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| 7 | Man you guys are always right.You’re starting to wake up a little—and that’s a good thing. But be careful… swinging from “I’ll do anything for her” to “forget her” can still put her in control of how you move. Taking care of your kids and yourself—that’s the right direction. Over-giving, hoping she’ll respond differently… that’ll drain you. I did that too. Thought if I just did more, gave more, showed more… it might change something. It didn’t. Do what’s fair. Not what earns approval. You’re not wrong for wanting peace. Just… | /r/Divorce_Men | 26/03/26 02:57 PM |
| 10 | It hit me hard againYeah… that hit is real. You didn’t imagine those 15 years. It was real. You mattered. You still do. But right now you’re measuring your worth by her response—and she’s not capable of giving you what you’re looking for. Whether it’s guilt, avoidance, or just how she’s wired… you’re not going to get closure from her. And chasing that will just keep reopening the wound. I remember asking those same questions—was any of it real? did I matter? What I had to learn the hard way is this: her ability to … | /r/Divorce_Men | 26/03/26 02:52 PM |
| 1 | Divorced dads, have any of you opted for every other weekend with the kids?Thank you so much! Back then they were three and six. Today they are adults and beautiful people. It was worth it. 😀 I wrote about it all on my book Single Man Walking Through Divorce. | /r/Divorce_Men | 14/03/26 11:54 PM |
| 3 | Divorced dads, have any of you opted for every other weekend with the kids?I opted for every other weekend and dinner a few times a week because I believe they needed the stability of one home. Plus it gave me windows where I could be fully present when they were with me. No work and nothing else interfering with our time. This didn’t mean I wasn’t part of decisions or weekly life. I showed for lunch at school, went to all their events, etc. but where they slept each night, helped create consistency. I adjusted to them, not them to me. | /r/Divorce_Men | 10/03/26 01:33 AM |
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