gcaledonian Archive

Upvotes	Title	Category	Author	Subreddit	Date (UTC)

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3	Women are happiest single, therefore their dating issues are irrelevant At this point in my life, after 20 years of being coupled, I am happier being single. Therefore I remain single. I simply close myself off to dating and do my own thing. I had happy years in relationships, but I found my last attempts to date very unpleasant.	/r/PurplePillDebate	11/01/23 11:46 PM
1	The only way to success with women I’ve dated doctors only for years now. Most stay single for long periods of time lol.	/r/PurplePillDebate	28/06/22 05:53 PM
0	Most of the dating struggles of men will fall on death ears when it comes to women. Which is why the Redpill is important. Then you're done well not to go on a fool's errand lol	/r/PurplePillDebate	17/05/22 02:39 AM
1	What do you think of single men who used surrogacy to have children without a wife? I find surrogacy distasteful in any situation, but consensual arrangements are none of my business. If you want to rent a womb, have at it. I'm sure female role models aren't that hard to find.	/r/PurplePillDebate	17/05/22 02:29 AM
5	Most of the dating struggles of men will fall on death ears when it comes to women. Which is why the Redpill is important. I don't understand this frequent complaint/statement regarding women's sympathy for men's dating struggles. Men want sex and with a broader span of women than the other way around. When there's an imbalance like that, you're just gonna have a lot of disinterested parties to begin with. Disinterested parties are not prone to sympathy. And even if they're looking for love and relationships...again, you have a sea of disinterest. It's not even necessarily disdain. Just a big fat lack of interest. I…	/r/PurplePillDebate	17/05/22 02:18 AM
1	Why are single women more likely to be happy being single then single men? I have other companions, a sex drive that can go dormant (while sex isn't that hard to find), don't worry about cheating, lying, dumping, expectations, alcoholism, or any other risks or downsides. I also have my own issues and am fine not burdening a partner. When I've tried to date, the general disappointment has made it easier to turn off apps or just turn to women, which is a thing for me. It's not necessarily that I am immune to loneliness, but I think generally men are just...driven to seek…	/r/PurplePillDebate	17/05/22 01:48 AM
20	Is this an example of an “alpha widow”? She was married to the guy. Some good things will remain in the mind and heart even after a breakup. Heck, 20 years ago today my stupid teenage boyfriend got himself killed in an accident and I still recall the good times. Subsequent relationships don't erase those good feelings, nor do the good feelings invalidate subsequent relationships. Unless the person is pining endlessly over a lost relationship, it just seems like petty jealousy to get hung up on someone else's trip down memory lane.	/r/PurplePillDebate	15/05/22 09:09 PM
30	Should women contribute to half of all bills regardless of differences in income? When I was married, all money went into a common pot. It was "our" money. When I didn't earn money, I managed everything in the household. It was something he didn't need to handle, since he was earning the money. Arguing about money and chores just wasn't a thing because we both tried to make it equitable as time and circumstances changed. Deciding who paid what bill with whose money was stupid because it was a singular household with a singular currency. It never occurred to us to do it any ot…	/r/PurplePillDebate	15/05/22 08:53 PM
3	Do single mothers get a bad rap? I don't date single mothers nor fathers because I don't like kids and I didn't like my own stepparents. My stepmother greatly resented the package deal that was my dad and my sister and me and we fought until the day she left. My stepfather was a religious nut job that convinced my mother we needed to cleanse the house of demons. I don't really see single parents as "used up", though maybe that is a distinctly male perspective on things. Gross, but whatever, that's your prerogative. I just don't…	/r/PurplePillDebate	15/05/22 08:39 PM
1	Is making some women uncomfortable just part of dating for men? I think yes, it's inevitable. And it also explains some of the aloofness and hesitance you see with women putting themselves out there and making dates. I won't pretend that this isn't a stupid, delicate dance for men that can backfire easily. I've blocked guys for being creepy and pushy and I've rejected guys for not being assertive enough. There's no precise mathematical equilibrium to achieve, since it's so dependent on context and interpersonal factors. Trial and error all the way. I don't e…	/r/PurplePillDebate	15/05/22 04:56 PM
1	Dating for men is like looking or a job while dating for women is like recruiting for a position Don't shotgun job boards with resumes that don't even begin to qualify.	/r/PurplePillDebate	15/05/22 01:46 AM
1	money doesn't actually mean shit to most women I've gone on dates with guys who are MDs, PhDs, who make six figures, own their own homes, farms, etc. Some are fairly good looking. And they struggle with dating. If money (and status, for that matter) really were the cheat code with women, they would've been scooped up long ago. But life isn't really that simple. Some may feel like their money and status should bring in the best women. Some have hints of deeper issues, like substance abuse, and things like that can easily cancel out the appeal…	/r/PurplePillDebate	14/05/22 10:33 PM
5	Dating for men is like looking or a job while dating for women is like recruiting for a position I guess, if your job seekers were sending in resumes written in crayon, showing up to interviews drunk, not showing up at all, and attaching dick pics to resumes. And the employers were only sometimes emotionally ready to sift through resumes and call up those who look ok and try to maintain interest while also vetting for their own personal safety. When a "job" falls in your lap by means of referral, everyone breathes a sigh of relief, but unfortunately not all of us are that lucky.	/r/PurplePillDebate	14/05/22 10:06 PM