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16

Too much too soon. If you want to build sexual tension, you have to show it in your expressions and give the occasional touch throughout the date. Don’t just jump into her personal space from the get go without her feeling comfortable with you. It’s not necessarily that you can’t in any circumstance, it’s more so that if this is your first time meeting her, unless shes down bad, she’s going to want to warm up to you first.
/r/seduction14/09/25 10:07 PM
8

Sall good op. I commend your efforts to not be so willing to give it up, very respectable. Funny thing is, lots of men complain about how women are so promiscuous yet here you are, saying you won’t be giving blow jobs during a car ride and guys are basically saying you’re too prude.
/r/seduction14/09/25 01:39 AM
1

What does my age have to do with this conversation? Who are you to say that people who are older but look young aren’t afflicted with a lot of stress too? Genetics play a huge role in how you will look and skincare is another one. Things like your diet and exercise are also factors that play a role. If you look at the average person and their health, generally speaking, they look their age. The ones who don’t are obviously genetically different.
/r/seduction11/09/25 05:20 AM
12

Idk, I don’t think it makes all that much of a difference. Younger looking people are just genetically gifted and/or have a really good skincare routine.
/r/seduction07/09/25 05:58 AM
1

Flirting is basically having fun. Just overall social skills, it’s not saying some magic words. Have you ever just had a great time with your friends? It’s pretty much the same thing except, there is going to be a little bit of sexual tension if you’re into her.
/r/seduction26/08/25 04:53 AM
1

You just gotta be ok with failure. The scarcity mindset is the issue, if you become outcome independent and think of approaches as just having fun, you can take off some of that mental burden.
/r/seduction24/08/25 02:04 PM
1

Ofc she was lol
/r/seduction24/08/25 03:33 AM
3

Yes
/r/seduction03/11/24 03:18 AM
1

I don’t think it’s cynical if you believe someone has issues when they’re attracted to someone who ignores them.
/r/seduction02/11/24 02:16 AM
5

It’s a first date, why you focused on loosening up?
/r/seduction01/11/24 03:51 PM
10

Weird anime stuff translating into irl fantasies I guess?
/r/seduction05/10/24 04:27 AM
1

What? You mean she shouldn’t wear clothes that expose her entire back, shows the entire outline of her crotch and exposes her rack? 😱
/r/seduction03/09/24 01:49 AM
2

Likely, I’ve seen my coworkers on tinder.
/r/seduction09/03/24 06:50 PM
13

This 100% cannot stress this enough!
/r/seduction07/10/23 12:10 AM
64

Brutally honest
/r/seduction02/08/23 07:02 AM
3

The issue you have is that you think you need to say something special because you don’t want to “mess up” this opportunity you think you have. The best thing you can do when trying to socialize is to keep it simple and friendly. If they reciprocate, then you’ve got something going for you but if not, then it was never meant to be.
/r/seduction04/10/22 10:54 PM
2

Absolutely not!
/r/seduction19/09/22 01:00 AM
1

Someone plays fromsoft games
/r/seduction24/08/22 02:25 PM
1

This is really good, definitely should get coossposted
/r/seduction17/08/22 01:57 AM
3

I couldn’t not give you an award for this.
/r/seduction15/08/22 07:38 PM
74

Double text??? Rookie mistake, I usually quadruple text if she takes an hour+ to respond.
/r/seduction15/08/22 04:17 AM
2

Ummm…
/r/seduction15/08/22 04:05 AM
13

This is like a “just don’t be sad when you’re depressed” kind of post.
/r/seduction15/08/22 02:45 AM
1

Flirting is quite ambiguous so no one’s going to give you a direct answer. I think (at least in my personal experience) the level of flirting itself is highly dependent on chemistry. A lot of times, the things you feel comfortable saying works because there is an interest to a degree. If you “dip your toes” so to speak in a flirtatious sense, you can tell if the girl is ok with your advances. You can just escalate incrementally if she is ok with it. Flirting is mostly body language. The way you …
/r/seduction13/08/22 03:03 AM
1

I’ve only ever been to 1 (this year) and I was really surprised. I didn’t know that cosplaying was that big of a thing (and there were lots of girls dressing up). I think many dudes who go there just haven’t been exposed to many women in general so when they see lots of attractive women who are into the same things they are into, primal instincts emerge and dominate.
/r/seduction11/08/22 12:22 AM
106

comic con is a milf paradise idky. Never seen that many attractive women in one location in my life.
/r/seduction10/08/22 01:05 AM
3

No fucking clue and have no idea why his name is plastered all over Reddit. Who fucking cares.
/r/seduction04/08/22 04:56 AM
1

My friend has but she turned out to be a gold digger
/r/seduction28/07/22 05:30 PM
12

Nothing works unless I don’t try
/r/seduction28/07/22 01:13 PM
1

Omg this is a great analogy.
/r/seduction24/07/22 04:08 PM
2

I feel ya but it’s still possible. If you’re looking for tight nit friendships, that’s a little harder to get.
/r/seduction15/07/22 06:36 PM
1

Probably tinder. But then again, you could meet women almost anywhere and make a move. Women are just attracted to older men. It’s like us being attracted to a youthful 20s girl, 30+ year old man has the same level of attraction.
/r/seduction15/07/22 01:27 PM
13

No, that’s the point
/r/seduction07/07/22 11:25 PM
102

Girls HATE that in my experience
/r/seduction07/07/22 07:02 PM
-1

Not sure what you’re talking about so just gonna ignore
/r/seduction03/07/22 02:23 PM
1

I’d say in this instance “I guess that means you’re more manlier than me.”
/r/seduction03/07/22 03:20 AM
0

I think it’s just western girls. The foreign girls are much more direct and tend to not play the mind games.
/r/seduction03/07/22 02:29 AM
7

Best advice here.
/r/seduction01/07/22 01:05 AM
2

I live in Vancouver
/r/seduction23/06/22 02:44 AM
3

I loled pretty hard at your analogy
/r/seduction22/06/22 05:51 PM
6

I straight up refuse to even entertain white women. Like you said man, idk what it is, but they are just bitchy, entitled and provide very little value to relationships. Well I didn’t say it 🤷🏿‍♂️ I’ve actually given up on white women, I learned a few months ago that it’s just not worth it. Older white women are another story though but I’m still quite young.
/r/seduction21/06/22 11:59 PM
8

Fucking hate the dance, idk how y’all handle it
/r/seduction21/06/22 11:53 PM
18

Women aren’t Pokémon you don’t need to hit all of them up. If you want to get with a white woman in the west, good luck, it’s as hard as you say. They’re definitely not all like that but you will find quite a few who like the weird games. Sounds like you’re like me who is just direct.
/r/seduction21/06/22 11:51 PM
61

Shit, speaking from experience, this is true. “Hot” girls do have more noticeable patterns. I guess there is also the fact that there aren’t many dudes confident enough to hit on them so when a guy actually does it, they may assume a certain amount of self confidence in that guy.
/r/seduction14/06/22 02:15 PM
1

I don’t jerk much so no, it’s not a porn thing, at least for me.
/r/seduction13/06/22 06:40 AM
4

It is sadly. You’ll hear a lot of people say that they don’t awe anyone anything so they will just ghost without a care.
/r/seduction13/06/22 01:36 AM
1

Guessing you must have had a lot of these eh?
/r/seduction09/06/22 11:32 PM
4

I understand but my hesitation is what causes this, that’s why it’s a slap in the face.
/r/seduction09/06/22 11:32 PM
10

We will lose hope if you don’t make a move. Will we still want you? Yes, but your inaction makes us feel undesirable-so to protect ourselves, you’re rejected. I feel like this is the biggest slap in the face I’ve ever received.
/r/seduction09/06/22 10:47 PM
2

Yeah what you describe is true confidence. The difference is the level of projection of your acceptance of your flaws.
/r/seduction09/06/22 04:36 PM
1

Same I’ve never asked for consent, never had any issues either. As long as you’re not going for it if she backs off then you’re good.
/r/seduction08/06/22 10:26 PM
17

Half of the time I want a wholesome girlfriend to grow with, then the other half I feel like I’m better off just pumping and dumping whores. It’s tough man. This is so relatable I thought it was just me who felt like this
/r/seduction07/06/22 09:07 PM
1

Nah I honestly wasn’t, I was just having some fun
/r/seduction31/05/22 12:19 PM
33

At a club setting? I told a group of girls that I was surprised to see such pretty girls at the club and they absolutely loved it. Probably because I wasn’t trying to get in their pants (well, the girl I said it to anyways).
/r/seduction30/05/22 11:07 PM
5

My name is ____
/r/seduction30/05/22 11:06 PM
5

Definitely stealing that one
/r/seduction30/05/22 01:17 AM
1

I get the reference 🤭
/r/seduction30/05/22 01:15 AM
17

I’m dead 😂😂😂
/r/seduction26/05/22 07:45 PM
4

😂😂😂
/r/seduction23/05/22 02:02 AM
2

Wow, I’m not such a direct person but that’s true.
/r/seduction22/05/22 03:50 PM
12

This is actually good advice
/r/seduction22/05/22 03:37 PM
7

Even a horny town citizen is saying it!
/r/seduction19/05/22 03:53 PM
2

😂😂😂 I’m weak
/r/seduction18/05/22 11:48 PM
1

Very normal
/r/seduction18/05/22 08:11 PM
1

You don’t really have to text her, just check in before the date to confirm.
/r/seduction17/05/22 12:53 AM
4

Wow this pretty much unpacked exactly what flirting is, never really thought about it but yeah, flirting is like 2 children playing.
/r/seduction17/05/22 12:22 AM
1

This is so true it actually scares me
/r/seduction16/05/22 02:08 PM
4

Note taken
/r/seduction13/05/22 12:41 AM
1

It’s not that easy
/r/seduction13/05/22 12:13 AM
8

You’re clearly hilarious, I wish I could be that witty.
/r/seduction13/05/22 12:12 AM
1

Casual compliments.
/r/seduction13/05/22 12:11 AM
5

This made me shiver
/r/seduction11/05/22 01:10 AM
1

This is a great answer, thank you!
/r/seduction09/05/22 07:54 PM
1

So spot on I don’t know how to fix this 😭
/r/seduction04/05/22 06:57 PM
0

Sheesh, this is it. You always have good comments.
/r/seduction02/05/22 03:06 PM
51

I think the question is just not articulated properly. The question in general IS “how to be attractive.” If you can’t attract women then there are things you need to do/not do.
/r/seduction29/04/22 09:54 PM
8

Your hair matters. Not necessarily the style but just having it nice and kept goes a long ways
/r/seduction29/04/22 08:15 PM
33

Same. Just smile like you’re man of the year, not because you want the girl to like you, but because it’s good to have a positive vibe.
/r/seduction26/04/22 01:46 PM
1

I think peoples living standards have a lot to do with their self esteem. If you don’t feel like you’re in a good place in your life, you’re going to feel shitty no matter what.
/r/seduction25/04/22 07:57 PM
3

She called you super cute with 2 exclamation marks… what else do you need? For her to confess her love? Just ask her out on another date, she’s obviously fine with going out with you.
/r/seduction24/04/22 05:03 AM
2

Damn I wish I had an award for you
/r/seduction24/04/22 02:29 AM
1

50 fucking percent??? Wtf I’d be sad before angry, it ain’t that serious, it’s not some engagement or anything.
/r/seduction24/04/22 01:52 AM
1

Yup, that’s all I want, she doesn’t have to be “hot” just attractive enough to me and someone I enjoy spending time with.
/r/seduction19/04/22 12:56 PM
1

lol I identify with this so much
/r/seduction19/04/22 12:55 PM
1

There’s no sequence for you as you are you. What you need to do is understand “why” so you can do “what.” Keep practicing, but keep in mind not to seem desperate. What you want to do is approach women who seem more open but don’t just say hi to the ones you want. Start by enjoying your time in the club. Spread some positive energy so people are aware that you are having fun. Soon enough, after people see your one of those fun guys at the club, you’ll have a better chance at getting into social i…
/r/seduction16/04/22 03:01 PM
1

If you want something you’re going to have to try things outside of your bubble dude, stop making excuses. You’re too afraid to ask girls out? Well that’s why you’re single. You don’t want to seek help? Well that’s why you’re too afraid to ask. What you lack is experience and if you keep making excuses as to why you shouldn’t put yourself out there, you’re going to be single for life. Nothings going to walk into your lap, confidence isn’t going to manifest magically, everything requires practice…
/r/seduction16/04/22 02:44 PM
2

Damn, you sound like a fun person to hang out with. It’s all about being comfortable with your own skin. Whatever makes you feel energized and gives off that same energy is what will attract people.
/r/seduction16/04/22 01:13 AM
2

This. Honestly it’s intimidating at first but you’ll figure out what works and what doesn’t through practice. I’ve done it and I have social anxiety, practice makes better.
/r/seduction16/04/22 01:10 AM
3

Damn that’s a good rating system My ABC: Ability - 6 Body - 8 Charisma - 6 Total score - 20/30
/r/seduction14/04/22 09:03 AM
1

You were told how but you want what. How to get better is by practice. What you’re asking is too specific for anyone to articulate. You want words to say in social situations? There are no magic words, you yourself have to learn how to communicate. Everyone has their own set of expressions, taking someone else’s words do not make your own speech patterns genuine, that is not how you will improve. You WILL start with awkward moments. You’re going to have to learn to be comfortable with failing be…
/r/seduction12/04/22 07:13 AM
2

Yup, you’ve summed me up perfectly. I’m not the “seduce women” type of guy. I’ve tried it, and I’ve learned things but it’s just not me and is exhausting. I don’t get why we have to pretend like we don’t like each other until we do and then try to go on a date. Can’t we just try to get to know each other and see if we’re compatible?
/r/seduction11/04/22 10:58 PM
1

Why are you asking for “what” instead of accepting “how?” They just told you what you need to do in order to improve your social skills and you’re asking for literal examples of how to improve. You are you, no one can tell you how to articulate, how to have positive vibes, how to flirt, how to banter, how to react to awkward situations, how to introduce yourself, etc. those are things you have to learn through trial and error. The most people can give you are theoretical anecdotes, those may wor…
/r/seduction11/04/22 02:53 PM
1

Shit man, idky we have to use that word specifically. Some girls even ask “are you asking me out on a date?” I just assumed taking such a risk would equate a date but I guess from a woman’s perspective (since they don’t go out risking rejection) they think there is a possibility that we just want to hang out platonically.
/r/seduction08/04/22 03:26 AM
5

Suffer… lol but for real though, there isn’t anything advice that will magically make things better. The best thing you can do is to remove those formality filters and try to be as natural as possible. Loosen up your guard and just live in the moment. Show interest in meeting new people and don’t be afraid to share your interests/hobbies.
/r/seduction01/04/22 08:20 PM
3

Omg that makes so much sense I feel stupid. I’ve been overthinking my whole situation and I think it messed up my chances at this point. I asked a girl out to a pub (both our friends also came out) and it’s been 2 weeks since and I haven’t done anything since. I haven’t really been talking to her up until this week. Now in my mind I feel like because I haven’t tried to ask her out again since then she might be completely disinterested. I’ve already put myself out there by asking her once, I real…
/r/seduction31/03/22 01:55 AM
1

It was hard enough to ask her out with friends to a pub, now that that’s over I’m back to square one. It’s been 2 weeks of no progress, I feel like I fucked up by not asking her out right after.
/r/seduction31/03/22 01:47 AM
1

Fuck you, stop exposing me 🥲
/r/seduction31/03/22 01:08 AM
2

So what you’re saying is that what’s important is going for it rather than knowing it’s going to work? I feel like a girl is giving me mixed signals as well and I kind of just treated that as her wanting her own space. I don’t know if I should just be a brave boy again.
/r/seduction31/03/22 01:08 AM
1

I don’t think the simple answer is be yourself since that’s not exactly a clear answer. I think making friends can be hard if you’re not used to it. Sometimes it’s hard because you don’t want to come across creepy but you want them to know that you want to be friends. If you can express your personality well enough, people may gravitate towards you, that’s one way of building a connection.
/r/seduction31/03/22 01:03 AM
1

Fresh and fit are not experts lol they’re frauds.
/r/seduction30/03/22 02:58 PM
3

At my job, we have a married couple and my best friend is also in a LTR with his coworker, you can’t rule out everything. You don’t know how things will turn out so you may as well shoot your shot
/r/seduction25/03/22 12:13 AM
35

Charisma. Essentially being relaxed and feeling like I’m the best. Also trying to do new things to be more interesting, and I’m also learning how to dance.
/r/seduction25/03/22 12:01 AM
2

This is the most comprehensively broken down explanation of what a confident nerdy person should be. I’m definitely going to send this to my nerdy friend thank you.
/r/seduction24/03/22 06:05 PM
1

Man those feelings are rough but it is exciting
/r/seduction24/03/22 04:44 AM
2

100% same here in Canada. The women here are not direct for the most part. Foreign women are more down to earth for the most part and I find they are more open to difference (my interests are what most people are interested in here).
/r/seduction23/03/22 05:09 PM
0

That’s uhhh… ok
/r/seduction22/03/22 07:44 PM
10

Just fucking say hi. If you’ve never talked to them, introduce yourself, they’re not aliens, they’re humans. Ask them how their day is or if they have any plans on the weekend, or some work related topic. Don’t treat this like you have to say some magic word, just be casual, they’re not going to think you’re a creep for talking to them. They will think you’re a creep if you stare at them or avoid them.
/r/seduction22/03/22 01:17 PM
27

Black women are women, there’s no secret to attracting them, they’re all individuals. I’m a black guy but that doesn’t give me some kind of edge. Just be yourself.
/r/seduction16/03/22 08:20 PM
5

FOFU is it. I had this today with a girl I’m interested in and it’s dumb. Best to be yourself so you don’t have to think about things. Just enjoy life.
/r/seduction16/03/22 03:52 AM
1

I would agree to a certain extent. I think it comes down to being comfortable with yourself and projecting it.
/r/seduction15/03/22 08:10 PM
4

This is what I hear all the time, and I like this preference 👍🏿 ain’t got time to make the balls shine
/r/seduction09/03/22 02:09 PM
7

Lmao ikr??? Dudes here saying they shave every 1-2 weeks like their life depends on it. My man hair stops growing at a certain point so I usually trim once every 6 months as well. If im getting with a girl, that’s when I make sure it’s properly trimmed.
/r/seduction09/03/22 02:07 PM
2

I’ve had it happen and it felt like I was being violated
/r/seduction09/03/22 02:03 PM
1

Yeah, the first time I talked to her it was awkward lol, but I’ve realized that it’s not what you say first, it’s what comes after. I just don’t know if I should continue to build rapport and trust, or if I should try to show that I’m really interested in her. Don’t want her to think that I want a platonic relationship.
/r/seduction09/03/22 01:17 PM
1

You are too damn wise for Reddit, I’ll take these words to heart and apply them to a girl I’ve been interested in. So far, I’ve tried being more positive and putting myself out there (I’m an introvert so it’s kind of a big deal for me). It’s been working so far but I want to make sure I’m also being the genuine me. I don’t want to mess this up but at the same time, I won’t let that fear stop me from trying
/r/seduction09/03/22 03:49 AM
22

If you’re better approaching in person, stick with it, OLD will only make you question your whole game. Some people have success, others don’t. You’re really not going to gain more success by using dating apps and there is a culture of instant gratification. Nobody wants to build a relationship, they just want someone with good looks, same hobbies, same interests, and someone who will say the magic words that will get them oozing in their pants (male or female). There is a very small minority wh…
/r/seduction08/03/22 02:49 AM
2

I’ve seen both ways work, however, I think I would have to lean on your version. Some people are smooth talkers and others speak their minds. I guess my issue is that I’m not ballsy enough to speak my mind because I’m not used to it. I’ll try to spend a couple days building rapport then I’ll be genuine and then tell her I want to get to know her more. I think people in general appreciate the honesty and if she’s at the very least, somewhat interested, she wouldn’t mind.
/r/seduction05/03/22 01:22 PM
1

What do you mean by reason? I’m in the EXACT same situation as op, there’s this girl at work that I want to get to know and I’m tired of not acting, don’t want someone else to make a move on her and regret not doing so. Are you suggesting to set up a date? Or to try to get a number to talk more? Something like saying that there is some funny meme that I want to send or perhaps pictures of a relatable subject? I really don’t know how to go about this.
/r/seduction05/03/22 03:37 AM
1

Bruh this is easy. Just ask her something as simple as: “are you free on xxxday?” If you’re close enough with her that you’re making movie plans, you can ask her what days she’s free.
/r/seduction03/03/22 10:18 PM
8

Interesting comment I like it! Saved.
/r/seduction02/03/22 08:22 PM
2

Lol it makes no sense but use it wisely. If the situation appears that way, why not make the best of it? I wouldn’t want to appear as a player but I do want the girl I’m interested in to know that I have no issues communicating.
/r/seduction02/03/22 08:20 PM
1

There’s this girl I’m interested in and I’m thinking of asking her out on a date. We really haven’t gotten to a point where we’re on an intimate level or anything but I do want to test the waters to see if we vibe. I think she’s kinda interested as well. I’m not sure if I should take her out to a restaurant (we were talking about good tacos so I was thinking of taking her to a restaurant that has good ones) or if I should choose an activity. Some people have suggested going to a bar but that sou…
/r/seduction01/03/22 07:45 PM
1

Damn bro, dishing out practical advice like you’re serving soup at a soup kitchen. If you don’t mind, can I ask you for your opinion on a date?
/r/seduction01/03/22 03:38 PM
7

Fucking this. Sometimes I say things that aren’t even Ben jokes and this one girl giggles. Just say whatever comes to mind, some are funny, some are not, but people will remember the funny ones.
/r/seduction26/02/22 04:15 PM
2

😂😂😂
/r/seduction25/02/22 01:17 AM
1

It’s ultimately not that hard, the issue is making yourself available. Take risks, let yourself be open. How often are you interacting with women?
/r/seduction23/02/22 03:16 PM
6

Dude just ask her out. This kind of guy is someone I absolutely hate, has no issues cheating yet gets mad when it happens to them. He’s also acting like some territorial alpha lion. If you value health, you really need to get away from this guy, he’s not a good friend. If he can treat you and others like this, what other kinds of ways does he mistreat you?
/r/seduction22/02/22 03:30 PM
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