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| 1 | Ex-coworker that hates my guts is sweet talking my GF and dissing it on me, should I tell her that he's trying to make me look like shit on purpose?Because I enabled the issue (and it was already a topic of jokes since before we started dating), I’m inclined not to take it personally and let it go. The issue is: I’m uncomfortable at the idea of my GF joking about leaving me or the fact that I’m weird, ok? Not that I am, but if I did something the other dude considered “bad”, her joking with him irks me. I put my dick in her mouth and cum in it whenever I want to, but hearing her saying that stuff bothers me. Am I partly a beta bitch? Maybe.… | /r/askTRP | 20/08/20 10:43 AM |
| 1 | Ex-coworker that hates my guts is sweet talking my GF and dissing it on me, should I tell her that he's trying to make me look like shit on purpose?Just one thing I forgot to mention: I enabled this. I was the one who remembered and mentioned the coworker, she even asked me after I mentioned him if it was ok to contact hom, and I said yes. The phone call happened after that. Some say she was just A&A the dude and it’s no big deal, some say the same as you. If it’s a one time thing, shouldnt it get a pass? | /r/askTRP | 20/08/20 07:26 AM |
| 2 | Ex-coworker that hates my guts is sweet talking my GF and dissing it on me, should I tell her that he's trying to make me look like shit on purpose?How is a joke worth ending a relationship? Do you even live outside? Do you even know how humans act? Jesus | /r/askTRP | 19/08/20 07:08 PM |
| 1 | Ex-coworker that hates my guts is sweet talking my GF and dissing it on me, should I tell her that he's trying to make me look like shit on purpose?You are seriusly suggesting that a relationship should end cause two coworkers made a joke? How fuck up are you? | /r/askTRP | 19/08/20 07:07 PM |
| 2 | Ex-coworker that hates my guts is sweet talking my GF and dissing it on me, should I tell her that he's trying to make me look like shit on purpose?I overheard her on the phone, we are working from home because of the virus. | /r/askTRP | 18/08/20 01:23 PM |
| 3 | Ex-coworker that hates my guts is sweet talking my GF and dissing it on me, should I tell her that he's trying to make me look like shit on purpose?he's not her boss, just a coworker. It's like this: let's say I have a bad habit of drinking "hot beer" while everyone else drinks "cold beer". He joked about her leaving me or pressing charges against me for me drinking "hot beer", and she amplified the jokes. It's not the jokes that bother me... it's the god damn fact that they are joking about it together against me. It's the fact she did not joke against him defending me, and he knows he was putting me down. | /r/askTRP | 18/08/20 08:31 AM |
| 2 | My girlfriend stopped me the other day in bed cause "she was feeling too much". Is this normal?No relationship issues going on? No, not really. She does everything I want to, everything I like, the other day we were walking around and I found a bag I liked and I was going to buy it, and she stopped me and said "I'll buy it, stay away", bought it and gave it to me as a gift. She cooks for me... cleans for me... pays for her stuff and more... I don't think there are relationship issues, to be honest | /r/askTRP | 17/06/20 04:26 PM |
| 1 | My LTR does everything sexually BUT swallow my load, she says she always found it demeaning. Any ideas?Ok, she said she never did it purposely before, and I believe her, cause she's done tons of other shit and told me about it. She has, however, swallow some by mistake, even with me. She told me she didn't like the idea of swallowing, of looking so submissive. So, of course, I went to my basement gym today and asked her to come down there after I was done. Kissed her, spoiled her, played with her body, and made her give me a blowjob. When I was cumming, told her to take it deep and swallow everyt… | /r/askTRP | 05/05/20 07:13 PM |
| 1 | Do girlfriends get comfortable on LTRs and reduce the amount of communication, in general?Lifting weights? I probably lift since before you went to highschool u dumbass hahaha stop getting triggered so easily jesus | /r/askTRP | 18/04/20 07:40 AM |
| 19 | Do girlfriends get comfortable on LTRs and reduce the amount of communication, in general?OP is a bitch, we established that | /r/askTRP | 17/04/20 04:02 PM |
| 34 | Do girlfriends get comfortable on LTRs and reduce the amount of communication, in general?Ok, I'm being a bitch hahaha. First LTR, only had plates/fuck friends until now, and I know I'm giving out commitment so this shit sometimes makes me think Thanks for your advice :) | /r/askTRP | 17/04/20 12:30 PM |
| 1 | LTR get's influenced a lot by her parents. What's the best way to assert dominance and make her branch swing to me permanently?lol, why is that? | /r/askTRP | 12/03/20 08:02 AM |
| 1 | LTR get's influenced a lot by her parents. What's the best way to assert dominance and make her branch swing to me permanently?I’m ok with her living with me as long as she’s my exclusive personal cum dump, sucks my cock whenever I want to, cleans, cooks, etc. And this girl does all of this. The moment she stops, I start kicking her out. My place, my rules. | /r/askTRP | 11/03/20 09:34 PM |
| 0 | LTR get's influenced a lot by her parents. What's the best way to assert dominance and make her branch swing to me permanently?Working on it, it’ll happen in a couple of months | /r/askTRP | 11/03/20 07:45 PM |
| 1 | LTR get's influenced a lot by her parents. What's the best way to assert dominance and make her branch swing to me permanently?Why? Lol | /r/askTRP | 11/03/20 07:39 PM |
| 1 | Is this how it feels to have high SMV with respect to a woman?I can't cause she's a coworker and I don't shit where I eat | /r/askTRP | 08/11/19 06:14 PM |
| 1 | Is this how it feels to have high SMV with respect to a woman?I can't cause she's a coworker and I don't shit where I eat | /r/askTRP | 08/11/19 06:13 PM |
| 1 | I managed to get women by breaking the rules, cheating and creating opportunities where they didn't existI dunno, maybe? It's the idea of not being able to get any that pisses me off, tbh. Call it validation or whatever | /r/askTRP | 20/10/19 09:57 PM |
| 1 | I managed to get women by breaking the rules, cheating and creating opportunities where they didn't existwhat can I tell you, I lack social value and I'm too lazy to get it. You’re behavior is Outcome Dependent I also like sex, a lot | /r/askTRP | 20/10/19 09:17 PM |
| 1 | I managed to get women by breaking the rules, cheating and creating opportunities where they didn't existYou sound like a BP guy who's married to his girl, telling he got an awesome life and has the best wife to calm his mind only to slip up in the end of the evening telling people he doesn't like that fact that he has to sleep on the sofa because of his wife. you are seriously retarded lol, wtf did you just say hahaha | /r/askTRP | 20/10/19 08:09 PM |
| 1 | My boss told us "in a colloquial and friendly fashion" that they would not give raises to people unless they really need the money...Yes, my money for new equipment that is then owned by me. New equipment I would have bought anyway, so no big deal. Agree with the rest. Lol, stop it with the "busy life", it's not a badge of honor lol | /r/askTRP | 25/06/17 02:57 PM |
| 1 | My boss told us "in a colloquial and friendly fashion" that they would not give raises to people unless they really need the money...I've done some digging around, and it looks like there's a systemic problem in my country in regards to these issues. The country is powered in big part by small/medium-size companies, where this sort of behavior is very common. The frustrating part is that the owners know this, and they still act like "you have a choice" and you can leave the company, if you want. And of course, if I were to resign and give my 2/4 weeks on monday, I would unleash so much chaos that they'll brand me as the "imma… | /r/askTRP | 25/06/17 10:20 AM |
| 2 | My boss told us "in a colloquial and friendly fashion" that they would not give raises to people unless they really need the money...And yet, they try to sell the communist ideals to keep people from asking for raises. How many times do you think they said "work harder and you'll be compensated appropriately?" Not even once... | /r/askTRP | 25/06/17 10:09 AM |
| 1 | My boss told us "in a colloquial and friendly fashion" that they would not give raises to people unless they really need the money...Lol, exactly what happened here. They kind of landed the client by chance before my arrival, and it went from "2/3 people doing consulting work to 15 people doing consulting work". | /r/askTRP | 25/06/17 10:05 AM |
| 1 | My boss told us "in a colloquial and friendly fashion" that they would not give raises to people unless they really need the money...Well, I guess it would be easier in the states. I live in europe, and even though I'm not in one of the worst countries, going on our own is harder here. I so have to move to the states or somewhere else... | /r/askTRP | 25/06/17 09:59 AM |
| 1 | My boss told us "in a colloquial and friendly fashion" that they would not give raises to people unless they really need the money...You're a fucking employee, they're supposed to pay you and provide you with the correct equipment to get the job done. They do, it's just that, in regards to computers, there a wide range of options, and almost always, you can work with crappy computers without issues. We all know that, that's why we indulge ourselves with good computers, especially if we enjoy the job we do. The problem is, that "indulging" went out of the window the moment they had to use the company money... You sound like th… | /r/askTRP | 25/06/17 09:37 AM |
| 1 | My boss told us "in a colloquial and friendly fashion" that they would not give raises to people unless they really need the money...And the worst part is, even hinting that he shouldn't be cheap would mean putting a strain in our relationship, because that would mean telling him how to spend his money, and you know, power and shit... Leave, because he's going to ruin your life as well as the company. Considering all the other suckers there, they may not go down. However, if their only big client cuts funding, that'd be another matter. Your boss is a psycho, and my bet is on him running the company into the ground while linin… | /r/askTRP | 25/06/17 09:27 AM |
| 1 | My boss told us "in a colloquial and friendly fashion" that they would not give raises to people unless they really need the money...I meant to buy a computer that's mine, not for a company's computer lol! It's like saying "ok, I'd like to bring my own laptop at work, if it's ok with the company's policies". | /r/askTRP | 25/06/17 09:24 AM |
| 3 | I found out my boss is a fucking beta pushover who craves the acceptance of his employees and acts on emotions... Should I just find another job?Let's say I have a hard time overdoing it. Standard nice doesn't cut it here, and extra nice isn't my strong suit. I'm too much of an engineer | /r/askTRP | 18/06/17 06:38 PM |
| 1 | I found out my boss is a fucking beta pushover who craves the acceptance of his employees and acts on emotions... Should I just find another job?I get that he's predictable, but I don't have leverage nor the ability to use him at the moment. The chick playing him knows full well she's in full power mode and she doesn't even need to open her legs to keep this going... The guy, on the other hand, keeps me at arms length and I have no way of getting close. He treats me as the "necessary resource in the company" because of my abilities, but doesn't give me any project he's involved with unless he absolutely has to... | /r/askTRP | 18/06/17 05:57 PM |
| 1 | I found out my boss is a fucking beta pushover who craves the acceptance of his employees and acts on emotions... Should I just find another job?Easier said than done... | /r/askTRP | 18/06/17 05:45 PM |
| 3 | I found out my boss is a fucking beta pushover who craves the acceptance of his employees and acts on emotions... Should I just find another job?How would you exploit it? As far as I could tell, this guy is all friendship = job security. No career advancement unless you actually flirt with him, like she did. How do you manipulate someone like that? | /r/askTRP | 18/06/17 05:43 PM |
| 1 | How effective is negging in getting women riled up and wishing they had your approval?Public shaming. He likes to point out people's "flaws", real or not, in front of everyone. And he's good at it. You say something, he raises his voice (without screaming), criticizes you or points out something about you or what you said that makes you look like an idiot, you get his meaning, you get emotional, and you end up on a bad spot. In the mean time, people see that he just insulted you, got away with it, and can do it whenever he wants to. And you have to be careful how you respond: you… | /r/askTRP | 25/07/16 06:11 PM |
| 1 | How effective is negging in getting women riled up and wishing they had your approval?I think it is because they end up being afraid of him and respecting him from no reason. He's a chump. Or am I wrong and I should let him do whatever he wants and inspire fear just because he can? | /r/askTRP | 25/07/16 06:44 AM |
| 1 | How effective is negging in getting women riled up and wishing they had your approval?I enter the room, I have the phone in my hand and tell the group about a cool stuff I just read. It was something weird so he starts acting condescending and commenting on how stupid I am, out of the blue... A girl does the same thing, he reacts the same way. Repeat that, again and again. Is that an alpha? Does his button pushing attitude mean something? Cmon... But you can guess how girls start feeling after a while and how people end up walking on eggshells for no reason. | /r/askTRP | 25/07/16 06:37 AM |
| 1 | How effective is negging in getting women riled up and wishing they had your approval?No, I'm upset that he tries to sell himself as a big deal alpha by being aggressive when all he really is is an insecure teenager, that's all. | /r/askTRP | 25/07/16 05:44 AM |
| 0 | How effective is negging in getting women riled up and wishing they had your approval?I guess that's true. And that's why negging like this bothers me so much. I have no problem overstepping my boundaries or coming onto girls or similar stuff but that doesn't mean I'll insult them/treat them like shit to get them going. So, when I see a guy acting like that it bothers me for two reasons: 1) I know what he's doing underneath, and 2) it's the only way he has to succeed. If you had a guy like that in your group who's constantly pulling all the girls from your group towards him by sh… | /r/askTRP | 24/07/16 02:30 PM |
| 1 | How effective is negging in getting women riled up and wishing they had your approval?I don't know about his body language. All I know if that he got her hamstering about the fact he treats her like that. Which I saw as a successful attempt at making her submit to him. If the guy is ignoring her and treats her badly and she then can't figure it out, I take it as a win on his side to make her feel inferior. | /r/askTRP | 24/07/16 01:34 PM |
| 0 | How effective is negging in getting women riled up and wishing they had your approval?Partially. It sounds like these guys aren't begging they're just insulting people. Of course that's going to tile people up - no one wants to be insulted. You are right, it's flat out criticism usually. But does it work the same way for pulling women towards you? I mean, for example, saw one guy once that completely ignored one girl except when he teased her to say that, for example, people who did the same stuff that she did probably had issues. He didn't say it to her, but she was in the room.… | /r/askTRP | 24/07/16 01:08 PM |
| 1 | I realized a guy from my group has been trying hard to covertly exclude me (by playing the friend card), I've only been ignoring it until nowLuckily, he's trying to pull aside an old guy friend and two new girls that just started working there. I'm actually thinking on calling this shit on him when I get the chance. I can't stand that arrogance and hypocrisy flowing right in front of me. if he just whispered poison into their ears, you could talk to them frankly and patch shit up This is what bothers me the most. If he wasn't there, my relationship with everyone would be way better. With him around, that's not the case. He would eith… | /r/askTRP | 28/03/16 05:41 PM |
| 1 | I realized a guy from my group has been trying hard to covertly exclude me (by playing the friend card), I've only been ignoring it until nowSomething like this happened in my group of friends, he's acting like the lead the group don't want, eventually things reach tipping point with him and the group expels him over time He's making it easy right now. He basically made too much noise about trivial crap and realized people don't care about him or his ideas. So he's started pulling himself away from the group and talking only to the few who don't talk back to him or those who don't like me... what a jerk | /r/askTRP | 27/03/16 05:41 PM |
| 1 | I realized a guy from my group has been trying hard to covertly exclude me (by playing the friend card), I've only been ignoring it until nowIt does, that's why I worried. I have fun at my job so having someone making my life miserable (socially, not work wise) makes me angry. Yes, I know, it's my ego talking. But still, I hate the "I'm the leader" arrogance this guy has. | /r/askTRP | 27/03/16 05:39 PM |
| 1 | I realized a guy from my group has been trying hard to covertly exclude me (by playing the friend card), I've only been ignoring it until nowHe is insecure, we all know that. He's tall, and I think he hates people who don't worry about the same crap he does. | /r/askTRP | 27/03/16 05:38 PM |
| 1 | I realized a guy from my group has been trying hard to covertly exclude me (by playing the friend card), I've only been ignoring it until nowfirst off - you are not required to hang out with people from work, realistically it probably a really lame group of people. Yeah, I know, and I'm not extremely fond of them either. It's the arrogance of trying to push me out for no reason that bothers me. Second, you spent a whole shitload of time thinking about and worrying about this other dude. Part of this communities goal is to learn to detach yourself or transcend that. You are and have been playing into it making yourself no better or an… | /r/askTRP | 27/03/16 05:36 PM |
| 1 | I realized a guy from my group has been trying hard to covertly exclude me (by playing the friend card), I've only been ignoring it until nowI think it won't be difficult as he's already self-excluding... lol, he says he can't stand the group as they "let him down"... thanks for the advice. | /r/askTRP | 27/03/16 05:33 PM |
| 1 | Can a constand one-upper ruin your game?lol, that's civil war material :D | /r/askTRP | 13/03/16 10:24 AM |
| 2 | I'm completely tiered of being insulted, so please, PLEASE I need a hand with this situation.Thank you man. It's not going to be easy now I guess... I'm gonna have to start hitting back. | /r/askTRP | 28/02/16 07:14 PM |
| 1 | I'm completely tiered of being insulted, so please, PLEASE I need a hand with this situation.No I don't, you are right. It's just that's always been difficult for me not to get emotional in confrontations. For that reason I just learned to not give a fuck about anyone's opinion. In this case however, this attitude allows him to do as he wants and even call me dumb or stupid in front of me while talking to the rest and I just... well... stay quite... I know, I'm an idiot after all I guess | /r/askTRP | 28/02/16 06:28 PM |
| 1 | I'm completely tiered of being insulted, so please, PLEASE I need a hand with this situation.I guess that's my mistake then... not doing nothing to keep mi IDGAF attitude. | /r/askTRP | 28/02/16 06:27 PM |
| 1 | I'm completely tiered of being insulted, so please, PLEASE I need a hand with this situation.Of course you are tired of this fuck. It's one thing to brush off someone's childish snipe once or twice, but when it becomes systematic it's time to stand up for yourself and confront it directly. The reason I'm reluctant is that I'm proud and I don't give a fuck about him. I don't want to go out of my way to show everyone that he got to me, because he didn't... That's the point. I'm perfectly fine with myself. It's my position inside the group that I don't like when he does this... | /r/askTRP | 28/02/16 06:02 PM |
| 1 | I'm completely tiered of being insulted, so please, PLEASE I need a hand with this situation.Normally I ignore displays like this and work against him in the background to get him out of the group by fabricating a scandal and causing him to become a social outcast. However it seems as if this is been going on for a long time now so even if you can get him out of the group, the damage seems to have been done. From what you explained it seems as if people know that he is attacking you personally, and that every time you do the IDGAF attitude they are seeing it as you being passive and let… | /r/askTRP | 28/02/16 01:02 PM |
| 2 | I'm completely tiered of being insulted, so please, PLEASE I need a hand with this situation.Yeah, I touched him because that makes him mad :) | /r/askTRP | 28/02/16 12:35 PM |
| 2 | I'm completely tiered of being insulted, so please, PLEASE I need a hand with this situation.He stopped the few times I started throwing crap back at him. Same IDGaF attitude but coupled with mocking in front of everyone. It's the fact that I'm not always in the mood for that and it takes it's toll... | /r/askTRP | 28/02/16 12:31 PM |
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