| Upvotes | Title | Category | Author | Subreddit | Date (UTC) |
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| 4 | Men’s dating prospects reduce strongly after 30 with young womenWe're not wondering why we're single: we choose it. I need to bat men away. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 26/05/26 04:21 AM |
| 1 | Men’s dating prospects reduce strongly after 30 with young womenIsn't the current trend: 20s men seeking 30s women? Isn't it because they can't score dates with women their own age? | /r/PurplePillDebate | 26/05/26 02:39 AM |
| 1 | I find it EXTREMELY hard to sympathize with most of women's dating woes.Could she do therapy to deal with said baggage? Are all women who date doomed to the same fate? | /r/PurplePillDebate | 04/05/26 12:56 AM |
| 2 | I find it EXTREMELY hard to sympathize with most of women's dating woes.We usually speak of "relationship" baggage -- things that you have not dealt with from a previous relationship. Is your point: all women are misandrists? | /r/PurplePillDebate | 02/05/26 05:22 PM |
| 3 | I find it EXTREMELY hard to sympathize with most of women's dating woes.According to? | /r/PurplePillDebate | 02/05/26 04:02 PM |
| 7 | I find it EXTREMELY hard to sympathize with most of women's dating woes.What? | /r/PurplePillDebate | 02/05/26 04:50 AM |
| 16 | I find it EXTREMELY hard to sympathize with most of women's dating woes.Except from what i gathered From where? Online? Snippets of your loved one's complaints (because we're less likely to seek advice when things are going well)? a lot of people tend to make their past dating woes their current partner's problem. You can screen for unhealed people. You can also break up with them. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 01/05/26 08:10 PM |
| 16 | I find it EXTREMELY hard to sympathize with most of women's dating woes.In general, your relationship should be about your relationship. I'm not interested in a partner with unsolved baggage. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 01/05/26 07:22 PM |
| 19 | I find it EXTREMELY hard to sympathize with most of women's dating woes.Women's dating woes =/= your current partner's current problems | /r/PurplePillDebate | 01/05/26 06:59 PM |
| 182 | I find it EXTREMELY hard to sympathize with most of women's dating woes.You're not supposed to empathize with women's dating woes. You're just supposed to date (if you want to date). Debating dating online doesn't help land dates. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 01/05/26 06:28 PM |
| 2 | Red pill men: what turned you red pill?That's disturbing and I'm sorry. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 30/04/26 08:14 PM |
| -1 | Red pill men: what turned you red pill?I was 28 years when my parents divorced And your mom told you it was expressly because of sex? | /r/PurplePillDebate | 30/04/26 07:59 PM |
| 1 | Red pill men: what turned you red pill?How old were you when your mom told you what about your dad sexually? Would my presence at court have changed the outcome? Lol no. I was wondering where you got that info concerning the judgement. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 30/04/26 07:40 PM |
| 2 | Red pill men: what turned you red pill?Sounds like a winning strategy, buddy | /r/PurplePillDebate | 30/04/26 06:32 PM |
| 1 | Red pill men: what turned you red pill?So you don't want women to pick you for your personality, but you expect them to stumble across your dick somehow? | /r/PurplePillDebate | 30/04/26 06:30 PM |
| 2 | Red pill men: what turned you red pill?So how are the ladies supposed to choose you for your penis? | /r/PurplePillDebate | 30/04/26 06:27 PM |
| 3 | Red pill men: what turned you red pill?Do you walk around naked? | /r/PurplePillDebate | 30/04/26 06:23 PM |
| 3 | Red pill men: what turned you red pill?Apparently though after 38 years of marriage my now 60 year old father wasn’t fucking my 58 year old mother hard enough anymore Who told you this??? Naturally a judge decided that since my father couldn’t satisfy her sexually anymore, she deserved half of the family’s assets Were you there for the court proceedings? | /r/PurplePillDebate | 30/04/26 06:07 PM |
| -1 | Why do so many men have a victim mentality when it comes to romance and dating?Alright then you have this small caveat that not everyone is actually looking to expand their circle, in fact most people arent. And then these people who do, need to also like you which is also not a sure thing. This isn't the hurdle you're describing it as. Or, I guess the social skills needed are the same ones that serve dating. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 25/04/26 05:56 PM |
| 1 | Men are panicking more about being unmarried and childless than womenOh I wouldn't doubt that at all either. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 22/04/26 04:59 AM |
| 0 | Men are panicking more about being unmarried and childless than womenI'd have to dig in the data to see what happens when both parents want to be the primary parent. My assumption is, if it doesn't go to the mom: it's because she's the 'crazy' parent & the dad seems "waaaaay better off". | /r/PurplePillDebate | 22/04/26 12:40 AM |
| 3 | Men are panicking more about being unmarried and childless than womenNo, I meant like all their material circumstances and like documentation. Courts/child welfare systems discriminate against good people (lots of dads) based on their circumstances. Moms only really lose custody if they're like the worst people ever, ON PAPER. Courts don't care about anything else (except for their biases***). | /r/PurplePillDebate | 22/04/26 12:13 AM |
| 4 | Men are panicking more about being unmarried and childless than womenI'm saying, due to sexism, women usually get children in custody cases. Any dad who wins the kids, is demonstrably a better parent than the mom. So the group of dads are exceptional compared to any old crappy mom. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 22/04/26 12:05 AM |
| 9 | Men are panicking more about being unmarried and childless than womenTotally. If the dad is the primary parent, that means he's waaaaaaaay better off than the mom. Meanwhile, any mom can be a primary parent. The groups of people being compared aren't the same at all. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 21/04/26 11:57 PM |
| 2 | It would be easier to focus on the type of women you want rather than getting upset you cant succeed with most women.So what underlies the concept of romance? | /r/PurplePillDebate | 21/04/26 01:14 AM |
| 2 | It would be easier to focus on the type of women you want rather than getting upset you cant succeed with most women.But is playing basketball with someone you want to have sex with always romantic? | /r/PurplePillDebate | 21/04/26 01:14 AM |
| 3 | It would be easier to focus on the type of women you want rather than getting upset you cant succeed with most women.No hammers pls! | /r/PurplePillDebate | 20/04/26 05:33 PM |
| 5 | It would be easier to focus on the type of women you want rather than getting upset you cant succeed with most women.And how's that going for ya? | /r/PurplePillDebate | 20/04/26 05:25 PM |
| 3 | It would be easier to focus on the type of women you want rather than getting upset you cant succeed with most women.Ok but you're ignoring OP's point about focused goals: do you want romance? Do you want sex? Refining will help you navigate. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 20/04/26 05:23 PM |
| -1 | Yes, some women actually want to be single and childlessThe funny thing is, she has to prove her worth by having children... Who will have to prove their worth by having children... So that we aren't leaches on the tax system??? Lol where is the logic. So many dependents and old people being created. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 18/04/26 08:15 PM |
| 0 | Yes, some women actually want to be single and childlessBecause life is in a constant fight against disorder. How is this an answer? I don't share whatever underlying philosophy/knowledge is needed to make that intelligible. Can you explain? | /r/PurplePillDebate | 18/04/26 08:12 PM |
| 3 | Having casual sex with men makes them respect you less and treat you worseYou're not agreeing with me | /r/PurplePillDebate | 12/04/26 07:02 PM |
| 1 | Women really can’t stand other womenI'm not on apps. Hobby suggestions? | /r/PurplePillDebate | 12/04/26 05:51 PM |
| 2 | Women really can’t stand other womenThanks for explaining! I agree with abolishing gender constraints. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 12/04/26 08:01 AM |
| 1 | Women really can’t stand other womenHow do you meet women to date? I only really ever had success on the party scene but I don't drink anymore. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 12/04/26 08:00 AM |
| 1 | Women really can’t stand other womenWould you mind telling me more about your postgender identity? | /r/PurplePillDebate | 12/04/26 07:54 AM |
| 1 | Women really can’t stand other womenHow do you meet women to date? Help a bi girl out | /r/PurplePillDebate | 12/04/26 07:51 AM |
| 2 | Having casual sex with men makes them respect you less and treat you worseShe could have dumped them all | /r/PurplePillDebate | 11/04/26 07:12 AM |
| -2 | Women don't like when men have healthy boundariesWhat if... The principle is more nuanced than: "yes/no judgment"? | /r/PurplePillDebate | 25/03/26 10:06 PM |
| 5 | FWB material is better than both hooking up and a relationship.We're paying more for the experience How? Are men and women not splitting their utilities evenly? Or are you speaking to dating? | /r/PurplePillDebate | 21/02/26 10:56 PM |
| 4 | FWB material is better than both hooking up and a relationship.How do relationships cost women a lot less. ? | /r/PurplePillDebate | 21/02/26 10:21 PM |
| 0 | FWB material is better than both hooking up and a relationship.So you think every dude who has ever broken up with his girlfriend is a sociopath? What about women who end relationships? Are they also sociopathic? | /r/PurplePillDebate | 21/02/26 10:19 PM |
| – | It seems if a woman ever has a hook up, she should be expected to keep having subpar sex with strangers.Can't people change without being duplicitous? | /r/PurplePillDebate | 21/02/26 10:12 PM |
| – | It seems if a woman ever has a hook up, she should be expected to keep having subpar sex with strangers.How is that lacking in empathy? | /r/PurplePillDebate | 21/02/26 10:08 PM |
| 1 | Men do not have “genuine desire” for their partners in the way they want for themselvesLol. What about the way I talk? | /r/PurplePillDebate | 20/01/26 07:51 PM |
| – | Men do not have “genuine desire” for their partners in the way they want for themselvesIt’s honestly so one sided though men have to kind of accept it This contradicts: she also swiped on a thousand man and took who bit. The commenter's point was about this discrepancy. Incel types bemoan inaccessibility to genuine sexual desire (from hot women). But on the numbers, it might be said that the woman is not being genuinely desired as an individual, rather, she's 'all that bit'. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 20/01/26 04:40 PM |
| 5 | Being hookup/FWB material is better than being husband material.Philosophical inquiry? Psycho-sociological discovery? Purplepilldebate? | /r/PurplePillDebate | 19/01/26 08:45 PM |
| 3 | Being hookup/FWB material is better than being husband material.If it was a 'likely case', would it feel just as good? | /r/PurplePillDebate | 19/01/26 06:35 PM |
| 1 | Most dating advice from women here appears to come from an unacknowledged blind spot.I was simply trying to understand what they meant. Thank you for your sentiments, however mundane and unelucidating. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 13/01/26 07:05 PM |
| 0 | Most dating advice from women here appears to come from an unacknowledged blind spot.U/they-man69 said: When women talk about the pay gap, they talk about wanting to be paid the same as their male CEOs without having the experience for it. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 13/01/26 06:08 PM |
| 0 | Most dating advice from women here appears to come from an unacknowledged blind spot.That doesn't address the other commenter's point about the existence of male CEOs somehow explaining the gender pay gap. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 13/01/26 04:58 AM |
| 1 | Most dating advice from women here appears to come from an unacknowledged blind spot.Women are actually ahead of men, when it comes to university education. They have a higher likelihood to get higher paying jobs because of that experience. When women talk about the pay gap, they talk about wanting to be paid the same as their male CEOs without having the experience for it. Then why don't women have "the experience for" CEO positions? Why does that pay discrepancy exist? | /r/PurplePillDebate | 12/01/26 11:32 PM |
| 3 | Dating women is SIGNIFICANTLY harder than dating menStudies show that women are generally less interested in dating than men. Being single negatively affects men's well-being and life quality more than it does for women. And you think this is genetic? | /r/PurplePillDebate | 12/01/26 06:19 PM |
| – | Why are women like this?If a plane dude didn't want a plane woman So are these like Autobots or Decepticons? | /r/PurplePillDebate | 09/01/26 05:16 PM |
| 0 | Apparently women dislike it when their male friends reveal feelings for themHuh? Your English is hard to understand. My friends hang out with me because we have fun together, regardless of gender or sexual orientation. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 04/01/26 07:14 PM |
| 4 | Apparently women dislike it when their male friends reveal feelings for themBoyfriend deeds = hanging out? | /r/PurplePillDebate | 04/01/26 06:52 PM |
| 8 | Apparently women dislike it when their male friends reveal feelings for themI find a lot of my male friends attractive; that doesn't mean we're compatible. Moreover, I value their friendship and wouldn't want to risk losing it. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 04/01/26 06:07 PM |
| 5 | Women are having bad experience in dating because of their own choicesThe original discussion point was the impact of having one's appearance belittled. An unfounded comment is still a comment. Enough comments make you doubt reality. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 17/10/25 06:58 PM |
| 8 | Women are having bad experience in dating because of their own choicesStudies do show a rising incidence in male body dysmorphia and disordered eating behaviours. Since the early/mid 2010s, researchers have found that the same societal pressures aimed at women have begun to be internalized by men. For men, this can manifest as an obsession with musculature. If I were to check the current research, I bet you they're studying steroid use as a dysmorphic male body behaviour. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 17/10/25 06:34 PM |
| 4 | Women are having bad experience in dating because of their own choicesWe can discuss reasons why after. The point is, you agree that men will insult women's appearances. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 17/10/25 06:28 PM |
| 10 | Do women have guys they want to fuck but not want to date?I used to engage in casual sex but I stopped because I realized 98% of male hookups are selfish, inadequate lovers. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 10/10/25 03:16 PM |
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