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| 663 | Stop worrying about 🍆, invest in yourself and the sisterhood. The Queendom will follow, sis 👸🏻 | QUEEN SH*T | geminiascendant | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 26/04/21 02:04 PM |
| 287 | Sick of devising the perfect NOPE message? Here’s a no-effort template for the daily Queen ❤️ | STRATEGY | geminiascendant | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 06/08/21 10:16 AM |
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| 18 | Vetting Professional Men: Six Things to Keep in MindSoooo true. Dentist - so many of my colleagues (male and female) do actively prepare for marathons and they regularly hike too. There’s also a ‘mid range’ hobby tier of dancing, pottery, and general fitness (eg gym, badminton, tennis). And brunch/food. Lots of it. The unhealthier medical/dental professionals are the ones who work 24/7 and the only times you will see them outside of work is in the time after networking events. They tend to be incredible high achieving, but at a big cost. It does … | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 20/04/22 01:14 PM |
| 5 | Major Trigger Warning on the topic of War, Rape, Violence. The Mỹ Lai massacre was the mass murder of unarmed South Vietnamese civilians by United States troops in Sơn Tịnh District, South Vietnam, on 16 March 1968 during the Vietnam War. 54 years ago today, American soldiers terrorized a village. 💔This also happened during my grandparents’ and parents’ time, and unfortunately just before they managed to escape as well. Felt highly emotional reading this but thank you for sharing what is a tragic and horrific yet crucial part of history to remember. There’s always one narrative presented on each side in war and very rarely are the criminal offences pertaining to sexual violence portrayed. Absolutely heartbreaking but again, poignant. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 17/03/22 12:00 PM |
| 229 | He came back.I have several, the progression of which I think has shown amazing growth on my part. It more or less went: LTR (2.5 years) ex came back via drunk texts, drunk calls, harassed my friends, did not stop talking about me for years - had a lengthy conversation about the breakup and then ended it there Fboy ex came back via drunk texts, tried to be friends (obviously didn’t work), faux “I’ve changed…but not enough to make it work” - had a lengthy conversation about me not wanting to keep him in my li… | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 11/03/22 11:22 PM |
| 3 | Case Study of Dating Mr. Sensitive, Part I: Weaponized TraumaThank you for telling this story. I can’t imagine what you had to go through to come to terms with everything that happened but I’m so happy for you and so proud of your strength. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 18/01/22 02:02 PM |
| 55 | First, I laughed. Then, took a screenshot.The lack of grammar is astounding 😂 | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 13/12/21 02:12 PM |
| 141 | men's responses to your job/career situation is a quick, easy way to vetI’m a graduating dental student and one LVM person I was seeing used to put up a fuss about paying for things because I would “make it back later anyway” once I start work next year. Which, yes, but there’s still a massive amount of loans, registration and insurance costs not to mention prioritising myself and family first. A person’s response to your profession may be based on stereotypes, but a HV person will see you for who you are rather than what your job is associated with or what your pot… | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 23/10/21 06:01 AM |
| 4 | Let's discuss! When did you first get assigned to sit next to a disruptive boy in class, supposedly to be a good influence on him?I was assigned next to an African-Australian boy who was my good friend and we regarded each other with mutual friendship and as much respect as you can comprehend at age 10 (I’m Viet-Australian and the racism was real in school). My racist teacher then assigned me to him again after the second rotation, having forgotten that I already had to put up with his loud personality (again, good friend but buddy there’s a time and place) and then proceeded to gaslight me in front of the entire class. No… | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 17/10/21 09:03 AM |
| 215 | WOC, what modified/additional rules do you have to avoid men with race/culture fetishes?They certainly give it away super quickly. They’ll tend to ask race-geared questions or come in hot with assumptions about your ethnicity based on stereotypes. For example (I’m SE Asian): “You don’t look ___.” And proceed to associate your ethnic appearance with their horniness What ethnicities of men have you dated Take on a white saviour role and behave condescendingly towards YOUR ethnicity when they ‘know’ all the #facts Their dating profiles tend to overdo it with references to (e.g.) a tri… | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 22/08/21 05:46 AM |
| 23 | FDS was just featured in the Guardian! The article is fairly balanced and no mention of f3mcels or other such nonsense. FDS principles are becoming more mainstream 🥂 🥳That is 🔥!! | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 08/08/21 07:12 AM |
| 3 | Sick of devising the perfect NOPE message? Here’s a no-effort template for the daily Queen ❤️I love that. Normally at the stage where I’m just over him, I’m unresponsive and don’t bother engaging in antics that waste my time. There are days however that I just want to get a laugh out of it for me and send that before I block and delete - it is for me, not him. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 06/08/21 11:59 PM |
| 5 | Sick of devising the perfect NOPE message? Here’s a no-effort template for the daily Queen ❤️Absolutely! Always block and delete, and if you want a little fun as well here’s a way to do it x | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 06/08/21 01:09 PM |
| 24 | Sick of devising the perfect NOPE message? Here’s a no-effort template for the daily Queen ❤️Story behind this: a while ago I was talking to my mates about how sick I was of always having to tip toe around guys when saying bye 👋 after they showed me their red flags. And then they made me this gem - Papyrus font if you want to add your name to it! Every time I’ve used this scrotes have reacted hilariously (“???”, “wot?”) in the moments before I blocked and deleted. Can guarantee high amusement. Enjoy ✨ Edit: to clarify, always block and delete and you never owe anyone LV a response. At t… | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 06/08/21 10:19 AM |
| 2 | I hate it when LVM approach me in publicOne of my favourite quotes from Brooklyn 99 is when Gina Linetti says ‘The Audacity’ re guys cold approaching girls - she is damn right. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 05/08/21 08:08 AM |
| 1 | My rant about the "mental health awareness" crowd on social mediaAgreed! So much! It is so exhausting and taxing on you to have to always be aware of someone else’s triggers. One day you end up realising you’ve lost your opinions and expression because you keep suppressing it for someone who isn’t even dealing with their own issues. Embrace yourself. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 22/05/21 03:11 PM |
| 28 | To my fellow WOC - if you date outside your race be careful of “woke” guys. There’s a good chance he’s a LVM putting on an act to impress you.Yeah no, Asian men are a whole new ballpark of insecurity and fetishization. Always vet. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 22/05/21 02:51 PM |
| 3 | So ladies, there has been a lot of focus on LVMs but what is your definition of a HVW?I rarely comment but this ^ is so perfect. Well done honey 🙌🙌 | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 21/03/20 12:46 AM |
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