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I didn't lol, must be on your end
/r/PurplePillDebate13/06/20 03:57 PM
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Holy fuck I missed the fireworks, lmao wasn't expecting that. Sometimes I think she had valid points and was smart but yeah she did seem angry and defensive sometimes and seemed to think any guy over 30 was gross (I can understand that if you're 18 but at 28 when it's your peers by then?). If she's really trans wow she hid it for a long time. She had a high flying career and was a party girl but still posted here constantly which surprised me lol.
/r/PurplePillDebate13/06/20 04:35 AM
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What if you don't like either. I'm not a liberal I'm a progressive socialist. Liberals = resistance Hillary voters = cool with abortion and gay marriage but conservative on economic issues
/r/PurplePillDebate31/05/20 09:45 PM
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Nasolabial folds and slightly duller/less glowing skin is ruining my good looks. I was hot until like 2015 though, androgynous pretty boy bisexual. Now I just look like a slightly past prime one, and cougars probably prefer 20 year old college guys over me.
/r/PurplePillDebate31/05/20 12:09 AM
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I'm Demisexual so I feel bonded too, in fact when I was younger and hotter I never could have sex without some connection first. I wasn't wired with typical male sexuality lol
/r/PurplePillDebate31/05/20 12:02 AM
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OT, but I think it's gross when women (of any age) date, lust after, or fuck younger men. Maybe that's because I'm upset and feel threatened though? At 36 I'm scared that suburban mom's won't look at me like they would a 22 year old dude
/r/PurplePillDebate30/05/20 11:54 PM
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Even though I personally prefer older women I think you're correct. Good on you man, I think a young looking 38 year old would be more attractive than (for example) a balding junkie 28 year old who looked older. After 25 we all start to age differently depending on lifestyle and genes
/r/PurplePillDebate30/05/20 11:50 PM
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I'm almost 37 and I solely like older women, especially around like 50. Then again I'm a feminist (socialist) progressive leftie as well as a sub, I liked MILFs even as a kid and teenager. Not all of us are going after college girls, even emotionally stunted ones like me
/r/PurplePillDebate30/05/20 11:41 PM
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Very true, I think the pre 1996-97 internet didn't have a lot of trolls and wasn't it mostly used by the government and just at colleges? I get the feeling Gilbert and Louis from Revenge of the Nerds were the types who wrote a lot of those early internet posts
/r/PurplePillDebate15/05/20 12:32 AM
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Definitely man, it's a trade-off. I feel like if you were extroverted and popular, 80s dating was badass but if you were socially awkward or (as you mentioned) overweight/not that good looking and didn't make a good first impression, then not so much. I keep thinking of Fast Times at Ridgemont High with the no shoes no shirt no dice sign, lol. Most people were thinner and in shape, any babysitters I had or older kids I knew were pretty popular. True the later 90s was probably starting to become …
/r/PurplePillDebate15/05/20 12:26 AM
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Good observation, I remember lot's of fun, stereotypical Gen Xers not just working but hanging out at the supermarket and malls, pretty much everywhere when I was a kid too
/r/PurplePillDebate15/05/20 12:14 AM
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Do you think that's the origin of TRP? I made another post about how the stereotypical view of 35 year olds seems to be stuck in the 2000s and fits people born circa 1970 not 1985
/r/PurplePillDebate15/05/20 12:12 AM
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Yeah, I feel like tinder allows everyone to be way pickier. That spontaneous stuff such as being able to date at work seems like it was much more fun in the 80s ( even as far as the early-mid 2000s) lots of people met their future spouse at work but it's really frowned upon now
/r/PurplePillDebate14/05/20 08:25 PM
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Great insight, yeah that's a lot closer to people's every day reality, there was probably just as much if not more class discrimination (think breakfast club cliques) and reluctance to date outside social circles. It's kind of a shame people could be close minded like that. In a way I'm glad I was just a kid in the 80s getting to enjoy the music and the vibe but without having my view of the time ruined by Reagan and stuff lol
/r/PurplePillDebate14/05/20 08:22 PM
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Yeah you'd have to be born in like 1969-70 at the absolute youngest, I'm sure there's a few members but mostly not
/r/PurplePillDebate14/05/20 08:12 PM
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Underrated comment. There's a reason they don't try to make boybands with jacked TRP alpha guys lol, effeminate guys with smooth features are nonthreatening and cute, not just to teenage girls but to some older women too. I was 14 in 1997-98 and I can definitely say young Leo and BSB were attractive to the girls my age, so I'm sure it's no different now. I had the pretty boy androgynous look for years and got far more attention. I still sort of have it at 36 almost 37 but it's fading and so is t…
/r/PurplePillDebate14/05/20 08:08 PM
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Bieber in 2020 looks way different, More masc and just a regular dude now. Makes me laugh when people bring him up as an example of tween crushes when they're still thinking of 2009 Bieber
/r/PurplePillDebate14/05/20 07:52 PM
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Granted they still look the same but that's 10 years ago op! Kinda makes me laugh when people bring up Bieber as an example of a teenybopper when they're thinking of 2009-12 Bieber not 2020 and he looks way more of just a regular guy now. But back to the main point you could be right, I see a lot of manly men hating on "soyboys" or "girly men" (in their words) which seems classic toxic masculinity. I'm almost 37 and I'm jealous of them because I wish I was still that hot but I want to appeal to …
/r/PurplePillDebate14/05/20 07:46 PM
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Hell yeah, I love for example when a woman is stronger or smarter or better than me or when she bosses me around
/r/PurplePillDebate12/05/20 06:27 PM
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Yeah I think that's probably normal once we age it kinda flips. I'd move the earth for 72 year old Stevie Nicks though
/r/PurplePillDebate12/05/20 06:22 PM
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Same, and when the opportunity presents itself I never knew how to act cause I didn't want to be a perv but wanted to show them I was interested, lol. Reminds me of when I was 19 and this girl (my age) was feeling me up at work, I ended up just being stunned and not doing it back
/r/PurplePillDebate12/05/20 06:20 PM
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Darn my last post missed it by literally minutes! Oh well that's what I get for not logging on in days lol
/r/PurplePillDebate12/05/20 06:15 PM
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It's purge week so nope, sorry lol. I'm just slightly bisexual
/r/PurplePillDebate12/05/20 06:00 PM
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Fuck yes absolutely, I do like visuals too but only after an emotional connection
/r/PurplePillDebate12/05/20 05:58 PM
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That's what I thought too, been that way since I was a kid and I could never explain why I was sexual as fuck but didn't care about looking at Playboys when I was 12 (I'm old lol I was one of the last tweens to come up before the internet was a thing)
/r/PurplePillDebate12/05/20 05:55 PM
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Makes sense, like a lot probably want to party with college girls if they missed out on it when they were 20. For me I was kinda awkward at that age so older women gave me the attention anyway
/r/PurplePillDebate12/05/20 05:53 PM
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First thing is probably true, only reason it is for me is there's certain guidance, emotional support and understanding I just never got from my own mom. We love each other don't get me wrong, but even approaching middle age I still want a mom figure I can run to for security and life guidance. Ehh I can recognize 20 year olds can be beautiful just not my type bruh. Besides it's not all about me, even if I fell for one I know most of them would rather have a 20 year old dude their own age than m…
/r/PurplePillDebate12/05/20 05:51 PM
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Honestly I think it's hot af seeing women get off like that, simply because it's something they like ya know?
/r/PurplePillDebate12/05/20 10:27 AM
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Yeah you're good bro just a few years older than them. Some are hella cool I just can't see them romantically
/r/PurplePillDebate12/05/20 10:10 AM
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More for both of us respectively lmao. I'm almost 37 and if a 21 year old thought of me like a daddy I'd get limp in no time and probably start crying cause I'd feel ugly/old lol
/r/PurplePillDebate12/05/20 10:06 AM
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Well yeah both extremes are bad a healthy balance is best, I know I'm unique I just love being submissive and doing what they want lol
/r/PurplePillDebate12/05/20 09:50 AM
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I mean some people of any age can be cool as shit, and it's like I can recognize some early 20s women are beautiful but I just couldn't feel attracted to them. Ever since I was a kid I was the "crushing on my buddy's mom and getting a boner under the desk from my middle aged teacher" type lmao.
/r/PurplePillDebate12/05/20 09:47 AM
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True I can see it from that perspective. Honestly I'm just hella feminist and submissive so I don't have any desire to feel like the man of a relationship maybe that's why I feel that way? Well that and it's cool to have chicks who remember the 80s lol.
/r/PurplePillDebate12/05/20 09:44 AM
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Breaking the norm but older ladies freaking rock I'm 36 and I'd say 50 or so? Depends on the person and the connection we'd have of course though. Younger women just don't do it for me
/r/PurplePillDebate12/05/20 09:39 AM
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Yep that was my previous account lol. I had a meltdown on another sub one day and revealed too much personal information I didn't want traced back to me so I deactivated.
/r/PurplePillDebate30/04/20 12:57 AM
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Probably more like the 90s or early 00s i was even being generous lol but my overall point was modern 35-40 year olds aren't anything like Reddit stereotypes (i.e. hella middle-aged). I'm not gonna violate a regular persons privacy posting their pics here but if you knew my friends, co workers and acquaintances you'd probably agree.
/r/PurplePillDebate30/04/20 12:53 AM
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Exactly, sometimes stuff will even shock me when I look back at what was normal as a kid in the 80s/earlier 90s so our mindset so get stuck in the past. I actually believe health correlates with looks, there's much less smoking and demand for healthier food so a modern 38 year old is probably literally de facto younger than 38 in the 80s.
/r/PurplePillDebate29/04/20 10:04 AM
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Yeah I'm 36 turning 37 in a few months. I totally agree I'm a "you do you boo" type as long as everything's consensual, guess I'd just feel wrong feeling attracted to anyone more than 8-10 years younger. I have friends that age but I automatically "little sister zone" them lol
/r/PurplePillDebate29/04/20 02:43 AM
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Lol I mean I'm not gonna post pics of regular people on here, but I think if you met them you guys would agree with me. I'm not saying there's no difference between 20 and 35 of course there is, but it's more subtle. Someone who was 35 in the 80s or 90s didn't have much in common with 20 year olds of that time, but now they do. Fashion, music, slang, financial struggle sometimes too. Bernie supporters aren't just college students lol.
/r/PurplePillDebate29/04/20 02:29 AM
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Maybe mid to late 20s but still pretty young, a lot of it may be their attitudes too
/r/PurplePillDebate29/04/20 02:26 AM
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I danced with one at a club a couple years ago and even that made me feel like "damn I feel guilty" lol
/r/PurplePillDebate29/04/20 02:24 AM
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True I guess if a woman looks younger than a 45+ year old MILF I compute it as young. Maybe 21 is pushing it but Tay does look young imo
/r/PurplePillDebate29/04/20 02:22 AM
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Probably a little more common yeah for blue collar and in conservative areas, still seems so young to get married. I like cougars and at 36 (37 this year) if I met one I really clicked with I feel just barely ready enough that I could.
/r/PurplePillDebate28/04/20 07:58 PM
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Well yeah that's an example of creepy guys her age too. There's shitty people and awesome people at all ages but I suppose it just adds an additional layer of creepy if bad behavior comes from a 30+ year old.
/r/PurplePillDebate28/04/20 07:40 PM
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Oh no doubt we get more experienced at sex with time, but I've just heard that trope online for awhile, like if a 45 year old guy is talking about how he got with women in their 20s
/r/PurplePillDebate28/04/20 07:32 PM
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Yikes, I mean it's personal preference, but it seriously doesn't bother you to get lumped in with 70 year olds who went to Woodstock? (I actually think those types of Boomers are cool but isn't it a confidence killer to not feel like a still relatively young man, which you are.)
/r/PurplePillDebate28/04/20 07:08 PM
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Guess we're biased seeing her with professional treatment and makeup. Idk maybe when she's at home just waking up in the morning she has small wrinkles but I'm sure it's still very minor, being that rich with access to nutrition and skincare
/r/PurplePillDebate28/04/20 07:00 PM
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Oh it's not me doing that lol just saying there's women I know who get turnt. Granted she goes for guys around her own age but this 37 year old woman I know still parties hard and goes to trendy clubs with our younger co workers, and nobody makes fun of her for being old. Bro who gets married in their early 20s lmao, even in a small conservative town
/r/PurplePillDebate28/04/20 06:53 PM
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Yeah that's understandable cause it's far away from their perspective. I'll bet if they met a bunch of women born in like 1984 though they'd be surprised and not realize that's what 35 is. Like tell them Katy Perry and Bruno Mars are that age lol
/r/PurplePillDebate28/04/20 06:50 PM
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Nah dude I've been shocked at some of my friends/co workers ages. I guess it's a mental thing, like if I know they're 35 or 38 i can visualize it but they regardless seem really young, and not in the MILF way either
/r/PurplePillDebate28/04/20 06:47 PM
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Yeah I'm 36 and despite feeling younger than I am and being (comparitively) inexperienced I don't suddenly feel attracted to 19 year olds (I always liked older women lol), so it's hard for me to understand why they're okay with making very young women and people around them uncomfortable? I'd think that alone would be a deterrent, besides wouldn't it feel shitty and self conscious to get "dad zoned" anyway? I guess some are so selfish they don't care, which is sad.
/r/PurplePillDebate28/04/20 05:40 PM
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When I was 19 I had an amazing 44 year old girlfriend who I'll have feelings for and great memories as long as I live. She was like a healing crystals type hippie and she sure wasn't manipulating me, though I'd be cool with it if she did lol cause I'm submissive.
/r/PurplePillDebate28/04/20 05:32 PM
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You don't live in my area lol, lots of women born in 1980-1985 that I know could pass for college age and go clubbing without raising an eyebrow
/r/PurplePillDebate28/04/20 05:20 PM
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Tay looks 21 man no wrinkles or dull skin or grey or anything. I can guarantee she's going to be a gorgeous cougar in 20 years though.
/r/PurplePillDebate28/04/20 05:18 PM
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Yep I know lots of both men and especially women who look younger than their age. I'll be 37 this year and take care of my skin and have been mistaken for my mid 20s even by people even that age. Health and nutrition and fitness is better today so I believe more of us are aging slower. My boss is born in 1980 and is vibrant and hella youthful, she seriously looks 23 or so.
/r/PurplePillDebate28/04/20 05:17 PM
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Lol I like dominant women, being submissive and pleasing them is my biggest turn on, but you do you man
/r/PurplePillDebate28/04/20 05:00 PM
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Come on bro cougars are amazing that's my only experience save for one girl who was my age. And no way is 30 post wall today, even from the perspective if you only like young women, so many of them seem young up to like 43
/r/PurplePillDebate28/04/20 04:57 PM
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Devil's advocate: I think a lot of older guys don't realize or are even shocked/offended that almost all 19 year olds want guys their age, and are considerably less attracted or totally turned off by guys our age(s). Like 30-35+ or hell even 27 can seem creepy if you're 20 especially like in college and only around people your age in social circles. I understand it hurts to feel old or to get rejected or excluded but they have a right to be attracted or not attracted to anyone they damn well wan…
/r/PurplePillDebate28/04/20 04:38 PM
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I know bro those Karen's totally exist I've encountered some, but they're probably more like 47 not 35. I wouldn't fault a 20 year old for thinking that's what 35 looks and acts like though. Oh I feel like TRP and manosphere just used to press the idea about 22 year old girls seeking out (stereotyping here) "real men who know how to satisfy her in bed and aren't broke idiots like the Millennial soyboys her age" (Millennials go up to 39 or 40 now anyway lol). That may be true but those dudes are …
/r/PurplePillDebate28/04/20 04:03 PM
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Oh no doubt behavior and personalities across the spectrum exist. But boomer 35 is absolutely an older vibe than modern 35
/r/PurplePillDebate28/04/20 03:56 PM
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Oh I totally know that entitled type, but what I'm saying is I'm sure it's not mid 30s it's like 48. From a 20 year olds perspective that's probably just what they think 35 looks/acts like. Or it's what 35 in the 2000s was like and hasn't adjusted for the times yet.
/r/PurplePillDebate28/04/20 03:52 PM
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Yeah but again probably just the small percentage of girls who intentionally like older men, not the ones into young guys their age. 90s ER George in his mid 30s did have the daddy vibe I was describing, which seems equivalent to about 47 today.
/r/PurplePillDebate28/04/20 03:48 PM
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I know a lot of single moms around my age, I truly feel for them cause they've been with a lot of bad boys who dumped them for instance. A friend from work born in 1984 still hits up the clubs and has lots of homegirls younger than her.
/r/PurplePillDebate28/04/20 03:44 PM
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I love moms/MILFs have since I was an actual kid so maybe I'm biased, but there's so many women even in their early 40s who I thought were like 26. Men too if they took care of themselves. I half agree and disagree on the rest. Self improvement is always good, but I don't think 20/35 is as different as it was in past generations (stuff like internet culture bridges the gap). I'd agree being an exactly overgrown 20 year old isn't good, but doesn't mean you need to resemble her dad either. There's…
/r/PurplePillDebate28/04/20 03:38 PM
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The Bernie left (which is truly left) or the SJW left? I mean I'm liberal on everything lol but I feel like democratic politicians push social justice issues to hide the fact that they're conservative on economic issues
/r/PurplePillDebate28/04/20 03:23 PM
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Actually might be the best take, cause even if it's slanted that's all true from his perspective
/r/PurplePillDebate28/04/20 03:19 PM
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Oh I'm sure affluent areas are full of limousine liberals like that, sorry you've had to endure their shit. I've dealt with a few over the years, usually Boomers and early Xers (and not the milf ones)
/r/PurplePillDebate28/04/20 03:16 PM
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Old compared to college age sure, but you can't deny Millennial 35 is miles younger than Boomer 35
/r/PurplePillDebate28/04/20 03:12 PM
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Yeah I feel like after 25 the trajectory we all age on can vary all over the place. Some 40 year olds look 50 others look 27
/r/PurplePillDebate28/04/20 04:35 AM
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Yeah that's my guess, I mean it's comparitively old to a 20 year old so I sorta understand. Early 40s still seems hella young most of the time, that doesn't kick in until the later 40s from my experience
/r/PurplePillDebate28/04/20 04:25 AM
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Sounds like they're just bitchy, that exists at any age. Sorry you have to put up with that on the daily, granted maybe it's a high stress environment but still
/r/PurplePillDebate28/04/20 04:24 AM
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Lol I think the memes stereotype it a little too much, obviously it's more about attitude. The few women in recent years I've met like that tend to be in their 50s or 60s (late 40s at youngest) and obviously not all of them.
/r/PurplePillDebate28/04/20 04:22 AM
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Yeah that seems like the view of a WWII era woman like how old fashioned can you get? I could forgive a young terper guy (like 18) for thinking that just because it's old compared to him. But I'm flabbergasted how some guys in their 30s/40s think that way. Very true, adolescence has been extended more and more starting with the boomers. No matter what we think of them now, they were the first youthful generation lol.
/r/PurplePillDebate28/04/20 04:17 AM
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True, we all have different sides of ourselves, it's interesting how we revert to being like teens when we're around friends, kinda like your dad. I never thought 35 was old, but as a kid it was like "that's a straight up grown person who knows shit", obviously that's not always true because nobody has all the answers to life, but when I was 8 people in their 30s seemed like full adults
/r/PurplePillDebate28/04/20 04:14 AM
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It's pretty much an internet slang term for the stereotypical cranky middle-aged woman that demands to speak to a manager in a store, not literally named Karen
/r/PurplePillDebate28/04/20 02:18 AM
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I'm trying to lose the west coast lingo but it's hard after being ingrained lol
/r/PurplePillDebate28/04/20 02:14 AM
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Yeah I could see that in some small town in the Midwest where there's nothing much to do lol
/r/PurplePillDebate28/04/20 02:13 AM
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I probably worded it kinda poorly but even among professionals I know (one male friend is a teacher, another is in the air force, etc) they still have the sense of humor and personality they had when we were 20, just more life experience. My last boss was born in 1980 and I thought she was seriously 22. Not just looking young but acting it too, she flirted with me and a few of the guys
/r/PurplePillDebate28/04/20 02:10 AM
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Yep so true, forget 2009 more like 1959. I'd assume most college girls aren't getting hot over Clooney (save for the few who intentionally like way older guys)
/r/PurplePillDebate28/04/20 02:06 AM
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You sure it's not just poor diets and stuff? Most likely they still act 19, even if they're single moms stressed out chasing the little ones around
/r/PurplePillDebate28/04/20 02:04 AM
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Thanks lol, it's pretty much a reference to how they say gay death begins at 30 (I'm slightly bi)
/r/PurplePillDebate28/04/20 01:57 AM
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Agree with your fiance. Yeah my guess is they want in their pants so much they don't give a shit about how they appear to others, or how the girl and her friends/family feel. Granted there's "wrong generation" Zoomers who like older music and ones that are mature for their age but it's irrelevant. They're still 20 bro lol. The typical TRP would probably respond by saying I'd feel different if a college girl was interested in me, but even if I did really click with one, the age gap would always m…
/r/PurplePillDebate28/04/20 01:05 AM
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Yeah bm/ww is super common more than the other way around. I have the biggest crush on a black friend my age (well 3 years older) and I'd ask her out if she didn't have a boyfriend lol. It's ironic how uncommon black women with white men seem.
/r/PurplePillDebate27/04/20 03:15 AM
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OP your dad sounds like a good guy. I'm thinking age gaps are at least kinda ok if they don't want kids, but it's way too traditional gender roles and selfish for a 21 year old young woman to give up her youth and experiences to be a SAHM. It's not 1958 anymore lol
/r/PurplePillDebate27/04/20 03:12 AM
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That's so true, I think once the younger woman is mid to late 20s it's personal choice and not a big deal, but it's like how can a 40 year old guy feel good about hitting on a 19 year old girl?
/r/PurplePillDebate27/04/20 03:10 AM
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Wouldn't surprise me lol. I mean if two people truly click with each other, hey you do you, but it just would feel wrong on a visceral level for me (even if I don't feel 36). I guess they feel no shame and it says something about their morality if their dicks are more important than the girl's feelings about it. I feel like late 20s is the youngest I could be attracted to and not feel weird although even then I'd notice a generation gap (ie an old Millennial who remembers the late 80s/early 90s …
/r/PurplePillDebate26/04/20 06:06 PM
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Good on you man, yeah that's the best we can really do. If you're still getting reasonably good attention from women and you're 43 that's a good sign and you're probably aging well. Yeah it's not like we can't still get attention we just have to put more outward effort into it compared to when we were 20. I had flings without even trying back then. It's quite interesting how aging isn't always gradual, it goes in a couple waves during adulthood. For example someone can look similar from 20-35 th…
/r/PurplePillDebate26/04/20 05:36 AM
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Damn bro, I'm not denying she had addictions all boomer rock stars did lol but she's a sweetie and seriously looks about 40-45. Harry Styles wrote her rock hall acceptance speech and has a crush on her so he's got good taste
/r/PurplePillDebate26/04/20 12:35 AM
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I think for late bloomer guys who missed out on it, adjusting out of it is hard because you don't have the foundation. You literally still feel 22 but don't have the looks of it anymore and get treated differently on the outside than you feel inside. That said I often wonder why they'd want to experience it as a detached older guy? In other words I get wanting to go clubbing and have carefree fun with younger women (if that's your thing, it's not mine), but why would you want to experience it "a…
/r/PurplePillDebate26/04/20 12:07 AM
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Bro not every woman over 35 or over 45 is like that. Stevie Nicks is 71 and one of the most awesome vibrant people in the world. Sure there's 45 year old Karen's but that's a minority
/r/PurplePillDebate25/04/20 11:55 PM
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Yeah people even up to like 45 can look young especially if they have good genes and take care of themselves. I don't think aging noticeably starts until mid 30s and even then it's more subtle stuff you might not notice unless you're up close looking hard. I'll be 37 this year and even though I'm super super self conscious of nasolabial folds and forehead lines getting noticed, people often do think I'm younger.
/r/PurplePillDebate25/04/20 11:50 PM
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As a late bloomer 36 year old guy this is me 💯, it really can be hard to adjust to becoming effectively a new person. I was a pretty boy emo for years and just got so used to being treated accordingly, so aging can be twilight zone weird getting "sirred" and not having heads turn as much, and comparitively feeling like a Boomer at times lol. The only difference with me and many other guys in my shoes is I like older women, whereas they usually like college girls because they missed out on it. Oh…
/r/PurplePillDebate25/04/20 11:06 PM
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Even if my confidence wasn't as good, it was awesome being in those years as a guy too. I feel like it suited my personality the best, and older women thought I was cuter. I'm trying to balance that out and keep being that way at 36 but I was hotter at 22 despite being more awkward and a late bloomer
/r/PurplePillDebate25/04/20 10:46 PM
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Dude that was me at 14 much less 19 I had so many teacher boners it's not even funny, then again I got mommy issues. I mean beautiful women not looking like grandma. Think of Goldie Hawn of the 90s
/r/PurplePillDebate23/04/20 09:25 PM
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I mean not grandma old lol, but I love moms middle-aged women like 45 or 50. Plenty of them are vibrant, fun but wise and don't look their age
/r/PurplePillDebate23/04/20 12:02 AM
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How not? I mean he doesn't appear to have any wrinkles or grey, is thin and fit etc. Even in the candid videos where he's not in the studio with good lighting, he doesn't look in his 30s to me.
/r/PurplePillDebate22/04/20 11:59 PM
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Definitely good on you not taking her up on it because out of respect for your girlfriend, but damn dude I love experiences like that, it just makes you feel validated and desirable and I love that. Happened to me in my 20s a lot
/r/PurplePillDebate22/04/20 11:57 PM
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Absolutely, OLD has allowed women to be pickier than say in the 80s when everyone only met face to face through work or social circles lol
/r/PurplePillDebate22/04/20 11:55 PM
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I kinda have a mommy kink, I'll take your place bruh. I'm scared as I approach 40 I'll never have that appeal again
/r/PurplePillDebate22/04/20 11:53 PM
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He proves you can look badass and sexy at the same time, I admit he blend's it well
/r/PurplePillDebate22/04/20 11:52 PM
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Do you think it's a NON attraction to men their age specifically, or they just also begin liking younger men when they didn't before?
/r/PurplePillDebate22/04/20 11:51 PM
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That's kinda ridiculous since 30s - 50s women are not only beautiful but have more life experience
/r/PurplePillDebate22/04/20 11:50 PM
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Guess this gave it away lol
/r/PurplePillDebate22/04/20 11:49 PM
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I feel like those are just the most extreme ones. Of course it was a major fantasy when I was younger, but it makes me mad now and I can realize how fucked up it is. It can fuck up a guys view of sex and love, in addition to being illegal and just unnatural
/r/PurplePillDebate22/04/20 11:48 PM
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Indeed, I think the androgynous metrosexual thing looks much more natural when you're under 25/30 at most. David Bowie pulled it off in his older age but he was a rich rock star too lol
/r/PurplePillDebate10/04/20 07:10 AM
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Thanks, glad somebody gets that lol. Yeah it's mainly the principle, especially because I missed out on a lot of that in my youth since I was shyer and I'm also wired more feminine. My gosh though this girl was born in 1980 and literally could pass for a Gen Z college student, she doesn't even have the MILF vibe it's like a genuine young person.
/r/PurplePillDebate10/04/20 07:08 AM
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Also I think it was more common in past generations, so it's not always nefarious or guys intentionally being creepy (obviously some are though) but it's probably ingrained in them if they grew up with an uncle or grandfather or even their dad being older than their wives. It might be a culture shock if their Boomer parents have an age gap then when they're 35 and ask a 25 year old out not thinking anything out of the ordinary only to get a hard pass because of their age. I have sympathy for the…
/r/PurplePillDebate10/04/20 06:58 AM
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Agreed. I always had a somewhat androgynous effeminate look, can I still be okay if I work really hard on it? I'll be 37 this year and I know I got nothing on 20 year olds but I mean I hope it's not all over lol
/r/PurplePillDebate10/04/20 06:36 AM
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Have heard great stuff about HGH, and being we're all quarantined this is good a time as any to improve ourselves
/r/PurplePillDebate10/04/20 06:21 AM
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That's awesome (I'm almost 37 and still made it lol) yeah honestly this pandemic and the unrest in the world anyway makes me realize now more than ever that our time is finite and just gotta go for it. I was a shy kid and awkward teenager, part of why I'm so scared of aging is not really living it up in my youth, so luckily I'm far more outgoing these days. As long as it's consensual and respectful I love when people can click in social situations.
/r/PurplePillDebate10/04/20 06:20 AM
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Wouldn't the prospect of being "dad zoned" be enough of a deterrent for creeps not to try? I'm lucky I'm not romantically into 20s women but even if I was I'd suck it up and live without anyway just out of fear. Even if some girl was into older guys, I'd feel so unattractive and insulted that I'd never be able to get it up again lol. See I work really hard on my looks with skincare, I'm obsessed with keeping looking as young as possible, like I'd rather look like an ugly 23 year old i/ncel than …
/r/PurplePillDebate10/04/20 06:11 AM
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I'm not into younger women (20s) but even if I was, just the prospect of being dad zoned would make me limp af in no time lol
/r/PurplePillDebate10/04/20 06:06 AM
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Hard disagree bruh, granted I'm probably older at 36 myself now but I've literally crushed on middle-aged women since I was a kid in elementary school and the only girlfriends and flings I've had have been older than me
/r/PurplePillDebate10/04/20 06:05 AM
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That seems so shallow, how can a guy willingly have sex with someone who's not attracted to him? I'd think that alone would be a turn off but then again I'm a feminist
/r/PurplePillDebate10/04/20 06:03 AM
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I'm not into younger women but we need to stop acting like 30 or 35 is 50. Modern 30s guys don't look much different than 20s because Millennials are actually younger biologically and how we act, we age slower too. (Some Gen Xers do too.) Its the boomers who looked haggard at 35. Kyle Kulinski is 32 and looks 25 even college age if he really wanted to be
/r/PurplePillDebate10/04/20 05:59 AM
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Yeah people aren't marrying at freaking 21 all the time anymore like Boomers and previous generations did. I wonder if the cougar taboo will get less and less with time, especially as people look younger too
/r/PurplePillDebate10/04/20 05:07 AM
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I feel bad for Zoomers they're literally graduating into a pandemic and climate emergency and wealth inequality
/r/PurplePillDebate10/04/20 04:57 AM
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I honestly admire young guys having balls like that, I didn't become extroverted til I was late 20s but more power to you fr.
/r/PurplePillDebate10/04/20 04:54 AM
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I used to have cougars flirt with me when I was like 16 I miss that so much and I flirted right back lol
/r/PurplePillDebate10/04/20 04:50 AM
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Can I have your life bro? Am I past my prime for that happening ever again since I'll be 37 this year? Like even if I get jacked I'll just be a fit middle-aged guy
/r/PurplePillDebate10/04/20 04:43 AM
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What if he's your age but looks younger is that alone a turn off? Is it the thrill of him actually being younger or looking better?
/r/PurplePillDebate10/04/20 04:40 AM
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Not every 35 year old is balding fat and nasty though, if they are they made some shitty life choices. Go check out the comedian and YT commentator Ron Placone who's 35 and looks like 27
/r/PurplePillDebate10/04/20 04:34 AM
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Yeah 34 isn't bad still a fully grown man, it does make me wince when it's college age very young guys though. Maybe I'm just salty that it's not me anymore but it makes you wonder if they don't like men their age
/r/PurplePillDebate10/04/20 04:32 AM
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Yikes that's horrible. No matter how it escalated that's tragic, the guy might've been a psycho no matter what his age
/r/PurplePillDebate10/04/20 04:30 AM
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Yeah would I be right to assume they're not likely to be pervs about it like the men who give zero fucks, but the thoughts are still there? I wonder if it's more left leaning and/or lonely women who've been treated like shit from ex's her age?
/r/PurplePillDebate10/04/20 03:14 AM
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Gender norms are being broken both ways and it's kinda awesome. I just wish I was a Gen Z so I could enjoy it better
/r/PurplePillDebate10/04/20 03:11 AM
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Good point, yeah it's probably more about thrills and feeling lust than about an actual relationship, but exceptions exist
/r/PurplePillDebate10/04/20 03:08 AM
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You do you man, but older women just are amazing, I'm not just talking about sex but I mean to hang out with and learn stuff from. Plus I love when they were around for the 80s more than me
/r/PurplePillDebate10/04/20 03:06 AM
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What about (slightly) awkward aging pretty boys? But yeah I agree being charismatic is even more important if they're mostly attracted to looks too.
/r/PurplePillDebate09/04/20 07:14 PM
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That's awesome brother, yeah I think that's the best of both worlds. I'll be 37 this year and I get taken as anywhere from mid 20s to earlier 30s. Some guys really can pull the silver fox thing off well. It's almost better to be all the way there, like a handsome 60 year old. I'm very nostalgic so sometimes it's tough to change, but you're probably correct I can't really pull off the emo pretty boy look as much as I used to. But yeah don't want to look like I'm hanging onto the early 2000s for d…
/r/seduction03/04/20 06:23 PM
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Ohh gotcha man. It does seem to be a common piece of advice for guys our age "just own your age bro" and don't try and seem younger. I do understand that (you don't want to look silly trying TOO hard to fit in with 19 year olds) but I think there's a middle ground. There's less difference between 20 and 30 (or even 40) than there was in prior generations. When Boomers were 35/40 they seemed total middle-aged, stuff like internet culture (and taking longer to finish school) has somewhat narrowed …
/r/seduction03/04/20 03:13 AM
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What if you're a 36-37 year old guy who tries really hard to stay looking younger (under 30) because of some stunted emotional growth and not doing that much in my youth? It'd be a gigantic ego blow to be told I look my age or to be "dad zoned" even if it's in a positive way. Granted probably not a popular view but one worth throwing out there. We're not all ready to live life as middle-aged dudes.
/r/seduction03/04/20 12:24 AM
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All the guys she knows are probably male models who have had skincare routines since they were 14 so she thinks even the most miniscule aging and sign they're not an adolescent means looking 30+. Lots of times it's all about perception. I've been saying that Boomers on average looked way older especially the men. I love the 80s and when I watch movies I know it's not my imagination. Bill Murray was only 33-34 in Ghostbusters, singers like Huey Lewis looked 50 by today's standards. Regular 35 yea…
/r/PurplePillDebate27/03/20 04:09 PM
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A friend just turned 30 and looks 23 or 24, I asked if anyone ever thinks his age and he says no. He's even a big dude with a beard. He doesn't appear to have any wrinkles yet either. I ain't posting a picture I'm too scared of what you'll say but I'm proud I don't look "boomer 36". It's not my imagination, looking at old pics or 80s movies, people looked way older. That's another reason I wish I could time travel to the 80s lol.
/r/PurplePillDebate27/03/20 04:02 PM
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I don't have the most emotionally fulfilling and understanding relationship with my mom which I firmly believe is one reason I have mommy issues/am almost exclusively attracted to older women. I never expect them to love me unconditionally and I'll always do my part to pitch in and help so that it's an equal relationship thing. That's why I'm so scared of physical aging and looking too weathered/old for them to find me cute or boyish anymore
/r/PurplePillDebate27/03/20 04:19 AM
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I'm 36 and like women in their 40s/50s most (71 if you count Stevie Nicks). Shit I don't even START being attracted to women until they're at least late 20s!
/r/PurplePillDebate27/03/20 04:07 AM
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Sorry to be a douche it just hits close to home since I don't like not being able to pass for my 20s (or its questionable at best). I get that Kyle doesn't look 18 but if he said he was 29 (a whopping 3 years younger lol) you wouldn't believe it? If a 40 year old guy said he was 37 or 38 you wouldn't believe it? Seriously what's the difference lmao
/r/PurplePillDebate25/03/20 08:02 PM
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True it's gonna happen to everyone. I'm sure even a few early 90s borns might have wrinkles now. It's tough when you've been privileged enough to look young for so long, becomes a culture shock lol
/r/PurplePillDebate25/03/20 07:51 PM
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That's a good question and it probably just depends on the person. My guess is that I'm more flirty with Gen X women whereas I act like a friend/brother to Millennial women (and walk on eggshells around zoomer girls lol). Maybe they also have husbands who don't pay as much attention to them whereas younger women always have thirsty ass guys orbiting them? Different dynamic
/r/PurplePillDebate25/03/20 07:49 PM
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Ohh okay gotcha, sorry if it sounded like I was putting you on blast! Yeah it's actually sad that we can't stop deteriorating and our bodies breaking down. Physical aging is just a small symptom of that, like else people can get injured so easily
/r/PurplePillDebate25/03/20 07:45 PM
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Yikes your standards are strict lol, not being a dick but is every dude around you a male model? Oh there's definitely guys who look even older than their age too, that guy from HS is 36 like me and probably looks 45, but it doesn't mean no one at all ever looks younger. So if Kulinski told you he was 29 you wouldn't believe it? So a 40 year old can't look...38 or something lol? I shoulda offed myself in 2013 so I'd have a perfect corpse still
/r/PurplePillDebate25/03/20 07:32 AM
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Do you think Kyle Kulinski from secular talk looks his age (32)? He looks about 24 to me. There was a viral Twitter thread about how people aged faster in the past. Seriously go look at how busted those Silents and Boomers looked in their 20s/30s/40s (especially the men) and people definitely look younger today on average. I mean I don't believe 40 year olds look 20 or something huge, but people do age differently. A guy I went to HS with my age is balding and looks like a total dad now (noticea…
/r/PurplePillDebate25/03/20 07:18 AM
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Small beards look pretty dope, it might accentuate your face even just some 80s Miami Vice stubble lol. But sorry about getting no matches, that shit hurts regardless of the reason. There's so many women though, one's bound to find you attractive. I feel like dating sites are hard for almost everyone, especially since women can afford to be picky since so many guys are thirsty lol.
/r/PurplePillDebate25/03/20 07:10 AM
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So accurate. I'd guess I look mid to late 20s I just have a couple fine lines, I also have an androgynous feminine vibe so it has the "boyish getting older" look I guess, so that's a double strike lol. For what it's worth I usually am in the friend zone. The exception is older women but I love older women so maybe I also put more effort/give off a more boyfriend vibe to them?
/r/PurplePillDebate25/03/20 07:06 AM
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Honestly I can't wait for life to get back to normal in a few months or a year, once the coronavirus is finally over. It's going to make outdoorsy and social events that much more awesome! But I relate to never wanting kids man. Even the cooler kids would probably wear me down after awhile, but so many of them are little shits idk how so many single moms manage. Surprisingly I like older women but they're almost always married or taken so that's a longshot. The 19 yos probably like you because y…
/r/PurplePillDebate25/03/20 07:01 AM
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Props for an honest answer. Serious question though, do you think we shouldn't use skincare products and stuff to slow down aging? I mean should we just age fast like Boomers my parents age? Most of them looked like haggard, total adults in their 30s and not youthful. Promise I'm not browbeating you or anything lol, I'm genuinely curious what you think? Or is it just (what I described about me), like being 36 and wanting to look early/mid 20s that's vain - ie way younger?
/r/PurplePillDebate25/03/20 06:53 AM
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That's awesome, your hubby sounds like a good dude too. Yeah it sounds like he just accelerated into "looking like a man" in the last couple years and he's in a bit of culture shock. Oh yeah I was getting comments like that until 2015 (about 31) like people asking if I needed to call my mom when we were hanging out lol.
/r/PurplePillDebate25/03/20 06:47 AM
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That's really insightful I never looked at it that way but it seems so obvious! Yeah immature just makes you seem like a dick regardless of age (i.e. expecting a woman to do our laundry or dishes). Since I haven't had as many experiences I'm super adventurous still lol
/r/PurplePillDebate25/03/20 06:40 AM
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You're a handsome guy bruh, maybe try a beard as much as you can grow to see if it changes anything. I've generally heard that too, how girls will think we're cute but not hot. My problem is I can't grow a cool hipster beard, it grows in all coarse and I'll instantly look like a bum lol. I probably would guess I look 28ish? Some soft lines I'm self conscious about although I probably notice them more than most people
/r/PurplePillDebate25/03/20 06:37 AM
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Thanks brother, sounds like you've got an awesome life. Gives me hope lol. Just because we might be approaching 40 we don't need to act like Boomers our parents age did back in the day
/r/PurplePillDebate25/03/20 06:32 AM
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This coronavirus shit is scary, I am hoping when the dust settles we'll become a more understanding and caring society. I'm totally with you on the first part, there's amazing open minded people in all ages, and I do think that's what makes people seem youthful. I feel like if you're trying too hard that's when it crosses the line into looking silly. I do think 35 is young now because it's Millennial (even some late Gen Xers in their early 40s seem young now too), whereas most Boomers and Xers w…
/r/PurplePillDebate25/03/20 06:31 AM
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Hmm mid to late 20s is cool. Grown but still a "young adult". I take precautions with skincare and sunscreen, I definitely don't look 19 or anything and I'm fine with that, I'm just afraid of getting "dad zoned" (whether that means a 45 year old lumping me in with them, or a 20 year old associating me with their parents/the adults).
/r/PurplePillDebate25/03/20 06:23 AM
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Second part 💯. I have light aging though and maybe I'm just hyper sensitive and notice it more than most people lol
/r/PurplePillDebate25/03/20 06:18 AM
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True, I think it's important not to overdo it too. Like I've been in situations where early 20s will generally treat me like "one of them" (bullshitting or using modern slang) but I never try and kick it with them. It'd just feel weird and "not right" to me anyway. Some people don't know their limits and that's when it's laughable. Like hanging with people 5 or 10 years younger as adults is fine but if you're 40 and only have 20 year old friends then I'd say that's odd
/r/PurplePillDebate25/03/20 06:14 AM
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Gotta agree artist types of any age are awesome and chill, a white collar job might be stability but a boring life
/r/PurplePillDebate25/03/20 06:11 AM
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Makes sense. Yeah I often hear younger guys who look younger lamenting it because of being left out or not taken seriously. I'd say it starts become a positive by the late 20s
/r/PurplePillDebate25/03/20 06:10 AM
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I relate bro. You're younger than me but I think there's always a sense of making up for lost time. Idk what's worse a shitty marriage/relationship or none? Good to hear you're better now
/r/PurplePillDebate25/03/20 06:06 AM
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I agree, even if I remove my personal bias of being attracted to moms/older women, so many women are vibrant and beautiful into old age nowadays. Stevie Nicks is 71 and gorgeous. Maybe boomer women acted and looked old at 30 but no way do Millennial women (even conservative old fashioned ones) seem like that now. Some men may just be stuck on how women that age were when they were growing up
/r/PurplePillDebate24/03/20 02:05 AM
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Nah it's just mildly disappointing lol. In a way I even respect Trump supporters more because even if I disagree at least they're genuine in their beliefs. It's so disappointing when someone's all for diversity and gay rights but doesn't care about minimum wage employees getting paid a living wage
/r/PurplePillDebate09/03/20 05:16 AM
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I don't lol, they do. It just tends to come out in conversation that they're either Trump supporters or that moderate democratic "we gotta beat trump/I'm only liberal on social issues" type.
/r/PurplePillDebate09/03/20 05:13 AM
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It's social democracy lol. He should have clarified it a little better and not called himself a socialist because that plants the seed in people's heads, but he's not the scary Boogeyman he's made out to be. In Europe he's a freaking moderate lol it's just the political spectrum in the US is so far to the right
/r/PurplePillDebate09/03/20 05:11 AM
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Your username made me smile lol but it's not communism bruh, it's FDR's legacy and what Scandinavia does. Idk I miss being a kid/teen in the 80s 90s when none of this stuff was on my radar
/r/PurplePillDebate08/03/20 11:43 PM
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Idk I can honestly see this from both points of view, so I can't 💯 pick a side and say it's always creepy or always all good, and both sides can get kinda militant about it. I think it really depends on the situation and the person But my guess is that the girls are creeped out if the dude looks his age (ie balding, rough skin, potbelly). If its a really good looking 35/40 year old who doesn't look it they might not even realize
/r/PurplePillDebate02/03/20 11:14 PM
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Anecdotal but I've loved mom type older women since I was a kid and still do. 45-55 year old women ate amazing to me but I know I'm an outlier
/r/PurplePillDebate01/03/20 09:49 PM
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I'm thinking a lot of the visceral disgust is either from creeps with no self awareness that won't think twice about saying shit to a waitress at work (for example), and it's because 20 year olds probably think (even subconsciously) 35 year old guys all look like some busted ass cryptkeeper when obviously they don't. Modern 30s guys are like the older Millennial guys on the young turks. John, Brett, and many others are born in the 80s and really handsome and don't look their age. If a guy doesn'…
/r/PurplePillDebate01/03/20 09:33 PM
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Kinda agree with you on the first part OP, but only if you're talking about cishet toxic masculinity men. There's a Seinfeld episode (I'm stuck in the 90s lol) where Elaine said the female body is so work of art but the male body is "utilitarian for getting around, its like a Jeep" lol. But it's like what about circa 2010 Bieber or 1997 Titanic Leo? Especially young Leo, I mean you could tell he was a dude obviously but no gross body hair and stuff
/r/PurplePillDebate01/03/20 09:18 PM
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Hmm that's actually a good ass point, less to lose if you're just meeting someone. I wonder if its different with me liking older women or at least women my age? The lady I told (my ex babysitter) is almost 50
/r/PurplePillDebate26/02/20 09:46 PM
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That's often been my biggest concern too. I think you gotta be selective and careful how you do it, not worth it if even the friendship is fucked afterwards. I'm wondering if that's why its easier for me being mainly attracted to older women? Like they might generally appreciate the honesty more
/r/PurplePillDebate26/02/20 09:43 PM
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Agreed, yeah I wouldn't do this if you're just casually friends or if there's clearly no attraction on her part
/r/PurplePillDebate26/02/20 07:08 PM
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Same and in fact she has to feel that way about me before I can (pretty sure I'm Demisexual). I like older women too
/r/PurplePillDebate26/02/20 07:06 PM
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You're right on some of that. 36 yeah and I've always been very feminist and not the type to speak up but I think approaching middle age scares me into at least manning up a bit while obviously being respectful still. I'm "one of the girls" in many respects so I don't mind being an emotional support type because I genuinely care about them as people first and foremost. I have slept with women mostly older women (I love them lol) but its interesting to point out you're right that there's always b…
/r/PurplePillDebate26/02/20 12:04 AM
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Fair enough lol. Oh just to be clear on the ex babysitter, she found me in social media since we both ended up posting in a FB nostalgia group about our hometown (I miss the 80s so much). She's actually volunteered information about her hubby, I've never met the dude and I haven't seen her since I was 9 and she was early 20s lol
/r/PurplePillDebate25/02/20 11:58 PM
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Not talking about wanting to fuck them cause I'm not like that lol, I just mean having some romantic feelings for them
/r/PurplePillDebate25/02/20 11:53 PM
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Very true my dude, actions speak louder
/r/PurplePillDebate25/02/20 11:51 PM
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Definitely yeah I'd advise against it if you just met someone too, like only if you already know her and are comfortable with each other
/r/PurplePillDebate25/02/20 09:29 PM
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I can't imagine not doing that lol, any kind of facial or body hair (beyond a chin goatee) makes me feel like I need an immediate shower lol
/r/PurplePillDebate25/02/20 06:51 PM
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Toxic masculinity is absolutely toxic because I feel like men who think that way tend to have degrading sexist attitudes towards women. Exceptions totally exist though and they deserve props. Bernie has a senior advisor Chuck Rocha who's a Texan man's man but is brilliant, no nonsense and seems like a great dude, outward appearance isn't everything, but beliefs are. If you're an effeminate guy with sexist conservative views than you suck too. All of us men should believe in feminism and being pr…
/r/PurplePillDebate25/02/20 06:58 AM
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What about bisexual or simply feminine acting men who reject toxic masculinity?
/r/PurplePillDebate25/02/20 06:48 AM
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Sorry bruh older women like her make me weak in the knees but I know I'm in the minority. Stevie Nicks is twice my age and she's adorable (I mean modern 70 year old Stevie, not early Fleetwood Mac Stevie either)
/r/PurplePillDebate19/02/20 07:49 PM
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Damn brother that's harsh lol, to each their own though. I always had a huge thing for mom types even as a kid. I'm from SoCal though where a lot of people work hard to stay in shape and youthful, so my lifelong perspective might be biased. Tulsi's cool I agree, I love her husky deep voice and idk man she doesn't look old to me, just maybe some light aging but 38 still is young to me. I bet she's a beast to her man in the bedroom (dude's lucky)
/r/PurplePillDebate19/02/20 05:57 AM
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I didn't read through the thread but devil's advocate, I think most younger women do not (or if they do it's just slightly older like 5 years not 20) although there's exceptions. Men who look and naturally act younger (not in the "fellow kids" try hard way) can perhaps kinda get away with it. If we're talking about a 45 year old guy who looks stereotypically 45 (pooch and receding hairline, shitty rough skin etc) then that's way creepier.
/r/PurplePillDebate19/02/20 12:20 AM
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35 year olds of both genders look and act younger than back in the day when boomers that age used to be like total middle-aged adults. Doesn't mean that 35/20 is necessarily advisable for dating (though outliers and positive examples exist), I'm just saying the generation gap, maturity gap and looks gap aren't as big as they used to be. This comedian and YouTuber Ron Placone is 35 and he looks like 26 lol
/r/PurplePillDebate19/02/20 12:09 AM
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What about celebs like Susan Sarandon who's in her early 70s, absolutely gorgeous and smart and is in a relationship with a dude around 40 (granted he's approaching middle-age and it's not super scandalous but he's still way younger than her). Tulsi Gabbards hubby is like 8 years younger too
/r/PurplePillDebate18/02/20 11:59 PM
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For sure man, yeah I never hear that in real life either lol. I think it's kinda messed up to say that about older women anyway, but even if you're going to put an age on the "can I speak to the manager" thing it's probably at least 45 year old women not 35.
/r/PurplePillDebate14/02/20 09:10 PM
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The idea that women hit the wall at 35 (or even 30) and instantly turn into nagging Karen's that are no fun, like wtf
/r/PurplePillDebate14/02/20 07:34 PM
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Stevie Nicks sings about plenty of things like fairy tales and mythology and characters or other people in stories, and it's not always dealing with relationships
/r/PurplePillDebate14/02/20 07:29 PM
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Yup at least I don't have to worry about her man kicking my ass from 600 miles away lol
/r/PurplePillDebate13/02/20 01:06 AM
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Sad but true, sometimes opportunities are gone forever. Although 50ish year old women will never not make me swoon like a teenybopper
/r/PurplePillDebate13/02/20 12:53 AM
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I so wish I could but she's married and we live hundreds of miles apart though I'm so happy to even be talking to her again. I feel like she's self conscious cause she's kind of a "big girl" and I wish I could tell her how gorgeous she is but it wouldn't be appropriate
/r/PurplePillDebate13/02/20 12:51 AM
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Dude that's brilliant, I honestly never made that connection before but it's really a simple idea. Explains a lot about what makes us have a type I guess. See and I was around those big sister or motherly types more than girls my age so that's probably why too. Don't get me wrong there's plenty I've lost touch with too but thankfully I still know some
/r/PurplePillDebate12/02/20 12:25 AM
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Unfortunately we're in different states now and she's married, but I wish we could be a couple lol
/r/PurplePillDebate12/02/20 12:22 AM
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For celebs like modern Harry Styles for just regular guys hipster types I guess. I had a new years eve experience with this buff super young looking 42 year old (I was jealous he must've had a skincare routine since he was 12 lmao)
/r/PurplePillDebate11/02/20 04:47 PM
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Stevie is adorable at 72 she literally looks half her age just with the wisdom of an older woman
/r/PurplePillDebate11/02/20 04:43 PM
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Interesting take. Nostalgia is a powerful beast for sure, although I was talking more about when I was a kid kid as opposed to a teen. I loved valley girls and just 80s chicks who babysat me or younger teachers and stuff.
/r/PurplePillDebate11/02/20 04:30 PM
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That's interesting you're not into dudes with a beard. I've had a lot of people suggest I grow one since it's pretty popular these days, but it's way too irritating lol. If they shaved would you find those guys attractive still?
/r/PurplePillDebate11/02/20 04:25 PM
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Lol yeah I guess this is pretty obviously from me, although I'm more bi than metro now
/r/PurplePillDebate11/02/20 04:22 PM
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I guess it's like a mental thing though when you have first-hand experience with how they used to be, you're like "but she used to look and act like this", as opposed to if you were just meeting them today
/r/PurplePillDebate11/02/20 04:20 PM
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True sometime there's no logic to why we're attracted to someone as kids. Personally I like Stevie Nicks probably more than I could have when I was younger
/r/PurplePillDebate11/02/20 04:17 PM
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Gillian is just classically beautiful and seems like an awesome person in general. She hasn't even aged or changed much
/r/PurplePillDebate11/02/20 04:14 PM
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Present Nicole is a cougar bro, though I remember everyone liking her in the 90s
/r/PurplePillDebate11/02/20 04:12 PM
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I think being a sweet sensitive guy who's simply able to stick up for her and even kick some ass if necessary is ideal. This older lady I was majorly crushing on a couple years ago seemed to flirt with me more after I told off this arrogant dude who was giving her shit at work
/r/PurplePillDebate11/02/20 03:50 AM
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True I gotcha lol I've done it for escapism too like just thinking of some lady I liked
/r/PurplePillDebate10/02/20 03:39 AM
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Bisexual lol but I love older women (like 30-60 although moreso over 40) and it just feels weird because porn usually is really young women like early 20s. I did watch some online as a teen they just didn't do anything for me
/r/PurplePillDebate10/02/20 03:38 AM
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Yeah I can't get what's hot about that. Not saying I wasn't beating it at 12 to women on TV and stuff but even then I wanted girls to like me
/r/PurplePillDebate10/02/20 02:39 AM
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I just mean beating it to not just porn but anything is just you being into her she's not into you lmao
/r/PurplePillDebate10/02/20 02:37 AM
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I think that would mean the love is even more genuine if you know she's not with you "for money". And personally I'd love it as a feminist too, I usually like older women as well
/r/PurplePillDebate10/02/20 12:50 AM
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I'm literally the only guy in the world probably who DOESN'T watch porn (and not for religious shit I'm atheist, it just doesn't do anything for me) so I'm so confused about it. I don't get what's hot about a one sided interaction like I always want to ask dudes don't you want the woman to be into you too?
/r/PurplePillDebate10/02/20 12:23 AM
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It's kinda bro science but I have read that aging slower/looking young also means that your internal organs are also healthier and aging slower so it makes sense. I know a 43 year old woman who seems mid 20s. When I was a kid most Boomers were straight up middle aged
/r/PurplePillDebate09/02/20 04:42 AM
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I get what you're saying about biology don't get me wrong but I mean Stevie Nicks is vibrant and youthful at 71 so 40 is nothing compared to that
/r/PurplePillDebate09/02/20 04:29 AM
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Well true the first pregnancy after 35 gets risky I admit. I'm just saying people are generally younger now (and more healthy too) than Boomers our parents ages were back in the 80s or 90s
/r/PurplePillDebate09/02/20 04:27 AM
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Bro 40 year old women could pass for like 26 now. People seem younger and younger with time especially women
/r/PurplePillDebate09/02/20 03:46 AM
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You'd just be a slightly older dad if you have kids but it shouldn't be a big deal. Being late 30s and settling down with a woman who's like 31 should be fine, don't stress man but I understand. You're bettering yourself which feels good no matter what. Better than being stuck in a dead end minimum wage job at any age lol
/r/PurplePillDebate09/02/20 03:43 AM
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Sanders and AOC are true lefties. Mainstream Dems on MSNBC are just Republicans who are cool with gays
/r/PurplePillDebate17/01/20 06:52 PM
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Never related to something so much man. Yes I feel like not having a fundamental thing most people have ends up kinds stunting is emotionally
/r/PurplePillDebate16/01/20 06:54 PM
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Upvote for the obscure U2 reference lol
/r/PurplePillDebate16/01/20 05:44 PM
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