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| 2 | Why aren't women ever held accountable for passing on thier bad genetics?It's not toxic positivity, it's honest. I'm not saying that everyone has it easy in terms of dating, I'm saying that people need to grow the fuck up and take some responsibility instead of sitting around and blaming women or society or goddamn negative canthal tilt for the fact that they can't get laid. | /r/AllPillDebate | 14/06/23 03:07 AM |
| 4 | Why aren't women ever held accountable for passing on thier bad genetics?First of all, normal people don't usually get married just so they can reproduce and pass on their super mega based and redpilled sigma chad genetics. Believe it or not, a lot of people actually value their partners for their personality and genuinely like them as people. Despite what this a lot of people on this sub tend to believe, your character actually has a massive impact on the way people percieve you, and no offence, based on the way you speak about your mother, I doubt your canthal tilt… | /r/AllPillDebate | 13/06/23 04:28 PM |
| 1 | Even if Female Nature is true, there's no benefit being mad at it and we must accept it for what it isI think that's just the red pill tbh | /r/PurplePillDebate | 08/06/23 06:01 PM |
| 17 | Question for women: Would you submit to a rich man?Absolutely not. You could not pay me all the money in the world to allow somebody who is supposed to care about me and value me as a person to humiliate and disrespect me in that way. I would genuinely rather work three jobs than live like that. I obviously don't know your situation, but it sounds like your uncle is emotionally abusive and has bullied his wives into listening to him. Don't let this one instance shape your view of women; this is not how people should treat their spouses, regardle… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 08/06/23 01:59 AM |
| 2 | The no-fap movement has noble purpose, but it is based on a delusion. Porn is a necessary evil for the good of most menWhoops my bad | /r/PurplePillDebate | 06/06/23 08:39 PM |
| 2 | The no-fap movement has noble purpose, but it is based on a delusion. Porn is a necessary evil for the good of most menThis is super long so TL;DR: I agree with your point about no-fap, but I disagree with your reasoning. Masturbation is healthy and a normal human function, porn is not. Pornography is addictive, creates a very warped image of sex, has a negative impact on relationships (both sexual and romantic), and does more harm than good. If you read all that, thanks and you're dope :) ----------------------------------------------------------------------------------------------------------------------------… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 06/06/23 08:28 PM |
| – | The no-fap movement has noble purpose, but it is based on a delusion. Porn is a necessary evil for the good of most menMy imagination is way cooler than your imagination | /r/PurplePillDebate | 06/06/23 05:40 PM |
| 1 | Women’s hypersensitivity to awkwardness and lack of social prowess/dominance is not rooted in fear or some “survival instinct” they’ve evolved in response to dangerous men, but rather in their privilege and abundanceWomen are not hypersensitive to awkwardness. I don't want to be around awkward weirdos either. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 06/06/23 12:46 AM |
| 2 | CMV: It's perfectly valid for men to want a low N woman BECAUSE he's insecure about his sexual performance compared to all of her other loversPicture the nerd wojack in your head and laugh because idk how to do gifs | /r/PurplePillDebate | 05/06/23 01:48 PM |
| 1 | Women over value how much their career and education is attractive to menOHH my bad man I totally misunderstood your statement. First of all, it makes complete sense that an accomplishment like getting a Ph.D. would raise a person's self-esteem; it's hard work that requires a lot of time, money, and effort and it's definitely something to be proud of. Secondly, attractiveness is subjective. I'm probably going to get flack for saying this here, but rating people on a scale of one to ten is completely ridiculous (seriously, I stopped doing that shit when I was like fou… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 05/06/23 01:29 AM |
| 1 | Women over value how much their career and education is attractive to menFirst of all, that description is literally a direct relationship; women feel that they can get more attractive men as a result of being more educated ------> women decide to go to university and become more educated in order to attract men. Second, I don't know how many women you interact with on a regular basis but insinuating that women want to be educated for the sole purpose of attracting a partner is completely absurd. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 04/06/23 10:16 PM |
| 2 | Women over value how much their career and education is attractive to menI don't care if people think that it's attractive (men OR women). I am not going to go to school for eight years and spending close to one hundred thousand dollars because I think it is attractive to other people; in all honesty, even if it were to make me LESS attractive to others, it still wouldn't matter. I'm not really a relationship type of person, so take my word with a grain of salt if you'd like, but I don't see why anybody would have any interest in being with a person who is intimidate… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 04/06/23 09:37 PM |
| 1 | The average woman is completely delusional about men's income and what they "qualify" for.These women do not represent "the average woman." | /r/PurplePillDebate | 02/06/23 11:17 PM |
| 2 | Women should admit it is kind of a privilege that they essentially control the couple's social lifeThis is a very personalized experience. Lots of men are mature enough to make their own friends, invite their own family over, and call their mothers on mother's day. Pull up your big boy pants and stop blaming women for the fact that you don't have a social life. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 01/06/23 08:12 PM |
| 1 | Why do you think (some) men are becoming attracted to this?I think people just have different preferences | /r/PurplePillDebate | 31/05/23 04:07 PM |
| 3 | Women are ultimately hurting themselves when they refuse to approach and caution guys against approachingMost women don't have an issue with being approached respectfully in an appropriate setting. I think the issue is that sometimes people think they are coming off as a "good-looking, well-spoken guy" who is "doing things the old-fashioned way" but are actually falling somewhere on the "potentially autistic weirdo who thinks he's the main character hitting on women who are clearly not interested" spectrum. I'm not advising people to never hit on anyone, but just be mindful. Seriously, the number o… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 24/05/23 01:16 AM |
| 1 | Isn't this red pill thinking? Girls will choose attractive jocks over quiet nerds, even if they are equally misogynistic.I can elaborate on a broader scale, but I don't think there's anything wrong with speaking from personal experience; OP states that "girls will choose attractive jocks over quiet nerds even if both are equally misogynistic," I am a girl, and I am disagreeing with OP's broad statement because I (and MANY others) do not align with this generalization. If I were to say that I personally believe that "chads" are higher value men than "nerds" and that I am attracted to buff, red-pilled men with six-f… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 24/05/23 12:53 AM |
| – | Can you put your preference into numbers?I thought this was about gender preference | /r/PurplePillDebate | 23/05/23 08:31 PM |
| – | Isn't this red pill thinking? Girls will choose attractive jocks over quiet nerds, even if they are equally misogynistic.For me personally, no. I like nerds (not in an unwashed loser type of way, I just like people with the same interests as me) and I also like more "conventionally attractive" people (I'm seventeen and have not used the word jock since I was in middle school, so I'm getting the feeling that you're WAY too old to be whining about "jocks"). Sexism is extremely unattractive to me in people of both genders. The way that you describe dating like some sort of weird stock exchange is giving me the impres… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 23/05/23 02:16 AM |
| 1 | Sexy selfies on IG more empowering? Or more self-objectifying?I don't think that there has to be some sort of inherent "deep meaning" behind posting photos online; some people want to show more skin in photos, some people don't. I am against sex work and I STRONGLY dislike onlyfans, but there is a big difference between starting an onlyfans and posting a picture in a swimsuit. I don't believe that posting a picture online is empowering, but I don't really think it's self- objectifying either. The way I see it, it's kind of like a woman wearing revealing cl… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 16/05/23 01:08 AM |
| 2 | Sexy selfies on IG more empowering? Or more self-objectifying?In my opinion, it's neither. Just post whatever you want. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 15/05/23 12:25 PM |
| 13 | Women of PPD, how often do you get hit on in public?All due respect, this is disgusting and I really don't think you should be allowed to live near a middle school | /r/PurplePillDebate | 14/05/23 08:10 PM |
| 7 | Women of PPD, how often do you get hit on in public?It has nothing to do with "slut vibes." Source: I started getting catcalled when I was 11. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 14/05/23 07:57 PM |
| 1 | It appears that women don't want menNot to be rude, but it sounds more like women just don't want YOU | /r/PurplePillDebate | 13/05/23 07:30 PM |
| – | Female women, how do you feel about transgender men trying to become women?I'm totally chill with trans women and I think that people need to stop being offended by other people's personal lives. I have never looked at a trans person and been upset because I looked different from them, just like I've never felt like that toward a cis person. I don't care what other people want to do. I also don't think that it makes any sense to judge an entire group of people based on a video of someone behaving stupidly online. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 12/05/23 01:50 AM |
| – | CMV: Most men would be content with women at least acknowledging how atrocious dating has become for males, rather than gaslighting them and insisting it was invariably something they were doing wrong or that it was their “personality.”Oftentimes (NOT ALWAYS), both are true; a lot of men struggle with dating, and very often personality is the problem. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 04/05/23 07:34 PM |
| 1 | If expecting a woman to cook/clean *because she’s a woman* is misogyny, then wouldn’t expecting chivalry from a man *because he’s the man* be misandry?Expecting somebody to behave a certain way because of their gender is sexist. It doesn't matter if you are a man or a woman. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 25/04/23 08:13 PM |
| 5 | Arguments against Paternity Test at Birth are WILDThis whole thing sounds really crazy. Just request a paternity test, it's simple. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 18/04/23 12:51 PM |
| 5 | Why don't women understand that men have to work and have money?Are these real women that you know in real life, or women you've seen on redpill podcasts? | /r/PurplePillDebate | 12/04/23 08:57 PM |
| 2 | What common PPD subjects do you feel are primarily a concern of the terminally online?Alpha fux beta bux. I have never heard a normal, sane person unironically this before in my life. Women calling men creeps for walking near them or looking at them. "High value men/women." Normal people do not think like that?? "Lonely women do not exist because women can choose not to be single but men can't." Once again, normal people who speak to other people don't say shit like that. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 12/04/23 02:33 AM |
| 1 | Would you ever give a reformed OF model with a promiscuous past having a high body count a chance if she changed her ways ?Short answer, yes. Long answer, I'm really opposed to sex work, but I don't think it "reduces people's value." Dating is not a shopping center, you do not "lose points" for having sex, and having a promiscuous phase does not make you damaged goods. It's totally fine to want to date someone with a lower body count, but the only people who would refer to another human being with thoughts, feelings, and experiences as "damaged goods" are probably a bit "damaged" themselves (or at least chronically … | /r/PurplePillDebate | 07/04/23 11:36 PM |
| 25 | How many of you genuinely love your partner?I hope yall are together forever dude | /r/PurplePillDebate | 03/04/23 08:10 PM |
| 13 | How many of you genuinely love your partner?what | /r/PurplePillDebate | 03/04/23 08:10 PM |
| – | I have a hard time believing Dad bods are inWhen I say "dad bod," I mean kinda muscular with a bit of extra fluff, not obese. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 03/04/23 12:19 AM |
| 2 | What do you think of the notion that Men get friend zoned and Woman get sex zoned?I think that both of these things happen to both genders. I feel like the "friend zone" doesn't really exist. I don't view friendship as a "zone" or a step below a romantic/sexual relationship; I value my friends in a different way than I would value a romantic partner (although I believe that you should be friends with your partner as well!) but this type of relationship isn't in any way lesser to romance, just different. I do not keep people around solely with the underlying intention of datin… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 02/04/23 06:37 PM |
| 1 | Women run passive gamethey go there because women are there, and also the average clubbing experience is a bit different for the average man vs an average woman don't you think? This is obviously not true of everybody, but I don't think that most people go to the club just to stare at women. I can confidently say that, as somebody who is interested in women, I don't really go anywhere just to stare at women because that would be super creepy. The average clubbing experience is different for men and women; men get fol… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 02/04/23 04:20 PM |
| 2 | Women run passive gameSome women absolutely think this way. However, if we apply your logic to the situation, it still makes no sense: You claim that because women are constantly sexualized by others, therefore the only reason they go to clubs and post on Instagram for attention. Men, on the other hand, do not receive unwanted attention and sexual advances from others (which I don't agree with either, I know some creepy ass women as well), but they still go to clubs and post on Instagram. So either a) men only go to … | /r/PurplePillDebate | 02/04/23 03:22 PM |
| 2 | Women run passive gameOkay, but that also doesn't make any sense. Just because people choose to sexualize someone, does not mean they are actively looking to be sexualized. As I said before, I've been hit on in all kinds of weird, inappropriate, completely non-sexual settings where I was DEFINITELY not looking to be sexualized. It's totally illogical to expect people to stop partaking in certain activities just because some people are so chronically online that they're physically unable to view women as anything othe… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 02/04/23 03:04 PM |
| 2 | Women run passive gameCorrect me if I'm wrong, but you're saying that men participating in the exact same activities as women is somehow more acceptable because other people don't sexualize them? | /r/PurplePillDebate | 02/04/23 02:35 PM |
| 3 | Women run passive gameHaha I totally understand but also I am 17 and bro was a whole ass adult | /r/PurplePillDebate | 01/04/23 11:33 PM |
| 8 | Women run passive gameWomen, if your boyfriend hit on 1 woman every time you got approached, DM'd 1 woman every time you got a DM, you'd never go to the club and you'd delete your Instagram today. Game has to match game. I would honestly just dump my partner if they did that. You have to be pretty insecure to think that being perceived by other people has any sort of sexual connotations. Men also post pictures of themselves on Instagram and go to the club, and just because a person does these things it doesn't necess… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 01/04/23 08:54 PM |
| 12 | Women run passive gamebro hides his women under a blanket when they go in public | /r/PurplePillDebate | 01/04/23 08:48 PM |
| 1 | Would you date these "overweight" women?I'm a woman (who is into women. hello fine females.) and this is my favourite body type for women tbh | /r/PurplePillDebate | 31/03/23 12:04 AM |
| 2 | Women who can't do their makeup properly and don't have good fashion sense are at a ridiculously huge disadvantageI think this is kind of a stupid take, as people do not get dressed up for you, but I understand what you're trying to say. Some people enjoy spending a lot of time on their appearance, others do not, and most people fall somewhere in the middle. I agree in the sense that I think that like 50% of the reason I'm attractive is because I know how to dress and I'm lucky enough to have hair that really doesn't require any sort of styling. That being said, I work outside in the summer and most of my h… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 30/03/23 11:52 PM |
| 1 | Is the high rates of mental illness amongst women contributing to the dating/relationship disparity?You said that every woman you've dated over the past seven years has been mentally ill, I said that maybe you just need to stop dating mentally ill women, and you said that you don't date mentally ill women. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 30/03/23 01:19 AM |
| 1 | Should “trapping a man” count as rape by deceit ?Rape means having sex with someone else without their consent, so I don't think this qualifies as rape but it should DEFINITELY be illegal | /r/PurplePillDebate | 30/03/23 12:17 AM |
| 3 | How are men supposed to even get a relationship nowadays?The women calling men creeps are mostly an online majority. Most women that I know (myself included) consider it a compliment when a man respectfully approaches them, even if they aren't interested. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 29/03/23 09:15 PM |
| 1 | Is the high rates of mental illness amongst women contributing to the dating/relationship disparity?But in my experience every female I've dated in the last 7 years was mentally unstable,bipolar schizophrenic,aspergers autistic depressed, ADHD some admittedly, some it's just suspected ,All of my friends are dealing with similiar.From women that threaten to burn your house down or get upset and call the cops with false allegations ...or even ones that get violent themselves What | /r/PurplePillDebate | 29/03/23 09:10 PM |
| 1 | Is the high rates of mental illness amongst women contributing to the dating/relationship disparity?Maybe you just need to stop dating mentally ill women | /r/PurplePillDebate | 29/03/23 02:42 AM |
| 1 | "The Hoe Phase"I've never heard of that before but that's actually really funny | /r/PurplePillDebate | 28/03/23 03:42 PM |
| 1 | Women here advise guys to "touch grass" and "talk to actual women" yet stigmatize and threat profile men for approaching them"Speak to women" means approaching women in appropriate settings, in a respectful way, and knowing when to cut your losses and move on when somebody is not interested in you. Don't hit on random women on the street who are just going about their day. Also, speaking to women without the goal of sex in mind is helpful. Making friends with women makes speaking to women you're interested in! | /r/PurplePillDebate | 26/03/23 05:02 PM |
| 2 | What are some double standards you’ve noticed with men and women’s standards/preferences for one anotherUhh. I can promise you that we do not. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 20/03/23 12:29 AM |
| 1 | You must pick oneThe first one, obviously. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 29/01/23 11:17 PM |
| 2 | There are two identical twin sisters. Both are gorgeous.The second one, 100%. Body count isn't an issue for me, and I don't want children. This isn't to say that I think there is anything wrong with either lifestyle, I just don't really like kids. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 26/01/23 11:41 PM |
| 2 | Creeps and a-holes keep hitting on women because sometimes they get results. A guy who's respectful will be seen as boring or not even noticed.No. Approaching people you don't know respectfully and backing off when you're told is the correct way to approach pretty much any social situation. You don't have to be boring to be respectful; I love weird people, but there's a big difference between being odd and interesting and being creepy. Being harassed is not enjoyable and will not make women more attracted to you. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 25/01/23 11:53 PM |
| 1 | Men who want to improve their dating lives need to drop the video gamesVideo games are only a bad thing if you play them excessively. It's nice to have hobbies that help you unwind and relax, but they shouldn't stop you from being productive. Video games are no worse than any other hobby when you know how to regulate yourself, but people who enjoy them tend to get stereotyped as lazy. For example, I have ADHD, struggle with time management and staying on task, and I read like crazy. I've always been a good reader and because it's a "smart" pastime, people act like … | /r/PurplePillDebate | 24/01/23 01:33 AM |
| 3 | Not only does the D.E.N.N.I.S. system work, it should be the ultimate blueprint for any man seeking to date women casually.Has this ever actually worked for you in real life (if it has I'm both shocked and concerned) | /r/PurplePillDebate | 24/01/23 12:03 AM |
| 1 | If a woman's sexual past shouldn't be a factor in a relationship, would you, as a woman, consider dating a man who has previously been sexually dominated by 10 men?Yes | /r/PurplePillDebate | 19/01/23 03:35 PM |
| 1 | female sexuality being activated by dominationThis sounds like it was written by 14-year-old who gets no action | /r/PurplePillDebate | 17/01/23 11:08 PM |
| 2 | Guys are not unattractive because they're insecure, they are insecure because they're unattractive. I feel like this is a common misconception.Bit of a "chicken or the egg" type of situation, in my opinion. People feel unattractive, so they aren't confident, make no efforts to work on their outward appearance or self-esteem, continue being insecure and unattractive, wash, rinse, repeat. Personally, I think that most people are capable of being at least average looking with a bit of effort (good hygiene, clean clothes, decent style, etc.); most people who think they're ugly just need to form some new habits and take better care of thems… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 13/01/23 07:29 PM |
| 2 | Does it make me a misogynist if I hate only certain women?You just kind of sound like a bitter, hateful person but idk if that makes you a misogynist | /r/PurplePillDebate | 08/01/23 12:06 AM |
| 2 | Competition anxiety- the only working solution to a dead bedroom?All due respect, most people don't act like this and I would rather lick the floor of a gas station bathroom than marry somebody who only wants me when they're afraid that somebody else might have me instead. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 07/01/23 10:52 PM |
| 2 | I’m surprised they allow purge week on the sub when this week shows how unregulated red pill ideas absolutely stomp all over the blue pillI don't have time to post memes 24/7 because I'm too busy getting bitches and talking to women that I respect and view as equals | /r/PurplePillDebate | 02/01/23 11:13 PM |
| 1 | men should lie to women and do ANYTHING for sexCan you explain? I'm not trying to be rude, I'm just curious why you think that. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 02/01/23 08:56 PM |
| 6 | men should lie to women and do ANYTHING for sexYou wouldn't have to lie to women to get sex if you didn't view them as your enemy | /r/PurplePillDebate | 01/01/23 08:43 PM |
| 35 | Woman charged for crying at consult, lolFirst of all, the charge was for an emotional assessment; she was not charged $40 for crying. Secondly, insinuating that it's okay to charge somebody money for showing emotion in a stressful situation is despicable. If this happened to a man everybody in this sub would (rightfully) be throwing a massive collective temper tantrum. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 01/01/23 08:31 PM |
| 3 | Sexual Economics TheoryWhat's with all the incel memes on here the past few days?? | /r/PurplePillDebate | 31/12/22 04:51 PM |
| 3 | "Us females aren't a monolith, we prefer all sorts of guys, tee-hee~!"I was confused and then I looked at your post history | /r/PurplePillDebate | 31/12/22 03:59 AM |
| -2 | As a man, your personality can never make up for your lack of looks or status. All it can do is make a woman pity date you to feel more safePersonally, I think it's the opposite; your looks and status can't make up for a lack of personality | /r/PurplePillDebate | 27/12/22 04:55 PM |
| 6 | Does anyone else feel like feminism has ruined a generation of women for dating?So you think that women aren't interested in you because of feminism...? Buddy, I have some terrible news for you. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 27/12/22 04:09 PM |
| 1 | Women, how often do you see men as enemies?I don't see men in general as enemies at all. I have male friends, and there are men that I don't like. I have female friends, and there are women that I don't like. My reasons for disliking people don't have anything to do with gender. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 27/12/22 04:07 PM |
| 1 | Relationships are 100% transactional with no exceptionsI don't use this phrase often because it's cringey and stupid but holy shit are straight people okay | /r/PurplePillDebate | 26/12/22 01:15 AM |
| 1 | Women don't necessarily want the best men, they just want a guy better than themI don't want somebody who is superior to me. I have no issue with dating somebody who is less dominant, masculine, or outgoing than me, but I wouldn't even consider dating somebody who felt like they had to be better than me in order to be worthy of my attention. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 22/12/22 04:17 AM |
| 3 | Artificial wombs are the only way to achieve gender equality with everyone preserving their freedoms.It's just so strange to me that people will complain about not being able to find a partner and then basically admit that they view potential partners as some sort of commodity. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 19/12/22 01:00 AM |
| 2 | Artificial wombs are the only way to achieve gender equality with everyone preserving their freedoms.Why do straight people view dating as a really weird business deal?? | /r/PurplePillDebate | 18/12/22 10:04 PM |
| 6 | Are women hornier in a different way than men?For example, a woman isn't going to be masturbating to pictures of a dudes feet or sniffing underwear, like a lot of guys would do. Uhhh. Is this something a lot of guys do??? | /r/PurplePillDebate | 17/12/22 09:05 PM |
| 1 | State and cultural mandated practice girlfriendsHowever, that doesn't mean that state-mandated prostitutes are the solution. Even if you lose your virginity to a sex worker, you're still a loser, except now you're a loser who slept with a hooker. In addition to this, looks are USUALLY not the whole issue (I'm aware that there are outliers). | /r/PurplePillDebate | 11/12/22 11:37 PM |
| 2 | State and cultural mandated practice girlfriendsI do think these girls should be paid a lot of money for the work that they will potentially be doing This could just be the tiny little Karl Marx on my shoulder talking, but I think that sex work is extremely exploitative and should not be promoted by the government at all. don't think it's a bad idea to give young men a head start especially when they're going into a game we know is built to weed you out Dating isn't a "game" and it certainly isn't built to weed you out. The reason you're no… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 11/12/22 06:58 PM |
| 1 | State and cultural mandated practice girlfriendsHoly shit this is the most maidenless take I've heard in a while | /r/PurplePillDebate | 11/12/22 06:36 PM |
| 5 | What's your unpopular dating opinion? Something you truly believe based on lived experience, but would get down voted to all hell if you said it?People with friends of the opposite sex make MUCH better partners | /r/PurplePillDebate | 11/12/22 06:03 PM |
| 1 | Female friends should not hesitant to wingmanHell yeah! I'm a fantastic wingman! | /r/PurplePillDebate | 10/12/22 11:23 PM |
| 2 | The women who advise men they should get to know women as "people" first before trying anything also crap on "sneaky nice guys" for having with ulterior motivesMy take on it is that you will have much more success with dating if you view women as people instead of viewing them as a conquest or an achievement. Approach women that you're attracted to in appropriate settings (don't hit on people when they are at work, alone at night, etc.). Be confident, but don't act like a douchebag; being friendly and respectful goes a long way. -Make female friends without having any intention of sleeping with them. Find women who have the same interests as you and wh… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 10/12/22 03:56 PM |
| 3 | Who are better in bed, genuine good guys or toxic guys?Whether you're toxic or not is actually irrelevant to how good you are in bed | /r/PurplePillDebate | 07/12/22 11:37 PM |
| 2 | Are some men naturally submissive in relationships? Are some women naturally dominant?bro really just asked if everybody of the same gender acts the same | /r/PurplePillDebate | 07/12/22 12:51 AM |
| 2 | The average straight woman would be getting no girls if they magically turned into a straight man.this is kind of a broad statement, what do you mean specifically? | /r/PurplePillDebate | 05/12/22 09:36 PM |
| 1 | Are women more superstitious?I don't think so, a lot of men also believe in crazy conspiracy theories and weird spiritual stuff. I went to catholic school, and TRUST ME, men are just as crazy as women. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 05/12/22 08:57 PM |
| 8 | Why is an average woman more accepted for being single than an attractive woman for choosing to stay single?Because miserable people can't wrap their heads around the concept of not relying on romantic relationships for happiness. People who are desperate for a relationship don't see why other people aren't interested in the same thing. I had a friend (key word *HAD) who told me, dead serious, "it's such a waste that you're pretty since you don't want to date anyone". The same "friend" told me that my best friend, whom I have known since we were 12, is only friends with me because he wants to sleep wi… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 28/11/22 01:41 AM |
| 7 | Why is an average woman more accepted for being single than an attractive woman for choosing to stay single?Being single is awesome, sorry that you get no bitches though | /r/PurplePillDebate | 28/11/22 01:36 AM |
| 1 | The Body Count thing is gendered, but not in the way people thinkBisexual woman here. I don't actually care how many people the person I'm involved with has slept with (not putting down people who do care, people have different levels of comfort with certain things in relationships and that's totally fine). However, I do think that women are judged more harshly, but mostly by "redpilled" people. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 27/11/22 03:15 PM |
| 13 | Redpillers believe trust is earned, Bluepillers believe trust is givenExpect the worst in your relationship and you'll be unhappy and suspicious all the time | /r/PurplePillDebate | 27/11/22 02:55 PM |
| 3 | Do you prefer 50/50 or submission?50/50! | /r/PurplePillDebate | 20/11/22 07:53 PM |
| 4 | Women often complain about lack of male friendships and getting "fuckzoned". But the truth is, women generally just aren't as good of friends as men.I feel like the issue here is either a) you're hanging out with the wrong women or b) women don't want to be friends with you because you say shit like this | /r/PurplePillDebate | 10/11/22 11:43 PM |
| 5 | Both men and women look for love / intimacy in the wrong places. It’s pretty funny how almost no one points out this elephant in the room.People can volunteer, go to school, and have interesting hobbies while also using social media/dating apps and enjoying clubbing/going to bars. They are not mutually exclusive. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 05/11/22 12:43 AM |
| 1 | I hear a lot of people say that women "aren't rocket science" When it comes to dating. I disagree wholeheartedly.I'll dumb it down a bit. Women are not some strange alien species. Hang out with women (without the end goal being sex). Talk to women. It isn't difficult, and the fact that you treat women like some kind of exotic beetle that you're trying to study is probably a major factor in why you get no pussy. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 26/10/22 08:49 PM |
| 4 | Even women well into their 30s and 40s think they can afford to be insanely selective, often even more so than younger far more attractive girlsI'm young and picky because I like being single a lot more than being in a relationship. If I meet someone that I like, okay cool. If not, whatever. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 18/10/22 08:43 PM |
| 2 | What to do if you’re young and matured fast? All the girls my age seem so immature. How to find wifey material?You sound like you THINK you're mature, but usually mature people don't have to go around telling other people how mature they are. You aren't cool because you refuse to let anybody else have fun. | /r/seduction | 17/10/22 01:12 PM |
| 0 | Older men hitting on younger women is not harassment, nor immoral, nor illegal35 and 22 is kind of weird, but not immoral or overly creepy. OLD men hitting on young women is definitely creepy. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 11/10/22 08:05 PM |
| 8 | do women go sexless like men, or will she always find someone to have sex with?Speaking more from personal experience here, but I don't really need sex. Yeah, it's fun, but I can survive without it. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 05/10/22 08:38 PM |
| 2 | CMV: If legal, age doesn’t matterOlder people who date people who are right at/just past the age of consent are gross. I know that it's legal, but we all know that they would be going a lot younger if they were allowed. Your brain isn't fully formed until about 25, so most 20-year-olds are actually quite childish compared to 30-year-olds. A 23-year-old and a 20-year-old being in a relationship is MUCH different than a 20-year-old dating a 30-year-old. In my opinion, the older you get, the less gross larger age gaps become. This… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 04/10/22 09:09 PM |
| 1 | Q4W: Would you be mad if a man you liked a lot made you wait for sex?I'm not personally a fan of waiting until marriage to have sex. The way I see it, you wouldn't buy a pair of shoes without trying them on first (sorry for the crude example but you get what I'm saying; it's important to be compatible with the person you're marrying), but I definitely understand wanting to wait a few weeks/months to have sex with the person you're seeing. That being said, I have nothing against people who want to wait until marriage, it's just not my thing. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 27/09/22 02:10 PM |
| 15 | The rise of robots or getting passports?This is the most Reddit-y Reddit post to ever Reddit | /r/PurplePillDebate | 26/09/22 01:22 AM |
| 2 | What is worse to you: have a relationship but almost no friends, or the reverse?It's MUCH better to have friends and no relationship. I wouldn't date someone with no friends anyway. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 20/09/22 08:53 PM |
| 1 | If you're struggling to date, you are NOT good lookingNot always. Lots of below average-looking people still manage to date, and a lot of good-looking people struggle with dating. Your attitude towards dating and women is probably a big part of the reason you aren't getting laid. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 20/09/22 08:46 PM |
| 1 | What’s the weirdest way or platform you got approached for a relationship (causal or serious)? NOT DATING APPGoofy ahh dating strategy fr | /r/PurplePillDebate | 20/09/22 08:11 PM |
| 3 | What’s the weirdest way or platform you got approached for a relationship (causal or serious)? NOT DATING APP-Was volunteering at a church dinner in my city (not religious, I wanted free spaghetti) and had a man at LEAST 30 years older than me told me that God had made our paths cross for a reason and asked if he could take me out some time (all while standing waaay too close to me). No thank you. -Comment section on a video of a dude being hit by a train on some gore website -Had a guy tell me that he would like to rape me and got defensive when I got mad because he "just meant that I was hot". -Girl … | /r/PurplePillDebate | 19/09/22 10:57 PM |
| 2 | The idea that “if you were truly good looking/socially savvy you wouldn’t be struggling” is a huge fallacy here. Due to women’s inflated egos, even attractive men struggle.Okay hang on let me edit it | /r/PurplePillDebate | 17/09/22 04:28 AM |
| 3 | The idea that “if you were truly good looking/socially savvy you wouldn’t be struggling” is a huge fallacy here. Due to women’s inflated egos, even attractive men struggle.My best advice is to read your own post over a few times and THEN ask yourself why women don't want to have sex with you. Sometimes people are just not interested. It doesn't matter if you are a 10/10 or sort of mid looking, not everybody is going to be attracted to you and that's okay. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 17/09/22 03:21 AM |
| 22 | Is having platonic female friends as a man a good or a bad thing for dating?Men with female friends tend to be better with women in general. Having female friends helps (most) men view women as people instead of some sort of mysterious, scary alien species or as objects. It makes talking to women you are interested in less intimidating! But, on the other hand, it also creates complications. If you have a platonic female friend, your girlfriend or any girl you're seeing will always be (understandably) suspicious if you two spend time alone together, and might always be p… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 16/09/22 06:04 PM |
| 2 | Why do women seem to be less bothered by being single than men?I like men (and women)! I've had some fun experiences, but I just don't feel like I need a relationship to be happy, and I'm honestly not really interested in dating or a committed relationship at all. That being said, I have the option to date/be in a relationship/have sex if I want to, so I'm not bitter. I just choose not to because I don't want to. I legitimately don't have a good response. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 12/09/22 10:09 PM |
| 2 | What's your "hot take" or unpopular opinion when it comes to dating?AGREED. Absolutely no slander to feminine women because they pretty as hell but rigidly following "traditional feminine values" is just the manosphere for women. It just sort of acts as a crutch for insecure people to lean on instead of actually putting effort in to being an individual and having a solid personality. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 11/09/22 04:28 PM |
| 52 | What's your "hot take" or unpopular opinion when it comes to dating?I like both men and women and I have a few: - Men who complain about not getting women because they aren't "high-value males" generally have no confidence and next to nothing to offer in a relationship. Take a shower and take time to find some hobbies. - Contrary to what a lot of people on this sub think, men often get away with doing the bare minimum in terms of dating/relationships. Girls who have previously only dated men are often concerningly surprised when I do really basic things like coo… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 11/09/22 12:18 AM |
| 2 | What's your "hot take" or unpopular opinion when it comes to dating?Lots of women watch porn bro | /r/PurplePillDebate | 10/09/22 11:39 PM |
| 1 | Women of PPD, if you had a son...As long as he's a good person, I honestly don't care | /r/PurplePillDebate | 25/08/22 09:25 PM |
| 1 | Should sex work replace Tinder in America? If most men don't get matches and dates, what's the point of Tinder?I'd say that I'm pretty good-looking. I have good hygiene and I eat well and exercise. Honestly, it isn't difficult to be somewhat good-looking even if you aren't really "conventionally attractive". | /r/PurplePillDebate | 24/08/22 04:17 AM |
| 1 | Should sex work replace Tinder in America? If most men don't get matches and dates, what's the point of Tinder?I don't use Tinder anymore, but when I did I was getting enough matches to be going out with a few different people per week (just to clarify, I was not sleeping with every single person I matched with on Tinder). | /r/PurplePillDebate | 24/08/22 12:57 AM |
| 3 | Should sex work replace Tinder in America? If most men don't get matches and dates, what's the point of Tinder?"most men" I hate to break it to you, buddy, but most men who use tinder use it because they get matches. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 24/08/22 12:16 AM |
| 1 | Q4W: What are your thoughts on meeting men tipsy/drunk?As a woman, I won't have sex with people who are drunk. If we've both had a few drinks and are just a bit tipsy then I don't see a problem, but having sex with someone who is blackout drunk is rape. It doesn't matter if they consented if they have no idea what's going on around them. Besides, when you are drunk at a club or bar, your friends should NOT let you go home with a stranger (male OR female, it doesn't matter. My friends make sure that everybody in our friend group is safe, regardless o… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 23/08/22 05:28 PM |
| 7 | (The elephant in the room) Why a fun sex life and a stable long term monogamous relationship can't occur together. The madonna-whore complex applied to IRLI feel like it's always the mfs who get no pussy saying shit like this. I'm not saying everybody, but there's definitely a pattern here. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 18/08/22 11:45 PM |
| 1 | Do women need to have a hoe phaseCan you explain that bit further? | /r/PurplePillDebate | 18/08/22 09:44 PM |
| 2 | Do women need to have a hoe phaseLots of women do, lots of women don't. I did, and I don't regret it. It was what I wanted at the time and I had fun. I don't look down on people for their preferences and I don't have a problem dating men or women with high body counts. That being said, why are some people scared off by high body counts? | /r/PurplePillDebate | 18/08/22 06:14 PM |
| 1 | The idea that bottoming is submissive is misogynisticWhy is it submissive in gay sex but not in straight sex?? | /r/PurplePillDebate | 13/08/22 10:30 PM |
| 2 | Female promiscuityI hate to break it to you because you sound like you're 14 but all of this is bullshit | /r/PurplePillDebate | 13/08/22 10:15 PM |
| 2 | Not one man, of any caliber, would reject an attractive woman because she was “socially awkward” or any number of other frivolous reasons. This is often mistakenly attributed to differences in selection criteria, but ultimately signifies women’s privilege and abundance.Woman here. I'm into both men and women and I can safely say that in most cases, social awkwardness is a HUGE turn-off in both genders). I have never rejected anybody for simply "having an awkward moment" because everybody has awkward moments, but if it's a consistent case of "holy shit they have no concept of social cues/conversational skills/basic human interactions" or they're boring or super unintelligent, then yeah, I'm obviously not going to be interested. Women here almost universally r… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 10/08/22 05:34 AM |
| 2 | Not one man, of any caliber, would reject an attractive woman because she was “socially awkward” or any number of other frivolous reasons. This is often mistakenly attributed to differences in selection criteria, but ultimately signifies women’s privilege and abundance.My brother in christ there is a MASSIVE difference between being socially awkward and being emotionally abusive | /r/PurplePillDebate | 10/08/22 05:26 AM |
| 13 | Q4W: How would you view a man who is vocal about men's rights and struggles as a dating prospect?In my opinion, there is a HUGE difference between men who are vocal about men's rights because they are genuinely passionate about making the world a better place and men who use men's rights as a way to speak over women and be misogynistic. You can support men's rights while still supporting women's rights, which is something that I love to see (plus I love a dude who's into politics). | /r/PurplePillDebate | 09/08/22 07:16 PM |
| 2 | Women hate the manosphere because it's the only thing actually helping menI was joking (I know you meant "who are you?" like name/title/occupation-wise but I meant it like "who are you as a person") heehee haha funnee like laugh | /r/PurplePillDebate | 08/08/22 08:49 PM |
| 1 | Women hate the manosphere because it's the only thing actually helping mendamn okay bro I thought my therapist appointment was next week | /r/PurplePillDebate | 08/08/22 03:10 AM |
| 2 | Women hate the manosphere because it's the only thing actually helping menHey man, I mean this in the nicest, kindest, most constructive way possible but you're as dumb as a brick | /r/PurplePillDebate | 07/08/22 05:50 AM |
| 9 | Women hate the manosphere because it's the only thing actually helping menWomen hate the manosphere because it's full of hatred, hostility, and negativity towards women (and other men) | /r/PurplePillDebate | 06/08/22 02:52 AM |
| 2 | Agree or Disagree: It’s not that women don’t care about “looks.” They do. It’s more that they’re “turned off” by socially inept behavior and turned on by sexy socially adept interaction.As a woman, yeah but it has nothing to to with "haha lizard brain do sex". I don't like it when men (or women) are socially inept and make everyone around them uncomfortable because, well...it's just hella uncomfortable. Those types of people are not fun to be around. The good news is that social skills, like any skill, can be learned and practiced! You get better over time. PRO TIP: Also, for the love of god, TAKE A FUCKING SHOWER. BRUSH YOUR TEETH. TAKE CARE OF YOUR HAIR AND NAILS. WEAR A CLEA… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 03/08/22 09:43 PM |
| 0 | Money in dating and relationshipFirst date: the person who initiated pays. For some reason, I find that men are more weirded out if I make the first move and pay for stuff than women (not everybody, I'm speaking generally here). If there are more dates in the future, split the cheques (or just take turns paying; ex. one person pays for movie tickets, the other person buys the popcorn). In relationship: If you're in a serious relationship (I mean like buying a house and starting a family together kind of serious) having a joint… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 03/08/22 03:03 AM |
| 0 | “If having regular sex in our relationship is not important to you, then it is not a big deal if I find it somewhere else. It’s either important, or it’s not.” Thoughts?Nope. Unless you're in an open relationship that both parties are okay with, this is just shitty. If you plan on having a serious relationship with someone, you should be sexually compatible. There are tons of asexual people (and people who just have low sex drives) who are in very happy relationships. If you aren't happy with the arrangement then just move on, buddy. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 30/07/22 05:31 AM |
| 2 | Discussion : Women moving on faster than men.I don't because that's creepy? | /r/PurplePillDebate | 28/07/22 11:51 PM |
| 3 | Discussion : Women moving on faster than men.In my opinion, it has less to do with gender and more to do with personal factors. People with good support systems and lots of hobbies and interests will get over a breakup faster than somebody sitting alone in their house with nobody to talk to. Breaking up with someone you were planning on marrying will take longer to get over than breaking up with a partner you've only had for a month. If you're insecure, co-dependent, and clingy, you will have a harder time getting over someone than a perso… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 28/07/22 11:50 PM |
| 1 | What hobbies in the opposite gender are attractive?Anything they're passionate about, honestly! Enthusiasm is so attractive. I do tend to be into the "military-history-film-bro-pretentious-as-hell" type of guys (mostly because I have a lot of the same interests I guess??) and nerdy, slightly irritating liberal men. So like. Riddle me this batman?? Honourable mention: women. just in general. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 28/07/22 11:27 PM |
| 8 | Discussion : Women moving on faster than men.I have the ultimate support system (ADHD and poor object permanence *WHICH DOES NOT MEAN THAT I VIEW PEOPLE THAT I DATE AS OBJECTS IT JUST MEANS THAT I HAVE THE MAGICAL ABILITY TO FORGET ABOUT THINGS*) so I used to think that it was all women who got over things quickly until I made more female friends. I know girls who have been heartbroken over dudes for almost an entire YEAR, and men who get over things in days. It all depends on the person, the coping mechanisms they have, and how tough they… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 28/07/22 09:19 PM |
| 2 | Are heterosexual women who won't date bisexual men bi/homophobic or is it just a preference?The last one is so fucking stupid but I think it's important to respect people's preferences | /r/PurplePillDebate | 22/07/22 03:45 AM |
| 1 | You Can't Claim Alpha Fux Beta Bux Isn't Real And At The Same Time Say You Had Sex With A Guy You Didn't Want A Relationship WithBecause usually the people saying that "wOmEn OnLy wAnT tO sLeEp WiTh SuPeR hOt aLpHa MaLeS" aren't getting rejected because they're ugly/average, they're just unattractive to women for other reasons (like refusing to take responsibility for the fact that it's their own fault that women don't like them and instead blaming other people). Speaking from personal experience, I'd much rather sleep with/date somebody who was average-looking and self-aware than somebody who was a 10/10 and had this sor… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 11/07/22 02:49 PM |
| -1 | You Can't Claim Alpha Fux Beta Bux Isn't Real And At The Same Time Say You Had Sex With A Guy You Didn't Want A Relationship WithI know quite a few average men who do that. In the absolutely nicest possible way, are you 100% sure that women are just not interested in having sex with you specifically? | /r/PurplePillDebate | 07/07/22 06:15 PM |
| 0 | True or false, women on this sub are more likely NOT representative of the majority of the population but the men on here AREFalse, I mean no disrespect but you sound like a bit of an incel | /r/PurplePillDebate | 30/06/22 09:21 PM |
| 1 | If you expect men to pay on the first date, then you don't get to complain about the wage gap.imo whoever initiated pays, or you split the bill | /r/PurplePillDebate | 30/06/22 02:34 AM |
| 1 | Dance Game Made Simpleayyyyy thank you man | /r/seduction | 29/06/22 10:15 PM |
| 2 | The only way to success with womenNo shit? Damn I gotta cop me some free girls before everybody else finds out | /r/PurplePillDebate | 29/06/22 10:15 PM |
| 2 | Dance Game Made SimpleWomen definitely love a guy who can dance, it's the dance battle part that got me | /r/seduction | 29/06/22 10:12 PM |
| -1 | Dance Game Made SimpleARE YOU 13 YEARS OLD LMAOOOO | /r/seduction | 28/06/22 03:44 AM |
| 2 | Are there any examples in the present moment of a bachelor tax?I mean this in the nicest way possible but where on EARTH are you getting your info from? | /r/PurplePillDebate | 28/06/22 03:39 AM |
| 4 | The only way to success with womenOh damn you got a collection? | /r/PurplePillDebate | 24/06/22 02:54 AM |
| 7 | The only way to success with womenShit man, I feel bad for your girlfriend | /r/PurplePillDebate | 24/06/22 02:38 AM |
| 11 | The only way to success with womenNo offense dude but your attitude is probably why you're single. Instead of placing the blame on others, try improving yourself. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 24/06/22 02:26 AM |
| 2 | If a man isn't interested in exclusivity/monogamy, how is he supposed to not get labelled a "jerk"?Just be upfront with people you're sleeping with | /r/PurplePillDebate | 21/06/22 12:55 AM |
| 4 | How to connect more with my partner’s friends?Wow that sounds kind of sad actually. I think it's awesome to get along with your partner's friends | /r/RedPillWomen | 20/06/22 02:29 AM |
| 12 | The importance of not oversharing about sexAlso please note: most people don't really want everybody to know about their sex life with their partner. If somebody I was dating was sharing all that shit with their friends I would be hella uncomfortable. | /r/RedPillWomen | 07/06/22 07:51 PM |
| 1 | Signs of the wall? Men stay staying thin isnt enough so what else?ohh thank you | /r/RedPillWomen | 31/05/22 07:36 PM |
| 2 | Signs of the wall? Men stay staying thin isnt enough so what else?what's TRP? | /r/RedPillWomen | 30/05/22 07:15 PM |
| 7 | Where do you ladies fall on the trad wife to modern wife spectrum?Not married, have no intention of being married (as of right now, this might change, who knows?) but I'd say 80% modern 20% trad. | /r/RedPillWomen | 05/04/22 07:07 PM |
| 2 | I was a “hardcore”, liberal feministMy take as a hard-core (ish? Maybe more like...medium-core?) not-really-liberal sort-of feminist. Medium-core leftist egalitarian, if you will. I don't think that there is one specific "right way" to do things. Different people want different things, and not everybody is at the same stage in life. Judging others for having different goals and interests than you does much more harm than good, both for you and for them. Marriage is probably a scam. I sort of understand where people are coming fr… | /r/RedPillWomen | 28/03/22 09:08 PM |
| 3 | Man's the asshole for asking his wife to dress up for one date nightOh he's DEFINITELY the asshole | /r/RedPillWomen | 16/03/22 04:13 PM |
| 6 | I [32M] would love to hear your perspective!In my opinion, there isn't anything wrong with being a tomboy or disliking girly things. You can't force someone to enjoy things that they don't like. If you feel like your wife is not listening to you when you express your emotions or opinions, it is up to you to start a mature, TWO-SIDED discussion about your relationship. You don't have the right to just "rip the reigns of control away from her". A relationship involves compromise and discussion. No offense, but you sound extremely childish a… | /r/RedPillWomen | 14/03/22 08:21 PM |
| 2 | Starting to become afraid of having kids, because I'll be an older mom (30F)My mom had me when she was 39, and now I'm 16 with no health problems related to her age! | /r/RedPillWomen | 22/02/22 01:07 PM |
| 2 | Crotch Goblin ~ Fur BabiesOkay, I'll rephrase that: children are a MASSIVE commitment. There is nothing wrong with having children, but it's important to make sure that you are 100% prepared and able to financially and emotionally care for your children. 18 years is a very long time. | /r/RedPillWomen | 19/02/22 07:39 PM |
| 13 | Crotch Goblin ~ Fur BabiesHaving a child is considered risky and permanent because it is, in fact, both risky and permanent. A pet is not the same thing as a child. | /r/RedPillWomen | 15/02/22 09:19 PM |
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