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genjuro_zero/r/askTRP07/06/16 03:18 PM
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genjuro_zero/r/askTRP09/03/16 06:24 PM
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Hole selling is the first thing that came to mind since I think that shit is funny, but the point is more being able to distinguish between actual concern and just her bullshit. If it's her bullshit, some sarcasm and flippancy is always the appropriate response. [edit: or playful bullshit of your own]
/r/askMRP28/05/21 08:38 PM
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I certainly interpreted the OP as some DEERing and trying to rationalize w/ her what the plan is. But also - why take her objections super seriously? You could always just tell her that you'll be able to use her for your pleasure much easier on a road trip; or that the 5* hotel is fine, but you're gonna sell her holes to travelers to fund it while you sip booze on the beach.
/r/askMRP28/05/21 02:43 PM
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I'm 36 and just changed companies to breach 6-figures. I've got about 8 years experience in 'tech' and 3 as a software engineer.
/r/askTRP06/01/17 12:22 AM
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She might have just come of age, but you're uncle creepy from her childhood.
/r/TheRedPill02/01/17 07:36 PM
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I simply stated I have grown used to them not being around and it has cramped my style a little Father of the year right here.
/r/askTRP12/07/16 06:45 PM
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From what I read in the OP and comments, you sound toxic. Dump her and follow the advice from /u/noFunnyLoginsLeft. Read the materials and work on yourself.
/r/askTRP11/07/16 02:47 PM
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My take on "I'm in the process of swallowing the pill" is that the guys who say that aren't being honest with themselves. They're still in denial about the truth of the world, and/or they're engaging in mental masturbation rather than action so it's just theory to them. The pill is an awakening and a call to action, and those who are "in the process of swallowing" are actually choking on it; they will fail to take action (or will eventually realize that action must be taken and save themselves) …
/r/TheRedPill23/06/16 04:34 PM
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After 6 weeks and no sex, you've probably missed your chance with her. Next time you see her (if you see her again) escalate to sex. If it happens, you can plate her. If not, soft next and fuck other girls.
/r/askTRP09/06/16 04:10 PM
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Quit being lazy and put in the work.
/r/TheRedPill07/06/16 02:50 PM
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I write when I feel emotional. It helps me purge whatever shit I'm feeling at the time and sort my thoughts. I don't usually write otherwise.
/r/askTRP06/06/16 04:43 PM
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Invite her over to smoke and chill. She'll know what is up even if she pretends that she has no idea what you want. If she isn't comfortable, she will hesitate- in which case you can suggest you go for a drink or something.
/r/askTRP06/06/16 04:19 PM
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Take up boxing if you want to beat people in a fight. Take up muay thai if you want to destroy people in a fight.
/r/askTRP31/05/16 02:33 PM
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Some people slap on bumper stickers. Some get custom paint jobs.
/r/askTRP31/05/16 12:21 AM
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Into the Wild is a MGTOW example, based on a true story.
/r/askTRP30/05/16 06:45 PM
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Learn to fight. Muay Thai, MMA, Krav Maga, etc. That's my go-to. I'm also interested in training my flexibility and parkour.
/r/askTRP27/05/16 06:43 PM
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Lessons from Iron. I love Henry Rollins.
/r/MarriedRedPill27/05/16 05:16 PM
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Block his number. Kick her out. Move on.
/r/askMRP24/05/16 08:05 PM
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I dislike my job right now and I'm unmotivated with my work. Hence why I'm on reddit. Same. Though I'm already in that profession.
/r/TheRedPill24/05/16 03:22 PM
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This is the best advice. Why she hasn't responded matters less than how OP handles himself. I've been in this same sort of hyper-analysis state, trying to scrutinize everything I did because I believed that I must have fucked things up at some point for her to ghost me for a week (girl's mom was unexpectedly hospitalized). But you can't control other people - only yourself, and that's the lesson to learn from the situation, not to pick out how you must have failed shit test X, Y and Z to cause h…
/r/askTRP20/05/16 02:11 PM
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This week she cancelled on you and stopped responding? Maybe she's busy. Maybe there was an emergency. Maybe she died. Or maybe you have better things to do than put your life on pause and wait for some girl to text you back.
/r/askTRP20/05/16 02:04 PM
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Mosey over to MRP and have a read. Similar messaging, but probably more geared towards where you want to go.
/r/askTRP19/05/16 07:09 PM
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Text her in a day or so and say something like "I'm going to go do X. Join me". Or if she contacts you prior to you texting her, say something similar. Invite her to go with you and do something fun.
/r/askTRP19/05/16 05:29 PM
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This communicates a huge level of insecurity to her. I've got some fat, too. By the time we're in the bedroom, it's irrelevant in her mind. When you do this, however, you call attention to it and to your insecurity about it. A shirt doesn't hide the fact that you're fat. Who do you think you're fooling?
/r/askTRP19/05/16 03:21 PM
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I was hoping you were getting propositioned for getting double-pegged.
/r/askTRP15/05/16 11:42 PM
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"You'll know me real well after we have a drink. Meet me at X bar at Y day/time."
/r/askTRP15/05/16 10:25 PM
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"What are you going to do for me?" Whatever she offers, make sure it's similar value and that it happens prior to the homework exchange.
/r/askTRP12/05/16 09:55 PM
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tl;dr
/r/askTRP12/05/16 08:49 PM
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I think feminism would have to have calculated first to be accused of miscalculating.
/r/TheRedPill12/05/16 03:41 PM
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I read this post the other day, and it served to strongly reinforce AWALT.
/r/TheRedPill12/05/16 03:38 PM
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I would be surprised if a man can divorce rape a woman under any feminized legal system.
/r/askTRP12/05/16 03:36 PM
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Considering one's expectations is key. What do you expect when you share this sort of information? By considering the why, you gain clarity into both the issue itself and the relationship you have with the listener; thus you should have a better understanding of the outcome and can better understand (and react appropriately to) the response.
/r/askTRP12/05/16 02:50 PM
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Habits, not motivation, will build who you want to be.
/r/askTRP10/05/16 05:57 PM
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This is why BDSM is great. It'd be time for a beating.
/r/askTRP10/05/16 04:16 PM
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That's what I do.
/r/askTRP10/05/16 02:17 PM
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No, she is dtf.
/r/askTRP06/05/16 06:02 AM
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I know that's bullshit It is. I wasted a lot of my time hamstering this same sort of thing.
/r/MarriedRedPill05/05/16 08:23 PM
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"No." You are not obligated to offer a reason. You are the man.
/r/MarriedRedPill05/05/16 08:00 PM
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I've had several plates where I just couldn't cum. Either I wasn't comfortable enough with them, or I didn't feel they deserved it, or they were mostly starfish experiences (short-term plates), or I wasn't in the right headspace, or... You get the idea. If you've gone no-fap for 5 weeks, it's probably a mental block. Do you even want to cum with these girls?
/r/askTRP05/05/16 02:55 PM
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Try everything. Keep what sticks.
/r/askTRP04/05/16 07:59 PM
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If you give up, you're dead. No one is coming to save you. Save yourself. Fight. Never give up. To me, this is the essence of Krav Maga.
/r/TheRedPill04/05/16 03:11 PM
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I've heard kyokushin is great because of its emphasis on hard sparring. I don't know much beyond that, but I would bet that it provides better fight experience than a lot of other TMAs.
/r/TheRedPill04/05/16 03:08 PM
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I train KM, and I'm a big fan. Beyond the punching/kicking/defense aspects, its training hones your aggressive response to a threat and pushes you beyond your limits so you do not quit when your life may be on the line. In my mind, that's what differentiates it from martial arts classes I've taken.
/r/TheRedPill04/05/16 02:59 PM
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In my Krav school, we'll do slow sparring or tap-sparring at low levels - which primarily works on training you to see openings and work on targeting. They do faster sparring in P4 and higher (I'm told it's full-contact with pads) - one-on-one or one-on-many. Lack of low-level sparring is one of the primary reasons I crosstrain MMA.
/r/TheRedPill04/05/16 02:50 PM
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Read the MRP sidebar. Lead her better.
/r/askTRP30/04/16 11:24 PM
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show me how smart you guys are I think you mean "lie to me".
/r/askTRP29/04/16 05:07 PM
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Sublet. Many leases have a clause which allows this.
/r/askTRP28/04/16 07:04 PM
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sh_t If you're going to curse, curse. WTF is this.
/r/askTRP26/04/16 03:25 PM
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"Your personality sucks" probably means that she's unable to sit comfortably being lazy. It doesn't actually suck, but creates discomfort for her. Crabs in the bucket.
/r/askMRP18/04/16 08:51 PM
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she wants to fuck you continuously with no strings attached
/r/askTRP15/04/16 03:39 PM
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If I stick this out I will have to be seriously detached and seriously good at maintaining frame because she has an emotional shit storm inside her that can't handle anything other than a stone cold rock of a man by her side. Sounds like the beginnings of some White Knighting.
/r/askTRP12/04/16 03:51 PM
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One of the biggest mistakes I've ever made was to hook up with my roommate. I read about why this is a terrible idea and dismissed all of that feedback anyway. Don't do it. It will backfire.
/r/askTRP08/04/16 02:43 PM
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Here are some paraphrased recent cases where this sort of thing came up, the discussions went like something like what I've put down below. I didn't bring this up myself (and I've had some plates which didn't bring it up either), and these were all in-person conversations. Girl 1 G1 "I don't know where we stand. Are we exclusive?" Me "No." Girl 2 G2 "Are you seeing other people?" Me "Yes" Girl 3 G3 "Did I ever ask you if you have a girlfriend?" Me "You did not." G3 (awkwardly, after a pause) "..…
/r/TheRedPill06/04/16 05:38 PM
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It's not about how he comes off to her. Don't do or not-do things based on what she sees or how she reacts to what she sees. It's how he comes off to himself.
/r/askTRP06/04/16 02:43 PM
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This really reveals the bullshit behind the phrasing he used.
/r/TheRedPill30/03/16 04:09 PM
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Would you fuck yourself if you were a girl? Not OP, but this is a great question to ask oneself. I'd never asked myself this before.
/r/askTRP17/03/16 01:56 PM
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Bill Burr has a podcast? I'm all over this shit now.
/r/TheRedPill10/03/16 03:52 PM
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Yeah looking at it again, I agree. What should I have said (if anything)?
/r/askTRP09/03/16 08:15 PM
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Dear feminists, What day is International Men's Day? Oh right.
/r/TheRedPill09/03/16 05:48 PM
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"Awww, what's her name?"
/r/askTRP08/03/16 05:52 PM
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If you've only kissed and not sex'ed, you're on the hook - not her. Soft next; find other girls.
/r/askTRP08/03/16 05:28 PM
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This happens to me too. I think it's a mental block for me, or an interrupt to what's happening which kills some of the mood.
/r/askTRP07/03/16 09:31 PM
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I did, but I must have misinterpreted the first use of 'gift of pussy' to mean that they'd had sex. It's a colorful phrase, but somewhat vague.
/r/askTRP07/03/16 08:27 PM
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Don't fuck roommates. I learned this lesson the hard way.
/r/askTRP07/03/16 06:16 PM
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Why can I only upvote this once?
/r/askTRP29/02/16 04:26 PM
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I went ahead and deleted my fb account. I later created a fake for the purposes of tinder. There's not much there - just a few pics and even those are private. I have tried to remove my online footprint completely - and a few girls have even commented on it (how they couldn't find me while google stalking me).
/r/askTRP29/02/16 03:23 PM
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I always invite them back to watch a movie Yep. Had this work Friday night.
/r/askTRP29/02/16 02:33 AM
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That is the cause of oneitis Maybe your oneitis for this girl is because she presents the biggest challenge you've yet faced?
/r/askTRP29/02/16 02:13 AM
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Why does it leave you empty inside? I'm not saying "go be a hollow person", but I'm saying that spinning plates (not necessarily ONSes, could just be more FWBs) will help curb your ONEitis and help you maintain frame. Enjoy the girl you like, but have plates to fall back on and to keep you grounded. I was in a similar situation. Had some plates, met a girl who blew my mind. Started to get ONEitis. Each time it became a problem, I put work into spinning plates and fucking other girls. It has help…
/r/askTRP29/02/16 01:09 AM
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I will usually use "my ladyfriend, so-and-so".
/r/seduction29/02/16 12:59 AM
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Any advice on how to get rid of this fucking oneitis? Spin more plates. Immediately.
/r/askTRP29/02/16 12:47 AM
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Kid might not give a shit now, but make no mistake - if you do this, he will come to realize as an adult what sort of man you are and you will be a significant influence in what sort of man he becomes.
/r/askTRP27/02/16 09:49 PM
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Typically I share when asked, but I don't go into detail and anything I say to a coworker is emotionally neutral. Aside from the one or two closer friends at work, I don't go out of my way to share things like this with others. Both of these combine to stay authentic and expose vulnerability, which is a thing I do, but without creating drama. I use humor to diffuse any emotionally-charged response or follow-up questions.
/r/askTRP26/02/16 07:52 PM
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I asked an ex plate about her count, and it was somewhere around 19 or 20 - which she thought was high. She googled how many partners a girl should have, and an article we came across said "regardless of the number, always say 10".
/r/askTRP26/02/16 02:54 PM
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I haven't asked. She's into BDSM though, so I assume it's pretty high. Other than minor curiosity, I really don't care.
/r/askTRP26/02/16 02:52 PM
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Technically, circles are an uncountably infinite set of points. There are no curves and no lines.
/r/seduction25/02/16 03:39 PM
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I didn't realize circles were gay.
/r/seduction25/02/16 03:38 PM
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Predict her behaviours "go onnnnnn say something insulting" , "go and storm off", " go and spread more rumours". You can even add an insult onto the end so if she does her "predictable behaviour", she enters your frame "go on say something insulting, because you have low self esteem". I would add a caution here - be sure that if you choose to say something like this, you're very close to playing on her level. Don't let her drag you down there, so be certain that your tone of voice and delivery c…
/r/askTRP25/02/16 03:32 PM
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talk to yourself like you were explaining to someone else This is good advice. If you can't explain something, you have not mastered it.
/r/askTRP25/02/16 03:26 PM
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When I study, I take notes. This helps me retain information much more effectively than simply reading/hearing it. This is for general retention/comprehension. For something which I absolutely must memorize, I use repetition. Read and re-read, write notes on note cards and practice cycling through the cards to confirm memorization. Alternately, if it's a skill I need to become proficient with - practice. Lots of practice (and failure) will help cement the thing into your skillset.
/r/askTRP25/02/16 03:25 PM
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Same way I would deal with a shit test. It's a test of congruence.
/r/askTRP25/02/16 03:20 PM
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One of the best things to diagnose something like this is exactly what you're doing in this thread. You explain the situation and emotionally vomit out everything that's inside, and then you listen to, respond to and analyze replies. The first part helps clear your head. You evacuate the emotional chaos and make room for rational thought and introspection. That's healthy, and should help you get things straightened out. Don't forget that there are no unicorns. Ultimately, women are fungible. Thi…
/r/seduction25/02/16 03:16 PM
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If you want to help her, make her pay in advance. Value your time.
/r/askTRP24/02/16 04:32 PM
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"drinks date with plausible deniability." I almost lost it at this. Great post.
/r/TheRedPill11/02/16 02:33 PM
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How can I stay with her when she does all this? You don't. If you do, you don't value yourself and things will get worse for you.
/r/askTRP10/02/16 07:56 PM
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I noticed that too.
/r/askTRP08/02/16 05:57 PM
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Walk away and don't look back. Use time to gain perspective, analyze what happened, learn from your mistakes, and don't do this shit again.
/r/askTRP08/02/16 02:55 PM
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I'm not OP, but thanks for this link.
/r/askTRP08/02/16 02:46 PM
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Sounds like you're allowing yourself to be validated by these women and whether or not they show up.
/r/TheRedPill07/02/16 04:43 PM
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I've had both work, but I won't typically put the ball in her court unless we've played the logistics-dance a few times already and had a couple of successful dates.
/r/seduction05/02/16 02:52 PM
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I'm not going to say "this happens to me all the time", because it doesn't - but it has in the past. And when it did, there was a constant monologue in the back of my head telling me that I was going to bone this girl instead of pursue a LTR so the things she said didn't matter. Then we boned, and parted ways.
/r/seduction30/01/16 09:25 PM
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WARNING - I tend to ramble prior to my AM coffee, but hopefully this makes sense. I gave you what I felt was the quick and easiest answer to digest at a glance, but I'm not necessarily advocating being a nihilist. Instead, it's more the mindset that most things which make people freak out don't (or shouldn't) actually matter. There is more information in the sidebar of /r/theredpill (and it's probably better-written and more coherent) but for me confidence boils down to two things: 1 - Don't for…
/r/seduction28/01/16 03:12 PM
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Nihilism. Nothing matters - success or failure, so do what you feel like doing and don't fear the outcome.
/r/seduction27/01/16 05:31 PM
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If you did, I think you'd be wasting your time. I wouldn't bother.
/r/seduction25/01/16 09:06 PM
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Delivering an eyepoke works pretty well for my escapes.
/r/seduction22/01/16 09:47 PM
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Think about it. Every single time a girl is hard to get, we are in love. We want her so bad, just because we can not get her. We even lie to ourselves and think she is special, when in reality she isn't even that cool, but she just doesn't reply to our messages and that is why we want her. Guess what: it works for guys as well. It works so well that I ask myself why we are all not doing that more. So first I am going to give you an example and then go in detail on how you can actually be hard to…
/r/seduction21/01/16 03:57 AM
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