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About 18-21 I think. Once you recomp you’ll get leaner.
/r/askTRP28/03/19 01:43 PM
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Yes, just progress linearly until you plateau for a weight 2 times in a row. Then deload the weight by 10% and ramp up again. If you can’t push past the plateau after ramping up. Deload again, and pay attention to your nutrition and rest. Add more calories if needed. Doing this allows for very fast progress. Keep in mind you should do 2.5lbs increments on overhead press if you do it. And possibly 10lbs on deadlift. Remember to keep a correct form.
/r/askTRP28/03/19 11:00 AM
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Do 5.5lbs every workout. You’re a beginner and you will double your progress. You can try a recomp if you don’t want more fat. Look it up. When you hit intermediate lifts should ypu only consider to change to a weekly progression. Stats: DL 145kg x5 Squat 125kg x5 Bench 105kg x5
/r/askTRP28/03/19 10:15 AM
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Interested in a Discord channel too!
/r/askTRP13/02/19 08:44 AM
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The degree. I was stoned when I picked it, when I started to sober up I thought fuck it and go to a business school I always had in mind since I was 16. The athmosphere at college was awesome.
/r/askTRP07/08/18 08:37 PM
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You need to help him ditch the weed and get back into fitness. Basketball used to be my identity, then got depressed and started smoking weed. I got lazy and went to get a college degree I hated, I quit that after 2 years. What helped me was getting rid of the weed and going to the gym again. Now I’m about to start my first semester in our countrys top business school. Once you get him on the right track and help him realise his actions will destroy his will, he will sore like a motherfucker. Yo…
/r/askTRP07/08/18 06:10 PM
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This sounds like me 2 years ago, just get rid of the weed. What did he aspire to be when he was a kid?
/r/askTRP07/08/18 03:56 PM
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Water, water, water. Times hundred. Scratch that, thousand. It does wonders. 3 liters a day.
/r/askTRP03/08/18 02:53 PM
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Join a sports club in your field.
/r/askTRP24/07/18 07:17 PM
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Thanks, yeah. I figured. And if this is who she is drunk when I’m around, I have an idea what it will be in college when I’m not. I was actually at college before but studied hard and got to our countrys top business university. Fucking sucks though, I hadn’t had this feeling about someone for anyone since I first started dating. Life goes on.
/r/askTRP23/07/18 04:53 PM
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Did do.
/r/askTRP23/07/18 04:34 PM
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I understand that, but I couldn’t morally do that. I get it though. I’d just need to make it clear for her first.
/r/askTRP23/07/18 04:24 PM
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Yeah, that would’ve been the right choice. Except the fucking part on my end, but I get the point.
/r/askTRP23/07/18 04:21 PM
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Exactly what I thought at the moment. I realise now I should of just went inside and talk to other girls. Her hamster is going overdrive.
/r/askTRP23/07/18 04:20 PM
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I feel you. I wanted to say something, but again, if it’s that sort of childs play I don’t want to come off as insecure. I can bench well over 100kg, so I wasn’t intimidated about this guy. It’s my gf who didn’t do anything to get away from it and seemed to enjoy it. Again, I was at fault too. Should’ve said something. His friends understood my look though and took him to the other side of the table.
/r/askTRP23/07/18 03:24 PM
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She doesn’t, I sent her packing.
/r/askTRP23/07/18 03:01 PM
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”We were playing bingo and my girl got one and this guy grabs her and shuts her mouth with his hand. Also drew some doodle on her feet. Some real kindergartner shit, but my girl didn’t do shit. She just laughed and wasn’t phased while others looked at me in desperation as it was going on. Then they started calling her and his name so they’d get off each other. I just feel.. different than before. It’s the gut feeling. I wouldn’t even care if it happened while I wasn’t there, hell I flirt with ot…
/r/askTRP23/07/18 02:23 PM
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Yes, I was thinking of telling her to go sleep in her parents house for now. But again, wondering if that’s too butthurt. For sure she will start crying and demanding an answer.
/r/askTRP23/07/18 02:18 PM
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True. I feel you, there’s been a lot of talk about the unicorns and green flags and she just happened to tick most of the boxes. Guess AWALT really. Live and learn. I’m fucked with the apartment though.
/r/askTRP23/07/18 02:15 PM
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You gave me the best piece of info. It’s probably my hamster spinning wheels, but am I overreacting? We were playing bingo and my girl got one and this guy grabs her and shuts her mouth with his hand. Also drew some doodle on her feet. Some real kindergartner shit, but my girl didn’t do shit. She just laughed and wasn’t phased while others looked at me in desperation as it was going on. Then they started calling her and his name so they’d get off each other. I just feel.. different than before. …
/r/askTRP23/07/18 02:07 PM
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Yes, this is a new situation for me and the way I handled it seemed a little butthurt. I didn’t show the emotion that much though, just said byes and left.
/r/askTRP23/07/18 02:01 PM
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No, I didn’t have a fairytale expectation. But I’ve set the boundary clearly and she crossed it, and she’s been very submissive for over a year which is why I’m mad. Well, maybe more disappointed than furious. I’m working on the lease, it’ll make a huge dent in my finances and I’m figuring out how to cope with it. Thanks.
/r/askTRP23/07/18 01:58 PM
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True, my problem right now is I can’t find an empty apartment at that location. I’m looking for roommates right now.
/r/askTRP23/07/18 12:49 PM
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True. I’ve been trying to figure out my finances. Thanks.
/r/askTRP23/07/18 12:10 PM
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First make yourself average.
/r/askTRP28/06/18 02:29 PM
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If they do that, simply lift your finger up and look at them in the eye, they will know what’s up and will give you room to share. (Still, don’t interrupt them, let them finish. Let the other person save face by letting him finish what he started.)
/r/askTRP22/05/18 07:21 PM
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The most important step I took when I overcame that was to actually listen to what the other person says, and then think what you want to say, not what you’re going to say. It makes a huge difference, I mean really, you can wait 2 seconds to gather your ideas in your head and speak up. Just make sure you aren’t trying to one-up anyone, that’s something that cost me a lot of promising friendships when I first started learning about social dynamics. Just have fun with it. Remember to make statemen…
/r/askTRP22/05/18 07:19 PM
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My most deep conversations happen when I just ask questions about the other person and his desired topic. It’s funny when someones so passionate about something that he doesn’t even notice to be the only one speaking. Usually, when I just listen and am interested, the other person remembers the conversation even after two months and tells me how great of a conversation it was. So, just go with it. I’ve made more friends by listening than trying to be the center of attention. Tip: when listening,…
/r/askTRP22/05/18 06:03 PM
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You should always focus on the other person. If you have something in your mind you want to say and it’s related to the topic, go ahead. You could also ask a question, steering the conversation to the topic you want to discuss about. Think about it like a branch, there’s the root, and then it continues to several different smaller branches. Once you go through the whole smaller branch (ie. Done talking about it) just back up to the larger branch and select another one (the one that was on your m…
/r/askTRP22/05/18 05:55 PM
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I used to do this and failed 100% within 2 weeks. This is self-validation and it’s killing your gains.
/r/askTRP19/05/18 03:33 PM
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This, obviously you crossed the line. But just say something like Bill Clinton used to say, ”Mistakes were made and I regret the actions that took place”. Don’t say the word sorry, because obviously there was some truth in what you said, you just used the wrong words. Word your sentence so it seems you are at fault, but aren’t really.
/r/askTRP12/05/18 10:22 AM
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I’m naturally charming, so I just had to overcome approach anxiety. I haven’t tested my social skills on plating anyone yet as I have a girlfriend of 2 years. But I get IOI’s and shit-tests constantly so I’m doing something right. Just keep at it.
/r/askTRP04/05/18 07:08 AM
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I usually just have fun with it, tell a story what happened to you this one time and ask if she has any interesting storoes or things happened to her. If she says no, then ask her if she just stays at home with her hundred cats. Probably no, theb you can ask what does she do for fun to prove you she’s not a boring crazy cat lady. Of course I do this kind of teasing lightly. Most important thing IMO is for you to have fun while talking, because it builds comfort when you’re at ease.
/r/askTRP03/05/18 07:11 PM
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I grew up watching James Bond movies and I honestly think that’s where I got my charisma from. Just hard eye-contact, smooth and calm voice and very calm movements. Posture and a cheeky smile. Open body language.
/r/askTRP03/05/18 02:58 PM
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Try to do it little by little. Small victories start accumulating to larger victories. Meaning: you probably sound like an autist so work on talking a clear sentence to girls first before you try to smack their ass. Also, who gives a fuck what they want. Just have fun with it.
/r/askTRP03/05/18 09:17 AM
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I seduced your mom before the big bang and you are all alive thanks to me.
/r/askTRP02/05/18 02:12 PM
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Exactly that, when you think about it, lifting weights only take about 1 hour of your day and the rest takes 23 hours. It matters a lot what you put in your mouth, that’s why I recommend using a food scale and using Myfitnesspal to log the information. You’re a tall guy, so you need more food to gain, so check your TDEE. Eat about 1g of protein/lbs. Fat intake .5g/lbs and the rest with carbs. I understand you are new and like to keep things minimalistic and simplified, right? I could suggest you…
/r/askTRP02/05/18 02:02 PM
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Honestly, it’s so much information to write that you should head to r/fitness and r/gainit and go through the wikis. It’ll help you very much. For start you should figure out your TDEE and start tracking your calories, if you’re heavier just start losing fat by reducing 500kcal from TDEE, if you want to gain weight add 200-500kcal. In the start you will gain muscle no matter what, but I suggest you get your nutrition on point because it’s 50% of the results in the gym, or more like 70%. Hit the …
/r/askTRP02/05/18 10:24 AM
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That program is hell for beginners, so many people have had problems with it, including me. It’s way too heavy on the squats. If you’re going to use this OP, make sure you have the form on point or else you’re begging an injury.
/r/askTRP28/04/18 08:06 PM
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This, absolutely. Although it helps first having basic knowledge about fitness, it’s crucial to lift in an inspiring/motivating athmosphere. The first time I started lifting at 15 I had massive guys helping me with form and I learned a lot more in 1 month than training via online information.
/r/askTRP28/04/18 08:03 PM
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Honestly, it’s so much information to write that you should head to r/fitness and r/gainit and go through the wikis. It’ll help you very much. For start you should figure out your TDEE and start tracking your calories, if you’re heavier just start losing fat by reducing 500kcal from TDEE, if you want to gain weight add 200-500kcal. In the start you will gain muscle no matter what, but I suggest you get your nutrition on point because it’s 50% of the results in the gym, or more like 70%. Hit the …
/r/askTRP28/04/18 02:49 PM
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This, I stopped adding sugar, eating candies and I feel a ton better mentally and physically. I don’t say no altogether, but at first I went cold turkey. Also I wouldn’t worry about added sugar if you at least know which sort of products have the least amount of it.
/r/askTRP25/04/18 09:34 AM
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No way around it, try to lessen the amount of alcohol everytime you go out.
/r/askTRP23/04/18 01:56 PM
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Yeah absolutely, at least where I come from there’s this still this ”stigma” against gay guys and this sub can really teach the way of thinking that is critical among that kind of men.
/r/askTRP20/04/18 05:22 PM
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Although this sub is for men/women relationships, I think you should stick around because you can find really valuable information on handling the human relations you have in your life. I’m not really familiar with the gay-world and how you function in an intimate relationship, but I bet there’s a lot of information you can use to understand your partner better. Information, that not only may help in your personal relations but also work-relations.
/r/askTRP20/04/18 03:46 PM
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You learn by trial and error. It’s fine, just keep TRP in mind.
/r/askTRP20/04/18 07:59 AM
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If you find value in Kyle and want to keep him as the member of the real feel crew then stop fucking her. On the other hand, if you find this PARTICULAR girl to somehow be above others then keep fucking her, although it’s unlikely. IMO, bros before hoes. I’d like to keep my relationship with a flat mate positive or at least neutral. It’s still been 4 months so I don’t know, do whatever the fuck you want to do really.
/r/askTRP19/04/18 08:06 AM
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Sounds about right, you need complex carbs for your muscles since it drives energy to them. I can’t go into much depth but it plays a big role. Also your previous macros have way too much of fats for a guy. We need about 1g/kg for us to function properly and produce optimal ampunts of hormones (i.e testosterone). If you’re having problems eating that amount of carbs I suggest you fill put required protein (~90x2g) and fill the rest with carbs amd fats, just make sure to get at least 90g of fats …
/r/askTRP15/04/18 07:13 PM
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Well, it’s easier to drink calories, so maybe get a blender and look up some weight gain smoothie recipes.
/r/askTRP15/04/18 04:48 PM
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Use myfitnesspal and a food scale to log all of your nutrition in. Check your TDEE (google it) and add 500kcal to that number, watch your weight for a week. WEIGH YOURSELF AT MORNING AFTER GOING TO THE TOILET. After that act accordinly, if you’re not gaining add 100-200kcal and do that for a week again. If you gain too fast, reduce 100-200kcal and watch your weight again. Usually when the weight gain stops, check your TDEE again and add calories accordingly. A good amount to gain per month is so…
/r/askTRP15/04/18 01:12 PM
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Trust your gut feeling, if something is off just don’t do it. Once that ring is on, this kind of behavior just intensifies.
/r/askTRP13/04/18 04:17 AM
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AWALT and it’s just your turn. Can’t say much else really, I haven’t had it.
/r/askTRP11/04/18 01:37 PM
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Don’t give her affection in private, she’ll understand where you’re coming from if you already mentioned it bothers you. But honestly.. I wouldn’t give a shit about her not being affectionate in public if she’s not being disrespectful. Sounds like you’re more needy than her.
/r/askTRP11/04/18 01:30 PM
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Learn positive body language and use that, confidence also takes space so spread out. But not to the point it bothers someone elses space.
/r/askTRP11/04/18 01:26 PM
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Yes, of course! It’s still practicing your social and fighting skills, so when you move to a new city and join a new gym you’ll be familiar with the setup and types of people there. I’m sure you can find to go punch a bag with someone for an hour at some point.
/r/askTRP10/04/18 07:17 PM
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Ask a validated dermatologist. They usually help.
/r/askTRP10/04/18 09:27 AM
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Go get hit by other men. I mean boxing or muay thai.
/r/askTRP10/04/18 09:26 AM
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Yes, lifting has helped me a lot in that.
/r/askTRP09/04/18 02:06 PM
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You know the answer, no one is going to do it for you. Knowledge your failure and continue where you left off. It’s hard at first but it gets easier again, I promise. For future I suggest you plan for failure, meaning have a solid plan when you realize you have fallen off the horse or get sick. Don’t wait another day, just start now. Just do it, simple. Progress isn’t a straight line or even stairs.. it’s 2 steps forward, 1 back, 3 forward, 2 back... it takes time but once you get over those obs…
/r/askTRP09/04/18 01:28 PM
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Hey man, honestly you can get as many calories as you want, use whey or quark for protein, honey for sweetener, oil for fats, oats for carbs.. sky is your limit. It’s much healthier than drinking a ton of milk because you have control over the macros. You can find thousands of recipes if you search google, also r/gainit and r/fitness have some recipes. Use your imagination! EDIT: I don’t mean buying a ready weight-gainer. They’re so bad by taste and texture, the carbs in it are also simple carbs…
/r/askTRP08/04/18 12:14 PM
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Go 500kcal above mainentance and check your weight weekly, if you’re not gaining add another 100-200 kcal and repeat the process. Once you start gaining stick with those macros. If you gain too fast just drop another 100kcal. I once did the GOMAD thing, I just got fat, bloated and acne. Not worth it. You can still drink milk to get more calories, but if you can’t gain weight easily I would invest in a blender and start making weight-gainer shakes. Use TDEE (just type it in Google) to get your es…
/r/askTRP08/04/18 05:17 AM
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Do you eat at home? If so, youre taking a gigantic turd on your plate if you do it.
/r/askTRP06/04/18 06:53 PM
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Honest to god, don’t think about this stuff. All of it becomes irrelevant when you start seeing results because that’s the point you’ll never be satisfied with your body. Seriously, do yourself a solid and just pick a program from r/fitness and go lift.
/r/askTRP27/03/18 03:45 PM
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Eye contact, kino and teasing. Don’t make it too complex.
/r/askTRP23/03/18 05:43 PM
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Yeah, you passed.
/r/askTRP23/03/18 03:46 PM
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Next time say ”You’re lucky I have a jar of Nutella home”
/r/askTRP23/03/18 03:42 PM
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Just interested, how long did you lift?
/r/askTRP14/03/18 05:25 AM
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You know what you could do, you’re just procrastinating by asking these dumb questions
/r/askTRP26/02/18 12:23 PM
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Read about and apply Paretos ”80/20” Law. If you feel you’re improving and are happy with it, theres no reason to do more. Be effective instead of efficient, set a maximum of 3 goals and write it down on a piece of paper. Set a short deadline and do that shit. Usually when we try to improve ourselves we focus on efficiency, as in to-do-as-much-as-possible GOGOGO! But in reality you should focus on effectivity more. Use the 80/20 principle and determine which actions yield the best results and re…
/r/askTRP22/02/18 07:58 PM
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If you really want to use a full body routine to build mass, I suggest Arnold’s Golden Six. Otherwise a PPL split run twice a week.
/r/askTRP19/02/18 07:06 AM
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Best advice I’ve had on social situations is to slow down (I mean real slow), and take a few seconds to think about what you’re TRYING to say rather than what you’re going to say. Works wonders.
/r/askTRP18/02/18 02:48 PM
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I missed your point but it’s great you’ve made some progress.
/r/askTRP17/02/18 02:30 PM
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Alan Thrall, Starting Strength channel, Austin Baraki
/r/askTRP05/02/18 01:29 PM
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Thank you, I wont.
/r/askTRP26/01/18 07:55 PM
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Thanks, will do that! She initiates sex more frequently.
/r/askTRP26/01/18 07:54 PM
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Thanks! I’ve seen your posts and really like them. Now that I think about it, she has been telling shes starting to go to the gym. Sex is better, more BJs (were almost non-existent) Roughly said I just treat her like a ragdoll in bed and it does the job. And she has started to do more housework than I. I’ll up the comfort a little bit and read more about LTR Game. Thanks again for the input.
/r/askTRP26/01/18 07:52 PM
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I never had problems with getting girls, but a few years of drug abuse fucked my head and I ended up self-concious. 1 year clean now. Thanks for the input!
/r/askTRP26/01/18 07:46 PM
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