| Upvotes | Title | Category | Author | Subreddit | Date (UTC) |
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| 386 | Back when I was using OLD I had this happen....the audacity is astounding! | #JustLVMThings | geekyspacegirl420 | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 28/07/20 11:51 PM |
| 101 | I found this conversation from my days before FDS. I remember thinking he was an ass for saying this and now I know I was right...I unmatched with him after his last 2 comments. | #JustLVMThings | geekyspacegirl420 | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 27/07/20 03:03 PM |
| Upvotes | Comment on | Subreddit | Date (UTC) |
|---|---|---|---|
| 42 | Are the dates he offers for HIM? is he just having you tag along to his fav restaurant or to the movie he's been wanting to see?I just matched with a guy who asked me out for dinner in a few nights and I said sure…he then says “name the time and place” I don’t even know how to respond to that… | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 06/07/21 01:56 AM |
| 18 | Be a queen ladies, a real king will follow.If it was so racist then why did she marry into it? And why does Harry get a free pass for all his past racism? | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 20/03/21 05:53 PM |
| 2 | Be a queen ladies, a real king will follow.You’re completely right. She is a complete narcissist who has separated Harry from the people who truly care about him. She also contradicted herself throughout the entire interview and I’m shocked more people did not see this! | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 20/03/21 03:14 PM |
| 4 | My current (HVM) partner bought me a tapestry for my office that represents our first date (going out and photographing the NEOWISE comet together) for Vday. My last partner gave me an unsigned valentine clipped out of a newspaperOmg I love this! What an amazing first date! | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 18/02/21 11:28 PM |
| 8 | Today's Mood:Thank you! I knew the face but couldn’t place it....the hills right? | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 07/02/21 04:33 PM |
| 10 | what are you proud of?Over the last 5 years I’ve bought my own home, became a CPA, and hit my goal weight last week!!! | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 20/11/20 03:56 PM |
| 6 | Are there any older, single females on here still figuring things out?Hey! 40 here and found this sub last year! There are dozens of us 😆 | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 18/11/20 03:19 PM |
| 3 | watching Dawson’s creek!Omg I loved this show! I was in my late teens when it was on and I absolutely loved Pacey (and Joey)! | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 11/11/20 06:04 PM |
| 10 | TLCs “I love a mama’s boy”- thoughtsI am so disturbed every time I watch this show although it’s highly entertaining. It’s unbelievable to me that these girls stay and just reinforces FDS for me. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 10/11/20 04:21 PM |
| 30 | This is my pickmeisha story. I was the worst case of pick me I've ever seen and I thought that sharing my story would help me (and maybe some of you as well).Good for you for recognizing the red flags and thanks for sharing! | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 10/11/20 03:54 PM |
| 5 | My LVM brother and his live-in girlfriend of 5 years criticized me today for my status as a single woman.I agree completely and am the same....there is nothing wrong with you or me. The problem is that we’ve been taught that we need a partner to be happy and people really believe that. We’ve leveled up to the point most people never get to - which is being happy and content with who you are and not needing anyone else to “complete” you! | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 28/10/20 08:56 PM |
| 2 | Been wondering for some time; how many neurodivergent women are here?I’m adhd! I was a bad pick me in my 20’s and am 40 now. Been single almost my entire 30’s and will continue to be since I’m pretty happy on my own! Unless the perfect guy comes around, I’ll be pretty content being single for the rest of my life 😊 | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 17/10/20 04:03 PM |
| 3 | Three profiles in a row on Tinder 🤮 I’m deleting my OLD profiles, anyone with me?Yep I’m 40 and seeing the exact same stuff. It’s disturbing. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 14/10/20 02:24 PM |
| 7 | How many men have actually given you orgasms?Same here! Only one could give me them too and it didn’t happen until I was almost 30 | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 06/10/20 05:49 PM |
| 13 | “Omg it wasn’t even me!” No surprises here but thought it might entertain you all.Omg this is why I’m hesitant to get back on the dating apps! Do these guys think we actually want to talk about that??? Wtf is wrong w them?!?! | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 29/09/20 06:55 PM |
| 9 | The Misogynistic Core of the Anti-Karen SentimentGreat article that really provides a new perspective that I hadn’t put together before now! | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 29/09/20 04:53 PM |
| 8 | 😂Thanks for explaining because I was confused but it makes perfect sense now | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 29/09/20 04:07 PM |
| 8 | Yeah, just think about that 🙈So true 🤣🤣 | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 28/09/20 05:52 PM |
| 9 | Jewels fit for a queen! I purchased some real and fake diamonds for myself this week to commemorate how far I have come in the past 6 months in dealing with my career, food habits, exercise, and finally getting my ADHD and depression under control.I love to see fellow queens spoil themselves!! | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 26/09/20 03:28 PM |
| 10 | FDS isn’t about menYes! I’m 40 but my life is similar and I’ve never been happier and more at peace with myself. Traveling alone is my new favorite thing! Just went on a solo trip a few weeks back and already trying to figure out where to go next! Life is good when you’re happy and free ❤️❤️ | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 20/09/20 09:29 PM |
| 3 | After my abusive marriage I stopped singing. You ladies have made me want to start again. Here’s a cover of Lady Gaga I did withhold my kids playing in the background. Thanks for helping me find my voice again ❤️Love that song and you sound great!! | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 05/09/20 03:06 PM |
| 3 | Having productive crushesThis is a great idea! | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 01/09/20 05:25 PM |
| 2 | LVM when they realize FDS was set to private temporarily for pre-scheduled maintenance and not because Reddit took the sub down. LOL YOU ACTUALLY THOUGHT!! 🖕🏻🖕🏻Thank god! I thought the worst had happened and was so pissed. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 01/09/20 11:40 AM |
| 15 | Woman finds out dirty dick husband is cheating with his mistress again. She sues the Pickmeisha mistress AND she sues her husband since he bought a condo to use as a love shack. Looks like the condo will be going bye bye.Oh man I’m sitting at work bored off my ass, would u please send me the link! Thanks for this very interesting read | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 26/08/20 07:26 PM |
| 10 | Pickmeishas hate us just as much as LVMYou make that post and be proud!!! You should be proud...it’s a huge accomplishment ❤️ | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 24/08/20 08:26 PM |
| 33 | Anyone else here that don't even want to date (anymore)?Yes girl! This is basically my life now (I’m 40). I’ve been single for close to 10 years and have no desire to date anyone - unless I meet them naturally and they are a HVM! I’m taking myself to San Diego next month because I’ve never been and took myself to Maui last year! I plan on traveling somewhere new every year and just enjoying my quiet, peaceful life. I have a house, job, and I’m financially secure so what else do I need?! A man to ruin it...I’ll pass | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 24/08/20 08:20 PM |
| 33 | I was deleting pictures off my phone and I found this gem. So glad I deleted my OLD profiles. It was just too much effort.He’s gross...this is why I stay off of old too | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 22/08/20 03:05 PM |
| 3 | The way to pay it forward when you have fully committed to leveling up and becoming a HVW & FDS Queen is to modeling this behavior in support of other women, believing women, speaking out when you see something wrong, and making sure women are safe if something seems off. Manifestation is powerful!Lmao this picture is perfect and I love Fred Armison!! Great post ❤️ | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 19/08/20 05:13 PM |
| 13 | I found this on Facebook today lolCan confirm! I got a promise ring from my first boyfriend when I was a late teenager....he was the sweetest boyfriend 🥰! | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 14/08/20 03:04 PM |
| 9 | Ladies, I just wanted to share my recent victory.Wow good for you girl!!! I bet that felt damn amazing ❤️ | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 10/08/20 03:32 PM |
| 3 | Most of the pickmeisha I've been friends with make me feel the same way I do around LVMI’ve felt the same way, especially since finding FDS. Thanks for putting into words what I’ve been unable to articulate! | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 05/08/20 03:03 PM |
| 4 | Good luck with thatEwww, every day I’m more and more disgusted by these NVM! | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 05/08/20 01:58 PM |
| 10 | He actually gets it. He really REALLY gets it.Wow he’s absolutely right and it’s amazing to see! | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 05/08/20 01:46 AM |
| 3 | What Features Would You Like To See in the FDS Wix App?I just downloaded the app and put in the code and it says my approval is pending. I am looking forward to getting in and checking it out! | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 05/08/20 01:24 AM |
| 10 | You don't need a man to have a fulfilling life! A man is an accessory not a necessity 💁♀️I absolutely love this and am saving it in my folder of quotes! | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 04/08/20 04:55 PM |
| 25 | We’re just a warm hole to themEwww that’s just disgusting, and thanks for clarifying! | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 04/08/20 12:38 AM |
| 31 | We’re just a warm hole to themThat helps but I think it’s the “on the kids” part I don’t get | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 03/08/20 11:59 PM |
| 3 | Know your worth girls!I love your cats names!! | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 03/08/20 11:59 PM |
| 58 | We’re just a warm hole to themMaybe I’m showing my age here, or maybe I’m just too high but I have no idea what he is trying to say....can anyone translate?! | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 03/08/20 11:49 PM |
| 7 | I'm in love with Grandma dropping factsOmg I love her! | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 03/08/20 11:46 PM |
| 55 | Out of all the terrible OLD openers I’ve received, this one is definitely up there.WTF is grandma vibes?! | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 03/08/20 08:42 PM |
| 10 | Scrote mad because he can't jerk off to pictures of some women because they have their kids with them.It’s absolutely disgusting that their minds immediately go to such sick places | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 03/08/20 02:06 PM |
| 18 | Know your worth girls!This is not only true for men, but also our family and friends. There’s no point in trying to explain yourself to others since they won’t get it. Now I’m just living a quiet and peaceful life alone with my 2 cats! | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 03/08/20 02:04 PM |
| 7 | YessssssI’m going on 10 years and life keeps getting better! | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 02/08/20 06:37 PM |
| 13 | Deleted all OLDYep this is exactly how I feel too. I’m just working on myself and doing things that make me happy and if the right guy comes around, then we’ll see but I take no less than perfection 😉 | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 02/08/20 06:36 PM |
| 3 | I asked the universe to rid me of everything that doesn't serve me. All I did was enforce boundaries, and it was obvious to me who really respected me, and who did not.That’s a good way of looking at it, thanks! | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 29/07/20 05:31 PM |
| 7 | I asked the universe to rid me of everything that doesn't serve me. All I did was enforce boundaries, and it was obvious to me who really respected me, and who did not.I love this and it’s so true! It’s especially helpful with friends, family, and coworkers...I’m done giving my positive energy to people who just suck it out of me. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 29/07/20 05:27 PM |
| 54 | Back when I was using OLD I had this happen....the audacity is astounding!Yes he was immediately blocked!! | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 29/07/20 12:19 AM |
| 6 | Imagine being so insecure you can’t event hold a conversationGod I’m so tempted to go back on the apps just to find more examples 🤣 | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 28/07/20 11:33 PM |
| 9 | I found this conversation from my days before FDS. I remember thinking he was an ass for saying this and now I know I was right...I unmatched with him after his last 2 comments.Exactly! I’ll tell you what he is...a LVM! | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 27/07/20 06:44 PM |
| 26 | I found this conversation from my days before FDS. I remember thinking he was an ass for saying this and now I know I was right...I unmatched with him after his last 2 comments.Lol this was probably late 2018, but you’re right about the hat...thank God I found you guys! | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 27/07/20 03:18 PM |
| 86 | I found this conversation from my days before FDS. I remember thinking he was an ass for saying this and now I know I was right...I unmatched with him after his last 2 comments.It pissed me off that he called me a dork and then pissed me off even more saying I “earned” his number. So glad I got rid of all these apps and will happily stay single and browse Reddit whenever the hell I want! | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 27/07/20 03:05 PM |
| 10 | Loving yourself isn't vanity, it's sanity Queens!Idk who this character is but it’s spot on! It’s such a great feeling to spoil yourself. I’m taking myself to San Diego in a few months and am so excited! | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 27/07/20 03:00 PM |
| 8 | Thanks FDS: Starting to be happy being singleCongrats on your growth and keep up the good habits! Welcome to the happy singles club 😁 | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 27/07/20 02:57 PM |
| 30 | GOALS 👑I own a townhome and it is amazing having my own peaceful sanctuary to come home to! Start saving your money queen, it will be worth every penny! | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 26/07/20 10:21 PM |
| 2 | Share your world? This guy is single-handedly repopulating it!That’s it, thanks! I can’t stand either one of them...it’s all just so gross to me | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 26/07/20 03:59 PM |
| 4 | Share your world? This guy is single-handedly repopulating it!Reminds me of the guy on 90 day fiancé with all the kids from different baby mamas...I can’t think of his name for the life of me! I don’t understand what self respecting woman would even consider a relationship with someone like that! | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 26/07/20 02:54 PM |
| 6 | Romanticism has ruined many lives, true love starts with usThank you and I agree completely. Love and spoil yourself instead of waiting on a man to “complete” your life. You are already complete! | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 25/07/20 12:38 PM |
| 85 | On January 2nd I gave up dating and instead focused on my net worthAs a CPA, hell yes this is what I love to see!!! Great job girl! | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 24/07/20 06:03 PM |
| 11 | The "Next Files": Encounters of the Single Kind. Chapter 1 (The Tale of the Guy Who didn't take No for an Answer).Omg that bar announcement was next level shit!!! I love this story and can’t wait to read more | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 24/07/20 04:42 PM |
| 57 | Here is the follow up to my post from last nightDamn girl this is awesome! You ladies inspire me everyday to be better and to refuse to take anything less than what I deserve ❤️ | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 24/07/20 04:39 PM |
| 4 | I'm loving this new song from Taylor Swift's new album, Mad Woman. Major FDS vibes from the lyrics, and I'm feeling empowered through them, so I wanted to share!Yes! That song was the one that stood out to me upon my first full listen...I love the story! | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 24/07/20 03:02 PM |
| 21 | I'm loving this new song from Taylor Swift's new album, Mad Woman. Major FDS vibes from the lyrics, and I'm feeling empowered through them, so I wanted to share!Yes!! I’m loving the entire album! | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 24/07/20 02:36 PM |
| 7 | I guess I need to go to skid row to find a husband 🤦🏾♀️Why in the world is she bragging about this?! There’s nothing to be proud of! | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 23/07/20 08:15 PM |
| 3 | Thought about creating an app for us and all the radical feminist subs. Would you guys use it if I did? Also if anyone could help that would be amazing!I’ll definitely join, thanks for doing this! | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 30/06/20 11:56 AM |
| 3 | 100%Wow! This is how I completely feel and said so perfectly | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 19/05/20 02:49 AM |
| 5 | I’m totes fine being singleSame here! I’m perfectly happy being single and doing whatever the hell I want to do. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 05/04/20 01:56 PM |
| 7 | Always look for the positives - UK in lockdownHaha so true! | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 24/03/20 12:07 AM |
| 72 | Elon Musk is the perfect example of a LVM with money.Holy shit, I’ve always been an admirer of Musk but this just flipped my opinion! I’ll admit I haven’t read much on his personal life but I’ll definitely read it now. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 19/03/20 10:55 PM |
| 2 | the Reddit LVM starterpackSame! Except take out the video games too | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 15/03/20 04:26 PM |
| 4 | Casual sex wouldn’t be a problem except 99.99% of straight men are TERRIBLE in bedOnly 1 of 14! | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 04/03/20 12:55 PM |
| 19 | Ain’t that the truthOh god this describes my LVM friend w benefits in the early 2000’s....I wish I had Reddit (and self confidence) when I was in the midst of these “relationships” back then | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 21/02/20 04:12 AM |
| 110 | BREAKING NEWS: Being single is better than being with MOST MENYes!!! I have been single for the majority of my 30’s and I’m about to turn 40. I’ve never been happier and reading FDS reinforces ideas I wish I would have believed my 20’s. I dealt with way too many LVM’s. I don’t even go on dating apps anymore because I just don’t care. I have a great career, money, and a battery operated boyfriend and do not have any desire to join the dating game again. If the perfect HVM comes into my life, sure that would be great but I don’t need one to make me whole. I … | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 19/02/20 05:47 PM |
| 38 | Be honest, your HVM isn't perfect. No one is. Let's list things they do that aren't deal breakers, but would be nice if it were different.I did. He was perfect for me....it’s too bad I was completely stuck on a LVM at the time. I wish I could go back in time 12 years and smack myself straight!! | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 19/02/20 02:00 AM |
| 7 | Felt this fit here 🤷🏽♀️Haha yep!! I love it and so true! | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 02/01/20 02:06 AM |
| 2 | In your opinion, who’s the worst pickmeisha among pop culture characters?I hated when she left Tom, I loved them as a couple and he was amazing to her! | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 31/12/19 06:42 PM |
| 12 | “Sir, this is a Wendy’s.” This sub was created to help empower women and mangry Redditors call for it to be banned. Meanwhile, dorky “dark triads” like this openly monetize and plug their shitty ebooks and seminars in the Manosphere and subs like TRP to spread misogynistic filth.No he’s not! Who’s been telling him these lies? Probably his momma lol | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 05/12/19 06:18 PM |
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