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It’s ok to want something different for yourself than you want for someone else. You disagree, and that’s also ok. Hypotheticals like this are a recipe for bullshit.
/r/newTRP09/09/22 07:37 AM
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They’re housing you and feeding you; I don’t understand how they’re taking advantage here. Unless you pay your own rent, you aren’t independent. The play is to work enough to pay your own way, if you don’t like their influence.
/r/newTRP28/08/22 04:31 PM
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Seeing the danger is half way to avoiding it.
/r/newTRP12/08/22 11:47 PM
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The theory says no. You’re just raising another man’s child. Beta bux etc.
/r/newTRP11/08/22 07:53 AM
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What did pointing that out get you? What did expressing your opinion get you? What did your “balls” get you?
/r/newTRP10/08/22 01:23 PM
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Everything in this is autistic. You did a dumb thing, were sad when everyone else didn’t do the dumb thing with you, and now you’re going to run away. Keep your friends, but find more who are at a similar life stage. And STFU. Edit: when you’re speaking, there should be a purpose behind it. Not just quacking for self satisfaction or moral rampage. Loose lips sink ships. Be intentional.
/r/newTRP10/08/22 07:55 AM
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It truly was a wonderful time of learning and discussion. TRP is extremely nuanced though. You can see how easy it is to misconstrue, with no effort put into outward appearance. No point in getting angry about it. Search “asktrp sidebar archive” and you’ll find packaged pdfs. And know that you wouldn’t have received as kind a welcome there. The answers would have been “Oneitis, didn’t vet, didn’t promote, didn’t run dread, clearly hasn’t read the sidebar. Mtfu, lift, f 10 chicks, stop being a do…
/r/newTRP09/08/22 07:36 AM
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It’s so trp normal. Like, this is the same as a bazillion trp posts. I don’t think you need to take it down, but just know that it isn’t a unique experience.
/r/newTRP08/08/22 10:48 PM
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A few top posts discuss the importance of “vetting”. Rollo discusses “promoting” a lot in his stuff. Once you’re not going into relationships at full steam, and are trusting at an appropriate level, you’ll feel more secure. Very well, promote slowly. I think it’s worth remembering just how normal a story this is. All the standard advice applies. I’d look up an asktrp sidebar and read through it again. You’ll be fine. You just need a bit of time.
/r/newTRP08/08/22 10:47 PM
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What of the trp reading have you done? Which books did you read / did you do the top posts of archived asktrp? I ask this because it sounds like you’ve never heard of “oneitis”, and this is just another bland case of bpd chick oneitis.
/r/newTRP08/08/22 09:33 PM
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Why did you get kicked out? This is material to the story. They might not be toxic. You might be a dickhead. Trp does say study hard, work hard, lift heavy. Focus on improving yourself and advancing your position. Don’t get distracted from your core purpose by women. The key either way is to move out. Then they’re powerless with you. It’s worth keeping frame and being polite as much as possible.
/r/newTRP05/08/22 07:25 AM
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Part of TRP is accepting that it is l, at some level, a numbers game. Abundance mentality is a core principle. So yes, move on. Also, you say “friend zone” rather than “not waste any time on”. Are you looking for another friend? Would she make a good friend? Is it a better idea to keep her as a friend than spend more time with current friends? Are you using someone you can’t sleep with for emotional needs better filled by someone who will sleep with you?
/r/newTRP03/08/22 07:53 AM
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Just go for a walk. It’s totally ok and normal to want time to yourself. Also, do work. Trp isn’t about sitting on your hole.
/r/newTRP02/08/22 10:56 AM
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Totally agree. He uses some wacko language to describe things. I think the ideas under that language are quite good though. It’s like some good ideas were translated by a homeopathy reiki dude.
/r/newTRP27/07/22 09:10 PM
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I see you’ve written this about some legitimate posts too. Do you have a reason? What’s up? What brings you to trp?
/r/newTRP27/07/22 07:37 PM
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Skim read the chapter titles of “the way of the superior man”, and see if you like them. I found it very broadly like an implementation and practise of nmmng, even though I read them the other way around. Rollo is pure RP philosophy taken to its final form. I don’t think I really got the difference between game and RP until reading that.
/r/newTRP27/07/22 07:35 PM
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Should we @ a mod or just downvote it away?
/r/newTRP27/07/22 07:32 PM
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This is true, but the deeper problem is that you’re dependent on their attention, and closure, and your whole person is disturbed and on the hook while you wait. This is a deep you-problem. You’re needy and impatient and insecure. And you’re being rude to your mom. “Fucking answer” is an outrageous thing to say to a family member. I’d block you, or at least be super reluctant to bother texting you or talk to you. Probably answer everything you write slowly. “Stop hoping for the completion of any…
/r/newTRP27/07/22 07:31 PM
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I think any oneitis story does this, and it’s basically “I hit the gym, and slept with other women”. Genuinely, not being silly, that’s it.
/r/newTRP27/07/22 06:31 PM
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Jesus that’s a lot of text. I skimmed the first few paragraphs. I can see why you’re getting ignored. You write like they’re out to get you. I doubt they are. They probably just dgaf. Some people just aren’t into you. They don’t want more interaction, and they don’t want the hassle of telling you that. It’s easier to just walk away. Write less. Text for logistics.
/r/newTRP27/07/22 06:29 PM
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This is dumb. Make her make the call. Don’t dump yourself. It’s just low self esteem shit. It’s ok to suck. Just make sure you have direction of travel. Aladdin was broke, but dude had charisma. Also, seeing “LOML” on an RP sub was fucking wild. Like, major insanity, probably would have been banned from asktrp for trolling. Google “oneitis”.
/r/newTRP27/07/22 06:25 PM
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I don’t think it’s a good idea, but, I think you should try to do it, because you clearly want to. Report back here for science. Adding the condition that she has expressed a desire to slim down too. If she doesn’t want to, it’s not going to happen. And if it doesn’t work, you should leave. Give yourself 3 months or something.
/r/newTRP27/07/22 06:20 PM
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It’s a bit more mellow, and I really like it. Having said that, we could do with a bit more sidebar/foundational reading. Without rollo, nmmng, deida etc, it’s very difficult for new folks to know what has been learned, and get the gist of the principles.
/r/newTRP27/07/22 06:17 PM
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I read the other comments. They’re all theory or angles. It clearly matters to you what she does, so what’s reasonable isn’t really material. It’s going to bother you either way. How you do it is probably apply the level of pressure appropriate to steer things. “I admire people who do X” “People who do sports get harassed.” “Y is an interesting field.” No need to leap to ultimatums. Do remember that some parts of physio involve challenging patients, which can be very hard to manage emotionally, …
/r/newTRP26/07/22 10:29 PM
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It helps, but it’s a bit odd for someone not to give a number. Insta is much more invasive.
/r/newTRP26/07/22 03:43 PM
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Depends on what you said to him.
/r/newTRP25/07/22 05:21 AM
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Jerk off less, lift heavier, eat good food. Win at sports, low stress.
/r/newTRP24/07/22 09:56 PM
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Just go for a walk or bring them to your place or go to theirs. You don’t have to spend. It’s ok to be broke. Worst case they bail, and you’re where you started. I think monk mode would be you chickening out.
/r/newTRP24/07/22 09:17 PM
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Sounds like she isn’t sh in where she eats. Just ignore it. You’ll be fine. It’s ok to ask people out and get a no. It’s basically a mild compliment.
/r/newTRP24/07/22 10:20 AM
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You’re asking a calibration question. The only answer is for you to get experience. It sounds like she was a pain in the ass. Expect attrition.
/r/newTRP22/07/22 11:14 PM
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Tbh, if someone’s playing those games it’s not worth the time. Since you’re on TRP, my advice is read the asktrp sidebar, date min 3 women on rotation, and shed the ones who take too much work. Since you’re living a BP life, I’d say you can do BP better. Just avoid the cling, and vet harder. What you’re offering is premium shit for chicks. They should be mentally together and have a good background. Even for BP you should date and vet aggressively before promoting to exclusive and girlfriend.
/r/newTRP22/07/22 06:45 PM
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That’s actually unhealthy light. BMI is kinda BS, but a handy orientation. Google “BMI chart” and check out what’s healthy. “Strong” guys tend to be the high end of healthy with just muscle.
/r/newTRP22/07/22 03:25 PM
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Sounds pretty healthy. Not sure you need much advice here. To stay zoomed in on your question, it’s not a shit test since you got dumped, and you don’t need to next since you got dumped. You’ll find another and have a great time.
/r/newTRP22/07/22 03:23 PM
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You’re kinda having a nice BP time. It doesn’t make you a bad person, but you’re not really asking RP questions here. Sounds like you smothered her a bit. So probably dial that down a little next time for longevity. She has nexted you, so you don’t really have an action. Probably don’t steal her sunnies. Definitely aim for “polite acquaintance” instead of friend so you don’t become an orbiter. Time to find another.
/r/newTRP22/07/22 12:16 PM
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The general rule is the top 10% of guys get 90% of the attention. Girls do not like skinny. I don’t know what 99lbs are because it’s 2022 and those units are from the dark ages, but I can safely say that if you go to the gym and get strong, you will have more success with women. You literally answer your question in your question. Lifting is trp101. I don’t know what you’re really after here. I would recommend the sidebar of r/asktrp, accessible via archive, because lifting is one of the first i…
/r/newTRP22/07/22 08:59 AM
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Well, you might be Homelander from the boys? But mostly it shows you’re totally insecure, and probably have shit to sort out with your parents. You’re avoidant in that when you face conflict, or difficult emotions, you try to destroy them by running away from people or attacking the people. This usually comes from past experiences of powerlessness. Normal people can be challenged and stay either involved, or not be agressive. So basically probably childhood issues relating to powerlessness needs…
/r/newTRP20/07/22 11:00 PM
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That is totally to be expected. What do you get better at when drunk? Also, I know this is trp and not game, but sarging sober is Game 101. I’d recommend using the archive of asktrp to do some sidebar reading.
/r/newTRP17/07/22 09:17 AM
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This is you hoping for closure. “Stop hoping for the completion of anything in life.” This is an entire chapter in The Way of the Superior Man. Just walk away. It’s ok. Not everything gets wrapped up in a bow. It’s ok if someone out in the universe doesn’t like you. I’m fact, if you’re not a pushover, it’s inevitable.
/r/newTRP15/07/22 08:51 AM
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Yeah, apply some brain cells to the process. Don’t just friend a bum and call the job done.
/r/newTRP15/07/22 08:48 AM
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A lot of RP folks go for a quiet form of status, especially in the office. Do the work well, be polite but direct, don’t take crap. Status is a secondary effect that comes from the other things. If you’re going for top level roles, you need status in an industry, but again, the status comes from the work. If you’re talking women, the status will come from lifting, money, and those other RP traits you’ve probably read about. I think you’re in a good place mentally if you’re focused on results and…
/r/newTRP14/07/22 10:07 AM
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I said “all”. Do the reading, or your questions will be basic. Probably start with No More Mr Nice Guy. The problem is that your perspective will be dominated by a girl perspective. Men experience society differently, and have to behave differently to women. You need men around to know what that is.
/r/newTRP13/07/22 11:57 AM
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Yes. It is a red flag. This is a crazy question. She shouldn’t dictate to you who your friends are. Having said that, if all your friends are girls, you have a problem. Have you read NMMNG? With asktrp gone, the r/marriedredpill sidebar may be the best sidebar around for reading atm.
/r/newTRP12/07/22 09:12 PM
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Respect is earned, not automatic. You’ve just said you’re incompetent. Get good at your job, and then worry about your popularity.
/r/newTRP11/07/22 03:15 PM
You can kill a man, but you can't kill an idea.

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