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3	In an amicable divorce, how did you cut your emotional ties? Unfortunately, it will take time. The brain needs to rewire the emotional circuits and time away from, and activities without your spouse, are the only ways to speed up the process. Emotions are weird, they’re primal and meant to help us survive. Those circuits will require more stimulus to change, which explains why you may logically know something, but the feelings aren’t in sync. By the way, you have a unique style to your writing, very poetic; i like it.	/r/Divorce_Men	05/02/26 03:39 PM
2	My ex claimed she ‘didn’t need sex.’ Found her on Tinder. What the hell? Lmao. Loved the hamster wheel analogy	/r/Divorce_Men	04/12/25 01:33 PM
5	Time to Deploy the Nuclear Option Gtfo! Are u serious?? She still got 50%?? Wtf man	/r/Divorce_Men	17/02/25 02:23 AM
3	She made a post on Facebook about her Narcissistic abusive husband. do you know my wife? lol	/r/Divorce_Men	10/02/25 09:00 PM
2	She made a post on Facebook about her Narcissistic abusive husband. exactly what my therapist said. She gaslit me into believing I was a narcissist and gaslighting her. I was like wtf is happening right now.	/r/Divorce_Men	10/02/25 08:57 PM
1	How did you handle knowing your Ex had start sleeping with another guy? Just remember that your dick was there first. The dude will be sampling infinitesimally small flavors of ur cock when he kisses her	/r/Divorce_Men	03/01/25 12:05 AM
3	Losing hope. How to rebound? Oh wow man. Im sooo sorry! Cant even imagine what you’re going through.	/r/Divorce_Men	20/12/24 06:46 PM
5	Losing hope. How to rebound? Virtual hugs brother. I feel as though grieving the death of a person would be so much easier than grieving the death of a marriage.	/r/Divorce_Men	20/12/24 05:57 PM
1	Things do get a lot better - if you put the work in it Completely agree. Infidelity is easier for my mind to accept divorce. When my spouse who for months was saying how much she loves me and how heart is full all of a sudden after an argument says we “cannot communicate” and she wants a divorce, its a bit harder to swallow. Like what?	/r/Divorce_Men	18/10/24 08:26 PM
1	Save Your Marriage Gurus Well i signed up for one in august. Ive been learning a lot about whats going on in my wife’s head. How crazy different we as guys communicate vs how women do. I started using some of the techniques they describe and it seems to be working pretty amazingly. Only time will tell how successful ill be. Feel free to dm me for more info.	/r/Divorce_Men	14/10/24 10:50 PM
2	Thinking about getting married again Positive vibes your way bro. I hope we all make it to other side stronger and more resilient	/r/Divorce_Men	14/10/24 01:03 AM
2	Thinking about getting married again I feel you. It’s such a tough balancing act, being vulnerable enough to try again, but also protecting yourself in the process.	/r/Divorce_Men	14/10/24 12:58 AM
4	Thinking about getting married again No guarantee man. I was best friends with my wife for 7 years, then married for 6, now she wants a divorce. Thought i did a good job vetting her, but things can change. There really is no guarantee to anything	/r/Divorce_Men	14/10/24 12:43 AM