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1	[FR] Just talked to a 10 in my second language and I feel great. I agree with this. Ambiguity can be your friend. Standing out is often to your advantage.	/r/seduction	30/03/16 05:08 PM
1	[FR] Just talked to a 10 in my second language and I feel great. I've never been in Japan, but in the Asian country I live, people tend to have a lot of respect for westerners who try to speak the local language. I think where people fuck up is in getting nervous about whether or not they are saying the right thing. In that case, just speak English. But if you can, try speaking in your host language without worrying too much about whether it's perfect. If you aren't Asian and you live in an Asian country, there is really no way to escape an 'otherness.' You m…	/r/seduction	30/03/16 05:06 PM
1	unique language barrier problem Keep in mind two major points. First, most communication is non-verbal. Second, in the main, you need to be communicating emotions and feelings, not ideas per say. As someone who dates in a second language that I've been learning for only a year and a half, I can tell you that worrying too much about how you sound or knowing the right word will fuck up your chances. Instead of becoming nervous about not knowing the right word, focus on becoming confident in leading with physicality. Obviously ha…	/r/seduction	30/03/16 04:49 PM
3	How should I physically escalate as a dude with high functioning autism? Bingo. Basically, you are conducting a serious of tests to a) gauge where her line of comfort is, and b) to push that line toward intimacy. If she is receptive or neutral, proceed to slowly increase the kino. If she freaked out by it, back the fuck off - maybe try later, maybe try another girl. Think about it from her perspective. Beyond needing to be comfortable, she is checking for two things. Are you socially aware and respectful, i.e., do you have some mild bit of social intelligence (which …	/r/seduction	20/03/16 05:47 PM
1	How should I physically escalate as a dude with high functioning autism? I almost always go for a kiss on the cheek first. Basically, it warms the girl up to the idea of kissing. There have been time when I've gone in for a kiss, and the girl pulled back ever so slightly. Instead of either trying to force a kiss (creepy try-hard) or abandoning ship (chode), I would simply kiss her cheek. I'd do this a couple more times in the next few minutes, and the girl would quickly become receptive to actually kissing. Obviously, if the girl jumps back, she doesn't even want you…	/r/seduction	20/03/16 05:28 PM
1	Problem with the "Just have fun" concept or "agenda free" thing It sounds like you would be better suited toward day game and what I call the 'long game' (not even trying to go for a physical result, but building an emotional result over a longer period of time). I'm kinda cerebral, and I generally do way better during the day where I can ask probing questions and initially lead more verbally. As an aside, the general problem with inner game and "state-based" game that it teaches about how to have an initially and often contextual attractive personality but …	/r/seduction	15/03/16 09:56 AM

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