You're chasing ghosts of "equality" and "oppression" instead of focusing on real problems.< I get your point here and agree that there are greater problems than this and have used this argument but it is not a working response with the females I have had arguments with recently.
No. Feminism unfortunately means gender equality. That's why I put quotes around it . I claim to be egalitarian which mean every one is treated equally on all different kinds of levels. but as I said I don't think there is true equality in the world. There is only as much equality in this world as our flawed brains can contrive.
