gerfcam Archive

Upvotes	Title	Category	Author	Subreddit	Date (UTC)
8	LTR shuts herself off when not getting the comfort she needs		gerfcam	/r/askTRP	15/01/19 02:32 AM
1	On Boundary-Setting		gerfcam	/r/askTRP	26/03/19 08:24 PM

Upvotes	Comment on	Subreddit	Date (UTC)
0	Need Red Pill Advice in my marriage. Considering your fucked up dynamic I think you should start plating girls. You need to stop giving a fuck about what your wife wants	/r/MarriedRedPill	08/04/19 09:32 AM
1	Why do I crave affection more than sex? Do you have low self worth?	/r/askTRP	02/04/19 10:48 PM
1	On Boundary-Setting Maintaining contact with a guy after she admitted he was attractive (my smv is higher, obviously people fancy other people I don’t give a shit about that). But I said a girl who entertains possible options is disrespectful and not worth committing to. She’s insecure as fuck and this behaviour is attention seeking/validation seeking. Not sure how I should have handled it. She’s a valuable addition to my life apart from her terrible self esteem, id rather be fucking chicks who have high self worth…	/r/askTRP	26/03/19 11:26 PM
2	How does a young, inexperienced guy effectively absorb and utilize information on this sub without getting overwhelmed and overly analytical about every little thing. Focus on truly not giving a fuck, that will lead you out of your head. I saw a comment somewhere about putting yourself in the most ridiculous situations way more awkward than talking to people, once your used to that anything else feels minor. I have to say, not giving a fuck has a snowball effect. When I started trying I would be brutally honest all the time, no matter who I was with. “My breath stinks” “man my asshole burns” shit like that. After a while I could literally say anything without…	/r/askTRP	20/03/19 08:36 PM
3	Believe I mate guarded at party, disappointed in myself and girlfriend. how to handle this? Mate guard? More so sounds like you’re insecure about your pecker	/r/askTRP	16/03/19 01:42 PM
2	Sugar addiction Long walks on the beach.	/r/askTRP	07/03/19 08:59 PM
1	Virgin girl? That’s weak. Why did you do that?	/r/askTRP	07/03/19 08:18 PM
1	Virgin girl? Showing her your tinder date seems like you were trying to make her jealous	/r/askTRP	07/03/19 04:08 PM
1	Texting 2/3 Explain your logic. How on earth does your situational nude smv scanner system work	/r/askTRP	03/03/19 04:27 PM
1	Did I escalate too fast? You should have waited for her to contact you first	/r/askTRP	02/03/19 08:42 PM
1	22M just had my second date ever as an adult. What did I do right/wrong? May need to up the push pull contrast. From what you included it seems like you were constantly pulling. If she doesn’t respond to kino stay relaxed and withdraw attention	/r/askTRP	01/03/19 06:38 PM
2	Got easier sex by expressing emotions during the act? That is the wrong goal, focus on self improvement first and foremost, develop a strong frame etc. You can’t guarantee anything. If you’re on the right track you will not give a fuck what happens, that is the position you should be aiming for	/r/askTRP	22/02/19 09:19 AM
5	Got easier sex by expressing emotions during the act? During the act is probably the only acceptable time, she’s got to associate love with sex	/r/askTRP	21/02/19 09:02 AM
1	Had a date set with potential hookup, but then she tells me this on the day of? Sounds like she’s attention seeking. Let her do the work, if not, fuck it	/r/askTRP	21/02/19 01:07 AM
1	Literally what do you talk about with girls/people? Read more books you find interesting, increase your vocab. Memory can be exercised. It’s easy for introverts to be stuck in their own head when talking to someone, it takes some mindfulness but try and be more present in conversation, focus on what is being said instead of what you might be said	/r/askTRP	19/02/19 10:49 PM
2	Girl I orbited drove 300 miles one way to sleep with me. TRP lessons work, let everyone on the outside call them whatever they like. This advice works. What happened with your dad and his plate	/r/TheRedPill	14/02/19 01:27 AM
2	Women will prove AWALT out of nowhere. Sounds like you were her beta provider. If you're the best man your girl can get she won't cheat on you. You were to invested. Good for you it's over, now is the time to work on yourself	/r/TheRedPill	13/02/19 01:40 AM
1	When you’re in an LTR and you break up with her, she brings out the ‘suicide’ card. What will you do? Your sub conscience is more important	/r/askTRP	12/02/19 12:01 AM
1	If you're in an LTR and the girl starts to not give you as much attention, what do you do? Cultivate other options. Firstly you shouldn’t have got lazy and boring, and you need abundance so you don’t give a fuck. She will obviously sense the neediness and lose attraction	/r/askTRP	09/02/19 02:33 AM
19	Girl called it off over text. Her friend is hot tho No leave it how it is. Ghost her but still try game the friend. If you say that to her it’ll look like you’re weak trying to make her jealous	/r/askTRP	09/02/19 02:24 AM
1	Midlife crisis at 28? Move to London.	/r/askTRP	08/02/19 10:36 AM
2	Curious on what advice trp men will give me for attachment styles... It’s a girl	/r/askTRP	06/02/19 01:40 AM
2	How to prevent jealous behaviour in a LTR Maybe you’re failing comfort tests. In a LTR you need to distinguish between shit tests and comfort tests, and pass both. Jealousy is beneficial to an extent. But she’ll become more insecure without comfort	/r/askTRP	03/02/19 06:00 PM
1	If your female mates make a point of telling you you’re attractive, does it actually indicate that you’re attractive to women in general? You’re in control of your smv. Improve yourself and if your smv goes up you will notice changes in how women act around you. Doesn’t matter about appearance, you can be ripped but have shit confidence and social skills which will knock your attractiveness down	/r/askTRP	29/01/19 01:23 AM
1	If your female mates make a point of telling you you’re attractive, does it actually indicate that you’re attractive to women in general? Appearance doesn’t matter much if you have confidence. Lifting = muscles = power. Women are attracted to power. Cultivate power and looks do not matter.	/r/askTRP	27/01/19 11:21 PM
2	LTR shuts herself off when not getting the comfort she needs My thoughts	/r/askTRP	15/01/19 02:14 PM
-3	Can you truly become redpill without having your heart broken by a girl? You might be a psychopath	/r/askTRP	19/12/18 04:34 PM