gardenofeden123 Archive

Upvotes	Title	Category	Author	Subreddit	Date (UTC)

Upvotes	Comment on	Subreddit	Date (UTC)
5	Become a Host (and Bang the Participants) Status is one of the highest drives of sexual attention, if not the highest. OP is basically saying use these methods as a female aphrodisiac. I don’t think there’s anything inherently wrong with that. Women fuck their bosses all the time.	/r/seduction	03/01/26 01:54 AM
1	Daygame 2025 stats reveal Because girls from tinder are fucking grim.	/r/seduction	01/01/26 09:47 PM
1	Daygame 2025 stats reveal The standards of girls from day game are obv going to be higher than girls from an app	/r/seduction	01/01/26 08:41 PM
6	Daygame 2025 stats reveal It kinda is though. Every wasted interaction and blowout feels nothing compared to succeeding in getting with someone from daygame.	/r/seduction	01/01/26 08:34 PM
2	Dating women closer to 40s I’d say women peak in their late 30’s/early 40’s. It seems unfortunate you can’t find any attractive women at that age around you - there’s plenty in London. The best ones are coming off from a long term relationship and just want to have fun. Honestly I can’t be bothered with younger girls anymore. Once you get older I’d say the minimum I’d go for is 28. As well as looks I’m also in the need for a girl who has her head screwed on.	/r/seduction	31/12/25 11:10 AM
15	Men over 60: Be honest. Has your sex drive or sexual appetite changed from when you were in your 20s? I feel like every other man is on TRT these days. Am I missing out on something?	/r/seduction	28/12/25 02:58 AM
4	How is game in the UK? Obviously it massively depends on what type of immigrant you are, your age, do you have an accent etc London might be liberal but these facets are inescapable. In terms of day and night game it’s the same massive grind it is anywhere. Results are achieveable with persistence.	/r/seduction	28/11/25 11:54 PM
5	How many of you are using condoms? None. Women never ask.	/r/seduction	24/11/25 12:59 PM
4	do girls prefer guys that barely text them? Hahahahaha	/r/seduction	18/10/25 11:20 AM
1	Has directly asking women you have known for a while to fuck actually work? Yeah absolutely. I imagine you have to work much harder than everyone else but it pays off hard once you wrap your head around it. Wish you all the best my bro.	/r/seduction	14/08/25 10:33 PM
2	Has directly asking women you have known for a while to fuck actually work? Not saying you can’t. The best cold approachers I’ve ever seen have been autistic guys.	/r/seduction	11/08/25 12:48 PM
37	Has directly asking women you have known for a while to fuck actually work? There’s no point asking this question. OP is logical, blunt and doesn’t understand why this might be socially problematic. He doesn’t just have the tism. He is the tism.	/r/seduction	09/08/25 01:32 PM
3	How many times have you guys gotten laid from cold approach Cold approach isn’t a magic bullet and excruciatingly hard to get good at. Once you do get good though then the world is your oyster. Combine a good cold approach with solid game and a strong physical appearance and you can bag maybe 10% of girls you approach to your bedroom. If you want that insane hit rate though you’re gonna need to be ready to graft, and not just on learning to approach women successfully.	/r/seduction	06/06/25 03:53 PM
5	I have a very close female friend but, I really want us to have a casual sexual relationship. Because everyone else is getting some from this girl, except him	/r/seduction	10/05/25 07:16 PM
0	I hunt Gold Diggers with a Prank Bank App and I don't feel bad It’s manipulation which doesn’t fit here.	/r/seduction	09/04/25 11:07 PM
2	Where to find “good girls” There is no rule. I volunteer and have a female dominated job, but I never met a girl that way as the best ones always seem to be unavailable. Cold approach is the best way to widen your scope of women.	/r/seduction	22/03/25 06:04 PM
2	Where to find “good girls” You’re gonna have to be more specific boss	/r/seduction	22/03/25 06:03 PM
2	“Women don’t need seduction” myth needs to stop Girl game is essentially what the Female Dating Strategy subreddit was a few years ago (does it still exist?) I mean Jesus Christ you want to avoid that shit like the plague if you’re female	/r/seduction	08/03/25 12:50 AM
25	How can I find milfs to hookup with? Aside from the usual cold approach/online stuff, make sure you’re working extremely hard on your physical appearance. A MILF will want to see that any younger man knows how to dress and groom themselves appropriately and has a clear gym body. MILFS aren’t so interested in the game either. Don’t be cocky and overconfident, they’ll see right through it. Be kind and respectful, but persistent, and they’ll appreciate it.	/r/seduction	01/03/25 05:29 AM
0	What worked? In order of effectiveness (imo) Weights Fashion Inner game Social circle Finances Skin care	/r/seduction	25/02/25 07:23 PM
2	Want to ask out this Dentist Damn those are horrible ideas you have lol. Just leave it bro. She’s a professional who is doing her job. She doesn’t want to be asked out by a client.	/r/seduction	25/02/25 07:21 PM
6	People who had bad approach anxiety, How did you get over it ? By approaching. You have to take away the expectations from the interaction. Don’t worry about your opener, your conversation, the close etc Just worry about stopping the girl and saying hello. Do that 20-30 times without having any expectation about the outcome.	/r/seduction	23/02/25 12:16 PM
23	To all the experienced guys here: Does casual sex increase happiness? Casual sex - absolutely. Having 3-4 girls on rotation, all of whom are aware and happy to be FWB’s, is the absolute peak imo. One night stands - nah.	/r/seduction	20/02/25 04:36 PM
2	You’ve got a better chance at a Rave than a Bar/club Just don’t fall in love with a rave girl hahahah	/r/seduction	30/12/24 03:39 PM
5	Do you cold approach without public IOIs from women? Most of the time it doesn’t work. But when it does it’s totally worth it!	/r/seduction	23/12/24 05:06 PM
4	Top Reasons Why You Can't Get Laid Lol if you’re in good shape, good finances and know how to dress well you’ll kill it at this age. Anyone who can’t get laid when they’re 35+ has themselves to blame because you’re hardly competing with anyone at this stage.	/r/seduction	23/12/24 01:29 PM
3	Blocking vs. Disengaging: What’s the Best Move for Self-Respect and Attraction? All blocking shows is that you’re a butthutt beta male. If a girl isn’t showing your respect, reflect on the possible reasons why and then learn from that. Then swiftly move on to other girls. When you do that you don’t need to block anybody.	/r/seduction	15/12/24 08:56 PM
7	How do you guys deal with a girl in your rotation who wants to be exclusive but you don't? If you are so inclined you could imply you’re not looking for anything right now but it may change in the future. I think that’s a bit cruel though seeing as you have a roster and want to keep it that way. I’d recommend being honest, that right now you aren’t looking to settle down, and you’ll respect whatever decision she makes based on that information.	/r/seduction	15/12/24 08:50 PM
9	How do I ask my neighbor for a hookup ? Who gives a fuck. I banged my literal next door neighbour and it was awkward for months. Still glad I banged though.	/r/seduction	15/12/24 07:56 PM
36	How do I ask my neighbor for a hookup ? Lol she came over alone, got drunk with you 1 on 1, and stayed until 4am. She was DTF. You missed an open goal. I’d suggest planning that exact scenario again but this time you need to make an actual move on her. There’s a decent possibility you’ve already blown the only chance you’re gonna get with her. Not making a move + a platonic conversation definitely wouldn’t have got her wet. You’ve gone down in her estimation now. The only question is whether it’s recoverable.	/r/seduction	15/12/24 07:54 PM
1	How to get a threesome If you know any open minded girls through work, social circles etc then just ask in a calibrated way. You have to pick your spots, but given you’ve got a partner ready to go then you have a reasonable chance of the right kind of girl saying yes.	/r/seduction	13/12/24 04:03 PM
3	How do I get white girls as a black guy You’re gonna need to thug maxxx. Wear a chain, sag your jeans, say shit like “on gang” and you’ll have all the Beckies that you could ever want	/r/seduction	12/12/24 11:34 PM
1	how does severely autistic pick up chicks at the club You might need to moneymaxxx, famousmaxxx or desirableskillmaxxx in some way then.	/r/seduction	08/12/24 05:26 PM
1	how does severely autistic pick up chicks at the club Fair enough. As they say, if you meet someone with autism, you have met someone with autism. I went hard on daygame this year and plenty of the guys around me were autistic. Some had zero fear at all and it was incredible to see. Other, perhaps more mildly autistic guys, struggled both with approach anxiety and with how to carry conversations after approach. So yeah it really depends on your autism lol. But if OP hyperfocuses on day game he’s got a good chance of success.	/r/seduction	07/12/24 10:57 PM
1	how does severely autistic pick up chicks at the club Have you tried day game? Some autists can be brilliant at approaching as they don’t feel the anxiety that NT’s do. Day game is a skill you can learn, and if you’re a good listener with no approach anxiety you’re already 50% of the way there.	/r/seduction	07/12/24 10:10 PM
3	How Many Men Actually Get Hook Ups Consistently? I assure you isn’t it hard lol. I did it myself. I went from someone who got hardly any girls to getting them consistently today. It didn’t happen by fluke. I worked hard on my body, fashion, style, picked up some attractive hobbies and learned a lot of game through YouTube and books. I also painstakingly forced myself to do cold approach. Took me about 6 months but paid off easily. Glad i don’t have to approach anymore 😂	/r/seduction	24/11/24 12:55 PM
3	How Many Men Actually Get Hook Ups Consistently? Incorrect. Work hard for 6-12 months and you’ll make it. Most men aren’t even trying so the competition isn’t as hard as you think it is. Top 5% fair enough, you need to be blessed.	/r/seduction	24/11/24 05:32 AM
3	How do you check back in to see if a girl is single Open with something random, feel out her energy and then just ask her to meet you for drinks. Definitely do not ask her if she’s single, just offer her a good time and let her decide what to do.	/r/seduction	23/11/24 09:30 PM
189	How Many Men Actually Get Hook Ups Consistently? You need to post some real life examples if you want actual help on what you’re doing wrong. To answer your title generally it’s assumed that the top 1- 10% of men can get laid easily. The top 11-20% will do pretty well. The remaining 80% are ignored. The proof is in the pudding so if you’ve been trying and failing you’re definitely doing something wrong. Good news is that it isn’t difficult to break into the top 20% but we need to know a lot more about you to tell you what you need to work on.	/r/seduction	23/11/24 02:08 AM
2	Singles nights not going anywhere despite face 2 face success If you want to hear the other side of the outcome, the “party girl” that i knew (who sounds very similar) ended up as a 35 year old single cat lady who can’t hold a relationship down for longer than 3 months. Still attractive and has made a decent amount from her career. But when you’re fucking with celebrities every weekend and have your every wish catered for it’s very hard to come down from that when it runs out.	/r/seduction	15/11/24 10:44 AM
2	How many failed cold approaches do you guys go through before shit works I met my current gf through cold approach and probably did around 50 approaches across several months before meeting her. I got incredibly lucky to meet her so early in the journey I reckon. 50 is on the low end before achieving success. It was hard and I had to slog through many painful and awkward approaches.	/r/seduction	03/11/24 12:56 PM
56	Girl grinded on me for the first time In a setting like this fast escalation is key. Dance with her, kiss her, take her for some shots at the bar, make out with her some more, ask if she wants to go back to your place. This is how one night stands typically work. Oh and make sure her friends like you. Nothing will happen unless they do 😂	/r/seduction	03/11/24 12:31 PM
5	How to text for a hookup? Antifa slayer lol. Anyway, the last thing you ever want to do is text a girl “hey, wanna hookup”. Always maintain the mystery by implying some sort of non sexual activity or plan. Maybe some gentle suggestion but less is more. Let her wonder whether it’ll happen or not. If you’re inviting a girl you’re seeing to yours then it’s pretty obv anyway. If she’s willing to come in most likely she’s happy for something to happen if you play your cards right and don’t blow it.	/r/seduction	10/10/24 03:00 PM
1	Going to a singles event with about 100+ women in attendance (and 100+ men). Any tips on sticking out of the crowd? Exactly but make sure you chat to the guys too, not just the girls	/r/seduction	16/09/24 09:27 AM
1	To the guys who’ve gotten significantly better, how bad do your past fumbles still fuck with you? I wouldn’t be where I am now without my fumbles. If anything I wish I made more fumbles.	/r/seduction	07/09/24 10:27 PM
5	Why is sex such a taboo? Imagine if we could just simply ask the person if they sex like "hey we should have sex sometime?" instead, we play these games and make it complicated You figure it out somehow. It’s rarely heard of to fuck whilst in the same room as others though.	/r/seduction	04/09/24 03:29 PM
2	I fucked up the best opportunity I've ever had Haha, we’ve all been there so don’t worry. Social skills are a muscle and you need to start working on it so in future you’re prepared for spots like this. I’d advise anyone to go through a 6-12 month cold approach regimen. Results don’t matter (though you will deffo get some) but you will learn how to talk to strangers, build comfort and close.	/r/seduction	02/09/24 09:31 PM
–	Are men becoming ok with no sex? Sorry but what an actual load of nonsense. Sex is gatekept yes, but it is not hard for any normal guy to get some. Here’s the part you clearly find tricky - you need to actually gets yourself out there, learn a bit of game and groom himself to at least the best of your potential. Any guy (barring actual physical or mental deformities) can make himself a 6, minimum. If you have actual potential you can even get yourself as high as an 8. But it’ll take some actual work which won’t involve just moa…	/r/PurplePillDebate	03/08/24 03:37 PM
-1	Cold Approach will SAVE you. That’s a good question mate. I actually do cold approaches a fair bit and know a couple of autistic dudes who get involved too. Admittedly they struggle. They come out with tons of numbers through having no fear but it is hard for them to convert that into anything meaningful. You probably are gonna be brilliant at approaching. In terms of improving other aspects I’d probably look at social skills YouTube channels rather than daygamers.	/r/seduction	06/06/24 12:25 PM
10	Cold Approach will SAVE you. There’s tons on YouTube, but the most effective way is to go out and start failing. You do need to be calibrated though so I’d always suggest watching a bunch of material before going out and trying it yourself.	/r/seduction	05/06/24 10:26 PM
5	I've been seeing a lot of guys here say they get ghosted after the first date "went well" and here's the most probable reason why Yeah I agree with you. The idea that you’re still not completely sold on her, that you are attractive to other women, that you have other options etc. diminishes when you’re desperately trying to figure out all ways to get to a close. Uncertainty is exciting and you need that to happen so you aren’t just another guy who finds her attractive and is trying his luck. Just let things flow and if her interest is high enough you’ll close without needing to be desperate anyways.	/r/seduction	27/05/24 11:07 AM
1	How do I keep a girl interested after opening up to them Yeah lol I agree with the “just met” part of your sentence. But showing any kind of vulnerability before that girl is really locked in is simply a net negative amongst the female population.	/r/seduction	12/05/24 08:06 AM
7	How do I keep a girl interested after opening up to them 100%. It’s a shame that we can’t be genuine around girls we’ve just met, but biology is biology.	/r/seduction	11/05/24 01:56 PM
3	How many guys here actually approach? Fair enough. Panic attacks are absolutely debilitating. I think I’d be content swiping on tinder if approaching had that effect on me, or at least I’d take a ton of therapy first before getting back out there.	/r/seduction	07/05/24 09:57 AM
2	How do hookups happen in college? Online dating is a waste of time for college aged boys. The average girl is unbelievably overwhelmed at age 21 that you don’t have a hope in standing out. I’d highly advise young men focus on their fitness, fashion, social circle and developing a confident, charming personality in real life rather than swiping hoping to get lucky.	/r/seduction	15/04/24 05:09 PM
4	How do hookups happen in college? Idk man. I was fairly active during my younger years and I don’t think I had any game at all. Just constantly being out and about around parties was enough for things to happen consistently at that age. Though I was at college before Tinder was a thing. I accept that the game has changed a lot now.	/r/seduction	15/04/24 05:07 PM
3	Interested in a friend, need some timing advice If you’re interested in her then it’s simple - be a man and ask her out. I will say to be open minded to the possibility that you’re going to be rejected. Women don’t call men they’re attracted to “bro”. After a long period of friendship it’s very unlikely that’s she’s into you and you haven’t picked up on the hints. She’s probably hoping you’ve picked up on the hints that it’s just a platonic friendship.	/r/seduction	19/03/24 04:51 AM
7	Opening basic white girls Just be observational or even just go hey, super random but I thought you were cute. The opener lasts about 10 seconds and guys overthink this too hard, probably because its the most anxiety inducing part of cold approaching a girl.	/r/seduction	19/03/24 04:35 AM
23	Made out with my bestie. Now she sexts whenever she wants. (21F) Confessing your feelings was the wrong thing to do in this instance. She is promiscuous and wants an unattached fling. You may be able to save it by acting cool and indifferent going forward. But most likely she’s banged about 3 different dudes since you.	/r/seduction	19/03/24 04:32 AM
5	Spending $200k for sex “Just get five FWB’s or something” That’s how I know you’re a girl lol. It isn’t remotely that straightforward for a man for multiple reasons.	/r/PurplePillDebate	11/08/23 01:25 PM
16	I got laid! Make a real subtle hint like the age gap bothers you slightly. It’ll help turn the tables on that front and have her validating herself to you. Well done OP!	/r/seduction	02/07/23 11:12 PM
0	If I delete all my social media, will it make dating significantly harder? If anyone asks about SM you just respond with “I don’t have time for that anymore”. That has worked for me absolutely fine.	/r/seduction	24/09/22 05:00 PM
2	Why do some girls reply to OLD messages with one or two word answers? Lazy isn’t the right word. They get so many messages that replying in depth to each one is impossible. They don’t want to lose the validation though so a couple of words keeps that going most of the time given most guys are desperate.	/r/seduction	17/09/22 03:21 PM
5	I slept with 56 girls in a year and this is what I learnt...(Part 2) They are definitely sought after for casual encounters in London which suits OP well.	/r/seduction	12/09/22 10:29 AM
42	I slept with 56 girls in a year and this is what I learnt...(Part 2) London, he’s black	/r/seduction	12/09/22 12:10 AM
1	If women don’t have sex with random people, need an emotional connection…how are these dating coaches sleeping with 100’s of women ? But that’s the thing. 50% of men don’t try. Of the others 30% don’t try enough. It isn’t hard to break into the top 20% of men regardless of your genetics. But what’s pretty clear is only those 20% get a decent amount of female attention.	/r/seduction	20/08/22 05:20 PM
2	If women don’t have sex with random people, need an emotional connection…how are these dating coaches sleeping with 100’s of women ? Having balls and charm puts you in the top 20% mate. I do alright too but there was a long period where I didn’t before I started working hard.	/r/seduction	20/08/22 05:09 PM
1	If women don’t have sex with random people, need an emotional connection…how are these dating coaches sleeping with 100’s of women ? More like 5% of men get 80%. The other 15% of men get 60% or so. Bottom 80% get nowt	/r/seduction	20/08/22 03:43 PM
1	This “small subset” of women who claim to be struggling could hop on Reddit right now and have their pick of the litter but they won’t do it. That’s an option most men will NEVER have Exactly. Incels only see this one way, and at the same time use this as an excuse to refuse to work on themselves.	/r/PurplePillDebate	26/05/22 09:09 AM
2	How can I go up to a guy at a party that I wanna fuck? It should be that easy. Men aren’t going to have the same parameters for sex as women. Biologically we are designed to spread our seed. Thus if the opportunity for sex presents itself with a reasonable enough female we will take it without thinking too hard about it. It’s going to be that simple the majority of the time, especially at your age. Unless there are social or practical reasons preventing it from happening it’s a sure thing.	/r/seduction	24/05/22 10:29 PM
7	Most men nowadays are afraid of approach and ask women out because they fear that women will think men are stalking and sexually harassing them This sub is annoyingly incel like these days. At least incels have funny memes.	/r/PurplePillDebate	30/04/22 03:48 AM
1	What eventually happens to most of the single men on online dating? Yeah true. Though it still gives a perception of a lot of options, hence standards are still very high, but I do agree with your point.	/r/PurplePillDebate	26/04/22 01:50 PM
1	7 Ways To Build Sexual Tension I hear you but things have changed a lot. Women have a lot of options and hook up culture has skewed everything. It’s a case of be bitter or be better. This post encourages men to be the latter.	/r/seduction	25/04/22 02:07 PM
2	What eventually happens to most of the single men on online dating? Maybe it depends where you are. I’m in a big city.	/r/PurplePillDebate	21/04/22 09:41 AM
11	What eventually happens to most of the single men on online dating? Not true. Women still have a lot of options in their 30’s and 40’s on dating apps, and some retain ridiculously high standards as they know they’ve only got one shot left at getting the partner they want.	/r/PurplePillDebate	20/04/22 11:53 PM
40	Should I ask this guy to hook up even though he dumped me?? This guy has game. The intense love bombing, followed by pulling away, then back again with a plausible excuse, then sealing the deal by hooking up. You’re smitten because he has played the situation to perfection. Honestly…you should stay away from this guy. It’ll hurt now but you’ll be wayyyyyy better off in the long run.	/r/seduction	16/03/22 09:16 PM
3	Where Can I meet up girls who are interested in only casual sex? Those websites are absolutely useless for men	/r/seduction	13/03/22 11:00 PM
1	How to respond to this test Awesome. Any kind of example of humor you’d use here?	/r/seduction	11/03/22 01:17 AM
1	Fuck the game This might be where you’re going wrong. The game shouldn’t be the purpose of your life. Be on your own personal grind and use the game alongside that. You’ll probably get better results from naturally being less tightly wound.	/r/seduction	08/12/21 07:42 PM
1	A girls perspective on ‘nice guys’ Women don’t like criminals or people wasting their life. “Bad boy” as you grow up relates more to someone who isn’t dependent on anyone, who is living their own life and a woman feels she could lose him at any moment.	/r/seduction	05/11/21 12:40 PM
5	She rejects a fucking Chad because she didn't feel a "spark" on their FIRST DATE. This is a classic "Maybe I can still do better" mentality of spinsters in the making. It’s not. This is real. I’ve been on it 😂	/r/WhereAreAllTheGoodMen	06/05/21 04:24 PM
14	How old do I have to be to start something serious / to marry? Because if you change your mind about being a housewife your degree gives you that flexibility. I hate to say it too but you might be naive about how men will treat you. Not every guy is nice. There are some whos eyes will light up at the idea of a teenage maid and not for good reasons. I’d advise you get your degree, get some life experience and look to settle down in a few more years. In that time i hope you meet a nice man who takes care of you and treats you right.	/r/RedPillWomen	13/02/21 11:54 AM