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| 48 | I got a girls number from work how should I proceed now? Or am I fucked? | Escalation & Calibration | generaldream | /r/seduction | 06/08/22 08:00 AM |
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| 1 | Former Chub Bros, What Weight Was Your Turning point?Try looking at some YouTube videos by Greg doucette he has a few videos on some foods you can eat compared to others… like how 150 calories of apples is way more than 150 calories of processed foods… eat more for less calories | /r/seduction | 27/08/22 05:33 AM |
| 1 | [deleted by user]Rip yeah I took advice from the wrong people telling me to wait 2-3 days… but she also did know I was gonna be busy going out of town right after so not like I could really get together at all… | /r/seduction | 11/08/22 01:59 AM |
| 1 | [deleted by user]That’s the goal | /r/seduction | 10/08/22 11:27 PM |
| 1 | [deleted by user]Well it was one of my first time talking to a girl like this… not face to face via phone and I blindly went with the advice I’ve seen on this sub from others saying wait 2-3 days even tho I wasn’t sure if I should. I just figured they had more experience then me and I could trust em | /r/seduction | 10/08/22 04:57 PM |
| 1 | [deleted by user]Sounds like a great way to go about texting girls | /r/seduction | 10/08/22 03:51 PM |
| 1 | [deleted by user]Yeah maybe I should of been more direct. At least Ik better for the next women I take interest in. | /r/seduction | 10/08/22 03:23 PM |
| 1 | [deleted by user]Thanks, I don’t really got much experience with this and your comment really helped me open my eyes a bit. Guess I’ve got to be more direct from now on. Well I’ll implement this on the next women I’m interested in. | /r/seduction | 10/08/22 03:22 PM |
| 1 | [deleted by user]Tons of people saying wait 2-3 days… maybe that’s more of for a cold approach instead of someone you’ve know for a while from like work. Damn. | /r/seduction | 10/08/22 03:18 PM |
| 1 | [deleted by user]Oh thanks I didn’t even think about that. I didn’t realize it sounded kind of in secure I thought it was fine. I’ll have to keep an eye open for that from now on and reread/rethink asking girls out. | /r/seduction | 10/08/22 03:17 PM |
| 1 | [deleted by user]I mean I met her at work not on a dating app but I get your point there is some truth to what ur saying. I can’t let it slow me down in my conquest of life | /r/seduction | 10/08/22 05:39 AM |
| 1 | [deleted by user]True but we worked together for months and our work days crossed paths 3-4 days a week and I’d talk to her each day it did even if it was just for a quick minute not like I just cold approached her | /r/seduction | 10/08/22 05:31 AM |
| 1 | [deleted by user]That’s true I didn’t even think about that possibility thanks. | /r/seduction | 10/08/22 05:30 AM |
| 1 | [deleted by user]I only waited 2 or 3 days after getting the number let me paste something here from the other day to give some more insight on the situation she’s in… but I think no response in 2 days is a no so ima just move on Her ex and his girlfriend threw solid sized rocks at her car recently and it is in the shop now(no cameras in the area tho so nothing can really be done to him. He seems like he is obsessed with her and for example making albums of all the photos he had of the 2 of them together addin… | /r/seduction | 10/08/22 05:25 AM |
| 1 | [deleted by user]Yeah when I sent the text I said what’s up -name- I was wondering if you wanted to get some ice cream with me next week on Monday night. Felt like it was less pressure if I didn’t say date in there but also was just gonna be the 2 of us Wasn’t sure if she would want to date rn or not cuz she got other stuff going on in her life that’s a little complicated but would of just been nice if I got a response over nothing… Oh well time to find a new girl I wanna ask out | /r/seduction | 10/08/22 04:57 AM |
| 2 | [deleted by user]The more time that passes the more this is getting solidified into my head… I worked with her at the same store for a few months we seemed to have some good chemistry and she seem interested lol… oh well time to move on and find the next one | /r/seduction | 10/08/22 04:37 AM |
| 2 | Why is it that only old women check me out?Well they are online either way most likely using filters or photoshop of some sort. And if they aren’t they take photos in the best lighting/angles possible and maybe upload 1 in dozens or hundreds of photos taken. They all look good but it’s fake shit | /r/seduction | 09/08/22 03:14 AM |
| 2 | Why is it that only old women check me out?Plus how much easier it is to see really hot members of the opposite sex now a days. Like maybe a lot of the girls at my high school back when I was still in it might of been 7-9’s to my standards but after seeing 10’s all the time online the previously 7-9’s might now be 5-7’s in the new standards after seeing plenty of 10’s online… plus all the touching up and photoshop done online makes things even worse | /r/seduction | 09/08/22 01:30 AM |
| 1 | I got a girls number from work how should I proceed now? Or am I fucked?Yeah I’ll have to do this. Her thinking I wanted to be friend is my one concern | /r/seduction | 06/08/22 05:16 PM |
| 1 | I got a girls number from work how should I proceed now? Or am I fucked?I don’t work there anymore so I’m good | /r/seduction | 06/08/22 05:15 PM |
| 1 | I got a girls number from work how should I proceed now? Or am I fucked?Think it’s a good thing lol kinda need them to be hard on me to push me into doing it for sure | /r/seduction | 06/08/22 04:43 PM |
| 3 | I got a girls number from work how should I proceed now? Or am I fucked?I’ll ask if she wants to get some ice cream or something not a drink we are 19/18 can’t buy alcohol. Thanks for the advice/info | /r/seduction | 06/08/22 04:01 PM |
| 1 | I got a girls number from work how should I proceed now? Or am I fucked?Yeah thanks, Not gotten many numbers so I wasn’t sure if I came off with to much of a let’s be friends vibe guess I should be fine. I need to shut my brain off sometimes and not over think | /r/seduction | 06/08/22 03:03 PM |
| 1 | I got a girls number from work how should I proceed now? Or am I fucked?I’ll just wait a little bit to send a text maybe a little later in the day instead of first thing in the morning otherwise I won’t wait. It’s been like 2 or 3 days already so I think it’s good now | /r/seduction | 06/08/22 03:00 PM |
| 1 | I got a girls number from work how should I proceed now? Or am I fucked?Thanks, yeah sorry for asking just I haven’t gotten more than like 2 girls number before and wasn’t sure if I came off in a manor of let’s be friends. Seeing all of the other comments tho it seems like I did fine and don’t have to worry Well guess I’ll have to be direct and ask her out not over the phone. I planned to do it face to face cuz that’s better I feel like but now I’m kinda left to doing it over the phone | /r/seduction | 06/08/22 02:57 PM |
| 1 | I got a girls number from work how should I proceed now? Or am I fucked?Alright thanks, I was thinking about asking her out soon for ice cream or something. I’m 19 she’s 18 so we can’t really get drinks. I’ve heard movie dates aren’t good first date, and it’s not summer so once again ice cream date would work I just wasn’t sure if I got it in to much of a manor as if to say let’s be just friends or not. But seeing all the responses I’d say I’m fine | /r/seduction | 06/08/22 02:48 PM |
| 3 | I got a girls number from work how should I proceed now? Or am I fucked?Just wasn’t sure if the way I got it was to much like more of a let’s be friends vibe or not… my bad it’s like the second time I’ve gotten a girls number without a purpose in mind like for school project etc. | /r/seduction | 06/08/22 02:43 PM |
| 2 | I got a girls number from work how should I proceed now? Or am I fucked?r/usernamechecksout | /r/seduction | 06/08/22 02:41 PM |
| 1 | [deleted by user]Yeah I’m currently focusing on my future(we are 19M and 18F btw) I’m doing my schooling/planning out my future years to try and be a fire fighter one day in the near future. Perhaps hindsight it wouldn’t matter if I asked her out or not but right now for me it’s more of a I kinda would rather just know either way. If you want some more context I responded to some other people on this post going into a little more detail on the situation | /r/seduction | 04/08/22 11:05 PM |
| 1 | [deleted by user]To give a little more context… she might just not care like you said and yes there are other good women out there just I need to expand my social circle to find them which I certainly can do long term. But to me it’s not just as simple as I don’t care or I care from her right now. Seeing as what has happened to her more recently(as I mention below) She was in a relationship for about 3 years in high school and it’s been 2 years since then but more recently her ex has “ramped up the torment” agai… | /r/seduction | 04/08/22 11:02 PM |
| 1 | [deleted by user]To give a little more context because you might be right could just be my fear of rejection deep down but I’m also not sure if it’s the right time right now and if maybe I should be friends with her for now and wait for a better time… but then again when I think about that the quote “no time like the presence” and other similar quotes ring though my mind. You know it’s either I ask or I never know what could of been She was in a relationship for about 3 years in high school and it’s been 2 years… | /r/seduction | 04/08/22 10:56 PM |
| 1 | [deleted by user]Just remember it takes her a face full of makeup to feel comfortable to leave the house so don’t let the rejection hurt you to much | /r/seduction | 28/03/22 05:27 AM |
| 1 | [deleted by user]I went cold turkey a few weeks ago so far I have lasted but since that sounds hard for you to do that I would do better than last time. Start off every other day... then 2 times a week 1 time a week and then every other week you can break it up more if that helps like 10 days then 11 days etc... it’s a process that takes time best of luck | /r/seduction | 28/03/22 05:22 AM |
| 0 | [deleted by user]Interesting cuz I e heard my friends say you have to wait for the right moment to ask... nothing about it happening organically but I could we what you mean | /r/seduction | 01/05/20 07:17 PM |
| 3 | [deleted by user]What do you do before you ask | /r/seduction | 01/05/20 06:52 PM |
| 3 | [deleted by user]I work in retail so I talk to people often but normally just say simple stuff like hi, how are you? Would you like any bags today so I mean I don’t really talk much just a little... I haven’t gone from small talk to what you might call “big talk” in a while. It may also be that I don’t know what small talk is exactly I may be decent at it but i may have a different definition of it than you may have so what would you consider to be small talk? | /r/seduction | 01/05/20 05:44 AM |
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