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Go to a small town.
/r/seduction29/07/26 06:52 PM
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Prostitutes are for men who can't get any and men who can get way too much, to the point where it becomes a risk to pick up some strange
/r/PurplePillDebate28/07/25 11:37 PM
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This is anecdotal but the lefty friends that I have had have all been really shy around women. Like cripplingly shy. I had this one friend who was a card carrying member of the Democratic party. He dated a girl for years who was a country girl (she grew up in a trailer park but she wasn't trailer trash if you get my meaning). The problem is that he would never want to commit because he politics didn't align with hers. He never took her seriously and ended up stringing her along for the entire du…
/r/seduction28/07/25 11:33 PM
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So I was looking through your search history and might understand why you're messing up. Let's say that everything you say is true and your relationships only last weeks then obviously they are getting to know you and they are getting hit with a little too much at once. If you told me anything on your posts within three weeks I would be looking for an exit strategy. I understand that there are some things that you should tell people. But it doesn't have to be on the first date. You can wait till…
/r/seduction24/11/24 01:28 AM
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Second this, dinner is a second date thing, although you did say it was a cuban restaurant/bar. If it's anything like Havana 1957 then you can keep it light.
/r/seduction01/07/24 02:22 PM
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I don't think those people are your friends. For me it was a lot easier to pick up alone. Usually how I would set up would be I would have a small bar that I would set up shop. I would be friendly with the bartenders and talk to them and become a regular. Once I was a regular I would meet other regulars and they would become my bar friends. Then once I had a good social circle of people and the bar in which I always went I could then start hitting on people. Here's why this plan works. Let's say…
/r/seduction11/02/24 03:28 PM
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I would rather have had a neither selection on some of those.
/r/PussyPassDenied19/04/23 01:16 AM
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We're talking comic con, the apple of cons. To be fair I went to megacon in Orlando so milage may vary. Personally, i get more pull at bars.
/r/seduction10/08/22 01:33 PM
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The philosophy of seduction is sometimes overly complicated. Alcohol helps because you are more loose about what you say and more carefree, but it's not required unless your an extremely anxious person. Last time I went to a con i had a t-shirt that had a reference to goldeneye 64. So it was a conversation starter. I did the touristy thing and take pictures with everyone. I never had a conversation with someone outside of, hey cool costume. The best costume was a girl who was dressed as a sim an…
/r/seduction10/08/22 01:06 PM
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A woman's greatest asset is time, and you are asking for it without bringing anything to the table. A coffee date is easier to arrange then a dinner which is easier to arrange then a night over, etc. Talking to women is a transaction of time, and on a subconscious level we are all doing this. A conversation of the source material of her costume is a conversation she has had many times before and therefore not worth her time. You've done this to when your in a conversation with someone who's talk…
/r/seduction10/08/22 12:55 PM
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It helps, but my feelings on cons are it's where geeky girls go to feel like a celebrity. Not to be overly pessimistic but generally speaking girls that cosplay mainly because they like the character design, not because they like the source material. So i feel like your plan to discuss geekdom might not pan out as well as your think. The way i see it is that you and the person your trying to hit on should at the same "level" of social esteem. So comic con girl looking foxy is not going to talk t…
/r/seduction10/08/22 12:42 PM
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Do creeps know that they are creepy? Not saying you are but you're going for girls in costume getting asked to have their picture taken non stop. It's not ideal for seduction. Now let's say they are at an after-party and they have taken their outfit off, about an hour in when no one is taking to them? Yeah that's way more favorable.
/r/seduction10/08/22 11:27 AM
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I feel like you would have an easier time picking up girls who go to comic con while they aren't at comic con. Girls in cosplay outfits know they are hot shit.
/r/seduction10/08/22 10:08 AM
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If she is testing you then why? You guys are already seeing each other. That sounds like a red flag
/r/seduction19/07/22 11:39 AM
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If your seeing the girl, why are you guys still playing games?
/r/seduction19/07/22 10:43 AM
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No, i haven't spoken with him in years
/r/seduction05/04/22 02:53 AM
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Another bit of advice, my wife and I met at a club, i leaned in for the kiss and "rude" was playing. She leaned back and i just pointed to the air and said "why you gotta be so rude". All approaches are cringe, unless they work, then it's a cute story.
/r/seduction04/04/22 07:05 PM
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It might happen, but that's the risk you have to take. Rejection on a kiss is not as bad as you think just laugh it off, if you're on a confirmed date then she already knows you're interested.
/r/seduction04/04/22 06:53 PM
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If you and her are having fun and there is some sexual tension in the air. Wait for a lull in the conversation and go for it.
/r/seduction04/04/22 06:47 PM
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Nothing Let me tell you a story. Years ago, i met a girl, let's call her 'jane' and we hit it off, We ended up hooking up and i was smitten. I ended up telling the whole affair to a friend of mine at work. Let's call him 'joe'. A few days later I invited her to hang out with a few friends of mine, She ended up declining and also got a wall of text saying that she doesn't want to see me anymore. I was shocked because we were chatting on the phone 12 hours ago, i spent the next 48 hours trying to …
/r/seduction04/04/22 06:27 PM
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I've never had success at a nightclub. Usually my approach would be to go to a bar that i like and talk to everyone. At that moment the only thing that matters is if you're the life of the party. Phone numbers should be if you want to talk with her again, not if she wants to go out with you. Nightlife if it's a bar or club is only for the night. If it's a k-close or an f-close that's when you can ask for the number. Because you want to see her again. This is from an American perspective, your co…
/r/seduction21/03/22 10:56 PM
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So, when you ask for the number that is a big commitment that you are offering. Your asking her to give you contact from now until you are done talking to her, if that means a relationship or not is something that you both haven't decided yet. Instead I would set up the next encounter while the first one is still happening. So let's say you meet someone at a grocery store. You hit it off and now it's getting time to part ways, she mentioned that she likes art or something. You say hey i happen t…
/r/seduction21/03/22 09:18 PM
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Yeah the Texas A&m shooter was 10 years before this.
/r/PussyPassDenied17/12/21 06:36 PM
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Either I look way better then I think or this person is wrong. I never actually looked for casual sex but I knew the relationship wasn't going to last very early so I ended it.
/r/PurplePillDebate18/08/21 02:03 PM
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I feel bad for the family. Imagine keeping a lawyer on retainer for 25 years.
/r/PussyPassDenied22/06/21 02:11 PM
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I didn't do well with women until I got into my 20s Your young so you do have all the resources that you would have at let's say 23 but hobbies are the best way to make yourself more interesting and something to take your mind off things. Learn a language, and now you have a while different set of women to talk to. Just have fun and enjoy yourself, you'll get there.
/r/seduction21/04/21 03:34 AM
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This is just from experience of girls I've dated that I ended up not going for a longer term thing.
/r/PurplePillDebate17/03/21 11:07 AM
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A girl who tries too hard. I had a girl ask me out in a really dumb way. She added a paragraph on a paper that I was writing in college. That was an instant no. Girls who are way too combative. I love a good back and forth in conversation and I like being brought down a level in interesting and witty ways, but it gets annoying when everything this an argument. Girls who are over eager. There were three girls who after the first night had a chance but texted me right after we left and I wasn't fe…
/r/PurplePillDebate17/03/21 03:55 AM
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Point being stats alone never tells the whole story.
/r/PussyPassDenied04/03/21 12:13 AM
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I'm not saying he did but what I am saying is that stats by themselves don't mean much. 92% of the prison population is male. Should we infer that there is injustice in the way the justice system handles the male population over females? Or is it that men and women are different when it comes to risk aversion, crime, etc. My point is that it's both and none of those things. We can agree that women get lesser sentences, but without a correlation to fully flesh out the questions being asked it's t…
/r/PussyPassDenied03/03/21 10:09 PM
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The problem with stats is that you can't make any stat fit your agenda. For example: since 8% of the workforce deaths are female. Let's use fucked up math to say: 480 women were killed in the workplace last year. We can also use phrases to try and make it seem like 480 is a staggering number. Every day, a mother, a sister, a daughter, or an aunt will go to work and never come back. Each day a woman loses her life while at work. End workspace harassment and violence. Even though there is nothing …
/r/PussyPassDenied03/03/21 08:58 PM
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Well that's kinda the point. I remember being 21 and being so annoyed at my gf at the time who was 18. A lot of the time I wanted to go out and drink but couldnt because she couldn't go to bars. At 27 it's even worse. Your fresh into your career or finishing up college if you started late while a 20 year old still can't drink and is still recovering from highschool bullshit.
/r/PussyPassDenied22/01/21 03:28 PM
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I understand your point but 16-27 is a different relationship to 11-17. What's the rule... Half your age +7
/r/PussyPassDenied22/01/21 01:00 PM
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Map is the pc name for pedo. It stands for minor attracted person.
/r/PussyPassDenied22/01/21 12:58 PM
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You can see the pictures and you know exactly why they were all caught...
/r/PussyPassDenied19/01/21 02:14 PM
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Meh BLM won't pick this up for obvious reasons.
/r/PussyPassDenied23/07/20 11:29 AM
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It's not a comment on that justice system but rather just a statement of fact. If your in a foreign country and get caught up in a crime of some kind, you have no way of defending yourself adequately. There might be language and cultural barriers. Each barrier is a bullet in the chamber pointed at your defense.
/r/PussyPassDenied13/07/20 06:52 PM
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Whenever I go abroad, I just assume that the justice system will be against me in that country. Why would you think anything different.
/r/PussyPassDenied13/07/20 05:30 PM
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Yeah but I can't stop watching. I just wait for Azan to kick her to the curb, but he never does
/r/PussyPassDenied30/06/20 08:59 PM
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Brother might be a bit off. Don't get me wrong, not speaking with your brother and thinking he's a piece of shit is the correct response. However, the media come in and want a story. I would feel unbelievable shame for my failure as a parent. I would be forced to justify it on the spot and I would probably sound just as stupid.
/r/PussyPassDenied29/06/20 01:26 PM
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To be fair, if your son or daughter murdered someone, I feel like anyone would try and justify it in some way.
/r/PussyPassDenied29/06/20 01:01 PM
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Is it just me or is he holding that rpg wrong
/r/PussyPassDenied16/06/20 08:25 PM
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It's not about commitment -phobia. If you trying to do the James bond thing then you should be in a relationship with someone who is trying to find a relationship. Basically you wouldn't be having that type of conversation.
/r/seduction11/06/20 12:34 PM
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Yes and no. Note that James bond is a character so everything works out for him to advance the plot, but more specifically James bond has access to a variety of resources. He goes to all the fun parties, travels around the world, all for queen and country. The biggest takeaway from bond is to be focused on the thing that you do. Career hobby etc, and the women will come to you.
/r/seduction11/06/20 11:37 AM
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Notable these women are there because they are having problems with their relationships
/r/PussyPassDenied16/05/20 03:23 PM
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To be treated like a princess is to be treated unequally. If you think that's the norm then it becomes an issue in the relationship.
/r/PussyPassDenied16/05/20 03:23 PM
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I mean the whole reason why they are there in the first place is because they can't keep a man, so it doesn't surprise me that they would think in these terms.
/r/PussyPassDenied16/05/20 03:21 PM
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They cut off the best part. literally a second later
/r/PussyPassDenied16/05/20 02:19 AM
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Sargon had her on a live stream a while back, it was pretty funny. He brought up the fact that black people sold other black people as slaves to Europeans and she left the stream.
/r/PussyPassDenied15/05/20 07:24 PM
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I don't care if you make an onlyfans, but expecting your man to be okay with it is another thing.
/r/PussyPassDenied13/05/20 06:09 PM
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Rick Ross money lol. That was really stupid...
/r/PussyPassDenied15/04/20 12:22 PM
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Depending on the relationship just tell her the truth that your a virgin. Enjoy yourself, spend a lot more time on foreplay
/r/seduction17/02/20 06:08 AM
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This... This was the sub I was looking for
/r/PussyPassDenied13/11/19 03:52 AM
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I think it's less about being lukewarm and more about lowering expectations.
/r/PurplePillDebate09/11/19 07:48 PM
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Most of the time women's choices in mate selection is entirely based on nonsense. Same with ours. I don't know why but I think braces are cute. I've always gotten flak for it because in the states it's something that teenagers wear. But in other countries a lot of women don't have an opportunity to fix their teeth until their 20s. Once again it's not the end all be all. My wife, doesn't have braces, or neon hair. Same rule applies for women. For them it's not the deal breaker.
/r/seduction25/09/19 04:15 PM
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Think about it this way. Girls aren't attracted as much as the looks but what the look represents to them. So let's imagine the classic example of girl likes guy with certain hair, looks or clothes. Those features represent to the girl in question an aspect of what an ideal man is like to them. So let's say the guy has hair like John Travolta from Grease. I don't know what fuckboy hair is so I'll go with an obvious example. The girl likes the grease hair style because of that movie and other rel…
/r/seduction25/09/19 02:51 PM
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My wife is Japanese and she wouldn't be bothered.
/r/PussyPassDenied24/09/19 11:49 AM
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You can text but don't have her up at priority one. When I was dating I would almost always go after one girl at a time. I realized that I would push them away by giving them too much attention. Everyone loves the chase and you just have to let her chase you.
/r/seduction03/09/19 03:35 AM
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Get your ass to mars
/r/PussyPassDenied26/08/19 05:43 PM
1

This took me way too long to figure out
/r/seduction07/08/19 10:10 PM
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Probably because the prosecution didn't have enough evidence to convict on a murder charge. Better to put someone away for 15-20, then to have them get off scott free and can't convict again because of double jeapordy.
/r/PussyPassDenied15/07/19 06:59 PM
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Okay, I was in the same position when I found seddit. Here's is my personal advice. I met my fiancee in a nightclub in Tokyo but I have pulled in other places. Top place to pull: a bar, I'm not a very good dancer but I can make people laugh with witty sarcasm and whatnot. Usually I got to a bar that I have been to before, a nice relatively small bar with a good crowd and a lot of people that float through the bar. Where I used to live downtown had a bunch of little bars that you could bar hop. I…
/r/seduction12/06/19 10:27 PM
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No lol they all died
/r/PussyPassDenied10/05/19 12:03 AM
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Hey man I'm out of the game but I'll tell you what. I could never do cold approaches during the daytime. Good on ya. My suggestion for next time is to have it appear like a more natural encounter. If you place yourself around people you find attractive then you find that it's easier to spark the conversation.
/r/seduction25/02/19 05:53 PM
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Treason is only applied if the political will is present. Because treason is always capital punishment
/r/PussyPassDenied24/02/19 01:53 PM
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True hence the word negotiation. Companies will always want you at the lowest wage. This is the most important part
/r/PussyPassDenied08/02/19 02:36 AM
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Coming from the HR perspective when deciding the salary of which to pay someone they consult salary.com. I mean more ammo for negotiation but fuck me right?
/r/PussyPassDenied08/02/19 02:13 AM
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Fo pah
/r/PussyPassDenied08/02/19 01:43 AM
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Yes and no. It really depends on the company or the entity within that company that you are dealing with. For example in my position I work for a small firm in IT. There is no one to really compare my salary with because no one has my job title. Therefore, if I discuss my salary with the people whom I work for they might be unjustified in their anger that I get paid more. Let's say I wanted to work for a bigger company and now I have a team of people that I work with I would imagine that all of …
/r/PussyPassDenied08/02/19 01:43 AM
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It's one of those things that if you piss off HR they will place you on the chopping block. As long as you can discuss your salary in a way that doesn't piss off the hand that feeds you then go for it
/r/PussyPassDenied08/02/19 12:49 AM
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Thanks I've been wondering
/r/PussyPassDenied07/02/19 10:47 PM
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I think it's less of illegal and more of a social faux pas. The logic behind it is that your salary should be a conversation between you and your company. Edit: I learned how to spell faux pas
/r/PussyPassDenied07/02/19 10:24 PM
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I get your point but I think that the boyfriend is at fault for the manipulation Edit: I'm not saying the woman isn't 100% guilty of a disgusting crime. I'm just saying the boyfriend is an equal piece of shit.
/r/PussyPassDenied06/12/18 01:12 PM
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I'm not suggesting that you need to be a drunk. I certainly understand that people have a tendency to abuse alcohol. But if you can handle it and it gives you a loosey goosey feeling then you should use it to your disposal. Tipsy is usually what I go for. In the states where I live there is never a point where I can just walk home from a night of drinking. So I have to plan it out with designated daves or timing my alcohol consumption is a way that I'm below the limit when it's time to go home. …
/r/seduction05/11/18 03:46 PM
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They don't call weed liquid courage. If you need something to distract your mind choose alcohol. Not enough to put you on the floor but enough to get you to stop caring what other people think.
/r/seduction05/11/18 02:19 PM
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There is always a thotier thot
/r/PussyPassDenied10/09/18 01:17 AM
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This is the best advice in general. The minute I stopped putting women on a pedestal and started treating them like people is the minute I got action and furthermore, more meaningful relationships. I think a lot of guys don't realize that the women that take the pedestal men are the same women that absolutely destroy you emotionally.
/r/PurplePillDebate31/07/18 02:05 PM
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I mildly disagree. Going to a bar you going to find a type of woman. Just like going to the dog park. You have to plan accordingly.
/r/seduction30/07/18 01:23 PM
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Absolutely, I guess my point in that the person enforcing the law in the air doesn't have the threat of violence behind them, therefore if there is a potential for a situation for the flight attendant to remove all bad actors before take off. For the safety of everyone on board.
/r/PussyPassDenied21/06/18 04:03 PM
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SO here's my take. we got mom, bitchy lady and flight attendant (FA for short). Mom saw that she was about to be sat next to the worst person in the world and used her son for leverage in a foolish attempt to calm her down. bitchy lady saw through that threat and just threw her weight around. FA saw what was going on and attempted to calm the situation (as is her job) but the minute that she stepped out of line she could have ejected her, also as is her job. I think she did the right thing consi…
/r/PussyPassDenied21/06/18 03:15 PM
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A good rule of thumb is to ask yourself. What is the girl missing when getting hit on? 10s always have guys fawning over them so they don't need more of that.
/r/seduction03/05/18 12:37 PM
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Lilith from Fraiser?
/r/PussyPassDenied18/04/18 02:44 PM
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Oh man, a whole 2000 years you would like to attribute to us men. So you would like to go back to the times of Jesus now. Where if you were on your period you were shunned until the sprits left you?
/r/PussyPassDenied30/01/18 12:34 PM
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I mean this is why I joined this community. I wasn't looking to be douche jock trying to get my rocks off with every girl I saw. I was trying to get a date. To understand the "science" behind attraction and to use that effectively to get the girl I want to be with instead of girls that brought me down.
/r/seduction10/08/17 11:41 PM
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I've gotten flak for my number from an ex once. I think for your friends it's a "yes your doing what your biologically programmed to do" but for potential partners it's a determent because you might show signs of being a player
/r/PurplePillDebate07/08/17 12:07 PM
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Girls do have it worse in a sense. Biologically, women are choosy by nature. So someone who sleeps with everyone (as a general example) would be less desirable because the norm is choosiness
/r/PurplePillDebate07/08/17 12:04 PM
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So I'm gonna go with the research paper because it is more scientific I'm not sure about the method that the Aussie news site did. Once again I don't doubt that their is a bias but I would disagree on why. Salary negotiation: would be a leading factor, we know that men are better at salary negotiation then women on average, there are a few studies on this if you need me to look for them. Tradition bias: the idea in the abstract of the research paper suggests that men also get offered a higher sa…
/r/PurplePillDebate06/08/17 01:44 PM
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I need to see this study. I'm not denying that this bias doesn't exist but I would like to know the severity.
/r/PurplePillDebate06/08/17 01:13 PM
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Friendly reminder: never attribute to mallace what you can attribute to incompetence
/r/PurplePillDebate18/07/17 01:41 PM
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So I've watched some and it's the funniest shit I have ever seen. Sometimes I like a laugh to subside the guilt
/r/PurplePillDebate08/07/17 08:14 PM
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That smoking thing is absolutely stupid. As a former smoker that's not what it is at all.
/r/PurplePillDebate04/07/17 10:44 AM
1

Hmm maybe, Joe Rogan just seems like a guy that doesn't care about the internet drama. He is more interested in the real life stuff.
/r/PussyPassDenied30/06/17 02:06 AM
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Lol no I took it in segments but I'll listen while I play rocket league
/r/PussyPassDenied30/06/17 12:36 AM
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Damn I missed the memo, time to storm a beach or something
/r/PussyPassDenied29/06/17 08:34 PM
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The only counter to that is that it's rogans's show. I think that if he planned it out a little more, it would have been a much better interview and both Joe Rogan and Sargon would have gotten a bump in support.
/r/PussyPassDenied29/06/17 08:29 PM
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Well good news for you, Sargon is left wing.
/r/PussyPassDenied29/06/17 07:43 PM
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As a Sargon fan I feel like he could have gotten to a better start, Joe didn't want to talk about Anita but instead talk about his other work. The podcast is uneven until about the 2 hour mark. Edit: as a note there is a reason why, around the 2 hour mark he says that he has to go in 10 mins because he had to catch a plane back to the UK. Around that time the reason why he was talking so fast was because he wanted to talk about a lot of stuff but only had an hour, Joe Rogan convinces him to move…
/r/PussyPassDenied29/06/17 06:33 PM
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So it's a common and popular fact that women choose men based on status and power. This status can come from all types of attitudes and walks of life. Which it's why it's rare to see a man who makes less or is in a lower position in life then the woman in a relationship. Why is it that we never see a Titanic (Jack and rose) relationship in real life? If a woman is to be on the same playing field power or financially speaking as a man her suitors then become increasingly more limited. Not saying …
/r/PurplePillDebate06/04/17 05:57 PM
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well this is coming from my time as a server but 12oz beer = 8oz wine = 5oz of liquor. two shots of any of that will get you around that level. theres an app on android to calculate your BAC so i would use that if you dont want to do this math
/r/seduction02/10/16 03:26 AM
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I'm going to get a drink...
/r/seduction30/09/16 05:18 PM
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So just in case your nervous on the approach, I would recommend the sweet spot of being drunk. Not drunk enough to start being a little dizzy Not sober enough to notice your own insecurities. Usually its around 0.07 BAC (at least for me) At this point you stop asking yourself these kinds of questions and start having a good time. Obviously, this doesn't work for everyone but from my experience but it works out for me a lot of the time. I am of the "don't give a fuck camp" where if you stop carin…
/r/seduction30/09/16 05:15 PM
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This might not be the best advice but if I had a girl break up with me I would turn that longing for the other person into a dream where if I saw that person in 5 years time I would be someone that she would feel sorry for dumping. For example 5 years ago my ex is currently with a unexpected kid and a mediocre job. Meanwhile I am finishing up my degree and about to travel abroad to teach English. If I ever met her again I am able to tell her about all my wonderful adventures. While she can tell …
/r/PurplePillDebate18/09/16 09:12 PM
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I would say tread lightly with this one. If a girl will give number while out on a first date that's a flag. Not red but something to watch out for if you are going to pursue sonething serious.
/r/seduction19/06/16 06:48 AM
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Here is my advice. Find a cool bar. Not too big not too small. I found a bar in my area that had vintage arcade games. Super cool. Get friendly with the staff and management, become a regular. Once you have established your base of operations try not to become predictable. I.e. sitting at the same spot Everytime you go. Now that you have established a network mingle. Guy girl doesn't matter just have fun. Once you see someone of interest go up and and start the conversation. There rest is game
/r/seduction30/05/16 02:45 PM
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I think that this question is worded incorrectly. I see alot of women who say that they are not feminists. I don't get alot of women who say that they are anti feminists. This is a huge difference. A women who is not a feminist might say that they associate more with a humanist perspective. The belief that everyone should always be held in the same regard and all rights should be valued as equal regardless of gender. An anti feminist would say that the feminist movement is either toxic or run it…
/r/PurplePillDebate16/05/16 12:33 PM
1

To each his own I guess
/r/PurplePillDebate23/03/16 06:18 PM
5

Why wouldn't you just get your red wings?
/r/PurplePillDebate23/03/16 01:34 PM
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As a neutral party (or as much as I can be), I would like to take a middle ground approach. First let's look at Western society, in the US I can't really find a good reason to say that women have it worse off then men or vice versa. I think that as it stands now we have laws and police's in place that do not allow people to explicitly discriminate against other people based on gender. Does it still happen? Probably. But it is very difficult to change the mindset of individuals that are so used t…
/r/PurplePillDebate29/02/16 12:54 AM
1

I second this all of the girls that I dated for a long time have never received nor expected large sum gifts. The most I spent was $77 for a love motel in Japan.
/r/seduction26/02/16 02:32 AM
8

Yeah this termed the back burner effect. Or my favorite, text-message buddies
/r/seduction30/01/16 04:33 PM
3

Lawyer up immediately, for anyone else who is looking at this post. In this day and age if a girl ever wants to get frisky and regrets it later. She can easily cry wolf and now the burden of proof is on you. Who is the jury going to believe? A sweet and innocent girl or the big burly alpha?
/r/seduction20/10/15 09:16 PM
1

I think that if you narrow your demographic then you can start to see this. My hypothesis is that the more "hipsterish" you are, the less sex you're going to have
/r/PurplePillDebate22/08/15 09:01 PM
2

Whatever you do don't take her cane...
/r/seduction07/07/15 01:26 PM
8

She's comfortable if she takes a drink of your beer. If your dancing with her and she puts her palms on your neck. If she touches your knee. There are some iois that I have experienced
/r/seduction21/06/15 08:28 PM
5

This. Fortune favors the bold, just don't make it too sloppy
/r/seduction21/06/15 08:27 PM
1

Touché I can only go by experience but how often does a girl date up while still fucking down?
/r/PurplePillDebate05/06/15 08:52 PM
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So lets take an example: highly speculated but an example none the less. girl A: two long term relationships, active sex lives in both. girl B: multiple hook ups, one nighters, short term relationship, and lets throw in a long term relationship just to be in the mix. both have had roughly the same amount of sexual encounters across their sexual career. girl A I would argue would have to try much harder to capture my attention in the bed room because she has only learned from two guys. Assuming t…
/r/PurplePillDebate05/06/15 01:33 AM
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Sluts marry well depending on what attracts them. I have seen many sluts who only go after ghetto guys. That tends not to end well for them Maybe I'm not a rp'er but I don't see high count as being a big deal. Why would you want someone who doesn't know what they are doing in the sack? I think the more important question is who she is banging. If she's in the 20 - 30 in her 20's and 30's then whatever. If she slept with all of my friends and I happen to be next up, don't expect me to take you se…
/r/PurplePillDebate04/06/15 05:40 PM
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It's not about being a slut its the manor that your viewed by others. Knew a girl that had a high number. But was genuinely a decent person. Knew another girl and acted like a horrible person. She was referred as a slut. That's the difference
/r/PurplePillDebate06/05/15 09:36 PM
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No I dont
/r/PurplePillDebate26/04/15 03:14 PM
2

Always ask open ended questions. What do you do for a living? What do you like or not like about it? Oh wow that's really cool I heard that you have to do ______ there. Is that true? What's your heritage? (Don't say where are you from that can be mistaken as rude) Have you ever been there recently? I heard about that place in the news, is it really like that? Best set: What's your heritage? A: I'm Pakistani and Irish. Oh wow that means you are all kinds of terrorist. A: yeah hahahaha But serious…
/r/seduction22/04/15 10:55 PM
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I dont think anyone has heard of a break being a benefit in their realationship . it might work out in highschool were relationships are something so new you don't actually know how to deal with your emotions
/r/PurplePillDebate21/04/15 03:19 AM
2

Haha so Japanese porn is fake. If that's what your getting at. There is not ridiculous yelling and almost crying.
/r/seduction19/04/15 12:39 AM
2

They are surprisingly nice. I would have taken pictures but I don't think that would have gone down so well.
/r/seduction18/04/15 08:29 PM
2

Thanks, I'm not trying to brag. I think the point I'm trying to make is I went to a foreign country had a great time and did everything that I wanted to do. Not only did I get laid but I met a lot of fantastic people. Maybe the point that didn't come across was that to everyone reading this is this: This is possible everywhere regardless of location. Japan still has stigmas and sex is not talked about openly like in the west. If I can do that and not know the language then it makes my iois and k…
/r/seduction18/04/15 08:28 PM
3

I think that's the point I'm trying to drive home.
/r/seduction18/04/15 08:19 PM
2

Meant to be a field report for a reason dude
/r/seduction18/04/15 08:17 PM
11

Haha I was too drunk to notice usually shit like that makes me cringe
/r/seduction18/04/15 10:34 AM
7

So something I noticed was that not every girl will date a foreigner
/r/seduction18/04/15 10:32 AM
3

When in doubt always assume that you are busy doing your own thing. If she doesn't respond in the week timespan. Wait like a day and then text her back.
/r/seduction16/04/15 02:56 PM
1

My couchsurfers girlfriend was just hitting on me so I think I'm good lol. On his phone...
/r/seduction14/04/15 01:09 PM
1

That's the wrong mentality, you have to understand that at any point in time you have value on the market and if she didn't see that then that's her problem. Thinking your wrong is a good motivator for understanding your shortcomings and improving upon them. Continuing to do so is a self fulfilling prophecy
/r/seduction13/04/15 10:42 PM
2

Remind yourself there is a reason why she got away. This is not your fault, its hers. She couldn't see a good thing when it presented itself. Usually works for me
/r/seduction13/04/15 10:29 PM
1

I could have and I know it but I got the number so well see what happens
/r/seduction04/04/15 05:59 PM
1

Yeah I'm thinking that's what happened. Maybe when I came out she thought she would somehow look better around her friends. This is her MO
/r/seduction01/04/15 12:34 AM
2

Just imagine the worst friendzoned guy of all time. It was kind of insulting to be treated like a stranger after the initial meeting. But your advice is solid
/r/seduction30/03/15 04:30 PM
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I just googled that the age of consent in Japan is 13. Wtf lol
/r/seduction27/03/15 05:39 PM
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im going in april, i hear october is the best month because thats when the cherry blossoms fall
/r/seduction27/03/15 03:25 PM
1

thank you. this!!!
/r/seduction27/03/15 02:14 PM
1

I get what your saying. In this video that you showed me he shows good points. I have never been and I don't think I ever will be an asshole in that sense to women. Its not in my nature and I've gotten plenty of women without being a jerk. I haven't seen the video in question because it was taken down but I have seen a lot of reaction videos and they aren't pleasant. (trying my hardest to not white knight/ neckbeard this post.) I've always maintained the philosophy that if you treat women like a…
/r/seduction27/03/15 02:22 AM
4

I hope you are joking
/r/seduction27/03/15 02:03 AM
4

Oh good. This girl tells me I have to go to ropungi
/r/seduction26/03/15 10:21 PM
5

From my experience this is some tell tale signs that she wants the kiss: She looks at your mouth If you have a soda/beer in your hand and she drinks YOUR soda/beer. She bites her lower lip She is cold and she gets closer to you even though its 90 (I live in Florida) These are all signs that she is ready. How to get her to do those things is up to you :) Last thing that my mom told me once. Women will only do stuff with you unless they are comfortable. Meaning if they feel safe. Strangely put, sh…
/r/seduction09/03/15 06:56 PM
3

In the sense that when you were younger it didn't matter who you played with, just that you were playing. Same thing
/r/seduction05/03/15 03:05 PM
1

I've gotten laid joking about how I have yellow fever. Honestly I'm just trying to go around the world. Best trick is watch what you say. Instead of: where are you from? Ask: what's your heritage. Simple awareness of what's coming out of your mouth can take you far
/r/seduction04/03/15 01:40 PM
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I think that the best way is to approach them like you would if you were younger and didn't know any better
/r/seduction27/02/15 04:37 PM
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Approach all of them at once and don't focus on the one that you actually want.
/r/seduction27/02/15 04:36 PM
3

This shouldn't be a sh*t test. The problem with her saying that you have a boyfriend is that the only way to counter this is to say something moderately douchy like "He's not here, so what's the problem" That being said, I would consider looking for someone else and not pursue this one. I was with a girl like this who sh*t tested me in this exact fashion and I told her that I didn't have a problem and we'll be just friends. two weeks later she says that her bf and her are on a break and I make m…
/r/seduction06/02/15 11:41 PM
2

There is the old saying of you want what you can't have. This screams at your situation. When you are interested in someone your demeanor changes, you body language hints that you want to be committed and sometimes that can come of as clingy and it turns off the relationship for anyone. Same thing happens with when your trying to be casual with someone. You don't care to spend time and now she wants to try harder to entice you. Everyone in the world does this and now in order to get what you wan…
/r/seduction02/02/15 03:54 PM
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This girl is probably messaging you because she is at a party and wants to look busy. Your number in your phone just happened to appear in the contact list speed scroll. The only other option that is plausible is that she was interested but on your date day she got a message back from something more enticing and spent the next 5 months with that guy. Something happened and now she is in her contact list black book so she can look important again. I would say since she is using you for wasting sp…
/r/seduction02/02/15 01:34 AM
0

As someone that has anxiety issues I would recommend a bar. You will probably have a higher close rate. But it takes a little more work. Pick a bar that you like and you can get comfortable in. Not to busy, but not dead. Go in on an off day and talk to the bartenders. Get to know them (kinda like practicing what your about to do) Once you feel comfortable, just looking around. Sit next to a girl that you fancy. Say hi to the bartender (this makes it seem like you are a regular and sit there all …
/r/seduction11/01/15 05:24 PM
1

14?! I call it after 3-4
/r/seduction11/01/15 05:13 PM
2

The friend zone is just a classification of what women perceive of you at that moment of time. Guys also have a friend zone but thats all it is, i classification, a variable that can be manipulated or changed if possible. I believe that we can agree if you are unattractive to the woman in question there is very little that you can do to change that fact. Hey, we are fickle beings it comes with the territory. For example, I can name girls that I have met that in my life that fit into levels of re…
/r/seduction06/11/14 06:24 PM
4

I believe that the friend zone is something that you make up yourself by your own actions. Getting out of the friend zone is just a matter of identifying what put you there in the first place (either looks or personality) and attempt to fix it or not.
/r/seduction06/11/14 01:27 AM
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The friend zone is the location that guys go when the girl shows no interest but you do and you continue to hang around thinking that she will one day change her mind. Generally speaking, you will wind up in the friend zone if you don't do well on the first date and she is too "nice" to let you down easy.
/r/seduction05/11/14 09:41 PM
2

With this I would have to say, the assume that your in until she tells you no. In sales they tell you all the time to assume the sale. In seduction it's similar. Assume that it's a date and it will be, assume that she wants the kiss and that's what going to happen. Never underestimate the power of positive thinking
/r/seduction05/11/14 09:38 PM
12

I still maintain the belief that cologne is not meant to be noticed, but discovered
/r/seduction09/10/14 02:31 PM
1

I've always been fond of sateen sheets, especially during summer
/r/seduction29/08/14 06:15 AM
1

just remember that in reference to 500 dos is a cautionary tale when you're in a relationship. If your SO is exhibiting signs of summer-ness, then its time to get out. In relation to seduction. If the girl your interested in is showing these signs then she's not that into you. Sure she might sleep with you but she's not taking you seriously and therefore, you should adjust yourself for the next relationship.
/r/seduction23/08/14 02:51 PM
2

I had an ex who loved that movie. The moral of the story of that movie is simply, if you give less of a crap then you will make all of the desisions. Personally, the movie isn't that bad because I like jgl
/r/seduction23/08/14 11:33 AM
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This is tricky, you have to read into more body language and cues before approaching the person in particular. This can be incredibly frustrating when you have someone that you like but she happens to be a waitress or receptionist, this means that she is putting up a front because it is her job to do so. She how she reacts to you compared to other customers. Strike up a conversation that is not her work related, if she is receptive, you have a chance
/r/seduction16/08/14 06:59 PM
1

haha yeah I'm not a player type of guy, but seduction does help to find the girls and get you to interact with them so that helps.
/r/seduction07/07/14 05:21 AM
2

Good job dude. Reflect and improve you seem to kinda get the feel for what you did wrong and what went right
/r/seduction14/06/14 11:46 PM
1

I think the same way that you do. When I see a beautiful woman, I don't automatically jump to sex but instead wonder if she is potential material. But when I talk to my "bro" friends I change the wording so that I can relate to them. Yeah sure, I want to sleep with her but I guess I am in a point in my life where I want something more. I think that everyone feels this way but in society men are still viewed to be the dominant, emotionless, sex. Your friends are stating there feelings in a way th…
/r/seduction06/06/14 05:21 AM
12

PLAY DA GAME, BEE A MAN!
/r/seduction26/04/14 04:30 PM
2

Also dealt with girls that have flat out told me that they dont like talking on the phone. Thats girlese for "im immature or not that into you so I want to play games"
/r/seduction21/04/14 11:25 AM
2

This worked for me, I only text to initiate the call.
/r/seduction21/04/14 11:23 AM
3

Applebee's
/r/seduction01/04/14 12:35 PM
9

I think she was shit testing you a bit, next time if a girl pulls the whole ex boyfriend line one thing to remember is never say anything negative about him, ever. Say "he's not here" dont say "forget about him". If you just say the former now its a subject that taboo and vice is fun and exciting. The latter in her mind is now just what all of her friends have saod in the past about him. Additionally, a girl like this who is hung up on her ex is dangerous territory. More often then not she is ve…
/r/seduction31/03/14 12:49 PM
2

Man I have no idea what that is. I got out of the scene when tectonic was a thing
/r/seduction30/03/14 10:14 PM
1

Glowstick skills bro
/r/seduction30/03/14 08:30 PM
46

Usually, when a girl throws the im not having sex with you line. I throw back a i didn't want to have sex ethier. 9/10 times its a success.
/r/seduction30/03/14 08:23 PM
75

Alpha as fuck
/r/seduction30/03/14 08:20 PM
1

I've always been with girls with big eyes, because I can't stop looking at them. And asians for the opposite reason
/r/seduction30/03/14 06:18 PM
2

I've done that before I like that trick
/r/seduction28/03/14 09:25 PM
1

Link please?
/r/seduction28/03/14 04:52 PM
0

What are differences between club game and day game?
/r/seduction28/03/14 03:49 PM
1

Now I know that this has been mentioned before but what about social cues to look for. For me, I love going to the club with a mixed group of friends and have a good time, but I never seem to get to the next level.
/r/seduction28/03/14 03:42 PM
1

I have the same problem. I always do this and i regret it every time I do. I almost have to force myself to keep on going on different dates because I would just want to hang out in person. Eventually, it bites you in the ass. Example: Going out with a girl, beautiful from Brazil f-closed the whole nine yards, with no established relationship. So naturally, I stop going out a devote my time to her. Treating it as a bit of a relationship, thinking thats what she wanted. She ends up breaking thing…
/r/seduction17/03/14 09:43 PM
1

then she is a gold digger take her out on a cheap date that is awesome. (personally I live by an airport that has a parking lot with a really nice view of the lights, take her somewhere and talk to her, if she doesn't appreciate you for your creativeness then drop it and wait. She'll come crawling back because she likes the chase.
/r/seduction17/03/14 09:35 PM
1

don't tell her, tell her instead that you are a student. if she doesn't understand that being a student also means that your broke then she has unreal expectations of you and you (based upon your principals) should adjust accordingly.
/r/seduction17/03/14 09:33 PM
4

i think it would work for people who are AA's
/r/seduction17/03/14 09:22 PM
6

Although yes that is true in some cases, I believe that the feeling is still there. I, myself, when thinking of a 1-10 scale; used to already put the person of interest on a scale. Maybe a good compromise is before your with her keep the binary scale in mind, afterwards, think of the 1-10 scale
/r/seduction15/03/14 01:19 AM
6

Probably not in london, good mass transit system.
/r/seduction14/03/14 09:39 PM
4

I had a similar situation happen to me where I was hammered and wanted to take a girl home, she wanted to come with me but I told her I had work in the morning. I wouldnt have performed very well if at all and honestly sometimes its better to let them wait. Edit: eu usa meu português para pegar mulher tempo todo ;)
/r/seduction14/03/14 09:35 PM
6

Honestly, I pull better when I am alone because I am forced to interact with the people around me, whoever they are.
/r/seduction26/01/14 11:49 PM
1

Personally I don't have any qualms about it. The way I see it, I am just servicing a desire. I didn't tell her to cheat all I gave her was a good time.
/r/seduction26/01/14 11:46 PM
1

She doesn't work with me she works in the same plaza as me.
/r/seduction26/01/14 11:36 PM
1

Look dude, I get how you feel because I've been there, I think the lesson that needs to be learned from this experience is that you must understand that not all women are going to like you. Period. That can be easily seen with guys who play the numbers game. I'm glad that you realized that you were in the "friend zone" and decided to do something proactive about the situation. But I think we should realize what the friendzone is. It is the willingness to accept what a girl dishes to you simply b…
/r/seduction26/01/14 04:56 PM
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