gcfemtastic Archive

Upvotes	Title	Category	Author	Subreddit	Date (UTC)
2550	🎵If he's married and you know it, just say no,👏👏 if he's married and you know it...	FDS ANTHEM 🎶	gcfemtastic	/r/FemaleDatingStrategy	18/07/21 11:57 PM

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25	I have no words Men hate boundaries. If you say no, they will become obsessed with undermining that no.	/r/FemaleDatingStrategy	30/11/21 12:07 PM
20	I have no words And this will be an example of the way men will try to spin women as being crazy or irrational. ShE leFT mE oVeR a ToWEl. - "Oh wow bro, you dodged a bullet". He chose to pick something important to her, something she enjoyed and that didn't hurt him....and he tried to take it away from her her. For no reason other than control. He nagged and harassed her about a fucking hair towel trying to break her down. Just because he felt entitled to his opinion that it was stupid and righteous in forcing …	/r/FemaleDatingStrategy	30/11/21 11:58 AM
6	Future of social relationships between men and women Yes. I wasn't intending to insinuate otherwise. But it's a process of realization, one that white middle class America is increasingly coming to terms imo	/r/FemaleDatingStrategy	29/10/21 02:38 PM
79	Future of social relationships between men and women Male culture will double down on hateful rhetoric against women. The pseudo intellectual lazy reading of evolutionary psychology will be used by modern men to justify the misogyny once soley attributed to religious fundamentalists. America is in decline as a superpower. Feelings of disempowerment, wage stagnation, isolation, disenframchment and loss of hope will spread across the middle and working class.....especially white men who've never had to face these feelings before. I think America wil…	/r/FemaleDatingStrategy	28/10/21 10:00 PM
1	Let's discuss! When did you first get assigned to sit next to a disruptive boy in class, supposedly to be a good influence on him? 5th grade. I was tasked with helping teach the class bully how to write properly and stay on task.	/r/FemaleDatingStrategy	17/10/21 11:29 PM
120	Using the carrot and stick approach to neg and emotionally abuse. 🚩🚩🚩 This is a good example of why raising girls into "femininity" is setting up our daughters and sisters for a lifetitime of abuse. It's also a great example of how men are ruining intimacy for themselves. The amount of male belly-aching about how women are no longer feminine or women don't trust them and that's super mean and unfair etc.... But they are actively and consciously devising ways to break down womens' self esteem and sharing emotional abuse tactics with other men like recipes. For the …	/r/FemaleDatingStrategy	16/10/21 12:53 PM
53	Men will try to make you look crazy for lashing out at them after they ignore your boundaries over and over. I've been meaning to write a post on this very subject, specifically to domestic relationships. Ladies, especially you young women new to relationships, please realize that lashing out ~physically~ in DEFENSE will be used against you. If that boyfriend has you cornered against a wall, looming over you with his fists clenched screaming at you.......if you hit or push him because he won't stop or leave you alone, HE will use that against you as an example of your violence/abuse/craziness. When …	/r/FemaleDatingStrategy	07/10/21 10:54 AM
89	“Men always complain about being friend zoned, but do they know how much it hurts to be fuck zoned? As if our friendship only had value to him because of possible sex?” Sometimes I think in a more egalitarian and respectful society you could have a more genuinely sex positive culture wherein women could sleep with guy friends and everything would be normal. But the reality often times is these men are trophy hunters and once you have sex they move on. It wasn't about friendship, it was about getting to say they fucked you. Or they get possessive. Or they have such low self esteem they begin to resent you because hey, if you slept with them how many other guy "f…	/r/FemaleDatingStrategy	25/09/21 10:45 AM
16	Women aren't morally obligated to have babies. It's just so bizarre to me that a significant number of people view pregnancy as a form of punishment. To see bringing a new life into the world as, not only a negative consequence, but a fundamentally neccessary one. And to say "yes, this is the best way to view people, family and children". We could have a better world, but so many humans are consumed by spitefulness, and a a truly dumb authoritarian worldview.	/r/FemaleDatingStrategy	05/09/21 01:56 PM
5	Why do men take SUCH offense to my reserved demeanor? They want performance. They want women to perform open childish trust without having to earn said demean genuinely. Same with sex. They want the performance of excitement and porn style arousal, doesn't matter if it's actually fake as long as they can believe the performance.	/r/FemaleDatingStrategy	17/08/21 10:55 AM
53	I just read a post where a woman was shamed for wanting to be walked to her car post date🤦🏼‍♀️. The bar is in Hades. To put this situation in context let me say this: The men from my construction crews, some of whom I've heard making "edgy" jokes about domestic abuse, or bitch about liberals, women in male jobs, etc etc EVERY single time I've worked a late shift, or have had to park in a sketchy area for work or had car troubles, at least 1 usually more walk me to my car. If dirty, tired, non-feminist blue collar bros can make the effort for a female coworker, so can your date. Seriously.	/r/FemaleDatingStrategy	09/08/21 03:20 PM
16	To the women here who are childfree: how do you define “childfree”? By the age of 14 I was saying I'd never have children. Of course, everyone said I'd change my mind. 33 years old now. Lifelong childfree. Have 0 interest in birthing children. I agree OP with the point you're making. It's been a lifelong struggle against people saying I'll change my mind for the right person.	/r/FemaleDatingStrategy	22/07/21 03:33 PM
201	"My well off husband is "guarded with money" because of pAsT eXpErIeNcEs and sits by as I flounder. How do I convince him I'm not a gold digger and ask him to please help me so that I can stop crying myself to sleep?" He doesn't care about her retirement because she's the starter wife.	/r/FemaleDatingStrategy	21/07/21 11:53 PM
14	You are allowed to eat. TW: I dieted down on 1200-1400 calories/daily with a 3 hour/daily workout regimen with a personal trainer for about two years. I went from a size 12 to a size 2 dress and children section clothes. I remember doing the "bikini bridge" challenge and being able to turn sideways to see that my waist could be hidden by the length of my phone. I had surpased Marilyn Monroe's best hip/waist/chest stats. I once was flexing in the gym mirror admiring my ribcage, hip and collar bones when an older woman s…	/r/FemaleDatingStrategy	21/07/21 04:18 PM
775	This is an actual “settlement” proposed by the pro se defendant in a divorce case. Unbelievable. I'm most disturbed by how men perceive sex. They really don't see women as human beings. To basically say "you will present your vaginal opening to me for my usage or you will suck or otherwise touch my dick every day" reveals how emotionally devoid and disassociated from humanity these men are. I honestly can't imagine talking to anyone that way. I can't even put myself in a similar state of mind to understand how a person could be OK coercing sex. How do you live with yourself? How do you even…	/r/FemaleDatingStrategy	18/07/21 03:20 AM
85	She found cp on her husband's computer and is wondering if she should leave him 🤦🏽‍♀️women really are this brainwashed. She has two little girls with him. Theres a lot of disgusting stuff here but I just want to take a second to point out yet another example of male AUDACITY. Imagine being caught with child porn and having the absolute fucking nerve to not sleep in another room at the request of your wife. He probably gets off on the power flex of either forcing his wife into being scared sleeping next to him, or forcing her and the kids to sleep in the other room. There is no shame. Absolutely no shame.	/r/FemaleDatingStrategy	16/07/21 01:13 AM
73	UPDATE: He DID lie about his age so that he could match with younger women, but he still looks older than his actual age Yes!! That's what kills me. Men think they're being tricky by claiming ignorance, as if incompetency is somehow attractive? I really don't get it. As a woman, demonstrating my competency consumes 90% of life. I can't imagine willingly acting stupid in front of men and expecting them to respect me.	/r/FemaleDatingStrategy	11/07/21 08:11 PM
72	Absolutely not. Negging gone wild. He knew what he was doing. Causing hurt was the point.	/r/FemaleDatingStrategy	11/07/21 04:10 AM
6	It isn't "classist" to want a guy who is financially stable. Some FDS followers are working class women. I cannot think of anything more privileged than telling women who have known poverty, that it is shameful to want a man who won't drag them back to poverty level. It's important when comparing countries to look at "average income per person per day in purchasing parity dollars." A working class household living off of 17k in Chicago isnt necessarily better off than the 10k yearly income of a professional in rural Bolivia. Working class people around the world have more in common than not.(Compare GDP against population size per capita and against inflation and standard of living to compare countries more accurately). There are certainly Americans earning …	/r/FemaleDatingStrategy	10/07/21 02:17 AM
42	It isn't "classist" to want a guy who is financially stable. Some FDS followers are working class women. I cannot think of anything more privileged than telling women who have known poverty, that it is shameful to want a man who won't drag them back to poverty level. I think the marriage within the income bracket is probably more about who you are exposed to, socialize with, friend groups, college connections etc I think using the first definition I wrote is better than solely talking about income when determining class because of the point you raised. A construction worker is still workingclass despite being a higher earner. Making 80k is still working class regardless of so-called blue or white collar.	/r/FemaleDatingStrategy	09/07/21 01:54 AM
156	It isn't "classist" to want a guy who is financially stable. Some FDS followers are working class women. I cannot think of anything more privileged than telling women who have known poverty, that it is shameful to want a man who won't drag them back to poverty level. 👏👏👏 OP. In regards to classism and class.. An FYI for those unfamiliar, working class is not a synonym for "poor". (And it's usually used interchangeably in the US with "middle class") If the majority of your income comes from wages or salary...that is to say....you're not able to live primarily off of stocks or ownership of property (for examples) then you are broadly working class. There is debate on where the line is drawn, and some people choose to use income brackets to signify class. Even …	/r/FemaleDatingStrategy	09/07/21 01:08 AM
19	Gabby Thomas is the third fastest runner in the 200-meter race, Harvard grad and currently working on her master's in epidemiology. Chase your dreams girls 👏. Yet another example of Black Excellence.	/r/FemaleDatingStrategy	02/07/21 10:05 PM
25	Felt this needed to be added here. And this goes for friends and family too, not just partners. My construction crew started saying I have "big dick attitude". I've also made a tradesman so mad that I verbally held my ground he could only sputter "you're an asshole" and walk away. Lol I accept both as compliments of respect. Lololol	/r/FemaleDatingStrategy	03/06/21 07:21 PM
25	Horror movies about the risks of letting LVMs into your life Shout out to original Stepford Wives. For years I never bothered watching it because I was only familiar with it as a butt of jokes and stupid remake with Nicole Kidman. But its great and deserves a real modern reboot written and directed by a fds-minded talent. There is so much relevency. Rosemary's Baby captures the disempowerment of pregnant women so well. Excellent. Repulsion is also an older film, centered around an extremely beautiful woman, vulnerability and the male gaze. The Invisible M…	/r/FemaleDatingStrategy	30/05/21 12:26 AM
9	Had a funeral for a close relative a few years ago and it helped me get some closure. They don’t like expensive weddings and now they don’t think people should have funerals either if they want one? Fuck outta hear with your cheap ass I think the bigger picture of these sentiments goes beyond LVM or dudes being cheap. Communities are breaking down...not because of evil feminists, or single moms but because Americans are overworked, with poor social safety nets, poor health, limited free time for socializing or resting etc. I think a lot of the hatred against women we see online is men lashing out in response to the alienation and disempowerment they feel because of their own loss of power and purpose. Their displacement of an…	/r/FemaleDatingStrategy	19/05/21 01:35 AM
13	Oh, that was a little much for your personality? Is that an acceptable response when you can't back up your own post after getting called on the BS? 🤡 Lol. Hope your mom's advice is decent. Since I was a child my mother has told me relationships are about "sacrifice", specifically women making compromise and consessions to keep a gOoD mAn. Literally told me as a teen not to smile so much as it would "give me premature wrinkles". Also, the wise wisdom of "don't talk about yourself during dates, just listen." I'm 32, this was motherly advise during the 2000s.	/r/FemaleDatingStrategy	07/05/21 02:30 PM
4	Men really do know and they’re much more socially adept than they let on I agree with you and also thinks it's important to address the root causes of problems. Answering the nuture vs nature question is above my pay-grade. I suspect it's a bit of both. BUT I do feel 100% confident in saying male culture vastly overvalues and advantageously defines the "nature" aspect. Biologically speaking, men tend to have greater upper body strength, denser bones etc combined with higher testosterone it points to the male sex (broadly speaking) being more aggressive. My opinion ho…	/r/FemaleDatingStrategy	23/04/21 01:38 PM
5	Men really do know and they’re much more socially adept than they let on Agreed!	/r/FemaleDatingStrategy	22/04/21 09:58 AM
126	Men really do know and they’re much more socially adept than they let on Yeah I often think about this. If we want positive relationships with the men in our lives and communities the greatest thing we can do for them is recognize their humanity. They are capable of love and empathy and making ethical choices so we should hold them accountable. It's funny to me that feminists are accused of hating men. But what is actually hateful: saying men have the human ability for goodness but are socialized to choose otherwise. OR men are irredeemably violent and aggressive and…	/r/FemaleDatingStrategy	22/04/21 01:39 AM
141	The reasons behind the myth of short men having a “hard time” dating is other men, their own insecurities and how vicious they are to a taller woman who dares to show any interest. I'm 5'6" and I dated a dude who swore he was 5'10".....his eyes were slightly above my eye level. Lol. No bullshit, this man during the YEARS we lived together ALWAYS wore his thick workboots, inside, until bedtime. Just so he could feel taller than me. Never again.	/r/FemaleDatingStrategy	21/04/21 03:09 PM
-3	If a man is equal to you, then he's not good enough for you. I understand OPs point but I do find the broad sentiment of being "better than" or "dating up" or "equal to not good enough" etc to be icky. I understand we use these words as short hand for bigger ideas, and I get the intention because I read people in good faith. BUT I do think without further context this general sentiment lends really well to classism", *racism and just general misery. I think we need to push against using Capitalist or economic language to describe our personhood or relatio…	/r/FemaleDatingStrategy	18/04/21 06:20 PM
55	Let’s stop perpetuating the lie that men don’t have hormones and women are irrational. *** It was posted on a mom group (women’s only group🤨🙄) Correct me if I'm wrong, but last I heard, womens' hormonal balance are closest to that of mens' during our periods. So the supposed moodiness/asshole-ness of women during those 5 days is basically just the standard condition of men everyday.	/r/FemaleDatingStrategy	17/04/21 03:54 PM
30	Anyone else find "kinky" people to be so boring at this point? BDSM, choking, "breath play", calling men daddy. Everyone magically developed the identical cookie cutter sexuality and it's so BORING, but they still think of themselves as wild Amen. It's pathetic. So many people think they are "edgy" or a bad boy/ bad girl with "crazy" stories, so "wild". When I ask what this crazy wild bad boy behavior is, it's never anything actually cool but a "I'm a dOm. I like to be in cOnTRol" Oh wow. So badass. 😐	/r/FemaleDatingStrategy	15/04/21 03:32 PM
68	A 49 year old man has an ✨epiphany✨ and people in the comments thank and praise him for his 'insight'🙌 and give him lots of awards 🏅🏅🏅 "I'm not as good at it as her" ENOUGH. You all motherfuckers are engineers, scientists, teachers, doctors, managers, construction workers, chefs, programmers etc...... Yet for generations you convinced society that you don't know how to fold or clean properly. The gig is up. You're fucking lazy. You intentionally do a subpar job so that your partner will get frustrated and just do it herself. Men cannot cry about being betrayed as dummies in media (simpsons, king of queens, etc) then turn around…	/r/FemaleDatingStrategy	14/04/21 03:24 PM
25	Self-aware LVM notices more young women are buying houses 💅 keep it up ladies Men need to get their lies straight. They scream the gender wage gap isn't real because women choose lower paying jobs and leave the workforce for children thus the statistical disparity. BUT ALSO magically women are making more money then men, "women's jobs" are higher paid then traditionally masculine professions.	/r/FemaleDatingStrategy	11/04/21 09:12 PM
25	Self-aware LVM notices more young women are buying houses 💅 keep it up ladies "Labor/construction jobs that pay half of what women make" This is delusional....like the opposite of actual reality in the U.S Labor and construction, especially skilled or unionized, allows working people without college degrees to earn 70-120k a year plus 401k, healthcare, pension. Most office workers, even highly educated positions, roles of authority etc are happy to make 60-75. I know women with master degrees literally helping save lives make 45k a year. "Womens jobs" are statistically lo…	/r/FemaleDatingStrategy	11/04/21 09:01 PM
14	Scrote so mad he forgot how to spell and shit It is HUMAN INSTINCT🤪to diggle🦠 your piggle🤏🍌 to women on a SCREEN 📺 HOW DARE😾YOU FEMINISTS💣 WHOM I DO NOT RESPECT👎 DARE YOU DARE🤬 WANT MEN🙋 WHO DONT DIGGLE🦠 PIGGLE 🤏🍌TO VIDEO📽️LADIES 😤😤 HOW DARE🤬	/r/FemaleDatingStrategy	02/04/21 12:38 AM
38	Louder for the lurkers in the back She was also an amazing voice for labor and the working class!	/r/FemaleDatingStrategy	31/03/21 11:01 AM
72	Finance bros are the jesters of the Scrote Serfdom... Techbros are also a no go. I'll repeat. Be very weary of TECHBROS	/r/FemaleDatingStrategy	21/03/21 12:31 AM
12	I went on a walk today and a man spit in my face Spitting is so disrespectful and shows such contempt.	/r/FemaleDatingStrategy	20/03/21 11:52 PM
79	"SWERFs" don't harm sex workers. You wanna know what's actually harmful to sex workers? Doing sex work. Imagine saying, with a straight face, that being against prostitution is harmful to WOMENS CULTERAL IDENTITY. That's pretty revealing of how this ideology sees women. I guess for them, some women's "cultural" identity is to be penetrated by dick for resources and "eMpOwerMenT". Reeks of racism too. Which cultures? Which women? Our existence as women, our cultural identities, our humanity, is not under attack by being critical of sex work (industry). Women are more than the sexual experience they…	/r/FemaleDatingStrategy	20/03/21 02:30 AM
83	Remove the boot, ladies And libfems give the boots softer soles and smoother tread and say our necks are now liberated.	/r/FemaleDatingStrategy	17/03/21 10:04 AM
61	Women over 30: I know you think "the wall" is silly and therefore not worth talking about. But please remember you aren't the target of that propaganda. It's not meant to hurt you. It's meant to hurt us (women under 30). I agree with your overall point, but I think your time/age scale is a bit off. Women in their early to mid 30s absolutely grew up with internet culture, porn, social networks (myspace). And the "hitting the wall" sentiment is meant for all women. When your in your twenties it's to scare you into settling and pit you against us "old" women (lol I'm 32). When you are older than 30, the sentiment is meant to demean and humble you into low self esteem and....settling.	/r/FemaleDatingStrategy	16/03/21 09:07 PM
52	Other Women’s Subs Are Starting to Slowly Figure Out What We’ve Been Saying All Along About Males In Women’s Spaces. It’s Starting to look a little FDS-y out here. This ongoing experience of being a woman wanting/needing womens only spaces has really expanded my racial politics as well. I get it more, in my heart, why many black and brown people would want black only spaces to talk and decompress. Just let loose or exist outside the gaze and ears of white people. I was in a women-only zoom call/round table discussion on racial violence in the U.S and the majority of speakers were black women. It really got me emotional how many times these black women bent…	/r/FemaleDatingStrategy	13/03/21 02:11 PM
50	Every time I talk about women's issues that's the response I get, ALWAYS! Also, they complain about being invisible as if thats unique to the male experience. Nevermind being an "ugly" woman or being a fat woman or a woman over the age of 40. Or being a woman of [X] marginalized race or impoverished. When they envision women with so-called "pussy pass" or "life on easy mode" they seem to latch onto young beautiful examples. They dont recognize the struggles of other women because...drumroll...those woman are invisible to them. They also don't consider the violence and…	/r/FemaleDatingStrategy	07/03/21 11:58 PM
97	Father in India’s Uttar Pradesh Beheads 17 year old Daughter in “Honor” Killing It's terrorism. Murdering a woman and parading her mangled body publically is a warning to other women and girls. step out of line and this is what will happen to you.	/r/FemaleDatingStrategy	05/03/21 02:06 AM
1	Repost: Cultural Gaslighting and Unpacking the Britney Spears story Yeah, it's scummy for those adults to blame a teen girl for choosing to dress "sexy" as if that isn't what they wanted. We all know 100% that if teen Brittany had said she was going to shave her head and wear bagging jeans and sweatshirts to her photoshoots and concerts her handlers, managers, music executives, promotors etc all would have stepped in to stop her. They would have stopped her from dressing frumpy or "ugly" because that doesnt sell the image that made them all $$$. Sex. Jailbait se…	/r/FemaleDatingStrategy	20/02/21 09:14 PM
45	Repost: Cultural Gaslighting and Unpacking the Britney Spears story It's interesting to think about how the early 2000s were the start of the new pornography wave. The accessability of computers, and growing expanse of online free porn. People who are between 28-35 right now were basically first guinea pigs for the new social experiment of pervasive porn exposure at early ages. What kind of adults would these children grow into? How would our social and sexual lives be shaped? I think Brittany's skimpy outfits and catholic schoolgirl virgin schtick was a scapego…	/r/FemaleDatingStrategy	19/02/21 12:35 AM
64	What happened to first dates? Yeah. I hate that BS line. It's a shallow and depressing example of people separating their self from their body. It's the point of view of "your having sex with my body", rather than viewing sex as something we do together that invovles our self whole person. This seperation of body from emotion/mind was used in therapy for rape victims. "He violated your body, but thats not you". Seperating self is a trauma-response. Interesting that mainstream sex culture is basically mimicking that response.…	/r/FemaleDatingStrategy	17/02/21 10:18 PM
261	The moment when a ZVM realizes he’s Zero Value 🤦‍♀️😂 I wasn't very critical of him initially. Not every person has to be a world travelling A type personality. It's ok to have a decent paying job, some hobbies and weekend fun. BUT then he had to be a complete stereotype of the douchbag "techbro" by actually thinking he was better than most people. Barf. Lol. You are a working-class dude with middle-class pay in a popular profession. Get the fuck over yourself. Also, imagine thinking playing lots of videogames makes you better then people who watch…	/r/FemaleDatingStrategy	16/02/21 12:51 PM
10	OLD: When I called him out on wanting free prostitution with a side of emotional caretaking...they know, and linguistic gymnastics follow. UNMATCH! Translation: I prey on women seeking real relationships, banging women who also want casual sex doesn't make me feel as secure. I breadcrumb and maneuver matches into situationships and love the power of getting them emotionally invested with me.	/r/FemaleDatingStrategy	12/02/21 11:53 PM
89	PSA: You don’t owe anyone anal Also YOU DONT HAVE TO "PROVE" YOU DONT LIKE IT. YOU DONT HAVE TO TRY IT "JUST ONCE" You don't need to bargain or compromise "toy play" or "just the tip" with a nagging anal-obsessed man. NO is enough. And if, after saying NO he thinks he's being clever by "accidentally" jamming his dick at your asshole END SEX IMMEDIATELY. These dudes try to wear you down by constant sex nagging, whining and boundary pushing. If he's touching your asshole after you said NO he is a fucking scumbag rapist.	/r/FemaleDatingStrategy	09/02/21 12:19 PM
9	What would happen? There would be an extreme uptick in violence against women. More beatings, murders, rapes and forced marriages.	/r/FemaleDatingStrategy	26/11/20 04:31 PM
4	Anyone notice how you can work the same amount of hrs, but a LVM will act like he put in more work and his exhaustion is more valid? These men do not value women in the way they value themselves. They do not value women as equal human beings worthy of respect and dignity. To them, our work can be easily demeaned, our contributions ignored, our physical pain mocked etc etc	/r/FemaleDatingStrategy	22/11/20 11:22 PM
46	Grand pickmeisha. Precious “husband” is going to be walking all over this doormat in no time "Brad is my future husband, so he kind of takes priority". And you're his future wife, so why isn't he thinking you take priority? Why do women crumble under ultimatums? Why do we also choose the losing end of "compromise". ??	/r/FemaleDatingStrategy	22/11/20 10:56 PM
20	Scrote trying to move in with HVW. Yessss We need to make watching "Dirty John" a part of the FDS reading list (so to speak). That show gave me panic attacks	/r/FemaleDatingStrategy	19/11/20 01:53 AM
22	It’s sad this is normalized but it has to be said. Many women don’t realize their partners hate them because they’re so used to CoMmUniCaTing and negotiating their standards. My abusive ex did the same thing, hastily scratching/digging his nails into my back out of anger because I had the audacity to ask for a back rub. It freaks me out reading other womens accounts of scrotal fuckery, how so many different men lash out in the same ways. What the fuck is wrong with all these dudes	/r/FemaleDatingStrategy	03/11/20 10:36 AM
24	Found this nugget in my inbox after my last post on here. If this is a woman I feel sorry she has such little self respect and worthiness that she actually believes this is true. Notice how they always try to conflate and include multiple issues when discussing porn. My dude, consuming porn is NOT synonymous with masturbating (despite your porn rotted brain now needing it to get off). Porn=/=masturbating opposing porn =/= opposing masturbating Not consuming porn doesn't mean you suddenly cant acknowledge or find women sexually attractive. Like what? Lol? Not wanting your male partner to watch porn while sharing a sexual relationship with you is completely reasonable.	/r/FemaleDatingStrategy	25/10/20 09:54 PM
8	An advanced Pickme spotted in the wild, commenting unironically: The key words being "time and effort". That's what's at stake. If a man I'm already dating surprises me with a beautiful, well put together picnic in a scenic spot that's meaningful to him.....great! If a man asks me to go on a walking "date" because he thinks all woman are gold diggers and he's too cheap and lazy to actually create an enjoyable date....pass. lol	/r/FemaleDatingStrategy	07/10/20 04:01 PM
47	A Seeming-HVM Explains Why He Won't Leave his Forever Girlfriend for Someone Else He Likes More, Using Economic Theory as Explanation These types of men are exhausting. It's a whole ideology, centered around their supposed superior "logic" at the expense of emotions. The same dudes will rant at you about hUMAn eVoLUtiOn, and are committed to reducing woman into commodities. They think of relationships as winner take all, win or lose, domination or submission. Its pathetic and creepy.	/r/FemaleDatingStrategy	04/10/20 01:56 PM
11	Man freaks out over girlfriend’s period products, then apologizes and begs her not to leave him. She needs to throw the whole man away Men are allowed to show their emotions, women are not obligated to forgive, support or agree with them. Also, the sheer projection and gaslighting in our society that insists women use to tears to manipulate men. But who is actually using crocodile tears? Why do men get a free pass to be mean-spirited, controlling or abusive just because they start crying when they realize they might face consequences	/r/FemaleDatingStrategy	04/10/20 01:21 PM
104	Being poly is just another excuse for men to cheat Wait, so basically this wife is being pressured into subsidizing and supporting her husbands unemployed, homeless sidepiece? Is this real life? Is this woman just a walking doormat? Imagine working 70 hours a week to keep your husband and his pussy-on-demand fed and housed. Just bury me. I'm dead.	/r/FemaleDatingStrategy	03/10/20 03:19 PM
59	Women only have to worry about potentially ending up in a situation like numerous previous women who were beaten, raped and killed by the men they were dating, but yeah, men must have it worse... 🙄 "She's using me for a free meal", " she's just bored" Where are these dudes finding all these woman who love to waste their own time, and eat with someone they don't like? Even in OLD, women getting ready for a date costs us money and time....your $20 (50, 80) is NOT worth it, that meal does not balance out our spending if that's the hustle you think is happening. Are there some high-end women hustling out there? Sure, but if you're making under 300k a year and have no stock, they ain't going af…	/r/FemaleDatingStrategy	28/09/20 10:40 AM
18	To some people surveillance means less freedom, to me it means more OP, I share you're thoughts. This is a subject I would love to see a famous feminist write up an article on. The cat is out of the bag when it comes to surveillance....people who handwring about "big government" or the "surveillance state" have already lost. Our society, our global economys, will not go back to a pre-1980s technology/security system. The question is no longer "will there be mass surveillance?" the question is who has the power to control and disseminate the information from surv…	/r/FemaleDatingStrategy	21/09/20 10:47 PM
6	Smh, all you had to do was be on time for work , and you can’t even do THAT! Oh, this woman is in for a very bad time. I work in construction, and being late is the quickest and most common way to get fired. Not only that, as an apprentice he is actually risking getting kicked out of his union. Tradework is one of the last bastions of middle class work available without a degree. It's hard to get in, its competitive and success highly dependent on building a good reputation in your early years. Her husband is on track to bringing in 60-90k a year, benefits, 401k, etc and…	/r/FemaleDatingStrategy	18/09/20 04:00 PM
9	The vitamins. Professional, personal & sensory. When they are fulfilled a partner is not necessary but an addition. I struggle with depression and anxiety, I found my vitamins are organized better by "bullet journaling", which I love because the creative aspect is relaxing but the function of the journal inspires me to keep entering data. So every month I have a page for: food/nutrition, wherein I keep track of calories and days I attend the gym finance....a basic outline of weekly income and spending. A purchase goal page (save money towards house, motorcycle, rainyday) selfcare habits- a page to journal abo…	/r/FemaleDatingStrategy	14/09/20 12:32 PM
7	Remembering the Montreal Massacre - are men as brave as they say? Men as a whole aren't protecters and chivalry is a joke. They complain about the concept of "women and children first" and anything else requiring sacrifice or even just discomfort. Sidenote, "women and children first" is not actually a part of maritime law, and the largest passenger ship sinking before the Titanic had NO female survivors! Not 1 single woman or girl child was saved as the men rushed to save themselves. All the lifeboats full of men watching their wives, daughters and children dr…	/r/FemaleDatingStrategy	14/09/20 01:47 AM
5	FDS-Oriented YouTube Content for Dark-Skinned Black Women On the the subject of badass HV black women youtubers, check out For Harriet. Here is a link a a video called "WAP and the spectical of sexual liberation" https://youtu.be/ILApR36KgQw She also does panel discussions, reviews and analysis. Other videos "why you dont invest in potential" https://youtu.be/dtOIpifQo8w (Review) When they see us broke me https://youtu.be/5D_AYoGEffs I love her movie and cultural reviews too. Her thoughts on Tyler Perry, Kevin Hart, T.I, Harriet Tubman movie, Mixed-ish…	/r/FemaleDatingStrategy	12/09/20 02:36 PM
3	Refers to my last post here "People laugh at us" "percieved weak" You mean MEN, other men. Its men policing men and women's behaviors and roles. Yeah there's women who go along with that bullshit, but they suck and aren't generally in power. You know who has been pushing against those shitty male-prescribed restrictive toxic gender roles?? Feminists. Feminist movements. Womanism. Women lead political groups, organizations and activism.	/r/FemaleDatingStrategy	09/09/20 08:47 PM
95	The thought of having a son terrifies me. Dating in the future will be dreadful for the new generation. Its upsetting that pre-teen and teenage boys are seeing themselves as "incels", rather than, you know, just young guys yet to "officially" date. The absence of sex is normal when you're that age, but the immediate gratification and entitlement promised by porn culture has really shifted dating and sex expectations these past 15-20 years.	/r/FemaleDatingStrategy	08/09/20 07:11 PM
153	The audacity these men have. Haven’t even gone out with him and already pulling the attitude card. Fair to say I will be canceling Besides his rudeness, the birthday thing seems like he was trying to position an out to save his ego if you canceled the date. Or a way to keep you on the hook, wherein you confirm but he gets to keep you in suspense waiting to see if he can actually go (he can but likes power game)	/r/FemaleDatingStrategy	06/09/20 02:15 PM
6	What if you AREN'T marriage-minded? I am childfree and uninterested in marriage. I also feel happiest living separately from my so. I support the FDS advice regarding vetting towards commitment, marriage etc because women need to be told the hard truths and told to have higher standards. It's difficult to find HVM who are capable/interested in my type of serious relationship. When you say together but living separately or together but unmarried, many men will try to position you as a fwb or polyamorous couple. Lifelong monogamous …	/r/FemaleDatingStrategy	05/09/20 12:10 PM
15	Ladies! Here I present psycho fiancé version 3.5.8 who tried to cut his future wife’s birth control insert out of her arm using Box cutters while she was fast asleep. Also, to simply brush aside his statement "I was just trying to scare you", as if trying to scare your partner with a knife is legitimate and normal and the real problem is following through with cutting. Threats are worth leaving for.	/r/FemaleDatingStrategy	31/08/20 08:03 PM
18	FDS in the workplace? Don’t be a job pick me! Whenever possible, get directions, change of plans, corrections, etc in WRITTEN form. Especially in projects that require many people, levels of authority, and authorization. Shit rolls downhill, so don't position yourself as the last person at the bottom. Always be prepared to cover your ass. Having a paper trail can be the difference between seeking a new job or getting a promotion.	/r/FemaleDatingStrategy	29/08/20 03:48 PM
12	So sad... The comments section is full of women saying "RUN" but OP is only listening to the 2 men who commented saying ThiS iS tOtALLy NoRmAL! Someone make this a tag. I feel like this sums up 60% of womens' posts in relationship_advice and dating	/r/FemaleDatingStrategy	26/08/20 06:20 PM
18	Proving their point: Guy feels attacked on thread lamenting men's hygiene, says it is 'unfair' to claim that never washing one's hands is unhygienic. O.o I never brush my teeth but otherwise have great dental hygiene. I never pay my bills on time and frequently overdraw, otherwise I am financially responsible. I've totaled 2 cars, had 3 fender-benders and my license has been revoked, otherwise I'm an excellent driver. Lol	/r/FemaleDatingStrategy	23/08/20 08:55 PM
15	These scrotes only bother the scared, turn the tables on em, become scary. Be careful. The law isn't on your side unless you can afford a lawyer. It's a nice "girl power" ego boost to say "yeah I'll fuck up any guy who catcalls me, creeps on me, etc". You definitely win internet points posturing this badass babe attitude. But reality sucks for women. The first question cops ask is "did he touch you?" "Oh you hit him?" "Did he actually say something threatening to you?". My ex Domestic Abuser boyfriend would square up his shoulders and chest within centimeters of my bod…	/r/FemaleDatingStrategy	23/08/20 02:40 PM
11	The other side I guess (Not an excuse! I just found it interesting information) Thoughts?? Just like saying "I'm gonna lose weight". You get a gym membership and you go for the first month. You eat well for a couple months than start slipping back into old habits. Or you lose weight than 3 years later are fatter than when you started because you didnt continue the lifestyle change. Abusers will go through the motions of a couple therapy sessions and self reflection until it gets too hard. Like dieters, you get a little dopamine rush when you announce how you plan to change. It feels g…	/r/FemaleDatingStrategy	18/08/20 03:41 PM
5	I have no words!!! Shows men truly don't give a shit about women, including their own family members!!! Men are cowards	/r/FemaleDatingStrategy	17/08/20 01:32 AM
17	This is why you VET and NEVER have sex too early - bullet dodged SeXUaL cOmpATiBiLitY Whatever useful roots this concept came from has been destroyed by the overdone dipshit usage by men. They always say "gotta see if we're sexually compatible" when they want to get laid quickly. Bro, we're of the human species right, pretty sure our bodies are sexually compatible. What the hell are they talking about? ..Oh ... brain rot porn fetishes? artificially high jerking-off libido? They use the language of sex therapists and feminism to disguise their pushy-ness and v…	/r/FemaleDatingStrategy	12/08/20 07:59 PM
8	Men, on a thread about engagement rings. But women are the gold-diggers, amirite? 🙄 Another reason I always uptalk my immediate family's professions and economic status. I come from solid working class roots, my parents do not have college degrees but through luck and decades of work both now have very good paying and impressive sounding jobs. I never talk (early on) about the struggle and poverty of early childhood because LVM are always trying to treat women with bare minimum effort. If he thinks you come from poor roots he will treat you cheaply.	/r/FemaleDatingStrategy	09/08/20 08:57 PM
23	Boyfriend shamed girlfriend for sleeping in the same bed as her mom on a trip he wasn’t even invited too. This is what happens when men watch too much porn...THE AUDACITY 🤢 How utterly sad for him, and men like him who are incapable of understanding parent-child bond, female friendship, platonic love and non-pornographic affection. Generations of men will live and die missing crucial aspects of what it means to be human.	/r/FemaleDatingStrategy	04/08/20 06:45 PM
30	"selfless serving is masculinity, appreciation for the female energy increases testosterone" "fulfilling needs of others raises testosterone". John Gray Be cautious with these "pop psychology" by dudes. The root of these " modern men are full of estrogen, alphas are dying out" hurr hurr "lady brains" etc are from right wing anti-feminist sources. Mostly dudebros who buy books on "Dark Psychology" (edgy!) And took 1 anthropology class in undergrad and now insist they know how men and women are biologically programmed.	/r/FemaleDatingStrategy	01/08/20 04:02 PM
179	Can we send an FDS rescue squad for this woman? "He's a great partner" As he violently fucks my throat, ripping my mouth. He's a great partner" I say after I vomit from him forcing my head down against my will. "He's a great partner" As he uses my body as fleshlight, penetrating me dry, tearing at my delicate flesh. "He's a great partner" Even though he doesn't like to kiss me. "He's a great partner" Even though he doesn't acknowledge the effort and sexual favors I do for him. "He's a great partner" But he likes to see me cry, and doesn't car…	/r/FemaleDatingStrategy	31/07/20 04:09 PM
13	someone pls pick her Lol. Women always have to give more. "Snacks", popcorn, 2 pops and a candy is more expensive than 2 regular tickets. Dinner, generally more expensive than lunch. Shoes, once again, cheaper than a WHOLE fucking suit. Lol. This can't be a coincidence? Pickmes must know they are putting in more effort for bare minimum right?	/r/FemaleDatingStrategy	28/07/20 03:40 PM
5	"Real feminists" discuss how we are fake feminists enforcing patriarchy...meanwhile they have a post history of pushing financial abortion, being poly and blaming a woman with PPD for her husband watching porn. I'll stay here, thanks. FDS doesn't advocate that a man stays in an abusive relationship or live life without reciprocity in affection, respect and care. Strawmen everywhere	/r/FemaleDatingStrategy	28/07/20 01:17 AM
95	I know their dynamic is supposed to be cute and fun... but a comment like that just screams insecurity Ah yes. The manly act of showing disgust and discontent towards the woman who loves you. Gotta show off for other men, you know, dont want them to think you're "simping." And loving a woman sincerely is gaaaaaay	/r/FemaleDatingStrategy	26/07/20 04:53 PM
9	Why do men not know how to take flattering pictures?! "Flaw"	/r/FemaleDatingStrategy	21/07/20 02:10 PM
24	The Difference Between Being Used Versus Engaging In Sex: Reciprocation 100% everything you said. Look around and you see/ hear about all these "deadbedrooms", and men complaining about how they don't feel desired, and how women don't want as much sex or are "starfishing". Women complain about their own lack of sex drive, newly formed repulsion to their male partner etc etc. Have these people never considered the possibility that having a dynamic where one partner is expected to engage in sex acts that are degrading, or recieve aggressive, or "compromise" to have se…	/r/FemaleDatingStrategy	20/07/20 10:54 AM
11	Please explain this male behavior. When men are negative about a woman having typical feminine interests. Misogyny I like this YouTube video by Lindsey E. on society hating teen girl stuff. And how we are trained into hating other women. https://youtu.be/8O06tMbIKh0 This is her good take on Megan Fox, feminism and Transformers lol https://youtu.be/tKyrUMUervU I'm not a fan of twilight, but Lindsey is right, society shits on reletively harmless girl entertainment as being vapid and cringe but acts like stupid shit like Transformers is just good fun even though its equally vapid (and also violent and …	/r/FemaleDatingStrategy	20/07/20 12:31 AM
136	Why do modern men act like taking a woman out on a date is a 'chore' and not a privilege? Because those particular men are full of self loathing, low self-esteem and entitlement. And the other half are immature boys just following the choir of angry men on reddit and 4chan. A normal well-adjusted man can enjoy an evening out at a nice restaurant, trying a delicious meal, drinking a new cocktail or beer. He can happily do this alone, but also enjoys company, especially that of a woman he finds attractive. For him, a first date is simply the addition of a woman he wishes to impress upo…	/r/FemaleDatingStrategy	18/07/20 03:28 PM
4	Got banned from r/Feminism for saying that you don’t have to accept a dude’s Instagram model obsession American feminism is dead. Its corpse is simply being propped up by sticks.	/r/FemaleDatingStrategy	17/07/20 07:56 PM
9	Please fuck the robot and leave me alone. No loss on my half. Lol And how long until the novelty of these sex robots wear off, until the fantasy of a kind loving relationship with said robot becomes boring? Like the evolution from mild porn magazines to the extreme depraved violence of porn media today, access will never be enough . These losers will inevitably break their robots, let them fester in filth, breakdown due to no maintenance. They can only destroy.	/r/FemaleDatingStrategy	11/07/20 04:03 PM
32	I’m a bi woman, and a pickme just violated me Omg. I forgot the first option was meeting at her house. That's beyond the pale. I wish I could time travel to that moment at the bar and call them disgusting pigs and create a scene on your behalf.	/r/FemaleDatingStrategy	10/07/20 03:46 PM
11	I’m a bi woman, and a pickme just violated me Disgusting. She and her fiance ares massive losers. I've found not listing "bi" helps weed out some of these people.	/r/FemaleDatingStrategy	10/07/20 03:41 PM
93	Looking good at any age ladies! Shit, not even that. Just having the money to know your financially set....the lack of stress in that alone. Living in clean areas, eating well, not working dirty jobs, having access to personal trainer, chef, massage therapists, skin rejuvenation, days off when sick, vacation etc. Middle and working class American culture is a drain on the body. The cost of the hustle is too damn high!	/r/FemaleDatingStrategy	10/07/20 10:34 AM
41	How to deal with Gas Lighting I 100% believe the propensity to gas light is a character flaw, usually rooted in a need to exert or maintain control. It's an emotional lashing out, and people who act this way will not stop with communication because the very nature of the behavior is opposed to honest listening and fair conduct. I know everyone always says dump him, but seriously, dump him. This behavior will not magically stop. Asking him, talking about how it makes you feel, "proving" to him what he is doing (he'll deny and…	/r/FemaleDatingStrategy	09/07/20 10:50 AM
44	Have you ever ended a relationship because you realized his Dreamgirl wasn’t you—it was an ex or one of his friends? Even putting the ex girlfriend situation to the side for a moment, him YELLING at you, using a nasty tone of voice and demeaning you, as response to the woodworking question is immediate "pack your shit and go" territory.	/r/FemaleDatingStrategy	08/07/20 10:46 AM
43	'Ouch my ego' Lol I had ex boyfriend call crying on the phone a month after I left him about how upset he was because I had once called him a monster. Lol. This dude strangled and sexual assaulted me, my response was to call him a monster and leave. Literally that was it on my end. But he was hurt by my big meanie word.	/r/FemaleDatingStrategy	07/07/20 03:41 PM
12	Why the moment you remind a taken man, who has been hitting on you, that he has a girlfriend, he immediately becomes hostile? I work in the male-dominated construction industry and I ALWAYS bring up the man's wife when said dude starts flirting with me or trying to test the waters with "jokes". Your 100% right, dudes get either defensive/pissed OR straighten up there act real quick. I've been invited to after work drinks, restaurant lunches (just the two of us, not whole crew). I always say no, even if the guy is "well-meaning" because if it looks suspicious it will be treated as suspicious and that's how rumors start.…	/r/FemaleDatingStrategy	06/07/20 03:50 PM
63	Just a FRACTION of some of the subs banned for sexualizing minors on reddit. I’m honestly disgusted by this Pornfreerelationships is also gone	/r/FemaleDatingStrategy	29/06/20 09:49 PM
29	If a man is this stingy, I don’t see the point in staying with him. Men who act like this towards women aren't motivated by stingyness, they're sexist and probably reading redpill type shit. Guys will buy their bros a round of beer at the bar, they take pride in showing off for their friends. But if the same man views women as manipulative, liars and users, then he'll insist in splitting on nickle diming his date in order to "teach that gold digger a lesson" or "beat her at her own game" .	/r/FemaleDatingStrategy	29/06/20 02:55 PM
61	"Feminist" supporting sex work The underlying assumption of that analogy and libfem pornsick ideas is that ALL WOMEN are potential sex workers. Seriously. Since I was 10 years old I've had men creep on me. Never had a guy assume I was a postal worker, or a coal miner, or a doctor, but you best believe I've been solicited for sex. Offered money and gifts in exchange for my body. Cupcakes are made by bakers, a person baking, but not all sex is produced by sex workers. Stop talking like women are just naturally prostitutes, stop…	/r/FemaleDatingStrategy	29/06/20 10:44 AM
24	Guy on PP trying to convince me that expecting men to pay for dates is a bad strategy while admitting he would barely pay for a 9/10 woman. But why would I want to date a man who won’t pay because he thinks I am a 2/10? Lol! Just another reminder why you should never settle by splitting the bill! Just say NO to using an attractive rating scale to refer to human worth. That's porn talk, because for these men womens' worth is tied to how fuckable said man considers her. I block men who talk the way this dude does. Like, it's one thing to have a casual conversation with a friend and say "oh wow, this guy/girl was fire, seriously a 9/10" or to expose arrogence and hypocrisy like saying "this guy/girl feels entitled to a supermodel but is 3/10 with cheetos stains on their chin." But I can say…	/r/FemaleDatingStrategy	29/06/20 12:04 AM
4	NVM writes an essay on what he wants in his partner. It is not a satire. Comedy Gold. OMG.STOP. I'm dying "Sheldon Cooper from ‘The Big Bang Theory’ While I share some characteristics with all four of the main characters in the show, Sheldon is definitely the one that I associate myself with the most. In fact, I’m somewhat envious of his ability to focus on his work despite the personal drama that goes on around him, as well as his didactic memory. Furthermore, things like the roommate agreement, and the relationship agreement, seem like perfectly reasonable things to me. They wo…	/r/FemaleDatingStrategy	22/06/20 10:11 PM
7	I would NOPE right out of this one. Free babysitter, cook, and she’s STILL not stroking his ego enough? I’ve been with a guy like this and you can NEVER make them happy. The need for validation is unattainable. When he says "feel" he means is literally... He wants you to drop to your knees and suck his dick when he gets home.	/r/FemaleDatingStrategy	17/06/20 01:19 AM
53	Young Americans (and others) are having less sex than ever. Newly released study shows in our hyper sexualized culture - real life sex isn’t. No mention of the obvious: the ubiquitousness of porn that creates legions of screen-sexuals & addicts not hardwired for irl sex. Porn. Also, obesity	/r/FemaleDatingStrategy	14/06/20 12:26 AM
6	"I pay for you, I own you" Wow your post hit hard. Is the dinning/food dynamic a common issue within domestically abusive houses/patriarchal men? For me, dinnertime was always so stressful and unpleasant. We ("ladies") could only eat in silence, don't chew or breath too loud....and I was always somehow too loud regardless of how invisible I tried to be. Dinner was like being on display, waiting for your turn to be demeaned. And yeah, being told nothing was actually mine, not my room or clothes, etc because I didn't pay th…	/r/FemaleDatingStrategy	07/06/20 07:21 PM
3	Toxic, red pill type invading my friend's Facebook page for Single HahaahahaHaaHHahAh Women just need to collectively laugh at men posting these brain dead "gotchyas". Yes you fucking dweeb, an attractive man making a reasonable post is gonna garner attention. It's not womens fault if the pic isnt actually op.	/r/FemaleDatingStrategy	01/06/20 08:21 PM
28	The nonsense men read to convince themselves they are high value When men say "respect" in regards to women's behavior, what they actually mean is "submission". "Sometimes people use “respect” to mean “treating someone like a person” and sometimes they use “respect” to mean “treating someone like an authority” and sometimes people [men]who are used to being treated like an authority say “if you won’t respect me I won’t respect you” and they mean “if you won’t treat me like an authority I won’t treat you like a person” and they[men] think they’re being fair bu…	/r/FemaleDatingStrategy	01/06/20 08:09 PM
33	At what age is a guy still being single/never been in a relationship a red flag? And how it is different from a woman? I think its 100% ok for a man or woman to be single, even for many years in a row, at any point in his or her life. 38 and single for the past 5 years? Thats ok. Self improvement. Healing. Work goals. Children. All good reasons why someone may be older and single. Redflags: People who have that forever "trade in" or "serial monogamy" mentality. So I'm not OK dating a man who has never been in a relationship (3+ months) after the age of 25. A man in in his 30's + who seeks out large age gaps or y…	/r/FemaleDatingStrategy	30/05/20 01:16 PM
83	This woman saves a drunk girl at the bar and stands up to the man trying to take advantage of her. I bet he will weave a sob story of how he was falsley accused of trying to rape a woman by some crazy broad. These men know what they're doing. They lie to your face, to others and often to themselves. And when that doesn't work they resort to intimidation and often, violence. And LVM men like that bartender standby and watch. Vile	/r/FemaleDatingStrategy	30/05/20 02:16 AM
4	Pickup Artists Will Always Be Pathetic (Cringe) The original video without the commentary is better....lets you really absorb the cringe. Unfortunately I can't find it	/r/FemaleDatingStrategy	29/05/20 11:07 PM
82	Yesterday my [21F] boyfriend [24M] slapped me for not putting enough makeup on before we had sex. It was the first time he hit me. He apologised last night. Should I give him another chance or dump him now? "Yesterday when he told me he wanted to have sex".... Jesus. You were summoned for sex. No kisses, and gentle talk, or joy or passion or effort from him. Just told to prepare your face so he can fuck you and go back to work. And then he verbally shames you, hits you, fucks you while you dissociate, and sex with him usually hurts anyways. What misery.	/r/FemaleDatingStrategy	29/05/20 10:42 PM
48	Wife catches her husband paying for porn on only fans, which he lies about, but wife finds undeniable proof. REDDIT Scrotes tell her “it’s just porn” and manage to guilt trip OP into apologizing for being mad about paid porn subscription services. 🤦‍♀️ So he's her pimp. How empowering.	/r/FemaleDatingStrategy	28/05/20 11:01 AM
84	Ahhh emotionally abusing your wife for tiktok clout. How romantic!😍 Her eyes say it all	/r/FemaleDatingStrategy	27/05/20 12:32 PM
281	Ahhh emotionally abusing your wife for tiktok clout. How romantic!😍 Men: women don't cook, or act feminine anymore. Woman: baking quietly, minding her business and enjoying cooking food from scratch. Man: yOU SUcK At BaKiNG. Woman: takes it, doesn't lash out but acts with grace, sadness and quiet frustration. Men; neg demean * jOkE* disrespect "Women aren't traditional anymore. "	/r/FemaleDatingStrategy	27/05/20 12:32 PM
128	What kind of man gets off on beating his wife until she’s unconscious? A pornsick one. For the lurking Pickmeishas and FDS skeptic browsers take note: IT IS NEVER ENOUGH FOR THESE PORNSICK MEN. YOU WILL NEVER SATIATE A MAN WHO WANTS TO HURT AND DEGRADE YOU, HIS DEPRAVITY GOAL-POST WILL ONLY MOVE WITH EVERY ACT YOU SUBMIT TO. WOMEN. STOP "COMPROMISING". A.k.a making concessions. So-called "vanilla" relationships (i.e normal) need to stop using bdsm lingo, contrary to the kink community's screeching, boundary "compromise" and "TaLkinG iT oUt" isn't actually what's needed. Sisters...…	/r/FemaleDatingStrategy	26/05/20 08:41 PM
181	Never date men who self-identify as “Gamers.” Man: "I want to carry on my LEgAcY" Lmao. Who the fuck do you think you are? You wanna pass on your legacy of being a dimwit leech and addict? Pass on your heirloom crusty couch and sticky remote? Gtfo	/r/FemaleDatingStrategy	24/05/20 06:27 PM
7	Movie/series suggestions? HBO's Watchmen !!! Birds of prey Charlie's Angels (newest one 2020) Emma( 2020)	/r/FemaleDatingStrategy	21/05/20 01:50 AM
118	Why is feminist media so invested in pressuring women into "maintenance sex"? Why, in the era of #MeToo, are we still being told to ignore our internal warning systems and engage in sex we don't want for the sole benefit of men? How about we pressure men into being more fuckable so it's not a chore? Have sex even if you don't want it. Great fucking advice "maintanance sex" ......maintaining what??? If the point is to maintain intimacy and healthy connection, how is coercing or reluctantly agreeing to being a passive recipient of sex actually help further the goal of maintaining a healthy intimate relationship? Their concept of maintenance sex is just more sick porn influenced male catering. Sex is for men! You will dispense sex to men when they want it and if you don't you will end up alone…	/r/FemaleDatingStrategy	15/05/20 05:30 PM
22	Instead of offering Covid19 rent leniency, predator landlord suggests she spend the night with him. Claims it was a "misunderstanding". Libfem pickmes: its just sex work. Its EmPowErInG. He's a GOod GUy	/r/FemaleDatingStrategy	15/05/20 12:59 AM
3	This pickmeisha (who is probably a man) is so pathetic 100% written by the dude	/r/FemaleDatingStrategy	12/05/20 09:58 PM
1	Melanie gives up John Hopkins Medical School to move to San Diego with her NFL boyfriend, who of course cheats on her and ends up with a side-baby. (The GAME) 🤡🤡🤡	/r/FemaleDatingStrategy	21/04/20 11:46 PM
16	Continued.... uhhhhh no it’s not because I’m liberal (which I am) but more so being a member of the bulk of people you hate (women)...?!? 🙄 Bro....you hating most women is not an assumption on her part if its actually what you said/wrote. Lol. Does he know what the word "assumption" means? Does he expect women to not form opinions of him based on the actual words he uses to describe himself.???	/r/FemaleDatingStrategy	17/04/20 10:23 PM
7	The only appropriate response to this kind of manipulative ass message is BLOCKED +1 for Stepdad	/r/FemaleDatingStrategy	01/04/20 08:41 PM