geminemii Archive

Upvotes	Title	Category	Author	Subreddit	Date (UTC)

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1	Women want casual sex just as much as men - but only with partners that will probably give them an orgasm If that’s the case then I suppose it’s true. Is there an argument here I’m not seeing though, or are we just looking at how the majority of women feel about casual sex?	/r/PurplePillDebate	14/02/22 04:13 PM
2	Women want casual sex just as much as men - but only with partners that will probably give them an orgasm Eh. I’m against one night stands with random people even if I orgasm. Why would I waste my time doing that when I could be having fun with one person who can do it all the time, guaranteed, and hangs out with me after?	/r/PurplePillDebate	14/02/22 03:28 PM
1	How can loyalty exist if hypergamy is real Cool, glad we agree :)	/r/PurplePillDebate	09/11/21 11:10 PM
1	How can loyalty exist if hypergamy is real “Ugliness” being defined as unhelpful traits- shortness, being too fat to run/hunt, etc. these factors, despite your argument, do not dissuade them from finding mates. Evolution isn’t everything. We are capable of more than our “instincts”, and they don’t influence us as much as you say.	/r/PurplePillDebate	09/11/21 11:05 PM
1	How can loyalty exist if hypergamy is real Thanks :) I’m glad	/r/PurplePillDebate	09/11/21 11:02 PM
1	How can loyalty exist if hypergamy is real Hey asshole, when it comes to body count and attraction, a LOT of people lie. It’s been proven. But let’s see those studies.	/r/PurplePillDebate	09/11/21 10:48 PM
1	How can loyalty exist if hypergamy is real Right. But people WIDELY perceived as ugly still have partners…	/r/PurplePillDebate	09/11/21 10:42 PM
1	How can loyalty exist if hypergamy is real This isn’t a minority. Plenty of women feel the same way as me, and a LOT of “ugly” men (in terms of having round jaws, bellies, not physically fit) have partners. Most people have a S/O. And Lots of masculine men date other masculine men. And femme lesbians as well. You’re wrong. Whatever “studying” you’ve done doesn’t cover real human experiences. People lie on studies.	/r/PurplePillDebate	09/11/21 10:41 PM
1	How can loyalty exist if hypergamy is real Kinks and fetishes are also proof that our attraction isn’t purely based on survival and such. People are attracted to feet for Gods sake. And what about gay people? They aren’t here solely to procreate, and they’ve existed since man was born.	/r/PurplePillDebate	09/11/21 10:33 PM
1	How can loyalty exist if hypergamy is real Then why do plenty of “ugly” people have partners? Why am I attracted to Dad Bods? Things evolve as well as tastes and attraction. Our brains aren’t solely wired to fuck and produce. There is lots more to attraction.	/r/PurplePillDebate	09/11/21 10:31 PM
1	How can loyalty exist if hypergamy is real Instincts have nothing to with this. I am independent and rely on myself for getting food. I work a job. I pay for myself. I cook for myself. I work out for myself. The fuck are you on about?	/r/PurplePillDebate	09/11/21 08:54 PM
1	How can loyalty exist if hypergamy is real We don’t live in the wild. We live in the real world with societies.	/r/PurplePillDebate	08/11/21 08:11 PM
2	Will women really make a guy waits months for sex in order to “develop an emotional connection”? Real relationships take longer to develop and some women really need to trust that guy. One night stands or flings are easier because you need the intimacy without the connection. It’s about what you want- if you want to be a meaningless fling, go for it. If you want a real relationship, you might have to wait longer and really learn the ins and outs of her HEART rather than just her pussy.	/r/PurplePillDebate	04/11/21 07:28 PM
1	Women don't like bad boys. They just like hot boys, and it turns out many of these hot boys can also afford to be bad boys because of their looks. Don’t think about “seducing” a woman, what??? A real relationship, sexually or romantically, needs to come naturally. Good hygiene, dressing better, better self esteem, therapy all contribute to getting a gf. But a gf is not NECESSARY to be happy.	/r/PurplePillDebate	04/11/21 05:14 PM
1	Women don't like bad boys. They just like hot boys, and it turns out many of these hot boys can also afford to be bad boys because of their looks. That depends on what a bad boy is. A dude with tats, high charisma, confidence, a tender side but can be dominant when necessary? Well yes, EVERY girl loves that because that’s the ideal man. And that seems to be what her boyfriend is. Why are you so keen to put people in boxes? That seems unnecessary.	/r/PurplePillDebate	04/11/21 04:56 PM
1	Women don't like bad boys. They just like hot boys, and it turns out many of these hot boys can also afford to be bad boys because of their looks. Seriously. People here will only put you into two categories and if you try to argue, they throw a fit.	/r/PurplePillDebate	04/11/21 04:53 PM
1	Women don't like bad boys. They just like hot boys, and it turns out many of these hot boys can also afford to be bad boys because of their looks. Why are you assuming about someone’s else’s relationship? There are no two specific, unchangeable categories for people. What.	/r/PurplePillDebate	04/11/21 04:47 PM
1	Women don't like bad boys. They just like hot boys, and it turns out many of these hot boys can also afford to be bad boys because of their looks. Nope, you are wrong.	/r/PurplePillDebate	04/11/21 04:37 PM
8	Women don't like bad boys. They just like hot boys, and it turns out many of these hot boys can also afford to be bad boys because of their looks. I never wanted a guy who called himself a “bad boy”. Goofy, funny, lovable men who can be dominant when need be but still respect me as an equal? That’s what I and most other women want.	/r/PurplePillDebate	04/11/21 01:35 PM
1	CMV: Men don't actually slut shame in real life. This is entirely a female construct that they direct at men to blame for their internalized guilt Also. She is not being objectified for that- she is simply the sexual subject at the time. She’s a person with needs and wants and feelings. An object doesn’t have that. She does. And not considering that makes you very shitty.	/r/PurplePillDebate	04/11/21 03:24 AM
1	CMV: Men don't actually slut shame in real life. This is entirely a female construct that they direct at men to blame for their internalized guilt Reread my comment. It’s about the treatment of her as a person AFTERWARDS. The respect you give her. Treating her as a sexual being in that moment, fine. Treating her as a purely sexual being, forever, afterwards, and calling her a slut without her being okay with it? Not okay. Again, casual sex is not a job. You want it to be a job and treat her like that’s her purpose, pay a hooker. Even during sex she is not an object. A model is LOOKED AT for her looks, but if you value her ONLY for her look…	/r/PurplePillDebate	04/11/21 03:21 AM
1	CMV: Men don't actually slut shame in real life. This is entirely a female construct that they direct at men to blame for their internalized guilt I’m only using things you’ve said or inferred yourself. Saying a woman is a sex object if she is horny is incredibly dehumanizing and it is saying that she is nothing but her sexuality. That was the original point. Being treated in the MOMENT as a horny person (with respect and consent) is perfectly fine, but the way you speak of these women after they choose to have sex is the dehumanizing part that I can’t respect from you. You said “If you’re going out to specifically fuck some practical stra…	/r/PurplePillDebate	04/11/21 02:38 AM
1	CMV: Men don't actually slut shame in real life. This is entirely a female construct that they direct at men to blame for their internalized guilt So you think sleeping with a bunch of people makes you unworthy of your humanity? Yes, in that moment, she is offering her sexuality (as a PERSON), but after the sex part, will you just consider her a fleshlight? That’s an absolutely horrible opinion to have. I hope you understand that a promiscuous person is still a person.	/r/PurplePillDebate	04/11/21 02:06 AM
1	CMV: Men don't actually slut shame in real life. This is entirely a female construct that they direct at men to blame for their internalized guilt Your analogy is not wanted in this conversation because a sex OBJECT and a horny PERSON aren’t comparable. Yes, it’s expected to be treated like a person who wants to have sex when you’re horny. But it’s how you’re treated afterwards by people that speak about you that matters. It’s about human respect. Being a horny woman doesn’t make you devoid of your humanity.	/r/PurplePillDebate	04/11/21 01:57 AM
1	CMV: Men don't actually slut shame in real life. This is entirely a female construct that they direct at men to blame for their internalized guilt Oh my god. A sex object is not a job. She’s a person who wants to have sex. A PERSON. That’s a horrifying take.	/r/PurplePillDebate	04/11/21 01:51 AM
1	CMV: Men don't actually slut shame in real life. This is entirely a female construct that they direct at men to blame for their internalized guilt It’s the dehumanizing part I’m a bit upset about- you seemed to think if a woman chooses to be sexual and consensually provocative, she is seen as a sex object and that’s perfectly fine and what she wants. When in reality these women are horny just like anyone else, so don’t deserve to be seen as simple sex objects.	/r/PurplePillDebate	04/11/21 01:49 AM
2	CMV: Men don't actually slut shame in real life. This is entirely a female construct that they direct at men to blame for their internalized guilt And you’re an insensitive cunt!	/r/PurplePillDebate	04/11/21 01:45 AM
1	CMV: Men don't actually slut shame in real life. This is entirely a female construct that they direct at men to blame for their internalized guilt I’m sure they can do that and still be respected as a person.	/r/PurplePillDebate	04/11/21 01:43 AM
2	CMV: Men don't actually slut shame in real life. This is entirely a female construct that they direct at men to blame for their internalized guilt The title of the post is wrong. Men DO slut shame in real life, just less and in different ways. Definitely an issue with women though.	/r/PurplePillDebate	04/11/21 12:52 AM
1	CMV: Men don't actually slut shame in real life. This is entirely a female construct that they direct at men to blame for their internalized guilt Only one???	/r/PurplePillDebate	04/11/21 12:50 AM
1	If high n count women weren't shamed but also generally weren't taken seriously as long term partners would you still find that unfair? I’ve never met someone who actually thinks it’s gross (I’m a senior, they’re the most rude about this topic), and if they did I’d explain to them that it doesn’t change anything about her anatomy, mental state or whatever else people make up about women. That’s the only reason people online seem to think it’s gross (“roast beef pussies from the cock carousel”, etc) and even then it comes down to reeducation and just… thinking properly.	/r/PurplePillDebate	02/11/21 11:23 PM
1	If high n count women weren't shamed but also generally weren't taken seriously as long term partners would you still find that unfair? Generally yes but on an individual scale it doesn’t seem as accurate, especially if the woman with a high n count stopped within the past few years to only 1-3 consistent partners. That seems to be really common these days and I think it needs to be considered.	/r/PurplePillDebate	02/11/21 09:43 PM
1	If high n count women weren't shamed but also generally weren't taken seriously as long term partners would you still find that unfair? I think the biggest issue is people refusing to acknowledge and THINK about why they hold these beliefs about sex and why they consider women whores for sleeping around. It’s completely fair to have preferences (assuming the reason is more than “women bad if she sleep around bc loose ugly pussy and likes sex that’s NOT with me”). A valid one would be: “I want someone who shares the same values as me for sex and relationships”. Even then, as long as they’ve changed within the past few years, ther…	/r/PurplePillDebate	02/11/21 09:41 PM
0	Qs4W: Do you hold negative perceptions of men with high n-counts? More than 15 casual sex partners, and more than 8 serious relationships <30. If it fit what I said above, I’d be less insecure and probably just baffled. I’d hope he would have left that sort of thing behind, and be loyal to me, and I would trust that completely (unless it’s broken or he displays disloyal tendencies). It would be easier for me to be a bit suspicious. No. Never. And to be fair I often remove my own hookups (circa age 15/16, 4 “hookups”) from my own body count as some were unconse…	/r/PurplePillDebate	30/10/21 11:19 PM
3	Why don’t women like video games or board games generally? because the online gaming communities are a toxic cesspool towards any chick or feminine dude. lord knows i’ve tried but they all are like “OMG A GIRL” “you can’t play for shit” “show us your tits”. i only play single person rpgs now :/	/r/PurplePillDebate	02/11/20 12:32 AM
5	The majority of people in this community have an extremely warped view of sex. amateur is usually wholesome, yea. as a young person the rough shit is fun but not as fulfilling lmao	/r/PurplePillDebate	26/10/20 03:17 PM
6	The majority of people in this community have an extremely warped view of sex. and that’s why wholesome porn is best	/r/PurplePillDebate	26/10/20 03:07 PM