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I'm not sure if my mom is narcissistic or has borderline personality disorder, but either way she is quite the nutjob! I like some aspects of TRP because they guide me to behave in a way that is counter to her controlling, manipulative, petty behavior.
/r/RedPillWomen31/05/15 09:46 PM
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:D
/r/RedPillWomen31/05/15 02:01 AM
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I'm in college and I got involved to make friends! I work in the university's day care center in the infant room. Since it's a job that requires lots of nurturing, I met a lot of really sweet, traditional, feminine girls that I've made friends with. If the town has a good bus system I would live farther from campus than most people. It results in cheaper housing so you live around less party-oriented sorority girls. It also would help to go to an all-girls school or a religious school, I would f…
/r/RedPillWomen08/05/15 04:10 PM
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I think that makes you more interesting and gives you on opportunity to meet guys who are in the same things. All relationship advice aside, you probably wouldn't WANT to be with someone who would shy away from a nature-loving, outdoorsy girl since your personalities would be incompatible.
/r/RedPillWomen30/04/15 12:03 AM
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It does hurt to hear, but it's obviously how he feels. The truth is that men like thin, fit women. You really can't expect someone to love how you look unconditionally, that's not fair. What if he suddenly gained 40 pounds? I'm sure you wouldn't be as attracted to him. If you're struggling to lose weight I highly recommend cutting out added sugars and going on metformin. Not only is your weight going to affect your relationship but it will also affect your health.
/r/RedPillWomen28/03/15 01:15 PM
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I've had a lot of sexual partners. Like, a lot. But I've only had one in the past four years so that counts for something! I think in this day and age it's definitely best to only have sex with your husband/fiance/long-term boyfriend but the bar is set is set so low by other girls that if you're a good cook, take care of your appearance, nurturing, sweet, etc. and you regret your past then most men won't worry too much about sex number.
/r/RedPillWomen24/03/15 10:36 PM
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I know everyone is saying don't do it...but as someone who followed their boyfriend to college I disagree with everyone else's advice. I you guys are stable and if you have discussed a VERY near future (getting engaged within a yet of you moving there) I would say go. You still have a whole year to decide. You just need to make sure there is real commitment from him and that you guys will be getting married very soon. If he balks at the commitment so soon, I would say cut your loses ASAP. To me,…
/r/RedPillWomen21/03/15 04:45 PM
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I usually do it to attempt to justify my actions or words. For example, if he's talking and in the middle of the conversation gets distracted and forgets what we were talking about, I get frustrated and when he asks "why are you making such a big deal about this?" I respond with "Because you always get distracted! Like today when you left the milk out/that one time you picked me up late/whatever else comes to mind." I feel really bad afterward because it usually DOES start drama. I have a hard t…
/r/RedPillWomen27/12/14 01:27 AM
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Sometimes it happens to us, but usually when it starts SO or I will make some smart-mouthed comment and then we'll both start laughing. Or if I see things getting out of control I just wrap my arms around him and start kissing on him. Men try to avoid fighting with women so if the woman stops the argument first it basically ends the entire conflict, I have seen. Drama usually starts when I get mad because he wasn't paying attention to what I was saying or something little like that, so I'd rathe…
/r/RedPillWomen26/12/14 07:40 PM
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No ones wants someone else's sloppy seconds. This reminds me of something a lot of my "independent" girl friends who cycle through bad relationships post a lot on Facebook: don't make someone a priority in your life when you're only an option in theirs.
/r/RedPillWomen24/12/14 06:55 PM
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Thank you so much!!:)
/r/RedPillWomen24/12/14 07:13 AM
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I mean, it's really a personality thing for me. I'm 19 and my SO is 22. A red pill relationship undoubtedly is not the only way to go, it really just depends on the degree of femininity of the woman, imo.
/r/RedPillWomen24/12/14 06:30 AM
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If you don't mind me asking, how long were you two together before you married?
/r/RedPillWomen24/12/14 02:21 AM
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Very good point, lol! Thank you for your response :)
/r/RedPillWomen24/12/14 02:21 AM
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If you don't mind me asking, how long were you two together before you married?
/r/RedPillWomen24/12/14 02:21 AM
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It feels very comforting in my opinion to know that my SO is Mr. Large and In Charge! I feel very protected (which I like) and he feels respected and nurtures (which he loves.)
/r/RedPillWomen24/12/14 02:15 AM
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Your story is very heartening! Thank you for your response!
/r/RedPillWomen24/12/14 12:05 AM
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We have been dating for almost two years. We were also worried about the "growing apart" issue but we sort of realized that that can happen at any age, and if we have made a firm commitment to each other then we both know that the other will work to grow together instead of just bailing for someone "better."
/r/RedPillWomen24/12/14 12:05 AM
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I live in the US, and oops I realized my error! I'm going for my BSN and am in my 4th semester of the program (graduated high school at 17). So it's 4 semesters of pre-reqs and then 4 of nursing school. We did make the decision to postpone children until after nursing school since he will still be in law school for a year after I've taken the NCLEX.
/r/RedPillWomen24/12/14 12:03 AM
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We were thinking about that issue. We have a good bit of money in savings, as we have been anticipating marriage for awhile. I don't think they'd go THAT far, but family is really important to me and I just don't want them to ostracize us or show us any disrespect for our decision. Thank you for your response!:)
/r/RedPillWomen23/12/14 05:22 PM
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