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It’s crazy how the times I went out to get laid I had a rough time and went home alone and the times I went out to have fun I had a great time and got laid
/r/seduction13/10/25 01:55 PM
3

Have a good mixed male/female squad, be good at talking to people, dress well, talk to smutty looking girls. Point 1 is crucial and was an X factor for me: women trust and like men that hang out with women. Also important: have 0 expectations and go out to have fun
/r/seduction13/10/25 01:53 PM
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Shit dies fast the chat. Gotta get em IRL asap
/r/seduction01/08/25 08:04 PM
1

It’s not weird, it’s a valid qualifying question. I wouldn’t recommend asking it first thing, definitely have some rapport built
/r/seduction10/07/25 04:01 PM
0

Yeah I would never do this shit, such low class behavior and a bad look IMO
/r/seduction24/06/25 05:08 PM
7

You can’t be reactive and blow up on them off the jump, maybe the guy is just an idiot. Honestly I’d try to be cool with him for a second, then shake his hand like “hey man it was cool meeting you, hope you have a great rest of your night.” If bro is too stupid to take a hint, or leaning into disrespect, then I’ll be much more explicit with how I’m feeling, and I’m justified.
/r/seduction24/06/25 05:06 PM
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Haha feel that dude. Keep at it
/r/seduction11/04/25 05:25 PM
3

We all take L's, but you went on a date with a hot girl and that's a win. My tips: -don't tell her you want to kiss her, just do it. And kiss her hard. -I don't get all the joking about taking her home etc. Verbalizing just puts it out there for her to think about. If anything, if she brings it up, smirking and being like "it's funny that you think I want to hook up with you" and changing the subject would be a better move IMO. This is related to the first point: less talk, more action -this is …
/r/seduction06/04/25 01:06 AM
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As far as I know I’ve never hooked up with a taken woman, but that’s only as far as I know. I can only assume that amongst my one night stands on vacation and out on the town there was a probably a chick with a boyfriend but it never came up. If I knew a girl was in a relationship I won’t pursue, it turns me off
/r/seduction16/03/25 05:48 PM
1

Throw on a show, cuddle, kiss
/r/seduction09/03/25 06:46 PM
25

The best wingmen can pull girls on their own so it's not the end of the world if they have a night where they don't pull. Outcome independence is crucial in this, as it is in dating etc. Also a good wingman has great social skills: knows not to hover, how to act, what not to say/do. My best friend is a great wing, I've helped him get laid, he's helped me get laid, we have a great dynamic
/r/seduction20/02/25 02:35 AM
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She's sleeping with someone else but she kinda likes you/likes the attention/is keeping you around as a back up/all of the above, all while not wanting to feel like a slut
/r/seduction20/02/25 02:27 AM
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Solid post. Guys who actually succeed at dating/seduction/women *actually* like women. That doesn't mean you have to be a simp, Captain Save-a-Hoe, or ignore their flaws and nature. Having empathy for women goes a long way. Sure they have their female "privileges" and advantages but but just like being a man does, being a woman comes with downsides too. A lot of guys they have to deal with are scum, scrubs, and/or trash. Literally having some genuine care, empathy, and listening (if they are act…
/r/seduction07/02/25 05:31 PM
1

Nah bro, especially if he is a good friend.
/r/seduction05/02/25 09:21 PM
3

Would like to see the stats comparing this for men and women. I know lots of ex playboys holding it down in a relationship with solid chicks
/r/seduction31/01/25 09:31 PM
6

That’s real
/r/seduction31/01/25 09:30 PM
1

Relax bro, you’re only 18. Very very rarely is anyone competent with women at that age. Work on yourself, hit the gym and be social as fuck with as many people as you can and you’ll get there. I didn’t hit my stride with women until I was 26 and then finally started seeing some real success after a lot of bungles, fumbles, L’s, and failures. After that it was off the races
/r/seduction31/01/25 07:51 PM
50

Can’t relate but I feel like it’ll never fully go away. Chasing women and getting laid is one of the most epic thrills for those fortunate to have developed some competency at it. But if you chose her and feel like you have a real gem you just have to be grateful and keep those thoughts aside, it’s ok to acknowledge but don’t dwell on them. It’s like when I quit nicotine: I knew it was time, so I made my choice and never went back. Even though sometimes I would love to smoke a cig and fantasize …
/r/seduction31/01/25 07:49 PM
13

Bro women fuck men on the first date/within 2 hours of knowing them all the time. Sounds like it should’ve been a lock, I would do some reflection on why you’re cockblocking yourself
/r/seduction31/01/25 05:48 PM
38

You shot yourself in the foot because you didn’t want to have to be like “hey I have somewhere I have to be so you need to leave” in the morning? You put the ball in her court and made it a big decision/deal instead of being like “my hotel has a cool balcony/bar/lobby/whatever, let’s go.” Always be leading, don’t stress or worry her out by having her make decisions. Kind of seems like you’re self sabotaging yourself for no reason, you could’ve pulled night one maybe
/r/seduction31/01/25 02:18 PM
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Dumb IMO. A lot of guys on here need to go out and live life and become interesting and they won’t have to worry about shit like this
/r/seduction30/01/25 03:27 PM
5

“There’s a fine line between love and hate 😏”
/r/seduction29/01/25 05:45 PM
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Bro you’re young. It’s easy to get in your head about shit but fuck what these girls think. You put yourself out there and did a hard thing. And if you can knock doors you’re going to just fine in 5 years, keep doing your thing and fuck what any of these girls think
/r/seduction25/01/25 03:28 AM
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No fucks given
/r/seduction24/01/25 08:33 PM
2

So true. Sucks when it creeps in, it’s hard to get around
/r/seduction21/01/25 08:03 PM
16

That’s really annoying. Guys like that are huge part of the simp epidemic. I’m even hesitant to give single girls attention because I know most of them are drowning in it and I don’t want to contribute to that shit
/r/seduction17/01/25 12:32 PM
35

That’s a seriously dumb idea
/r/seduction26/11/24 03:55 PM
25

I’ve leaned into astrology and sign talk. I’ll be like “this one girl told I was X and Y because I’m a Z, is that right?” Or “oh so you’re a Virgo, that means we’re compatible 😏.” It’s all in good fun to me, there is nothing to gain from being logical and disparaging it. Let women have their silly beliefs. However would I date a woman that took it super seriously? No.
/r/seduction24/11/24 12:13 AM
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Complacency will kill your woman’s desire for you. I’ve learned this the hard way. The man will always carry the burden of performance
/r/seduction21/11/24 01:18 PM
7

I relate to this a lot. Being single is massively underrated. I still have to remind myself the cons and annoyances of being in a relationship because when I get horny or lonely I yearn for that but I think some of that is conditioning by society
/r/seduction21/11/24 01:16 PM
14

Bro if you’re too lazy read all that then you’ll never get it anyway
/r/seduction21/11/24 01:15 PM
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Yeah I’ve been picked up a couple of times…basically the girl saw me and picked me for the night. So just being there was 90% of the win
/r/seduction04/11/24 06:27 PM
3

Don’t be “talking for weeks.” Take her out and do shit, escalate. Problem solved
/r/seduction20/10/24 04:18 PM
6

Beyond moving to a nice place, all you can do is manage expectations. Make sure you place is super nice on the inside and just be like “yeah the outside is kinda rough but they’re working on it and it’s getting better” type shit
/r/seduction12/10/24 03:52 PM
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How ghetto? How old are the women you’re dealing with? I lived in a pretty ratty place back in the day but I was dealing with college girls, it wasn’t a big deal
/r/seduction12/10/24 03:17 PM
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Yes. My last few lays have been same night lays. One at a party, one through mutual friends, last one girl approached me at a bar.
/r/seduction11/10/24 07:48 PM
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Not necessarily. It’s tough relaxing and vibing when the money is weighing on your mind. If you live in a competitive dating environment you’re going to at least have to take her to a decent spot. You don’t have to break the bank but that’s the bare minimum. Value for value.
/r/seduction06/10/24 04:28 PM
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It happens. I accidentally spent $180 on a date with this girl. Went to a place that was a little nicer than I thought, she wanted an app and then I was having a good time so causally put down six $16 pumpkin spice cocktails and she had like two so ir was definitely my fault 😂. We hadn’t kissed or anything yet. I got the bill, internally was like “fuck!” but didn’t make a big deal out of it, and was like “so do I get you meet your cats now?” Went back and smashed so all worth it but would’ve bee…
/r/seduction06/10/24 04:26 PM
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Same to you, I’ve accepted that it might be a while before I start going out and getting laid again. Line possibly next summer if I buckle down hard for the next 6 months. But it’s all good
/r/seduction06/10/24 03:54 PM
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I’m right there with you bro. Always have leaned on my looks, charisma etc to get women but tbh if I did happen upon a good one it would be hard to keep her because I’ve had some job/money struggles over the last couple of years. I want to be able to provide and pay for everything and that is hard to do when you’re broke. It definitely hurt my last relationship worrying about money and being stingy, it was a vibe killer. Lesson learned. I’m trying to to change, got a new job and cut out alcohol …
/r/seduction05/10/24 04:05 PM
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Respect. Approaching at the gym takes next level balls. I've done it a handful of times and let fear talk myself out of it thousands of times. Every time I did it I was glad I did even though it never went anywhere (except one time I approached this girl at the gym in the morning, went on a date that night and made out but I think she was just an open minded hippie girl and wasn't that into me).
/r/seduction28/09/24 12:58 AM
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I don’t mean this to be offensive, but are you autistic? Agreeing with people/not disagreeing with people is basic social skills. And you don’t have to kiss ass if you totally disagree with them, you can always just say “I feel you,” or “I hear you 100%” stuff like that
/r/seduction19/09/24 05:32 PM
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I feel that bro. I broke up with my ex three years ago and still think about her every day. Not in a sad weepy way, I’m all good, but we had a real connection. None of these girls I get involved with have made me feel shit and the ones that do either don’t like me or can see it on my face that I’m invested and then it’s over
/r/seduction18/09/24 01:59 AM
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He’s lowkey right. I get being safe and all but it’s not the same, not even close. I let a pretty hot girl fall to the wayside because (among other things) she always made me wear a condom. The sex was kind of sterile and we weren’t able to fully connect sexually
/r/seduction18/09/24 01:58 AM
1

So true
/r/seduction18/09/24 01:53 AM
1

Seems like these things move in cycles. You’re single right after the break up, it’s brutal at first, it starts to get better, after a year or two you’re all good, hooking up, getting a good bit of pussy, it starts to feel empty and you’re over it, find a decent girl, at first it’s all good, everything is new and fun, honeymoon phase, then it becomes banal normalcy, you start to feel like a “caged animal” (a feeling I know all too well), fantasizing about being single and being on the prowl, you…
/r/seduction18/09/24 01:52 AM
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I was the same way as you. I’ve been approached by women in public so I know I’m not ugly. But as time went on the apps started getting worse and worse. I felt dumb for wasting so much time on them and getting no results. I finally deleted them for good and I’ve been getting way better results just from going out and being social
/r/seduction17/09/24 04:37 PM
1

Yeah my first girlfriend who I was in love with basically lied to me and cheated on me and a bit after that I was discovering the Manosphere (2014-2016) and where basically what I had gone through and discovered was printed in the written word. But it’s all good, it was a blessing in the long term. I love my life oriented by the truth/how things are, not by how I want them to be
/r/seduction12/09/24 05:31 AM
1

What do you mean what happened? I accepted how the world is and moved on with my life taking that knowledge into account
/r/seduction11/09/24 04:40 AM
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100%
/r/seduction11/09/24 01:51 AM
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Sounds like a woman. Sounds like she liked the attention and conversation, as women love to talk. On to the next. Surely you can do better than a 36 y/o professor
/r/seduction11/09/24 01:50 AM
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It absolutely shattered my worldview way back when. When you realized you have been lied to to such an extreme extent you question everything
/r/seduction10/09/24 02:03 PM
1

Lol thanks I like getting into this stuff. Thanks for reading my rambling. It’s funny because when all that stuff isn’t an issue, it’s amazing. It really is the little things as they say. Also “when you know you know” lol.
/r/seduction08/09/24 02:52 PM
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No worries. Like when we kiss it’s just that something is off a bit, like we are trying to move in different directions. It’s very very subtle but it takes me out of the moment, unlike with girls from my past where I had insane chemistry with. And when we have sex she wants it super slow and deep; I’m cool with that for a bit but I also like to pick up the tempo on the thrusting; it’s about the push and pull. It’s like she doesn’t yield/submit to my male frame, maybe because she is older than me…
/r/seduction08/09/24 02:26 PM
1

I never go to clubs. Just chill bars and I have a good squad with girls in it that helps a lot
/r/seduction08/09/24 02:21 PM
2

I’d still go out and go drinking and meet chicks. And then hook up with them, maybe take them out on a date or two depending, but generally tried to spend as little money as possible on them. I’ve been unemployed for a few months and it has caught up to me. I had a lot of causal flings with girls I didn’t want to date. Last girl I met day drinking and she was attractive and fun to sit and chat with but older than me and didn’t fully connect sexually
/r/seduction08/09/24 03:08 AM
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Tbh I’ve been a winner in terms of girls but a loser in terms of money/career so I’m taking a break from pussy to try and get those two on track
/r/seduction07/09/24 10:29 PM
1

Congrats on having an attractive gf. It's just going to be reality that she gets hit on when she's out and about. All you can do is try to not worry about it and have trust in her and the relationship. Otherwise you're going to look weak and not confident. Maybe joke about it, like "hey boo, have you gotten hit on by any winners lately? I'm soooo worried." She's an adult, she should know how to politely reject a guy. Most decent guys will back off if they hear that a girl has a bf
/r/seduction02/09/24 05:36 PM
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Making your getting laid your goal is damn near guaranteeing failure. Every time I got laid on a night out I was just out with friends having a good time. Being in a group with girls helps
/r/seduction01/09/24 02:24 AM
6

Doing art shows creativity, depth, and a certain level of sensitivity. Most guys out there are just football-watching consumertards and believe me, the difference in experience women will have with these men vs and artist/musician is staggering. Creating will always be cooler than consuming. Painting something/writing a song for woman will always be worth more to them than the effort it took.
/r/seduction23/08/24 03:33 PM
1

Literally this. Just be normal and fun and provide value, have friends and do fun stuff and post pictures of it. Mfs act like it’s hard but it’s not
/r/seduction22/08/24 07:16 PM
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This is not a win. Good way to accidentally impregnate a fatty
/r/seduction19/08/24 11:07 PM
9

A+. Also who wants to do a group CrossFit sesh with a girl they’re interested in? CrossFit is hard and if you haven’t done it you’re going to look like a weak bitch struggling in front of her. Gym workouts with a girl you’ve already banged are mint, take her through an arm or chest day and show her the pump before the pump ifyaknowhatimsayin
/r/seduction15/08/24 02:40 PM
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Just goes to show women make dumb mating choices. I’m not getting permanently marked up to have an easier time banging loose women, I already do fine at that. When the pendulum swings back because everyone has tattoos and it’s not cool or unique anymore I’ll be here 😉 not hating on tattoos, I’m hating on this school of thought of “women will fuck you if you’re tatted”
/r/seduction14/08/24 02:22 PM
1

Same dude, obviously I know girls I’m involved with are out in the world getting attention and doing their thing but it turns me off when it’s right in front of my face or I have to see it. I have no problem bowing out
/r/seduction13/08/24 04:22 PM
3

First sentence is real. But why do you have to settle for girl you don’t love? Why can’t there be love there? I loved my ex but I knew in my soul it wasn’t my time to settle down
/r/seduction13/08/24 04:16 PM
3

Just hit the gym dude, this is ridiculous
/r/seduction11/08/24 06:12 PM
9

This was a great post on this sub for once, I relate but as I said another comment you’re on another level than me. Just goes to show that OLD is inherently busted. I really think meeting people IRL through friends/family/connections/activities leads to healthier relationships overall
/r/seduction11/08/24 05:52 PM
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It brings a whole nother set of problems. But I guess it’s a better set of problems than the alternative. Kind of like “more money more problems.” Most people, myself included would be like “fuck it, just give me the money, I’ll deal with it.” But it really is “more hoes, more problems.” I consider myself good looking (6’2”, very fit, still have my hair, good face and have aged well, I’ve gotten approached by women in public, etc) but damn sometimes shit is stressful. I relate to this guys post …
/r/seduction11/08/24 05:51 PM
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You know what they say, every guy is a simp at heart and every girl is a thot at heart. Save your simp energy for when you have a gf and even then you can’t lay it on too thick
/r/seduction10/08/24 11:10 PM
2

It’s tough to come back this unless she really likes you…I’ve made this mistake before. Since you guys vibed and already made out then the next logical step is sex or almost sex. She’s going to have her hamster brain telling her to not be a slut so she’s going to avoid making hard plans. She got her validation (make out)
/r/seduction10/08/24 10:06 PM
0

Be creative. Find something interesting or unique about them and ask them about it
/r/seduction09/08/24 01:29 PM
14

Haha true. I thought my game was good but turns out she was just bipolar in a manic episode. Was a massive bitch the next time I saw her
/r/seduction09/08/24 01:15 PM
17

Agreed, set yourself up for success (logistics favoring you, like pick bars within walking distance to your place, have a bottle of wine or something to go back to) but don’t be don’t so outcome dependent, it’ll make you subconsciously act weird
/r/seduction09/08/24 01:14 PM
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Pretty unlikely. A lot of factors and variables have to go right, especially if both parties have standards. Both parties have to be significantly attracted to each other, have a real connection, and also not fuck it up. That’s why love is special or whatever
/r/seduction09/08/24 01:08 PM
1

A lot of guys get caught up in the theory of it all (myself included). At some point you gotta close close the laptop and take action
/r/seduction09/08/24 04:06 AM
1

“Hey, can I meet you real quick?” Extend hand and shake it - “I’m X, how’s your day going?” It really is that simple
/r/seduction08/08/24 10:19 PM
2

Women are fickle bro. At least you got to hit
/r/seduction08/08/24 06:29 PM
1

Clean your place first of all. Bathroom, toilet, especially. Then when she gets there see if she’s down to step out for food/drinks. Show her some cool bars and stuff ideally around your place. Treat her like a guest, pay for everything. Escalate via touching etc, feel her out. If she responds well kiss her. Take her back, offer a drink, escalate etc. Seems like she’s comfortable enough with you to stay at your place. Just relax and accept that nothing might happen. Too many guys get fixated on …
/r/seduction08/08/24 04:03 PM
3

You need some new friends. Crucial to have a squad with guys that are social and good vibes and that don’t try to amog/big dick you
/r/seduction08/08/24 03:03 PM
5

They’ve definitely gotten worse. I think I started on the apps in 2014. Had some good dates and lays. Now it’s all about them making money. But it also depends on your location. I crushed it in a smaller college town 7 years ago but now I’m in a big city and had a long dry spell of no success, so I got rid of them and now so pretty well IRL
/r/seduction08/08/24 02:20 PM
12

Day day drinking at a cool spot with a lot of people/women while kicking it with a group that has women in it has been a great way for me to meet chicks
/r/seduction08/08/24 02:56 AM
1

Nice
/r/seduction07/08/24 05:25 PM
4

Can we get some context? How old are you and how old is she? But that’s a white pill for sure bro, happy for you. Don’t fuck it up
/r/seduction07/08/24 04:26 PM
2

Based on my experience it just gets your foot in the door. It’s something that has to be hit repeatedly and reminded of. She’s not gonna see you get attention from one chick and then be fawning over you until the end of time
/r/seduction07/08/24 02:29 PM
1

Solid plan. Look on Reddit or Google maps
/r/seduction07/08/24 03:36 AM
1

I don’t know bro, I think if he hooked up with one of her friends it would be over. A self-respecting chick wouldn’t want her friend’s sloppy seconds much less the continued drama of having a friend that he fucked still coming around. OP I’d say keep it friendly, you’re not boring her, if she was bored she’d bow out of the convo. Maybe try to get out more and see other people. Be less available and make her wonder what you’re up to. Since you live with her it’s too risky to make a move, if it go…
/r/seduction07/08/24 03:16 AM
1

If you guys are on first name basis I’d go up and be like “hey how’s your day/workout going” then chi that a bit, don’t acknowledge her not texting you, keep it light quit it quick then bow out and get back to your workout. Rinse and repeat whenever you see her and once there’s some rapport built mention doing something out of the gym
/r/seduction06/08/24 10:51 PM
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You came on way too hard imo. No context built for why she should respond and go out with you. She just knows you as “guy who called me beautiful at the gym.” I think this would’ve worked better, although success is never guaranteed: go up to her: “hey can I meet you real quick?” Extend your hand, shake hers. “So what are you working today?” Chit chat etc, show her some personality. “I gotta finish up, let me grab your number real quick and we can finish this conversation when we aren’t working …
/r/seduction06/08/24 10:20 PM
2

Props for the gym approach. Howd the convo go, did you ask for her number with the stated intention of inviting her somewhere outside of the gym? How’d you text her?
/r/seduction06/08/24 09:49 PM
5

Same deal pretty much, two trashy 5’s. One of the gnarliest houses I’ve ever been in, this poor mangy was laying on a gnarly mat watching us the whole time. One of the few times where I’ve insisted on putting on a condom first haha. I’d take the 8 as well
/r/seduction06/08/24 02:27 PM
2

Could you have set the date sooner? Usually I try to keep a sense of urgency and set the date for 2-3 days, 4 at the most away, and not Fridays or Saturdays. But if the date is set then no reason to text although some may disagree. Just send a super assumptive confirmation text the morning of. Might even do the night before since it’s 4 days away
/r/seduction05/08/24 04:25 PM
2

It happens bro. I had pretty much the same thing happen, except we kissed on the date. I was attracted to her but we didn’t connect and she didn’t open up/reciprocate. Now she hasn’t responded to my last text from 2 days ago and I don’t care enough to debase myself by reaching out again. On to the next one
/r/seduction05/08/24 01:17 PM
7

It was pretty wild. But let me just say that these girls weren’t exactly super models. It was still worth it though, two 5’s at the same time equals a 10 am I right haha
/r/seduction05/08/24 01:12 PM
2

No one shamed him for getting an escort, no one shamed him at all. It was really him being slimy and trying to mislead us. And no offense, I won’t judge men for paying for sex and won’t say anything but I don’t respect it and certainly am not going to buy someone an escort
/r/seduction05/08/24 01:06 PM
15

Not with my actual boys because I’ve seen them pull in person. But on a work trip this guy needed to borrow a car bc he said he was meeting up with a girl from tinder, we were like “nice bro, let’s see her, what did you say” and finally got him to fess up that he was going to meet some whore from BackPages.com haha. He had used the tinder girl excuse before and none of us believed he was pulling girls from tinder, he was a dork with zero game
/r/seduction04/08/24 11:35 PM
1

Super relevant to me rn. Had a date with a super hot girl, she was on her phone a lot during the date and didn’t seem interested in asking me questions etc. but it was still a decent time, we made out at the end but now she hasn’t responded after a few texts back and forth, I kinda dgaf because there wasn’t a vibe but she was mad hot so I’m sliiiightly bummed that it’s pretty much over. Oh well ¯_(ツ)_/¯
/r/seduction04/08/24 09:38 PM
1

It’s not but I’ve heard certain parts of Texas are amazing for dating/lots of young sexually open women
/r/seduction04/08/24 07:15 PM
6

Pretty much and I just like being able to remember it well
/r/seduction04/08/24 10:53 AM
1

Next time, no dinner, just drinks. And if she wasn’t drinking, match the vibe: you should’ve stopped after the first or not drank at all. Also, next time no exclamation points in the texting, period. Keep it C4: cool calm collected and casual
/r/seduction03/08/24 09:48 PM
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I do. Right place right time right look I guess. I keep a sex journal and document the first time I have sex with a new girl so I have those locked in in vivid detail
/r/seduction03/08/24 08:37 PM
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Always nice when that happens. I’ve had a few really quick ones…one girl grabbed my hair (I had long hair at the time), we chatted for a sec, and she was like “my place is a 5 min walk.” Done Another was the only threesome I’ve ever had. Just casually chatting with this girl at 1:30 am after both of my buddies had left with girls and the girl was like “do you want to come over and fuck me and my friend?” Good times, I miss living in that college town
/r/seduction03/08/24 07:04 PM
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I reread the OP. Honestly probably just acknowledge the guy, “hey bro great meeting you, gotta get going” and get out of there with her. I had a similar but different situation a few weekends ago and it is really annoying, I guess some guys have zero social skills/awareness. Definitely not my style to go up and mog some dude and start a dick measuring contest, the only one that wins that game is the chick
/r/seduction02/08/24 05:15 AM
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Nah bro honestly this looks extremely invested and try hard. Unless you’re actually involved with this girl then there is no reason to engage like that. There is nothing to be gained by not just sitting back and playing it cool
/r/seduction02/08/24 05:12 AM
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Don’t be so laser focused on her, work the whole group and be the cool/funny guy who is gassing up everyone and bringing a great vibe. Might have to play the long game unless she is feeling you off the rip, but even then she might not want to go home with you in front of all your friends unless you can isolate her later in the night. Lots of variables at play
/r/seduction31/07/24 01:31 AM
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I quit the apps. Honestly I felt like a huge dork spinning my wheels on them, asking girls questions in the chat only to get the most low effort answers. I was like a crackhead, spending hours swiping, buying super likes to cut through the noise to get match with a girl I really liked the look of. In the past if I kept at it long enough and played the numbers game, I would usually get a decent enough looking girl that was receptive to meeting and I could always charm them in real life, which is …
/r/seduction29/07/24 09:04 PM
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MILFs can be hot as fuck but I also think there’s not as much pressure because they don’t have youth. I approached a super hot 40ish y/o lady, fake tits, hit face, in shape at the gym easily because in my head “she’s old, who cares if I get rejected.” The approach went great, she was stoked although she wouldn’t give me her number bc she is going through a divorce, she took mine so it’s basically dead. Because she’s older than me there is no chance of me ever being in a commuted relationship, yo…
/r/seduction03/07/24 05:36 PM
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Or teacher
/r/seduction03/07/24 01:13 AM
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