gazzalia Archive

Upvotes	Title	Category	Author	Subreddit	Date (UTC)
49	An investigation in misandry in the field of psychology (article)	Discrimination	gazzalia	/r/MensRights	30/04/23 07:35 PM

Upvotes	Comment on	Subreddit	Date (UTC)
3	Women confide in me My biggest peeve is the assumption about my politics and beliefs by not only the fellow alphabets, but government, family, and society at large. And I think the only people who can dismantle the brigade are us gays - because we're part of the supposed monolith.	/r/MensRights	23/05/23 06:22 PM
4	Women confide in me Oh.. my dear fellow gay.. it seems you're confused. Allow me to enlighten you: Didn't you know you are required to follow every new theory, member, and cause of the ever-evolving alphabet people? Don't you realize you're only a step away from being levelled to that of the cis white male? Please correct yourself and remember that you are not entitled to diverse or nuanced thought. You must at all times blindly follow the ideology. /s	/r/MensRights	23/05/23 03:14 PM
3	I think men really need a place they could freely vent about problem that uniquely affects them This is why I defend ranting and venting in this sub. Here's the thing. Women have many spaces like this, including spaces that aren't even designated for women only. It is completely acceptable for women to complain about men in real life and on social media. Men have almost no spaces, and are called out as misogynists by women in our only sub for casually venting from time to time. Venting May not be a positive long term solution, but it's necessary on occasion.	/r/MensRights	23/05/23 06:15 AM
9	Women's in-group bias vs Men not having it. I really do wish men had more of an in-group bias. Not that I think any bias is appropriate, but it would be nice if more men looked out for eachother and genuinely cared about the well-being and mental health of their brothers. When there is a culture of propping up and defending women at every turn, and men don't even care about eachother it's no surprise we are where we are.	/r/MensRights	23/05/23 05:34 AM
36	Women confide in me Fellow gay man - It's scary how universal this is, and then they're pissed when you respond as a man would. "So .. you think it's both appropriate to express outright misandry, AND to express it to me because....you think I'm not a ... real man?.. Ma'am, you are certified trash"	/r/MensRights	23/05/23 04:52 AM
3	It will never be creepy for a man to look at a half-naked woman. This is the human sexuality. Nudity is not neutral in homosapiens, it is a neurobiological activator of sexual arousal. Feminism is trying to normalize BDSM fetishes, feminization of men and "no looking!" of doms. It does come with its own downsides, but from my experience those are mostly cultural, and are often side effects of rampant gay culture. There are genuine and real men out there. But straight culture? Ooooh myyy god. Never. Sometimes I just want to smack my straight bros over the head - like why the fuck do you put up with this??	/r/MensRights	21/05/23 06:47 PM
3	It will never be creepy for a man to look at a half-naked woman. This is the human sexuality. Nudity is not neutral in homosapiens, it is a neurobiological activator of sexual arousal. Feminism is trying to normalize BDSM fetishes, feminization of men and "no looking!" of doms. Women love to police the actions of men Bingo. There it is. I don’t understand where it comes from, but it’s completely enabled by our society, from top to bottom. There are also so many men who give up their agency to the women they commit themselves to romantically. My own mother said it best, when referring to my brother - “I don’t know why it’s always been this way, but when men find a woman, she becomes the voice and brain of both of them” As a gay man, having seen this repeat itself with m…	/r/MensRights	21/05/23 05:03 AM
7	Random question : I am expecting a son in 7 weeks should he be circumcised or uncircumcised ? NO there are no consistent, or ethical reasons for circumcision. There is no data to make the case for stds or disease prevention. This is a myth. Our bodies are not inherently wrong in their design. religious reasons are archaic. women often argue in favour due to aesthetics. Again, our bodies are not wrong in their natural state, and our genitals should not be altered for women. the ONLY reason to circumcise is in the rare case that your son has an unusually tight foreskin. This can be prevent…	/r/MensRights	17/05/23 02:18 AM
3	An investigation in misandry in the field of psychology (article) Oh a fellow “privileged” gay man in the wild. I don’t find a lot of us on this sub. Hi 👋🏼	/r/MensRights	01/05/23 02:54 PM
2	Why women expect wealth handed to them on a platter ? It’s perfectly valid for this redditor to express how he feels about women, on this sub. While I agree that we should refine our arguments to avoid emotion and generalizations, there are places where it’s acceptable to air out your annoyance. This is actually one of the only safe places to do so - and it’s not your place to gatekeep it. All things considered, his comment isn’t terrible or hateful. On a thread that’s discussing in generalizations, I wouldn’t say his comment is off base, anyway. O…	/r/MensRights	29/04/23 11:41 PM
46	My mom's feminist beliefs led to my fear of men Can you elaborate? Male here, raised by a very feminist mother and household of male-hating women. I’m still unravelling this shit and am curious about what stands out from an outsider male perspective.	/r/MensRights	22/04/23 02:58 PM
1	My mom's feminist beliefs led to my fear of men Hey brother - I could have written this comment myself. I grew up with a very anti-male mother, and four older sisters who echoed and modelled the sentiment. At 30, I’m still unraveling the mess that’s done to my psyche - an adolescent hatred toward myself and masculinity- a desire to dissociate from maleness, etc etc. I see you. You’re not alone. Keep going.	/r/MensRights	22/04/23 02:56 PM
2	What do you guys think of this latest Jubilee episode of male feminists vs female anti-feminists? Felt the same way. The anti-feminist POV was very poorly represented. I wonder if it was intentional during casting, and in editing out the most reasonable voice in the group: Amala	/r/MensRights	16/04/23 04:17 PM
2	I'm sick of women complaining about "mental load" It’s so interesting to read about your experience and perspective on this. I’m a man, but I relate to this in my own way, and empathize both with the idea in its theory, and agree also with your point that it’s detached from reality. To my first point, I will just say that I grew up in a very unique household; my mother was quite abusive, and so were all four of my older sisters. It’s taken me years of introspection and therapy to recognize that there was an unnecessary amount of invisible respo…	/r/MensRights	01/04/23 01:08 AM
0	Thought yall would be interested in this trend of the term "male only gym" since 2004. It is a small thing compared to other issues men face, but might be nice to get the ball rolling? Where are these magical spaces you speak of? I live in a major metropolitan centre… haven’t found even one..	/r/MensRights	26/03/23 05:21 PM
2	Treated like a man servant Fellow gay here. Nice to see others in the sub. It never ceases to amaze me how differently a women will interact with me before/ after she registers that I’m gay. Pre-gay: disposable trash male. Post-gay: let’s be bessssst friends! It’s gross. Love to call them on it, and delivery the final blow to their ego: a gay who doesn’t fall in line and faun over you.	/r/MensRights	26/03/23 04:57 PM
9	In response to International Women's Day boys in Belgian high school were not allowed to sit down during math lesson Is this true? I sure hope it is, but I’ve never heard of or seen anything to suggest it.	/r/MensRights	12/03/23 06:29 PM
1	Transman culture shock? It’s the best of luck that got me.	/r/MensRights	13/02/23 07:18 PM
3	Transman culture shock? Welcome to the club You will not be treated better, and I’m glad you already know this because it means you aren’t wearing any delusional glasses. if you are not passable, than tbh, I’m sorry to say, but your experience won’t be comparable to a biological male. In that case you’ll be treated by others based on your trans identity and their particular bias toward it, whatever that bias is. The above point applies to nearly everything actually. I have many close trans friends, so I say this with t…	/r/MensRights	13/02/23 05:57 PM
24	Chivalry? I have actively killed my chivalry - grew up in the country / very traditional setting. I was constantly taught to put women and their needs ahead of mine - in ways as trivial as offering my seat or carrying her groceries, or as fundamental as boxing my own feelings to make way for her emotional displays in conflict. coming to the city / entering adulthood was a real eye opener in being used by women taking advantage of this chivalry, and having to evaluate my knee jerk reaction to put a females…	/r/MensRights	12/02/23 03:47 PM
24	Young women are out-earning young men in several U.S. cities Not to mention that whenever this is brought up in discussion or debate - at least in my anecdotal experience - every reason to dismiss and ignore the problem is brought up without ever any note of concern for equality or expression of empathy. I once had a long debate with a former feminist friend who finally - after exhausting all of her arguments - said it’s honestly just not my problem. If you want to fight for boys rights, that’s up to men to do, but it’s our turn to be ahead and I don’t ho…	/r/MensRights	01/02/23 11:49 PM
6	I feel like we could all use a break. Lets have a fun relaxing post. Fellas, whats something you enjoy doing that isnt typically considered masculine? Shirley temples are the absolute bomb.	/r/MensRights	21/12/22 06:20 AM