasted people or even find settings that are more suited to conversation vs loud dancing. 2) Try to use some canned openers to get into the flow. It sounds like you're really focused on trying to get to the laugh and compliance - try using the opener to get there more fast and naturally. If you already have a routine in mind, it might be easier to …	/r/seduction	01/05/21 07:17 AM