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| 1 | What to do if friend is a naturaldont compete, just do what he's doing | /r/seduction | 21/12/25 09:30 PM |
| 1 | I can bring the girl home, but she leaves without even a kiss.honestly you should try to kiss before bringing her to your place. that way, you can tell if she's interested before wasting anyone's time | /r/seduction | 18/12/25 05:13 PM |
| 1 | Difference between a "nice guy" and a "good guy" is based on how attractive he is.not at all. nice guys are needy and bend to anyones whims wothout standing up for themselves because they think its the nice thing to do. good guys understand that they have to stand up for themselves and their needs and wants too and their honest about it and harbor no bitter feelings if people dont feel the same way | /r/seduction | 15/10/25 02:57 AM |
| 6 | Question for guys with more experience – which approach works better when meeting a girl for the first time?honestly just depends on the girl and more importantly, your personality. whichever is more comfortable for you is what you should go with. personally im more the second type but just a calm low key guy off bat, although i am funny and confident so i dont really hold back on that. again all depends on you and the girl. be yourself. if she doesnt like it, she can dip | /r/seduction | 20/07/25 11:05 PM |
| 1 | Philipines overrated or a target rich place for seducing women ?gameless question | /r/seduction | 20/07/25 04:49 AM |
| 1 | How come some guys become less cool as soon as they get a gfbecause the gf is uncool and she's uncooling him | /r/seduction | 25/05/25 08:53 PM |
| 2 | Where would you go if you wanted a woman who is okay with drinking and smoking a lot?the bar | /r/seduction | 03/05/25 09:10 PM |
| 7 | The Game or The Models?models bro beyond being a good guide for how to be more attractive and pick up women its also just got good life advice in general. definitely recommend | /r/seduction | 01/05/25 09:35 PM |
| 3 | What’s it like to date a woman who constantly tests a man compared to one who doesn’t?if shes tests you constantly the only way to pass is to dump her ass | /r/seduction | 01/05/25 09:31 PM |
| 27 | This place does not match up with realityYeah everytime I read a post on this sub I have the recurring thought that the strong opinions people have on here would crumble the second any of these people steps outside and interacts with a real human being. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 28/04/25 07:23 PM |
| 0 | Dating got easier not harder as people are making it out to be.i agree. dating is way easier | /r/PurplePillDebate | 28/04/25 06:58 PM |
| 0 | How to get women to open up to you emotionally?works for me. sorry for you L pal | /r/seduction | 28/04/25 06:43 PM |
| 1 | How do you recover from a historically bad fumble?move on to the next one | /r/seduction | 28/04/25 01:58 AM |
| 2 | How do you pull girls in clubs ?dance bro. its a club so dance | /r/seduction | 28/04/25 01:08 AM |
| 3 | How to get women to open up to you emotionally?open up emotionally first. works every time and they love it | /r/seduction | 28/04/25 01:06 AM |
| -19 | What are some things that are worth remembering when seducing younger women?half your age plus seven | /r/seduction | 26/04/25 04:42 AM |
| 1 | Is it strange or creepy if I randomly compliment a woman I’m passing by.depends on what you say | /r/seduction | 24/04/25 11:59 PM |
| 2 | If you can’t get a gf/bf it’s prob bcuz you’re unattractive in some way. People stating this are incorrectly accused of “just world fallacy.”oh i can tell, just trying to clarify because i know there will be people who dont understand the distinction | /r/PurplePillDebate | 24/04/25 11:02 PM |
| 2 | How to get her interested/attention?next time ask for her specifically (learn her name) and then tell her you think she's pretty and you'd like to get to know her better sometime (this is when you ask her on a date, something specific, with a date, time and location) | /r/seduction | 24/04/25 11:00 PM |
| 1 | It's unnatural for men to chase women.men seek out the partner they want. by waiting around to be chosen youre being passive in a decision that may affect the rest of your life. also its 100% natural to chase women. thats how you get the one you want. sure being magnetic counts for something but you still have to make the moves. this faux alpha male bs you guys put on reeks horribly of incel insecurity and everyone can smell except you guys | /r/PurplePillDebate | 24/04/25 10:50 PM |
| 1 | If you can’t get a gf/bf it’s prob bcuz you’re unattractive in some way. People stating this are incorrectly accused of “just world fallacy.”it should be clarified that unattractive doesnt necessarily mean ugly. behaviors and certain personalities are also unattractive. also whats attractive to one person may be unattractive to another | /r/PurplePillDebate | 24/04/25 10:41 PM |
| 6 | How to know if they like you backthis is actually pretty good. better than 90% of the long posts on this sub | /r/seduction | 24/04/25 10:40 PM |
| 1 | I find majority of girls boring, what can I do?be more interesting you will find more interesting people to talk to | /r/seduction | 24/04/25 10:22 PM |
| 3 | When other dudes blow you awaywhen other dudes blow you | /r/seduction | 21/04/25 04:59 AM |
| 2 | "GRA" - the only 3 abilities you (unfortunately) need to get women in 2025 (longer post)uuugghhhhhhhhhhhh why is this sub so gay | /r/seduction | 21/04/25 04:54 AM |
| 1 | Women will be the ones saying a man's career and money is irrelevant, until now it was the opposite waythis is why youre red pill. youd rather give up and blame statistics than confront your fears in the real world. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 21/04/25 04:51 AM |
| 0 | Women will be the ones saying a man's career and money is irrelevant, until now it was the opposite waycope how you want. i knew ugly dudes with no job who had gfs. so much of the internet dating standards fall apart when confronted with real life people. have hobbies that allow you to socialize and go outside and see how the world is beyond a screen | /r/PurplePillDebate | 20/04/25 02:51 AM |
| 1 | What are some good questions you can ask a woman to make her qualify herself to you?why are you asking us? you dont know what you want from a woman? | /r/seduction | 16/04/25 11:29 PM |
| 2 | What to say when someone asks what you are looking for?I'm looking to go on dates, have fun, have sex. I'm not looking for anything long term nor anything that implies exclusivity. tell them that | /r/seduction | 16/04/25 08:49 PM |
| 0 | (Advanced) What are y'alls thoughts on the value of dating 9s?no i dont differentiate between girls who are cute and hot. girls are either hot or not hot. 10s are essentially untouchable? so youve psyched yourself out of dating girls who are really hot? and for what? theyre just girls dude. shes a woman just like any other. stop putting girls on a pedestal. theyre just girls trying to improve your results? you couldve just been sleeping with hot girls the whole time but you wanted to do test runs with uggos? alright bro. like i said, number system is usele… | /r/seduction | 16/04/25 08:47 PM |
| 4 | Women will be the ones saying a man's career and money is irrelevant, until now it was the opposite wayhalf the "debates" on here can be solved by going out and talking to a real woman out in the world. ive dated women with better jobs than me and even dated women when ive had no job. half my girlfriends have made more money than me during the entire relationship but they still chose to date me. begging all of you to go outside please | /r/PurplePillDebate | 16/04/25 08:16 PM |
| -3 | (Advanced) What are y'alls thoughts on the value of dating 9s?why would you sleep with a girl if you dont think she's hot. even if she was just cute, she was hot enough for you to sleep with. also why bother with 9s? why not just go for 10s outright? like whats the point? | /r/seduction | 16/04/25 08:09 PM |
| 0 | Dating apps are not a good indicator of real life datingfive years ago i did more online dating than i do now. speak for yourself if youre a cavedweller. you can be bitter about online dating five years from now and i will be outside enjoying reality | /r/PurplePillDebate | 16/04/25 04:47 PM |
| 0 | (Advanced) What are y'alls thoughts on the value of dating 9s?stop using the 1-10 rating system. all that matters is whether you would sleep with someone or not | /r/seduction | 16/04/25 04:41 PM |
| 1 | Dating apps are not a good indicator of real life datingi agree | /r/PurplePillDebate | 16/04/25 04:40 PM |
| -2 | Dating apps are not a good indicator of real life datingyou need to go outside. online is hardly any indication of real life | /r/PurplePillDebate | 16/04/25 04:40 PM |
| 1 | Feminists are deepening more issues than they’re solving.again thats only some particularly more radical sects of feminism. most of the sane feminists, like simone de beauvoir for example, advocates that for increased freedom of women from oppression would increase the freedom of men for oppression and that free people should fight to free oppressed people because that makes us all more free | /r/PurplePillDebate | 16/04/25 01:05 PM |
| 1 | Need to solve the problem of hurrying in a convomaybe try actually listening to her | /r/seduction | 15/04/25 10:05 PM |
| 1 | How does one think of a quirky/flirty reply while talking to a girl and when is it when you should start flirting (all on text)are you clever and quick witted when you hang out w your friends? if not then work on that first | /r/seduction | 15/04/25 10:01 PM |
| 0 | Feminists are deepening more issues than they’re solving.there are several different sects of feminism and what youre describing isnt necessarily feminism its womens reactionary responses to men and patriarchy largely being validated by spending time in echo chambers filled with like minded people. a lot of the "feminists" on the internet dont know anything about feminism and have no background in actually feminist theory, they are just women who hate men. totally different. feminism isnt the issue | /r/PurplePillDebate | 15/04/25 09:55 PM |
| 1 | Date Breaking Away from Kiss?dont ask us ask her bro | /r/seduction | 15/04/25 09:51 PM |
| -1 | Level of difficulty on datingdating is hard everywhere. if it doesnt work where you are its a you problem | /r/seduction | 15/04/25 09:42 PM |
| 5 | Girlfriend isn’t readyits gotta come from her sorry its nothing to do you | /r/seduction | 15/04/25 09:40 PM |
| 1 | What is she thinking?just ask her | /r/seduction | 14/04/25 10:55 PM |
| 1 | Hard to get laiddid you go to the club to hook up with girls or to dance? if you go out to have fun you will have fun. if you go out with the agenda to pull girls you will be frustrated when you dont. girls are attracted to fun | /r/seduction | 11/04/25 08:13 PM |
| 1 | Instagram—how to avoid similar issues?girls will check your followers regardless. if they ghost because you have too many female followers theyre insecure and its their problem. normal girls wont care girls are gonna talk. fact as hold as time no avoiding that as for crazies you are totally free to block anyone you dont want checking out your page and info | /r/seduction | 10/04/25 09:13 PM |
| 26 | Left on seen. Am I too gamey?bro's using ai to pull. we're cooked. just be yourself | /r/seduction | 10/04/25 09:07 PM |
| 1 | How do you detect Flakes?if they dont respond when you text or call or they dont meet up when you set up a date. once it happens you know theyre a flake. theres not much to detect before that. its the action that determines it | /r/seduction | 09/04/25 07:29 PM |
| 6 | What adjustments in game have given you the best results? (Personal experience)Dressing better does wonders for your game, status, and just everything else. Mindset-wise: there's 4 billion women in the world, you cant be too stuck on any one rejection, you just gotta move on Being honest with who you are and what you want in life will make pulling a lot easier because you also know who and what you dont want in your life Stop rating girls from 1-10, the binary (1/0:would fuck/wouldnt fuck) is far more important, effective, and confident | /r/seduction | 30/07/24 06:05 AM |
| 2 | What adjustments in game have given you the best results? (Personal experience)waste of time. you could just shoot your shot for a girl you like and score . | /r/seduction | 30/07/24 06:01 AM |
| -6 | What adjustments in game have given you the best results? (Personal experience)false and dumb | /r/seduction | 30/07/24 05:59 AM |
| – | "I see unattractive men date beautiful women all the time" has to be one of the most self-unaware statementsno ive literally seen uggos with gorgeous gfs | /r/PurplePillDebate | 14/07/24 08:57 AM |
| 1 | Question For Men, Which Of These Women Would You Rather Get Into A Relationship With?the dealbreaker is that theyre all ugly | /r/PurplePillDebate | 12/07/24 05:45 PM |
| 2 | What’s a good book that will help with learning playful banterbanter is definitely something you can practice and get better at . Ribbing can also be part of banter | /r/seduction | 11/07/24 09:05 AM |
| -1 | 2 ways to text a girlexactly this. asking if she likes wine is stupid | /r/seduction | 11/07/24 03:54 AM |
| 0 | 2 ways to text a girlmy hot take is that these are both trash ways of texting a girl. whats the end goal here? why does it matter if she likes red wine or white wine? doesnt really matter | /r/seduction | 11/07/24 03:53 AM |
| 1 | playing coolif it doesnt work for you, you are doing it wrong | /r/seduction | 09/07/24 05:52 PM |
| 12 | Have you ever gotten a woman to have sex who had initially laid it as a hard boundary? How did you get her to change her mind?Usually when women say they are not going to have sex with you, its usually them trying to convince themselves out loud. I always just say "okay" Then we keep fooling around and suddenly its "okay but just the tip" regardless all you have to do is say "okay" just make sure she knows you've heard and understood and just dont do any weirdo shit | /r/seduction | 05/07/24 04:41 PM |
| 0 | I can’t get an instant date, any suggestions?youre probably not building a strong enough connection first | /r/seduction | 05/07/24 12:49 PM |
| 3 | Should I get back together w my ex?no dude. hell no. maybe consider it if she agrees to being exclusive like you wanted but personally if you didnt like the situationship you probably wouldnt like the relationship i say dont do it | /r/seduction | 03/07/24 08:49 PM |
| 1 | High is not everythingbro you cant act like 4.5 billion women in the world all act the same towards short dudes. thats just a weird mindset | /r/seduction | 03/07/24 07:48 PM |
| 3 | High is not everythingcongrats bro . idc. short guys still pull | /r/seduction | 03/07/24 07:40 PM |
| 12 | High is not everythinggo outside bro please for your own sake | /r/seduction | 03/07/24 05:34 PM |
| 11 | High is not everythingYeah height is not everything. People on the internet blow the height thing out of proportion honestly. Short dudes pull all the time | /r/seduction | 03/07/24 05:33 PM |
| 2 | Recording and uploading approachesi cant think of anything less dignified | /r/seduction | 03/07/24 04:53 PM |
| 12 | What to do with distant peopleSay something polarizing or controversial to get a reaction out of them otherwise Just move on to a different woman. If they're not that into you, whats the point? | /r/seduction | 03/07/24 03:08 PM |
| -1 | Recording and uploading approacheswhy? how would you benefit? to what end? | /r/seduction | 03/07/24 03:03 PM |
| 2 | How to be more fun when we approach a girljust make jokes and have fun. if you have fun thats all that matters | /r/seduction | 03/07/24 02:57 PM |
| 1 | Do guys do shit tests, or is it predominantly a thing women do?lmfao "the field" yeah im sure it matters if youre some mong who speaks in pua buzzwords 24/7 instead acting like a normal human being | /r/seduction | 03/07/24 02:29 PM |
| 6 | How to escalate from daily snaps to something else with a girl?Ask her out on a date | /r/seduction | 02/07/24 09:51 PM |
| 1 | Do guys do shit tests, or is it predominantly a thing women do?essentially. which is why im inclined to think its a stupid thing to even worry about or factor. like who cares at this point? | /r/seduction | 02/07/24 09:19 PM |
| 50 | How do you build social circles with attractive women who aren’t overly sensitive and super lib?I can't connect with most women and have female friends since most of them are like this. Hilarious that you're blaming women for the reason that you cant make friends with women | /r/seduction | 02/07/24 06:49 PM |
| 1 | Do guys do shit tests, or is it predominantly a thing women do?i know. im hoping someone else replies because clearly idk what it is edit: nvm i found it Shit-Test- A shit-test is something a girl says or does in order to judge your response. It can be intentional or unintentional. Examples: She might tell you you're too short for her, or she might simply ask what you do for a living. Sometimes you might want to answer truthfully; sometimes you might want to "agree and amplify" (see glossary A-G); sometimes you might want to reframe the situation; sometimes… | /r/seduction | 02/07/24 06:40 PM |
| 2 | Do guys do shit tests, or is it predominantly a thing women do?im starting to think people in this sub dont know what an actual shit test os because most of what people are talking about here is not shit testing | /r/seduction | 02/07/24 06:14 PM |
| 5 | How to make a girl invest or attract through textJust dont reply and focus on yourself | /r/seduction | 02/07/24 05:56 PM |
| 1 | The Secret Solution To 99% Of Your Dating ProblemsThen you should probably look into what makes you so unlikeable | /r/seduction | 02/07/24 05:04 PM |
| 0 | Is it just me or is Seattle like the worst city for day game in the USA?its just you | /r/seduction | 30/06/24 12:41 AM |
| 1 | Taking things too seriously and not being funYou said you like comedy shows. When you talk to girls share a joke from one of the comedy shows that you made you laugh. You'll be able to make girls laugh. | /r/seduction | 30/06/24 12:40 AM |
| 2 | How did you make the jump?The thing that got me over my fear of rejection is understanding that there's 9 billion people in the world, which is about 4.5 billion women. Getting rejected by one woman is not the end of the world. You're bound to meet someone you mesh with and the only way to find out is to get out there and try | /r/seduction | 30/06/24 12:35 AM |
| 5 | The Secret Solution To 99% Of Your Dating ProblemsNot everything is about physical features. Guys conflate the importance of being physically attractive because to us its what makes a woman attractive. But what makes a man attractive to a woman is more nuanced. Getting compliments on your style is a huge first step. If you find that a woman isnt attracted to you sexually but still finds you charming/friendly/endearing/etc, then make friends with her. The fact that you can keep a woman in your proximity will make you appear more attractive to ot… | /r/seduction | 30/06/24 12:09 AM |
| 3 | The Secret Solution To 99% Of Your Dating ProblemsLol why do you write like this? Are you peddling some hook up book? Sensationalist title and about seven line breaks just to say the most basic common sense principle like its groundbreaking. You should join the self-help grift, you'll make millions of dollars | /r/seduction | 30/06/24 12:01 AM |
| 2 | How to find a good spot for a kissRealistically you can kiss anywhere. What you're really asking for is how to recognize the right moment of when to kiss her. If you feel like you could kiss her, you couldve kissed her five minutes ago. Waiting for somewhere private, while understandable, just means youre afraid of making a move. Just go for the kiss in public first, if she turns away, try again in private. | /r/seduction | 07/06/24 07:05 AM |
| 0 | Give a Fake Number?nah bro | /r/seduction | 06/06/24 11:14 PM |
| -1 | Is ‘Just be yourself’ good or terrible advice?Its good advice but far from the whole kill. Lots of other factors involved but it does boil down to just being yourself at the end of the day | /r/seduction | 06/06/24 08:10 PM |
| 4 | What Am I Missing?You're right, most women don't care about your career, hobbies, fitness, or style. All of that is for you, to make you a "real" person who has a life. When talking to women you need to share deeper stuff, things that elicit an "emotional" response. Open up about your childhood, your past, events and situations that affected you deeply as a person. Don't shy away from shocking or traumatic stuff (although if its too intense you may want to save it until you know them better). Doing this will let … | /r/seduction | 06/06/24 01:52 PM |
| 2 | Men Shouldn't Feel Obligated to Rescue Women After Relationship Betrayalsi have never felt an obligation to rescue a woman after a shit relationship so maybe this problem is more personal than you realize | /r/PurplePillDebate | 06/06/24 10:09 AM |
| 0 | How can I have an abundance of women and get women to invest in me?Invest in yourself, make sure your focus in life isn't women but your own personal success, whatever that means to you. Have goals and accomplish them. As for abundance, understand that there are 4 billion women in the world. The abundance is there, talk to women, but focus on your goals, it will all come together. | /r/seduction | 04/06/24 03:23 PM |
| 1 | Do you need to make eye contact to approach a girl in a bar?Yes. Girls who dont give you eye contact are generally not into you. You're probably not ugly, just awkward. Dont leer. Make sustained eye contact for a few seconds. If you feel good about it, approach. If youre not sure, look away and then look back. If you make eye contact again, she might be checking you out. | /r/seduction | 02/06/24 02:01 PM |
| 0 | What do you think is / are the best books / resources for pick-up and dating?i mean its more in depth than that but if thats all you took away from that book then idk what to tell you | /r/seduction | 06/05/24 10:19 AM |
| 14 | What do you think is / are the best books / resources for pick-up and dating?models by mark manson is the only read you need imo | /r/seduction | 06/05/24 08:47 AM |
| 2 | How can I effortlessly reschedule this cancelled date?you really cant get too hung up on any one girl. if she cancelled the date move on to the next girl. unless she's the love of your life, but if she was she probably wouldnt have cancelled | /r/seduction | 06/05/24 12:41 AM |
| 7 | How can I effortlessly reschedule this cancelled date?just ask a different girl out | /r/seduction | 06/05/24 12:08 AM |
| 1 | First kiss rejectionif shes not interested at the first meeting then im not interested. if we dont kiss by the end of the first date there is no second date | /r/seduction | 05/05/24 03:11 PM |
| 9 | First kiss rejectionBy my book if she doesnt kiss you she's not interested | /r/seduction | 04/05/24 10:12 PM |
| 5 | I embraced the possibility of rejectionMixed signals is always a sign of disinterest. I also advise against playing the long game. Sometimes girls just like the attention | /r/seduction | 04/05/24 10:08 PM |
| 2 | Woman I had ONS with - hot and cold behaviour (NSFW)just leave her bro. move on to the next one | /r/seduction | 04/05/24 09:08 PM |
| 1 | How can I avoid being too available?be busy. get hobbies. get a job. have goals | /r/seduction | 04/05/24 06:04 PM |
| 1 | whats the best place/ways to tell in a bookstore?what books do you like to read? start there | /r/seduction | 02/05/24 04:11 PM |
| 1 | How to ask someone to “hangout” casually?"lets hang" "wanna hang out later?" "free to hang later?" something along those lines also: the phrase "hang out" already implies a degree casualness. you dont need to specify that something is casual. just casually do it | /r/seduction | 02/05/24 03:36 PM |
| 1 | You guys don't think coaching is worth it because y'all are weirdi get where youre coming from but it all depends on your frame of mind. multi-millionaire who owns a company, thats all material stuff, doesnt really indicate any proficiency in attracting women. i mean its definitely a status indicator which is part of attraction, but there's unemployed brothers out there who pull girls regularly | /r/seduction | 02/05/24 03:33 PM |
| 30 | For the guys who had zero experience with womenBack when I had zero experience, the game changer for me as a little boy was realizing that you talk to girls just like you talk to guys. Theyre the same as any other person. It really takes the pressure off | /r/seduction | 02/05/24 03:08 PM |
| 1 | I go for drinks every weekends in Jersey bars but didn’t get a girl since a year. I am a good guy & is that what they don’t like ?its not about being good its about being attractive. you have to go in, shoot your shot, be honest and open about what you want and dont let your fear of rejection hold you back | /r/seduction | 02/05/24 02:53 PM |
| 1 | You guys don't think coaching is worth it because y'all are weirdi would argue the opposite, that you consider coaching worth it because you are weird. well adjusted dude shouldnt need a coach to teach him how to pull. not even putting coaching down, just saying logistically if youre not weird a coach wouldnt be necessary | /r/seduction | 02/05/24 02:14 PM |
| 1 | 20yo virgin, turning 21 in two weeks. Trying to lose my virginity before turning 21. How would I go about this?the bar | /r/seduction | 29/04/24 09:39 AM |
| 1 | 20yo virgin, turning 21 in two weeks. Trying to lose my virginity before turning 21. How would I go about this?then it should be easier since you can already drink | /r/seduction | 29/04/24 07:48 AM |
| 2 | Is it necessary to shoot down a girl’s ego every time to catch her attention?negging isnt necessary at all . id only resort to it if a girl is shady and tries to sneak a few insults in thinking i wont catch it | /r/seduction | 28/04/24 07:30 AM |
| 1 | Is it necessary to shoot down a girl’s ego every time to catch her attention?not at all | /r/seduction | 28/04/24 07:28 AM |
| 1 | 20yo virgin, turning 21 in two weeks. Trying to lose my virginity before turning 21. How would I go about this?honestly youre more likely to lose your virginity after 21 since you can legally drink | /r/seduction | 28/04/24 03:10 AM |
| 1 | It feels like the seduction community was in its prime 10 years ago and now there are hardly any personalitiesProbably for the best. All of those "personalities" are really embarrassing. Id be ashamed to say I looked up to any of them | /r/seduction | 26/03/24 06:46 PM |
| 1 | My crush is getting distant from me, what should I do?move on | /r/seduction | 25/03/24 07:50 PM |
| – | Guys spend way more money on dating, get wayyy less than womenyou are doing way too much and getting nothing out of it. might be time to reevaluate your methods. also women dont give a shit if youre buff | /r/PurplePillDebate | 18/03/24 04:10 PM |
| 1 | Best pua product?deodoroant | /r/seduction | 06/03/24 11:28 PM |
| 4 | Question, what’s one or two things you’ve done to massively change your dating game?Dressing better and not getting too hung up on one person | /r/seduction | 29/02/24 06:03 AM |
| 2 | A bit of a weird spot to be in:Just shoot your shot. Better to act quickly than to wait for someone else to swoop in or for her to lose attraction. Youre building momentum so I say just go for it | /r/seduction | 29/02/24 02:13 AM |
| -1 | Does a mans social status attract women?Yes social status is a big part of attraction | /r/PurplePillDebate | 29/02/24 01:32 AM |
| 1 | Thoughts on Justin Marcbuying game seems like an automatic no to me | /r/seduction | 28/02/24 03:57 AM |
| 2 | So how badly have I fumbled this situation? Or what is going on?Paragraph after paragraph of cringe bro. You should have just asked her out on a date the first time you guys started messaging. Set a time and place and see if she's free. All that other fluff just gums up the attraction. Next time shoot straight | /r/seduction | 26/02/24 07:03 PM |
| 1 | What can I do?just move on | /r/seduction | 26/02/24 06:43 PM |
| 1 | What does this mean if girl asks you?She's basically trying to vet you to see if your intentions are pure. She wants to know why you approached her and what about her makes you want to date her. Tricky situation because she seems wary like she doesn't trust you. The most you can do is be honest and show that you are trustworthy and worth dating | /r/seduction | 26/02/24 06:03 PM |
| 1 | Getting over insecurities about boring someone when they're with one one on oneyou cant be that funny then if you cant pull it off in a one on one convo | /r/seduction | 26/02/24 05:33 PM |
| 3 | Getting over insecurities about boring someone when they're with one one on oneLearn to be funny. Watch some comedians, memorize the jokes, and repeat them in casual conversation | /r/seduction | 26/02/24 02:03 PM |
| 174 | What to Do If a Woman Starts To Lose Interestif a woman starts to lose interest move on to the next woman | /r/seduction | 24/02/24 04:17 PM |
| 0 | Are people with autism, on the spectrum, more likely to be asexual than people without autism, on the spectrum are?autism is the spectrum. you cant be on the spectrum and not have autism | /r/PurplePillDebate | 23/02/24 04:16 AM |
| 18 | Girl says her schedule Is unpredictabledont overreact. set up a date with a time and a place and if she's available and interested she'll either accept or she'll try and reschedule for a day when she's free. if she's not interested she'll simply say that it doesn't work for her and then you have your answer | /r/seduction | 21/02/24 12:51 AM |
| 11 | Do you think porn and masturbation can have a negative impact on your dating life?Porn can negatively impact your views on sex and relationships Masturbation can lower your motivation to achieve your goals | /r/seduction | 18/02/24 07:53 PM |
| -1 | Openers for speaking to girlsno i get the analogy i just dont understand why you would tell a skinny person you like their muscles. they dont have muscles. i wouldnt tell someone with a cat that i thought their dog was cute. makes no fucking sense | /r/seduction | 16/02/24 08:02 PM |
| 0 | Openers for speaking to girlswhy would you tell a skinny person you like their muscles? | /r/seduction | 16/02/24 06:59 PM |
| 96 | Be careful who you pursue a long term relationship withOne of the benefits of learning game is gaining the confidence and security to know you can pull so that you dont have to feel like youre stuck with the first girl that can tolerate you | /r/seduction | 16/02/24 10:16 AM |
| 3 | Openers for speaking to girlsCompliments work well | /r/seduction | 16/02/24 09:08 AM |
| 2 | Women lose interest in me rapidlyHow you dress should depend on your personality and lifestyle. If youre a musician you should try dressing in clothes that highlight that lifestyle. If you play rock music you could wear doc martens boots and band shirts, maybe some silver rings. If youre in finance, wearing some high quality formal wear, button downs, nice ties, a good watch could really showcase your style. Ultimately it depends on you, how much you know yourself, your goals in life, those sorts of things. The goal should be t… | /r/seduction | 16/02/24 09:07 AM |
| 6 | Women lose interest in me rapidlyInteresting. Its still hard to tell what you could be doing wrong. Maybe check your grooming habits and/or enhance your wardrobe. Mainly it seems you are misreading their levels of interest or attraction in you. From what you've mentioned, you seem to mistake friendly conversation for flirting (understandable really). You could try a different approach, going up to a girl and asking her out right away as soon as you meet, a direct approach that doesn't rely on days of hinting and flirting, could… | /r/seduction | 16/02/24 08:00 AM |
| 11 | Women lose interest in me rapidlyThere's not enough information to go on. How can you tell they've lost interest? What do they do? What do you do to initiate? How do you indicate your interest in them? | /r/seduction | 16/02/24 05:54 AM |
| 3 | What does the term "man child" exist but not "woman child"?women generally mature faster than men | /r/PurplePillDebate | 16/02/24 02:07 AM |
| 3 | Girl only texts me when she wants but got pissed when I did the same?just move on bro if she was interested she wouldnt bullshit you | /r/seduction | 15/02/24 09:32 PM |
| 1 | What's your assessment of girls who text a lot before dates?pretty common in my experience. my guess is they want to know you can hold a conversation and keep their interest before the actual date. trying to get a read on who you are before they go off with a stranger. if anything it just means they like you | /r/seduction | 14/02/24 08:50 AM |
| 6 | How do I prevent the friendzone?Make a move go for the kiss | /r/seduction | 14/02/24 08:12 AM |
| 1 | Lost this super hot girl at club. How do I get over it?go back next week and pick a dif one | /r/seduction | 14/02/24 07:48 AM |
| 1 | is hitting on women in an unapologetic way enough for getting moderated sucess?its a good start | /r/seduction | 14/02/24 07:11 AM |
| 0 | Why confidence is a meme.oh thanks for explaining i was confounded by your boundless wit | /r/PurplePillDebate | 17/01/24 05:05 AM |
| -2 | Why confidence is a meme.my opinions are shaped by reality and experience but yeah a lot of my opinions on women have been shaped by my experiences with women great catch sherlock | /r/PurplePillDebate | 17/01/24 04:45 AM |
| 2 | Why confidence is a meme.i dont care enough about your character to assassinate and if you really want to know i've heard incels make the same argument | /r/PurplePillDebate | 16/01/24 11:29 PM |
| 0 | Why confidence is a meme.it wasnt a counterargument it was an observation/judgment call | /r/PurplePillDebate | 16/01/24 11:23 PM |
| -2 | Why confidence is a meme.i wouldnt take your argument seriously even if you were married. you can be in a relationship and still sound like a total incel | /r/PurplePillDebate | 16/01/24 11:14 PM |
| 0 | Why confidence is a meme.This reads like someone who has never gotten laid or spoken to a woman before | /r/PurplePillDebate | 16/01/24 10:21 PM |
| 3 | Which city has the most good looking men?Vienna has the most gorgeous population I've ever seen. Everyone looks like a model | /r/PurplePillDebate | 02/10/23 02:08 AM |
| 1 | If monogamy is unnatural why is there a 1:1 sex ratio?this is the stupidest thing ive read all day | /r/PurplePillDebate | 12/09/23 04:12 AM |
| – | Apathy towards dating and sex, is it a reasonable strategy or will it lead to an unhappy lonley life?Honestly I relate to this. I remember being on track trying to pursue girls and a relationship until I got so frustrated by unfulfilling results that I just quit pursuing women altogether. Miraculously, as soon as I stopped giving a fuck I started hooking up with more women and having better relations. So yeah, I say a general indifference works better than active pursuits but obviously there's a few caveats to this and its not that cut and dry. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 12/09/23 03:05 AM |
| 8 | It's exhausting to make female friendsskill issue | /r/PurplePillDebate | 04/02/23 05:12 PM |
| 0 | Men in their 30+'s, what are the early signs you are just being "settled for/betabuxxed"?if i was a man in my 30s and used the term "betabuxxed" unironically, i'd fucking kms | /r/PurplePillDebate | 25/01/23 05:32 PM |
| 1 | What is the best way to lookmax?Yeah seriously | /r/PurplePillDebate | 13/01/23 01:34 PM |
| 1 | What is the best way to lookmax?Hair. An improved hairstyle does the most to improve anyone's appearance | /r/PurplePillDebate | 13/01/23 01:33 PM |
| 1 | A good looking guy, say 7-9/10, should easily be able to get his equivalent for sex or LTR. The fact that he usually struggles to do this is indicative of the overall problem with dating in 2022.When will you people go outside? | /r/PurplePillDebate | 02/08/22 01:27 PM |
| 7 | Idk if my game is getting worsenever stop. keep going. keep learning. you can do this | /r/seduction | 31/07/22 04:18 PM |
| 1 | Unpopular opinion: I hate the "chase"lmfao how do you know? you cockwatching? | /r/seduction | 30/07/22 03:51 AM |
| 1 | Unpopular opinion: I hate the "chase"you can take your looks seriously without using some dork ass phrase like looksmaxxing. like go outside bro | /r/seduction | 30/07/22 03:50 AM |
| 1 | Unpopular opinion: I hate the "chase"lol i do not know who that is, nor do i care. "looksmaxxing" lmfaooo incel ass phrase | /r/seduction | 29/07/22 01:13 PM |
| 2 | Unpopular opinion: I hate the "chase"lmfao this man said he'd rather be blackpilled than get some ass | /r/seduction | 29/07/22 10:30 AM |
| 1 | "It was the same back in the old days" is a common misconception among the younger posters on herelmfao okay boss whatever you say | /r/PurplePillDebate | 25/07/22 06:58 PM |
| 1 | "It was the same back in the old days" is a common misconception among the younger posters on herethey don't have to be rich. i'm sure if you'd go outside more and meet people you'd have better understanding of what i'm talking about | /r/PurplePillDebate | 25/07/22 06:45 PM |
| 1 | "It was the same back in the old days" is a common misconception among the younger posters on herei pray this is how you talk in everyday conversation. you sound like a tv character talking like that. ugly people pull. its a reality. whether its status, money, personality or some combination, they still pull. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 25/07/22 06:21 PM |
| 0 | "It was the same back in the old days" is a common misconception among the younger posters on hereyou people keep asking me where. literally everywhere. do none of you go outside? | /r/PurplePillDebate | 25/07/22 05:39 PM |
| -1 | "It was the same back in the old days" is a common misconception among the younger posters on herego outside more idk | /r/PurplePillDebate | 25/07/22 05:37 PM |
| -2 | "It was the same back in the old days" is a common misconception among the younger posters on hereyour uncles probably just had game my guy. ugly dudes still pull beautiful women these days. happens all the time | /r/PurplePillDebate | 25/07/22 12:41 PM |
| 8 | Does plowing through negative body language ever work?negative body language to me is disinterest. i usually dont push further when it comes to that | /r/seduction | 24/07/22 07:40 PM |
| 2 | Isn't being friends with girls a little pointless?its okay to just be friends bro. you dont have to sleep with every attractive woman you talk to | /r/seduction | 23/07/22 08:58 PM |
| 2 | Do women rationalize romantic feelings differently than men do?the reasons the women gave all seem valid, it just seems like you can't wrap your head around WHY that is a reason to no longer date someone. their reasons might seem a bit more intuitive (e. no chemistry, no spark) but they are valid reasons. those are things you FEEL rather than think about and rationalize. | /r/seduction | 17/07/22 06:34 PM |
| 4 | The fatal flaw with Mark Manson's Modelsapproaching a girl in the street does not go against social norms. its actually very natural and normal thing to do. speaking your opinion for or against something in a healthy manner can cause lively debate but it doesn't have to turn the dinner into a warzone. people can disagree and still have healthy conversation. no disrespect but there's a difference between open honesty and total social ineptitude | /r/seduction | 01/07/22 04:31 PM |
| 12 | The fatal flaw with Mark Manson's Modelswell i would agree but he mentions at one point that you have to take care to be socially aware enough to know when you are doing or saying something that breaks social norms. But there’s a caveat here. You must know that you’re interrupting social norms. You must acknowledge that what you are doing is unusual. Else, if you don’t, you’ll simply be seen as someone who is out of touch and oblivious, which is not attractive. | /r/seduction | 01/07/22 03:40 PM |
| 1 | I have a pretty nice physique but I am lean, so I look just normal in clothes. Is there anything I can do about this to improve my chances with women?nice workout. she let me hit cause i'm goofy | /r/seduction | 29/06/22 10:30 PM |
| 1 | What do you guys think about going out with only girls?lmfao so youre just sat with strangers? | /r/seduction | 28/06/22 01:14 AM |
| 1 | What do you guys think about going out with only girls?are you friends with these women? | /r/seduction | 27/06/22 09:57 PM |
| 14 | Why do girls do like this?bro dming strangers on their bday and wondering why she doesnt want to hold a conversation | /r/seduction | 26/06/22 06:57 PM |
| 7 | How do I win in a situation of a woman playing hard to get…literally just ignore her. definitely dont send that message. | /r/seduction | 26/06/22 01:53 AM |
| 2 | When can physical contact be performed?mans out here just lurching at every woman he sees | /r/seduction | 23/06/22 05:56 AM |
| 2 | Is a ‘woman’s intuition’ just false mystique?what you're talking about has nothing to do with intuition. that's just direct experience. women's intuition (in the way you're thinking of) comes from how women communicate and extends beyond their interactions with men. the best i can describe it is that men are more literal but women are more indirect. | /r/seduction | 22/06/22 09:15 PM |
| 1 | Why "making them wait" upsets many men...okay buddy | /r/seduction | 22/06/22 03:41 AM |
| 2 | Why "making them wait" upsets many men...i've waited and made women wait for sex. its usually because i'm actually serious about dating them. if i don't wait for sex it means i'm only interested in a hookup. if a woman holds off on the sex it usually means she wants something serious, but that's totally different than her not being sexually attracted to you all together. if she escalates with you its attraction. if she does nothing with you she's stringing you along. it'd do you well to know the difference | /r/seduction | 21/06/22 03:43 PM |
| -10 | Why "making them wait" upsets many men...if youre upset that a woman made you wait for sex it means you only wanted sex. nothing wrong with wanting sex but be honest with yourself. in most cases the reason men get upset at this is because it makes them think the woman values them less, especially if they know that you didn't make other men wait, it makes them think you value them less than those guys tying your value to a woman with sex is literal insecurity and also shows you only valued her for sex | /r/seduction | 21/06/22 03:20 PM |
| -13 | Why "making them wait" upsets many men...this post reeks of insecurity | /r/seduction | 21/06/22 03:06 PM |
| 1 | Question about clothing or fashionformalwear has its place. casualwear has its place. you dont want to wear a tux to the club or a graphic tee to a wedding. you can wear whatever you want as long as its event appropriate and fits well | /r/seduction | 21/06/22 12:12 PM |
| 1 | Self conscious about my apartmenti would just tell them i'm refurnishing | /r/seduction | 16/06/22 02:58 AM |
| 1 | [FR] Would French girls find me attractive if I committed a crime like Ted Bundy or David Berkowitz as a short (5'7.5") Asian-American guy??imagine committing a crime just for ass and still getting no play lol | /r/seduction | 16/06/22 02:08 AM |
| 1 | Is it Bad to Admit You We’re Bullied Growing Up? I think some guys refrain from saying this and it’s better if they didwhy would anyone even bring it up in conversation? | /r/seduction | 16/06/22 02:06 AM |
| 3 | How do I know if a girl that likes attention, likes me as an exception vs other guys?you don't. talk to other women | /r/seduction | 15/06/22 11:05 PM |
| 2 | Is it an issue if a girl you're seeing still wears clothes from an ex? What does this usually mean?its really not that big a deal. youre the one dicking her down now. if she starts messing with her ex again just dump her and find someone new | /r/seduction | 15/06/22 09:00 PM |
| 3 | I arranged a call. When I called her, she said she'll get back to me..some people are just busy dude | /r/seduction | 15/06/22 08:43 PM |
| 2 | Every example pick up line/compliment I've read here is so cringeworthyyeah i think one of the issues is that its redditors looking for hookup advice from other redditors looking for hookup advice so you get a lot of misguided attempts. one thing i know is that its less about the actual line and more about how comfortable you are with yourself and the circumstances. but yeah i wouldnt touch those lines with a ten foot pole | /r/seduction | 14/06/22 03:31 PM |
| 2 | Asked a girl to dance then didn't know what to dothats nice. im proud of you | /r/seduction | 11/06/22 05:17 PM |
| 14 | Asked a girl to dance then didn't know what to dowith dancing, the idea is to enjoy yourself. did you actually want to dance or did you just want an excuse to get close to a hot girl? if you dance for yourself you don't have to worry about that kind of thing | /r/seduction | 11/06/22 05:03 PM |
| 1 | Can Daily writing comments and replying to people's comments on reddit make you more witty and boost conversational skills?lmfao | /r/seduction | 11/06/22 04:34 PM |
| 7 | How do you fake that you care about someone.maybe start caring a little about others | /r/seduction | 10/06/22 04:01 PM |
| 1 | Why do women like men who don’t like them?same goes for men | /r/seduction | 10/06/22 03:45 PM |
| 1 | How do I spin this back?so they took a lego break between fucks my guy. even if you are the hottest guy on the planet with the most charming personality, the only way to recover is to chase other women. she knows you want her. if you dont want to look clingy and desperate just drop her all together | /r/seduction | 10/06/22 02:50 AM |
| 5 | How do I spin this back?lol you cant. she said you are unattractive and told you specifically she is hanging with (fucking) her ex. just match with someone else before you get too invested | /r/seduction | 10/06/22 01:48 AM |
| 1 | Horrible night clubbing aloneinstead of trying to dance on girls just dance by yourself. it sends the message that you're having a good time and is far less needy | /r/seduction | 05/06/22 10:14 PM |
| 1 | When a girl/new friends asks for your Instagram/Facebook but you don't have them because you were "canceled," how should you respond?why did you get cancelled? | /r/seduction | 04/06/22 11:24 PM |
| 14 | Is it really that common for men to have bad hygiene that many girls here have to mention it as a disqualifier?i think its particularly a reddit thing. a lot of redditors seem to be in relationships with really gross men. good hygiene should just be standard | /r/PurplePillDebate | 30/05/22 08:36 PM |
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