garbageplay Archive

Upvotes	Title	Category	Author	Subreddit	Date (UTC)

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10	Womens body count Most women I know over 30 are somewhere between 8 and 18 body count. And literally no one I know cares. Only people that frequent places like this for "relationship advice, if it can even be called that, care one iota. Secondarily, asking why someone would assume a person has a higher body count is futile, because slightly more or less sexual experience doesn't change a person's personality in any perceptible or measurable way whatsoever. Unless you are on the far far extremes of being celibate …	/r/PurplePillDebate	30/07/22 06:49 PM
1	Even women in their 30s and 40s, well past their prime have almost the same level of entitlement (sometimes even more) as younger women. This is further confirmation that women are completely delusional in their self assessment, far worse than men in this regard. It literally means to pay for your check. What world do you live in? I don't agree with his view, but OP didn't mention sex at all. You all went insaneo style with the assumptions here lol.	/r/PurplePillDebate	25/07/22 09:23 PM
8	Why Are You On PPD? And men. Both sides here are popcorn-worthy most days. What I notice the most is people projecting their view while looking for validation of poor behavior instead of welcoming an actual discussion on ways to improve.	/r/PurplePillDebate	18/07/22 12:36 AM
1	Why Are You On PPD? I'll have you know I graduated top of my class...	/r/PurplePillDebate	18/07/22 12:33 AM
7	Which one of these three guys would you prefer for a relationship and why? I would like to posit a more difficult choice: All things the same but - They're both 29 to account for below. They're both seeking LTRs. Mario N count is 7, but none of his relationship have lasted over 6 months with the average being 3-4. Dario is 14, and 3 of his relationships lasted 2+ years almost resulting in marriage, but didn't work out. (The rest were short relationships in between seeking a ltr.)	/r/PurplePillDebate	17/07/22 05:49 PM
7	Guys cannot claim they have low standards if they wont date overweight women. Ooooh. I see the projecting now. She wants to be validated. Yeah I reading this thread thinking that there's nothing wrong with healthy athletic people wanting to date other healthy athletic people. Just the same way educated people often prefer to date other educated people. That's why dating pools exist. There's absolutely nothing wrong with wanting to date your equivalent.	/r/PurplePillDebate	17/07/22 04:39 PM
7	Is it really this complicated? reddit relationship subs represent a very very small and often misguided portion of the extreme 10% outliers on the bell curve of normal human interpersonal interaction. None of this will be good for you. And no, it's not really that hard. Stay educated (consider a STEM degree), read self help books (not trp) about how to develop your interpersonal and social skills, take care of your body, dress nice, and join a meetup group for like kickball or sailing or something and you'll do fine.	/r/PurplePillDebate	02/07/22 08:30 PM
10	True or false, women on this sub are more likely NOT representative of the majority of the population but the men on here ARE Yeah it's completely insane. OPs stance is that a debate subreddit, with people of all genders and all ages, from countries all over the world, somehow accurate depicts men but inaccurately depicts women? If anything, the sub misrepresents both genders equally due to higher concentration of less modern cultural biases from developing countries where equality isn't the norm than what one encounters irl daily. I live in a major metropolitan area and deal with hundreds of people weekly. I'd hazard …	/r/PurplePillDebate	30/06/22 04:32 PM
3	What sort of "intelligence" are women attracted to? As for me, being knowledgeable in a lot of areas (politics, health, medicine, psychology, engineering, etc.) was generally a plus. Just having a huge vocabulary and a good command of the English language along with critical thinking skills is enough to become decent at most topics. My ex was an engilsh major and it took her no time to pick up on philosophy and debate. She works in data science now with no formal training. That was pretty hot ;)	/r/PurplePillDebate	24/06/22 02:34 AM
3	So you want women to "lower their standards" but at the same time "not settle" for you....HOW is that possible? Ah. Yeah fuck that. That's a completely unfair double standard if they do. I fully expect (hope) my future life partner will have had her fair share of flings before deciding to take it slow with the person she respects enough to spend the rest of her life with. I'd much rather settle down with someone who knows they've explored their options (and I made the top of that list) than someone who's still wondering what else is out there. Wouldn't you agree?	/r/PurplePillDebate	21/06/22 11:46 PM
9	So you want women to "lower their standards" but at the same time "not settle" for you....HOW is that possible? they get upset when there aren't enough virgins or low n count women available for them to settle down with. but they also expect a young virgin, or low n count women to be available That viewpoint is tunnel vision caused by spending too much time on reddit/purplepilldebate etc Faaaar fewer people care about that in the real world. 90% of people I know expect women to have had multiple partners and think double digits are perfectly fine for both sexes. (You'd have a really fucking hard time gett…	/r/PurplePillDebate	21/06/22 05:05 PM
5	So you want women to "lower their standards" but at the same time "not settle" for you....HOW is that possible? but will then take it slow with a woman they're actually interested in settling down with. I'm having a hard time figuring out why you present that as if it's a bad thing?	/r/PurplePillDebate	21/06/22 04:53 PM
4	Lack of relevant social circles is bad, here's the main reason. Meh. I flirt with everyone pretty equally. Never been a problem because I know boundaries and signals.	/r/PurplePillDebate	02/06/22 03:45 PM
4	Lack of relevant social circles is bad, here's the main reason. Meetups are huge if you're not into sports and maybe a little more nerdy. March for Science, Maker meetups, Battlebots, Hackathons, etc. The ratios can be low though, so the best are to get involved in the arts+science community mashups that have more 50/50. Sadly for most, this only works in large metros, but it works very well. I had more 'introductions' through mutual friends that turned into dates and more in these communities than even in college. And definitely more quality pre-selection o…	/r/PurplePillDebate	02/06/22 03:42 PM
3	TrueRateMe's "objective" attractiveness rating scheme is easily debunked Because they hand out bans like candy for "over rating" based on the mods preference. It's a weird sub that only serves to further confuse young men and women.	/r/PurplePillDebate	02/05/22 06:21 PM
7	Women, how do you like being approached/hit on It's only a crime if you don't get em scattered smothered and double covered ;)	/r/PurplePillDebate	02/05/22 05:20 PM
8	Women, how do you like being approached/hit on How exactly is anyone supposed to know she's waiting for a friend?	/r/PurplePillDebate	02/05/22 05:14 PM
9	Women, how do you like being approached/hit on Maybe you live in a small town? There's a jukebox in a ton of both restaurants and bars here in Nashville. Hell, every pool hall has a jukebox, even every waffle house has a jukebox. (I've noticed the same thing in both LA and Miami.)	/r/PurplePillDebate	02/05/22 05:10 PM
4	What are some dating hills that you will die on? To be fair, people in FAANGMULA stem circles or finance/consulting live in a completely different universe than the rest of the world. When I tell people the salaries I'm turning down they think I'm batshit crazy until I show them levels.fyi. How do you like the bay area nowadays btw? I've considered out there but the peninsula looks rough with no signs of getting better. Breaks my heart bc it's beautiful.	/r/PurplePillDebate	23/04/22 08:53 PM
5	Why exactly does pornography bother you? Just FYI, it's not normal for guys to be weirded out about tampons, or anything involving periods really. Now the Kardashians, I have no clue.	/r/PurplePillDebate	19/02/22 01:17 AM
8	Why exactly does pornography bother you? I’m not being second choice to a screen While I'm cool with this, people forget it goes both ways. I've seen some of my friends relationships rapidly turn in to: "No, you can't watch porn or masturbate. And also I don't like sex more than once a month or less and anything more means you're a sexist horndog who isn't respecting my boundaries."	/r/PurplePillDebate	19/02/22 01:13 AM
0	Why Do You Think Most Men Instinctively Care About N Count? I don't run into many guys who do care about n count. Which is why it's always so strange here. Because literally no one outside of this sub cares since there's literally nothing backing it outside of redpill garbage logic. Plus... The entire title of this post is a loaded logical fallacy with the presumption in the statement, aka "begging the question". The fact that no one has even mentioned that whilst falling over themselves to argue with each other is quite telling about the state of affair…	/r/PurplePillDebate	10/02/22 05:53 AM
4	Men who plan to marry in their 40s are ruining the dating market As a guy who got mistaken for 18-19 all throughout my 20s I can confidently say that dating got significantly easier when I grew into a more rugged look in my 30s. Literally no one bats and eye at the age gap. I guess it probably helps that I'm fit. But I honestly don't have many friends who aren't. I think different social groups just have different standards.	/r/PurplePillDebate	16/01/22 06:38 PM
11	Men who plan to marry in their 40s are ruining the dating market They think if they project hard enough it will magically become true.	/r/PurplePillDebate	16/01/22 05:23 PM
0	Have you learned anything valuable from this subreddit? Yeah that post is ridiculous and seems to originate from some sort of addiction support group. Many of my subs are science, education, engineering, psychology, personal development, etc. Reddit is what you make of it, and it's an incredible resource. I learn things constantly when I'm here. Edit: uhm ok. Which part is being downvoted? The part about where the post originates from? (Which is true) or the part contesting that it's somehow not possible to learn things from reddit? (Factually incorr…	/r/PurplePillDebate	07/12/21 06:10 AM
1	Absolute dealbreakers for dating Whelp I'm screwed then. When I was working as a COO I went the Steve Jobs route and found the perfect fitted dress shirt and slacks that I liked, then bought 6 pairs to wear to work every day so that I don't have to think about it. I still wear different t-shirts under, and when I'm being casual, but when I'm dressed up I have one look: it's sharp as hell, it's a tailored fit, and it suits me. Honestly, I'm perfectly happy to be pre-filtered out of some people's selection bias due to my choice t…	/r/PurplePillDebate	30/09/21 01:44 PM
1	Absolute dealbreakers for dating .	/r/PurplePillDebate	30/09/21 01:30 PM
2	Absolute dealbreakers for dating I keep looking for my ride or die and I keep finding my take it or leave it 🤷‍♀️	/r/PurplePillDebate	30/09/21 01:08 PM
1	Which group was the biggest winner and biggest loser when dating switched to online? never mind the car, let's talk about the henge.	/r/PurplePillDebate	30/09/21 01:40 AM
2	Which group was the biggest winner and biggest loser when dating switched to online? .	/r/PurplePillDebate	30/09/21 01:38 AM
3	Which group was the biggest winner and biggest loser when dating switched to online? Ain't that the truth. I swear I'm about to just move my okc profile over to the pinned section here.	/r/PurplePillDebate	30/09/21 01:28 AM
1	CMV: no one is sexually attracted to money, accomplishments or intelligence. A surprising amount of people don't unfortunately. That's why they do so well.	/r/PurplePillDebate	19/09/21 03:24 PM
5	Would you rather women be more lenient with LOOKS standards.....or FRAME standards Honestly the most Chad thing you can do is be yourself and own it.	/r/PurplePillDebate	14/08/21 08:33 PM
5	Hypocrites all around the shop Were you hit in the head by a bull? I'm more interested in this line. Like, is that common enough in your part of the world that it's an idiom? 🤣	/r/PurplePillDebate	19/10/20 08:59 PM
8	The issue isn't buying things for your girl. The issue is that you feel ENTITLED that I buy YOU things BECAUSE you're my girl. Lol that's what I was thinking. Maybe I'm just spoiled by emotionally healthy relationships.	/r/PurplePillDebate	15/10/20 03:20 PM
3	If the n count obsession is about avoiding infidelity, why aren't male n count discussed? Same. All sounds completely insane to me. My n count is in the high teens. My sig other is in the mid teens. I would be worried if it were in the single digits because she might want to explore more or feel like she's missed out. But this way we both know exactly what we like and who we want to be with, which is each other. Tldr I think low n count is more likely to go "explore" than a high n count.	/r/PurplePillDebate	27/07/20 01:51 PM
1	Should men feel guilty for being attracted to teenage girls? Why are people saying you can't work at 16? Some state law? Or other country?	/r/PurplePillDebate	29/01/20 09:13 AM
1	How many dates would you go on within three months? the fds sub is some of the most toxic shit I have ever seen in my life. And I seriously thought trp was bad. There is some completely fucking lunacy going on over at fds.	/r/PurplePillDebate	13/12/19 07:06 AM
0	How many dates would you go on within three months? I literally do this for both my guy and girl friends occasionally and depending on the situation. And they in turn hit me back, or leave 50 bucks of booze at my house or just do something kind in return. I don't understand what's so weird about it.	/r/PurplePillDebate	13/12/19 07:03 AM
2	What would the dating market and the world in general look like if everyone looked the same? I had an interesting mental experience on my first trip to the west coast about 10 years ago: I've lived in the south for the majority of my life. I take care of my body, workout, decent looking. But the overwhelming majority of people here don't. Above average (fat) is considered normal, obese is even somewhat glorified. Heavy couples were the majority of what you saw prior to the last 5 years or so. Despite that, fit people are often made fun of and it even made it harder to date than it shoul…	/r/PurplePillDebate	08/11/19 05:24 PM
1	Women who are 18-24 arent going for guys who are 35-40s When you see a hot well-maintained 30-40 year old, you just assume they're much younger. Ding ding ding! Unless they're checking everyone's age OP and friends likely don't even realize the 30-40 year-olds passing for late 20s around them. Both my parents looked like teens in their 20s, looked in their late 20s well into their 40s, and look like their 30s currently in their 50s. I make a game out of it and let people guess my age. No one believes there's any way I'm over 30. This whole post is wi…	/r/PurplePillDebate	26/10/19 11:45 AM
2	Women who are 18-24 arent going for guys who are 35-40s Not always. That's quite the blanket statement there. I was 32 dating a 22 year old hanging out with our 26ish year old work buddies. No one thought I was even over 27 when people's birthdays came up.	/r/PurplePillDebate	26/10/19 11:35 AM
4	Women who are 18-24 arent going for guys who are 35-40s Sigh. Yep. This is pretty much op's whole argument in a nutshell, "I, therefore everyone".	/r/PurplePillDebate	26/10/19 11:31 AM
3	PSA: Women’s ability to have casual sex has no significant positive impact on our lives. Propositions for casual sex evokes the same emotions as when your cat offers you a beheaded mouse to eat. This is the best thing I've read all week. The raised eyebrow, head cocked, pursed lipped "Thanks?" Really captures it better than I've ever imagined before :)	/r/PurplePillDebate	24/10/19 03:35 AM
13	Is this female entitlement? Why does this 30+ woman thinks men should pursue her? Many years ago pretty much everyone was. So weird looking at group photos from the 70s and not seeing rampant health problems.	/r/PurplePillDebate	19/10/19 10:40 AM
2	A little motivation for the men of this sub Ayeeee	/r/PurplePillDebate	15/10/19 05:38 PM
18	The fact that the most offensive thing you could ask a woman about is her age inevitably proves that women are aware of the wall itself I feel like I'm in the minority around here in wanting to find a companion I can grow old with. I tend to get pretty blinded by love and by the time any sort of wall exists for my hypothetical future wife I imagine I'll be too old and wrinkly to care anyway. By that point I imagine family will be our priority anyway.	/r/PurplePillDebate	11/10/19 10:29 PM
21	Wouldn't you just end up with dead-beadrooms, if you force women into relationships with unattractive men Beauty fades, but shitposting memes together is eternal ( ͡° ͜ʖ ͡°)	/r/PurplePillDebate	06/10/19 07:03 AM
27	Wouldn't you just end up with dead-beadrooms, if you force women into relationships with unattractive men Wish more people on both sides were like this. Too many have unreasonable expectations. What are people planning on doing when they are 60 and old and wrinkly and nothing applies anymore other than these little things and the bond you have?	/r/PurplePillDebate	06/10/19 05:34 AM
1	Q4Men Do you find women who love sex to be disgusting sluts? you fucking retard All reasonable conversation ends when you say trashy stuff like this. When a person responds to anything they feel strongly about with name-calling in vitriol it pretty much proves their low value.	/r/PurplePillDebate	05/10/19 04:31 PM
1	It Doesn't Matter If Men Do It Too. Didn't you just recently post this? I get off really quickly (I think it's because I've been masturbating almost daily since I was 4 years old) Do you find that hypocritical?	/r/PurplePillDebate	05/10/19 04:22 PM
1	Investing on a man with potential or only dating men already successful? A subset (y) of a set (x) can only be all inclusive if the exclusions you're using to define y are literally the only factors. Masculinity or ambition are not the only reasons why people may not want to be stay at home parents and I can think of multiple things that fall outside of that range right now. Though I do understand that it's possible, in your world view, for those to be the only reasons, and that's OK, but it doesn't make it correct. I guess I could have been nicer but: I know reading…	/r/PurplePillDebate	04/10/19 09:33 PM
1	Investing on a man with potential or only dating men already successful? Wasn't talking about you specifically... You kinda said everyone there.	/r/PurplePillDebate	04/10/19 09:05 PM
16	Investing on a man with potential or only dating men already successful? The Jeff Bezos thing came out of nowhere but it was his wife that wanted the divorce, not him. His wife was incredibly committed and a pretty big part of his success over the years. It's unfortunate the way things went down but 100% his fault.	/r/PurplePillDebate	04/10/19 09:02 PM
1	Q4Men Do you find women who love sex to be disgusting sluts? Based on your post history about not enjoying sex, I am guessing that you are projecting. There are plenty of high libido committed women out there who enjoy sex just as much or more than men. Lol no it's not. Sex isn't that great for [some] women. It's not some big reward like it is for [some] men. ftfy	/r/PurplePillDebate	04/10/19 04:35 PM
1	The complex issue of a sexual past ...can anyone else here relate? I agree when it's in extreme outliers. And of course, I probably shouldn't frame anyone else's extreme boundaries with my own. But in the particular context of the facts give (But one abortion, 12-15 guys, and a little fooling around to his 7) it does not seem like any of those flags are there.	/r/PurplePillDebate	26/09/19 06:13 PM
4	The complex issue of a sexual past ...can anyone else here relate? So now I am like "OK, we need to have a talk about this girl's history". Why? Why is her sexual history all that important or even matter to you? My partner's sexual history doesn't. that she had been pretty sexually active when she was younger, and even had an abortion at 18. I was an inch from breaking up with her right then and there, and I didn't cool off until the next morning WHAT? Breaking up with her for what exactly? What on earth did you need to cool off for? The fact that she had an a…	/r/PurplePillDebate	26/09/19 04:56 PM