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It's painful. But, it's also totally normal.
/r/ExRedPill04/12/22 01:13 AM
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to compete with other men for a woman looks pretty exhausting for me Good. Because thinking of it is a competition is only going to hurt you. You're looking for a romantic relationship. Romance isn't a competition. Hook-ups can be, but that's not what you are trying to find. Finding a romantic partner is a search. You're trying to find someone who is compatible with you and who you are compatible with. You should be focused on the people you're interested in, not on any other guys (or girls) who…
/r/ExRedPill03/12/22 11:43 PM
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I'm sorry (the empathetic kind) that you're going through all that. Do you have any friends that you can lean on? (I know that talking about these kind of troubles can be challenging in some communities)
/r/ExRedPill25/11/22 07:48 PM
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The only thing that's interesting here in r/warhammercompetitive. I would have guessed Magic the Gathering. Lol
/r/ExRedPill22/11/22 02:27 PM
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No, because swimming isn't a toxic cult. If you wanted to quit swimming lessons, you would just quit swimming lessons. Swimming lessons wouldn't have hurt you and urged you to hurt others. Red pill hurts its members and urges them to hurt others. What are you trying to get at? It seems like you're trying to make a point, but you're asking leading questions instead of just stating what you believe plainly. You sound like you're attempting to play Socrates.
/r/ExRedPill22/11/22 11:53 AM
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The sidebar isn't defining the term 'Exredpill,' it's explaining the purpose of the sub. Your definition is fine. There is nothing to critique. But, the purpose of the sub isn't about the definition. This sub isn't merely a place for people who used to be redpilled to congregate. It's specifically for calling out the harm done by that ideology, and attempting to move forward without harm in the future.
/r/ExRedPill22/11/22 10:20 AM
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Not always THAT wrong though... It honestly blows my mind that JP as at one time a respected scientist. The guy spouts so much pseudo intellectual nonsense.
/r/ExRedPill20/11/22 02:24 AM
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Anything that calls itself "life-coaching" or "dating-coaching" is fake. Most "self-help" is fake. When I say "fake" I mean "not based on actual peer reviewed studies and methods." Why are people so keen on trying to improve their lives through you-tube videos? Your life isn't a bathroom sink, you can't just watch some videos on how to caulk it up. You're not going to learn to communicate and empathize and charm other people by watching someone talk at you. Go out and try and fail and learn. Tal…
/r/ExRedPill19/11/22 03:41 PM
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You're acting like mainstream heterosexual male catering video porn is all that exists. Sure, a lot of that is built around toxic fantasies that can be harmful, but not all of it and it's certainly not the only porn that exists. Gay video porn exists. Domm porn exists. Loving amateur porn exists. Fury porn exists. Written erotica exists. Porn video games exist. The list goes on and on. Understanding that porn is just fantasy, and how exactly it's different than real life is very important. Curta…
/r/ExRedPill19/11/22 02:27 PM
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commiting to a partner who makes you happy is much more fufiling than sleeping around For you and me, sure. But that isn't a hard and fast rule. Lots of people are serially monogamous and miserable because of it. Lots of people are much happier having short intense relationships rather than long term commitments ones. Different things can make different people happy.
/r/ExRedPill19/11/22 02:15 PM
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As someone with a graduate degree in philosophy: He is a psuedo-philosopher that has no idea what he's talking about. He takes ideas from different philosophies and disciplines and gives them to you in a neat package. A neat package that's almost always misleading or wrong.
/r/ExRedPill19/11/22 02:10 PM
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True. Most people who consume sex worker "content" whether in real life or online are interested in 10% sex and 90% fake intimacy. They want a therapist/friend/mommy/daddy that they can talk to and feel heard by, that also has a sexual component. The sexual component is necessary, but neither sufficient nor the bulk of what will keep them coming back.
/r/ExRedPill19/11/22 02:04 PM
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Also the shear amount of engagement. Moat people who do Webcam work have to engage with their fans non-stop. They are constantly messaging people. 4-6 hours on cam mean 8-10 hours doing work off cam.
/r/ExRedPill19/11/22 01:58 PM
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You have apparently never looked through a lot of twink porn. Most twinks don't have big disks. Just be skinny and act boyish. Shave your face and chest and viola'. They want to imagine you being a bottom. The dick size isn't much of a factor for bottoms. Just have a "pretty mouth" and act shy.
/r/ExRedPill19/11/22 01:42 PM
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Do you mean to say that parental wealth is predictive of child earnings? Because that's true, but the way you worded it sounds like no one changes economic class ever. That's totally false. My grandmother grew up on a subsistence farm. I live a solidly lower-middle-class life. My mom grew up with a wood stove, but went to college and earned her way into the lower middle-class. I'm not someone who believes people need to pull themselves up by their bootstraps or any other idiotic supply side econ…
/r/ExRedPill19/11/22 01:25 PM
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I mean, you have the option to gay for pay on only fans, or Webcams. You might not be gay or bi, so it might seem kinda gross to you, but remember it's not like the women who are on onlyfans are attracted to their fans. Some of them might even be gay and just pretending to be straight for money. I wouldn't actually suggest sex work to anyone, but if you really want to make money and think it's an easy job, gay men web cam performers make the same money women who cater to straight men do.
/r/ExRedPill18/11/22 11:57 PM
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She has a Ted-x or Ted talk. It's a good place to start.
/r/ExRedPill18/11/22 11:45 PM
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Yup. This is especially clear with sexual assault in the form of psychological abuse. My first ever sexual partner used shame and abuse to get me to participate in sex acts I didn't want to with her. It's impossibly hard to say no when someone wears you down and knows how to push your buttons. Especially when you're new to relationships and have low self esteem. You want desperately to make the other person happy, and that battles with how much you don't want to do those things. At your stronges…
/r/ExRedPill18/11/22 12:20 PM
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I respect this. You have certain values and you want a partner who has the same values. You have a certain level of ambition and you want a partner that has similar ambition. Usually ambition leads to more money, but luck and which industry you're in are factors. It's all perfectly reasonable. The odd thing is that most straight men (and bi/pan men who are more interested in women) don't prioritize those values very highly. I've never met a guy dating a woman who works as a receptionist or a wai…
/r/ExRedPill18/11/22 11:49 AM
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My first suggestion is always to look into the concept of Self-Compassion. External validation and achievement is great. It's a very important part of life. Often though it can feel empty to a certain extent. People often treat themselves much differently than they do their close friends. We judge ourselves by our intentions as well as our actions, whereas we generally give our close friends the benefit of the doubt on intentions and judge only on actions. There are many other examples of who we…
/r/ExRedPill17/11/22 11:37 AM
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I just saw a couple of your bullshit comments and decided to call you out. I did read your post history to see what kind of asshat you are. I was not surprised much.
/r/ExRedPill16/11/22 12:41 PM
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You wouldn't know. You're not exredpill or redpill. You're just here trying to stir up shit.
/r/ExRedPill15/11/22 01:55 PM
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So, you're neither exredpill or the former victim of someone who was redpilled... You're the one who has zero business being here.
/r/ExRedPill15/11/22 01:51 PM
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If you want help with depression and self confidence, the only effective answer is therapy and doctor prescribed medication. If those aren't working you need to adjust them, new therapist, more effort, etc. Self help gurus and media outlets, etc. aren't efficacious. Acual treatment is.
/r/ExRedPill15/11/22 01:43 PM
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Agreed. There has become a considerable overlap between people who consume Redpill content and people who consume alt-right material. It's not a coincidence.
/r/ExRedPill13/11/22 09:15 PM
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I'm not a total expert on the history of redpill, but I've watched it for quite a while now. Personally I feel ex-red-pill-adjacent, which is why I'm active in this sub. In 1999 when the Matrix came out I was 13. The red-pill stole its name from that film, though they have little else in common. The redpill as the concept of "see the truth, nice guys finish last, if you want to get women you need to embrace misogyny" may have come about earlier, but I really didn't see it online until 2010ish. B…
/r/ExRedPill13/11/22 12:42 PM
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For most people their kinks aren't their politics. My partner has me tie her up and hit her with whips, crops, and paddles. That doesn't mean either of us actually approves of spousal abuse. We're not physically fighers when we argue, and we rarely argue. The kind of characters that turn me on in fiction are oftentimes psycho women who would make terrible partners. Faith in Buffy the Vampire Slayer. Gretchen in You're the Worst. Nancy in The Craft. The kind of woman I'm with is nothing like that…
/r/ExRedPill13/11/22 08:17 AM
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Life isn't binary like that. There aren't losers and winners and no one in between. Almost everyone is in between. Failing, being rejected, or having to wait for someone to come along are all just part of life. There are other things that might help that you could do, but honestly you're already doing a lot. Just hang in there bro. Be the best friend you can to yourself and things will feel better eventually.
/r/ExRedPill12/11/22 10:54 PM
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First of all, even if the results are correct, that doesn't mean it's a coin flip that you will be cheated on. That would only be true if either everyone was only ever in one monogamous relationship or if everyone did the same stuff every time they were in a monogamous relationship. Neither of these things are true. Lots of people cheat once at some point and then don't do it again. A 16 year old in their first monogamous relationship might make-out with someone else, then get married at 25 and …
/r/ExRedPill12/11/22 02:49 PM
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Most people do indeed prefer monogamy. But, there is a sizable minority that honestly don't. I've known people that are in their 60s, never got married or into long term relationships, and are perfectly happy. I've known lots of married people who were miserable being married and much happier once they got divorced and started dating casually. You shouldn't make up platitudes about what's going to make everyone happy.
/r/ExRedPill04/11/22 01:05 PM
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Even if he has changed, you don't owe him a friendship or any kind of relationship. If he has changed, he can find new friends. You might have had a connection, but you'll find another connection with someone else if you keep looking. I'm not saying it's impossible that it could work out. You could be friends or get into a LTR with this guy. But, the risk of getting into a cycle of abuse is too high. I'm a guy whose first relationship was with a girl who abused me emotionally and sexually. I kno…
/r/ExRedPill26/10/22 04:26 PM
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Not OP, but I agree. Both FDS and RP mix self help techniques with "othering" of the opposite gender to justify emotional abuse of partners and potential partners. Women who get into FDS are lifted up by the self help stuff, then are taught to rate men as high value or low value, comodifying them. They're taught to emotionally blackmail their partners to get their way. Men who get into RD are lifted up by the self help parts, then taught how to "spin plates," treating women like collectibles. Th…
/r/ExRedPill25/10/22 01:03 PM
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Have you ever taken a critical thinking course? That's philosophy. All science came from philosophy (the discipline).
/r/ExRedPill12/08/22 09:39 PM
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Well yeah. Being in a relationship is a social engagement with a person. If you don't want to have friends that you socialize with, how can you expect to have special friendship with a particular person?
/r/ExRedPill10/08/22 06:04 PM
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I don't think about them much. It's a fetish, a form of masochistic play. I'm not much into that, so more power to them if it's fun and consensual for everyone involved. ​ I think a lot more about the term "cuckold" has been co-opted to shame men for their partners' cheating. The concept of a unwilling cuckold is more accurately described as a victim of infidelity. Using the term cuckold to describe someone who has been cheated on plays into the concept of men as having hyper-agency. If they are…
/r/ExRedPill09/08/22 03:08 PM
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As someone who studied evolutionary biology from a philosophical prospective, this comment comes off as pretty ignorant. How does nature work? Well, evolution is quite a complex process that involves a lot of competition and a lot of collaboration. Humans aren't outside of the scope of evolution, certainly, but every case is a "special" case because evolution isn't a uniform process. Human's in particular evolved to be highly social and highly collaborative. More so that any other mammalian spec…
/r/ExRedPill09/08/22 01:48 PM
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Being ashamed of yourself is not healthy or normal. You need a therapist, big time. If you can't afford one, message them asking about pro bono services available in your area. Therapists know what's available around them and will help you find something. There is absolutely nothing wrong with losing your virginity at 22 or later. There is nothing wrong with being skinny or shy or awkward. It's fine to want to change or improve, but being ashamed of yourself isn't going to help, it's only going …
/r/ExRedPill06/08/22 03:55 AM
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That's not how science works. Lol. A pew research pool isn't science. No one needs to "lead" a relationship. Neither my partner or I "lead." If you want a man to lead, that's your own business, but don't generalize for other women with made up science. How do you think lesbian relationships work? Lol.
/r/ExRedPill06/08/22 02:53 AM
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5 is suspect. My current partner of 4 years doesn't "look up to me" nor did any of my previous partners. All the women I've been with, casual or serious, liked me because of 1 through 4, but not 5. 5 might just be your thing. Or maybe I just date women who are very secure in themselves.
/r/ExRedPill05/08/22 10:39 PM
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Fair enough. Thank for rethinking it. I understand trauma responses to bullying, so I empathize. I don't think you have a "victim mentality" personally, but I do think the person was replying in good faith. I have another comment about therapy, but if your adverse to therapy, or maybe in addition to therapy, I have a post on this subreddit about self compassion you should look into. I'll post you a link when I get to my desktop.
/r/ExRedPill24/07/22 01:25 PM
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Just because they reiterated something he believes, but seems like he hasn't internalized, doesn't mean it's a personal attack.
/r/ExRedPill24/07/22 01:19 PM
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Very serious advice: a good therapist. Not in a dismissive way. I wish I had reached out for professional help at 19. I'm doing the work in my 30s now. You'll have a mental health head start on me by a decade. If you're unable to afford it, there are tons of Pro Bono options. Seriously, just start asking therapist offices if they have pro Bono services or if they can direct you somewhere where they do. It's super obvious that you have really bad self esteem issues that go way beyond your success…
/r/ExRedPill24/07/22 11:45 AM
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Wtf, dude. This person took the time to give you honest and meaningful advice and you assumed the absolute worst about them. You're the only one acting like a POS here. Come on.
/r/ExRedPill24/07/22 11:35 AM
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That's great! I get worried that a place like this can be mined for use without the member's understanding or full consent. (Reporters have shown up to get hot takes and quotes, for example.) It's good to see something for members benefit. This place is supposed to be for deprogramming, not data mining for grad students or quotes for news channels. So, that's why I asked. Glad that's not what you're doing.
/r/ExRedPill13/07/22 09:56 PM
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Fair enough. Just seems like there is a bit of overlap between not being loyal and promiscuity under your definitions. Once you spell them out I'm in agreement. Infidelity and violations of trust are certainly big precursers to a failed relationship.
/r/ExRedPill13/07/22 07:52 PM
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Do you mean sleeping with multiple partners while in a committed relationship? Like cheating? Or do you think having sex with other people before they get into a committed relationship leads to the relationship falling apart?
/r/ExRedPill13/07/22 06:25 PM
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What's the difference between lack of loyalty and being promiscuous?
/r/ExRedPill13/07/22 01:38 PM
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Also don't have Twitter. Please give me some examples so I can take a look.
/r/ExRedPill13/07/22 01:29 PM
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What are all these quizzes being used for?
/r/ExRedPill13/07/22 01:25 PM
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Do you have some examples? I consider myself very far to the left politically, but I don't use YouTube, Tick Tok or anything else with laymen giving their opinions. I'd be interested to see what a left leaning extremist looks like. For me my political ideology comes from years of studying political philosophy. Most the contemporary philosophers I've read and agree with I don't consider "extreme" at all. If you could provide some examples, I'd be very interested.
/r/ExRedPill13/07/22 01:23 PM
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I suggest as a first step writing a letter to him. Write down all your feelings about what he's doing and why it's alienating him from you and anyone else. You don't necessarily have to give him this letter, but it will let you get some catharsis. If you o decide to give if to him, at least you won't have to be around for his rage.
/r/ExRedPill13/07/22 01:05 PM
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It's not really possible to know, but it certainly could have been the case or something similar. When Rollo and RP influencers in general make claims about about how women and men are they are very much at the mercy of their own biases. These guys aren't trained psychologists, sociologists, or anthropologists, etc. They speak mostly from their personal experiences with specific women, and from platitudes they've internalized. Whether the women Rollo was dealing with had PTSD from trauma would b…
/r/ExRedPill09/07/22 12:37 PM
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I just tried to watch that video. My head hurts.
/r/ExRedPill03/07/22 01:37 AM
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"Granted, there are more single men than women, but the difference is only a 3% difference. " It's basically impossible for there to be a big difference. Gay relationships and polygamous relationships don't make up a huge percentage of relationships. Gender balance in the population is common outside of China and India. Therefore women who aren't single are generally paired with a man who is not single. It wouldn't make any sense for there to be a large percentage of men who are single but a muc…
/r/ExRedPill19/06/22 02:08 PM
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It sounds like there was a lot of problems between you and your ex. It's a good thing that you're moving on. Instead of focusing on the games she was playing at the end there, I rather you think about your level of communication with her. It sounds like you never developed the kind of relationship where you could sit down with her and have an open and honest dialog about what you wanted from each other. I would hope that a big take away here is to establish good communication early on. To try to…
/r/ExRedPill19/06/22 01:49 PM
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Why do I need to prove someone wrong who clearly has never taken a class on evolution in his life, but feels like he can make statements about it based on his own personal feelings? Why should anyone take relationship advice from you? You sound like an idiot. "When men were men." "Beta cuck" and all that crap about killing me because of some imaginary scenario where I don't help her in an emergency... You sound like an imbecile and narcissist. I'd bet anything that all of your exes describe you …
/r/ExRedPill17/06/22 03:15 AM
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"Evolutionarily speaking" Lol. I'm willing to bet thousands of dollars you would fail a 101 level college test on evolution and ecology.
/r/ExRedPill17/06/22 02:46 AM
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There is nothing desirable about you. In a survival situation, we'd help each other like adult humans. Grow up, little manchild. You've never "led" anything in your life if this is your mentality. I would feel sorry for your partner(s), but I doubt you've had any that thought of you as anything like a partner.
/r/ExRedPill17/06/22 02:09 AM
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I'm 6'2 230lbs, bro. I own my own business. You can't play the "soy boy, beta" nonsense with me. I'm confident in who I am, but I also don't treat women like garbage like yourself. My partner is an equal, she has a great job and we support each other. Why the throw-away? Don't want us to see your insecure posts , misogynistic posts, or your hate group posts? Maybe all three?
/r/ExRedPill17/06/22 12:58 AM
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Be honest. You've never been in a serious emotional mature relationship in your life, correct?
/r/ExRedPill17/06/22 12:36 AM
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This is dumb terrible advice. You should be absolely ashamed of yourself for thinking it, let alone posting it here. As someone in a loving healthy relationship with someone who has become my best friend, don't try to trick young men into your warped ideology.
/r/ExRedPill17/06/22 12:27 AM
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Fair enough. If you make another fantasy series and have it available on audible, I promise to use a credit on it. Good luck on the books!
/r/ExRedPill16/06/22 11:57 PM
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Any plans to make this into audio format? (Or, more importantly your fantasy novel I see on your Amazon page?)
/r/ExRedPill16/06/22 07:04 PM
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