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| 591 | Is there space for Gay men in MensRights? | gayrebel | /r/MensRights | 21/01/13 12:07 AM |
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| 1 | Constructive Criticism on my Personal Opinions?2 affects all of us regardless of gender, I advise my male and female friends to be careful and to be situationly aware at all times. Plus a bottle of pepper spray or ccw can't hurt. | /r/MensRights | 31/01/13 08:49 PM |
| 1 | As a stay-at-home dad, every time I meet one of my buddies for lunch and bring my kid: : AdviceAnimalsI won't challenge you, because in a sense you're right, but also wrong it all depends on where you are. My experience's is different. Especially as my partner and I are about as feminine as grizzly bears. You can only imagine the looks we get when where out in public with my son, especially when he calls both of us daddy. | /r/MensRights | 24/01/13 08:25 AM |
| 1 | [SUGGESTION ]War is not anti "male privilege"That's what people that use that term make it seem, they bend history and take things out of context to support it. And really throughout history a select few people ruled, some of then Happen to be woman.... Really the majority of people where excluded form it and un-like woman, man had to die for something they got no say in. | /r/MensRights | 23/01/13 10:08 PM |
| 3 | [SUGGESTION ]War is not anti "male privilege"I disagree, I think you're trolling. I do not believe in a thousand year conspiracy to control woman, sorry. History does not back that up. Also this whole privilege bullshit needs to stop, guess how most man got the right to vote? By being sent to war. Did woman have to go die for there country to get the right to vote? Also men still have to sign up for selective service to be able to vote, woman do not. They where granted all the 'privileges' with out earning them. In today's society I believ… | /r/MensRights | 23/01/13 06:30 PM |
| 1 | Men only NightsHaha, I do what I can. My So can not figure out how they let me graduate from college and than let me come back for my master's. For awhile he thought I was sleeping with the teachers. | /r/MensRights | 22/01/13 09:59 PM |
| 2 | Feminism is a men's rights issue - Feminist gay-bashing is misandry, and it starts at the roots of feminism.To tell you the truth I do not mind if somebody is indifferent, its better than actively against me. I do not label those people homophobic. I think woman need to realize I'm not there pet, and not to touch my crotch because I'm gay or shove there boobs in my face to try and make straight guys jealous. Also my guy friends tend not to make a big deal that I'm gay, which I love and respect them for. | /r/MensRights | 22/01/13 08:28 PM |
| 4 | Men only NightsI'm completely for, guys night. I enjoy it, and not because I'm gay. It gives me a chance to relax with my guy friends without all there girlfriend's. I also go to girls night and enjoy that to, I think there is nothing wrong with either one. | /r/MensRights | 22/01/13 08:13 PM |
| 3 | Feminism is a men's rights issue - Feminist gay-bashing is misandry, and it starts at the roots of feminism.I would say in my experience, when I was a teenager it was man that made my life hell, but now that I am older i tend to run into more woman that are homophobic than man by far. Which I find interesting, I blame the parents and how the young man where raised for the homophobia, because a lot of then have apologized once they grew up. Where the woman homophobes tend to be my age or older and should now better. Also most feminist are homophobic, they like you when you're effeminate, you can be the… | /r/MensRights | 22/01/13 07:55 PM |
| 1 | Is there space for Gay men in MensRights?Well seeing as I'm male i fall under that to, unless you mean straight male sexuality? which i have no problems with. Gay man catch a lot of flak for are sexuality, have you ever heard people say gay man are perverted sex fiends? That can't have long term relationships because we only care about sex?, and i have heard that from straight people and lesbians. I think this is one of the points where both straight and gay man can find common ground and help each other. | /r/MensRights | 22/01/13 01:25 AM |
| 1 | Is there space for Gay men in MensRights?I would like to know why you feel that way? if you want to pm so its not public i wouldn't mind. | /r/MensRights | 22/01/13 01:16 AM |
| 1 | Is there space for Gay men in MensRights?Ah ok, I did not know that, it came off as an insult. I do not believe I am superior to anybody period. And I see that, where I lived they where my only allies, so I did not have a choice. I do not agree with anybody that wants to demonize man, I am one. Also I hate the victim game, its pointless and derails progress. The last part, I lived in an ultra-conservative area, When I found a group that did not hate me or exclude me or try and beat me up, I was not going to leave it, now that I am nit … | /r/MensRights | 22/01/13 12:15 AM |
| 1 | Is there space for Gay men in MensRights?I would say my motivations are: 1) not all man are rapists or pedophiles 2) the divorce and child support system is broken and needs to change 3) male rape and sexual assaults is very real and needs more attention.and to be taken seriously. And many more, there's issues that affect me personally and other issue that do not but affect friends/man in my country regardless of there orientation. | /r/MensRights | 21/01/13 11:57 PM |
| 1 | Is there space for Gay men in MensRights?First off, I'm sorry you had some bad experience with gay man, but in the same light I have had horrible experiences with some straight people. But, I did not blame all straight men. The majority of my friends happen to be straight. Also I turned to feminism at first, I was outed, it cost me my family, my friends, also a lot of medical bills after I ended up in the hospital because a straight guy had an issue with gays. The only people that except me with open arms where the femnist, than I move… | /r/MensRights | 21/01/13 11:25 PM |
| 0 | Why the MRM should reject terms like cis-gendered!Op, I think it would do you a world of good to meet with somebody who is trans in real life that will talk with you. Most trans people I know are alienated by feminist, there family,there friends and society as a whole, there suicide rates are incredibly high. Idk I ignore feminist that want to bring up trans* issues because the majority of the time they do not care about them, they just want another weapon to use in there war against the "evil men". I can try to get one of my friends to do an A… | /r/MensRights | 21/01/13 09:28 PM |
| 3 | Now this is interesting - Anorexia hitting men increasingly hard: One in three cases in new study is maleI can not answer that question because I'm dating a very masculine man, and I also am masculine. I am turned off by effeminate man, which I have no problems with I just do not find them attractive. Also there are a lot of masc/fem relationship also fem/fem and masc/masc so it all comes Down to what you like. But when you trough in how the gay community is seen in movies/books/ tv you only see the effeminate ones which cause gay man to try and emulate that so nobody can say there not a real gay g… | /r/MensRights | 21/01/13 09:10 PM |
| 4 | Irritated, confused and a little drunk - still made me think a lot about it.Nobody should have to go through what op did, does not matter if you're a man or a woman. That said there is a lopsided report system and how it is viewed in are society. If op complains about it he gets laughed at, because why would it bother a straight guy? There just sex crazed animals /s Or there going to question his sexuality because he does not want random people grabbing his privates. | /r/MensRights | 21/01/13 08:30 PM |
| 4 | Now this is interesting - Anorexia hitting men increasingly hard: One in three cases in new study is maleYes, people need to not just right this off as a "gay issue" it effects both, that diminishes and alienates the straight guys that have one and it might stop them from seeking help, which we do not want at all. | /r/MensRights | 21/01/13 08:08 PM |
| 3 | Now this is interesting - Anorexia hitting men increasingly hard: One in three cases in new study is maleThere is a lot of pressure in the gay community to be the "ideal", I do not think it has to do with are brain chemistry. But the pressure to conform to unrealistic standards. I know I had a lot of body issue, not because I was overweight or unhealthy, it was that I was to "masc". And the fear that because I didn't weigh 120lbs and had a smooth hairless body that I would never find a man to settle down with. Also you would be surprised about the numbers of gay man that go to the gym, I know I was… | /r/MensRights | 21/01/13 08:00 PM |
| 3 | Is there space for Gay men in MensRights?Perfect! =) | /r/MensRights | 21/01/13 05:16 AM |
| 2 | Is there space for Gay men in MensRights?Yes, that's not my intention. | /r/MensRights | 21/01/13 04:42 AM |
| 3 | Is there space for Gay men in MensRights?I always want one of those lol, I can keep it with my gay agenda card. | /r/MensRights | 21/01/13 04:41 AM |
| 15 | Is there space for Gay men in MensRights?But it feels so right lol but I have seen exactly that. | /r/MensRights | 21/01/13 04:37 AM |
| 1 | Is there space for Gay men in MensRights?Cis gendered means you where born male and you identify as a man. It's not an insult, its just the opposite of trans* which means you do not Identify as the sex you where born. If you ever have questions feel free to message me, also r/rainbow is a great sub if you're wanting to learn more | /r/MensRights | 21/01/13 04:29 AM |
| 1 | Is there space for Gay men in MensRights?I have girls use me to make there man feel bad and it upsets me when I here "you're gayer than gayrebel and he sleeps with men!" I call the girl out any time I hear that. And I can understand that thought process with "what if they think I'm gay" in some parts of the world/country it could have negative outcomes. I want to live in a world where people don't think that, but until than I'm not going to hate on guys like that | /r/MensRights | 21/01/13 04:19 AM |
| 5 | Is there space for Gay men in MensRights?To tell you the truth, I don't mind people using that word in a jokeing manner, my friends do it all time. The time it becomes wrong is when you use it against somebody because of there orientation or while you're hitting them. | /r/MensRights | 21/01/13 03:54 AM |
| 7 | Is there space for Gay men in MensRights?I had heard a lot of bad thing's when i started to bring it up with people I know, i lurked for awhile and couldn't get it out of my head so i thought I would ask and see. And I know now that what i heard was not true, if anything y'all are a lot more welcoming than other people have been, including feminist. | /r/MensRights | 21/01/13 03:09 AM |
| 13 | Is there space for Gay men in MensRights?LOL =) I think i have enough experience with that so no problem there! | /r/MensRights | 21/01/13 03:04 AM |
| 5 | Is there space for Gay men in MensRights?I agree,I have been there for friends that have gone through divorces, I would love to see changes happen, but I would like the right to marry the love of my life, he has severed are country in both Iraq and Afghanistan and is still an Active duty Marine. I do not see any rational argument against giving us the right to marry. | /r/MensRights | 21/01/13 03:02 AM |
| 1 | Is there space for Gay men in MensRights?This is a big one, I think a lot of people in the lgbt spectrum get lost in it and forget that it's just one aspect. Thank you! | /r/MensRights | 21/01/13 02:56 AM |
| 3 | Is there space for Gay men in MensRights?Education and visibility seem to be the two best way's i have found with Gay right's. My group of friends where only exposed to the lgbt community threw TV and watching the news, when i came out to them it had a big impact, i changed a lot of there views i also answer questions and encourage them. | /r/MensRights | 21/01/13 02:48 AM |
| 11 | Is there space for Gay men in MensRights?Glad to see I'm not the only one! | /r/MensRights | 21/01/13 02:43 AM |
| 10 | Is there space for Gay men in MensRights?Yea, i do not buy into them, I'm an adult, i do not want to censor anybody for any reason. If i come across somebody that is homophobic i just ignore them and move on. That's what i do in real life and i see no reason not to do it on the web to. | /r/MensRights | 21/01/13 02:29 AM |
| 4 | Is there space for Gay men in MensRights?This! I'm sick of the use verses them mentality. I see it in the LGBT activist and it can be a big turn off. | /r/MensRights | 21/01/13 02:23 AM |
| 9 | Is there space for Gay men in MensRights?This is what draws me to the movement! | /r/MensRights | 21/01/13 02:06 AM |
| 3 | Is there space for Gay men in MensRights?I agree i can't stand the whole "safe space" thing, i don't want to censor anybody, if i come across somebody that is homophobic i tend to ignore them and move on, not cause a huge seen. | /r/MensRights | 21/01/13 01:53 AM |
| 22 | Is there space for Gay men in MensRights?I struggled with that a lot, I'm what a few people refer to "straight acting" basically I'm not feminine, i dislike the term because I'm not acting I am who I am. | /r/MensRights | 21/01/13 01:49 AM |
| 222 | Is there space for Gay men in MensRights?That's why i want to be a part of the MRM, thank you! | /r/MensRights | 21/01/13 01:39 AM |
| 11 | Is there space for Gay men in MensRights?Nor do I, I do not want to bring it here, this is not the place for it. But he is right it is nice to be somewhere outside of there control. But once again, I'm a man who happens to be gay, I'm not a one dimension person. I support other cause's. | /r/MensRights | 21/01/13 01:37 AM |
| 57 | Is there space for Gay men in MensRights?I can't agree with you more, I'm sick of feminist instantly telling me i need feminism because I'm gay, Or how they police my sexuality, I have been told I'm not a " real man " and i should stop acting like i am. or when a feminist says they wouldn't be my friend if i was straight. And loads of other offensive stuff. And if i dare question there dogma I'm told i have internalized homophobia... | /r/MensRights | 21/01/13 01:34 AM |
| 14 | Is there space for Gay men in MensRights?Thank you, my experience with the court system has been an eye opener, the fact i am gay constantly comes up, my partner and I are unfit to raise my son, the fact i live with a man might confuse my son and loads of other nonsense. But I'm not going to give up on getting equal custody of my son. | /r/MensRights | 21/01/13 01:24 AM |
| 33 | Is there space for Gay men in MensRights?Thank you for the response! I do not want to co-opt the movement for gay rights, sorry if I did not mention that, I want to support men with all the issues they face, I have a son, Im going through the court system right now. Iam all ready facing an up hill battle, than the fact I'm gay adds even more, I want to be a part of my sons life, I also want to help make changes so the men that come after me do not go through the same thing I and others are forced to. Like I said I am a man first, I was… | /r/MensRights | 21/01/13 12:34 AM |
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