garlopf Archive

Upvotes	Title	Category	Author	Subreddit	Date (UTC)
17	Handle protective sidekick	Fundamentals	garlopf	/r/seduction	08/09/22 10:18 AM

Upvotes	Comment on	Subreddit	Date (UTC)
1	Always lean in to who you actually are as a man. I observed something strange in my life. I was insecure, inexperienced, severely autistic, late bloomer, antisocial and just a giant weirdo and yet I had no trouble getting and keeping an amazing gf (med student, elite athlete). As time went by I had kids, matured, started exercising, improving myself drastically. I became more secure, social, I earned some money, made a name for myself in my industry. My transformation is genuinely significant. And now I couldn't pick up a girl if my life depen…	/r/seduction	20/07/26 12:51 PM
-1	IVE HAD ENOUGH! Can someone please teach me how to Text better?! It is easy! Start with "b", then follow with the rest of the letters "e", "t", "t", "e", "r".	/r/seduction	13/06/26 10:23 AM
10	Why would a girl agree to a threesome? Business idea right there. No need for a brothel licence just make it all inclusive	/r/seduction	13/06/26 10:15 AM
133	is not having instagram a red flag? It is different flags. For me Instagram is a red flag. And if girls think not having Instagram is a red flag, that is a red flag.	/r/seduction	07/05/26 10:58 PM
2	if you had to choose between investing into either salsa/bachata or yoga as a hobby to maximize the chances of finding a future girlfriend, what would you pick? I personally would not do any of them because it is not something I am into, so if I did I would get stuck with a chick that always wanted to do something I don't like. Personally I am looking for a Linux kernel developer or perhaps a compiler designer in a pinch.	/r/seduction	18/04/26 04:03 PM
15	How can I seduce someone over text before a first date? There is a secret cheat code you can type to unlock the brain of your victim: UUDDLRLRBAS. After typing this, she will be open to all your suggestions. Have fun!	/r/seduction	08/01/26 02:01 AM
12	Guys, did you know bigger museums are filled wit all kinds of baddies?! Anyone had any luck here? My friend in highschool always went to ikea.	/r/seduction	31/12/25 01:11 PM
1	Yapping? Being scared of silence is a choice. Practice looking into other people's eyes without saying anything. A good pause is positive. And like many others have said. Actually listening is worth gold to you. Imagine a general at war just spamming soldiers everywhere without sending scouts first.	/r/seduction	19/11/25 10:55 AM
0	I wish I could just be upfront about liking a girl You guys should have one of those petri dish clone babies. The ultimate relationship range extension dynamics genius fucc boi. You could name him Mr. Maybe.	/r/seduction	19/11/25 10:50 AM
3	What were the dumbest "hints" you got from a woman? She is a keeper, obviously	/r/seduction	22/10/25 06:58 AM
163	What were the dumbest "hints" you got from a woman? She said she was taking a shower. Went into the bathroom and stayed there for an ungodly amount of time then emerged ki d of upset that I didnt join her. There was not a single speck of hint. No smile, no wink, nothing. She just expected me to be a creep basically.	/r/seduction	21/10/25 08:30 PM
1	How do I move from small talk to a fun, specific date suggestion without it feeling forced or awkward? Make a joke based on previous context where the punchline is an outrageous date idea. Example; it is raining cats and dogs today. Even with my umbrella, I am soaked! We should book our first date in the waterpark, then nobody cares how wet we will get.	/r/seduction	16/10/25 10:59 AM
12	I’ve realized I hate the process of trying to find women to date, and I hate the process of maintaining romantic relationships. Anyone else? What is your dating life like? How do you navigate this? I noped out a long tome ago. I have enough fun and important things in my life to spend my time on. The chance that I meet a mate that fits my very particular bill is so faint that any time I spend on chasing that is in reality wasted. But I do care to stay relevant and attractive, mostly for myself but also in case I meet her. It has happened once before and I was ill prepared and so fmbled it completely. I feel this sub is about volume. How to attract girls in general, maybe one will sleep wit…	/r/seduction	18/09/25 06:16 AM
2	What to do when you have multiple date options? How do you go about your selection process? Set up all dates on the same time slot, tell them you will being a few friends. Introduce them to each other. Leave. You save so much time!	/r/seduction	18/09/25 06:04 AM
8	My Deep Dive Into AI Dating Assistant - Tested ChatVisor, Wingman Live, and Rizz Women will get validation from bots. Men are so 2024 /s. But jokes aside, I think it is naive to assume most women will be able to tell whether it was a bot or a real guy simping on their thirst traps profile they put out for some quick attention.	/r/seduction	01/09/25 08:45 PM
1	Help me understand this Polish girl "what is recepy for waffle?" "4 dl flour, 4 eggs, 4 dl milk, 2 tblspoon melted butter, 1/2 tspoon baking powder, whisk together and let rest for 1 hour before frying" "Oh but i am unlycky in baking, i am 24 year old and short, let me just change recepy because I am insecure".	/r/seduction	05/08/25 09:47 AM
0	Settling down moving in with perfect girl.... now bored Let me ask, what makes your gf amazing? It sounds to me like you used other people's (conventional) metrics of what makes a great gf like good looks, "normal" girl. I would not last 3 days with someone like that. I realized that I need someone who is into technology that I can talk to about my genuine hobbies, who is open minded and much more rational than what is considered good by most people. This of course has radically reduced the likelihood that I will ever find the right girl for me becau…	/r/seduction	21/07/25 08:58 AM
5	Best rizz app I've tried so far. Mods! This is an affiliate link.	/r/seduction	20/07/25 12:37 PM
1	What are some movies and TV shows that have smooth flirting, banter, and conversation scenes? Deadpool	/r/seduction	01/07/25 09:25 AM
2	How come some guys become less cool as soon as they get a gf It might not occur to most women how much time effort and thought goes into an average guy's pursuit of a partner. For anyone not in the top 10% it is a serious commitment. Once we don't have a reason to do it anymore we stop. And also focus goes into keeping said partner which is also a lot of work.	/r/seduction	26/05/25 12:22 PM
1	Why some women reject in a very rude way? Wow you seem amazing. Sorry I said ALL, you are right I should have said many.	/r/seduction	21/04/25 06:26 PM
1	Why some women reject in a very rude way? Not everyone is like this, but I have seen this enough times with my own eyes that I will no longer pretend it isn't so to be nice. Just because you don't act like this does not mean it does not happen. And if you don't act like that, good on you, you are one of the good'uns.	/r/seduction	21/04/25 05:39 PM
0	When other dudes blow you away You are the present bro. If she doesnt like it, give it to someone else.	/r/seduction	21/04/25 12:29 AM
1	How to stop being easy to sleep with? Ill say charming things to you then deny you sex, how about that 😁	/r/seduction	19/04/25 04:09 PM
44	Why some women reject in a very rude way? Some girls are afraid to be seen with someone of what they perceive as having much lower status, because by associating with such low status they might be seen as low status as well. So they mark it clearly so everyone will know she did not associate with you. I would focus on "perceived" here, because girls are consistently terrible at judging status and quality of men.	/r/seduction	19/04/25 04:05 PM
1	How does everyone pick up girls in the club? My secret? I don' pick up girls, girls pick up me! I just go into the dancefloor pretending i am all alone, not acknowledging anyone, especially girls who are used to attention. I start dancing, slow at first but after a few minutes I am pulling all my moves. I dance like there us no tomorrow, twerking and elvising all over the place. Before long some girls will show interest and come over. I give them a cold acknowledgement or just ignore them completely. After a while they get more aggressive.…	/r/seduction	07/04/25 12:17 AM
96	Shit tests from other men I just ignore them like a little child who wants attention.	/r/seduction	26/03/25 11:29 AM
2	How to approach the desire for a threesome without pressuring my girlfriend? Pay a hooker you like to seduce your girl. "Catch her" cheating on you with said hooker. Reward her by joining in instead of getting mad about it. Pat her on the back and say you look forward to the next one, and "lets go hunt together".	/r/seduction	23/03/25 08:35 AM
2	29M Boston Field Report Ignore the haters. This was hilarious! I would love to go out with you as a bro. Not a boring moment.	/r/seduction	02/03/25 11:38 AM
1	When going for older women, do you lie on age? Her: How old are you? You: How old do you want me to be? Her <Number> You: You are in luck!	/r/seduction	23/02/25 11:54 PM
11	How to keep yourself mysterious when your info is public If you are public you are not mysterious. So stop being public?🤷🏻‍♂️	/r/seduction	01/02/25 11:53 PM
10	How do I reconcile the fact that I’m a virgin (30M) in this modern dating environment? This is one of those things that only matter to you in your head. 10 seconds after you had sex for the first time you will have an aha moment and completely get it. The fact is that it is not a big deal, really. It is just that every moment of doubt or insecurity will magnify this seemingly inescapable fact. It will become a problem to you only if you let it. And to not let it means controlling your emotions carefully. When you feel down and weak you can never let your mind lean on that fact or …	/r/seduction	27/01/25 07:13 AM
7	Full text-game breakdown - 18-year old blonde girl from Tinder Would be fun if you get married then 5 years into the happy marriage she finds this post 🤠	/r/seduction	27/01/25 12:43 AM
33	How to Approach Women Without Feeling Sleazy or Fake The sleazy fake feeling is there because subconsciously you don't believe that you are good enough or deserving of approaching people so nonchalantly. It is built up over years watching others do such things and then thinking negative thoughts about them in your own defence mechanism, sometimes warranted, sometimes not. It is a sort of shame on behalf of others. A fake ideal you strive for. Working you way out of this is most difficult in the start, but with gradual exposure and practice it will…	/r/seduction	26/01/25 12:12 PM
5	“Calm down!! The mistake most men make when their girlfriend is insecure and argues with them. This is parenting 101 also	/r/seduction	07/01/25 07:05 PM
13	How to smoothly reply to, "So technically you're like my son" Yes mommy.	/r/seduction	10/12/24 06:18 AM
1	looking for a male perspective! :) What often turns men on the most is the feeling that she is losing it. We don't necessarily want her to please us, but be pleased herself and show it, of course without faking. So best tip I can give is find out how to get what you need from the guy and just let lose.	/r/seduction	04/12/24 09:03 PM
2	Too old for cold approach? Too cold for old approach?	/r/seduction	29/11/24 05:40 PM
1	what does she mean by "can we spit tomorrow"? Hawk tuamorrow babey	/r/seduction	30/10/24 12:38 AM
25	How to make my GF more Horny? Pretend you met another girl in secret. Shower. Shave. Wear cologne. Dress nice. Go out on "dates" with yourself where you focus on pure you time. Watch the movie you like. Exercise. Learn new stuff like yoga, dancing. Ride gocarts. Whatever. Your guy friends can join, but never your girl. Tell her you need your alone time. Be happy and up-beat. That's it.	/r/seduction	23/09/24 06:54 AM
0	Do you believe that there are truly some people are unattractive and cannot become attractive? Yes. But keep your truth for yourself instead of ruining everyone else's day with it. If you need sympathy for being pathetic I am sure there are some incel subs for that. If you need to improve your methods or need light encouragement, this sub is for that.	/r/seduction	17/09/24 05:40 AM
3	Do you believe that there are truly some people are unattractive and cannot become attractive? The point is that the moment you allow circumstance to dictate outcome, you relinquish your agency. In other words, we don't give up no matter the odds, and we don't allow anyone else to even utter the words, because the effect is so detrimental to everyone's progress. We need hope and encouragement.	/r/seduction	17/09/24 05:37 AM
9	Did a specific perfume/cologne + dressing combo casually help you catch the attention of the opposite gender? I find Aqua di gio and normal ranch dressing is an unbeatable combo.	/r/seduction	11/09/24 05:18 AM
29	How to transition into sex when in bed Touch her ear lobes and neck area while looking at her lips and eyes interchangeably.	/r/seduction	08/09/24 02:09 PM
31	How do I stop being a pu**y? Shortest answer: do difficult uncomfortable stuff on purpose until it becomes a habit.	/r/seduction	04/09/24 03:59 PM
11	Gym and looks isn’t everything My problem is the reverse, pretty girls are seldom interesting, so whenever I see a pretty girl I just assume she is no good and ignore her🤷🏻‍♂️	/r/seduction	26/08/24 06:34 AM
1	Should I really reach out? In my experience you are better off working hard on reducing this feeling. It is better to distract yourself with other positive stuff like hobbies, friends, workout, other girls etc. If you don't have other positives in your life, now is an excellent time tow work really hard on getting many of them. Nothing will come of the interaction with the girl you like. She is not into you like you are into her, and that is an unbalanced transaction.	/r/seduction	21/08/24 03:57 PM
2	Hot girls mother is adamant that I come to a dancing party at a dance studio I literally figured out xfit was tied to religion last week 😂	/r/seduction	15/08/24 02:30 PM
2	Hot girls mother is adamant that I come to a dancing party at a dance studio I think getting guys to dance classes is difficult. They might just want more guys to practice with.	/r/seduction	15/08/24 10:33 AM
2	Help me get this girl!!! On your 10 year anniversary you can reveal the secret "Reddit helped me get you" 😁	/r/seduction	10/08/24 09:42 AM
1	How to show interest in a guy? Why does this need confidence? What is the risk? If he tells you sorry no, then what?	/r/seduction	10/08/24 09:17 AM
1	How am I meant to react to being approached and flirted with? Go watch the Zohan	/r/seduction	06/08/24 09:37 PM
1	Not everyone can be a “high value” or top 10%. As more men improve competition does as well That does not bode well for me 😂😂😂	/r/seduction	16/06/24 02:35 PM
41	Not everyone can be a “high value” or top 10%. As more men improve competition does as well Personally, I don't want "access to" those women. They are disgusting to me. If they want money and fre stuff to smash then someone else can take care of them. The sad fact of reality is that the women I look for don't exist. They used to exist, but then they went extinct. Smart, frugal, down to earth human beings that you could have rational interesting conversations about actual topics with. Someone interested in starting a family. Someone with their own interests and ambitions beyond plastic …	/r/seduction	16/06/24 12:43 PM
6	Best way to make kinky friends? Make an account on fetlife.com?🤷‍♂️	/r/seduction	11/06/24 10:42 PM
1	30 Quick Tips for using TINDER Straight from ChatGPT	/r/seduction	09/05/24 05:37 AM
3	"You don't have instagram?" What's a good answer for this? Instagram is lowkey red flag frealz bro-ette. You best rid that if you be flyin' with this brother..	/r/seduction	03/05/24 02:29 PM
2	Why are you gay? When you took her home, did you bang her? If you didn't, that is probably why she thinks you are gay. I mean it is pretty gay to take girls home and not bang them. Just tell her to come over again, you have some gay shit to show her, then bang her. That will straighten her out.	/r/seduction	24/04/24 03:47 PM
2	If you're thinking about getting a dog, it makes opening a lot easier. "master, what is my purpose?", "you fetch the butter".	/r/seduction	19/04/24 07:53 PM
4	My boyfriend of one year told me I have no romance in me. Relationships are transactional in nature. Both are in it because they get what they want for a tolerable (for them) cost. If either side no longer feel they get what they want, or the cost is too great, it is usually over. It is difficult to change.	/r/seduction	17/04/24 05:22 AM
6	girls think i am gay, but i'm straight and attracted to women. what to do about this? My friend just used to said "come back to my place and find out".	/r/seduction	14/04/24 04:49 PM
1	How do I get rid of my “Smart” look OK so here are some important questions for you. Why would you like to appeal to those girls? Are you looking to sleep around with random girls? With my experience in your situation it is better to wait until a girl comes along that appreciate you the way you are. If you are "smart" there will be a smaller pool of candidates to match with you, so you have to be patient, or work to seek them out. Won't it be much better to find one that you can talk politics and other topics with? Go to politics …	/r/seduction	12/04/24 06:30 AM
1	I have strabismus. Am i doomed forever? Own it. You are a super villain now. Start acting like it!	/r/seduction	03/04/24 08:24 PM
3	How can I (M20s) deal with conflict without cutting people off? If you react they win. Hold your frame and never be the one to escalate. For example, after someone disrespect you in front of the group, instead of looking at that person, look at the rest of the group and say something like "did you all see that? He must have gotten up on the wrong foot today". If that person then escalates, you can just smile and look at them. If they get violent, protect yourself, but don't be the one to turn it into a fight.	/r/seduction	01/04/24 09:24 AM
2	How do you respond to a girl asking if you’re out on the town tonight? Many girls will just stack up options for later. They will just invite a bunch of people to make the evening more fun. You are not special, just another backup for her.	/r/seduction	31/03/24 08:41 AM
3	French girl The magic words are "Voulez vouz coucher avec moi" it means your eyes are beautiful.	/r/seduction	26/03/24 09:49 AM
2	Answers to the "What do you do for a living ?" question I'm a professional computer nerd. (Actually IT consultant)	/r/seduction	06/03/24 02:08 PM
2	Another barrier: Your male friends! The reason is that you show you have optionality. If you can afford to neg her surely you have other girls lined up.	/r/seduction	03/10/23 01:56 PM
104	Girls asking me to buy drinks in clubs I would argue saying anything is wasting energy. Just keep expressionless face, avert your gaze as if they don't exist and walk away.	/r/seduction	10/07/23 11:19 AM
23	Not sure if this belongs here, but f*** it, why not I would think your disability is a hurdle. I think that statistically you are at a disadvantage. But girls will make some pretty spectacular choices sometimes, and when and how you meet them matters. You can definitely create situations where your disability is not important. Find or create arenas where you can meet them on favorable terms. Easy to say, hard to perfect for sure but what are you going to do, lie down and cry? (That is totally an option btw, just not one I recommend).	/r/seduction	30/10/22 02:19 PM
1	Is it fair to say that if you’re wondering whether they’re really interested then the answer is no? Not true. Many girls are shy and don't really know how to show interest. Combined with me not expecting any interest at all, I have left many chicks dangling in my wake. I guess they dodged one there 😂	/r/seduction	29/10/22 02:53 AM
15	So, who are you here with? I am out travelling with my buddhist monestary, the rest of the guys are at the hotel room getting high.	/r/seduction	29/10/22 02:40 AM
1	I might go to a BDSM club for on Halloween weekend. Hopefully this is a good idea. I want this post to be on purpose so bad...	/r/seduction	24/10/22 04:59 AM
8	Anyone ever successfully got with a chick who calls you bro or bruh? If you don't care she can't care. How about you tell her bro to her face when you nail her.	/r/seduction	21/10/22 07:15 AM
297	Does ignoring girls work? Many girls will try to make you into an orbiter. They will get your attention and give you attention just enough so that you stick around. A lot of guys will get confused asking themselves why she shows them interest one day and not the next. This is why.	/r/seduction	19/10/22 03:17 PM
1	Back on the dating game after being in a relationship, had first romantic interaction, looking for feedback: I am no expert, but it sounded to me like she was looking for a hook up, and now the spark is gone and she won't ever come back.	/r/seduction	18/10/22 02:23 AM
2	Did I ruin my reputation by having a one night stand If you own it it will not matter. In fact it might be positive. But if you start acting all insecure about it and like you regret it, that will be your main problem. In fact this is always the case. Framing is super important. Act calm and act as what you do is intentional always.	/r/seduction	10/10/22 03:30 AM
2	5 Signs A Girl Likes You Username checks out	/r/seduction	04/10/22 10:16 PM
2	How to practice flirting/compliments without being or feeling creepy? This is true. Brad needs to have way harder skin than chad. And be more brave.	/r/seduction	04/10/22 09:57 PM
7	How can I (22F) get more male validation/attention? Do guys like girls that dress slutty? It seems you don't really know what you want. Do you wan't a proper boyfriend? Then you should stay modest. Slutty will attract thirsty simps and chads mostly. Identify what your values are to a man other than your youth and good looks. Sell those. Are you a great cook? Can you hold a conversation? Are you passionate about interesting hobbies (no, posting photos on ig is not a hobby). Are you amazing in bed? Why should I want to lock you down? You are in your prime at 23-24. Use your prime to fi…	/r/seduction	04/10/22 09:51 PM
4	10 Signs You Are A Loser! 12 You comment on losers' posts on r/seduction... Oh wait ...	/r/seduction	04/10/22 08:52 PM
7	A very controversial, possibly triggering question: Is a big percentage of women in their early 20s today lazy? I have the same impression tbh. But we are likely experiencing some variation of observer bias; we only see the lazy ones because the ones that are not lazy are busy with stuff	/r/seduction	01/10/22 09:04 AM
2	People I find attractive are the ones that are never attracted to me... ? Girls want whom they can't have, someone who is out of their league, and one of the ways they determine that is from how approachable you are. Pretend that you hate blondes for a week, see if that changes anything.	/r/seduction	17/09/22 07:46 PM
1	What should you do, if your personality doesn't really work? I feel the same. My personal opinion is that you should not change your personality. Rather add a new act to your show. Take on a persona when you go out where you let yourself be more whimsical and carefree. It helps to hang out with guys who are like this. When I go out with friends and alcohol is involved, we all switch to fun mode for the evening.	/r/seduction	17/09/22 11:38 AM
36	Asked out a girl for the first time on Instagram yesterday, happy that I did it Don't be rude.	/r/seduction	16/09/22 09:40 PM
3	Legit method to make a girl cheat on her boyfriend? Girls will monkey branch especially if they are low quality. If you are considerably better in her eyes than her current bf then it might happen naturally if you just stay with her ang give her attention. Of course doing this consciously also means that you are a low quality guy, and honestly what do you stand to gain? If she cheats on her bf for you, why would you even want her?	/r/seduction	11/09/22 05:19 PM
1	Handle protective sidekick Nice docuseries 😁	/r/seduction	08/09/22 05:13 PM
6	Handle protective sidekick I never was disrespectful of anyone, in fact my gut instinct was always to be very inclusive and respectful in this case. But the reason I ask in the first place is that the friend is very antagonistic for no apparent reason, no matter how I behave. I don't want her to get in the way of what is otherwise a great opportunity for me.	/r/seduction	08/09/22 11:26 AM
0	Handle protective sidekick In many cases I will discover her in the middle of talking with the #1.	/r/seduction	08/09/22 10:58 AM
51	Ladies: Asking for consent before a kiss or just by reading non verbal cues? Rule or preference? The more common problem in my experience is she is waiting for your kiss but you don't pick up on it. Just go for it slowly, and you will know soon enough if she is into it or not.	/r/seduction	24/08/22 10:49 PM
3	Am I wrong to feel bothered that a woman referred to me as "small" despite being 6 ft 1? Even if you should not be bothered by it, you might not want to let it slide. It depends on the situation.	/r/seduction	24/08/22 06:37 PM
1	Struggling with girls losing interest ultra fast Could it be they were looking for ONS and you were looking for more? Maybe string them along a little longer and take it slower and show them your intention?	/r/seduction	23/08/22 02:25 PM
7	How can I (M22) ask her (F21) to shave down there? How about you suggest to shave together? I can recommend Veet hair removal cream 😁	/r/seduction	21/08/22 10:04 AM
69	Newly single-how do I flirt and attract men If you are 21 and a girl that like guys then you don't need to flirt and attract men. Just go to a bar in an ok dress , sitt down and smile.	/r/seduction	13/08/22 08:08 PM
8	Milf [35F] was DTF until I [25M] told her I was a virgin You will do just fine bro. Just do what you do, and she might not like it or whatever, but you will gain the experience so that next time will be much easier.	/r/seduction	03/08/22 11:47 AM
3	Always fail at cold approach at bar Maybe start with something less direct. I mean you might as well have said "you have two tits and an ass, wanna go"?	/r/seduction	26/07/22 09:37 AM
30	Girls are attracted to you if they see you with another girl It is called something but I can't remember the name. The psychology is that since another mate has approved of you, she has to do less work to vet you, so instead of spending time vetting another guy you are seen as safe bet. Also if a beautiful girl is at your side, then you are vetted for beautiful girls.	/r/seduction	26/07/22 07:59 AM
7	Use spirituality to make girls attracted to you! That kind of girl does not attract me.	/r/seduction	17/07/22 08:46 AM
1	should you "work" for a girl? I think the frequent "move on" advice is simply based on statistics. You could maybe change her mind, in theory, but the effort would be great, and the chance really low still. When she displays her disinterest in you, it is a clear signal to move on. To maximize your chance, your time and effort is better spent on something else, like exposing yourself to new potential. But if you really really like the girl, and you don't mind being rejected again you could go for a second go, or a third. Or a…	/r/seduction	13/07/22 12:03 PM
13	Can I still get laid even i I am a virgin at 20? I was 23, and didn't have any issues after because it all sort of clicked into place after the first time. Just don't sweat it. I know that is easy to say and hard to do, but the truth is that if you focus too much on it you become unattractive. Also I didn't follow ANY of the advice below, So I was super lucky. Actually my friend at the time set me up with the friend of his gf on a trip to a mountain cottage. I didn't even drink back then, so that I got laid is a miracle tbh.. Focus on building…	/r/seduction	12/07/22 02:12 PM
1	How to cheat How will she react when she fonds out?	/r/seduction	11/07/22 03:03 AM
1	she has wife qualities - but I'm not attracted to her Most girls I talk to would not mind sharing their phone like that, I don't think that is very uncommon. Maybe you don't attract that kind of girl?	/r/seduction	06/07/22 09:52 AM
0	This is GOLD. This guy I let talk and he laid out his game. Women are usually all over him. This works 100%. I have one redeeming quality; I can dance. When I am on the dancefloor I genuinely just want to be alone, and as soon as I push away the first pretty lady that approaches me, a queue of babes will form, rings of chicks wanting to rub their genitals on me form in every direction. It is crazy. The problem however is converting this pussy torrent into tangibles. I can't pick one and talk her into going home with me. As soon as I single one out, the illusion is gone and they all lea…	/r/seduction	05/07/22 10:17 AM
2	I can't fake it til I make it. Everyone is boring to me. It is lonely at the top 🤷🏻‍♂️	/r/seduction	05/07/22 09:54 AM
1	I would love some advice, new to this… (See below) Be prepared that it may take some time. Be patient and celebrate each small win along the way 2. Find yourself some cool fun hobbies, enjoy them. Meet other people that are into that stuff and make some friends. 3. Work out and eat healthy. 4. Investigate what passes for a good look on your body type and buy some clothes. Focus on 2-3 "looks" where you have all the clothes for each look (shoes/pants/belt/shirt/sweater/coat/hat/shades/whatever) 5. Make sure your nails, hair, facial hair looks nea…	/r/seduction	05/07/22 01:54 AM
1	keeping engagement while texting I found it helps if you learn of a common interest early in the conversation. It doesn't have to be very big thing. For example today I had a great conversation with a girl over our common love for a particular local sweet that not many people enjoy. You can make it interesting by giving unexpected answers, or purposefully misinterpreting her answers. Do it in a joking casual way. Build a pattern of speech that is unique to you two. Also it is very useful to know that avoiding certain topics can…	/r/seduction	05/07/22 01:34 AM
3	Strangest Thing that Men Desire That article was on big ad. Downvoted.	/r/seduction	25/06/22 08:46 AM
2	Is "no" always a definitive "no"? Experience	/r/seduction	24/06/22 05:21 PM
3	Is "no" always a definitive "no"? No with a smile can mean yes. Yes with an excuse can mean no.	/r/seduction	24/06/22 05:10 PM
1	Best tips for a first date? People are different. Some will like texting more than others, and will text different things. I prefer texts that are 1-2 times per day, about funny and pr trivial topics like a meme or observation. I want to have any other conversations in person.	/r/seduction	24/06/22 04:51 PM
3	I'm 25. I just moved into a new apartment. I don't have a large circle of friends anymore and never had a girlfriend. If I invite people over, what should I suggest we do? Singstar, beer pong, never have I ever, fuzzyduck, cards against humanity, lotr Marathon, pj sleepover, paint a picture, waffles &pancake party... The possibilities are endless!	/r/seduction	22/06/22 06:48 AM
1	How do I enter a FwB Same. Really confusing	/r/seduction	22/06/22 02:37 AM
2	I'm already getting sex, how do I step my single game from here? I think ons sex is usually lame. It is more about the hunt than the sex. I only had a few ons so I could be wrong. Anyway, I prefer fwb type deal so I can get to know her and improve the sex. Each person is different and learning how to have great sex in one session seems infeasible. Also, coming directly from a long term relationship and with only 5 weeks of pause you might be trying to fill a gap subconsciously. Try not going out chasing girls, but instead hang out with friends or work on some…	/r/seduction	22/06/22 02:05 AM
7	She rejected me but is begging for friendship You did the right thing denying her friendship. Guys should normalize doing that. Girls behave as if their wish to be just friends is somehow morally superior to the wish of a man to be something more.	/r/seduction	21/06/22 08:24 AM
4	Anyone Pushed Back Into Dating After a Long LTR? Dating really sucks at the moment. I find myself thinking one shitty bird in the hand is better than 10 a little less shitty birds on the roof disturbingly often myself. Good luck.	/r/seduction	19/06/22 09:37 AM
41	Online dating, especially Tinder..can go F%@$ itself Dating scene is broken dude. Take a gander at "better bachelor" on youtube, he posts a video about it every 2 days xD	/r/seduction	18/06/22 09:58 AM
3	Waited two decades for her and I am helpless now Bro. I have been someplace similar to where you are, it is not a healthy place to be. Look at it from her perspective. Would you feel comfortable being approached by someone who waited 20 years for your marriage to end, yet didn't have the courage to approach straight away after? Someone who idealizes you like som kind of demi god? That is a very awkward starting point for a relationship, don't you think? When you meet a girl, you must meet her on equal terms. You both like each other about the …	/r/seduction	17/06/22 08:41 AM
1	Waited two decades for her and I am helpless now Bro. Shot your shot now or you will forever regret it. Go and say hi, occupy her attention, replace whatever memory she has of anyone else. Show your best side. If you fail (the most likely scenario, as is always the case) at least you tried, and you can look back without regret and move on. If you truly did prepare for 20 years, it should be effortless, no matter whom you pursue in the future.	/r/seduction	17/06/22 08:13 AM
1	Do things usually fall of this quickly for everyone? Why did you like her? Was it her sexy body, the chase, the first encounters only, or was it also it her intelligence, her values, her well thought out opinions? Your deep conversations about life? You planning and doing activities together that you both enjoy alone, but now you found a soulmate that makes them even better? It sounds to me like you are not finding girls that are lon term material. Finding that kind of girl is difficult and takes time.	/r/seduction	14/06/22 06:35 AM
2	My link on vacation is ignoring me now Nope	/r/seduction	12/06/22 08:10 PM
2	Hot girl but no chemistry? I would say most girls I meet are like that. I don't know if I'm picky or if I'm not what most girls like. I guess it is a mix. It can be very frustrating at times, you kind of wish there was something you could hold on to in conversation but you have to admit in the end that there really there isn't any.	/r/seduction	06/06/22 06:30 PM
1	Men's fascination with male genitalia makes me upset. Repost	/r/seduction	06/06/22 02:47 PM
2	When girls give bland/one-sentence responses on apps like Tinder, is that a sign to be more interesting, or to feign disinterest? Girls go to tinder 95% for other reasons than going out with guys, major reasons being validation and entertainment when they are bored. If you didn't get her number chances are she doesn't care about you at all so you should stop wasting time with her and move on. On the flip side get her details down asap before convo turns sour like this.	/r/seduction	03/06/22 07:29 AM
3	When girls give bland/one-sentence responses on apps like Tinder, is that a sign to be more interesting, or to feign disinterest? Mirror her behavior. Have to wait 3 hours for a response? let her wait too. Didn't answer your question? Don't answer hers. At some point before it becomes ridiculous, you drop her and move on.	/r/seduction	03/06/22 07:22 AM
3	Losing the girl I'm in love with Time to move on. Your good times with her make nice memories. Find someone new to make even better memories with!	/r/seduction	02/06/22 05:12 AM
5	Is this a good text to ask a girl out? Assuming she likes you is part of what makes it good. You show that you are not afraid and that you are confident she likes you.	/r/seduction	31/05/22 12:21 PM
1	Men's fascination with male genitalia makes me upset. I will look at your vajayjay if you want.	/r/seduction	27/05/22 11:58 PM
1	Overcoming sexual insecurity Well my tips still hold. Make sure to keep her occupied with pleasure and when you see her squirming, it will help you with your confidence	/r/seduction	27/05/22 07:44 PM
0	Overcoming sexual insecurity There is tons of information online on how to please a girl in other ways. The skills required are not that hard to learn once you get the basic understanding. For example gentle but firm pressure from your thumb in the right spots will give her the feeling of penetration when you are focusing on other stuff with your tongue. Also if you lack experience, it will help you greatly to have a friend to practice with. Be honest, but downplay your penis problem and emphasize that you really want to le…	/r/seduction	27/05/22 10:53 AM
2	When is it appropriate to approach an attractive girl? No exactly, so approach her! 😁	/r/seduction	27/05/22 04:02 AM
2	When is it appropriate to approach an attractive girl? That is beside the point xD If she sees one guy there then that is her only option. That would be the guy that decided HE was more important than whatever she was up to at the time, all the while you and I were someplace else twiddling our beta thumbs contemplating our importance..	/r/seduction	27/05/22 03:58 AM
2	When is it appropriate to approach an attractive girl? I agree. But that attractive girl doesn't care about us either so it is fine 😁	/r/seduction	27/05/22 03:48 AM
2	When is it appropriate to approach an attractive girl? Me too bro. But I think that is part of the problem. Some guy with the ego of Elon Musk will snap her up in front of your eyes while you are contemplating if she is busy or not.	/r/seduction	27/05/22 03:38 AM
4	When is it appropriate to approach an attractive girl? You are giving them the opportunity to speak with you, so it boils down to how important you hold yourself to be. If you were Elon Musk would you wait your turn, or skip meeting them just because they were busy?	/r/seduction	27/05/22 03:34 AM
2	Using alcohol once in awhile for reference experiences I was completely sober for most my life before deciding to start drinking. I still go out sober about 50% of the time, and you are definitely on to something. However I found the vibe, your mood and general mindset often is more indicative of the progress of the evening rather than intoxication level. Who you go out with, the events of the day, how prepared you feel etc play a big part. Also just the luck of the day.	/r/seduction	27/05/22 02:19 AM
3	I want to get off dating apps and approach men IRL Good advice. I can add that as a (imho) quality man having trouble approaching, you might find some unpolished gems if you do the approaching, or at least stay patient in case someone a little awkward approaches you.	/r/seduction	26/05/22 07:24 AM
1	how do i tackle this issue ? Why does he ask? And why won't you tell him? The answer is simple, just tell him to his face that you don't like talking about it and that you won't tell him. But knowing why he asks and why you don't want to tell him might help both of you.	/r/seduction	24/05/22 10:36 AM
5	I’m a 24 year old Virgin and I don’t really find her attractive, but should I have sex to get it over with ? Short answer;yes. I was hopeless virgin at 23 until my friend landed me a chick who I wasn't into at all, but after sleeping with her something just clicked in my head and suddenly I was having a much easier time with girls.	/r/seduction	23/05/22 10:08 PM
0	How to keep in touch with a girl that you approached? I open snap or messenger on my phone depending on how sus she is and ask her to add herself then and there. On snap we are virtually anonymous, on messenger we have our full name and can peek at a fb page. Messenger and snap are the most popular apps where I live, substitute your own.	/r/seduction	23/05/22 10:40 AM
3	As soon as I show interest in someone, it starts it’s too fizzle out. Any pointers? Pragmatic solution is to not show interest regardless of wether you like them or not?	/r/seduction	23/05/22 05:58 AM
1	Curing in-set anxiety without alcohol? I think the answer is volume practice. Go out to bars sober. When everyone else is drunk you have an advantage, and you can practice freely without the ill effects of alcohol the following day.	/r/seduction	22/05/22 10:36 PM
1	I feel guilty for helping my self You matter. You are important. And the person that takes care of you is yourself. Your parents, family and friends will surely help, but you should not rely on them. You can only rely on yourself. This is true for everyone, not just you, so by focusing on others, there is nobody left to focus on you.	/r/seduction	22/05/22 04:14 PM
10	how can I make conversion with my girl far more fun and interesting Tell her a story from your day. Start with "you will never guess what happened to me today". Nothing fun happened to you that day? Do more fun stuff! And also, just make something up by exaggerating the slightly boring reality. It is not lying if you let it shine through that this is an exageration made to entertain.	/r/seduction	21/05/22 06:27 PM
5	Is the paid content of Marnie (the winggirlmethod) worth the money? I have a hard time taking tips from a girl on seduction. It is like a lion taking tips from the antilope on hunting antilopes.	/r/seduction	20/05/22 09:41 AM
1	Licked the blood from my bruise Not everyone knows that ingesting other people's blod could be a risk. You could politely tell her and you will soon learn if she did it despite that risk or not.	/r/seduction	13/05/22 05:43 PM
2	(M25) Recently got out of a LTR and my game is terrible and need some advice with this situation You accidentally did the right thing. Good job!	/r/seduction	13/05/22 09:55 AM
1	Does a guy like me if his friend says he does? Friends are unreliable and may be both good and bad. Skip the friend and talk directly to the guy.	/r/seduction	01/05/22 04:22 PM
110	Tinder Success Rate? Lol did yo accidentally put a picture of brad pitt in your profile? 🤠	/r/seduction	27/04/22 11:56 AM
1	Besides the gym, where does one go to meet muscular women? My crossfit has an annual party. I was surprised at the number of girls there I never met due to working out at different hours.	/r/seduction	24/04/22 04:05 PM
7	Advice please. Realize that you will regret it for the rest of your life if you don't give that chance your very best shot. Also realize that if you fail, you didn't really fail because you did your best and nobody could ask any better from you. You learned from the encounter so that the chance of failing next time will be diminished significantly.	/r/seduction	22/04/22 02:08 AM
7	What she trying to do here ??! Why do you even care. Block her and stop wasting your brain cells and seconds on her	/r/seduction	19/04/22 08:06 AM
4	Should I trade my Android for an iPhone if I want to get as many girls as possible? I have more stigma for people with apple addiction. Those people don't know any better, poor souls...	/r/seduction	18/04/22 11:04 PM
16	I became her "gay friend", now what? Some (but far from all) girls can wing you. If they had brothers growing up that usually means she can. Maybe ask her to wing you? Then if she thought you were gay/had feelings for you/ whatever will become clear as day in seconds	/r/seduction	16/04/22 06:24 PM
2	How do you defuse people who call you a creep for dating younger women? Why is there so much hate on some subreddits for men in their 30s who date/seduce ADULT women in their early to mid 20s? That was perhaps bad wording on my part 😅 will edit	/r/seduction	16/04/22 08:16 AM
7	How do you defuse people who call you a creep for dating younger women? Why is there so much hate on some subreddits for men in their 30s who date/seduce ADULT women in their early to mid 20s? You could go to published papers on what most men want. Pr the gazillion manosphere yt videos out there that happen to often cite their sources well. Or just ignore them, they don't know better, let them have the ladies of the age they prefer.	/r/seduction	16/04/22 08:04 AM
1	I've literally thrown my life away since 14 from depression and failure with girls Stop shitting on yourself. Start looking for positives. I know depression is a condition, but what do you want us to say? 1. Eat healthy 2. Exercise 3. Hold a job for long 4. Find fun hobbies 5. Go out with friends <-- those are the practical solutions to your problems. Age is just a number for men, 27 37 47? Who cares!	/r/seduction	14/04/22 01:56 AM
4	She still uses Tinder. Does she see me as an option? How to proceed? I would ignore it. Just because she shops around does not mean you have to. If it creeps you out ditch her. And like you said, you dont have time for more chicks, so how could she have time for more guys?	/r/seduction	14/04/22 01:48 AM
7	Best places besides bars to meet college girls in volume? I think anyone was welcome, but that is up to the club in question	/r/seduction	06/04/22 10:26 PM
81	Best places besides bars to meet college girls in volume? When I was a student, someone tipped me off dancing class. The room was packed to the brim with babes, looking for males to pair up with. I hated dancing and was a hopeless shy introvert back then with zero game (i was also in a relationship, go figure), but for the right dude I imagine that would be surefire place to find the connections you seek. The class had us rotate dancing partners. Nobody could dance so we all bonded over that 😁	/r/seduction	06/04/22 10:15 PM
9	Any tips how to easily get laid ? M20 virgin Get a job that pays decently. You will need the money going forward. Get more than 0 friends. Join a activity/club and work on getting friends. Male friends you hang out with on the daily that can support your effort and introduce you to candidates. Go to the gym, get a membership. Use it 2-3 times a week and build your body. Make sure you are actually lifting weights and making real progress. Ask one of your friends to join you. Eat healthy. 3rd plate of carbs, 3rd plate of vegs and 3rd plate o…	/r/seduction	04/04/22 07:24 AM
2	Cutest girl I've ever seen, we hut it off bit I didn't ask for her number because I 'just knew' If you are serious, this is what you fight in yourself. But you chose if/when to be serious. It is imo ok to let one slide from time to time.	/r/seduction	04/04/22 07:07 AM
3	I'm 21 and i've even had my first kiss😢. Tired many dating apps yet didn't even got a date yet. Is it normal to be like this? I was clueless and was a virgin til 23. In the end my buddy hooked me up with his gf's fugly friend at a party in a cabin in the woods. Looking back, thanks Tygg for looking out for your friend 😂🥳 Anyway, after that first encounter it was as if everything clicked into place in my mind, and suddenly girls weren't mysterious or dangerous anymore. Everyone's journey is different, so maybe this information is useless to you. My impression is that dating is particularly savage in 2022 (my story was i…	/r/seduction	03/04/22 09:09 AM
1	Anyone know what could have lead to me being ghosted? Is it recoverable? In my experience it is a spur of the moment thing. She convinced herself you are her mark for the evening. The day after the mood and vibe is gone, you no longer exist.	/r/seduction	01/04/22 06:09 AM
2	Anyone know what could have lead to me being ghosted? Is it recoverable? Dude she wanted to go home with you that night	/r/seduction	01/04/22 06:06 AM
6	I feel like all the girls I'm attracted to wouldn't be attracted to me and all those I'm not attracted to would be attracted to me. Everyone want someone just outside their league and also the vibes you give off when you like someone are less attractive than the vibes you give off when you are a careface.	/r/seduction	20/03/22 04:56 PM
2	a group of goodlooking girls started speaking to me but i got nervous and walked away Start talking exclusively with the least attractive of them while ignoring the others and watch their power structure crumple before your eyes 😉 The least pretty will be surprised you even look at her and be happy for the attention, the most pretty will try to win back the spotlight. Don't let her.	/r/seduction	14/03/22 01:10 AM
4	I'm 28 she's 19 is that too young? Too young for serious relationship. Not too young for play.	/r/seduction	13/03/22 11:58 PM
12	I Want to Live A Lifestyle of Casual Sex For Awhile. How Do I Tell This to Other Guys I Know? Why tell them? Actions peak louder than words. Just do it and prepare a good response for questions/comments. I went through my life being overly explicit; I had to inform in advance. Didn't do me any favors.	/r/seduction	13/03/22 06:07 PM
2	Is This A Good Line To Say If You Don’t Want Her Near You? Say you are gay and into poop sex.	/r/seduction	10/03/22 04:46 PM
2	I need advice about my relationship Your first mistake is stopping. Finish your biz go back and ignore her bullshit.	/r/seduction	09/03/22 09:37 PM
-6	Subliminal messages during sex Edge him for hours then leave with no explanation with a smirk on your face. If you were any good he will come back for more.	/r/seduction	27/02/22 12:49 PM
1	I sometimes feel like dating women is like playing a video game. I have to do certain things in a certain order at the right time to keep them interested This is how you know you are a playah :D	/r/seduction	25/02/22 05:30 PM
1	How do you text after cold approaching? I am clueless, but isn't calling better than texting in this case?	/r/seduction	24/02/22 05:06 PM
3	[deleted by user] Once you sense it, don't go there, just talk about other stuff. If she shows interest then go for it, you might be her first! If not, then now you maybe know the reason.	/r/seduction	23/02/22 01:41 PM
145	Do you think women give men bad dating advice on purpose? The problem is that girls don't have a clue. If they want a guy they can just look at him and say take me home and her seduction is over. Why would you ever ask someone spoiled like that? It is like asking the crown prince for advice on how to get rich.	/r/seduction	20/02/22 10:26 AM
4	I was doing great at the start of the unofficial date but at the end of the night things fizzled out and we ended up looking at our phones You could cut things short as soon as you notice, that way you can come back refreshed for a round two. Just say something simple like " ladies, this was wonderful, I will see you again sometime". No need for excuses. This needs to be done as soon as you see things go sideways. Give her the last attention.	/r/seduction	17/02/22 11:16 AM
6	Sex tips for girls? Many girls want the lights off, but men are really visual so why hide the good stuff? Let him see you not just feel you. Give him a good angle 😌	/r/seduction	15/02/22 04:59 AM
2	Playing a girl off another girl If you don't go for Lucy before someone else does you will regret it. Step up and go for it. The worst outcome is no. The best outcome is worth that risk.	/r/seduction	12/02/22 11:46 AM
14	What girls think of short men I think the majority of girls prefer guys that are taller than themselves by a certain amount. This is the barrier. Some girls don't care, and a small minority would prefer guys shorter than themselves. Too tall is also a problem. I am sure there is research data on this. So then, as a short guy, I would just look for girls shorter than me.	/r/seduction	10/02/22 01:38 PM
1	Women keep saying my "large penis" makes me undateable. How do I address this issue? Of my 35-ish bodycount, only one gave me no pleasure. The reason was her vagina was just too roomy for me. I have average size. So one day you will find her. Let's hope that when you fin her, she is also compatible in other ways as well...	/r/seduction	06/02/22 09:32 PM
23	[deleted by user] This is one of those things that if she is sufficiently into you is just cute/romantic but if she is not, a huge red flag/creepy af.	/r/seduction	06/02/22 09:24 PM
2	[deleted by user] Go dancing in the club with your own group of friends. Have a great time, you love dancing, you love partying. Lots of high fives and internal jokes in your group. Mimicking silly dance moves, telling each other dirty jokes in the line to the bar etc. Include anyone who wants to join in your fun dynamic, both guys and gals. As closing time approaches, recruit ppl to your awesome after-party just down the street. The after-party is lit. Plenty of good people old and new. Lots of booze. Ppl dance,…	/r/seduction	05/02/22 10:31 AM
1	[deleted by user] Redditor for redditor. If you want to meet someone. There are also other x 4 y subredits.	/r/seduction	05/02/22 07:16 AM
5	[deleted by user] r/r4r ?	/r/seduction	04/02/22 09:32 PM
7	Zoning out Yep. It is like one part of my brain goes "do you really want to get i someone's pants that bad" and the answer from the other part of my brain is like "..... processing, please hold the line" and poof she is gone.	/r/seduction	01/02/22 10:37 PM
1	What do you do when she is losing interist ? Who said you can only have one? Pick the one you want for the day an politely decline the other. When you are in demand, you are more attractive. It will feel strange and counter intuitive at first, but if you own that attitude properly, you will be a successful two timing asshole for realz	/r/seduction	26/01/22 08:30 AM
5	What do you do when she is losing interist ? Drop her, find someone else. If she comes back, fine if not now you have someone new.	/r/seduction	25/01/22 11:33 PM
7	Do I lie about my virginity? Own it. Angle it to your advantage. If you proclaim "yes i'm a virgin" with enough of a smirk and sparkle in your eye, people will think you are mysterious and will get in a fight to be your first instead of thinking negative of you. Make sure to ask "would you fuck a virgin" when it's your turn to ask, look them straight in the eyes...	/r/seduction	25/01/22 11:26 PM
2	Does showing value and not acting needy really work? Here's a counterexample making me question everything My best friend is a complete beta. Anxious, nervous, emotional. Really talkative and i.m.o. super annoying at times. But he looks like Johnny Depp and is very social and gets drunk and goes partying often. He has to deny strangers walking up to him literally asking to sleep with him then and there a lot. I guess those books are tools for those less fortunate to find a way. But by no means are they, nor should they claim to be "the only way". We have evolved over millions of years to select mates…	/r/seduction	22/01/22 09:53 AM
16	how to be good in bed Plenty of foreplay. 2. No matter what happens, take care of your partner's needs first or at the same time as your own. 3. Be patient and try different variations. But when something works well, don't change it. 4.Aftercare/cuddle etc is important too.	/r/seduction	15/01/22 04:14 PM
4	I need an advice ! Some people just hate texting	/r/seduction	12/01/22 01:06 AM
4	{Rant} - Freaking tired of your excuses You sound like a Donald Trump Tweet, ngl.	/r/seduction	11/01/22 08:35 PM
7	i find all the girl boring, what Can i do What makes you interesting? Any hobbies? I find most girls boring too, but I kind of feel like there is an obvious reason (I have lots of obscure interests that most girls have zero interest in).	/r/seduction	11/01/22 10:22 AM
1	[deleted by user] She likes you. She talks about other guys to see your reaction. Giving you her number was a last ditch. You can be nice and tell her you are not interested.	/r/seduction	10/01/22 09:14 AM
2	What to do when hanging out in a girl’s place? Context below No 😁 she will think you strange for taking control at her house. Have confidence in yourself.	/r/seduction	07/01/22 02:46 PM
2	What to do when hanging out in a girl’s place? Context below She will probably take lead. Watch tv, eat, talk, hang out with her pets/family/whatever	/r/seduction	07/01/22 02:41 PM
14	i'm virgin at 21, no gf help Start exercising. You will see yourself improve and feel great. Maybe meet new friends. You will look better, feel better and do better. I was unkissed til I was 23, but started exercising at 39. I regret the late exercise more than the late kissing...	/r/seduction	06/01/22 08:07 AM
9	There's something I see on girls eyes You are not being constructive in this conversation.	/r/seduction	05/01/22 04:15 AM
6	I think my HS teacher likes me or is out to get me.. This is super sketchy. If he was not your teacher and you were 18 it would be 'fine'. He is probably working really hard (like he should and must) not to hit on you. If you are any smart, make it easier for him to not like you. I know this is r/seduction, but both of you would regret it as it can have big consequences like him loosing his job/being criminally charged and you being ostracized/victimized by whole community.	/r/seduction	03/01/22 01:08 PM
125	Women rejected me and within three weeks I sense she might have changed her mind. This is a clear case of ALE (Acronym Legitimization Effort).	/r/seduction	08/12/21 03:14 PM
3	Do you think this is appropriate? It completely depends on her and situation. If it was kind of forced then maybe it was bad. If she was giggling and turning red then it was maybe good. Don't blindly follow rules they will seldom work when you do	/r/seduction	26/11/21 03:07 PM
2	Do you think this is appropriate? I think that depends on her really. She might find that distasteful or cute. Either way just forget about it and move on, you will know soon enough.	/r/seduction	26/11/21 03:03 PM
1	Imagine being cuddled by a stronger bigger woman than you. r/eroticpoem	/r/seduction	26/11/21 12:48 PM
1	I hate myself for being effeminate I didn't really pay attention so from my perspective it was kind of sudden.	/r/seduction	19/11/21 06:02 PM
27	I hate myself for being effeminate I feel you bro... my consolidation is the fact that the two people I know that banged the most chicks are both very effeminate. They are both of slight figure, soft spoken and delicate. They are emotional and have no 'real man' hobbies or traits of any kind. This makes them very harmless and approachable by girls, they get to talk about intimate emotional subjects very easily. They both have a horde of female friends. But they are not afraid to sneak the subject of sex on to the table. They do i…	/r/seduction	18/11/21 08:56 PM
3	Met this girl last night at a party Good moods are hard to replicate sometimes. Relax and pick up next time a good vibe comes along, don't force it.	/r/seduction	08/11/21 05:36 AM
1	What should be my game plan? Tips/Advice for cute girl that might be into me. Dude just go over there and sit next to her, look into her eyes and say 'thanks for the pastry, it was a very welcomed surprise'. Then ask about her, what she is into. She was brave to do what she did, the least you can do is return the bravery. Do it now before it is too late!	/r/seduction	08/11/21 04:34 AM
40	Some interesting conversation starters while approaching. Wow are you dancing too? What a coincidence!	/r/seduction	07/11/21 03:35 PM
7	How do i approach girls dancing near me at the club? I have a similar issue where I am not able to convert. I know how to bust a move, and get lots of attention, but it seems girls want me to grind and I feel reluctant because I dont want to overstep any boundaries. They lose interest after they realize and then it is game over. My tactic is just remaining mysterious, just giving them a smirk and moving swiftly to other areas of the dance floor. This maintains their interest for sure but also leads nowhere. So I think the answer might depend on th…	/r/seduction	07/11/21 03:29 PM
6	Getting a girl to lose weight The answer is simple: there is no way you can initiate this without her feelings being hurt. In fact, you will do more damage than good. Also IMHO dumping someone because they are overweight is not superficial. What does and does not attract us in a potential mate is one of those things where being 100% completely honest with yourself is the only way. My advice is to let this one go, and maybe you can catch it again later to see if you are a beter fit then..	/r/seduction	06/11/21 06:13 AM
9	How does someone become mysterious? Smile a secret smile, drop hints that you proceed to adamantly avoid following up. Stay silent by default.	/r/seduction	05/11/21 10:51 AM
8	What does it mean when a girl is always joking/talking about sexual related stuff most of the time ? It could be many things. One would be feeling insecure somehow.	/r/seduction	01/11/21 12:28 PM
2	What do you need to have a long conversation? If you have common interest that you both care about it will come naturally.	/r/seduction	29/10/21 03:28 PM
2	[deleted by user] You have to take charge, gently tell them what to do in the start. Keep a fun laid back mood. If they get into it, encourage them to diverge from your plan. I am guessing a little preparation is smart. Think what would work and what wouldn't. Take care of practical stuff like keeping the room temperature warm, lights a little dim (helps with shy girls), relaxing background music, having plenty of condoms, lube, enough pillows and duvets to go around, pillows for support, snacks and beverages at …	/r/seduction	25/10/21 10:18 PM
1	Any advice on surpassing those generic ass first conversations with new people? One thing is to say something boring in a way that can be interpreted many ways, or in an unexpected manner. Wrap it in something a bit edgy or rude even, before coming back out amicably. I haven't the faintest clue as to what could be an example here because I too lack the quick wit and ability to think on my feet when stood opposed to an object of my fantasies.	/r/seduction	25/10/21 09:18 PM
5	is this subreddit just filled with men & mostly bad advice Fine tell us how to do it, we are dying to know xD	/r/seduction	24/10/21 05:24 AM
9	She asked me for my number and never messaged me ever. What's going on? Give her time. One day is not so long.	/r/seduction	22/10/21 01:46 PM
2	How Do I (20F) Get Spouse (18-22MF)? Kinda both. Reddit has lots of dating and hookup subs. It is the internet's front page after all... Cant rememer the names, was it /r/r4r? Just search!	/r/seduction	14/10/21 01:23 PM
2	How Do I (20F) Get Spouse (18-22MF)? Have you tried reddit?	/r/seduction	14/10/21 04:05 AM
11	[deleted by user] We are all different, but I have found myself in two camps in general: 1. She has sex with me because she likes me, not because she likes the sex. This is a big turn off for me, I want to see the lust in her eyes, there is no substitute. If she likes me too that is great! 2. She likes me, she likes sex but I am not attracted to her. It could be anatomical reasons, fitness reasons, odor reasons. Sometimes just reasons. I had smelly, loose, overly passive, overly aggressive, loud, quiet, heavy, in…	/r/seduction	11/10/21 04:16 PM
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2	Apart from paying for the services of an escort, what's a good plan of action for an average looking guy to lose his virginity? I blossomed at 23. Once I popped I never stopped! My solution was simply to lower my standard. A friend just got together with a girl and she had a single friend. Very kind, but not exactly a looker. Once that was over with perspective changed completely and it was suddenly easy to approach girls. I even managed to charm several attractive ones 😂	/r/seduction	06/10/21 03:51 AM
1	Feel like my height (5'7) is already a dealbreaker for every woman I meet Nothing is fair in life. I am tall, have ok looks, take care of my body, well off and know to dress well. I have manners and would you believe it; a very interesting personality.And yet I have zero game to the point that it has become a running joke for me. I almost take pride in being thoroughly ignored and rejected in every way. The reason is undoubtedly related to confidence. I simply don't have good confidence when it counts. I find it fascinating to study the social and biological mechanism…	/r/seduction	29/08/21 02:51 PM
1	Setting up the date I think at that point you restore the value dynamic by being twice as attractive as before and drastically lowering the attention you give her. If she comes around, great. If not, time for a new project.	/r/seduction	06/04/21 01:17 PM
8	What are some alpha male habits to allow me to be respected and socially more assertive? Walk tall with your shoulders back, your chest out and your chin up. Look people in the eyes, don't look away. Stay genuinely calm in stressful situations. Basically remove any sign of neurotic behaviour. It is really really hard, so fake it till you make it.	/r/seduction	02/04/21 09:41 AM
3	Most people would rather look good in mediocrity than look stupid on the road to success. Here are three tips to prevent the fear of rejection, failure or embarrassment from holding you back. Fear is little death.	/r/seduction	12/02/21 02:22 PM
1	Either he’s shy or I’m doing something wrong Ask him directly 'are you shy when it comes to sex or avoiding me on purpose'. No need avoiding the topic.	/r/seduction	30/01/21 10:25 AM
3	how to lose my virgin sigh. Find a hobby, exercise, nurture a group of friends. Buy a few half descent outfits. Do stuff that makes you interesting and attractive. Be social and get invited to lots of social events where you will be seen with your friends by a bunch of girls. Go watch "yes man" with Jim Cary if you need ideas. You will then have plenty of opportunities to meet girls, end eventually one of them will drop her pants. Good luck!	/r/seduction	28/01/21 05:23 AM
2	She shuts me down when I talk about sex even though her boyfriend's a slut LOL I met plenty of chicks on tinder who love to chat and snap on the regular but never let me even make jokes about sex without shaming me, nor do they want to meet. They just want a simp to get attention from. Somehow that is ok in their minds.	/r/seduction	26/01/21 01:56 PM
1	Should I text her after we fucked Dont focus on the sex at all unless she brings it up. And dont make plans about future sex stuff romantic or not. Just enjoy the moment, and let things happen. If she likes it she will come back for more all by herself. Let her think she holds the reins, and just respond what you would like honestly.	/r/seduction	27/12/20 05:43 AM
3	Should I text her after we fucked Wait for her to text. If she said she will, she will. If you go first texting then you will ruin it. If she doesn't text in a while that is fine. I would wait at least 2 weeks before reminding her.	/r/seduction	27/12/20 05:36 AM
2	Greeting after first sex? "Greetings sperm recepticle, I will require your service frequently and on demand from now on. Please wash thoroughly" usually works.	/r/seduction	10/12/20 11:47 PM
5	29 M, Miserable, neglected failure Hang in there dude. I have felt the same way for a long time, but playing the victim or thinking you should be entitled to anything from any woman is not the way. Find things in your life that make you happy not related to chicks at all, replace your thoughts with happy memories. I picked up riding quad bikes and training crossfit. I also am starting a business. I notice myself feeling better with myself every day. Oh and watching Jordan Peterson and Bill Burr ramble on about guys vs. ladies als…	/r/seduction	08/12/20 06:02 AM
3	Advice for asking a girl on a date Dinner means looking at each other while eating. I don't like that and maybe she might not either. How about suggesting some light entertainment activity? I was going to suggest bowling, but I dont know how that is now with COVID. Preferably something that is easy to say yes to. No learning curve, casual and social, not far away. Not too novel, but still fun. And imo movies is not good as you want to talk to them, not stare at a screen in darkness. Something that doesn't last too long. Ice skati…	/r/seduction	07/12/20 09:03 AM
1	A guy here who never dated. Looking for advice on how to approach women or how to find dates. Working out and being social gives you confidence. You will feel your body change for the better and you will feel validation of others around you.	/r/seduction	19/11/20 03:37 AM
2	A guy here who never dated. Looking for advice on how to approach women or how to find dates. First, you are NOT running out of time. For every year that passes, the number of girls that are in your range increases. Second, dont try to get a date, or a relationship. Instead, try to be social and find an interest that exposes you to social situations. Join a bunch of clubs and activities, disallow yourself to flirt, and instead focus on making genuine friends of both sexes. Work out or at least do some kind of physical activity, make sure you have a nice looking wardrobe. Trim your hair a…	/r/seduction	19/11/20 03:31 AM
1	How to transform texting in sexting? First, know that sexting and flirting arnt the same. While flirting can get wild with inuendo and sexual puns etc, sexting is literally enacting sexual acts in a text based chat, possibly interleaved with the sending of explisit pictures.. Second, know that some ppl just arnt into sexting, like me for example. I find it awkward and childish and not at all arousing. I would therefore first find out if he wants to flirt by putting some statements that have double meanings, followed by smirk emoji …	/r/seduction	03/04/20 11:46 PM
1	No idea how to get with someone Do you have friends that you hang out with? Do you have some activities or sports that you attend? Do you at least have a buddy to go out with? If not I would highly suggest you find such social arenas where you get to hang out with people. That is where you can show who you are and let someone get to know you and like you. Just relax and go with the flow, enjoy yourself while being a good person. Your time will come eventually.	/r/seduction	03/04/20 11:33 PM
2	A girl I had been seeing for a month broke up with me Wednesday out of nowhere. I went no contact and Friday night she is now texting me apologizing again. Full story below. Advice? Continue no contact? Find someone new to post pictures of on insta like she did. The sex with the new one will good too, maybe better. You will stop thinking about this bitch that dumped you.	/r/seduction	29/02/20 12:40 AM
1	A girl I had been seeing for a month broke up with me Wednesday out of nowhere. I went no contact and Friday night she is now texting me apologizing again. Full story below. Advice? Continue no contact? Move on.	/r/seduction	29/02/20 12:35 AM
1	A girl I had been seeing for a month broke up with me Wednesday out of nowhere. I went no contact and Friday night she is now texting me apologizing again. Full story below. Advice? Continue no contact? Could be she invented mr. random to test you following your silence? Maybe she too is too cool for school like you are xD	/r/seduction	29/02/20 12:30 AM
3	Girl renting at my place is showing interest... what to do? Make a comment that can be understood in two ways, one sexy and one innocent, and see if she goes for the sexy one. Or ask her to join you similarly in a way that is ambiguous, and let her pick her interpretation. It sounds like she is all in, but give her the golden ticket.	/r/seduction	22/02/20 01:42 AM
1	Girl renting at my place is showing interest... what to do? no, im from norway, you said she was nordic. it sounds like "go ahead". but if i know what culture you are from, maybe i can be more spesific	/r/seduction	22/02/20 01:36 AM
1	Girl renting at my place is showing interest... what to do? where are you btw?	/r/seduction	22/02/20 01:31 AM
5	what do you do when a girl on tinder starts bringing other men in the conversation Some girls crave extreme amounts of attention for various reasons, and this is one way for them to get it. I don't think you did anything wrong.	/r/seduction	26/12/19 12:37 PM
6	I can become successful with women. But then what The paradox we all struggle with is that when we are young, fit, brave and beautiful, we are also clueless. Wisdom comes with time and by the time we get wise and know what we want in life, we are already balding and gray corpses waiting to die. The sooner you figure out what you want, the better. Find your path and follow it, and remember to spend your youth when you have it.	/r/seduction	13/12/19 07:11 AM
23	failed to seduce an older girl When you are 35, 21 year olds are like children. To stand a chance, you need to find someone who is into that, or you have to show you are mature for your age to a point where you are still relevant. Not an easy feat.	/r/seduction	08/12/19 01:28 PM
3	Do you drink when you go out? Viagra?	/r/seduction	23/11/19 12:28 PM
1	Advice on how to approach my crush? I think that is why he is asking, because he does not want to risk loosing friendship.	/r/seduction	10/11/19 01:04 PM
2	Advice? Go out of campus?	/r/seduction	06/11/19 05:33 AM
4	Does anyone else find night clubbing / music festival going a turn off? My advice is to look at her as an individual, not go by your prejudice for a stereotype. Does she really go there to hook up? Maybe she just enjoys dancing. If I was her and following my prejudice towards you, I would stay far away. Who wants a nose up non-clubbing lamer?	/r/seduction	10/10/19 03:46 AM
1	Does anyone else find night clubbing / music festival going a turn off? Why is this a turn off for you? I am genuinely curious. Woyld you never feequent a club? What would you do instead? I am a guy that don't fit into the 'trashy club goer' stereotype at all, but I get a lot of energy and release by just dancing away with strangers into the night, so I can relate to this girl.	/r/seduction	10/10/19 03:22 AM
6	I can have sex/talk/kiss girls easily but can NEVER get the girl to fall for me. What am I doing wrong? you dont do anything other than be a person worth falling for. She either does or she doesnt fall for you. If she doesnt then move on.	/r/seduction	19/08/19 11:22 PM
3	How to know if he wants to see me or use me for head Maybe he wanted to ride the firetruck.	/r/seduction	31/07/19 11:36 PM
25	What kinds of Tinder conversations work for you? So far what I had the most success with is one or two funny remarks then go straifht for a date. This is obviously because I completely suck at holding a conversation. I simply bore my poor victims to death xD	/r/seduction	29/07/19 11:56 AM