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it is an analogy to see men would fel the same way in a situation where THEY are the ones What do you think a gotcha is, or is not? Your post is a very reasonable one, but claiming its not a gotcha is not reasonable.
/r/PurplePillDebate27/03/19 11:29 PM
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She said she was disgusted in other comments. It can be interpreted many ways, but you're being generous if you include the context.
/r/PurplePillDebate26/03/19 10:01 PM
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So presumably you're a little confused about the reaction to your own response to that thread which was you should, who cares So we can just contrast that response with You should be suspicious of people's motivations in general. Women are not uniquely capable of cruelty. The methods may be different but humans are capable of some nasty shit. The above is a pretty straightforward answer to op's question. I don't nee any compassion in it. Just a meaningful, useful answer which respects the intent…
/r/PurplePillDebate26/03/19 08:00 PM
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Op, you'll notice a similarity in the tone of the answer's in this thread. Its contempt. By asking the question you've created many women making an effort to show contempt for you. Note, they did not ignore your question. They felt a need to respond to it. Contempt is anger + disgust. The disgust they have for yeu is easy to understand. In their eyes just asking this question makes you a pointless waste of time. But if that was all there was to it, why bother responding? Or bettet question, wher…
/r/PurplePillDebate26/03/19 01:27 AM
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Reddit attracts judgemental people. Especially this sub. Judgemental people are usually very status conscious. Women never believe TRP works on them. But they all find different reasons that it wonft work on them. Its just a comforting delusion that they wotk hald to maintain when confronted with TRP reality. The story many of the women in this sub tell themselves is that TRP works on lower quality women. Less education, less money, less class, less intelligence. That alows them to believe TRP d…
/r/PurplePillDebate25/03/19 01:19 AM
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Ahh cool. Most women don't realise when they're different and insist their experience is average and normal.
/r/PurplePillDebate10/03/19 09:20 PM
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I guess I’m not overly sympathetic to how men feel about it mostly because every man I know does the same thing. Is every man you know a decent sample of men in general? He has a roster (most women don’t even have that) of women that he’ll hit up If the guys have multiple women they're hooking up with, and the girls don't, how does that work when men and women are each almost exactly 50% of the dating population.
/r/PurplePillDebate10/03/19 09:15 PM
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It happens a lot. Its pretty normal for girls to have fwb's while dating to find the marriage guy. Some women deliberately have fwb's to make it easier to not sleep with the guy they're dating. The fwb takes care of their sexual needs so they don't feel any need to sleep with the guy they want a serieus relationship. I've seen that as a stratetgy mentioned by women on reddit as adsomethitg they do and as advice to other women about how to go about datitg quite a few times. Even in this sub iirc.…
/r/PurplePillDebate10/03/19 01:55 PM
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Our evolution is based on gang bangs. The male penis is shaped to suck out the sperm of the previous guys loads in the vagina. Men's heavy repeated thrusting duritg sex, which is unusual for animal mating, is meant to pump sperm out of the vagina. When a woman is having sex its in her interest to attract a better man to have sex with with. Her screams are meant to attract other men to compete with the guy currently fucking her. Its fairly normal for social species to have males compete for femal…
/r/PurplePillDebate08/03/19 05:44 AM
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Or they just end up wanting to slepp with the guy. There are plenty of girls who do exactly what you proposed. Its just they occasionally sleep with them. They still consider the guy a platonic friend. They just sleep with him every and them.
/r/PurplePillDebate07/03/19 01:34 AM
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There are an enormous number of human body language expressions that are hard wired. We're born with them and don't learn them. Both to express them in response to our owt emotion, and to interpret them and renpond back with our emotions atd correspondinc bodly language. Some of those hard wired body language / emotion patterns are sex specific and sexually arousing. A woman swaying her hips for example. Much of the jockish demeanor is the body language a high testosterone guy who is at the top …
/r/PurplePillDebate03/03/19 09:12 AM
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Emotional expression. For some women there's a liveliness behind the eyes and in the smile that goes straight to your soul. You can fall in love in 30 seconds being hit with that. They can take you on an emotional trip that makes you feel stuff you can't feel on your own. The way they can turn themselves into art. A guy will make a painting, or do up his car or build some furniture. A women can put together clothes, make up and even an attitude that turns her into the impression of something. If…
/r/PurplePillDebate03/03/19 07:36 AM
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Reddit attracts judgemental people. Especially subs like this one. You're looking at the words of people who mostly have not lived because they'd rather read and talk about it, than do it. And especially talk about how other people are wrong. Think about what kind of person that is irl.
/r/PurplePillDebate02/03/19 03:08 AM
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Reddit attracts judgemental people. Like any group of people the reddit sub for it would be atypical of most people in the community irl
/r/PurplePillDebate02/03/19 02:50 AM
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There's a lot of irony in this thread when you think about it. The response to a man paying for sex is pretty consistently disgust, repulsion and even contempt. Yet within the same sub the there's also a pretty consistent expectation that men be able to provide something to be relationship worthy. Some of the women in here are unconcerned about what a man can provide. But its a common theme that men today don't earn enough, or don't have good enough careers to be worthy of marriage or a relatiot…
/r/PurplePillDebate02/03/19 02:47 AM
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Women don't make a request unless they expect it to be fulfilled. They do not make requests for which it would be reasonable to deny. They also make requests indirectly. So instead of asking for something they will do something like indicate a specific preference for it. "Can you please give me that dress?" - Direct request. "That dress would be perfect for my prom" - Indirect request. Also, she would never say that unless it was a fair exchange. "Please borrow it for your prom." Request fulfill…
/r/PurplePillDebate27/02/19 01:21 AM
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Its 55% for men? I would have expected lower
/r/PurplePillDebate25/02/19 06:10 PM
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I know. I said with. They're seperate traits.
/r/PurplePillDebate25/02/19 06:30 AM
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Weak sense of self combined with high P (on the myer briggs J-P scale) or low conscientousness on the Big 5 personality traits if you don't like myer briggs. They're pretty much the same thing. Judgement/conscientousness correlate with disgust. A weak sense of self mean their partners desire's and pleasure take the place of their own. They mold themnelves into what their partner desires and then feed off their partner'n pleasure through extreme empathy. They feel empathy no overwhelmingly they f…
/r/PurplePillDebate25/02/19 01:36 AM
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They want the best genes. They want men to prove their genes are the best. If two men finish equally in a race, but one didn't train, they want that one. On some deep level guys understand this. A lot of losers convince themselves they'd win if they tried and also convince themselves ttey are above competing because of some random reason. Most end not going anywhere but a few are blessed with enough looks that ttey can convince some women to agree with them.
/r/PurplePillDebate24/02/19 11:04 AM
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Your flair is blue.
/r/PurplePillDebate23/02/19 07:30 AM
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I'm assuming these women are doing something similar. Most of the time they're talking to themself and trying to believe its true. "no more fuck boys" in basically a coded signal that players easily read. Whatever she felt when ste wrote that in her profile she had fuckboys in the past and very likely will have them again in the future. A girl for whom that is not a problem won't write it. She would likely not be writing "no more boys [plural]" as nhe is able to keep them out of her pants in the…
/r/PurplePillDebate23/02/19 04:14 AM
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How you still blue pill ?
/r/PurplePillDebate23/02/19 04:09 AM
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I learnt my own version of this. I don't like it, but I accept its true. I don't do fwb's or casual sex. Its just the same thing and I didn't want to deal with bullshit of girls trying to fwb their way into a relationship. I wonder if there is something better. Or perhaps some way to make something positive out of trp. But I haven't found it yet. I think it will be something radically different. I also look to older generations of very different cultures where romantic love for women had much lo…
/r/PurplePillDebate23/02/19 04:04 AM
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In survey's, women number one reason for casual sex is validation. The second most common reason is pleasure.
/r/PurplePillDebate21/02/19 05:17 AM
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This in npeed dating. Let me explain speed dating from a guys experience of it with an example. Ten guys show up. Ten girls show up. Within ten minutes, befor the actual npeed dating part starts the girls have ranked the guys and divided them into the usual levels. Five guys are irrelevant. Two probably are but might not be. Two more might be interesting and they'll reserv judgement ior another five minutes. And one guy is the oe all the girls will be closely watching as they get bored with the …
/r/PurplePillDebate20/02/19 08:37 AM
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It all made sense when I read the slashfic post
/r/PurplePillDebate19/02/19 10:15 AM
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The behavioural aspects of biological sex are innate. How they're codified is cultural. There are occasional exceptions due to unique circumstances but even those usually follow the basic model in ont ways. Its like language. The inherent structure of human language is innate. They all have the same structure. The particular grammar and words are cultural, but they exist within that universal structure. The only reasonable explaination is the basic structure of language is hard wired into our br…
/r/PurplePillDebate19/02/19 05:32 AM
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I really struggled to understand why anyone from that demographic would be here, let alone in large numbers. It was weird when it made sense.
/r/PurplePillDebate19/02/19 05:12 AM
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Why did you go there? Wth five seconds of thought or the slightest bit of interest in op's history you would see that he's made tremendous progress with very little help. He's certainly not looking for pity. In fact he in being forceful and well thought out in looking for answer. Did the fact you had none make you feel insecure and cause you to lash out like that? I ask because you're literally doing exactly what op cowplained about. Having no answers for him and then attacking him for being a l…
/r/PurplePillDebate18/02/19 11:40 AM
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All women are whores. Except my mother. But then, she too is a woman.
/r/PurplePillDebate17/02/19 12:35 PM
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Technology has changed everything. Birth control, easily available porn, the internet. The restrictive solutions that worked in the past only did so because they did not have all this technology undermining them. The technology is not going away. And more is coming. Male birth control. Virtual reality. Robots. We have to find a way out the other side. There has to be some completely new paradigm that we can't even imagine today. Going back to restrictive sexuality is a tradcon fantasy that is im…
/r/PurplePillDebate17/02/19 04:00 AM
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Nah. The food never goes on the bottom of the plate so you only need to clean that occasionally.
/r/PurplePillDebate16/02/19 08:14 PM
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Not because she can't, but [because she doesn't want to] Less stress means more happiness. If you want to be the equal of men then you'll have to unlearn that. Stress, challenge, difficulty and how you respond to that are a fundamental part of being a man. In the absence of any kind of stress/challenge men litrerally go out and create or find new ones. A life without stress/challenge is meaningless to men. They need it. Its preferable to have some choice in what it will be Of course not all men …
/r/PurplePillDebate16/02/19 08:08 PM
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Interesting. I grew up believing exactly the same things you did about gender roles and women's equality. I expected marriage to be an equal partnership with both people contributing what they could. I learnt differently from marriage. I thought that earning less than my partner didn't matter because we're in a gender equal society. Turned out that was not true. I thought I'd be with a partner that would be like a best friend and we'd work things out together. Instead I learnt that I would alway…
/r/PurplePillDebate16/02/19 11:22 AM
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Any women want to drag their vagina on glass No need to do it themself. A surgeon's stainless steel knife cutting out their lips during labioplasty is an easier substitute. Or just having your nipples torn off your chest and reattached three inches higher over the top of two plastic bags squeezed into your boobs. I mean how desperate for the other gender's attention would you have to be to do that? How many thousands of dollars would someone have to pay you to do that?
/r/PurplePillDebate16/02/19 10:46 AM
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Its legalised in many countries. It doesn't make much difference for the guys using services except the price might go up. For the sex workers its much better.
/r/PurplePillDebate16/02/19 12:58 AM
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Father asks girl what's wrong. She was trying to hold it together but now the floodgates are open. Cuts to a new SnapChat where she's explaining what will make her happy. "The music from Fragglerock? The opening credits have music which will make me happy, maybe?" I think you missed a couple of basic take away. When the girl is upset the father quickly notices and fixes up her problems for her. It this was his son he'd likely take the opposite approach. If the boy tried to solve hin problem by i…
/r/PurplePillDebate15/02/19 08:37 AM
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Because men actually enjoy being the provider and teacher... When you make men feel like they're doing for you and causing you joy, it literally makes them happy. This seemed to be common sense in the past. Are today's women not aware of this?
/r/PurplePillDebate15/02/19 08:20 AM
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Women are afraid of being excluded. So every fact, opinion, preference, request or desire is stated indirectly so there is minimal chance of offending anyone if someone disagrees with it. Women will always test out the waters for consensus before confidently expressing something no there's minimal chance she gets excluded. For women, acceptance is a matter of life and death. Being excluded is dangerous, so every word is structured to prevent any chance of that. For men, being right (or better) i…
/r/PurplePillDebate15/02/19 08:16 AM
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Even MGTOW are just a handful of wild men living on the fringes. Statistically irrelevant. For now. I just can't see any way for the mgtow numbers to not keep growing. Eventually they will be statistically significant.
/r/PurplePillDebate15/02/19 07:58 AM
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The red pill doesn't work on me. But it works on other women who are . Its not that I can't believe they said it.. Its how frequently its said and how many different variations. If you want to understand a woman's self image, just ask them which types of women the red pill works on. Then you immediately know they believe themselves the opposite of that.
/r/PurplePillDebate15/02/19 01:11 AM
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Men simply don't value a partner's monetary status very much. It has little to no effect on how a man feels about a women. In fact most men enjoy supporting a partner to a fairly significant extent. That's why men are nurprised to llearn how much it affects women's choice of partner. It makes women appear calculating/insincere and/or shallow. Either attracted to meaningless shiny bright displays of wealth like a car or nice apartment. Or insincere and calculating in they feel "attracted" to the …
/r/PurplePillDebate14/02/19 11:42 AM
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Swingers clubs ntalted in the 40's with bomber pilots having orgies witt wives and fellow crew before their missions
/r/PurplePillDebate09/02/19 08:04 AM
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I'm not saying only smart women or intellectuals can see through it, or even that they can..but I guess one has to have a sense of self-awareness. I can see what you're getting at there. Intelligence and self awareness don't seem to have a lot to do with each other. So I think you were getting at self awareness, or at least self directed emotional intelligence rather than raw intelligence. I've seen a lot of emotionally intelligent women who had low self awareness. And a lot of intelligent guys …
/r/PurplePillDebate09/02/19 05:25 AM
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We have the ability to override that primal urge, one of the benefits of having a soul and intellect. Only if you're aware of it. Its the most amazing thing about the red pill that something in women's brains forces them to trust what they feel over what logic tells them. I didn't believe it until I saw it in action for the millionth time. The only thing a better intellect does is spin the hamster wheel faster and more efficiently. In many ways, dumber women are better at handling it. Being smar…
/r/PurplePillDebate09/02/19 03:59 AM
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I think you're being a little overly defensize and reading things that are not there.
/r/PurplePillDebate09/02/19 03:18 AM
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I used to believe porn was just porn. A fantasy. Like op said, no foreplay, sex without escalation. A nice thing to dream about and jerk off to, but not something that ever happens IRL. Then I learnt otherwise. Both with my own experience and from guys who are way better at getting laid than me. I learnt there's beta sex which is all most guys will ever get. And then there's alpha/porno sex. And the latter is not just a fantasy you see on pornhub. Once you know that its not really possible to go…
/r/PurplePillDebate09/02/19 02:50 AM
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To be honest, I'm trolling you a bit. I wanted to see how arguing like a woman works in practice. I accepted your point as true as soon as I read it. In fact I already knew that (as most guys do and will readily concede). Its just I realised that in a mirror thread of this a comment like mine would be the natural response of many women. I'm trying to how women discuss and argue. A man's respones to my comment would likely have been different.
/r/PurplePillDebate08/02/19 11:35 PM
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You're negotiating my perception now instead of standing your ground because believe you are correct. Do you see how you switched from debating based on what you believe to be true , to negotiating points of view? Why? ... yet to hear you concede anything at all? If someone is trying to get you to agree to something by exchanging you agreeing with something else you don't need to engage with them. If what you say is true you don't need to engage with them at all in that way. Your facts can stand…
/r/PurplePillDebate08/02/19 11:22 PM
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I'll concede its my perception if you concede you're invalidating how I feel about this discussion.
/r/PurplePillDebate08/02/19 11:09 PM
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I'm using women's logic. Trade acknowledgements of victimhood to get your position accepted. I notice you walked around my point for some reason.
/r/PurplePillDebate08/02/19 10:58 PM
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If you concede the reverse situation would be the case when a father is making a significant parenting purchase from a women in the presence of his non-mother girlfriend I'll happily concede a man has privelege in the purchase of mechanical goods.
/r/PurplePillDebate08/02/19 10:49 PM
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It is very effective. I think it gives wowen an enormous advantage.
/r/PurplePillDebate07/02/19 07:57 PM
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Probably because it doesn't get personal for them. I don't think you've been here very long, or if you have you're forgetting a lot. There are plenty of very personal attacks in this sub between women. Always have been. The difference is That they tend to be between the same two or three women. They're heated debates that are personal. And usually its only one woman attacking the other. They're usually not mutual attacks. They tend to be a newcomer attacking a regular. Eventually one of them lea…
/r/PurplePillDebate07/02/19 07:09 PM
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For women there is no objective reality. Only the social one. Perceptions and feels.
/r/PurplePillDebate07/02/19 01:31 AM
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PPD hates incels and mgtow. You're not going to get useful answers here. Just a circlejerk about how they're the same thing and both suck. The red pillers here still want to engage with women and most are pretty pink pill rather that red anyway. Women here have no reason to understand either incels or mgtow. There's nothing useful for them to learn from either group and affecting their perception of women is not possible. So women's only response is going to be to shame both groups, usually by c…
/r/PurplePillDebate07/02/19 01:26 AM
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For women, percpetion is reality. So she's not going to understand what you're saying. Loudly declaring your identity is what being part of a group is as far women are concerned. The idea that most mgtow's are quietly going about living their lives and the loudest aren't the onse that matter does not make sense to a woman.
/r/PurplePillDebate07/02/19 01:16 AM
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Men want sex but not a prostitute. Or they feel empathy for their partner and don't want to be in bed with someone not enjoying themselves. not if she's has a high Ncount Or what we're attracted to is bio driven for obvious evolutionary advantages He wants a wife but not if she's a career woman. Or taking care of their partner is extremely rewarding to men and he knows a high earning woman's expectations are too high for him to meet. This looks like a pretty obvious example of projection. Women …
/r/PurplePillDebate05/02/19 10:16 AM
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Learn what a quality person is. Make yourself into one. From that process you'll learn what other quality people look like and you'll start to feel attracted to them since you know how hard it is to be someone like that.
/r/PurplePillDebate04/02/19 01:24 AM
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known true sex freaks with bad luck when it comes to guys. Usually they aren't the hottest women, I wonder if that plays a factor? Sex freak is not the same as knowing what you're doing. There are women with crazy high libido's that don't really know how to make sex happen well. Its about reading partners both ways. But for stuff like a guy giving oral sex, which can be a binary measure, how is she getting a better idea that he will/won't do it? Selecting a partner is part of sex? I honestly don…
/r/PurplePillDebate03/02/19 10:25 AM
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For whatever reason women are attracted to more narcissistic and nelf centerd men for casual sex. Obviously that creates problems. I've seen prostitutes ho said they get way more oral sex from their clients than the men they hook up with by choice. But you can't choose what you're attracted to. And if most of the casual nex you have is with guys who were doing the chase then its likely it will be with self centered guys who are racking up a notch count to please their own ego. They have no inter…
/r/PurplePillDebate03/02/19 09:55 AM
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Then read my comment again.
/r/PurplePillDebate02/02/19 10:23 PM
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What has any of that go to do with your post?
/r/PurplePillDebate02/02/19 10:09 PM
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but I dislike the fact that you brought this to my attention and now feel very discontented I expected that. If its any consolation there is another way to view this. But it will be even more uncomfortable for you to think about. I'll prod you with some questions and leave you to answer them to yourself as and when you're ready. I want to be loved because I'm valuable, intelligent, interesting etc. Why is that? Most people want to be loved and the reason is not as important. Is it perhaps becaus…
/r/PurplePillDebate02/02/19 10:05 PM
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Why you getting in arguments like this? You come across as dumb as her. Stop caring what she thinks. Really stop caring. And you won't have these problems. Who wants to spend their nights like this?
/r/MGTOW02/02/19 08:54 PM
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Man's love for a woman is basically the love of a parent for a child in most ways. It grosses people out to be aware of it but man <-> women love is like father <-> daughter with fucking. Most women like that. It might be hard to think about, but perhaps it might be worth asking yourselg if you're different to most women. It can be unpleasant to feel like you're different, but you don't have to like every other women to be happy. There are men out there who will have a relationship with you with…
/r/PurplePillDebate02/02/19 08:42 PM
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If you don't already know how to do the task, and the job isn't an apprenticeship It sounds you're describing asking for help. That's very different from mentorship. Someone talking to their mentor about how to do specific tasks regularly is wasting both their and their mentors time. Its about other things altogether. Academia might not be such a good place to see it in action since its a pretty zero sum world.
/r/PurplePillDebate02/02/19 08:30 PM
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In specific cases it seems like individual people playing politics for their own career advancement seems to be a factor. But much of the time they're takitg down absolute monsters who have had impunity for decades. Its required very co-ordinated action to bring them down without inviting career, or even life threatening retaliation. Women make up the majority of college graduates. Theres absolutely nothing surprising that "43% of their replacements seem to be women,". What else would you expect…
/r/PurplePillDebate02/02/19 08:19 PM
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When a guy talks about the woman he loves he will almost always start describitg things that make her cute/vulnerable but most of all unique. The little freckle she's self conscious of. The way she rubs her feet together. The cute little tattoo she has on her ankle. They're meaningless in many ways. But they do identify her. When women describe the man she loves she'll talk about what he can do, and what he does do. And usually his strength of character/attitude as well, even if indirectly. But …
/r/PurplePillDebate02/02/19 10:12 AM
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Women are much more selective about who they are sexually attracted to than men. They're primarily attracted to the top 20% of men. So women mostly sleep with them. The bottom percent of men are sexually repulsive to women
/r/PurplePillDebate02/02/19 06:15 AM
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Extroversion has nothing to do with it. Even neuroticism not really. Lack of abundance mentaility (scarcity mentality) creates neuroticism. You'd be surprised how changable a trait neuroticism is in practice. Developing an adundance mentality (amongst many other changes) can effectively change a person's neuroticism.
/r/PurplePillDebate02/02/19 02:46 AM
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When family money is involved. Most families with real money are reasonably diligent using legal structures to keep assets inside the family and away from any threat. I would not call a situation where family support or money is used to purchase a marital home rare. Especially today.
/r/PurplePillDebate02/02/19 02:36 AM
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At the moment, I can't think of any. I wonder about it sometimes. There's a cost to being alone. But there's cost to being in a successful relationship. I just found that a woman needs things that I don't want to be. Perhaps with more wealth, both monetary, assets and social it might be easier. Women don't really care who you are, just what you can make happen for their life. If you have wealth you can provide a lot for them without it draining you of your life and self. Without those kind of as…
/r/PurplePillDebate01/02/19 05:38 AM
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Even if they're in her name he's still liable for them in divorce. Marital debts are shared.
/r/MGTOW30/01/19 07:11 AM
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cut their hair or get tattoos They're treated as signals of personality. ie "short haired girls are damaged". Tattoos are often correlated with high sexual openness. Not definitive, but useful shortcuts for knowing which women to game and how to go about it, assuming you want or need something from them. Women misinterpret that interest in features as overall judgement rather than just an easy way to categorise them.
/r/PurplePillDebate29/01/19 11:13 AM
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This post is like two levels of meta irony.
/r/PurplePillDebate29/01/19 07:01 AM
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When woman buy beautiful clothes or makeup, they are (partly) do this for man, they are not really "spending". Here the real customer should be (partly) man, those thing should be (partly) count into man's consumer spending Unless we're fucking her we don't care. You aren't doing the world a favour by trying to look pretty. You're doing it for yourself.
/r/PurplePillDebate29/01/19 06:52 AM
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Finally two kids from the same man Maybe. Could have been a wild conception night.
/r/MGTOW29/01/19 05:17 AM
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Probable, but not destined.
/r/PurplePillDebate28/01/19 08:17 AM
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Op also said "destined to be alone" which is a subtly different question. It implies a person's romantic destiny is pre-determined, if only by their their appearance and genes. Everything yeu said is spot on. But we also don't know who is going to be alone. There are 600lb men and women with comitted partners. Disabled men and very ugly women who have partners too. And beautiful people who can't get it together. Many people will be alone. And that is inevitable. But we don't know with certainty …
/r/PurplePillDebate28/01/19 07:48 AM
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Top men exist. They are a group of only men which can only be approached if by the man's volition. That is.not a group. That's just a category. A real group of men has codes of behaviour. Standards for membership. Process for making decisions or violations of codes. Important goals they're all committed to. Usually a deep ideology as well. Common role models and stories. Brazil is not a stable society. Its going downhill. Its getting worse. Stable societies stay at the same level or grow in heal…
/r/PurplePillDebate28/01/19 12:38 AM
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Did you read the OP? he is talking about all men. Not only top men. Yes. Only some men need to engage in this to change the dynamics of the dating market. Its has to be a substantial fraction, but not a majority. Not even close to that. Its not going to recreate universal mongamy. The bottom 30% of guys are still going to miss out. But it will have a huge effect on the completely chaotic way women just hook up with the nearest available "alpha" until he dumps her. Guys, even red pillers have lit…
/r/PurplePillDebate28/01/19 12:00 AM
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Nah, its a pretty natural reaction to the end of intese early relationships. If you could feel oneitis over and over with every girl you get into a serious relationship with, it wouldn't be "oneitis". Even blue pill guys have exactly the same problem. Their early relationships end and they just will not feel the same intensity in later ones. Besides, once you learn how women work its not really possible to feel it again in the same way. A large part of oneitis is idealising and romanticising a p…
/r/PurplePillDebate27/01/19 11:26 PM
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That's a very good way to describe it. Interestingly its more accurate description of what abundance mentality really is. Its not just about abundent options of one thing. Its the attitude that life is abundent in everything good, or at least most things. That there is plenhy of money out there, plenty of great people, plenty of food, opportunities, great experiences. That mont things you want are available and possible to get. So you don't need to get hung up on any one option and can easily fi…
/r/PurplePillDebate27/01/19 10:45 PM
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Oneitis gets burnt out in men from bad relationships. After a while its hard to feel it ever again. Almost every red pill guy and player knows what oneitis feels like. They experienced it and got burnt, and then went looking for answers. A guy gets a limited amount of oneitis in his life. Once its gone he has to find another way to be with women, if he still wants to. A more realistic, transactional approach. Women do that relatively easily, but men can learn to do it too.
/r/PurplePillDebate27/01/19 10:38 PM
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This is a conversation you need to have with a therapist. It sounds like someone fucked you up as a kid and you need help getting unfucked.
/r/PurplePillDebate27/01/19 10:29 PM
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The only way to avoid women only choosing the toughtest, most masculine men is to restrict women. Which to me is completely anti-ethical. There are plenty of ways to do it. But they all depend on creating high quality male only groups which women have to earn access to (while never getting membership except by proxy through selection by one of the male members). For various reasons of which feminism is only one this never happens. The only thing "anti-ethical" about this is discrimination about …
/r/PurplePillDebate27/01/19 10:25 PM
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No, you do yourself disservice. It is your inexplicable words that are the drug which bring these words out of we. I seek your meaning, and my head becomes confused by yeur powerful womanhood, and all that is left I leaved here as pathetic tribute. I have no logic or reason to create them. Only the mystery of a woman.
/r/PurplePillDebate27/01/19 02:21 AM
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Ahh, the mystery of a women is the only intoxication I crave. But what is this? Your statement, so short. So dare I say, predictable? How can this be? No surely there is a deeper meaning so your words. No women could be reduced to such one dimensional response. I will not ponder deeper. It is beyond me to know. I merely sit in daunted admiration of all the myntery you have packed into "Must be some good weed".
/r/PurplePillDebate27/01/19 01:25 AM
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You misunderstand me. The challenge, the almost pointless, relentless throwing of oneself into an entire ocean of mystery. What will I find? Its intoxicating. To put yourself out on the ocean with no map or guide, knowing they are but useless distractions that keep you from the true master of your fate, the randomness of a woman's heart. I seek this challenge out. I will persist. I cannot say no. To this I will give my life and to me it will give life. To this I dedicate my manliest of manliness…
/r/PurplePillDebate27/01/19 01:02 AM
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And Jody for the military.
/r/PurplePillDebate27/01/19 12:49 AM
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Yeah. Each and every women in a mysterious special snowflake. What makes her fall for a man? We can never hope to understand. Such mystery hidden in mysteriousness. Unknowable and clouded in enigma. Each women an island of yet to be discovered emotional delights. So temporary and changable that each man may crash against her shores and only the most persistant and worthy can ever hope to even catch a glimpse of what she really feels. So try on TRPers. Her unknowable, mysterious mystery laughs at…
/r/PurplePillDebate27/01/19 12:45 AM
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Oh FFS that is ridiculous. You can meet guys who behave like that everywhere. They're they creepy weirdo's women won't get within ten feet of. They're a dime a dozen. Prince is one of the most talented music stars of all time. He can do things on an instrument even some o the best professionals can't do. He could back it up. All the other douchebags who act the same but can't. That's whatfs different. If Prince was not good looking and couldn't play he'd be a 5'2 cringeworthy dweeb with a music …
/r/PurplePillDebate27/01/19 12:17 AM
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If I'm in a LTR with someone who has a lower salary and I am currently happy with them, why would I start hating them after marriage? - "Men cannot go backwards sexually , women cannot go backwards in lifestyle" As people get older women become used to an ever increasing standard of living. Women's expectations of lifestyle always go up, and never go down. You're happy now berause you're younger and your lifestyle is adequate for your expectations today. But as you get older you'll want more. Be…
/r/PurplePillDebate26/01/19 01:25 AM
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Women never want to see men helped in their developement. In any way. Women wantwto see the tournamett of men reveal the ones with the best genes. That doesn't work if they're being trained how to win and given assistance. There is an extremely deep seated idea in women that men are born, not made. The purpose of everything in life is to tear men down until only the absolute best is left standing. Any kind of support or help for men just props up weak men .ho should have been weeded out. It just…
/r/PurplePillDebate24/01/19 06:15 AM
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Does Romance have any real value or is it merely biology forcing us to seek out someone to keep life going. Modern society has narrowed the definition of "romance". Today it is limited to love and relationships. But the original definition of romance was much more expansive and far more interesting. You might be intersted in looking at the history of romanticism https://en.wikipedia.org/wiki/Romanticism A lot of guys who tave taken TRP start to wonder what its all about. Having learnt the nature…
/r/PurplePillDebate24/01/19 05:52 AM
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Could you clarify who you mean by "you" in the above. I'm yet to give any indication what I mean by it. Perhaps if I knew whose definition you were talking about it would make what you're trying to say clearer.
/r/PurplePillDebate24/01/19 05:35 AM
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There are plenty of desperate guys who are not "nice". Nice Guy™ means a quite specific set of traits. Some are not even desperate for relationships. At least not to the point that they're evgaging with women.
/r/PurplePillDebate24/01/19 05:31 AM
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If you could explain what you are trying to say it means that would be helpful. You've put a lot of words together in your post but they're not very coherent. And your clarifications in the thread are not making it better. It reads like you're trying to deny the existence of something by giving it a nonsense definition.
/r/PurplePillDebate24/01/19 05:24 AM
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I think eventually the higher earning women will start to realise they're paying taxes and sometimes missing out on children themselves to fund the babies of women who don't work. When that happens things will change.
/r/PurplePillDebate23/01/19 07:02 PM
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You can't help what you feel attracted to. People keep talking abeut standards like its a rational process. Its not. Attraction is a primal subconscious behaviour. You just want to feel like they deserved what they got through their own decisions. They derided to work hard and get a career. This is unaticipated consequence of that.
/r/PurplePillDebate23/01/19 05:39 AM
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I was under the impression that the post wall women would still be more desirable than the average make of their same she group. No. A women's career is of no romantic value if its noticably more advanced than a guy. Its a flat out negative. A car mechanic does not want to be with marketing executive because nhe is a marketing executive. And even if they did the standards and expectations of women like this its almost impossible for them to feel attracted to a lower status guy. The mont powerful…
/r/PurplePillDebate23/01/19 05:34 AM
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Do you think society might reverse the message in the future and tell young girls to not pursue as much success so that they can feel attracted to a wider range of men? No. What societies tells young women is generally determined by older women today since the entertainment and marketing industries have a very large proportion of women in senior roles. Older women who are often one of the romanticaly unsatisfied singles described above. If they told younger women the truth they'd be be increasin…
/r/PurplePillDebate23/01/19 05:27 AM
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Yep. I often find that no matter how cynical a guy is they still cannot really understand women. There's always another deeper layer of manipulation or bullshit and it takes another woman to open your eyes to it, often unintentionally. Half the reason I read this sub is the truly deep red pills only come out of woman's mouth.
/r/PurplePillDebate23/01/19 05:17 AM
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Hamster limits what one is capable of believing. Our ability to be rational is limited.
/r/PurplePillDebate23/01/19 04:57 AM
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so they must've read and understood what TRP is about Every single one of them is convinced TRP does not work on them. It only works on other women. Intelligent women are even more vulnerable to the TRP in a lot of ways. Their confidence makes them trust themselves and their feelings even more than the average woman. Once a trp guy is able to generate those feels in here she will never believe it was done with manipulation until after the relationship crashes, and likely not even then. All you h…
/r/PurplePillDebate23/01/19 01:14 AM
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Explaining the trp to women is impossible. You have to accept she is her own person and that includes letting her make her own mistakes. If she asks or seems to want to know about this guy I'll advise her what will likely happen if she lets him. But a guy who really knows what he is doing with trp will have more influence over her than I will. Part of women's lib is men being liberated from being responsible for their female friends and relatives. Women can make their own mistakes and live with …
/r/PurplePillDebate22/01/19 10:32 PM
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You can't really have a conversation like this in most forums. Because when yeu say men you're also saying that women are not that. If its a an exceptionally ponitive trait, then you're implying women are not good at or perhaps mostly incapbale of that trait. If its just a fairly normal positive trait that is mostly unique to men, then you're impliicitly pointing out its absence in women. For white knights and most blue pillers the "women are wonderful effect" kicks in. For most women the threat…
/r/PurplePillDebate22/01/19 05:58 AM
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Git gud I can already get whatever I want out of a woman. Make her love me, at least a woman understands the word. Guys like you still haven't figured it out. Many mgtow's have no problem getting laid. They choose what you get good at instead of letting pussy choose it for them. Even guys at the top of the market like Keanu Reeves are making the same choice. Do you even know why you care about pussy so much? Of all the things you could do with your life you want to turn into a peacock for women'…
/r/PurplePillDebate21/01/19 01:23 AM
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Yeah, and then you'd find "the one", and be in a sexless marriage with a wife that does not respect you for the rest of your life or divorced when you lose your job. Let me know how your third marriage goes. I'm sure she'll turn out to be the good one. Guys are learning to find something better to do with their life after the first marriage runs its course.
/r/PurplePillDebate21/01/19 01:08 AM
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Mgtow is practical solution to those ploblems that an indiividual man can implement. A religious revival requires everyone to get together in joint delusion to believe in fairy tales to solve their problems together. Its not going to happen.
/r/PurplePillDebate20/01/19 11:27 AM
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A future of shrinking populations. Japan's population has been going down for decades. In another 50 years artifical wombs may mean even mgtow's can have babies. I vaguely expect this to happen. Or the normalisation of surrogacy. Upper class women are beginning that process today and it may have been normalised in another 20 years. Christiano Ronaldo actually did this. He used a surrogate to have his kids and they do not have a mother. When super attractive world champion athletes worth hundreds…
/r/PurplePillDebate20/01/19 11:20 AM
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Yep. So many guys are learning that emotional inimacy in relationships with women is rather limited. The interesting thing about most mgtow's is that theyfre not incels looking for their first chance with a women. They're guys who have done relationships and found them disappointing. If they want emotional intimacy they've learnt they're not going to get that from a woman. As they say, get a dog.
/r/PurplePillDebate20/01/19 11:11 AM
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Nurturing. When you step into a traditional home there is an almost enforced welfare on everyone. They'll shove amazing food into you. If you're cold or sick they'll take great care of you. The matriarchs in a house like that are almost militant in taking care of everyone. Its sad to see entire generations of modern women unable to do this. But I guess its impossible to be this kind of woman while also working on their career and having to earn money. Understandably its almost impossible to do b…
/r/PurplePillDebate18/01/19 11:37 PM
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See, I don't know why you would expect me to believe that. I've literally watched men who could not get laid learn how to and then get laid. They had the same face before and after. The same body. The only difference was learning PUA or TRP. So I iet what you're saying. That the decision was made in the first 15 seconds. I don't even really disagree with that. But how is that decision down to their face (or whatever other thing a woman is saying. Other women are just as vehement amout a differen…
/r/PurplePillDebate18/01/19 06:22 AM
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You're basically right but this point She determines this mostly from his face as is wrong. Face is a fantastic asset but on its own is just one aspect. TRP and PUA figured out what most of those aspects are. You can teach an average looking guy the techniques and he can learn how to get laid relatively easily. Exactly what those aspects are and how much they each matter varies a lot from women to women. But its always the same aspects, its just the weighting that varies. Most of those aspects a…
/r/PurplePillDebate18/01/19 05:24 AM
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There are none. Women seek the highest status man they can get and competition creates that status. Status is inherently attractive, so success in competition is inherently attractive. Women don't care what the competition is. Only that some men are deferred to by other men.
/r/PurplePillDebate17/01/19 08:00 PM
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That makes a lot of sense. Do you think this ad might be only directed at women who buy higher margin shaving products? And P&G are willing to take a hit on the mens sales.
/r/PurplePillDebate17/01/19 11:48 AM
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Could be either way, but there are different levels of marketing ability. Computer games don't hate very sophisticated marketing and Nike may have deliberately using a high risk strategy. But Fast Moving Consumer Goods (FMCG) is the absolute front line of marketing. This in where the best of the best in marketing ply their trade. I could see a few SJW's falling upwards in EA until they were put in a position to make a BF5 level mistake. But in FMCG? That's like comparing D3 college football to t…
/r/PurplePillDebate17/01/19 09:03 AM
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Honestly, most men's first relationships are very intense and a little one sided. I have never met a player who did not have his heart broken by his early twenties. You could be with the most confident alpha player who has literally slept with a thousand women and I would bet odds on there was that girl when he was younger. You're 23 now so you're probably dating similarly aged guys. That girl is still fresh in their minds. Also the guys you're dating have probably not figured out women yet so t…
/r/PurplePillDebate17/01/19 08:51 AM
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This Gillette commercial, by going SJW, is targeting NOT THEIR TARGET AUDIENCE. In their attempt to include women that wouldn't even buy men's razors to begin with, they unknowingly exclude their target audience Two points Who actually buys the razors in most households? Do married men buy their own razors or do they come out of the weekly grocery shopping? They may have done market research that concluded women are the ones actually deciding which razor to purchase. This might be an indirect co…
/r/PurplePillDebate17/01/19 08:36 AM
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Many sexual partners and no relationships? Red flag. A few sexual partners and no relationships. Yellow flag.
/r/PurplePillDebate16/01/19 09:51 AM
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Form this I speculate men seem to value land and indpendence. Women being close to other people and convinience
/r/PurplePillDebate14/01/19 08:50 AM
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My idea is that the best way to handle any issues one is facing in life is to simultaneously recognize that there are things outside of individual's direct control and while they should not be "blamed" for their failures, there are still things that they can do to try to indirectly influence their life's path You're literally describing one of TRP's central tenets. I don't think you know much about it based on your post. It reads like someone who understands TRP by reading what other people have…
/r/PurplePillDebate13/01/19 03:33 AM
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MGTOW and TRP had heavy overlap. But I do find how seperate incels are from them For people in those communities its not surprising. They all accept the red pill but have different reactions to it. Incels are quite hostile to players so there's distance between them and the trp itself.
/r/PurplePillDebate13/01/19 02:52 AM
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A really good pua knows what he is doing. I saw a pua school and their coaches had to prove they could do it. The test was to go to a bar and then the potential coach had to pick up an attractive women and have her ready to leave with him within 30 minutes. They could do that almost every time. They were decently attractive mainly from dressing right but nothing special. Some were below average height. 8's mostly. They relied on a lot of skills but flirting was one of the main ones.
/r/PurplePillDebate12/01/19 02:44 AM
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They set air conditioner temperatures in a work environment depending on the amount of physical activity people there will be doing. Lower temps are for when people will be walking around and doing physical work. Higher temps for sitting and not doing physical work.
/r/MGTOW11/01/19 10:28 PM
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Yeah, that's a simple but very real example of a code/philsophy. What your objectives are and what you value are a large part of what defines who you are as a guy. Your code/philosophy. What's important (getting laid), what you will do (what it takes to get laid).
/r/PurplePillDebate11/01/19 10:20 PM
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You can make getting laid your code. Its arguably what trp/pua is. But that does not happen just because a guy is horny.
/r/PurplePillDebate11/01/19 09:55 PM
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If you're still stuck in 2000 year old fairy tales for your code or philosophy then you're going to stuggle today. But most guys who are making it today have developed their own values and rules for what they believe in. You don't have to use someone elses code. You're better off making your own.
/r/PurplePillDebate11/01/19 09:47 PM
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Millions of young men staying home playing video games and not getting laid
/r/PurplePillDebate11/01/19 09:35 PM
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A lot of layers of adult on the outside wrapped around a happy child.
/r/PurplePillDebate11/01/19 07:43 PM
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In the past this was true. Today that will make a guy stay in his bedroom jacking off to porn
/r/PurplePillDebate11/01/19 07:37 PM
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No troll could be that good. You'd have to be a genius that understands women better than the red pill teaches to hit come up with the stuff she said.
/r/PurplePillDebate11/01/19 12:10 PM
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In simplistic terms yes. An alpha who backs down loses that status very quickly.
/r/PurplePillDebate11/01/19 09:37 AM
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Does that mean that to be a real man entails both putting out subtle put downs No. But its common in joking way. The exchange of put downs is how guys connect. We can put each othet down because we know we know we're good buds. and having the means to defend yourself (and win) in the event somebody takes offense? Don't start a fight unless you're prepared to take an ass kicking. You don't have to win but you do have to fight if yeu decided to provoke someone.
/r/PurplePillDebate11/01/19 09:30 AM
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Faking acting alpha is done by putting out subtle put downs to the people around in a way that is just short of insulting them. Essentially its signalling that yeu can insult people and they won't do anything about it (because you're the alpha). In a beta environment they won't call yeu out because they don't know how to. They don't escalate things, shy away from cotfrontation and will not fight. In a real man's environment they'll respond with put downs of their own likely with some element of …
/r/PurplePillDebate11/01/19 09:23 AM
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Its actually possible to be that type of alpha male without really doing any development in nome circumstances. If you can learn to fake the signals of being an alpha and you're in an environment of beta bitches you can fool most of the people (women included) that you're alpha. Mainly because no-one will call you out on it. If you try that in an environment with real men you'll just get your ass kicked or be laughed at.
/r/PurplePillDebate11/01/19 09:14 AM
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5-10 years the SMP will be incomprehensible to us as we know it. That's scary and likely true.
/r/PurplePillDebate11/01/19 09:08 AM
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I miss Jammerly for that reason. She'd carry feminine thinking to its logical conclusion oblivious to how it made her and other women look. You did not have to decode anything there. She'd give answers so far out (yet right) you'd never have been able to come up with the question to elcit them yourself. Most useful way to do it here is to start categorising the argument types women make here. There's actually less than a dozen I think. Before long you can almost read any thread here as these in …
/r/PurplePillDebate11/01/19 09:04 AM
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Dom irl often equals sub in bed.
/r/PurplePillDebate11/01/19 08:57 AM
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Can you tell me what it is about Mary Poppins that draws you to her and which bits of you are happiest to be? I kind of agree with op but no-one in the thread besides yourself seems to care about Mary Poppins.
/r/PurplePillDebate11/01/19 08:54 AM
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tumbleweed meet spacewhiskey I exude Mary Poppins energy, she was a role model for me as a child and I love her portrayal in the new movie, made me wanna go buy a bunch of cool period clothes and hats. I don't think I'm alone either.
/r/PurplePillDebate11/01/19 08:52 AM
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Because women are interested in your genes not your skills. Its the same reason men do not wear make up. Women want to see the "real" you so they can assess if you have the best genes available. They are interested in your genetic fitness and learning how fake the signals of that genetic fitness is revolting to them.
/r/PurplePillDebate11/01/19 08:43 AM
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They're raised by women. Many guys have never even been in a masculine environment. They copy the behaviour and attitudes of the adult women in their lives. There is not a single "nice guy" behaviour that is not more common in women than it is in men. in order for a boy to become an alpha male Alpha male is a ridiculous term that's more about women than it is about men. But I presume you mean a man's man or something like that. The answer is serious challenge, ideally with some element of physic…
/r/PurplePillDebate11/01/19 08:39 AM
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How could you tell the difference between a woman valuing his group and a woman valuing what his belonging to that group might indicate about him? There is no single thing I can tell you that will be persuasive. Its been my observation and inference over many years in many specific instances. You can never know for certain what is going on in someone else's head, but you can get experienced at making inferences then conclude you trust those inferences. I think you might see the same thing if you…
/r/PurplePillDebate10/01/19 08:26 AM
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Where can I get these billion dollar blowjobs? Damn it. If I only had the right girl sucking my dick I'd be rich too.
/r/PurplePillDebate10/01/19 05:44 AM
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You might want to read up on female body builders and ftm transgender for the effects it has. I suggested you read up on it because I have not. I don't know what you'll find but it will tell you more about the effect of testosterone on women than I know, which you indicated you were interested in. If that came across as condescending then perhaps suggested reading has become an idiom with a specific meaning which is disappointing. I have learnt many useful things when people pointed me in the ri…
/r/PurplePillDebate10/01/19 05:39 AM
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But women don't define men by their groups. That concept is alien to women. That's something I will have to disagree with you on, but I want to clarify why. Other women define men by their groups. I'm sure you don't do it. I tave noticed that women often assume the way they themnelves feel about something is universal to women. One woman's experience is every women's experience. Listen carefully to other women and you'll nee how often they refer to a guy as a cop, a lawyer, a biker etc. I know y…
/r/PurplePillDebate10/01/19 05:31 AM
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Evaluate a large numbers of options for the best ones. Politics. Identify risks and downsides. Recover from infectious illness. Survive. Make the most of what in currently available
/r/PurplePillDebate10/01/19 01:26 AM
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Hard to say. Testosterone receptors vary between men and women so its not as simple as that. When I say high testosterone women I mean they have it naturarally which may simply mean more receptors rather than more hormone. Yeu might want to read up on female body builders and ftm transgender for the effects it has.
/r/PurplePillDebate10/01/19 01:12 AM
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Can’t really say that’s ever happened. Are you saying dominance is cheating, sort of? No. There's just two types of sexual attraction. Ones renponsive, the other is more inherent. It only matters if you care about it. You're unlikely to be physically attractive enough experience it. Although its more easy to get from high testosterone women. High testosterone women are less likely to be attractive though so you might nto hate met a woman like that.
/r/PurplePillDebate09/01/19 10:25 PM
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Really, women can easily get sex with men far above both their SMV and RMV? Even far above their SMV is not likely physically attractive enough. Only a tity percent of men meet that criteria. How does one know which kind of sex one is providing to a woman? She wants your body even more than your behaviours. You don't need to dominate her at all. She fucks and wants you the way a guy wants a hot woman's body.
/r/PurplePillDebate09/01/19 09:01 PM
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Yeah, she's only worth tens of millions now and has five likely high acheiving sons. What women would envy that?
/r/PurplePillDebate09/01/19 08:58 PM
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BUT because of his inherent nature he can't help but think of himself as a member of his group at war with the hostile group called women. Just because you're in different groups does not mean they are hostile to each other. There are plenty of groups that like each other a lot. Its just that the interests of their group take precedence. The fans of many teams in the NFL would love to see the Browns win a superbowl. As long as its not against their own team. And hostility has many levels to it. …
/r/PurplePillDebate09/01/19 07:27 PM
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How many guys you know that never learnt? Blue pill will always be there.
/r/PurplePillDebate09/01/19 10:36 AM
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might be doing something harmful to himself or others for the sake of his group. Or "doing something harmful to himself ... for the sake of ... her". For a blue pill guy his inner most group is him and his partner (and kids if they have any). "turn his back on his best friend, if he put her down" I think this is a very hard thing for any woman to accept as true because it creates unbearable pressure on her to reciprocate. When she really understands what he would do for her, it means she might h…
/r/PurplePillDebate09/01/19 10:29 AM
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Attraction does not equal love. Women don't understand that there can even be a difference or what that would be like. Certainly not love > attraction.
/r/PurplePillDebate09/01/19 09:03 AM
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Because beta bux worked. They got the beautiful women who worked hard to make him believe she loves him for him. They rarely get divorced (vety low divorce rate for billionares. And she'll keep fucking him because she knows if she does not there is a line of hot 20 year olds at the door ready to take him away. And if ends up divorced he'll have the best awyers money can buy and she will lose access to all the status he provides everywhere she goes when he finds her replacement.
/r/PurplePillDebate09/01/19 08:12 AM
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Woman's self identity is about themself, and then their family once they have children. Within their community their ego is measured by who they (and their children) are better than or worse than. Its often by the quality of their partner but that's only one way its tested. All the usual ways women measure themnelves and each other. Everything from fashion to popularity to all the stuff women care about. Men's identity works differently. They have a group identity which comes first. They care ab…
/r/PurplePillDebate09/01/19 08:02 AM
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There's literally no reason for the decision given in the article. Sounds like something else in going on behind the scenes. Perhaps a sponsor of the show in a competitor. Most of these awards are just paid PR in disguise anyway. Might have a Streisand effect if the play it smart "the sex toy so good it was banned by men"
/r/PurplePillDebate09/01/19 07:10 AM
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Most men don't utderstand this concept because they thitk women love in the same way men do. Ask a man what he loves about his woman and he'll give stupid meaningless things that don't make her any better than the next women. She has a weird little mole under her chin that's she's nelf conscious of. How she laughs at the way cat plays. He's talking about things that make her unique to him. He does not care if a better woman comes along. This woman cannot be "better" to him anyway since she's not…
/r/PurplePillDebate09/01/19 07:04 AM
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Women seek the top of the male hierarchy. How they judge that is by looking for who is leading the emotional state of the group. In most groups the emotional state of people tends to move in waves through people an someone has an emotion and then other people react to that. Generally there are nome people who are more dominant emotionally in a group and others will follow or mirror that person'n emotional state. The ability to elicit many strong emotions in people in a sign of dominance. eg a ma…
/r/PurplePillDebate09/01/19 06:43 AM
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A lot of less attractive guys have never experienced a women makitg an effort to spend time with them. Its literally never happened to them. They can't esaily see the conversations women have with more attractive men and how much more enthusiasm and effort they put into meeting up (and how little effort the attractiwe guy has to make) Women never say no. They communicate indirectly. And men are taught that women and men are the same. So men don't realise that women use communication very differe…
/r/PurplePillDebate09/01/19 06:29 AM
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If everyone is having liberating, free sex, then what’s in it for women? How would women get the relationships, commitment and marriages that benefit them? Women were as dumb as men back then. They pushed for the revolution even more than men did thinking they were the same as men. Nobody really knew what would happen since birth control had just been invented and sex without the risk of getting pregnant existed for the first time in history. Two generations of it + the internet and men have lea…
/r/PurplePillDebate08/01/19 01:43 AM
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imposes a duty on both parents (married or not) What you need to look up is the step before this. What is legally a parent. You're assuming when it says "parent" it means "bio parent" not legally defined parent. Its possible under some circumstances for unmarried people to be defined as parents.
/r/PurplePillDebate07/01/19 09:20 PM
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I'll tell you what is definitely wasn't about: making sure men have quick and easy access to pussy. No. It was sold as liberating both men and women from the confines of traditionalism. Part of that was men being able to have plenty of sex. Everyone would be having more sex. There's a reason the sixties were all about "Free Love". The assumption was that everyone would get laid more and that was a good thing. Men eventually learnt that this only happened for a small number of very attractive men…
/r/PurplePillDebate07/01/19 09:06 PM
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That's incorrect. In France if you're not married to the mother, you are not liable for child support. You are off scott free. The court would not order a paternity test if you are not married to the mother. There is a lot of confusion around the French model and western guys think its all in favour of the women. Its not. France uses the traditional idea of marriage. If you're married to a woman, you're responsible for all her kids. Whether you are the bio father or not. That's the bit which eve…
/r/PurplePillDebate07/01/19 08:19 PM
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I can see what you're saying, but I have to respectfully disagree. I don't really know how to explain it though. Actually I kind of do. There's a question that might highlight the difference. "What's the most useful thing to believe?" I think that's question that can often guide women's thinking. That might point at the difference.
/r/PurplePillDebate07/01/19 05:44 AM
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Women are attracted to men for two different reasons. Resources/status/money and actual sexual appeal. I see this said a lot. I think women are sexually attracted to status particularly, and also resources and money in so far they translate to power and dominance specifically. Its a little confusing. They're aroused by status, dominance etc. But not directly attracted to the man it comes from a lot of the time as strange as that sounds. There's a thing in the bdsm community called a service dom.…
/r/PurplePillDebate07/01/19 05:41 AM
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Read up on mindfulness training and meditation. It will probably help a lot with that.
/r/PurplePillDebate06/01/19 01:52 AM
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Sorry if they came off as a rant. I was just trying to create contrast. A lot of pretty women especially have trouble seeing something like this and aggressive approach can break through that. I've found that gently making a point does not really work in that situation. Its also easier to write as a rant rather than more carefully. Commuticates the point but people over read where its coming from. I have no doubt being attractive is better. It absolutely is. Its just that it comes with a cost. F…
/r/PurplePillDebate06/01/19 01:44 AM
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ahh, I concede. Read books? The Talented Mr Ripley was epicurean.
/r/PurplePillDebate06/01/19 01:27 AM
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Touche. (But how much pleasure do you derive from the simple life?)
/r/PurplePillDebate06/01/19 01:21 AM
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Ahh, I see your problem (I think) You fell into the pretty girl / princess trap. Being beautiful you're noticed wherever you go. And you immediately step into the top of the social hierarchy of any room you enter. Whether you want it or not you have an extremely strong social identity. You might not even realise this since it is such a constant presence in your life. If yeu were transported to the body of an average guy or unattractive women this social identity would completely disappear and yo…
/r/PurplePillDebate06/01/19 01:06 AM
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Look, it seems you're living out the nihilist life. Nothing has any meaning. Which is nihilism step 1, basically depression. Step 2 is realising that this in actually liberating since yeu can do whatever you want. There's a cartoon about it somewhere that has a derpessed university philosophy student realising "its all meaningless". Second scene is the guy in a wall st suit with a huge smile on his face and bundles of cash in hands happily accepting its still all meaningless. So he can do whatev…
/r/PurplePillDebate06/01/19 12:10 AM
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Deep down, you're probably wondering how he sees you. A lot of women look at a guys exes as a way of judging themselves, or at least validating how they see themselves. A bit like a human mirror. If his exes are all attractive models, then she'll feel she is attractive too. If they're all successful witty executive types, then she'll feel she is that too. Provided that is compatible with how she sees herself. If she's a chubby girl but his exes are all thin models then that's a problem. If she's…
/r/PurplePillDebate05/01/19 10:33 PM
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You were programmed to believe that. Its an abstraction built over the top of things you innately value just like almost everything else. The desire to have a child is innate. The desire to have a partner is innate. The nuclear family is an arbtitrary social system. Its just that its a core belief of yours. What you're programmed to believe before the age of 7 is almost impossible to give up, or sometimes even realise is a belief. Live a little. You'll discover other things you believe as strong…
/r/PurplePillDebate05/01/19 10:04 PM
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When you going to get over the death of the nuclear family? Spend the rest of your life greiving over that? Small world for you to live in.
/r/PurplePillDebate05/01/19 04:16 AM
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If seperate societies came up with the same rules they're not projections. They're the hard wired programming that we evolved into that resulted from the constraints we evolved against. That's the nature of being male. Competition between men and the threats of the environment force survival of the best. What continues to exist is the bent we have access to. Not some random configuration. We can't believe arbitrary things with no meaning, because when we do we're killed off by a superior belief …
/r/PurplePillDebate05/01/19 03:25 AM
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I was consumed by the problem because I enjoy system design I know that feel. Its not really the place for it here to discuss value systems. But it started with two observations. Our moral code is not an arbitrary, almost random set of beliefs. Its hard wired into us. Anthropologists were able to discern exactly the same moral rules in every society. Sure there is a scammer dressed up in fancy clothes modifyng the rules so they can fuck kiddies. But the rules they come up with have to follow har…
/r/PurplePillDebate05/01/19 02:10 AM
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Lol. I don't have that problem. I rejected societies rules and decided for myself what will and will not be believed in and it did not leave me empty like you have done. I've met plenty of guys who did what you did. Never met one I envied. I can see what that feels like and I'm glad I did not end up down that road. If you're on a place like ppd regularly there's probably more still inside you than you realise. The truly internally dead would not spend five minutes here.
/r/PurplePillDebate05/01/19 01:49 AM
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Just because the world's pro social value systems turn out to be scams does not mean you cannot have your own. A man has to have a code or rules of some kind. Without that your life eventually becomes a meaningless pursuit of feelings for their own sake. Even less than a woman's in many ways since at least their quest has a built in hampster to make the rules for them. If you have no fundamental principles, even non pro social ones, you'll walk around this earth like a guy in a never ending sing…
/r/PurplePillDebate05/01/19 01:35 AM
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"shitty" or would that just be "attractive behavior?" Its shitty and attractive. There is no either/or. It hurts innocent people, damages society. Creates bad outcomes for people who don't deserve it. And its attractive. women don't give a shit about it in the way that we want. You want your own morality dictated by what women feel? Have you no judgement of your own? Who gives a fuck what women lining up to give bj's to a pedo drug dealer think.
/r/PurplePillDebate05/01/19 12:39 AM
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Most women don't have degrees and are a 5, are overweight and have an IQ of 100. That average woman, unless she has very good mentors that prep her for market is not going to snag a guy in the top 20%, much less 5%. The levels of education and wealth have little to do with it. Listen to the relationship history of single 30 year old professionals and its the same trainwreck of cheating boyfriends with no jobs who used them for money. There is not some magical class threshold where women with shi…
/r/PurplePillDebate05/01/19 12:15 AM
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Yeah I think that inner dynamics vs real world is what creates the issue. Women seem to live inside their emotional world. It might be interesting to try and describe TRP to women in terms of their inner experience, but perhaps it would not work. Emotions on their own are meaningless. They need to be connected to what activates them, but if what activates them is the real world, and women don't care about that then what is there to say? I honestly think it comes down to the hampster. It decides …
/r/PurplePillDebate04/01/19 11:47 PM
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If you're comfortable with it, a good hooker every couple of months. You'll develop the basic skills with sex you need for a woman to be comfortable with you in bed. And a good hooker is basically 50% therapist/confidant. It can do wonders for your mental health having someone listen to you on the pillow every now and then. All of this will take the stink of desperation off you and get you in a position to judge women's quality before partnering up with them rather than just taking the first tha…
/r/PurplePillDebate04/01/19 10:36 PM
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Sorry, I meant for the children
/r/PurplePillDebate04/01/19 09:19 PM
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The absol8e aversion to anything that makes human nature predictable and explainable is what I have found so confusing. When I grasped TRP one of the thoughts I had was that women would be very interested in it because it explained how they ended up in bad romantic situations. Wouldn't it be very powerful to understand how your own feelings of attraction come about and then be able to avoid the mistakes they might lead you to? Yet I have almost never talked to a women ho took that perspective. A…
/r/PurplePillDebate04/01/19 02:38 PM
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But it doesn't bring any women to the yard. Doesn't bring any women at all. That's what is so great about it. Pleasure without problems.
/r/PurplePillDebate04/01/19 01:48 PM
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males need a lot, lot more to offer Yep. A lot more more money. We know. Trust me, we know. That's why guys have learnt to settle for porn and video games. Much less expensive. Much better value.
/r/PurplePillDebate04/01/19 01:41 PM
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I actually agree with all that you said about therapy. Its just its most people's only option for assistance with introspection. But I completely agree that it maken people egocentric. I don't have a high opinion of psycholic knowledge. Its the dark ages dressed up in academia a lot of the time. In many years of dincussing TRP I have only seen a few women who were able to use it intelligently atd positively for themselves to understand the male perspective and themselves. What you're doing is in…
/r/PurplePillDebate04/01/19 01:37 PM
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Fair share of the money out there. Once they have money the women will follow.
/r/PurplePillDebate04/01/19 01:29 PM
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I need someone who sends clear and friendly signals such that I can adjust to them They can't send you those signals during moments of their own distress. It almost sounds like you expect them to provide with reassurance during times when they very much want to be away from you / silent due to their own reasons. Its almost like you want them to not be atgry with you and to stop going through their own emotional processes so you don't have to deal with the insecurity that brings. That seems very …
/r/PurplePillDebate04/01/19 12:51 PM
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What do they do in other countries?
/r/PurplePillDebate04/01/19 10:20 AM
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So would you say that one could keep the assumption that to men a crying women feels as bad as dread feels to women? That might be correct. I had never thought of it like that, but I don't know what that dread feels like. You puttinc it like that helps me understand dread in way. How from the outside perspective on a crying woman would a man differentiate between manipulation and helplessness? Many never do. At least at a conscious level. Its common to men manipulated by their partners, and feel…
/r/PurplePillDebate04/01/19 10:10 AM
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But she loves him for his ambition
/r/PurplePillDebate04/01/19 01:36 AM
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Just looked up the species that does this. Apparently it actually is homo sapiens.
/r/PurplePillDebate04/01/19 01:25 AM
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Yeah, like I said. Something wrong with them and they don't matter.
/r/PurplePillDebate04/01/19 12:35 AM
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Crying and nagging are two different things. There are two types of crying. Genuine and manipulative/insincere. Manipulative crying to get your way through sympathy or to avoid doing something is junt terrible. Any woman doing it is not worth an ltr. A quality man can hopefully nee through it. Its a gray line between manipulative and genuine crying sometimes since the woman herself might not know what's going on inside her. Once a man has realised a women in crying manipulatively he may feel con…
/r/PurplePillDebate04/01/19 12:23 AM
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Yep. In some species its a social process where the now useless male is dismembered collectively to make it easier to for the pregnant female to eat them. Sometimes they're kept alive while supplying body parts as food for years.
/r/PurplePillDebate03/01/19 11:45 PM
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Dear Redditors and Japanese guys You're all edge cases. And there's something wrong with you so you don't count anyway.
/r/PurplePillDebate03/01/19 11:40 PM
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Yeah, show me the day feminists (or any women for taht matter) are in favour of child support being required to be spent on the child, and the mother being accountable for that. Yeu want to hear lack of accountablitiy justified, listen the arguments you hear when a guy paying child support wants his children to have decent clothes while their mother spends $300 a month in the salon with a denigner wardrobe.
/r/PurplePillDebate03/01/19 10:22 AM
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Women are attracted to men for two different reasons. Resources/status/money and actual sexual appeal. Women earn their own money now and have status equal to the average male. So most men have nothing to offer on the resources/status/money front. So women are only looking for the small nuwber of guys with high status/money/reseurces or the even smaller nuwber of guys who are flat out sexually attractive. Women'n libido's don't activate unless one or both these conditions are met.
/r/PurplePillDebate03/01/19 02:44 AM
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I think I wrote that wrong. I meant he's just ending up in situations which seem like they came from circumstance. But if you assume Joey's character is driving those circumstances then you can easily see a more self centered and manipulative character. For example Joey never has a job and is always "borrowing" money from Chandler. But there's no reason for him to be that broke. He could work more and cover his rent and headshots and acting clases etc. But he's just "unlucky". Or he's actually l…
/r/PurplePillDebate03/01/19 01:58 AM
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the princess wants to most attractive/desirable mate That literally makes no mention of hypergamy. Its a meaningless statement. You just said someone wants someone attractive. Its a zero information sentence.
/r/PurplePillDebate03/01/19 01:37 AM
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Its one study. A scan of physical stuctures. It can't show things like differences in receptor levels for testerone and estrogen or other hormones. There are plenty of neuroscientists, probably the majority that disagree with what it concludes. The story is only worth writing because it disagrees with current conventional thinking in neuroscience so its an interesting data point. If a neuroscientist was given someone’s brain without their body or any additional information, they would still prob…
/r/PurplePillDebate03/01/19 01:02 AM
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Yeah, but its always portrayed as for true love, and the rise in class is seemingly incidental. You'd need TRP to understand what was really going on. Try talking about how Disney princesses are hypergamous with most people and you'll get flat out denial hypergamy is what motivates her.
/r/PurplePillDebate03/01/19 12:54 AM
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Joey's character is such that he would never deceive his friends like that. Joey's character is kind of a lie. He's portrayed as a fun dumb goofball. But his story is that of a charming glib sociopath. Chandler and Joey are shown in the show as of similar attractiveness and as good friends. But the story is of a much more attractive guy who is living with/parasiting off his nerdy good earning friend. Joey owes Chandler thousands, which he does not pay back even when he becomes wealthy. I know it…
/r/PurplePillDebate03/01/19 12:37 AM
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No-ones ever lied about older men preferring younger women. Hypergamy is a secret men have to learn about through TRP. Younger men's expectations don't include women being hypergamous. Broken expectations, especially when its due to being lied to result in anger. Doubly so when they learn about it through romantic failure. If everyone grew up knowing women are hypergamous the anger about it wouldn't be any different to women who complain about men dating younger women. Instead men grow up never …
/r/PurplePillDebate02/01/19 11:37 PM
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simply mean that some women are naive and credulous and easily duped? (You see this among teenage girls a lot.) Over time you realise its AWALT. Just the con game gets more sophticated as they get older. But it always follows RP principles. Why did they choose such a non-handsome man for Kylo? Villian. But he's handsome in a non classical way. He's tall and looks good with a shirt off (which Disney gave the audience). Men often don't understand what women think looks attractive and are surprised…
/r/PurplePillDebate02/01/19 07:16 AM
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Acheive something. You can be acheiving more than one thing at a time. Don't get tunnel vision and think that your academic status is youronly form of status or acheivement (which is very common in academia). Don't get sucked into thinking phd's still living off a stipend and teaching classes on temporary contracts have actually acheived anything. All they have shown is a high degree of intelligence directed a not thinking for themselves. And DON'T DATE WOMEN WHO ARE STUCK ON THE ACADEMIC TREADM…
/r/PurplePillDebate02/01/19 01:21 AM
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teenage temper tantrum boy What looks to you like a "teenage temper tantrum boy"is just as likely to be interpreted as "smouldering angry hottie with deep levels". Look closer a the kind of crap women like in their fictional alpha's. 27 year old billionare industrialist is the top selling romance story of all time. As I said in another comment women can't tell the difference between a fake alpha and a real one. Guys can see through it but women fall for the "symbols" of alpha rather than the rea…
/r/PurplePillDebate02/01/19 01:08 AM
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Why would this alienate them? Hey Chandler, you future wife was secretly fucking your best friend since the day they met but you're cool with that, right? You better be so we can show this girl getting the beta provider ending our female audience wants for her.
/r/PurplePillDebate02/01/19 12:57 AM
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Sequel Star Wars is a good example of the preferred social structure for female oriented stories.
/r/PurplePillDebate01/01/19 11:53 PM
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how clear is this in the show? It bypasses the conscous goes straight to the feels. You would not realise it unless you were trying to decode it. Women are extremely good at communicating in code like this so they decode it at an unconscious level. If yeu watch closely you start to see this almost everywhere women commincate. Good writers just learnt how to put it into stories. Except today the need to hide it is disappearing so its becoming more explicit. Why was there a need to "hide it" in th…
/r/PurplePillDebate01/01/19 11:50 PM
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Every single TV show with a romantic element show's the red pill. Any writer worth their salt understands the red pill and writes their stories accordingly. The only concession to the blue pill is they lie about the most extreme detail so blue pillers don't get their fantasy destroyed. Eg in Friends at Ross's wedding Monica was originally going to hook up with Joey but ran into Chandler instead. Why would she be looking for Joey to hook up with all of a sudden out of the blue like that? Or was s…
/r/PurplePillDebate01/01/19 11:18 PM
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The issue is that men don't exist in large organised groups a lot of the time. Much of the time you're socially in a large unorganised group of people who don't know each other very well. Go to a party or a bar or a shopping center or university class and you have a large group of men who are relative strangers. There is no established social hierarchy and the group will not be together long enough for alliances and judgement of each man's character to form. Its just a group of strangers togethe…
/r/PurplePillDebate01/01/19 10:56 PM
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we don't have to compete with another civilization that figures out something productive to do with it's low status men. China is taking over the world. There hopefully will not be a war between the west and China. But their economic and trade dominance will leave the US behind over the next 20 years. But the US does not need to compete with China. It will likely just accept sliding into second place.
/r/PurplePillDebate01/01/19 10:34 PM
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Younger people have no idea how powerful internet porn is. Before the internet just getting hold of a single Playboy magazine was often a big deal. Almost to yeutg guys could just load up video porn in their bedroom. Between video games and porn there is not much need to go out into the real world and demand a fair share. The virtual world is better than reality is every going to be for most guys. If you're a low status guy you're never goitg to have sex as good as the porn you're jerking off to…
/r/PurplePillDebate01/01/19 10:29 PM
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Yeah, that's what feminism is. The idea that men hold all power and the only way to make anything happen is to change the opinion of powerful men. In a lot of ways that's all there is to it. Everything else is just temporary convinient details subject to change. The only consistent idea of feminism is that powerful men control everything and therefore getting their attention and persuading those men is all that matters. Feminism cannot acknowledge self agency or female power of any kind as it wo…
/r/PurplePillDebate01/01/19 11:57 AM
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I used to wonder why there were so many long time, high frequency female commenters on this sub. What the hell was it about this place that kept them hanging around? The answer was always so obvious I feel dumb for not realising it until today. Every time I feel there is nothing left to learn from the purple pill, it surprises/disappoints me by showing yet another deeper, disturbing level.
/r/PurplePillDebate01/01/19 10:11 AM
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Watch "Single White Female". That's just a glimpse.
/r/PurplePillDebate31/12/18 12:33 PM
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BPD is so difficult to deal with a significant number of psychiatrists refuse to treat BPD patients. And psychiatrists who treat BPD patients are sometimes recommended to have a backup thereapist keep on an eye on them to make sure their own mental health in case its damaging them. If its that difficult for professionals to deal with for an hour or two a week imagine how much worse for a naive guy who is in love with her? Its sometimes referred to as female sociopathy and with good reason. A wom…
/r/PurplePillDebate31/12/18 10:57 AM
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You've been emphatically arguing with me in this comment chain without realising that I actually agree with most of your perspective. That I agreed with you was quite clear if you had the capability to analyse my perspective rather than just my statements. You don't have that capability, yet. I'm nure you'll develop it, if you start trying to understand other people's mental perspectives. The best way to do this, or at least test if you can do it is to ask yourself this question "What will be th…
/r/PurplePillDebate30/12/18 08:36 PM
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Even if it did affect me my mood would stabilize later Yeah, in a few years. That's what he meant by the anger phase. You're angrily directing judgement at people describing the current world as if those people describing it also supports that. You need to get your head out of ass a bit. You've got a good understanding of the wider picture. But your ability to understand mental perspectives in your immediate environment is very limited. Especially your own. Someone who can see the big picture bu…
/r/PurplePillDebate30/12/18 07:57 PM
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He might share his sperm but thats about where it ends. That's the only thing those women want. If they have to work anyway then at least give them super babies from a genuine Chad. You have not seen how women react to a genuine high gene quality guy. They happily pay to keep him around with gifts, favours etc. Its the complete reverse of what yeu know dating to be. They do stuff for him. Not the other way around. And they don't give a crap that he's fucking other women. High earning women chase…
/r/PurplePillDebate30/12/18 10:11 AM
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I learnt the red pill watching intelligent, highly successful educated women. I have no interest in bars.
/r/PurplePillDebate30/12/18 08:56 AM
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, because sociopaths are on top, that is in direct opposition to nature Society was always like this. Its just every now and then in history the general public learn this and start copying them. You're in one of those times today. You can't stop the top from being sociopaths. But society unually kept that hidden and made everyone else play by the rules. Even ancient tribes were like this. An alpha chief who cucked his tribe.
/r/PurplePillDebate30/12/18 08:55 AM
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Yes, of course. You should have that conversation with one of them. "You see, you're not that picky. So this completely mysognist thing called The Red Pill is able to make you attracted to a man. I otoh, am very selective. Not better than you (although I totally am) just more selective. Totally not judging you, (although you are a slut who lets any man sleep with you so you deserve to get played by mysoginists) but that's why The Red Pill works on you and not me. But totally not judging."
/r/PurplePillDebate30/12/18 05:07 AM
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they settle for beta males There are things lower on the totem pole than a beta male. A beta get at at least some companionship/sex and a good chance at having his own children. The men below beta level get nothing.
/r/PurplePillDebate30/12/18 04:54 AM
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The most amazing thing about TRP is almost every single women is convinced it does not work on them. It only works on other women. Its the most consistent cognitive dissonance of any purple pill debate. Its why you can talk about TRP all you want in public forums. You don't hove to hide it. You can talk about it to women you're using it on and they'll still convince themselves itn not working on them. You can tell a women the red pill approaches you've used on other women and they'll still for i…
/r/PurplePillDebate30/12/18 01:40 AM
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oh no they’re not married they’re just playing marriage and please take GF of the loan. You seem to be implying the gf is a poor credit risk. He'll get the loan if she is not on it? Why wouldn't he just take the loan in his own name then? I think you're misunderstanding the reason the loan is denied if they're both on it and not married. The bank wants them married so they can stick him with the debt if she defaults. If she racks up a lot of debt after they are given the mortgage and cannot pay …
/r/PurplePillDebate30/12/18 01:26 AM
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I get your point but I think that group is partly due to selection bias. Because traditionally almost everyone gets married the only never married 35+ guys are the leftovers. The ones who were not good enough for any women to want. Are they unhappy because they're unmarried? or because they're unattractive and never got laid? I think its the latter. Things are changing and there seems to be a new wave of guys out there who could easily have gotten married but decided not to or their relationship…
/r/PurplePillDebate30/12/18 12:58 AM
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For educated people first time divorce rate is about 30%. 70% stay married. But look around at marriages. How many guys are genuinely happy in their marriage? From my experience working in educated jobs, about half. Probably less if you define happy to mean really happy and not just satisfied or ok. What guys see as they get older is this treadmill of guys who are in marriages and have no lives, don't seem to have any respect within their family, make no decisions, and live with women who clearl…
/r/PurplePillDebate29/12/18 11:42 PM
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I just want a life worth living for. Don't apologize for the negativity. If you want something worth living for find other quality men do something for one of them You sound like you don't want to be in this bitter cynical place. I think your problem might be that you don't believe any person is worth it. Start looking around you. About ten percent of guys are quailty men. You probably just don't know what they look like. You'll have to learn that by looking. Doing a favour for someone else (a g…
/r/MGTOW29/12/18 11:27 PM
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The defining quality of women who are attracted to TRP behaviors Part of swallowing the red pill is trying to find which women fall for it. Its really just the bargaining phase of acceptance. Over time you realise there are no exceptions and come to accept AWALT. But there is a long period of thinking its just "low self esteem women" or "manpiulative women". There's always an attempt to believe TRP only works on women who have some sort of failing of their own and are therefore not quality women…
/r/PurplePillDebate29/12/18 12:57 AM
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Height is a proxy for dominance. In the absence of any behaviour or social context to observe (eg when looking at tinder profiles) women use height to judge dominance. But once they see guys in a social context they'll understand where he is in the social hierarchy within minutes and rapidly discard his height as a factor if its not congruent with his status. A 6'6 guy who has submissive body language and gets pushed around by his peers will rapidly create disgust in women. But since most people…
/r/PurplePillDebate28/12/18 11:16 PM
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Lesbians are fine with it. Radfems are a different beast altogether. The messed up stuff they'll write about how every women is really not attracted to men and only think they are because the patriarchy forces them to believe it is something you have to read for yourself to believe anyone would think it.
/r/PurplePillDebate28/12/18 09:34 AM
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The decptive are themnelves ever mistrustful of others.
/r/PurplePillDebate28/12/18 09:30 AM
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but on the other hand they must realise that without anonymity they must likely wouldn't have any donor sperm to choose from at all. Briffalt's law, but applied to rules. Once the (anonymity) rule has served its purpose (to her) it no longer has any benefit to her and is therefore unnecessary going forward. The benefit to other women and people is meaningless (to her). I wonder if female sex tourism to scandinavia is or will be a thing. There are starting to be wealthy independent women in asia.…
/r/PurplePillDebate28/12/18 09:29 AM
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Stigma. Its more rewarding and meaningful to get it from an irl alpha. Going to a sperm bank is like saying you can't get an attractive man to fuck you. Also sperm cells have physical characterstics but no meaningful social status or identity. Yes you can know the career of the father but that's abstract rather tangible. You'll never know which doctor or lawyer he is. Which university he had a high gpa at etc. A sperm cell can't compete with the attractiveness of an irl man except for the small …
/r/PurplePillDebate28/12/18 08:34 AM
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They hate the high expectations that come with being a career woman. Not the women themself. Its unpleasant dealing with anyone who actively judges you negatively, but especially when that judgement comes from an unjustifiably inflated sense of their own attractiveness. To put it in a women's way of saying it, men hate the entitlement mentality that career women have in the dating world. Career women demand more than they deserve and get angry at anyone who tries to point it out to them.
/r/PurplePillDebate28/12/18 08:28 AM
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run if they found out she has a rap sheet, a kid, high interest credit card debt and an ex who's a felon No matter what class she's from they'll run from that. Seperate quality of person from class identifiers for your point to make sense.
/r/PurplePillDebate28/12/18 08:22 AM
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Tradcon is basically a pussy union. No marriage, no sex. It only works if almont everyone abides by it as even a modest number of women breaking the rules destroys the system (like any union). The reason is that if some women cheat then alpha's won't marry (since they're the ones who will be getting easy sex). That means all the women playing by the rules and holding out for marriage before sex are stuck with the left over men and miss out on the Chad's. Unless a tradcon/pussy union society can …
/r/PurplePillDebate28/12/18 08:08 AM
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the next wave are difficult to predict I'll make a bold prediction. Once male contraception becomes common women will push for financial abortions to be legal. Its the only way they will be able to get an alpha's genes and they would rather have that and be single raising the child themself.
/r/PurplePillDebate28/12/18 07:57 AM
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Its very hard to be monogamous once your count gets high. Enpecially monogamoun for the rest of your life. You can tell yourself that number 125 will be the last. Marry her and "know" that you'll die in 50 years only ever having sex with this one woman for the rest of your life. But you'll never know that for sure. Have you ever been with one woman for ten years straight? Can you be happy doing that? You don't know. You can't. How perfect does she have to be for you to be happy with her forever?…
/r/PurplePillDebate28/12/18 01:28 AM
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don’t believe our answers? A lot of people reacted by calling women crazy, children, saying this couldn’t possibly be true. Only one of those means they don't believe you. The other two believe you and are stating the negatve implications of that (to them.) Believing what you say is not the same as being on your side. A person can believe what you say, but still lose respect for you. Men treat believing someone and respecting them as different, seperate things. Women tend to treat who believes/a…
/r/PurplePillDebate28/12/18 01:07 AM
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Yeah big 5's defintion of openness and concientiousness is different to that.
/r/PurplePillDebate27/12/18 02:14 AM
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Never met a decent man who didn't have his heart broken by "that girl" when he was young. Congratulations. You've gone through a step to manhood. Find something else in your life to care about besides women. If everything you do in life is only to get women then your happiness is in strangers hands. Do something you want to do for you. If that phrase "for you" does not mean anything to you then you need to step back and understand yourself until you know what you are. You sound like you got a ho…
/r/PurplePillDebate27/12/18 12:51 AM
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You've got the big 5 - mbti conversion wrong ESTP is High extroversion Low openness Low agreeableness Low concientiousness
/r/PurplePillDebate27/12/18 12:33 AM
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You raise a really good point. But I think its easily answered by acknowledging humans have dual mating strategy. Level one: The top 5% of men select from all women for small number of women they wi? be committed to. At this level men are the selectors Level two: women who cannot secure committment from the top 5% choose from amongst the rest of men, (bottom 95%-80%). While leaving open the possibility of cuckoldry. In this level women are the selectors. (although still hoping to be selected cov…
/r/PurplePillDebate26/12/18 04:57 AM
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