garthanddean Archive

Upvotes	Title	Category	Author	Subreddit	Date (UTC)
163	My friend (?) sent me this and thought he did something ??? why does being nice have to lewd me...also mommy vibes?? talk about toxic	NICE FOR WHAT?	garthanddean	/r/FemaleDatingStrategy	28/04/20 10:12 PM
23	My [F19] friends are closer to my ex [M19] even though they weren’t friends with him while we were dating and I feel bitter	SEEKING ADVICE	garthanddean	/r/FemaleDatingStrategy	09/04/20 06:44 AM
0	After 7 months he replied to my message	NAH, SIS	garthanddean	/r/FemaleDatingStrategy	20/04/20 08:37 AM

Upvotes	Comment on	Subreddit	Date (UTC)
12	My friend (?) sent me this and thought he did something ??? why does being nice have to lewd me...also mommy vibes?? talk about toxic it’s okay to be a good and wholesome friend but picking up the mother figure in a relationship is not your job	/r/FemaleDatingStrategy	29/04/20 05:56 AM
11	My friend (?) sent me this and thought he did something ??? why does being nice have to lewd me...also mommy vibes?? talk about toxic thank you!! first guy-friend to ever do this to me and better be the last, really wasn’t expecting it but im not gonna wait for it to get worse	/r/FemaleDatingStrategy	29/04/20 05:55 AM
19	My friend (?) sent me this and thought he did something ??? why does being nice have to lewd me...also mommy vibes?? talk about toxic love this!!!!! i wish i heard this years ago but thank you for it<3 hope you never put yourself through that again queenie	/r/FemaleDatingStrategy	29/04/20 05:54 AM
28	My friend (?) sent me this and thought he did something ??? why does being nice have to lewd me...also mommy vibes?? talk about toxic tw/ suicide i’m sorry..i’ve been there with the whole “if you leave me ill kill myself”...turns out i was STILL the side chick he just wanted to keep me around lmaooo hate it here	/r/FemaleDatingStrategy	29/04/20 05:54 AM
134	My friend (?) sent me this and thought he did something ??? why does being nice have to lewd me...also mommy vibes?? talk about toxic we’re good friends and i check on him because he’s depressed so now he looks at me like this, good to know being a good person gives this in return lmao	/r/FemaleDatingStrategy	28/04/20 11:15 PM
16	“Seemingly no reason” hmmm abort abort	/r/FemaleDatingStrategy	28/04/20 10:15 PM
4	My [F19] friends are closer to my ex [M19] even though they weren’t friends with him while we were dating and I feel bitter awww girl i’m so sorry you had to deal with that. i’m glad you’ve seen past it. you seem so sweet and im 1000% sure you deserve better. i don’t want competition if there is any, because i only want healthy and meaningful friendships here lol. thank you for sharing this, even though it was a hard time for you it helped me know that we all let people in and get hurt, but hopefully together we can work to find healthier and stronger people in our lives!! thanks again💖	/r/FemaleDatingStrategy	09/04/20 05:34 PM
3	My [F19] friends are closer to my ex [M19] even though they weren’t friends with him while we were dating and I feel bitter I always try not to say anything when he sends that stuff, and i feel stupid for letting him do all that to me. But we learn!!! I want to cut off all those people honestly so they don’t have the chance to pull a stunt. Thank you so much for this, i appreciate it, and I will! take care girly 🥺	/r/FemaleDatingStrategy	09/04/20 05:32 PM
12	My [F19] friends are closer to my ex [M19] even though they weren’t friends with him while we were dating and I feel bitter Not condescending at all!! You have experience and honestly looking back i feel like even a year ago i was a baby, but i also feel glad i learned (he was my only boyfriend i had) and i know how to do a lot better next time. I have friends, like people i can talk about hobbies and interests and school with, go to parties with, but the whole trusting someone and to talk to when you need advice feels hard to open up to them. I want to work to overcome that honestly. I might block all of them honest…	/r/FemaleDatingStrategy	09/04/20 05:29 PM
3	My [F19] friends are closer to my ex [M19] even though they weren’t friends with him while we were dating and I feel bitter Thank you for this!! I try to remind myself that my life upgraded after him like getting into my university honors and having a job made me rebuild myself, I want to better myself and be mature and if someone comes along somewhere down the line then i’ll be ready to know the signs :) thanks again<3	/r/FemaleDatingStrategy	09/04/20 05:26 PM
3	My [F19] friends are closer to my ex [M19] even though they weren’t friends with him while we were dating and I feel bitter needed to hear this, thank you! and I know these terms and i never thought to put two and two together. i guess i can learn the signs for next time, thanks again!!	/r/FemaleDatingStrategy	09/04/20 05:25 PM