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Married Red Pillgantgui/r/TheRedPill28/05/16 04:50 PM
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Red Pill Theorygantgui/r/TheRedPill27/04/16 07:51 PM
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gantgui/r/TheRedPill12/05/16 07:06 PM
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gantgui/r/askTRP21/05/16 04:14 AM
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gantgui/r/TheRedPill14/03/16 12:48 AM
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gantgui/r/askTRP01/03/16 10:31 PM
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gantgui/r/TheRedPill27/04/16 06:59 PM
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gantgui/r/askTRP11/04/16 11:48 AM
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gantgui/r/askTRP19/03/16 01:24 AM
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gantgui/r/askTRP10/03/16 01:34 AM
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gantgui/r/TheRedPill29/06/15 11:31 PM
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As someone who does well with woman i wanted to let you know that your post rings strongly with my experience also and this post would need to be much longer for people to truly grasp it. This post is great and literally the best advice for both woman and life in general. A lot of people wont "truly" understand the core of this post since this is very very deep advice and goes straight to peoples fears, feelings and their "ego".Naturally peoples reaction will be to critique it because your guide…
/r/seduction17/07/17 02:44 AM
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No you said you may go but now im starting to see other people thats an ultimatum. Big difference. Basicly youre saying if you go we break up Its not the worse thing just made you sound more controlling
/r/askTRP01/03/17 07:23 AM
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The fact that shes asking you permission is a good thing, it means she respects you. Now if it is behaviour you dont tolerate from a ltr its fine also. You have to make her feel like your not controlling her yet dont feel like this is ltr behavior. Can i go to tgis party? You: im never going to prevent you from going somewhere or do something , your a grown woman and make your own decisions but i would prefer you dont go since going to that type of party is not something i expect out of a girl i…
/r/askTRP01/03/17 06:30 AM
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No offence but are you aspie or dont have a lot of experience with woman? Shit man you need to read the sidebar youre all over the place. You tell a woman youre in a relationship when you never met.. Long phone convos.. Its obvious you have oneitus for a woman you never met. You then tell her that you will be seeing other women(which im pretty sure youre not since you have no clue what youre doing). Even if it was true you never tell a woman that you let her hamster do the work. You say youre a …
/r/askTRP28/02/17 07:55 PM
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Text mostly for logistics only. You blew this one up. She was probably interested than got turned off by your bad text game mostly from you texting to much. You said it yourself you suck at texting, why the fuck were you trying to be her texting entertaining buddy. Next time ask her out within 10ish texts(hi , how was the rest of ur night, blabla). Dont try to charm her by text so that that after she will go out with you.she knows why your texting her . get to the point .set up a date. Asume she…
/r/askTRP28/02/17 04:06 AM
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Matters to most girls. Girls will be ok with being a plate but after a while she will want commitment. Diference is i will not give commitment to the girls who didnt pass my test(most of them) and will give it if one comes along and passes them all. You cant have girls that are the three they only fit one although gf potential will go through being a plate but i will give comitment when she asks for it when i feel she passed all tests.
/r/askTRP27/02/17 07:57 PM
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I shit test indirectly since i dont try to alter a woman behaviour like woman do to men i just stop talking to them or keep them at plate-fwb level indefinitly if they dont fit into my standards even if im attracted to them. Usually i know very quickly when meeting a girl what potential she has 1. One time fuck 2. Plate fwb .3. Potential gf Usually i rank them upon things such as what kind of pictures she has on facebook and how many . the type of job she has. How she reacts when i do something …
/r/askTRP27/02/17 06:45 PM
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Dont make dates to complicated do something simple that will allow you to talk to her. You dont need a big date to impress her. Ideally something near your house like a bar, park so you can go there after.
/r/askTRP27/02/17 06:38 PM
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Yes if you dont contact a girl for two weeks and then do and ask her to come netflix and chill she will think shes just another notch and youre just trying to fuck her Now she wants to just hangout to see if you would. The way you answered was perfect , by the end up the date she will want to fuck.
/r/askTRP27/02/17 03:44 PM
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The idea that you have to be super good in bed for a girl to be crazy for you is mostly bullshit bluepill crap from experience. Sometimes im lazy in bed and plates have actually told me yet they ALWAYS come back. Once in a while i do give them a good fuck though. When i do fuck them go i just act fuck them in very ''animalistic'' way. I breath heavy , moan, fuck her slowly than quickly and change her positions by moving her around like a rag doll.Focus on yourself. Woman have good sex if she fee…
/r/askTRP27/02/17 03:29 AM
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Not texting to much makes her hamster roll wondering is he interested? Good thing. Not texting at all and ignoring makes her hamster roll too much and think that you dont care about her and she will distance herself when that happens. thats a flaw see very often in the only logistics. Only logistic helps but younger girls will want to text and i have lost a girl once because she thought i didnt give a shit about her because i didnt text for a week and she didnt because she was scared to bother m…
/r/askTRP26/02/17 08:51 PM
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Shes freaking out because woman need to think youre natural she should never know about pua or redpill stuff or she ll think youre beta faking alpha. Right now you should distance yourself from her by doing this you will make her miss you and these emotion will ve stronger than the negative ones shes feeling now The only way to get past this is to own it 100% and make her know she can walk away anytime. If she sees that as a dealbreaker. By doing this shell see that youre real alpha and not beta…
/r/askTRP26/02/17 04:16 PM
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3 things. Youre acting needy - awkward - desperate after sex. You were akward in bed or bad in bed. 3.you made her get buyers remorse. When you want to sleep again its important to make her feel like it was good and not just another notch( does not mean acting like s needy bitch). Making her breakfast in the morning or cuddling a bit after sex works best for this.
/r/askTRP24/02/17 07:48 PM
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Not everything is a shit test. You were pushing to hard constantly making her pull away since she was uncomfortable. I never understood this antislut thing.from experience when girl is comfortable and attracted to you and feels you are not a needy bitch she will do anything she can to help you make sex happen. I feel when girls use antislut is when guy is pushing way to much and acts uncalibrated which gives the girl a feeling something is "off" about him.
/r/askTRP24/02/17 07:40 PM
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Youre not approaching this in a good way already pedestaluzing a girl as your dream girl without knowing her. When you talk to a woman you should always be in the mindset of she cute but is she interesting/cool enough for ME to plate/date her? never try to impress a girl that makes you look low value . A dead giveaway you dont get girls is trying to impress them. she will feel it despite what you think.
/r/askTRP23/02/17 04:39 PM
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thats called being a woman lol. Stop expecting woman to act and think like a man. Never argue with a woman. Make her feel different instead.
/r/askTRP23/02/17 01:03 AM
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Stop doing the stupid light thing wtf man. Shes wondering why you acting so weird. When you get to the apartment less talking more doing. Your looking to deep into it. Get inside and start making out escalating pick her up and throw her on your bed. simple as that. You can makeout fuck her on your couch. When a girls gets in your apartment she knows very well whats going to happen. Transition doesnt matter she just wants you to fuck her.
/r/askTRP23/02/17 12:47 AM
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Don't listen to people telling you its a shit test. Your gut feeling is right its a comfort test. You mention the plate feels she doesnt see you as often as she wants. Your obviously doing a good job being redpill but now shes getting insecure and wondering where she stands with you. If you ignore this comfort test treating it like a shit test, she will start distancing herself to protect her emotions. Basicly she is going to start probing for commitment. Remember n plates will break at some poi…
/r/askTRP23/02/17 12:42 AM
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You have to be very careful with redpill advice most of it is good but unlike what anger mode redpiller say you cant start treating girls like shit and expect her to chase. Common man. You ignore valentine day and expect her to be happy. You showed her you don't give a crap about her. She meets up with you and is rightfully sad that you ignored her on valentines and you laugh in her face.She was silent the whole time because she wanted to see if you care enough about her to talk about the issue …
/r/askTRP23/02/17 12:25 AM
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Common mistake redpill guys make is they do a lot right but give absolute zero comfort making a girl think you give no shit about her other than sex is not good despite what anger mode guys here will tell you. This only aplies if you have been following redpill principles and not being a needy bitch. When a a fwb tells you were not having sex tonight, she wants to see if you see her only as a sex object. It is a veiled comfort test. When this happens you backoff and chill once without having sex…
/r/askTRP22/02/17 06:21 AM
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1.control your emotions dont show your jelousy 2. Read "12 levels of dread "and apply
/r/askTRP11/07/16 03:09 PM
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She texted you first to get your last name to see if your cute on facebook. She even said she just wanted to see what you look like. Girls give their nmbers to lots of guys remember that.
/r/askTRP11/07/16 11:44 AM
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You should keep them and look at them everyday to make it harder to get over her
/r/askTRP11/07/16 11:41 AM
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Ive always found guys who do this super ballsy. I just find that unless youre ultra attractive or on drugs that make you charm everyone its a huge display of lack of status and
/r/askTRP11/07/16 11:38 AM
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Post this on r relationships instead. Betas with the same weak bitch fetishes could give you better advice.
/r/askTRP11/07/16 11:36 AM
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Youre beeing a needy bitch. Simple as that. She should go back to the ex since your obviously telling her hes better than you by becoming so paranoid about him. Read the side bar.
/r/askTRP11/07/16 11:34 AM
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Lol at what everyone is saying. The girl was drunk and simply doesnt remember what you look like. Or shes not sure your the guy shes thinking. If you give her your last name she can look you up on facebook and remember Nd see if your cute and date worthy simple as that Maybe in womanese is no. Or a signal of very low interest.
/r/askTRP11/07/16 11:28 AM
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Jesus christ man. What more can this girl do to make you fucking understand she wants you to fuck her? When a girl invites you to her house trust me man it not to make you fucking pancakes or just drink. It means she wants to fuck.its a womans way of telling you she wants you to move things forward. A girl will not or rarely say lets fuck or lets kiss.she expects you to understand this since she thinks youre alpha and alphas know this.She must find your really hot to keep on wanting to see you. …
/r/askTRP11/07/16 10:59 AM
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Tell her to go see a doctor
/r/askTRP02/07/16 07:50 AM
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Really man? Stop being lazy and read the side bar.
/r/askTRP01/07/16 11:52 PM
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The thing you need to understand with a ldr is that you are automatically signalling the girl that you have no options. She deems you a beta. Trust me is she would see you as an alpha she would make the drive to you city nonproblem even if you never went to hers I suggest turning her into a once in a while plate. Tell her it wont work but whenever she comes to you city or vice versa you guys can hang out
/r/askTRP01/07/16 06:41 AM
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Getting an escort
/r/askTRP30/06/16 09:04 AM
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You got your answer than
/r/askTRP30/06/16 08:50 AM
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Yeah, i hate talking about this story because its such a harsh truth and sounds like im just boasting but ive always been considered a good looking guy .voted best looking guy in the highschool graduation book. girls always had crushes on me in high school i get approached quite often also(trust me does happen, women do it in subtle-er ways). I have that l defined forward chiseled face...if you what i mean. kinda like johnny depp face structure.Thats how i could explain it really. In an avid gym…
/r/TheRedPill30/06/16 08:24 AM
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Well would you date a 1-2 women?
/r/askTRP30/06/16 08:06 AM
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Its okay weve all been there man, it hurts and thats fine. Its part of the process of becoming a redpill man. Now that you got it out, move on. You already know what you have to do.
/r/askTRP30/06/16 08:03 AM
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Yeah its just a harsh truth that people dnt like to admit
/r/askTRP29/06/16 07:46 PM
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Thats what i thougt also , like hes trying to hard
/r/TheRedPill29/06/16 02:56 PM
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Good on you for stepping out you comfort zone. Remember that being funny-vlass clown does not mean girls laughibg are Attracted your just funny You shouldnt aim to make girls laugh when talking to then, this communicates your tryibg to impress them
/r/TheRedPill29/06/16 02:53 PM
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Save money for gyno surgery. No money is better invested than on yourself.
/r/askTRP29/06/16 02:49 PM
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Pua is the biggest bullshit, if a girl doesnt find you attractive no amount of game will change that. Imo game is simply no fucking up when a girl is attracted to you ie frame.
/r/askTRP29/06/16 02:46 PM
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She was trying to use you instead of paying for a hotel A guy with options wouldnt talk 4 months with a girl he hSnt fucked simple as that stop hamstering She knew this and thought she could use you.
/r/askTRP29/06/16 02:27 PM
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You have to give her just enough comfort so she thinks you actually care about her. Where to draw that line comes with experienced and learning when its appropriate to give comfort.
/r/askTRP29/06/16 01:06 PM
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You wouldnt be flipping over this girl if you actually did have "another stupid bitch in the meantime" Its obvious you were just and orbiter, i really dont get why youre saying shes a cheater shes just not interested.
/r/askTRP29/06/16 01:03 PM
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Exactly, you cant convince a girl with words. Use actions, dread etc remve your attention when she doesnt give you what you want simple as that.
/r/askTRP29/06/16 01:01 PM
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Lol keep on telling yourself that
/r/askTRP28/06/16 09:04 AM
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I agree but i always take reddit comments with a grain of salt as i dont think they represent real life. Remember reddit is VERY feminist and mostly filled with nerds/whitenights while being VERY hive minded vs masculinity. Seeing replies really make me wonder what kind of guys are behind these whitenight replies lol. Its like the dumbass responses on askrreddit " what is ur favourite physical trait in men" and the top upvited post is a guy with a belly or a big nose . But we all know the woman …
/r/TheRedPill26/06/16 11:58 AM
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All these girls think your smv is lower than theirs. Sad truth. You also seem to have a hard time reading body language. A girl should never have to tell you" why are you following me ". If shes being cold gtfo shes not interested.
/r/askTRP26/06/16 09:06 AM
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Your her orbiter and hamstering that your not. Have you even fucked her? Have you even went on a date with her?
/r/askTRP26/06/16 06:30 AM
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I agree with you 100% but the girl that messaged him doesnt seem to be a plate of ops or girl that he went on a date with . She just seems like a random girl aquantance who might be butthurt because hes not flirting with her.
/r/askTRP04/06/16 01:02 AM
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I think its a bit of three things. Deep down her number one biological need is to get pregnant by an alpha. If she considers you alpha she doesnt care about getting pregnant subconciously.Its funny we often read betas on reddit complaining their gf doesnt want to get on bc because of x reason so they get annoyed they have to wear condoms. Subconciously the girls knows hes beta sperm. DESIRE , the number one thing that turns woman on most in bed. Fucking her without a condom shows she is so attra…
/r/askTRP03/06/16 06:58 PM
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Its funny how society makes it seem like its always the guy who doesnt want to put a condom and pushes the girl into fucking without one, pure feminism propaganda. From experience NOT ONE girl has ever asked me to put a condom on and i seriously doubt any would of stopped me had i went in without one. The most that i got was when i would go get the condom they would say''oh yeah i was just gonna ask'' of course you were ..lol. And be fucking sure they ALWAYS found ways to mention they were on BC…
/r/askTRP03/06/16 03:44 PM
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Agreed, girls have sex with youre power over them, if your great in bed but act like a beta bye bye. Or op is awkward as fuck in bed and doesnt notice it. A lot of guys make this mistake of asking a girl if she came or not which is probably the biggest turnoff for a women because it tells her tou dont trust yourself to make her cum and forces her to lie. When i hear stuff like op said " you were the best fuck ever " i always take it with a grain of salt cuz i know its probably the op who asked h…
/r/askTRP03/06/16 06:06 AM
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Meh could go either way, but she wouldnt of said ill let you know she would of given the time available that day when she wasnt with her siblings, if she was interested. Im guessing this girl is in ops social circle which is why she asked with who.
/r/askTRP03/06/16 05:58 AM
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start by ignoring her.. if your answering your rewarding her whether you think so or not
/r/askTRP03/06/16 05:13 AM
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Lol at guys saying this is a shit test. not a shit test common man even in an alternate reality where this would actually be a shit test, would you really want to date a girl who is that manipulative?
/r/askTRP03/06/16 05:09 AM
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Lol at guys are befriend women just for preselection.
/r/askTRP03/06/16 01:02 AM
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yes, but its the fact they are complicated dates. Doesnt matter who payed, a man pays with his ATTENTION a woman pays with SEX .She knew how much you were invested in her when you brought her in the jet. Its fucking awsome that you fly jets, but to fly a woman around that you never had sex with?Sets the frame that you are trying to impress her. You see the imbalance here? Always try to have sex before going on trips,complicated dates, these should be rewards to good behaviours. You even mentione…
/r/askTRP02/06/16 11:15 PM
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Be aware that from reading this story you are literally the perfect beta bucks(in any womans eyes), all these extravagant dates(which redpill strongly advocates again)around high status men, seem to have a lot of money, she has keys to your house, and you wonder why it took a while for her to sleep with you. When a girl takes a while to sleep with you its cuz she sees you as a beta bucks and gives out sex as a reward and not out of raw attraction.''when she decided she was up for it'' thats not …
/r/askTRP02/06/16 10:58 PM
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If your girl'' friend ''keeps bringing up shit from your past to your gf, you can tell your gf that the girl used to have a crush on you and now shes jelous that your going out with her which is why she is lying about your past. This way your gf will just think your that girl''friend'' of yours is trying to steal you away from her and it will actually act as preselection Or you can do what the rest says and own your shit and plow threw their shit test.
/r/askTRP02/06/16 10:52 PM
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1.Youre probably try to act too alpha and coming off as a tryhard so their seeing right through and are saying these things to shit test you. 2. These girls have known you in your beta days and are trying to put you back in your place.
/r/askTRP02/06/16 04:57 PM
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Her feelings were gone long before she went on that trip. A girl who is crazy about you doesnt go on a trip abroad away from you. She might go with you but not alone, simple as that. Whenever a gf goes on a trip alone or with friends , you demote to plate or hard next. Girls on trips will have sex with other guys.
/r/askTRP02/06/16 04:19 PM
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Sounds like a plate thats gonna start probing for commitment. Shes withholding sex because she wants to test and see if you care about her other than just for sex.(comfort test). What you should of done that day is not even push for sex at all after she said that,buy her an ice cream cone or something small like that (just enough to show her your not using her just for sex even though you are). Her hamster would of said ''ah he actually does care about me and not only about sex'' and she would o…
/r/askTRP02/06/16 04:09 PM
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Op got her used to being abused. In her mind its " hes abusing me because hiscemotions for me are so strong" now that he stopped, she probably thinks he doesnt like her/ isnt as invested into her anymore Its like for us, lets say your gf is jelous as fuck and needy. Suddenly she stops. Your gonna be thinking somethings up. Thats whats going on
/r/askTRP02/06/16 03:37 PM
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Exactly some girls have sex appeal and just turn you on much mire than a bland 10/10
/r/TheRedPill02/06/16 03:27 PM
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Maybe more details of the text.. But from what you gave I think shes possibly looking for something casual ie fwb, she got out a relationship and doesnt want anything serious. she wouldnt meet up with you if she wasnt interested OR she would of mentioned lets go out just as friends. If she agrees to do something with you i think shed be down to fuck pretty quick
/r/askTRP02/06/16 03:45 AM
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we often say on trp that women dont like when men learn stuff like redpill, pickup because it makes it harder to weed out 'natural alphas" Imo the same thing happens for a physique, a woman will often say i want a naturally fit guy. That means a guy that has muscles from working or going to the gym a bit. Full on steroid guys makes it harder for women to weed out alpha genes which is why they often dont like steroid bodys or really jacked guys. Women want you to look like a "natural alpha"
/r/askTRP01/06/16 11:36 PM
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Yeah sounds like daddy issues or others. Some girls think a guy getting mad and abusive at her means he loves her.
/r/askTRP01/06/16 11:09 PM
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Good post. I really dont know what the obsession on redpill is to do everything they can to fuck 9 and 10s. The moment i fucked my first 9 i just thought to myself wow she aint that special , shes literally just another vagina. The girls i have liked the most have never been hb10. I think its a deep rooted insecurity guys have from not having success with girls earlier and now that its getting better it becomes their life goal to fuck 9 and 10s. Im not saying there are no 9-10s who are super fun…
/r/TheRedPill01/06/16 03:57 PM
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Yes engineering is perfect. Gives you plenty of options , while also giviing you all the general classes in case you change your mind and want to study in something else
/r/askTRP01/06/16 12:50 PM
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You dont choose a career at this age. Get some work and life experience and learn what you like. At 16 you have no idea who you are so dont worry and fuck the pressure your parents or anyone else is giving you to find a career at this age. For now find a general branch to study in college and get life-work experience.
/r/askTRP01/06/16 12:37 PM
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You already failed by giving it attention. Whether shes trying to get a reaction or not who gives a fuck shes an ex.
/r/askTRP01/06/16 12:34 PM
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Jesus christ, some guys need to use common sense and learn to do shit without needing people to lay down everything for them.
/r/askTRP01/06/16 12:04 PM
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Ok we get it
/r/askTRP01/06/16 07:27 AM
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True, op should make sure something is going on before blowing shit up. But if he distances himself he will know the answer since if shes seeing someone she wont give a fuck that he distanced himself. If shes not cheating shell be reaching out to hinm.
/r/askTRP01/06/16 07:04 AM
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3% man is legit redpill stuff written in a socially acceptable way.i any of you are interested. Gives very good examples for begginers also.
/r/askTRP01/06/16 06:24 AM
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Redpill is a general guide but you must experience, learn and make your own version
/r/askTRP01/06/16 06:22 AM
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Heres the thing, woman will agree to be fwb for a while but whether you like it or not they will want more at some point. Its not that youre not good enough.Its simply biological and sexual strategy. Fwb for a woman is the equivalence of the friendzone for a guy. Not a fun place to be in for her. Her friends are prob questioning her and shes starting to feel used. Your plate right now is reaching that "point" which is why she throwed that jelousy play ar you. Keep doung the best you can to give …
/r/askTRP01/06/16 05:41 AM
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Right now shes happy because of your first response''But she asked me to come over to fuck tonight and tonight is not a good night so I told her she'll have to ask him.'' The subcontext of this means that you got jelous(you might not notice it but it does and a woman knows), thats all she needed to comfort her, thats why shes getting all sexual right now, you passed a comfort test without knowing it. Whenever my plates pull jealousy antics on me to see if i actually care .when i show them a bit …
/r/askTRP01/06/16 05:19 AM
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Not really a good response in this situation, youre not looking at this from the right perspective.By responding this expect her to amplify her jelousy antics or even go cold on you because now you made her think you dont give a shit at all. This is a subtle comfort test man. Its up to you but if you keep on deflecting this as if its a shit test shes gonna stop seeing you. Trust me this chick is really into you and wants to know if she has a chance for comitment. Stop believing this anger phase …
/r/askTRP01/06/16 05:07 AM
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Let me guess. Typical woman pattern. Shes been a plate for around 2 months(around the time a girl will start probing for commitment). Youre acting redpill ,aloof, strong framed,which is a good thing but she has no idea where she stands with you. She obviously liked you very much from all the messages etc. What do plates do when that happens? She will try to get you jealous to get a reaction and see if you actually care about her. She went to the beach knowing VERY WELL your friends were going to…
/r/askTRP01/06/16 04:55 AM
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Maybe shes wondering the same thing and checking out why youre logging off so late.
/r/askTRP01/06/16 04:50 AM
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masturbate less or not at all to regain sensation in your shaft and stop watching porn
/r/askTRP31/05/16 11:13 PM
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In terms of SMV Obviously number 1 is celebrities and atletes but more generally 1.alpha bucks=male unicorn= alpha widower(more rare than alpha fucks) 2A. prime women (18-25) 2B. alpha fucks(redpill, pretty much equal value to prime woman) 3.Postwall women 4.Beta bucks 5.the rest(whales , neckbeards etc)
/r/TheRedPill31/05/16 09:26 PM
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You could of tried fixing the relationship by applying redpill principles first without needing to breakup.
/r/askTRP31/05/16 01:53 PM
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in modern society i agree, having the freedom to do whatever you want without needing to work for money especially for a man. We often say it on redpill freedom is the most important thing for men.
/r/TheRedPill31/05/16 01:37 PM
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ACCEPTING that we are worthless can be seen as a goal, yes. For me it got easier to accept when i friend of mine died at 17, it taught me no matter what , you will just die and be forgotten after a while. Even if you die and you did something to be remembered by you will be dead anyways and wont be conscious to give a shit about ''your legacy" its actually quite liberating. So you might as well do whatever you want with your life
/r/TheRedPill31/05/16 05:20 AM
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I understand people who write posts similar to these but at the same time cant help but feel bad for them. redpill theory teaches men to counter this and if you do it well you can have plenty of sex without having to pay fuck all But instead of working on your smv you can pay prostitutes which in the long rub will not be good for your self esteem. I just think a lot of guys undervalue themselves thinking western women are so complicated that they would rather spend money on prostitues.
/r/TheRedPill31/05/16 05:08 AM
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Thats the thing there is no end game. Humans literally have no goal in life other than to eat,sleep, poop, procreate. Thats it. Thing is back when humans only did this they were genuinely happy. Today the way society is we put immense pressure on everyone bullshitting that we are more special than everything when in reality we are just animals . With this constant pressure humans have become depressed and unfulfilled because they are led to believe they are not living a good life when in reality…
/r/TheRedPill31/05/16 05:02 AM
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Oneitis is mostly due to lack of abundance. I got oneitis once in my life and it went away literally the moment i fucked another women.i remember thinking how fucked up it was that i was hurt and obsessed for a few months and the minute i put a dick in another pussy i wasnt even thinking about the oneitis anymore. You also mention how woman move on quicker than men, thats simply because its easier for the average women to fuck new men. Women also get oneitis though when an alpha provider leaves …
/r/TheRedPill31/05/16 04:53 AM
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Yeah , apparently psychadelics could help understand this extremely deeply but it is the solution.
/r/askTRP31/05/16 03:44 AM
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True a lot of guys who get tatoos get it because they hear girls say they like badboys with tatoos. Truth most of them think the fact they have tatoos will hide the fact that they are super beta but girls quickly find out. I remember once i was hearing a girl talk to my friend, she was saying she only dates guys with tatoos. Long story short said girl ended up being a plate, once i told her i dont like tatoos because evryone has them and its a fad. shes like omg i totally agree and suddenly star…
/r/askTRP31/05/16 02:52 AM
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Move on youre friendzoned. Shes letting you down easy.
/r/askTRP31/05/16 02:51 AM
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same wrote one yesterday just read yours good stuff.
/r/TheRedPill30/05/16 03:57 AM
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I would love if you actually provided proof of that statement(going from 200 to 800 naturally). Lol.
/r/TheRedPill29/05/16 08:25 PM
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Even if you do every thing super healtly to the max ,your test will never raise enough if you are severely hormonally deficient. It can help just a bit.
/r/TheRedPill29/05/16 08:11 PM
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this should barely be on asktrp i dont know wtf its doing on redpill. Mods should start putting certain standards to what get posted on the main redpill.
/r/TheRedPill29/05/16 08:05 PM
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Start by applying what i said above for a start. There may also be other things that are missing in your post ,It may also be your gf is not attracted to you anymore for reasons outside the bedroom ie : you beeing extremely beta. Im not sure if thats the case since you mention its only the 3rd time you guys had sex and imo she was seing you as an alpha but you guys are not compatible sexually which is probably the last thing you want to hear from a girl. Pretty much means you suck at fucking or …
/r/askTRP29/05/16 07:42 PM
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To a certain extent , op had really low test. His dads test levels is almost as low as a womans. Op has bad genes and its not finding excuses. Yes what you mention helps but some people like op are actually deficient and need injections.
/r/TheRedPill29/05/16 07:27 PM
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read the sidebar. Why would you even meet her in the first place. Your actions despite what you think are showing her you still care.
/r/TheRedPill29/05/16 07:23 PM
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Ya its just when she said whats wrong with us, you said you have to stop laying there like a dead body(putting blame on her). Thats where i meant blaming. Im telling you shes on the verge of branchswinging if its not already done fix your problems in bed asap. a woman that not sexually satisfied is not a good thing.
/r/askTRP29/05/16 07:12 PM
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example 1 : You made her feel like you were embaressed of her by not wanting people to see you were together. Obviously she didnt like it so she sent it back at you by sayinh''If anyone should be worried about other people seeing us hook up it should be me lol''. example 2:just a playful banter-shit test, you had good banter who else "would you rather be with'' than she said someone lhotter and put your hand under her panties. Nothing to worry about here, your doing a good job look at her action…
/r/askTRP29/05/16 07:09 PM
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youre not satisfying her in bed. Shes saying that she doesnt enjoy sex and that she never had an orgasm to let you down easy. You need to understand that the failure to make a guy hard and cum is the biggest ego hit and turnoff for any women(stop watching porn asap and mastubate less to regain sensitivity in your shaft). Woman would rather you cum in 1 minutes while having caveman, rough, passionate sex than super long boring sex with a soft cock because it shows you desire her and get out of co…
/r/askTRP29/05/16 06:50 PM
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havent you read enough horror stories on redpill to make you wear condoms? Jesus christ.
/r/askTRP29/05/16 06:46 PM
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Not at all you missed the point of the post.
/r/TheRedPill29/05/16 05:45 PM
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Exactly adding a bit of beta even to plates will make them last much longer before they break because it gives them hope that some day something might be. She will also be practically a servant to you trying to prove herself. If you are 100 percent alpha with a plate she will leave much sooner because she knows nothing will ever happen more between you guys.
/r/TheRedPill29/05/16 05:43 PM
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true because alpha is the pure attraction but the more Alpha you are the quicker you will need to add a bit of beta traits.
/r/TheRedPill29/05/16 05:40 PM
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Dont know why peoe are giving you so much shit. Its legit question. Personally i rather looks at least you know the girl is attracted to YOU and not to something thats not really you in status.
/r/TheRedPill29/05/16 06:55 AM
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Uh your friend was definitly not being alpha watching his ex getting fucked. Being a cuck even if you like it is subconciously the biggest turnoff for a woman.Thats not being emotionally unavailable although i kind of get where you are coming from.
/r/TheRedPill29/05/16 06:28 AM
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shes probably lying, she wanted you to worry like a pussy that she got into a fight.IE Are you ok?? what happened?? It was like a subtle thinly veiled comfort test but your answer was really good. I doubt she actually did fight she just wanted a reaction.
/r/askTRP29/05/16 04:56 AM
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Very interesting, thats the point Betas are not rare, alphas to an extent are not rare either . Alpha providers though, their like winning the lottery, its like a unicorn for them.Thats why they become addicted if you can merge the two.
/r/TheRedPill29/05/16 04:51 AM
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The most redpill way would be to not answer. But god damn would answering with a pic of your dick getting sucked be hilarious as hell. Dude do it fuck what she thinks do it for the trolls and report back to us. Thats amused mastery and self amusement at its finest.You and your plate will laugh as fuck over this also girls love this revenge shit.
/r/askTRP29/05/16 04:45 AM
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Treating like shit in women language is " not commiting" . Ive never seen a girl chase a guy that treats her literally like shit. It may be what you see from the outside but i guarentee ita not really whats foing on.
/r/TheRedPill29/05/16 01:17 AM
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True notice that a lot of times when a girls dumped by an alpha guy she will usually go to a really secure, protecting guy right after. Its like to compensate what she was lacking in her previous relationship. I see it often with past plates also.
/r/TheRedPill29/05/16 12:07 AM
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Meh, a lot of people see right through it. Mayweather is selling his fight remember that.
/r/askTRP28/05/16 11:28 PM
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I wouldnt go the divorce route yet if you actually like her. In short your girlfriend takes you for granted. A women who says she has lower libido compared to before is a women that is simply not attracted to you anymore plain and simple. You need to make yourself less available(your attention is to woman what sex is for a guy) always remove it when she does not act like you want, work on yourself, slightly flirt with other women. This will make her libido come back when she sees that if she doe…
/r/askTRP28/05/16 11:17 PM
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In this situation it had a positive effect. She sees you as a rock and you showed vulnerability once. My mom to this day still remembers the only time she saw my dad cry.Its special for a woman to see an alpha cry. Its good thing dont make it a habit.
/r/askTRP28/05/16 09:15 PM
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being a louder and perhaps more extroverted doesnt make someone more alpha
/r/askTRP28/05/16 09:09 PM
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with experience you learn that girls leave if they think you dont give a shit about them by being too aloof . Doesnt have anything to do with comming off to agressive or to strong, pretty much the opposite. I think you dont fully understand the essence of this post or you replied in the wrong thread.
/r/TheRedPill28/05/16 08:18 PM
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Agree 100%, most newbies were so bluepill before that they fling completely to the other side instead of just calibrating
/r/TheRedPill28/05/16 07:15 PM
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you will learn when you first experience it like many guys have.
/r/TheRedPill28/05/16 07:13 PM
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for sure in her head''OMG chad trusts me enough to go to his house alone omg there might be something more to it'' guaranteed she told all her friends about this and started hamstering like crazy that she was ''special'' because you let her do that. I bet she also gave the best sex ever. Once i was with a plate (social circle) and i was barely giving her attention so obviously she does the typical plate thing and tried to get me jelous by flirting with another guy(it was obvious at fuck).I dont …
/r/TheRedPill28/05/16 06:57 PM
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The girls who have been by far the most ''addicted '' to me have been the ones where i showed a balance of both. When i show to much alpha they like me but they are also guarded in order to protect their feelings.
/r/TheRedPill28/05/16 06:20 PM
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Agreed. But by adding a bit of beta traits(pretty dishonest though) you can string along a plate much longer before it breaks. If you start getting comfort tested to much you dont rev up the pimp hand.. pretty much the opposite. Shit tests, you rev up the pimp hand comfort tests you add comfort.
/r/TheRedPill28/05/16 06:16 PM
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Happened to me alot. women will never state this stuff directly , i usually know im being to ''alpha'' when she becomes distant compared to their giddy ,happy ,feminine. A lot of guys on asktrp post threads when a girl is being distant and everyone advises to next but a lot of the times its just that the girl is hurt because the guy did something to make her think he didnt give a shit and shes acting distant to let him know he did something wrong and for him to find out.
/r/TheRedPill28/05/16 05:30 PM
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you dont need to be rich, you just need to provide enough comfort, security. Basicly she has to really believe that if you guys would have kids you wouldnt leave.
/r/TheRedPill28/05/16 05:26 PM
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keep on telling yourself that lol
/r/TheRedPill28/05/16 03:55 PM
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No your not ,dont ignore your emotions in this situation, listen to your gut. Ive been in a very similar situation and left the job.i know exactly what youre feeling right now and it fucking sucks. Doesnt matter what other people are telling you to do, " to keep frame" your in a toxic work environent and its evidently affecting you mentally like it would to anyone.your gut is telling you this situation is not right listen to it. You can keep trying fighting with this guy but the social dynamics …
/r/askTRP28/05/16 02:58 PM
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Dude change job your being harassed, go get a doctors note for anxiety at work. tge frame of him vs you is set and will keep on getting worse.
/r/askTRP28/05/16 02:55 PM
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Thats because the bully has a lot of status or people are scared if they dont take his side he will pick on them.your reputatiion and status at work is low thats why no one takes your side.Very hard to change it once its made. Dont know how much you like your job but i would consider looking for a new one. If someone ever tries to bully you again react very early and never ignore. Not only will he stop but people will see you as a guy who doesnt take shit from anyone
/r/askTRP28/05/16 02:46 PM
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true, I lost so many fun average chicks because i treated them the same way i treat super hot girls. Especially as your smv gets higher they need even more attention to prove you actually care about them. Its really something you notice as you get more experience, you start knowing when or not you should give more attention
/r/TheRedPill28/05/16 05:36 AM
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They do when theyre attracted to you lol . Trust me a women whos into you never stfu
/r/TheRedPill28/05/16 05:31 AM
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Why are you giving her to much comfort exactly..
/r/askTRP28/05/16 05:12 AM
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A few of my friends literally developped redpill attitude towards women after becoming strippers. Lets just say ,good luck finding one male stripper who is still open to getting married after becoming one.
/r/askTRP28/05/16 05:10 AM
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Thats cuz you let him walk on you for to long by ignoring and people expect you do be keep doing so. People perceive you as weak now.
/r/askTRP28/05/16 04:29 AM
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Ignoring and not reacting is the worst thing you could do. This is not a girl trying to frame you its a bully. Stand up to him dont listen to this not caring, dont react bullshit
/r/askTRP28/05/16 04:27 AM
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Totally disrespected you by making you drive 25 mins and not picking up the phone. She deserved to be ignored that week but you ''texted lightly'' common man, who cares if she apologized or not. By texting lightly you thought her that what she did had no repercussions. Youre not using dread if anything shes dreading you without trying. Ignore and wait for her to initiate no ''light texting'' add a sprinkle of dread also. Ie snapchat stories with girls around etc,
/r/askTRP28/05/16 03:48 AM
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So you guys cant be together cuz youre not married? shes testing to see if by threatning to breakup(it just hit me hard there is a potential future without you in it) you will change your mind on marriage Hold frame, a girl will never leave her chad even is she isnt getting married shes just probing BUT she might leave if you never want kids though, remember women are biologically programmed to want kids. Marriage on the other hand is not a biological need at all. Just answer, I respect your des…
/r/askTRP28/05/16 03:35 AM
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the k response is the most overated response on redpill. It conveys your butthurt. she said sorry for the late text , you replied k and now she thinks youre pissed and lost frame over something small because girls use ''k'' when they are mad. Its all subcontext, k doesnt convey ''i dont care'' contrary to people here think its actually pretty much the opposite in fact thats why she says youre blunt. Should of said ''ok np was busy also'' and set up a date. Right now shes just laughing at you tak…
/r/askTRP27/05/16 09:03 PM
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this, think they were flirting with you bro.
/r/TheRedPill27/05/16 07:52 PM
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Same thing happened, they also come much more and faster than by actually putting to much effort to make her cum. Even in sex, focus on you.
/r/TheRedPill26/05/16 07:56 PM
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Reply ,'' next thursday come help me cook dinner at my house and bring some cinnamon tea for me to try.'' You dont need another date, shes down to fuck and its obvious. your overanalyzing.
/r/askTRP25/05/16 06:11 PM
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Good to see you have high expectations of yourself to close on first date. Its ideal to fuck a girl first date, but fucking her second or sometimes even third date isnt the end of the world. Shes obviously still interested i really dont get why you are confused about it,seems obvious to me. Invite her to cook dinner at your house.and tell her the bring wine. close her.
/r/askTRP25/05/16 06:08 PM
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You just have performance anciety from inexperience, totally normal.Just do it.
/r/askTRP25/05/16 02:19 PM
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Why are you doing your exs favors? abundance move on.
/r/askTRP25/05/16 02:13 PM
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A lot of girls just rarely text first cuz thry think their bothering you. Dont expect girls to trxt first its your job as a man to lead
/r/askTRP25/05/16 02:09 PM
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True but women at some point will test a chad thundercock for providership qualities also(comfort tests). IDEALLY a woman wants an alpha ( genes, frame, smv) WITH beta qualities ( provide, security). This is the sweetspot where alpha widows occur and where the girl is addicted to the alpha provider. Problem is not many guys are both. Which is why when a woman finds one she goes the whole 9 yards to keep him. Problem is Guys who are alpha can fuck a lot and dont want to settle. Betas on the other…
/r/askTRP25/05/16 05:57 AM
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Yeah its best knowing straight up i say, whats your schedule like this week im free wednesday. Then she will give you days shes available. I get what the op is saying about appearing weak but the way i mention you actually know if the girls i interested or not
/r/TheRedPill25/05/16 02:28 AM
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you pull back by not communicating when your not with them. that simple. plus work on your smv.
/r/askTRP24/05/16 09:36 PM
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The biggest mistake guys on redpill make is expecting girls to chase them by being a cold fish, and extrememly aloof. To get a girl to chase you , you must Push-Pull hard. Girls wont chase if you are not rewarding her. you must let her know she has a chance. or Maybe your smv is not as high as you think it is.
/r/askTRP24/05/16 09:11 PM
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Shes pissed and getting back at you cuz she thinks you put her as your second option(contrary to redpill belief women dont like being put as second options!) because you faked having something friday. Dont get why you didnt agree to friday unless you actually did have something but i doubt it as you wouldnt be here writing this. Or maybe she wanted to fuck on friday but actually had something saturday.
/r/askTRP24/05/16 09:01 PM
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Jesus christ , common man youre looking way to deep into this.
/r/TheRedPill24/05/16 07:30 PM
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just sounds like lot of trouble to get a nude. Usualyy a girl will just send me a selfie of her with flirty emoticons smirk and heart kiss and i know its on. just to let you know and this is according to my plates: girls who want to fuck you will not send these club snapchats and random snaps to you. They will just send selfies to make sure they look good. They also said that they send mass snaps like club onesto guy friends as they dont care if they look good or not.Your basically just validati…
/r/TheRedPill24/05/16 07:21 PM
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Hate this book. Biggest piece of crap book that teaches you how to be a nice guy emotional tampon ,validation seeking, question asking bitch that no one respects . They should rename the book to " blue pill for dummies" or "how to get walked on by everyone you meet" Being more selfish and a bit cocky is sadly from experience way better to gret friends and influence people. It subconciously signals status and people want to befriend status. being a non stop question asking human signals your seek…
/r/askTRP24/05/16 05:57 PM
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Exactly fight back dont ignore.
/r/askTRP24/05/16 05:55 PM
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You better hope she was drunk as fuck to '' forget'' she sent a nude or youll look dumb as fuck and look like a creepy manipulator.
/r/TheRedPill24/05/16 05:29 PM
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I swear they should make it a must to be a repill subscriber for atleast 3 months before being aloud to post to lessen anger guys giving crap advice
/r/TheRedPill24/05/16 05:23 PM
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She has a wall up because youre going on complicated dates. By doing this lazer tag , dinner , museum she thinks you would make a good boyfriend so shes putting brakes to not seem like a slut. Your investing to much to early. Doesnt change the fact that she fucked a few chads off tinder who invited her for a simple drink and brought her back home the same night. Thats why redpill advise SIMPLE date, always with good logistics that your should bring her back home. Ideally you want to fuck the gir…
/r/askTRP24/05/16 05:14 PM
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The only way to salvage this is by removing your attention. Removing your attention will make your smv rise in her eyes. Read the 12 levels of dread and apply.
/r/askTRP24/05/16 05:57 AM
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Youre better off looking for top upvoted posts about frame. Frame is not something people write books about.
/r/askTRP24/05/16 05:55 AM
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yeah, moral of this story be very careful with the advice you get on here. A lot of these guys are in anger phase who have fuck all experience with women so they give advice that sounds cool, it gets upvoted by other angry inexperienced guys but the advice is usually complete crap. Its all balance of beta traits and alpha traits to get a woman MOST addicted to you. To much alpha is not good. Women are not that hard to understand when you look at stuff from their perspective while understanding. …
/r/askTRP24/05/16 02:54 AM
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right on, i hate this dont react bullshit. You have to react or you look weak not only to the bully but the people looking also. If a bully sees you give him trouble when he tries to piss you off he will just stop.
/r/askTRP24/05/16 02:13 AM
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thats bullshit, you have to stand up to them or you become an easy prey. Not only that, by people seing you be''unreactive''other people see you as an easy prey so they will bully also. If i ever have kids i wil straight up tell them, if someone does something that either hurts your feelings or you physically , fight back. Ill handle the teacher even find a new school if they get kicked out, i dont give a fuck. I rather my kids grow up with self respect and strong boundaries in an enviroment whe…
/r/askTRP24/05/16 02:11 AM
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Its all about balance. You even said it, when your dont give enough attention she gets moody, when you give to much she distances. Work to find the sweetspot. She danced with another guy when you were there to get you jelous cuz you werent giving her attention happens a lot especially if youre stoic and redpill.
/r/askTRP24/05/16 12:02 AM
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This. cant believe the other terrible advice being given.
/r/askTRP23/05/16 10:30 PM
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terrible advice being given , people not looking from the right perspective. Now heres the thing most guys here will tell you to ''next that slut'' or ''dread the shit out of her bro!!'' cuz they are all in the anger phase and its always the womans fault according to them. The truth is im assuming youre doing a good job being stoic and redpill. When your gf didnt kiss you that was womanese for '' im pissed at you figure it out'' all woman do this when pissed or give the cheek. Remember this is a…
/r/askTRP23/05/16 09:52 PM
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Girls are naturals at playing dread. The ''jelousy'' tecnique you describe is something every man encounters as he becomes more alpha.Im an extrememly stoic guy so girls have a hard time reading me and get insecure. When a woman feels insecure or she thinks you dont give a shit, she will use jelousy to get a reaction showing you care. Jelousy is extremely effective on them so they think its extremely effective on men. Usually giving a bit of a reaction is good or else she will amplify and amplif…
/r/TheRedPill23/05/16 07:29 PM
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whenever a woman does something you do not like you simply remove attention, when she does something you like you sometimes reward her with attention. Go out at night randomlybut dont tell her where, hit the gym,buy a new cologne, dont reply to her texts quickly. Right now just use soft dread. Read the ''12 levels of dread'. Stop doing your insecure actions also.
/r/askTRP23/05/16 07:17 PM
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Whenever you get whiskey dick or think you will be grtting it, tell her beforehand. That way shes working in your frame. Say "we will try but alcohol usually nakes me soft". This makes it a chalenge for her to get you hard.(she will usually say ill make it work then give you amazing head) If you still dont get hard simply tell her " forget it, tomorrow morning ill fuck the shit out of you" then have sex in the morning. Dont worry its not the first time she encounters whiskey dick
/r/askTRP23/05/16 02:44 AM
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Its not for others to decide what you put up with, if you dont like knowing the fact she had a threesome thats okay . Someone else might tolerate it. Never forget that its in a woman nature to want these things . They are biologically programmed to want threesomes and gangbangs. Question is , Do YOU accept the fact that your girlfriend had a threesome or will you always have it in the back of your mind?
/r/askTRP23/05/16 01:07 AM
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there no games being played , he just fucked up.
/r/askTRP23/05/16 01:02 AM
1

have you tried melanotan? if not look it up and research it before you do but it can help with uneveness of your skin tone by making you tan as fuck. For your other condition go to skincareaddiction subreddit they might have some tips.
/r/askTRP23/05/16 12:57 AM
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I always thought that also when a girl tells me shes on birth control, automatically assume shes riding the cc. Is a condom not enough?. Although speaking to plates they often say they take bc to make their periods hurt less and not last as long.
/r/TheRedPill22/05/16 05:59 PM
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exactly depends what you want out of this. If you want to ltr her not replying will make her more distant.
/r/askTRP22/05/16 05:53 PM
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I used to be like that too .That feeling will go away once you fuck a few bombshells and you notice theres nothing different about them at all.Youre just in a state of wanting what you dont have but once you do it goes away. The feeling will vanish even more once you meet a girl less attractive but you click better with her than hotter ones.(sexy personality, actually interesting, challenges you, great sex) Now its more of a yes or no and i go from there.
/r/askTRP22/05/16 05:46 PM
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Be careful not being to cocky-funny , i find with really high smv girls it works really well but with lower smv girls they get offended especially if youre a model they might think you are making them a joke.
/r/askTRP22/05/16 05:40 PM
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Sounds like perfornance anxiety (guessing youre inexperienced). You just have to do it. Doesnt matter if it goes well or not . After a few times it will be second nature.
/r/askTRP22/05/16 03:44 PM
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As always man anger mode is easy to spot. Once these guys get experience and lose a few girls from being to aloof and assholish they will dial back. Girls who have been the most addicted to me have been the ones where i have shown both alpha and beta traits and its not even close. The ones i just show alpha traits never truly see any potential so their not in crazy love. The ones i shows both alpha with a sparkle of beta, jesus christ they became needy and would do literally anything for me. I k…
/r/TheRedPill22/05/16 06:19 AM
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To a woman youre always alpha until proven otherwise. She did pretty much anything she can to help you seal the deal and you fucked up twice(guessing your a virgin). Its normal you had performance anxiety from inexperience. Next time dont wait ,doesnt matter if youre not awsome in bed at least youll get experience and wont ponder " what could have been". Now she sees you as beta, she thinks youre a pussy which you were for not being able to close. Always lead to sex as a man its your job. The on…
/r/askTRP22/05/16 04:34 AM
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thats part of working retail especially if you dont have a lot of senority , they cut hours depending on season- budget. unless you really suck at your job , but in retail she would of probably fired you already.
/r/askTRP22/05/16 02:15 AM
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Its really crazy how''hive mind '' affects people even if at their own detriment. Its like they literally dont notice their playing against themselves.
/r/TheRedPill21/05/16 09:48 PM
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Great post, frame is such an interesting yet hard concept to understand without experience. We all feel it in every interaction yet its very hard to explain and you did a good job at it.
/r/TheRedPill21/05/16 09:38 PM
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Thats the thing it does follow redpill recommended rp procedure exept for the ''sleep well'', no idea where youre seeing it doesnt. And contrary to redpill belief , i find it better to ask a girl when shes free. Dont say you wanna go out. I usually say lets chill, whats your schedule liike this week. if you just tell her, hey im going to x come with me like redpill recomends, she might actually be busy that day. Asking her when shes free she tells you her days, then you say i cant to x day but i…
/r/askTRP21/05/16 06:23 PM
1

Hes just hamstering that he wants to stay with her for the kids to avoid saying hes desperate
/r/TheRedPill21/05/16 09:57 AM
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Theres nothing wrong with what your doing
/r/askTRP21/05/16 09:36 AM
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aw makes sense, mods should find a way to keep them there.
/r/askTRP21/05/16 06:45 AM
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People who perceive you as low smv will always try to put you back in your place when you try to raise it even family sadly.Its a way of shit testing also, they might be seeing youre improving from the outside and are testing to see if it matches your inside. Thats why sometimes its easier to get a new social circle but you cant get a new family. You could move out (dont know your age) or simply do whatever the fuck you want to do. Is your mother and sister fat? if this is the case youre probabl…
/r/askTRP21/05/16 03:30 AM
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Yep. you cant pull back to much. Just a bit. Im happy more and more redpillers are actually starting to discuss this phenomenon. As a naturally aloof guy this shit happens to me a lot. Contrary to most guys i have a hard time showing interest and my plates end up thinking i dont give a shit and leave after a while.
/r/TheRedPill21/05/16 01:35 AM
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You get her to chase you by acting really good when your with her. But when you are not ,you pull back Ie: Dont text for three days, she will start missing you and chasing. Basic push- pull. dont pull to far though.
/r/TheRedPill21/05/16 01:34 AM
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It is by FAR the place most people fuck up. You have to reciprocate interest , just a bit less than she is. If you dont she thinks you dont give a shit and will walk away to not get hurt even if shes crazy for you.Had this happen many times. Just beta sucks. Just ALpha is good. Beta and Alpha mixed is ideal. Makes girls think she has a chance which will cause her to chase like crazy.
/r/TheRedPill21/05/16 01:29 AM
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Its actually mostly shit test. She does this to raise her value in YOUR eyes because shes starting to feel youre unattainable. By showing you guys chasing her (while your not) she thinks its makes her more attractive to you. Basicly they think preselection works on men.
/r/TheRedPill21/05/16 01:26 AM
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no it is blatant dread, ALL my plates have done something similar. They do this when they get insecure and think you have other options and she does the same in return to raise her smv in your eyes even if she says the guys are losers.
/r/TheRedPill21/05/16 01:21 AM
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If its actually true that you were really going to her neighbouring despite her(which i doubt, you seem to be hamstering), at least make her come get the book from your buddys house. See how receptive she is. Set up a meet alone with her. Whatever you do , do not bring it to her , never do services for women especially if youre not fucking.
/r/askTRP21/05/16 12:08 AM
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Lol dont mail it or go to her, what are you her servant? Tell her come get it at your house. If she comes you know where she stands. If you go you might waste your time.
/r/askTRP20/05/16 11:44 PM
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good shit but he should be working on abundance going back to an ex that dumped you is straight up telling the ex your weak and have no options even if you use the guidelines above.
/r/askTRP20/05/16 10:43 PM
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sounds youre lying about having fucked her and youre just her beta orbiter. cut contact
/r/askTRP20/05/16 09:34 PM
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Doesnt matter what it mean look at her actions. She initiated shes interested.
/r/askTRP20/05/16 03:31 PM
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Why would you respond k to the bf? They probably think you were high on some shit. I would just tell them that. You started shit for no reason.
/r/askTRP20/05/16 06:15 AM
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"I have plenty of other women i can fuck" of course bud. You wouldnt be reacting like this if you did. Sounds like you were a rebound and mr. ChAd thundercock called her back. Girls on rebounds usually act like you described.Recent breakups are always dangerous because of that, thats why you always have a few girls spinning. If thats not the case there is a part of the story thats missing ie you were extra beta or said clingy shit.the way your reacting like a little bitch makes me think this is …
/r/askTRP20/05/16 05:51 AM
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I never understood why guys get oneitis for girls that are fucking other guys. In my case i would be so turned off that it would literally be impossible to catch oneitis for her.
/r/askTRP20/05/16 02:02 AM
1

Nothing wrong with a few drinks to loosen yourself up.
/r/askTRP20/05/16 12:35 AM
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Its not a shit test, you were just acting weird. imagine someone was tapping you non stop telling you to behave. Stop over doing kino ot just looks forced and unatural like youre finding reasons to touch her. You should have laughed when she said to stop flicking her. Amused mastery. But learn to know when to kino and not.
/r/askTRP19/05/16 05:27 PM
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Thats the thing , she will be ok being a plate IF she feels she has a chance at more. This is why she asked op this, she wanted to know if something more was posdible down the line. Even if op doesnt want something more, he must make her think she might. This is what will make her be ok with being a plate.
/r/askTRP19/05/16 03:58 PM
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Nothing wrong with your answer. Your over reading this.
/r/askTRP19/05/16 11:27 AM
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Really? Op should stop talking to a plate because she feels used and wants to know if he likes her for more than just her body? Wtf man. Terrible advice. This is NOT a shit test
/r/askTRP19/05/16 10:46 AM
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This was not a time to tease, it was a blatant comfort test whoch you completely fucked up because you listened to uncalibrated advice that sounded cool. This was the time the throw her a bone man. You could keep on ignoring this comfort test but i guarantee she will stop seeing you shortly because she will feel like your using her. Even a girl thats a plate wants to feel special COMPARED to the other girls your seeing. She must feel like she at least has a chance for comitment even if you dont.…
/r/askTRP19/05/16 10:37 AM
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This is really a question asked often that im also interested in. Hopefully someone experienced and good in office dynamics will write a post about it soon.
/r/askTRP19/05/16 05:52 AM
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i have a hard time with this male peaking at 35 theory. I understand why redpill says that but generally speaking girls in their peak smv years fuck guys that are their age (18-25) not 35 from what i have seen. Maybe has to do with logistics but still.
/r/TheRedPill19/05/16 05:30 AM
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bingo, good job at him for not paying first date. Hold frame. In a few days (if shes actually interested) She will text him that she got money out of nowhere.
/r/askTRP19/05/16 04:28 AM
2

Same went to 30 days, now i can barely pass five. Crazy how hard it is to get a second good streak.
/r/askTRP18/05/16 08:54 PM
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that sounds tryhard , she might be laughing but she knows damn well your just trying to dread her. Overt not covert dread.
/r/askTRP18/05/16 08:45 PM
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Yes i did 30 days , it was really difficult.Nofap AND nosex. As someone who was ever sceptic of nofap at first i did find that there was some positive effects. More energy, more motivation for sure, maybe more confidence. The reason why nofap is effective in my opinion doesnt have anything to do with testosterone, dopamine receptors (maybe a bit). It just has to do with the fact that you learn to control your most difficult impulse.By doing this you start seeing other stuff in your life thats wa…
/r/askTRP18/05/16 07:49 PM
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Mehh alpha widows makes your statement false.
/r/TheRedPill18/05/16 07:28 AM
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Perfect shes now 100% in your frame.shes willing to be your fuckbuddy when she wasnt before. You could answer if you want to fuck her now or later.
/r/askTRP18/05/16 06:45 AM
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Might be two things. You are failing a bunch of comfort tests and shes trying to get you to give a bit more.If you were acting redpill throughout your relationship, you are probably making her anxious and think you dont care about her(which is a good thing) but now would be the time to throw her a bone to make her feel you care. Her telling you she wants you to initiate more texting, makes me think she is lacking comfort and acting coldish to make you realize that bad sex one word replies etc. D…
/r/askTRP18/05/16 04:41 AM
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its not even that he wasnt in shape man, he just literally wasnt fucking her. Had he been fucking her like a man should we wouldnt be discussing this.
/r/TheRedPill17/05/16 05:01 AM
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1.She was wrong in cheating 2.The guy has only himself to blame for not sexually satisfying the girl. common guys i understand all this awalt, hypergamous. But fuck, as a man if im not sexually satisfied i go elsewhere obviously she cheated but the guy deserved to be branchswingged on.
/r/TheRedPill17/05/16 05:00 AM
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Not a good idea with two feet at the bottom of the bed. Dread must be covert not overt. Your plates need to think you might be seeing other girls yet they cant know. You can post stories of you with other girls in a social setting but not alone with her. best snapchat dread is when youre filming something but a girls voice is in the background
/r/askTRP17/05/16 03:51 AM
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Yeah problem is, the examples given in the book is about guys with extremely high status so naturally people will gravitate towards them. I guarantee behind the scene to rise the guys he used as examples dont do any of that nice guy crap he mentions in the book. In fact frank underwood pretty much shows how a guy needs to act to get high status and ... Lets just say its not always nice. Doing asshole behaviour subconciously tells other people you are high status because you permit yourself to do…
/r/askTRP16/05/16 11:43 PM
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i find how to win friends to be the most overated book. It basicly tells you to be a nice guy(but with guys not just girls), always listen always smile. Ive tried both , being and asshole and being similar to what how to win... suggests. It sucks to say but being an asshole made me rise to the top of social hierarchies and made people literally WANT to be friend without even trying while the other just made me a nice regular guy that listens. The examples given in how to win... all come from ver…
/r/askTRP16/05/16 10:33 PM
1

Its personal preference some girls like missionairy more also, especially petite tight girls. i find girls cum easier missionary, but the version where youre sort of stomach to stomach. I guess its cuz my body rubs on her clit while shes simultaneously getting fucked.
/r/askTRP16/05/16 03:31 AM
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Hry look its the daily insecure indian post!
/r/askTRP15/05/16 09:48 AM
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Exactly you use dread for bad behaviour not good behaviour. she either thinks youre playing games and shes doins the same back or she think your not interested
/r/askTRP14/05/16 09:42 PM
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To think that one day bob betabux will believe her lies of having a low n count and spend money on her while she was literally a cum bucket a few years before. Jesus.
/r/askTRP14/05/16 11:02 AM
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All woman want comitment at some point hence, plate breaks. Understand that a woman being a plate is the equivalence of a guy being friendzoned. Woman will accept being a plate if she thinks she has a chance to lock you down. If not she will leave.
/r/TheRedPill13/05/16 05:25 AM
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You really have to wonder how many girls they have dated when guy posts a statement like that. a women will always nag high smv or not.
/r/TheRedPill13/05/16 05:16 AM
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Perfect bro youre plating, this post was more aimed at relationships.
/r/TheRedPill13/05/16 05:12 AM
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Masculine polarity is how a father treats his children, the same way we should treat women. Does a good father neglect his childs needs?
/r/TheRedPill13/05/16 05:07 AM
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Thats fine , if your not ready to be in a relationship just plate , completely respect that.
/r/TheRedPill13/05/16 05:05 AM
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Bro are you a virgin? Not to sound like an ass. All your comments are you raging at women. Everyones exchanging good arguments and youre just sounding like a butthurt baby trying to get his opinions in by screaming. You seem very butthurt.Relax bud were all in this together:p
/r/TheRedPill13/05/16 05:01 AM
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Again! At least you made a throwaway this time
/r/askTRP13/05/16 12:26 AM
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Exactly , i know some guys who are slightly beta also whos gf are all over them. Not saying hes an example to follow but here everything is insanely exagerated
/r/TheRedPill12/05/16 10:09 PM
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Me neither bunch of of my friends have never been cheated on either
/r/TheRedPill12/05/16 10:07 PM
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Same, was always pretty unconciously redpill. Most guys here were extrememly beta, cheated on multiple times, now theyre on the other end of the spectrum. I understand their anger though.
/r/TheRedPill12/05/16 09:27 PM
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Yes but the point of this thread is to connect hypergamy to a mans action. Your point is another discussion altogether.
/r/TheRedPill12/05/16 09:22 PM
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I know its so easy to spot the most insulting comment towards woman instantly gets the most upvotes kind of proves the point of this thread. Kind of funny actually.
/r/TheRedPill12/05/16 09:20 PM
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Youre right it is about her feels more than anything. But you must realize that as a man your actions=her feels. Yes some women overeact quickly but generelly speaking a woman will not branchwing after one mistake. The guy might think it was one mistake but he just didnt notice the other ''mistakes'' he made and the other subtle warnings she gave him. Spotting those warning and mistakes quicker comes with experience.
/r/TheRedPill12/05/16 08:51 PM
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Just common redpill begginner mistake, its quite easily to spot in this thread the guys who are still in anger phase. Once you gain experience and stop hating women, the fog moves and you get a clearer perspective of why woman and men do certain things.
/r/TheRedPill12/05/16 08:47 PM
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I think you just proved the point, i dont fully believe a girl will fuck just cuz the guy is higher smv than you. You even mention your friend gf cheating with a lower smv than him so that takes out that point imo. If hypergamy was true she wouldnt fuck a lower smv male. She fucked the lower smv male because your friend was not filling her female needs anymore, but the lower smv drug addict did, whether thos needs were mor comfort more attention more exitement he filled them better than your fri…
/r/TheRedPill12/05/16 08:38 PM
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Redpill shifts blames on the woman for everything, the same way redpill says woman hamster and rationalize and blame men for everything. Thats what TRP gets wrong.
/r/TheRedPill12/05/16 08:28 PM
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Yeah but as im gaining experience, ive started noticing you lose girls if she thinks you dont give a shit about her EVEN as a plate.You always have to find a way to make her feel a bit more special than other girls your seeing without totally commiting to her, this is how you get a girl chasing.
/r/TheRedPill12/05/16 08:24 PM
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Yeah, its normal though as every idea there are faults at the beggining. Redpill being fairly new will adjust imo within the next years especially as anger phase guys calm down.
/r/TheRedPill12/05/16 08:08 PM
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Yes , but here redpill thinks women are hypergamous out of nowhere. What im saying is that women will branchwing if she is not getting what she wants from you anymore. I agree you have to focus on your needs more , but you cant neglect a girls needs if youre in a relationship. If your not ready for that plate girls simple as that.
/r/TheRedPill12/05/16 08:05 PM
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A lot of this sub is good, you just have to learn to filter out anger phase guys who hate woman and simply cant view from other peoples perspectives.
/r/TheRedPill12/05/16 08:03 PM
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Thats the thing women rarely leave relationships like men do my talking. Theyll just be more distant and try to get you to end it, its just female nature.Not saying its cool, but thats the way they are. Its your job as a man to learn to spot when the girl is ''mentally'' out of the relationship. Women are always about subcontext and have the hardest time being direct.
/r/TheRedPill12/05/16 08:02 PM
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Meh Dont agree with that most posts the guys even admit they do less because their more busy with this and that. If anything guys should maybe show less at the beggining of the relationship to keep expectations low instead of starting high and dropping as the relationship gets longer
/r/TheRedPill12/05/16 07:58 PM
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Many guys dump woman , its not always woman who leave by cheating, Its quite easy to spot in a relationship when a girl is much more into the guy than the guy is into her (thats the postion you want to be in) . You want your woman chasing you. If shes chasing she wont repplace you.
/r/TheRedPill12/05/16 07:30 PM
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Bingo, you MUST balance alpha traits and beta traits, In your situation you were simply way to beta which made you appear low smv and too easy for her.
/r/TheRedPill12/05/16 07:27 PM
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thats exactly what im saying, they think they could change you , if you dont want to change dont commit. Guys here go into commited relationships thinking they could treat a gf the same way you treat a plate and it blows up in their face.
/r/TheRedPill12/05/16 07:25 PM
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Yes he was better than you because the guy became complacent and lazy. By becoming complacent and lazy youre not alpha in her eyes anymore which is why she branchswings.
/r/TheRedPill12/05/16 07:23 PM
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Its very rare a woman doesnt give warnings, most guys are just not experienced enough to see them. If youre not ready to give the effort a relationship asks for , keep plates dont commit.
/r/TheRedPill12/05/16 07:16 PM
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Youre obviously doing something that signaling beta bucks, MORE roses? you gave her roses already? do you text a lot, it seems like youre probably giving a very bf vibe without you noticing it. I didnt say to reject advances from a girl to act like you dont need it. When a GIRL INITIATES that when you REWARD her behaviour by giving her sex not by witholding it or she will stop doing it. your second example when you look at her like whatever is perfect though thats exactly the vibe you must give.…
/r/askTRP12/05/16 06:42 PM
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Bingo when a girl " puts out " its cuz she sees you as a beta bux . She fucks you as a reward not cuz she wants it. In her mind its " uh he deserves it".
/r/askTRP12/05/16 06:04 PM
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Male sure youre fucking her good. Make her feel like you want sex but dont need it. Usually girls will start acting all giddy be very touchy when they want sex. Wait a bit let the tension rise. Then they sort of scracth your stomach, than you take action. By waiting for tension to rise , it makes her think she has to work for you to fuck her. Sometimes ill even say: you wanna go again? As if she cant get enough. Nouw shes in your frame her chasing sex. Never make it seem like SHES putting out fo…
/r/askTRP12/05/16 05:45 PM
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Yes , they still fuck me and pretty much worship me. Thats why im telling you a lol wont dry a girl out . I never was blue pill , redpill was always something i uncontiosly believed and never had a problem eith lol
/r/TheRedPill12/05/16 03:56 PM
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Fair enough, most girls perceive lol as an answer when your annoyed of them. Not blue pill conditioning sometimes i dont answer, i understand for newbie overly niceguys its better to stay away from these tendencies.
/r/TheRedPill12/05/16 03:51 PM
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Something i noticed also, my style of flirtung is pretty cocky and teasing. Hotter girls love it and banter back while lesser girls look at my like im an idiot and then talk shit behind my back.
/r/askTRP12/05/16 03:43 PM
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I always have a hard time understading how some guys plates sometimes put fights to have sex with them. Not to sound cocky but most my plates generally initiate sex by rubbing themselves on me or scratching my stomach or something similar. Its their female way of saying they want cock. In my mind initiating is chasing i try to train them from early on to initiate themselves the most possible You shoudnt be worrying about " she puts out more when i do x" youre in her frame. She should not only pu…
/r/askTRP12/05/16 09:07 AM
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Theres nothing wrong with lol. In this case yeah, but when im annoyed of a girl texting i just respond with lol.
/r/TheRedPill12/05/16 08:44 AM
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Damn love this analysis. Makes alot of sense. Instead of saying he was good in bed ,dominant i was his slut, ita more acceptable to say he had a big dick.
/r/TheRedPill12/05/16 08:28 AM
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Dont see how thats defensive, its more suggesting shes imagining stuff. Than she will jump in your frame giving you reasons why ahe thinks youre ignoring her. Why exactly do you want to banter. .. Did you even fuck this girl?
/r/askTRP12/05/16 08:21 AM
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In this case what vasilevzaitsrv said is perfect
/r/askTRP12/05/16 08:17 AM
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Thats exactly what im telling you, move on and cut contact from your friends snd aquaintances who have known you as a beta.
/r/askTRP12/05/16 08:11 AM
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I had a pretty much similar situation to yours. Not gonna lie i pretty much cut contact with all of them. As you grow as a man and strive to improve its hard to not be affected by how people of your past perceive you. Its easier to start at zero with a social circle who perceives you as good with woman. Not only that but your friends might bring shit up from your past to women who perceive you as alpha now and that will affect her perception of you sadly. Women want a guy who was alpha always, n…
/r/askTRP12/05/16 07:41 AM
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Just respond ''im not ignoring you?'' make it seem like shes imagining stuff to make her hamster spin even more.
/r/askTRP12/05/16 07:08 AM
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Jesus christ, you indian guys have to be the most insecure people every hour : do x girls like indian guys?
/r/askTRP12/05/16 06:07 AM
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Youre doing great. If youre woman is a good woman she will not flirt back or be very cold, sometimes if a guy really doesnt back down AFTER she told him to than i will. IE : protect her , only when she cant protect herself anymore. Also sometimes when your girl feels insecure in the relationship or is trying to get commitment from you, she might try to blatantly flirt with other guys or ive even had girls tell me a guy grabbed her ass (when he clearly didnt) to see how i would react, this is a h…
/r/askTRP12/05/16 06:00 AM
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exactly thats one of the few points of redpill im really not sold on. If you neglect your women she will leave. The same way and alpha would leave if she neglected him. Not all but a lot of stories of hypergamy on rp is about a women being neglected and just like an alpha male would, goes look elsewhere. Than guys on redpill start hamstering omg awalt this awalt that. Its important to look from the womens perpective , it helps you see why she does certain things, IMO guys and girls are much clos…
/r/TheRedPill12/05/16 05:15 AM
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Obviously shes saying that to her friend cuz youre ignoring her(which is a good thing) she sees she has no chance anymore so she trys to ratonalize her decison. Male and female do that.
/r/TheRedPill12/05/16 03:19 AM
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When youre at the point a girl tells you, you are too available( which means youre being to beta , im not attracted to you anymore). You need to move on. This girl will never respect you again even if you do come back together. As a man youre supposed to be a rock, when you broke up you were everything but a rock. You began chasing beeing needy and turned her off to the point of no return. If you ever break up with another girl and want her back( you shouldnt because Abundance ) just go silent, …
/r/askTRP12/05/16 02:33 AM
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I would say ''I respect the fact that you want to go to vegas, but personally going to vegas is not something i accept from someone im in a long term relationship with. If you choose to go I simply cant stay in a relationship with you.'' Shows two things: you are willing to walk away if she does. Solid boundaries. not needy. 2: If shes testing to see if you care, it shows that you do care yet you are not supplicating ,needy or jealous. Being jealous and needy would be arguing telling her not to …
/r/askTRP11/05/16 08:21 PM
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She might be lying just to see how you will react. If its true immediately downgrade to plate. Rmember ''what happens in vegas stays in vegas''.
/r/askTRP11/05/16 08:09 PM
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For some reason i doubt you had sex with her.. A girl would not have sex with a guy she has nothing in common with. If she didnt have anything in common but was attracted to him , she would hamster into thinking she did. Sounds more like you had two dates and now shes telling you shes not interested.
/r/askTRP11/05/16 06:45 PM
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just say you first , than fall asleep as shes expressin herself.
/r/askTRP11/05/16 07:24 AM
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from experience in situations like that i usually treat it as a comfort test, if you keep deflecting as if it was a shit test , She will keep amplifying until she gets a reaction out of you. Not saying to go all beta and reacting all buthurt, but just casually ask who was that guy and act a bit distant. That just tells the girl '' ah he does care but hes no a beta pussy'' . She will usually be all giddy and feminine since you showed that you care and will give the greatest sex. Ive had very siml…
/r/askTRP11/05/16 04:54 AM
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REALLY doubt shes cheating bro. Shes getting insecure because you're doing a good job being stoic and redpill. When a girl gets insecure shell start using jelousy antics on you like shes doing with that snapchat story in hopes to get a reaction that shows you actually care about her and that she has a chance for commitment down the line. A girl doeesnt post videos of chads , chads appear out of nowhere and she will hide it from you. Lmao than she wrote goodnight ''out of the blue''Thats cuz she …
/r/askTRP11/05/16 04:07 AM
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The link you provided explained a typic blue pill guy obviously a girl will be hypergamous towards him. Yes its the biggest bullshit its a phrase started by redpillers who got cheated on in their BLUEPILL days. instead of blaming their beta actions causing the hypergamous behaviour they blamed the girl instead to protect their ego. Male hamstering basicly. Primal needs are both alpha and beta traits mixed.
/r/TheRedPill08/05/16 11:46 PM
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Exactly to many people hear think a girl branchwing only for higher smv. Girls will branchwing when they feel thay cant get what they want put of you ie; dominance , leasership and later along even comfort and comitment.
/r/askTRP08/05/16 10:50 PM
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See i dont beleive in that, if your are dominant and your girl is extrememly summissive and pleasing to you, im dont think she would branch swing to a higher smv male. There is a reason shes did, either you were to beta or she felt nothing would happen between you and here
/r/askTRP08/05/16 10:47 PM
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It is a major fuck up, her pussy was slowly getting dryer for you already( hence her distancing herself) now you obviously didnt make it wetter sending that. What did she respond? Not saying its over but no contact as of now. No liking pictures viewing snapchat stories your a ghost from now until she reaches out. Silence always works since time makes you forget the bad and remember the good. Right now you PUSHED way to much now its time to PULL the fuck back. Most important thing for a girl is a…
/r/TheRedPill07/05/16 02:14 PM
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Yeah, imo if a woman is into you she will comfort test you much more than shit test even when flirting. A girl should be worried of shit testing you in case she pisses you off and you decide to next her.
/r/TheRedPill07/05/16 06:41 AM
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Youre message is similar to a few i got from woman who i was slowly starting to ghost lmao. How the fuck does the thought of this being a good idea even come through your mind? As much as your message says you dont give a shit. The lenght of and emotion in it shows other wise. Basic redpill action over words. Whenever a girl goes distant 1. Shes losing interest in you , gaining interest in someone else.2. You pissed her off and shes" punishing" u. Go no contact.
/r/TheRedPill07/05/16 06:11 AM
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Agreed but MOST plates will try to get you to commit at some point.
/r/TheRedPill04/05/16 11:37 PM
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A lot of guys from redpill were MASSIVE betas before getting into redpill. When they start reading the theory they sometimes go way to far on the oppposite end( anger phase mosly) . After a while of getting experience they dial back down and have a more balanced beta-alpha personality which is ideal to keep a woman from branch swinging. A lot of stuff posted here has to be taken with a grain of salt. Many real truths but many really exagerated shit from guys who have no experience, gets very eas…
/r/TheRedPill04/05/16 11:17 PM
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She overstepped because she thought she had no chance with him. Had he showed a bit of beta behaviours , she would of stopped mentioning other guys,hitting on other guys. When a girl starts doing these things, its when youre leaning to far in AF spectrum and shes trying to get emotions out of you that shows her you actually care. If you treat these as a shit test instead of comfort tests, she will leave. Its the same as failing a bunch of shit tests when being beta.
/r/TheRedPill03/05/16 05:06 PM
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Most guys here dont have the experience to understand where youre coming from. They think to much on the AF spectrum since they have been blue pill and are overcompensating. More experienced guys will get it and understand exactly what you are saying as we have all experienced this.
/r/TheRedPill03/05/16 04:59 PM
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Even if she is just a plate, a girl will invest much more in you if you show a bit of beta traits. It gives her hope.
/r/TheRedPill03/05/16 04:54 PM
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great post This is by far the biggest problem i see with redpill theory and hopefully it will be fixed soon. Redpill newbies think dread will make a girl chase like crazy forever. They overcompensate and lean way to much on the AF spectrum. After you get experience, you start noticing that to much dread and not enough comfort will actually lose girls for you. If a girl starts getting too insecure thinking you dont give a shit about her she will leave you to protect herself from not getting hurt …
/r/TheRedPill03/05/16 04:28 PM
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Yes preselection is awsome but this is not the case. Amanda had a crush on you before seeing you with chelsea. Chelsea was probably her friend and she just asked her what your name was. She already had a crush on you without preselection.
/r/TheRedPill03/05/16 02:12 AM
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I always get whiskey dick after drinking, generally speaking ill bring her home be dominant, finger her and make her cum(look how to make a girl squirt videos it actually works). I then tell her "ill try but i rarely get hard after drinking(now shes in your frame) she will usually insist on trying either by blowing you or whatever but generally speaking most girls undertand whiskey dick and if they are in your frame wont have any problem, staying to get fucked the next day especially if you made…
/r/askTRP02/05/16 07:42 PM
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especially with no closure like your bro probably did. Hard nexting with no explaination= female hamster does not comprehend and runs wild. In essence she was using you to try to get over him.
/r/TheRedPill02/05/16 07:34 PM
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not true, if you are to much on the AF spectrum a girl will leave you , hence plate breaks. Sometimes even if you do offer commitment as a AF but dont show some trait of a BB the girl will not stay in a relationship, she will feel insecure to much.
/r/TheRedPill02/05/16 05:02 AM
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Very common shit test- comfort test. Look at it from the girls pov. A girl wouldn't mention an actual chad, shes mentioning that guy who i think doesn't even exist tbh to get a reaction out of you also wants to validate herself to you. Shes probably seeing you SMV go up and is getting insecure and shes using this to show you she is desired by other men. What i would say is something like" fuck must be awsome to be that guy you could fake being a celibrity and get in anywhere"by doing this you sh…
/r/askTRP01/05/16 10:49 PM
1

God i used to hate when shit like that happened in highschool( still happens a bit today) Ive had situation like this happens when a girl has a crush on you and her friends tease her about it when that happens you do the exact opposite of what they're pressuring you and the girl to do. Go somewhere else, wait a while, later go talk to the girl on your own terms. That way it shows the girl you are strong and dont let people pressure you doing stuff.
/r/askTRP01/05/16 10:40 PM
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No contact, she will start missing you in a few weeks maybe less, i guarantee it. She pissed rightfully so, as a women shes run by emotions. No contact will allow her to remember the good times and forget the bad(your fuck up) and good feelings towards you will come back. Do not try to get her jealous by any means( like every one will be suggesting), right now shes lacking a lot of comfort from you which is why she left. I agree using jealousy in most situations is good but not in yours. Showing…
/r/askTRP01/05/16 10:21 PM
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She does remember and gives a fuck very much.Shes just pissed at his lack of texting which she spoke to him "logically" about before ,yet he didnt change anything.. Youre not looking at this at the right angle. Op is following redpill script acting cool and aloof. Its not a case of a gf finding her beta bf annoying its pretty much the opposite. She been telling op multiple time he doesnt communicate enough and he hasnt changed anything so in her "female mind" the next step to make him understand…
/r/askTRP01/05/16 01:31 AM
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Contrary to what everyone is saying , its the opposite shes butt hurt cuz you never text her other than for logistics(which is a good thing) and feels like a booty call or just that you generally dont care about her,. Shes looking for comfort. Considering you only texts for logistics , its her passive aggressive way of saying youre not giving me enough attention therefore ill punish you by not seeing you on the day we had arranged. If you were low priority she would NOT of rescheduled. If you we…
/r/askTRP30/04/16 10:27 PM
1

Doesnt matter what you read its your lack of calibration and general behaviour thinking this would work that boggles my mind and pretty much anyone who will read this.We are all here to help man but i think there is a bigger issue here than getting girls. Be careful man.
/r/askTRP30/04/16 08:44 PM
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Youre a virgin right? Might sound harsh but be careful you cant keep on acting this way with girls theyll press charges.What blows my mind is that this girl still talks to you even with your rapey uncalibrated behaviour..Theres a difference with LMR and a girl genuinely not being comfortable with you. You're pushing for sex when she is not comfortable fucking you. Usually when girls have LMR its not necessarily that shes not comfortable with you its that she doesn't want to be perceived as a slu…
/r/askTRP30/04/16 08:17 PM
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The moment you saw her ''trying to get that guys attention''in your presence ,you should of left the bar without telling her and ghost her without any closure. Sounds harsh but when you have abundance its an automatic response and the girl will start chasing like crazy. Listen to your gut man.
/r/askTRP30/04/16 04:31 PM
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In woman language: Ive been pumped and dumped all my life by chads who never commited AKA : Silly ass relationships. Shes telling herself shes tired of having to compete for a Chad(possibly approaching the wall) and looking for a Beta Bob which youre showing yourself to be by sending good morning texts and probably other shit you said to her.
/r/askTRP30/04/16 04:06 PM
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I disagree that there is no learning experience from this , every man must experience oneitis once if not a few times for him to start being able to see shit logically and not emotionally with girls. He also be more sexually confident after learning how to make a girl cum.
/r/askTRP30/04/16 04:00 PM
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Why the fuck would you tell her she was a bet? 2. Girls wants proof you like her for more than sex( comfort test) hang out with her, dont even mention sex or be physical with her.(just one time) pretty sure by the end she will be all over you since her ANti slut defence will be off
/r/askTRP30/04/16 03:00 PM
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Buddy she wasnt entirely into you, if she was she wouldnt be ignoring you now. She was using you for validation. If you were her chad she would be happy you granbed her ass. Move on
/r/askTRP30/04/16 02:49 PM
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need to work on his frame right nows its weak as fuck
/r/askTRP30/04/16 06:26 AM
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she saw you as an orbiter and you overstepped. Now shes ignoring you cuz she saw your intentions werent aligned with hers at all. Move on ignore her so not even mention what happened. Do exactly like her as if nothing ever happened between you two.
/r/askTRP30/04/16 06:20 AM
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No shit they stay in their marriage,could you imagine explaining to court how youre leaving your wife because she has that condition?lmao The guy would be raped of pretty much all his money.
/r/TheRedPill29/04/16 08:49 PM
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No idea her friends told me shes getting surgery. Dont really care about educating myself about it . Happy your husband and you can enjoy pain free sex now. If meds didnt work to help ed you bet your ass a girl would go find cock somewhere else. lol. Girls practically cry when you dont want sex one time or whisky dick. I cant imagine ANY girl staying with a limp dick guy for so long. In essence yes she would probably drop the guy. sadly but understandably. Penetration is very imporant in any typ…
/r/TheRedPill29/04/16 08:30 PM
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Yeah you will notice especially as your smv goes higher women become scared of contacting you first thinking theyre bothering you. Yet they have no problems texting orbiter first for validation. I notice thell often try to use snapchat instead as its a bit less direct.
/r/TheRedPill29/04/16 07:22 PM
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Your plates friends have been in situation where she is. Guy fucks but wont commit. They ended up getting hurt.They are trying to protect their friends from being hurt. Understand your plates and her friends perspective. Their friends will never encourage a girl to keep a guy that makes her cry and feel insecure like a chad does. But even with friends advice the girl will rationalize for a while. The worst is sometimes sisterhoods will literally go out and practically force their girl to hook up…
/r/askTRP29/04/16 06:53 PM
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You did perfect. She was probing gor comitment, you didnt give it. When she asked about the kissing the guy at the club thing she wanted to see if you at least cared about her. Your response was good since it showed two things, yes you do care about her a bit or you would keep on seeing her even if she did kiss another guy. But you respect yourself enough to cut her off if she did But you said if she did you wouldnt talk to her again which showed you at least cared a bit which gives her hope tha…
/r/askTRP29/04/16 03:00 PM
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The only times ive had girls apologize was for shit i literally didnt care about and wondered why they would apologize for that lol.
/r/TheRedPill29/04/16 06:13 AM
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This is the best and most effective way i have seen frame explained. You could literally FEEL frame and when a women is testing yours and then just poof your firewall blocks it.
/r/TheRedPill29/04/16 05:51 AM
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Pretty much confirms all redpill truths that sex is really all women have to offer even when apologizing.
/r/TheRedPill29/04/16 05:38 AM
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Cant tonight. Busy. What girls tell orbiters
/r/TheRedPill29/04/16 04:59 AM
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Yeah, best way to really get her hamster rolling is to ghost the shit out of her, than once in a while im talking like once a month or two , view her story on snapchat, like a picture. If you ignore to much shell move on, but if you show up once in a while shell go yap to her friends'' OMG chad just liked my picture, viewed my story , what does it mean?Is he thinking about me? Did he like it by accident.. blahblahblah than she texts you and you ignore her text. OMG chad ignored my text, snap etc…
/r/TheRedPill28/04/16 11:56 PM
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Personally man I would next her, I know people here say its just a plate . I like my plates to pretty much worship me and a her fucking another guy means that in that moment , she saw him as more than you. Another thing you might consider is maybe shes trying to see how commited you might be. She did this to see youre reaction and if you show youre hurt shell know you like her as more.
/r/askTRP28/04/16 09:37 PM
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silence really kills them, their hamster blows everything out of proportion and amplifies how good and awesome you were and suddenly you become ''the one that got away''
/r/TheRedPill28/04/16 09:11 PM
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you can literally alpha widow a girl by never talking to her again especially if you left when she see you as an alpha. Once a girl i was fucking got pissy because i left in the morning without telling her. The next week when i tried to set up something she declined to get back to me. I didnt care that much about her so i decided to never contact her again. After a month no contact i guess she figured she wouldnt hear from me again and she started liking all kinds of depressive quotes saying shi…
/r/TheRedPill28/04/16 09:05 PM
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I had no expectations to manage she had a bf and even if she didnt it its not my job.
/r/TheRedPill28/04/16 12:57 AM
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Shes she might try harder to please you, but she must know she has a chance. If she feels she has no chance she'll leave. Yes it good to show alot of alpha traits but if you NEVER show beta traits she thinks you dont care and that she has no chance of comitment she will stop proving her self to you and leave you. Im a very aloof person and the times i got the hottest sex from my girls, plates was when i did something(on purpose) that showed them i cared(beta trait) and wasnt just using them. Tha…
/r/TheRedPill27/04/16 09:49 PM
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I disagree.IMO its the perfect dread. She knows you can fly off anytime. But feels enough comfort that she a bit special. Ideal dread is a girl KNOWING you can fly off anytime but wont if she keeps her A game.
/r/TheRedPill27/04/16 09:23 PM
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Sometimes though its to gain comfort from you. If your SMV is high compared to hers and shes say another girl is beautiful, she wants you to reassure her that shes beautiful(shes insecure the relationship). Its all about balance. Sometimes biting on beta bait( only sometimes) is better than just delflecting everything than she gets insecure and starts comfort testing nononstop.
/r/TheRedPill27/04/16 09:21 PM
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agreed lock screen notifications make the dread to blatant. Just the text symbol makes her hamster run better.
/r/TheRedPill27/04/16 09:07 PM
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you think she would lie to her bf about having that that hilarious if true lol , dont see why she would lie to me about it though.
/r/TheRedPill27/04/16 09:01 PM
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IMO thats to much its to blatant. Its not good if its too blatant.
/r/TheRedPill27/04/16 09:00 PM
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yeah but it does work a bit also sometimes girl will say omg that girl is beautiful and if you agree with her, her hamster starts spinning also.
/r/TheRedPill27/04/16 08:58 PM
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Lol ive had sex with a girl who was on vacation with her mom dad and sister. If a guys chad enough shell fuck him.
/r/askTRP27/04/16 04:56 AM
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bingo, she was talking about her multiple ex bfs because as she told you shes getting '' worried'' of the relationship. She was trying to get a reaction out of you. Its okay to show that you care once in a while thats why she was saying wait are you mad at me?. She was actually happy that you were.
/r/askTRP24/04/16 01:49 AM
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Yeah ive always had a hard time with this. My status out of work is good and i feel at work i dont get treated as well and it pisses me off. Good point though. But the situation is hard to understand in short because of something that happened people now have preconcieved notions me which makes them talk down to me. Which is something that didnt happen when i first came in. Its easy to say suck it up. But its actuallt starting to affect my confidence out of work also.
/r/askTRP11/04/16 04:22 PM
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If i step out i wouldnt come back. Dont see how the union would be vindicative
/r/askTRP11/04/16 04:13 PM
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Yeah i meant status
/r/askTRP11/04/16 04:11 PM
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She probably didnt even date other guys .she was saying that to see if it would bother you ( if it did it meant you actually care about her and shes not just a hole) . Pretty sure she was quite happy after telling you shed stop dating right?
/r/askTRP11/04/16 04:11 PM
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Bingo and it worked
/r/askTRP11/04/16 04:08 PM
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No not how sexy i am just generall status in the place.
/r/askTRP11/04/16 04:01 PM
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I thought of enlisting just for the proof then dropping out . Your idea is good but i need proof at first a paper or something that shows im doing humanitarian work.
/r/askTRP11/04/16 01:20 PM
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Probably more than a month no limit in mind. And yeah my union allows sabatical leaves but only for humanitarian travel. They dont allow for regular travel.
/r/askTRP11/04/16 12:54 PM
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Yep I noticed the same thing. Not saying this to sound pretentious.Now that my SMV is higher my old friends who knew me with lower SMV never invite me out anymore. The last time I went with them, without me even trying their gfs were punching my arm grabbing me and shit and asking me instead of them were we were going next. Time before that my buddy came with a date and the date was practically not even listening to him and kicking me under the table to get my attention while i was ignoring. I n…
/r/askTRP10/04/16 06:02 AM
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Great post, many people on redpill dont understand that aloof game will lose them average girls especially if their smv is going up. She will think you dont give a shit and go cold to protect herself. I agree with hotter girls, but if you smv is starting to get high even they will grow cold if you start being to aloof for to long. Initially be aloof as fuck thiugh.
/r/TheRedPill04/04/16 06:13 PM
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Lol youre a pedo dont bullshit yourself and us. I understand girls may look mature at 14 but youre having thoughts about being with younger specifically finding excuses to why you cant find one of decent age you creep.
/r/askTRP03/04/16 01:01 AM
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Yeah its a very true phenomenon. IMO this is where the path breaks between alpha and sigmas. Its easy to say to meditation and let go of your ego. But imo we are biologically programmed to feel good and our brain releases good chemicals when our smv in a certain group is high. If your smv is low you feel depressed. Meditation will make you feel at peace but never the confidence boost high smv gives. High smv in a school enviroment is what builds alpha males because of all the positive reinforcem…
/r/TheRedPill26/03/16 07:56 AM
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Oh that changes stuff, maybe you did something that pissed her off and she was attempting to give you the silent treatment with that 24 hour text response. On the other hand it could also signal she lost interest. Hard to tell since i dont know everything that happened with both of you but i doubt it if you genuinely followed redpill behaviour.On your first attempt to see her when she was out of town for the weekend, did she offer to see you another day?Did you just ask her to come over? I think…
/r/askTRP19/03/16 08:39 PM
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It wasnt a shit test but a comfort test. Problem with redpill is they think everything is a shit test. The big picture of the comfort test in your situation is shes insecure and feels you dont care since you didnt see her for two weeks. She even asked you and you pretty much ignored and answered as if she was ending things when in fact she was indirectly trying to see if youre using her. With your answers now she got a confirmation you were just using her. Remember its always subcontext with wom…
/r/askTRP19/03/16 03:15 PM
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Lol not at all. Op this girl is actually very much into you. She feels like a slut after you not seeing you for two weeks. This is a comfort test. " i just dont understand why we didnt see each other for two weeks" . Shes feeling insecure and used and you should have comforted to show her you care just a bit. Shes feels you dont give a fuck about her and you must comfort her a bit or shell leave.
/r/askTRP19/03/16 02:59 PM
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It seems mind boggling logically but emptionally it makes a lot of sense. When she brings up other guys and you have a reaction , it shows her you care even if just a bit which means there might be potential and that shes not just another hole
/r/TheRedPill14/03/16 03:57 PM
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Actually the answer you give shows you care, just in a butthurt way so always remember the subcontext of you reacting that way is" he said that because he didnt like me talking about other guys which means her cares"
/r/TheRedPill14/03/16 03:54 PM
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See thats what you have to be careful with, a girl may not necrssarily be shit testing you talking about other guys. She might be comfort testing you and by answering the way you said you fail the comfort test. Its always depending how the girl perceives you. If she starts seeing you much above her she will comofort test you. Yoour second reply" dont talk to me about other guys , it kills my....." Is ok since at least it shows her you dont like it when she talks about other guys so it shows you …
/r/TheRedPill14/03/16 09:15 AM
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Yep, careful dont push it to far she will stop seeing you to not hurt her feelings
/r/TheRedPill14/03/16 08:59 AM
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Man, what are you saying lol. you dont use dread on a girl who already thinks you dont give a shit. This is a comfort test op must give her a bit more attention not full beta. if he doesnt he will lose her.
/r/askTRP12/03/16 04:36 AM
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Main problem of redpill. Not everything is a shit test. This is a Comfort test. You were acting in a way that showed you didnt give a shit about her.In order to show you she has value in other guys eyes she told you this. (It might not even be true)By answering "you should"you just made her feel like you didnt care even more. You failed this comfort test.
/r/askTRP11/03/16 11:27 AM
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Yeah i thought of that to lol. But the guy seems pretty alpha. Its just an ego thing not even jelousy, my plates in my city are much more attractive than her. I guess its just my ego getting to big from sucesses
/r/askTRP11/03/16 12:32 AM
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sloots gon sloot. thing is i could tell shes chasing that guy now but yeah.
/r/askTRP10/03/16 01:58 AM
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yep i know its just fucking with me but thanks.
/r/askTRP10/03/16 01:54 AM
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Yeah, ive already researched comfort shit test but theres not much about it on this site. I would be very helpful for naturally stoic guys to help balance how much to give.
/r/askTRP02/03/16 02:29 PM
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You dont keep interest alive by texting. Keep her hamster running(why is he not texting me?)What i usually do is text for logistics and if she snapchats me, ill usually send one snap of an inside joke between us.
/r/askTRP02/03/16 11:12 AM
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Agreed I did give her the feeling i was bothered a bit , she knows or i would of said bye to her. On the walk home she wouldnt stop asking why im pissed and why i left without telling her and she had a huge smile on her face. This is not a case that walking away made her think i dont put up with shit. This is a case of walking away making her think her flirting got to me. Always subcontext.
/r/askTRP02/03/16 09:53 AM
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Relax i didnt pick her up i was with her.
/r/askTRP02/03/16 01:48 AM
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this thinking is one of the main problems of this sub. Women will try to get and emotional reaction out of you(when she gets insecure or thinks you dont care) and sometimes giving one is actually better than not.
/r/askTRP02/03/16 01:47 AM
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Yeah wouldnt stop asking why are you pissed and i was like lol im not pissed why would i be pissed. So she knew i was "feeling" mad It just shows how people have trouble with framing and subcontext considering most upvotes went to the guy who said it was because she was scared to lose me and i held me frame who has the most upvotes. Yes, logically it looks like that but emotionally thats not how a girl looks at it. Put yourself in the girls shoes guys if a girl walks away because you're flirting…
/r/askTRP02/03/16 01:21 AM
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I get where you're coming from but trust me walking away makes them think im mad ive done it a few times. Yes "i dont deal with this shit" but the subcontext as always with women " he walked away since it had an impact" being stoic imo would of been to just hand out with my friends ignoring the fact she was flirting. Imagine a girl walking away because you were flirting with other girls? What would you think. Shes mad.
/r/askTRP02/03/16 12:34 AM
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Care to elaborate man?
/r/askTRP01/03/16 11:43 PM
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Dont think so man. She was flirting to see if i actually cared as i dimissed her all night. The only way me flirting with other girls would work is if she thought it was in reaction to her flirting( as in me trying to get her jelous) It wasnt the time to use dread game on her since she was already feeling dread from me.
/r/askTRP01/03/16 11:17 PM
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Yeah theres not enough about Comfort tests in this sub. Especially our smv goes up girls will feel more and more insecure and if you keep being to stoic especially after sex she thinks you dont give a shit about her. And from experiece unlike what repill mainly says girls like to know we do care even if its just a bit. Or they get bitter and cold and resent you.
/r/askTRP01/03/16 11:13 PM
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IMO which was my intention also was for her to see i was a bit jelous by walking away. It showed her talking to other guys had a bit of an effect on me. When i kept maintaining frame she just kept escalating and escaltaing. The moment I showed a bit of emotion she became super affectionate. If i would of kept doing this she probably would of given up thats more what i meant.
/r/askTRP01/03/16 11:11 PM
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Yeah more a long distance plate id see only when she comes to my city. Ill just keep pn doing what im doing.
/r/askTRP24/02/16 02:27 PM
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Ive fucked girls first night that became obsessed by me . I wasnt surprises to be honest more my ego than anything
/r/askTRP24/02/16 12:41 AM
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I agree
/r/askTRP24/02/16 12:38 AM
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And i think you need to calm down with the gaming we fucked many times already it usually before that girls shit test
/r/askTRP23/02/16 10:57 PM
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She did to that to me on vacation to try to male me jelous but i ignored it. But she really did meet a guy after not to make me jelous i wasnt there
/r/askTRP23/02/16 10:55 PM
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Good actually, and my last job which i was good at very respected although hated by some
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