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gbnz87/r/askTRP07/10/18 08:09 AM
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gbnz87/r/askTRP14/12/18 06:51 AM
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Sure they can still do things even if you break up in person but right now this girl is trying to contact him through multiple ways and its only a matter of time she contacts his friends or family to get his attention. I have no idea what OP actually texted to break up but she obviously thinks hes just angry and wants to win him back. ​ I am just speaking from experience as I broke up with a girl after 2 years over text when I was about 20 and she phoned my mother and invited her to come around …
/r/askTRP22/07/20 10:55 PM
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Did you read what I said. I said not to discuss feelings or anything really. You could give a short reasoning if you want but you don't have to discuss it. I'm sure after a year this girl will likely have access to your friends and family. You don't know what she might share with them or do and make your life a mess trying to get you to talk to them. I still feel breaking up in person (it only takes a couple of minutes) let's them know you are 100% serious and it is definite. Text is so imprecis…
/r/askTRP22/07/20 10:08 PM
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Did you read what I said. I said not to discuss feelings or anything really. You could give a short reasoning if you want but you don't have to discuss it. I'm sure after a year this girl will likely have access to your friends and family. You don't know what she might share with them or do and make your life a mess trying to get you to talk to them. I still feel breaking up in person (it only takes a couple of minutes) let's them know you are 100% serious and it is definite. Text is so imprecis…
/r/askTRP22/07/20 10:08 PM
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Its not about feelings but you are completely obliterating any frame you have. ​ Sure you probably wont see this person again but you may cross paths, have a mutual friends, family or who knows what else a emotional woman can do. There is nothing wrong with being civil. It also shows you actually mean it and its done. He said his phone is lighting up and shes trying everything to open communication again, chances are she wouldnt be doing that if he did it in person from my experience. ​ It will …
/r/askTRP22/07/20 01:18 PM
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Ending a 1 year relationship over text is pretty harsh. ​ Dont worry about breaking frame. Everyone does it from time to time you cant be perfect every second of the day. ​ I would said "do it then" and told her to dump me. I think shes just bluffing and testing. Girls usually dont say stuff like that in my experience. They just go and break up with you when they are done. I know you see stories of women hanging around in relationships being miserable and say they cant get out but ive yet to mee…
/r/askTRP22/07/20 11:33 AM
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Two things come to mind. She was working in a hospital during lockdown while I was at home with not much to do. I let her take a bit of control of when we would meet up and what we would do since I figured shed be exhausted and stressed from work as at the time it was really up in their air if they had PPE or not. Also during lockdown we agreed that we would go for walks together and not do any hand holding or close affection as she was really concerned with dealing with patients and not being p…
/r/askTRP16/07/20 11:48 PM
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So she is already with a guy?
/r/askTRP16/07/20 01:54 AM
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To truly change you have to hit rock bottom. You look like you are at that tipping point where you want to change. Its never going to be perfect, some weeks or days are easier than others. Pornography in particular gets easier to avoid over time. ​ I like to take a 3rd person look at the behaviour and just try and laugh that you really want to watch 2 other people have sex. ​ The no fap and no porn effects different people in different ways. For me I feel no fap in particular is essential. I pus…
/r/askTRP15/07/20 12:45 AM
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I think it's more so if you make her move house, move state, only have 1 car between the two of you, you give her more duties at home etc..etc.. where it gets more clear cut. The court doesn't know or care if the woman is lazy. If you hold her back in any way she has a right to claim it.
/r/TheRedPill11/07/20 12:45 PM
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I dont want to burst your bubble but getting matches on tinder is meaningless especially when you just start a fresh account. Try get these girls out on dates as much as you can and just treat it as a science experiment and you will figure out what works and what doesnt. It can take people many years to figure that out (heck im still figuring it out at 33) ​ Just think positive and grow. I just wish I was looking to learn and had good resources available to me when I was your age. Being tall and…
/r/askTRP11/07/20 04:11 AM
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My lawyer always tells me that the prenup is only useful for the first few years of the marriage. Where people fall down is if they prevent the woman from working or preventing their career from progressing or if kids get involved. Kids are usually what kills a prenuptual agreement. ​ Of course this depends where you are in the world but there are other things you can do to lock up your money
/r/TheRedPill11/07/20 04:05 AM
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Theres some great suggestions here but I think you should learn to look after yourself properly. Learn to cook, clean, wash clothes, home maintenance, car maintenance etc..etc.. ​ I really like making something elaborate on the weekends. For example last weekend I made a paella and some inside out cookies. I dont have anyone that ever wants to eat my cooking other than my parents but it do like the feeling of making something of similar quality that a chef would get paid to do.
/r/askTRP06/07/20 12:10 PM
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Its not just body language, the tone and intent of your voice is equally imporatnt. You have to be sure of what you are saying as you are having to show the woman you are a leader and know where you are going or where to go.
/r/seduction28/06/20 11:37 PM
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It is a double edged sword though. There are plenty of people that dont have great women in their social circles and that great women could just be walking by and you may miss it if you arent actively cold approaching. Ideally you should be cold approaching and trying to build your social circle at the same time. ​ Both approaches require a lot of luck in either crossing paths with the right girl at the right time or by getting the right girl in your social circle at somewhat the right time. Doi…
/r/TheRedPill28/06/20 12:38 PM
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I disagree. If I didnt start to cold approach in the last year I wouldnt of had a GF for 6 months nor a FWB with a girl visiting from Germany. ​ I would still be on sites like RSVP/eharmony paying to message girls and hoping that they either look like their photos/arent socially awkward or are attracted to me. I would probably get 1 date a month if I was lucky when I did online dating. I think a few rejections from cold approach is worth it in my opinion. It is also fantastic practice on how to …
/r/TheRedPill28/06/20 06:01 AM
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I remember reading an article that found that women tend to be attracted to men that are a few shades darker than them. As men historically have been out in the wilderness hunting, provding and proving themselves a bit of colour on their skin just shows that they are doing that. Women on the otherhand are back at the village raising the young and preparing food and foraging. Essentially most northern European women like men that are similar skin tone down to maybe a southern European with a ligh…
/r/seduction24/06/20 02:31 AM
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You could honestly not do it at all and just ask her out normally. ​ This is what ive been doing but it does result in a lot of flakes and getting told they have a partner. I want to get girls on dates to up my game any way I can. When I do get a good tease/flirt in the initial reaction it certainly makes a difference (you can see it in their eyes) ​ I know its definetely not me as Ive not really done it for 30 years but its an essential skill for a relationship and life.
/r/seduction23/06/20 11:51 AM
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Jogging no, if they are walking yes ​ I would only go up to them when they are resting or stretching.
/r/askTRP23/06/20 01:16 AM
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Yes and no. I completely agree you will be significantly better than where you were after you do 100-300 approaches. To say you are good or getting results is something else. There is a real art and skill with talking to women and most people that seek out these types of communites usually dont have these skills or it just doesnt come to them naturally. ​ I am a really late bloomer and really only started seeking out help when I was in my late 20's to early 30s. It has taken me a long time to tr…
/r/seduction23/06/20 01:09 AM
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There is no right or wrong answer here as each girl is different and it also depends how you presented yourself on your first interaction. A lot of girls get flakey if you just say "hi lets meet 6pm tuesday" from a cold approach, especially if you arent talking about doing that during your interaction. You need to demonstrate you are somewhat socially aware. Just one or two texts cant really hurt and I dont think it would destroy your frame. Dont send anything lengthy or more than one or two as …
/r/askTRP21/06/20 12:27 PM
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I am fairly direct myself but I dont think asking if they have a boyfriend is indirect. How would you do it if you were direct?
/r/seduction21/06/20 01:33 AM
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Are people out running or exercising? Outside fitness classes? in the park having a picnic? supermarket? coffee shops near work? ​ There are options if you can just go for a drive and find where people are. There are a few places in my city that are always popular with runners and walkers, ive struck up a couple of conversations in the area that most people hang out to stretch and warm up.
/r/seduction21/06/20 01:11 AM
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I usually browse through those relationship and dating subreddits to give advice since I do enjoy trying to help anyone (who is willing to listen) ​ It is just so sad that there are so many men out there that just stick like glue to the first women that says yes to them and show real needy nice guy behaviour. I really dont know how these men even get a woman to agree to date them in the first place considering how many shit tests some women have thrown at me over the years and still do. Im not s…
/r/TheRedPill17/06/20 10:50 AM
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Unless you are a actual celebrity or public figure how can you be canceled? I can barely get through to any companies to enquire about jobs or getting work. Heck its hard enough to get through to companies you want to buy something off. How is some nutter going to phone up and complain that I am leagally going out with someone 7 years younger than me. ​ I dont know anyone that I know or work with that would actually care either. Maybe its just being in engineering and it being more male dominate…
/r/TheRedPill16/06/20 12:45 AM
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Have you tallied up how many numbers for how many approaches youve done yet?
/r/seduction15/06/20 11:12 AM
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Its tricky, exposure is what works for me. I certainly display behaviours of putting a woman on a pedestal but in my mind I dont feel what im doing is wrong as I am just treating them with respect and how I would want to be treated. ​ Just keep going out with women and discover what they are really like. Everyone has flaws Your brain will just snap and you will realise that these women arent that special. It can take a while to get to this stage, I didnt until my early 30s (im a really late bloo…
/r/seduction13/06/20 01:35 AM
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I dont know one person who doesnt get emotional when you start talking politics. Sure I have a few friends who are usually on the same page but its surprising how they even start getting defensive, try use your words against you or just fling shit when they dont agree. ​ There really arent many people you can have a level headed discussion with these days. Politics is the new religion and no one is open minded to talk about anything without shit flinging.
/r/askTRP06/06/20 11:31 AM
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Good list but the dance classes are hit and miss. The good looking girls tend to not hang around long becuase they get hit on so much and quite often the women there can come on to you assuming you are a half decent dancer. My local dance scene over the past year has really gone from classes of nearly 2 girls to one guy to 15 guys and 2 girls. Even at the social after the classes it has been swamped with guys recently. I dont know how the scene will be after this pandemic (I cant see it returnin…
/r/seduction03/06/20 12:15 PM
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I never did it because I was shy. It just comes with time and you have to keep pushing yourself. If someone is truly beautiful to you why would you want to look away
/r/seduction26/05/20 10:53 PM
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Depending on where you are in the world this might be difficult for the time being. ​ Talk to people from work (maybe even change jobs if its an option for you) just to get you out mixing. Go the supermarket and talk with people there (distanced of course) ​ After everything settles down, just go do something which people do socially such as dancing, martial arts or maybe a language class. Ive met a few people from dance class and we just went out and did a marathon today. You just dont know unt…
/r/askTRP24/05/20 08:24 AM
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You just need to find something and you will. I never pushed career hard but I've always been all in on sport and health and fitness. I have gotten really into dancing and learning French after my basketball and indoor soccer teams disbanded. Even when I was 18-25 I was all in on video games. You don't have to be best in the world or it doesn't need to be a money making thing but just something that you look forward to and want to get better at. There is way too much pressure for everyone to fin…
/r/askTRP22/05/20 04:15 AM
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Live your own life and not what Rollo tells you to do. If you like the person and want to spend significant time with them do so. I do agree about not settling or marrying until you are over 30 as most people are still maturing and changing during their 20s and early 30s. There really isnt any reason that you cant have a LTR with someone though. If it works or it doesnt at the end of the day you will hopefully learn a lesson. ​ There are some things you learn from long term relationships and its…
/r/askTRP19/05/20 12:11 PM
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When I read Mcgregor I instantly thought of Ewan and thought someone is insane but Im thinking he definetely means Conor. ​ After seeing Ewans comments after Birds of Prey there is no saving him.
/r/askTRP17/05/20 02:08 AM
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Any particular reason you did a facetime date? Are you in area with stay at home? ​ If you could I would just push for a walking date at a bare minimum. Its easy to socially distance and just being with the person just improves your odds and you can learn a lot more as you can read body language. If things go well with a 20-30 minute walk just invite her to sit down on the grass with you and continue the conversation. ​ Also this is one of my issues with online dating is that girls that use thes…
/r/seduction12/05/20 11:44 AM
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I dont know how long you were together but someone breaking up over text just shows weak character. Even if you are in a place that has a stay at home order they could of waited or done a call or video call at bare minimum. Id see it as a red flag and it would be a pretty big turn off for me.
/r/askTRP10/05/20 02:05 AM
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Until you feel comfortable with them being the only girl you will romantically involved with (for potentially ever) ​ You should know after a few weeks if its someone that you want to spend significant time with
/r/seduction05/05/20 08:47 AM
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I think people over think timing of messages and what they should put in them. Respond when you want to, be geniune and push the interaction forward. If you want to respond in 5 minutes or 24 hours it really doesnt matter imo. Each girl will expect or like different things so there isnt a strategy that works with everyone.
/r/seduction05/05/20 08:34 AM
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It wasnt free. Its the Investopia technical analysis course. $299 if memory serves me right.
/r/seduction24/04/20 07:09 AM
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Im doing a course on the stock market on investopia and signed up to brilliant and doing logic puzzles there. ​ This time is weird, im really thinking about my career and im not sure what I want to do going forward. I graduated as a mechanical engineer (10 years ago) but I just feel like I want to do something fresh where im wide eyed and learning again. Im leaning towards something to do with the bulding industry but it seems to be gate keepered by lots of certification so I would quite possibl…
/r/seduction23/04/20 03:20 AM
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I would probably be better if you could mark posts with what type of advice you are giving or what type of seduction you are in to. ​ For example, the advice you give someone who is just wanting sex with lots of different women or someone who is looking for a long term girl who could be the mother of their child is completely different. There is a bit of overlap with the two mindsets but somoene wanting a long term girlfriend should not be using their energy to spin plates imo.
/r/seduction15/04/20 06:50 AM
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Every girl is different. Some like 100 messages a day and some are ok with 0 or 1. Some find just texting to meet up creepy and too direct while others really like it. You just have to judge it depending on the girl. ​ If the girl is active on dating apps, facebook, instagram etc..etc.. she will be getting a lot of attention from thirsty guys so I always like to give a mid week text just to put yourself back in their mind. A couple of check in texts along with being direct in what you want to do…
/r/seduction29/03/20 01:53 AM
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In my opinion it doesn't matter how attractive they are it's more so how long they've used the app. Tinder and online dating just makes everyone bitter over time as you have to go through a heap of really terrible people Less attractive girls get a lot more attention that more attractive girls online so they will get bitter more quickly.
/r/askTRP04/03/20 12:19 AM
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As someone who is more experienced now, subs like these are pretty awful. All the advice given over complicates things and the more I read the comments it makes me wonder if most people here have actually talked to a woman. ​ This sub does have its place if you do have a obvious sticking point that you need advice with but you need to learn as you go, find what works for you and go at your own pace. A woman can tell straight away if a guy isnt being himself or isnt comfortable doing what hes doi…
/r/seduction27/02/20 06:03 AM
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Strip clubs work a bit different where I am. You can't really just have conversations with anyone without throwing a heap of money at them. Speed dating and salsa dancing is what helped me the most. Every few minutes you have someone new in front of you and you can try again.
/r/seduction25/02/20 12:30 AM
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Also next time get the girls number and not her snapchat or whatever else she can block you on.
/r/seduction15/02/20 05:14 AM
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If they are under 25 I find that they have an issue if you are over 30, if they are over 25 it doesn't really matter. Anything within 5-8 years is pretty good imo. Anything more and you will have to be really on top of your game to attract and keep that girl around.
/r/askTRP14/02/20 05:19 AM
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It happens to me all the time, its always takes me a while to feel comfortable around new people. Its far more evident on a date when you are looking to spend 30-60 minutes talking over a drink. Not everyone is compatible and it can come from either side. Men reject women all the time so Im not sure why you say you never see it. They might not use the word "chemistry" and just say they didnt like her or something like that.
/r/seduction02/02/20 05:22 AM
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Just get out there and practice on people. Its the only way to learn. Its all well and good having some lines you can say when a girl says something etc..etc.. but in the real world you cant control how they react or answer a question. You have to learn on the fly and the first dozen or more times you talk to a girl you will go totally blank and get overwhelmed and forget everything you planned to say. ​ Just keep doing it over and over, there is no short cut. student doesnt become a doctor over…
/r/seduction28/01/20 05:25 AM
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Just google top 10 signals a girl gives off or something along those lines. Most of those things are somewhat accurate. Dont go looking for them as a sign to approach as 90% of women dont actually show any signals unless you take action (as that is something that they are really attracted to) ​ Also you probably wont notice them for quite a while until you get comfortable talking to women as you have a lot of stuff going through your head when you first start trying to build your social skills. …
/r/seduction11/01/20 02:35 AM
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Im confused. You are saying going out purely to cold approach is not good for your head and you didnt get the results you wanted but now when you approach girls when you are on the bus or whatever you do get results? Were you talking to people on the bus before doing these cold approaches? Did you have success with it before? I think cold approaching has more than likely done more for yourself than you think. Just because you didnt get the results you wanted (I have no idea how long you did it f…
/r/seduction09/01/20 12:56 PM
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Experience. ​ Of course there are plenty of signals that a girl can give off if shes interested but how to capitilise on them is just from experience. There is no one line you can say when you get eye contact and you shouldnt look for that as every situation is different and that line wont work every time. Seduction is such an inexact science as every person is different and wants different things and to go at different speeds. You can only learn this from experience and failing/winning over and…
/r/seduction07/01/20 02:12 AM
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None of you need coaching or to buy more products. ​ I disagree here. I do agree with you that most of the coaches are a load of BS and essentailly snake oil salesman trying to get a few bucks out of desperate men. But these coaches do have their place and can really help a lot of men as a lot as this stuff does not come naturally to them. I for example am a really late bloomer (I was really shy and quiet for most of my life) just simple socialising and how to talk to a girl has taken me a long …
/r/seduction07/01/20 02:05 AM
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While I do think you are correct on the otherhand women are getting far less interaction in real life which makes a man that does do things the more old fashioned way far more valuable in their eyes. A lot of girls dont see online options as real unless they actually end up meeting the guy in person. ​ The only thing ive noticed is that younger women are just awful at holding a conversation with a stranger. They have no idea how to follow leads and keep it flowing. Also the lack of men approachi…
/r/askTRP21/12/19 06:18 AM
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What's the typical alpha to you? Not all guys are the same and not all alphas are the star qb jocks for their high school teams. ​ Its more so that here and in other RP communities its a fairly common belief that if you start doing weights and act like you dont give a fuck about anything, women will flock to you. The typical jock style guy is held on a pedastal by a lot of people here. There is a lot more to it than that.
/r/askTRP11/12/19 11:25 PM
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I take slight issue with the wall and how supposedly when women hit the wall they just grab any beta boy they can. I take it more as a sign of maturity and them realising what actually would make them happy rather than girls suddenly being desperate for anything when they hit their mid to late 20s. Ive met plenty of young girls in their prime that arent chasing your typical alpha male. I really do think its just maturity with relationships and being able to recorgnise warning signs of a guy who …
/r/askTRP11/12/19 01:37 AM
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Also with being hit on and chased constantly by guys attractive girls dont have to work on themselves to get what they want. A girl with less attractive qualities will probably work harder so she does make a good impression when an opportunity does come her way.
/r/seduction30/11/19 11:38 AM
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Can be lots of little things. No one understands women and you cant as each person is different. You might show too much interest, you might show too little. You might not be spiking their interest enough (I struggle like crazy with this at times) ​ You can only find out what works for your personality with experience. Just keep trying different things and eventually you will turn into something that the majority of women are into.
/r/seduction23/11/19 02:18 AM
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I do know what you mean about men exaggerating but I do know for certain the number was quite high that night my friend was counting women in groups so he really wanted to got 100. This friend of mine took it as a sign of pride so we just kept approaching who was in and out of this club over the night (well I did the approaches and he stood behind me like a puppet)
/r/seduction21/11/19 10:26 PM
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I've got a lot of areas to improve but I can at least get a few numbers or good conversations with cold approach
/r/seduction21/11/19 10:15 PM
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You get that with approach (no matter where you do it) If you get the girl at the wrong time or wrong mindset it can be quite difficult. A few weeks ago I had some girl just say "dont talk to me" and shoulder bumped me as she walked past. ​ I always feel that the guys that give up on approach probably have had 1-2 bad experiences like this at the beggining and theyve just come to the conclusion that women are just like that. Heck when I turned 18 I approached about 50 women the first night I wen…
/r/seduction21/11/19 01:24 AM
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Just take that and use it to make yourself more confident. A lot of girls encourage action like this. ​ There can be 100s of reasons why she doesnt want to continue so dont dwell on that and just keep going until you find someone who is ready for you.
/r/seduction19/11/19 08:45 AM
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Even though it might not be the right thing to do or legal depending on where you are. I recommend recording your interactions or getting a friend to film it from a distance. You might just notice what you can fix and improve everything. ​ You can also ask them where you went wrong if you get rejected. Just be honest, say you are learning and you often get some decent feedback. Ive done this quite a few times and its helped me. ​ Also if you are new to this it just takes time.
/r/seduction17/11/19 10:45 PM
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I agree with this. After I got my degree I started working for a smaller company. I pretty much doubling as the secretary on the front desk (most people I know would of left the job then and there) ​ Even though I was still essentially a mute introvert at that time it did get me talking to people and having to learn chit chat. I appreciate that quite a lot when I look back at it. I dont know where id be today if I took some more glamorous job for a big company where you have your own private wor…
/r/seduction17/11/19 10:36 PM
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Strange I always get girls encouraging me and quite a lot of them say that theyve never had someone approach them like this before. I get the opposite reaction when I go to a bar though. ​ I know this has been said times and times again but really, do join a club, start doing a sport. I really dont like this. I tried this for a long time doing french and cooking classes and all the classes were generally full of retirees. There was one class with a girl around my age and she was learning french …
/r/seduction14/11/19 03:28 AM
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Yeah it makes me want to unsub. The community really has changed from a basis of self improvement and accepting womens motivations to now asking for tips on how to sleep with girls that work in a club.
/r/TheRedPill01/11/19 02:08 AM
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​ I should point out that this probably only works on certain personality types. I assume more bold, extroverted women will be turned off by the non-alphaness of the opener. Each person is different and you cant be perfect for everybody, you can only control so much. I dont feel its beta at all, I usually say "this is may be really forward" or "I know this is out of the ordinary" or something along those lines before giving them a compliment.
/r/seduction29/10/19 12:56 AM
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> Unlike nightgame, phone numbers in daygame mean something ​ I somewhat disagree here. Daygame also gets a lot of flakes as you are doing something that isnt the social norm and it takes a lot of guts for a girl to meet up with someone like that especially if they only know you through a simple 5-10 minute conversation. It can be difficult to get them comfortable enough in that time frame. I find some girls just give out a number as a way to get rid of you day or night.
/r/seduction27/10/19 10:46 PM
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Sex is a natural thing. Everyone knows how to do it adequetely through instinct alone ​ Dont overthink it as something more or as something that requires skill or your lack of experience will make it bad for you or her. Also everyones first times together can be a bit awkward until you find out what they like and you learn about each other.
/r/seduction27/10/19 10:37 PM
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She's flaked twice so I don't think shes interested or really knows what she wants. She sounds immature so I'd just move on
/r/seduction19/10/19 01:10 PM
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I used to care at first but now I don't really care. I'd prefer it if they got a chuckle out of it or it made their day.
/r/seduction19/10/19 01:04 PM
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"hey, I see you catching the bus with me all the time so I figured I'd come introduce myself" and now you can shake their hand. You can even be more direct and say that you find them cute as well if you are confident enough. After the introduction you can make an assumption of what they are studying from how they look or what they are wearing or you could comment on anything else you find interesting about her (maybe she's often reading a book) or you could critique their handshake. You have ple…
/r/seduction18/10/19 02:35 PM
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Yeah exactly, being too slick and perfect in every interaction can also hurt you as well. If a girl likes you they tend to look past any early awkwardness.
/r/seduction17/10/19 03:37 AM
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Im not an expert and often fall flat on my face. It is essentially just trial and error. You are looking at guys having success but you arent seeing them get rejected by 5 girls earlier when they say the same thing. Every girl is different and there isnt one line that will suddenly make a girl melt. Its more important how you react after you say something than what you say imo. If you say it with the wrong facial expression and its not leading from previous conversation than it can be a bit awkw…
/r/seduction15/10/19 02:52 AM
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She was 8 years younger than me
/r/seduction08/10/19 03:35 PM
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Depends on how they say it, if they are genuinely curious just say its "Not my thing" or "it takes more than it gives" which can lead into a few other things to talk about. If they say it in a condesending tone just throw it right back at them and ask "why do you use social media?" depending on how awful their response is you can decide to keep poking the beehive if you want.
/r/askTRP15/09/19 10:30 PM
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There's never a perfect opportunity to approach and there will always be a high chance of rejection. If you go in with the mindset of rejection than that will likely be the result you will find. I would really focus on changing that mindset and unfortunately the only way to do that is by having a few small wins and they will come from practice and persistence. Approaching just like exercising takes time for you to be comfortable with it. The sooner you start the sooner you start to see results. …
/r/askTRP15/09/19 11:10 AM
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The best way to get over it is to just get experience. Women learn this really early on as they tend to get their heart broken by their first or second boyfriends. The more girls that let you down for your behaviour the quicker you learn not to do that to the next girl. Also once you hit your late 20s maybe 30s life experience catches up and you just doesnt get you excited for things like you once did. Ive watched so many movies, read so many books, played so many video games that ive been so hy…
/r/seduction11/09/19 01:14 PM
2

Being good in bed doesn't really have much to do with penis size. Unless you are on the outer edges of the bell curve I don't think it matters an awful lot. For a woman to see your penis she'd have to be really into you so it's not really going to be a deal breaker that you are a bit smaller or bigger as long as you satisfy her.
/r/seduction10/09/19 10:12 AM
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Direct definetely wastes less time but if you are just saying they look attractive and get their number like you suggest isnt going to get any results imo. ​ You have to say they are attractive, make a statement or ask a question, make some small talk and then ask if they can join you later for something else. You need some small talk just so that they can be comfortable that you are a decent human being before they take the risk of going out to meet you. ​ If you are direct they let you know st…
/r/TheRedPill09/09/19 04:30 AM
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Talking to a lot of women. ​ Once you get a few positive reactions it just snowballs from there.
/r/askTRP09/09/19 04:25 AM
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> Dont assume that just because you've been on six dates and had swx four times that you're in a relationship. ​ This is a huge one for me. Its just taken so long to sink into my head and learn. Its just so easy to assume everyone thinks of relationships in a similar way to myself and I am always optimistic when I meet someone and have good chemistry.
/r/seduction07/09/19 02:16 AM
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This so much. They don't show where they stumble, fail and how many approaches they do before they find one that is worthy of upload. It's such a horrible metric to compare yourself with as it's easy to think you did everything wrong when you aren't over the top entertaining and have the girl swooning for you.
/r/TheRedPill28/08/19 04:57 AM
3

I never get the nice guy thing. I always feel its your agreeableness which is generally a feminine trait. Nice guys and agreeable guys quite often are in the same boat. ​ Dont say you like something you dont and if you disagree than disagree with her. You dont need to find things you disgree with her on just only when it comes up. A woman will at least respect you if you stand up for what you believe.
/r/seduction28/08/19 03:07 AM
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It is, the girl has to be in the right frame of mind otherwise you aren't going anywhere no matter how good your game is. The thing is you get more of those opportunities if you put yourself out there and you are the best person you can be. You need to be ready when any opportunity presents itself. The worst thing you can do is wait around for this lucky opportunity, make your own luck.
/r/TheRedPill28/08/19 12:25 AM
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I think all a guy needs to get into it is just 1 or 2 postive reactions. Once you get a good reaction you know you are on the right track and doing the right thing. The hard part is that when you do your first few interactions you are likely to be nervous and not as confident so you probably will think why am I doing this and this can never work. As for the first approach it just takes balls and guts. Once you do those first 2 or 3 approaches and realise that girls don't bite and the worst that …
/r/seduction24/08/19 10:27 PM
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That is part of cold approaching. You will get women that flake it's just part of life and you need to not take it personally. You should have a few questions or things you can say to spark conversation or interest. You need to reflect a lot and figure out what works and what doesn't. If you are getting ghosted you need to figure out why. Maybe you aren't leaving the impression you thought you were, maybe the girl is creeped out. I'd suggest recording or getting someone to film your interactions…
/r/askTRP21/08/19 11:07 PM
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Dont have a checklist of things you have to say or do. This is the problem with reading and watching too many videos on pickup as you over think and just try to be someone you arent and make a mess of it. If you go in with a set plan and the girl doesnt react or answer the way you want you are often left with egg on your face. ​ You should be yourself with the volume turned up to 10 to highlight your qualities.
/r/askTRP20/08/19 02:33 AM
2

It is and it isnt. Theres a big risk with a girl meeting a guy that theyve met online. Some girls can be pretty cautious about you until they meet you in person especially if they are new to it. Theres also the chance she could be unsure of you or could very well just be a time waster. ​ I wouldnt invest a heap of time into it but if shes still responding just id go through some of the basics. You can always ask them again when you are on the date or clarify them.
/r/askTRP20/08/19 02:29 AM
1

This and ask the barman to squeeze a lime in it. I don't drink either but if I get that it keeps most people off my back.
/r/askTRP18/08/19 03:46 AM
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There are different levels of introversion and extroversion and you are right that it has nothing to do with social awkwardness. It's very difficult to be the life of the party when socialising is so draining as an introvert. I'm not using it as an excuse not to talk to people and saying it can't be done. Just a different approach or strategy might be better for those people. Everyone has different strengths and weaknesses when socialising. So you need to focus on what works for you, there isn't…
/r/seduction15/08/19 09:16 AM
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I can see what you are trying to say but most of this wont work for an introverted person. Only extreme extroverts will be able to introduce groups of strangers to each other and bringing more strangers into a group of strangers. ​ I dont feel like it works in reality as getting two random groups to suddenly start talking or socialising is pretty difficult no matter how much energy you are giving off.
/r/seduction15/08/19 05:30 AM
2

Everyone takes the red pill message differently. Some use it to self improve and understand women's motivations, others just use it as an excuse to be a narcissist asshole and there are some that even appear to be incel or mgtow by their comments. There isn't a right and wrong answer and you should really care and you should follow your path and not what some small subreddit suggests (of course use the advice and constantly look to self improve your actions) All that matters is that you are sati…
/r/askTRP29/07/19 11:49 PM
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Every guy wants different things. There are supposedly 16 (or more or less depending on which book you read) each of these personalities has different strengths and weaknesses and want different things in life. Some want emotional connection others just want sex. Redpill, seduction or whatever is just a path to getting what you want. Don't treat what these books say as religion like some people here do, just take the advice on board and do what gives you the results you want. There's nothing wro…
/r/askTRP29/07/19 01:22 AM
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There are actually quite a few reasons. Every guy is attracted to a different type of girl. The types of girls that friends have gone for I consider to be a 3-5/10 while they go head over heels for them. I dont like the Kim Kardashian looks that a lot of girls have these days but many guys love that. On the otherhand I like pale girls and dont mind red heads while ive had friends look at them with disgust. ​ When going for a long term relationship values are what is important. You are probably g…
/r/askTRP28/07/19 12:26 AM
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Everyones definition of a hot girl is different. He feels like hes punched above his weight which is fantastic for him. When I read the story I felt good about it. ​ If it happened or not or hes a marketer we will never know.
/r/seduction25/07/19 10:20 PM
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If you have no problem approaching than go ahead and give it a try. You will get a few questions on who you are there with when you talk to some girls so just have a good answer ready. I've done it a few times with mixed results its always much easier if you have someone there to distract the others in the group.
/r/askTRP18/07/19 12:39 AM
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That's what you get from ghosting. Man up and end things properly in the first place and you don't need to worry. If it's under 3 to 5 dates you can easily get away with doing a simple text message. As you've learned you never know when or where you are going to meet or need these people in the future so it's pointless just taking the easy way out and ghosting that person. If there is a chance to end on better terms with little effort, I feel you should take it. I just really dislike ghosting or…
/r/askTRP16/07/19 10:19 AM
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You can only tell the people on the extreme left or right. 95% of the population which sits in the middle its pretty hard to distinguish. ​ Dont paint everyone with the same brush as you are just limiting yourself to potentially great women. Just because she has blue hair it does not mean she is one of those soul sucking PC femminists. She might just really love anime for all we know.
/r/askTRP12/07/19 06:38 AM
2

You do realize that these shy girls jump on a right dick right away without second dates, don't you? ​ They might, they might not, who knows and who cares. Just because I dont sleep with someone on the first date it isnt a failure. Not many women actually do it, you need some really perfect circumstances and its very unlikely that they are shy if they go through with it. ​ Anyway Im just kinda disappointed that reading people is not a perfect skill. I feel like I really enjoy and find it interes…
/r/seduction04/07/19 10:58 AM
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Im a lot more patient with shy girls. I was a really shy person up to my mid 20s so I know what it can be like to be sitting there worried about expressing myself. It really depends how interesting they are as a shy girl will eventually open up.
/r/seduction04/07/19 08:56 AM
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You cant control if they complain so dont worry about that. ​ You dont have to be pushy at all, just move forward assuming attraction. If she doesnt take any advances (such as touch or trying to hold their hand) after a couple of dates its pretty obvious they arent going to change any time soon. If they dont like you they will more than likely ghost you or keep putting off meeting up.
/r/seduction04/07/19 08:35 AM
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The 20% of guys are the ones that actually make moves. The ones that actually flirt, approach or be bold. The others just dont do these things
/r/askTRP04/07/19 08:14 AM
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Its hard and its not just shy girls. Every girl has their quirks and each girl shows attraction in different ways. A girl that my mum wanted me to date many years ago used to tell her that shed go into coffee shops and just keep looking upwards at the roof or the sky (I have no idea how this is meant to let someone know they want to be approached) ​ If there was a clear cut way of knowing we all wouldnt be here. Its just part of dating.
/r/seduction04/07/19 08:12 AM
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There are plenty of good reasons already listed but if your pictures look like you value health and fitness when they dont it will be a turn off for them. Most people fat or skinny are lazy as fuck and dont do either nothing or the absolute bare minimum when it comes to fitness.
/r/seduction29/06/19 10:21 PM
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Not having Facebook is handy sometimes. I get asked what my profile is because they cant find me. It lets me know theyve looked at me and it is a sign of interest. ​ I think you sound like an introvert like myself and just like to keep to yourself and there is nothing wrong with that. If you can explain why you dont use these services clearly they should respect that. I think social media is great if you are an extrovert. ​ Also the majority of people out there only get a handful of likes on the…
/r/askTRP13/06/19 10:51 PM
2

It depends what you like to do. For example if you go out often to bars and such with friends you shouldn't have any problem. I don't so I have made myself do day game and just spend a hour a week approaching women in the city (I have been extremely lazy the past month though and not done many approaches) You can always do an activity and meet women that way (dancing can be really good for this) I also started to learn French hoping to meet people but unfortunately all the classes I took were fu…
/r/askTRP10/06/19 03:39 AM
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I think it's your attitude is a huge problem, you are going in expecting to be let down. You are also painting women with a brush that they have all been with several guys before you have even said hello to them. If you go out looking for shit or bad things to happen they will. Be positive, improve your vibe and don't think that every girl is in the same mould. There are plenty of decent girls out there no matter what country you are in. Also I used to find a lot of women rude and unresponsive b…
/r/askTRP04/06/19 10:22 AM
1

All the stats show the number is actually quite low. Of course there are exceptions for both of the sexes but the majority would be less than 5.
/r/askTRP03/06/19 05:22 AM
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they both have natural, low levels of caffeine, not high enough to cause a psychological addiction to it or affect your mood/sleep ​ Green tea is usually 1/2 to a 1/4 the caffeine to a cup of coffee depending on how it is made. Also some things like Matcha have a lot more caffeine and you just have to guess what you get at your local coffee shop if its not a tea bag. ​ Its a better alternative but there is still likely enough to keep someone strung along. Its probably enough to make me be needin…
/r/seduction23/05/19 06:56 AM
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Yes and no. Some people just need to turn up the volume on their personality or have the right vibe or mindset. Being false may get you some short term relationships or a ons but long term you will eventually have to show yourself for who you are and so will they. Being confident in who you are and your personality are what it's really meant to be.
/r/seduction17/05/19 12:15 AM
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Id recommend getting a friend to record you doing a few approaches and if you dont have anyone to do that maybe just put your phone on record in your pocket before you approach. Just listen back or watch back what you do as you might be doing something that isnt so obvious to yourself in the moment (for example I dont smile enough or I talk with zero emotion and I sound boring) You just need to keep trying but I think you need a good review of what you are doing and hopefully you can find a coup…
/r/seduction05/05/19 03:38 AM
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I came in to say something along these lines but the post had nothing to do with the title.
/r/TheRedPill01/05/19 04:17 AM
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Go speed dating or online dating and you see them all. ​ Women who once had a high value take a long time to realise that their value drops really fast. They often dont have any skills or personality as their looks have got them to this point.
/r/TheRedPill28/04/19 01:11 PM
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Theres two ways this can go. ​ You either stay home and stay as you are ​ Or you go out and because you dont have a good positive vibe you will likely not do well with women and will likely end up going home miserable. ​ I dont know what your mindset is like so its way too difficult to say.
/r/askTRP27/04/19 08:48 AM
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I quite liked that video. Just wish I watched it earlier this morning to encourage me to talk to more people. I was just wandering around the city for about a hour and only ended up only talking to 2 people
/r/seduction27/04/19 07:25 AM
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You talk to them, ask them, flirt and see how they respond etc..etc.. People don't walk around smiling when they don't want to be talked to. You never know until you ask
/r/seduction21/04/19 07:42 AM
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Exactly this. ​ Its also worth reading this article: https://www.theatlantic.com/magazine/archive/2018/12/the-sex-recession/573949/ ​ 300 swipes on average needed to get a conversation. In real life it just takes a bit of courage to get a conversation. Tinder isnt worth the effort imo, especially when you meet these women and they dont resemble their photos what so ever.
/r/askTRP20/04/19 12:00 AM
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The meat is going up and being bold and brave. All the little conversation tweaks and your attitude are just like salt and pepper on that steak. Body language is what people see first in an interaction, what you say doesn't really matter up until a point. A lot of people over analyse what they do and say and don't realise that every girl is different and your conversation set or attitude will never work for everybody. You have to adjust on the fly.
/r/seduction18/04/19 11:48 PM
1

From the very limited story he's told I don't see him as demanding? Instead being insulting let me know why
/r/askTRP12/04/19 05:10 AM
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Is there any reason she would text that? From your story you don't seem to have done anything to treat her like a dog or anything badly. Seems a little bit out of the blue. She is either crazy or there is something else. I would ignore, text about something else and just make sure she meets up with you on Saturday.
/r/askTRP12/04/19 01:15 AM
2

I usually ask how they met and that usually gives you a good indicator if they want you to leave or not.
/r/TheRedPill05/04/19 11:59 PM
2

A lot of people use red pill as a reason that they can be an asshole to women and other people. Most of what you see online is just guys looking for ways to trick women into being with them and that really isnt what it is meant to be about. Its very easy to misinterpret what this community is meant to be from the outside and most of the people here dont help that image.
/r/askTRP05/04/19 11:52 PM
3

Everyone does, lots of men and women all claim to have anxiety issues. It's just a shroud they can use to not do anything they don't want to or something that is uncomfortable. They take tablets or do anything to hide any negative feelings. It's just a shame as there are people out there that have genuine issues but all these people just make up symptoms just because they want to feel good 24/7
/r/askTRP26/03/19 12:27 AM
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If they don't respond promptly they aren't that interested in you. I'm guessing these same people you are describing are always on their phones when you meet them in person. It's just a signal that the person on their phone is more important than you. If you know anyone like that I wouldn't put as much effort into a relationship with them (friend or partner) I do get that people can be busy but if you don't get a response for a day and it's always something where you have to text back and forwar…
/r/askTRP14/03/19 01:28 AM
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It's hard to say, she might want you as an orbiter or she might not be happy with her boyfriend and want to upgrade or she might be saying this as a way of rejecting you. It could be a lot of things. I'm leaning towards rejection as you don't just meet someone and become boyfriend girlfriend overnight.
/r/askTRP14/03/19 12:57 AM
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Without seeing you I would say its something to do with your body language, tone or mindset. ​ I used to scare a lot of women, people thought I was angry and aggressive all the time. I was just having a casual conversation with one of my ex's friends and she kept telling me to calm down and I started to see genuine fear in her eyes, so I know how it feels. I personally find if my vibe is right I dont have as many issues like this. Its quite hard to explain but since ive adopted a more positive m…
/r/seduction13/03/19 01:56 AM
1

Good luck, just dont treat it like a formula or plan out too much as every person is different and likes to go at a different pace with each guy. A girl that I may have to work with for 5 weeks might sleep with you on the first night and vice versa. You just need to play it by ear. Just make sure that if you do go for a touch or kiss and she pulls back do not appolagise and change your frame. Ive been doing this for a while and I still often get signals mixed up with some women just dont let a s…
/r/askTRP13/03/19 01:39 AM
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Completely disregard people saying they take girls home without even touching her. Getting a girl like that is like winning the lottery (its a pretty small chance, maybe once in a life time) Also take most success stories with a grain of salt as guys always exaggerate how good they are with women. ​ For most guys you might need to have 2-3 coffee dates or you might need 5-6 depending on how open and receptive the girl is. Generally you have to cross the touch barrier and than the kiss barrier an…
/r/askTRP13/03/19 12:47 AM
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Its a form of anxiety in that you need to know everything now. Its how things are with our modern conveniences, you can not wait to find out more information. Pre internet you had to wait to meet someone to collect more information, now its just at our fingertips and we will not be rejected for asking about it. If I had to guess you probably do this behavior for everything i.e. if someone asks you the name of a restaurant near by im sure you'd google it. ​ The only way out of it is to realise th…
/r/askTRP13/03/19 12:39 AM
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Some people are far too sheltered and havent had any one tell them no or had any repercussions for their actions. Most women like this tend to get miserable if people dont do or act as they say, some of the more confident ones get aggressive to get what they want. ​ They will inevitability get hit by a man who retaliates and it will end quite badly for them.
/r/askTRP12/03/19 05:29 AM
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I don't know if there's anything I could say. If I didn't hit rock bottom I'd likely not change or learned a few important lessons. It would be nice if I started working on my social skills earlier but I really doubt I would of done anything about it at that time. I was really undisciplined. If I went back and told myself not to play world of warcraft I really doubt it would of stopped me. It's just too difficult to say where or who I would of been if I didn't do some things. No matter what path…
/r/askTRP11/03/19 10:40 AM
1

In your mind you have a scenario playing out in your head that you just rip each other clothes off and do it. All you have to do is express those feelings to the girl but just don't just say "let's fuck" you have to be subtle and let her use her imagination. I wouldn't memorise lines but just try and lead the conversation to sex when you see a chance to. It takes practice to be good at it but just express whatever your mind wants.
/r/askTRP09/03/19 01:04 AM
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Who cares what your experiences have been, as long as they are important to you that is all that matters. Having sex or going to a party does not make you an interesting person (remember men especially exaggerate how many women or how well they do with women. I have a friend who often tells a story about how he had a girl draped across the bonnet of his car but I was there when it happened and it was just some drunk girl passed out on his car when we got there, we just moved her on and went home…
/r/askTRP07/03/19 02:59 AM
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Involuntary celibate. People who blame women for all their problems rather than themselves. It's just my observation that there is a lot of anti women sentiment here as of late. It's easy to fall into that trap when you find out women's goals and motivations but you just have to accept it and move on and control what you can and take it to your advantage.
/r/askTRP06/03/19 02:45 AM
4

Id say womens perfume would be a good substitute for essential oils. You might come across that common scent when you need it most.
/r/seduction06/03/19 01:47 AM
2

Try a sleepy tea. They dont make you fall to sleep but they do relax you and put you into the mood. ​ Try a Shakti mat. Something about blood rushing to your back can tire you out. ​ Cut electronics 2 hours before bed. Have a shower and read a book for a hour. Maybe listen to the radio or a podcast. ​ Listen to white noise when trying to sleep (never worked for me but it does for some) ​ Minimise caffeine as much as possible. I only have some in the morning if I have anything important that day.…
/r/askTRP06/03/19 01:39 AM
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> it used to be filled with really good content like how to find your passion in life, how to work on your goals and why you should take care of yourself it still is for a lot of us. Its just that people are using redpill as an excuse to be an asshole these days. Id actually like to go back if I get time and compare the types of popular advice that is given out as I feel it leans more incel these days.
/r/askTRP06/03/19 01:29 AM
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As an introvert I don't often do it as I don't like drawing attention. It can also depend on how your parents are. If they didn't display their affection to each other than you are likely to be the same. Even how your friends react can influence how you would. People from western countries like the UK are usually pretty reserved when showing affection in public, doing the opposite to social norms usually takes a lot of balls.
/r/askTRP04/03/19 07:37 AM
2

I find most areas have a shortage of guys. I went to the socials even when I only knew how to give the woman a right turn. I ended up having them line up to dance with me (I assume because I spend more time talking than dancing with them) Its a really strange experience. ​ As for the dance though its actually quite fun and it feels great leading a woman around. Ive always been fascinated with pro wrestling growing up and a dance feels like stringing a match together. You have to be creative and …
/r/askTRP02/03/19 03:48 AM
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Have you talked to the girl you danced with? Id talk with her and if she is fine (which I assume she would be) then talk to the organisers. ​ I go to a lot of dance events and have never heard of anything like that happening. Girls line up to dance with a strong masculine guy who can lead. ​ I wouldnt jump to legal action unless this guy starts invading your work life, harasses your girlfriend or prevents you from doing what you do.
/r/askTRP28/02/19 05:51 AM
1

In my opinion job does not matter as much as people make out. I'm an mechanical engineer which most women don't know what it is and even trying to explain it most people think I'm a welder or a car mechanic. The term engineer is so watered down these days. I also work for myself so I'm essentially an entrepreneur and most people just instantly think I'm just sitting around doing nothing all day and make my own hours. No matter what you do no one will understand your profession or how much work y…
/r/askTRP25/02/19 12:32 AM
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Not everyone is perfect for every type situation. You have to find your strengths and weaknesses and focus on them. I for example am pretty quiet and reserved in group settings and prefer to let anyone else take the lead in the conversation. One on one though I do really well and connect better with people. You just have to try and configure the situation to suit your strengths. Eg. at a work lunch with 30 people, sit at one end of the table and try to connect with the one or two people you are …
/r/askTRP20/02/19 08:36 AM
1

Depends on the girl obviously and the topic of conversation. I'm happy to chat to anyone that's interesting or I can learn anything from. I do enjoy just cuddling from time to time.
/r/askTRP17/02/19 01:57 AM
1

I don't think the game teaches you anything. It's more a story about the lifestyle and how you can be the best pickup guy in the world but be hopeless at relationships. It's a nice story with a theme that goes over most of its readers heads. There are much better places to start imo.
/r/seduction16/02/19 11:36 PM
2

Kindle Oasis. Its expensive for a kindle but it is light and comfortable to hold for long periods of reading. I often lose focus after 20-30 minutes of reading but with the Kindle im doing much better. ​ Good pots/pans/utensils/food scales etc..etc.. has really got my diet on point. ​ Im considering buying a soldering iron and some electronics kits because I loved doing that in highschool. ​ ​
/r/askTRP16/02/19 12:09 AM
1

TRP isn't an excuse to be an asshole. If it's an open relationship no problem but it sounded like he was exclusive with this girl for 3 months
/r/askTRP15/02/19 11:34 PM
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It was either uncomfortable or it brought up a bad memory for her. More likely a bad memory but I'd just be straight with her and find out. If she has any emotional issues it's better to find out sooner rather than later. If you are seeing other women while in a 3 month relationship you probably shouldn't care. Your either committed to her or not so don't lead her along.
/r/askTRP15/02/19 03:25 AM
1

Your parents and families attitude towards these things makes a big difference. If your parents are very touchy feely it will seem more natural to you. As long as you've identified the problem you just need to work on yourself. Once you are happy and confident in who you are you will be more open in sharing that with a woman. You can also look at some natural ways in which you can boost your testosterone (which will make you more willing to take risks) The biggest thing that it eventually comes …
/r/askTRP14/02/19 03:07 AM
1

I wouldnt treat them as children per say. You can have a mature conversation but the way I see it is that every bit of energy you put into the conversation she will reflect back (assuming she likes you) Talking to a girl like a child really wont get you much further than a quick flirt imo. ​ To me it seems you need to talk with a bit more emotion (as Im assuming you talk to an adult like youd talk to your friends or your parents)
/r/askTRP13/02/19 12:19 PM
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I very rarely feel down like I used to but as long as I keep doing whats important to me and Im continually challenging myself I am quite happy. ​ I just avoid things that I know are going to bring me down, I know you cant avoid some things but if I watch a movie and it doesnt click or I dont like within 30 minutes I just move on
/r/askTRP13/02/19 12:13 PM
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Women are not boring. ​ By stating that you are already going into the interaction looking for the worst. ​ Some people (men and women) have nothing going on in their lives that I can relate with but there are plenty out there that do.
/r/askTRP13/02/19 12:10 PM
1

Go in with the intention of just having a great moment with another person. If the girl likes you she will not let you get away without giving you her number. ​ Ive had plenty of interactions where before Ive left the girl has given me her details. There are also a lot of girls who dont want to take the risk of rejection so if the interaction is positive you will not lose any of your frame if you ask her for her details.
/r/askTRP13/02/19 12:06 PM
2

It probably does help but you would be really stupid to rely on taking something for the rest of your life just so you can talk to women. ​ For me it just took a lot of hard work doing what is uncomfortable. It didnt take long after I made that first approach or conversation with a stranger to realise its nothing to be scared about and I actually enjoy it (and so do the women)
/r/askTRP12/02/19 03:30 AM
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If it is something you want you should go for it. It depends how old and experienced you are as well. I wouldnt recommend even considering it if you are in your mid 20s or earlier. ​ While you might see a lot of people complaining around the internet about their failed marriage or you have a negative view on women after reading about womens psychology just be aware that there are plenty of people who are happy with their relationship. Just dont commit to anything you arent certain of and take yo…
/r/askTRP12/02/19 03:27 AM
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Generally I do it. Its a good shit test to see if they even reach for their wallet. ​ Ive luckily never been taken advantage of as usually I pay for the first drink and then later on she offers to pay for a drink or desert or whatever we are doing. Most of the women ive ever been out with have been pretty fair in this regard. ​ I cant recall which book it was in but I remember reading that paying for the first interaction is a good thing to do as it puts the girl in a more feminine frame as they…
/r/askTRP12/02/19 03:14 AM
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Youd be surprised how women take rejection. A normal sane woman can easily pull out something like this. Ive had it and it is concerning but in the end its just a last ditch effort by them to keep you by their side.
/r/askTRP12/02/19 03:10 AM
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People want a place to vent to an audience and you can do it relatively anonymously with no blowback or rejection. Also people think it makes them and the OP feel good if they upvote a sob story. ​ Reddit comments are generally terrible since you only tend to see what most of what the people who read the thread early agree with and they can easily be manipulated by another force. On the otherhand you can have comments which are unfiltered like 4chan or youtube and its just as bad. No matter wher…
/r/askTRP10/02/19 09:06 AM
1

I certainly do my own hobbies which I really enjoy and have made a few friends and acquaintances through them. I still think there is no harm in meeting women in the street as well. It may be temporary or it could be long term, unfortunately I wont know until I begin to talk to them. I do enjoy talking to receptive women and getting to know them. ​ There is no harm in doing both at the same time. If you see a nice girl at the shopping centre when you go out to get groceries there is no harm in t…
/r/TheRedPill10/02/19 03:57 AM
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I went through that stage in my mid 20s. I am very similar in that I'm logical and unemotional. I've recently been working on that and it's really helped me connect with more people. When I was getting close to 30 and friends are getting married and starting families it left me with a lot of weekends with not alot to do. I also work for myself so I don't get to socialise a lot during the week and have a small social circle being an ISFJ. I just got frustrated with online dating and doing speed d…
/r/TheRedPill09/02/19 11:44 AM
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> The saying here is that once you approach a girl you're already top 10%, I'd put that number the fuck down after what I've experienced with a bud of mine. ​ I would put it up from my experience. Whenever I go out its always more men then women everywhere and whenever I go out to a bar to approach I usually get one girl who starts getting frustrated that theyve not been left alone all night and are sick of getting approached. As a total of society there are plenty of people that live at home an…
/r/TheRedPill09/02/19 05:56 AM
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It's part of cold approaching. Not every girl will be comfortable and receptive. It's a problem with watching too many of the YouTube videos as they rarely, if ever show how many strike outs they get. I usually ask what they are up to then ask what they do for fun and then that's about it unless they want to continue elsewhere. It gets much easier with experience and you have to learn not to think about it so much. You will never do everything perfectly and have to adapt on the fly all the time …
/r/askTRP06/02/19 10:36 PM
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The older you get the more difficult it gets. So starting now is a good place to start. I have had a lot of success at salsa and doing group training classes instead of traditional gym work. Any hobby you have is a good place to start and it's always best to target a hobby where people will be going out to do things you want. Eg. You probably won't get much opportunity to go out and meet women with someone you play world of warcraft with where as dancers will be out most weekends practicing.
/r/askTRP06/02/19 10:35 AM
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It depends what signals you give her. If you are really flirty and showing her iois than do it she probably won't take it well. It's always been straightforward when I've done it, they usually understand quite well that's it's just a soft rejection.
/r/askTRP06/02/19 12:33 AM
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Nothing wrong with being against the "social media crap". If anyone asks me why I don't have FB/Twitter/IG/Snap I just ask them "why do you have it?" or "why do I need it" ​ If they genuinely want to know I give them reasons why and if they can't accept that than its a good way to filter out terrible people.
/r/askTRP04/02/19 04:57 AM
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Nothing wrong with being in love. It's an experience everyone goes through in their life. You just need to be experienced and be in your frame. You will likely make a few mistakes along the way but just as long as you are aware of it and correct it in the future. As for your question it's never wise to get into a relationship if you are the bitch. Maybe if you are lucky you might get to sleep with her but it's very unlikely and will just be some beta she keeps around.
/r/askTRP03/02/19 08:56 AM
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The majority of women don't have any reason to improve themselves. They will get attention from plenty of men as long as they are somewhat attractive. A lot of women could tell guys they are serial killers and they would likely stick around or hang on for dear life. On the other hand I got out of a ltr and got rejected constantly and always felt like I was getting judged for my hobbies and interests at the time. I've matured and worked hard on myself and I don't spend my day trolling the web as …
/r/askTRP01/02/19 05:02 AM
2

I sometimes swing the pressure on them. Let's say I ask them 3-4 questions and they give short answers with no way of leading on to anything else. I will say c'mon ask me something I'm doing all the work it's a little rude. It's hit or miss but sometimes that little bit of pressure makes them try a bit harder. Otherwise just look to see if they are still giving IOIs. If they are than just be patient with them. It might take you an extra 1-2 meetings for them to get comfortable. Also changing ven…
/r/askTRP23/01/19 10:34 PM
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I find that interesting because I met a Brazilian girl here in Australia (she's from Sao Paulo) and she didn't have anything nice to say about Australian women on how slutty they dress and how they sleep around so much. She also told me how nasty and backstabbing they can be. I only got to know her because I loved how she dressed maturely (skirts below the knee and has a bit of that good girl librarian look in the way she dresses) Any girl that can look good without having to wear shorts that ba…
/r/TheRedPill23/01/19 04:39 AM
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It pretty much happens to everyone. As the guy you prefer to spend time with the girl rather than going out to bars and crap with friends. Until you actually make a connection with someone its quite difficult to understand. Everyone here will talk tough but when you have the choice of cuddling on the couch or standing in a nightclub all night one option is usually a lot more enjoyable. You just need to find a balance between seeing your friends and your girl if you choose a LTR. ​ Also constantl…
/r/askTRP22/01/19 09:49 AM
1

I agree with what you are saying my only issue is once you hit that 3rd or 4th date it's starts getting a bit harder to break up if it doesn't work out. I'm not the type to ghost someone and after a 4-6 dates they've likely earned a breakup in person. I am an empathetic person so I really hate doing it especially when you know the girl must like you since she's taken the effort to come see you so many times. So for me I try and keep it under 3 dates unless they are potentially offering me someth…
/r/TheRedPill17/01/19 07:21 AM
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It's really difficult to know what is broscience or not with no fap. I've been doing a weekly fap for a few months now and I think you get most of the benefits. Anything longer than a fortnight as you say I don't tend to feel as hungry for women. Which supposedly your testosterone levels peak after a weak of abstaining so it makes sense (this could be broscience though) Realistically as long as you aren't fapping before you go out to meet women or you aren't fapping half a dozen times a day you …
/r/askTRP15/01/19 10:05 AM
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There are lots of things like this now where people are just trying to justify their laziness or lifestyle. ​ The more betas out there the better it is for the other men.
/r/askTRP06/01/19 11:22 PM
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Ive always leaned towards relationships or longer term type of deals. It just takes me longer to feel comfortable around new people than most and I usually end up enjoying myself better when I know the person. Every time Ive done a one nighter Ive always felt dirty and regret it. I dont target those type of women or I dont go in with it being my goal anymore.
/r/askTRP02/01/19 01:02 AM
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How long has she been silent? I usually give them 24 hours and try a similar message again. If they don't reply to the second one then I let them go on with their life. I'm often guilty of it myself, when someone sends you a text for something when you're either busy or can't do it due to other obligations I leave it for a bit while I think of a response and then completely forget about it. Especially over Christmas where my schedule is pretty busy.
/r/askTRP23/12/18 09:36 PM
2

Put in a day and time as well rather than this weekend.
/r/askTRP06/12/18 06:09 AM
1

Yeah but at 13-15 (the age he would of had to of been before crypto went through its spike) how would you have purxhased it? Do kids have credit cards and the ability to open accounts on crypto sites? Last one I tried needed me to take a selfie with my driver licence. I don't know how you'd convince your parents to buy any significant online monopoly money either
/r/askTRP04/12/18 10:10 PM
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For a guy whos probably 17 its quite impressive especially considering how immature he seems.
/r/askTRP04/12/18 12:31 PM
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Once you get in with a group of girls you tend to find a lot more opportunities. For example, when you have a girl friend all of her friends will naturally be more attracted to you as women like a man that is in demand. If you don't do anything to break their trust when you break up with the girlfriend you will find some plates to spin in some of her friends that you meet along the way and the cycle can continue. ​ Also take all stories guys tell you with a grain of salt. Guys always over exagge…
/r/askTRP21/11/18 11:53 AM
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Financially responsable, Tidy, doesn't hoard everything, manners, doesn't brag or gloat, patient, doesn't blame their problems on anyone else, not obsessed with politics, knows how to argue, likes animals, not an extreme feminist or environmentalist, have to accept my interests or hobbies and not a drug addict. No particular order or importance to each one but it's what I look for. I don't think it's too much to ask for and in pretty easy going with a few of them.
/r/askTRP16/11/18 08:03 AM
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It's easier said than done, each group is different and you will always struggle if there is a cockblocking girl there. Unless you are extremely extroverted chances of doing well when approaching a group of girls as a single are pretty slim.
/r/askTRP04/11/18 12:44 PM
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I have been out by myself a few times. I don’t often go anymore since I’ve realise the type of demographic I’m looking for is unlikely to be in a bar on a Friday/Saturday night. I never met anyone I knew out so I suppose I was lucky in a way. If I ever did bump into anyone I would say I’m just waiting for a friend or be honest that you don’t have a wingman depending on who it is.
/r/askTRP04/11/18 07:44 AM
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Think about it, how often do you go to a bar and see a guy by himself and think “omg what a loner” You don’t and that’s why it doesn’t really matter. The only issue being by yourself is approaching women in groups can be quite difficult so you have to find the right time to strike. Once some groups of women notice you talking to others they are more accepting of you.
/r/askTRP04/11/18 07:31 AM
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I’m not of the opinion that you need to approach a certain number to find success. It’s just a gamble essentially you could meet your life partner on the first girl or you might meet someone who’s willing to flake over coffee with you after 200. There are just so many variables in a meeting that you can’t distill it down to a number. Just keep approaching a amount you are comfortable with. I wouldn’t recommend doing a shot gun approach of 50 girls a week or day which people do as you have to low…
/r/askTRP30/10/18 06:38 AM
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Women talk smack about penis size and how they like their sex. They just correlate good sex with penis size. Think about it, if I went to 5 different butchers and got a sausage from each and shoved it up your ass do you think you could tell which one was 5mm longer or 2mm wider? Also don’t forget that women get tighter depending on what mood they are in.
/r/askTRP30/10/18 06:12 AM
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I struggled with long silences or when I run out of things to say or I draw a blank. I now realise It’s up to them to pull their weight of the conversation as well. I must of looked really needy when I’d be just trying to say anything rather than have an awkward silence.
/r/askTRP23/10/18 05:54 AM
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Yes and no. I have come across highly attractive girls that are nice as pie and I can read them like a book and I've come across nasty women who roll their eyes and pretend I am invisible half way through a conversation. I have had average girls who are really nice to me and I have some that look insulted that I am even sharing air with them. Its really hard for me to put a blanket statement across women from my experience. My mood, her mood, the weather, the time of day, if shes had a coffee, i…
/r/askTRP18/10/18 11:55 AM
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I agree. I went on 3 dates with a a girl who had a degree in women's studies. She was not an issue and even admitted that her degree was pointless as she had to get a job in some fashion shop. I've been told in an asshole etc..etc.. but that happens to everyone never encountered the stuff you read about online
/r/TheRedPill16/10/18 10:33 PM
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As long as you dont come across as eager or desperate its no problem. There is nothing wrong with thinking about the girl you are enjoying hanging out with. I am often the same if I have chemistry with a woman as its pretty rare to find someone on a similar wavelength. Its quite healthy to analyse a girl and think about if she is suitable or going to be compatible with you going forward. I think anyone telling you otherwise is fooling themselves, its just part of being a man that you are constan…
/r/askTRP11/10/18 04:04 AM
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I dont think my mindset has changed significantly. Im just more mature and more diciplined about some things since ive hit my 30s. Sure I have done some beta things or made the wrong moves with some women but you learn and move on. Everyone makes these mistakes when they are younger and learning about the opposite sex, I wouldnt consider my self naive or stupid during that time. I just had to learn how to deal with certain situations. No one has it all figured out when you first start chasing gi…
/r/askTRP11/10/18 03:44 AM
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Thanks im sure you are right. I think I will just play the slow game and wait and see if I get a few more signals from her and then maybe proceed like how you mentioned.
/r/askTRP08/10/18 07:30 AM
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I subscribed so ill give them a watch when they do show up. Who knows if youtube will show up in my feed or not.
/r/TheRedPill21/09/18 11:56 PM
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I liked that video. Well explained and I got a few ideas from it. At the end you say you will upload every week but there's only 1 video on your channel.
/r/TheRedPill21/09/18 10:07 AM
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