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| 1 | Does anyone else get socially awkward or even “depressed” when they haven’t been to the gym in a while?I’m not good at time management. I’m at a US MD school so by that time I catch up with one block of exams, the next one is already in 6 days and I have 15 lectures to catch up on lol. These last 4 weeks were crazy cause of Christmas break. I’ll have to use the start of the new block in February to stay on top on school since I’m already behind now and need to hit the lectures for 15 hours a day at least until this block is over | /r/askTRP | 12/01/19 02:53 AM |
| 2 | Does anyone else get socially awkward or even “depressed” when they haven’t been to the gym in a while?Yeah this is what I’m feeling to. I don’t have a “presence” like I did at the beginning of the school year when my scheduled allotted gym time. | /r/askTRP | 12/01/19 02:49 AM |
| 2 | Does anyone else get socially awkward or even “depressed” when they haven’t been to the gym in a while?Honestly I had zero confidence before I lifted. I was a “ try-hard” when it came to being funny or making friends. And when it didn’t work, I isolated myself in my room for most of my college life. I’ve been like 135lbs at 6 foot my whole life before I started working out at 23 years old. It was severe skinniness that held me back all my years prior. And since I’m naturally so skinny, in these 4 weeks off, I’ve lost 10lbs. But now when people who I knew in college see me, they say “you’ve change… | /r/askTRP | 12/01/19 02:48 AM |
| 1 | What’s the deal with so many people in the same school on dating apps?Yeah but in med school, they’re too busy to be hoeing around lol. Plus a lot of people are older or more “mature” I guess. | /r/askTRP | 13/12/18 01:27 PM |
| 3 | JackedBro wtf. Hahahaha Just put protein powder like normal people lmao | /r/askTRP | 12/12/18 02:58 AM |
| 3 | Trp changed my lifeDude I can’t bring myself to use apps. Even though I know I should in order to gain more experience and I actually enjoy going on dates so I know it would fun. It just feels awkward since I’m gonna see my entire school and classmates in it lol | /r/askTRP | 07/12/18 01:54 AM |
| 1 | If you guys had to choose what is the number one most important thing I could change to start getting more woman? Maintaining frame?I never got this statement. If someone doesn't actively seek women, they just won't ever meet someone. I've always been the guy that never tried to get or attract women. I just became friends with them right off the bat. And it's fucked shit up for me because I don't know how to be non-friendly / sexual with a girl since I kept "focusing on things other than women" lol. | /r/askTRP | 20/09/18 10:02 PM |
| 1 | Kind of a stupid question......but is the game plan to get with girls who are more conservative different than your ordinary college chick???I'm with you on the fact that homegirls' comment was a bit too unrealistic. But the sidebar doesn't do jack shit for girls who are going to be earning six-figs themselves AND come from religious backgrounds, or Asian backgrounds. Whiteboys and black dudes (ie non-Asians/Arabs) NEVER get it. It's a different ball-game for trying to get a girl who grew up in a conservative household (and I mean foreign conservative, not American conservative). | /r/askTRP | 19/08/18 07:08 AM |
| 1 | Kind of a stupid question......but is the game plan to get with girls who are more conservative different than your ordinary college chick???I'm gonna try the usual "redpill" approach with a pharmacy chick I have my eyes on, but I can bet money it won't work. These aren't your usual millennial thots. They have reputations and careers that they are worried about. Behind closed doors, they are just like any other girl. It's getting them behind those doors that takes a different approach than your usual 20-something year old. | /r/askTRP | 19/08/18 07:03 AM |
| 1 | She says LJBF, I shot it down, she contacts me again, now whatGeez this sounds similar to my ex. She was muslim, I'm caucasian American. We actually did LTR though for 7 months, but when Ramadan came, she only hung out with me at night (which makes sense), but didn't do anything past making out. Then when it was getting serious, she hit me with the "I can't be with a non-muslim. My parents will hate me." And bounced. But she wants to remain friends and still texts me a year later. | /r/askTRP | 05/06/18 06:19 PM |
| 1 | Skinny Guy Bulking DilemmaThe hormones in milk are made to make a big ass baby cow turn into a bigger ass adult cow. They are NOT meant for humans to consume and it can aggravate inflammation and acne and GI issues is a lot of people. Actually, only a certain ethnic group from Europe I think it is actually has the gene to consume lactose. The rest of us, we are just winging it and hoping for the best. The dairy lobby/industry has us believe it's so good for us and our bones, but just logically speaking, does it not sound… | /r/askTRP | 26/05/18 06:05 AM |
| 1 | Skinny Guy Bulking DilemmaMake sure they are pasteurized though. Raw eggs don't have as much bioavailable protein as cooked/heated eggs. | /r/askTRP | 25/05/18 04:39 AM |
| 6 | Skinny Guy Bulking DilemmaBring on the acne and the stomach pain lol | /r/askTRP | 25/05/18 04:38 AM |
| 0 | Ex-girlfriend said that "I'm a great guy and any girl will be lucky to have me"...Watch, the second I get another LTR, she's gonna come start hitting me up again and all of a sudden, the "attraction" will be back on her end. haha. | /r/askTRP | 15/05/18 10:29 PM |
| 1 | Ex-girlfriend said that "I'm a great guy and any girl will be lucky to have me"...I don't get that. I was no contact with her for 8 months after she left. She was the first one to re-initiate contact (even after I ignored 4 of her texts over 2 months when I was with another girl). Like I said, I am the better looking one, the more educated one, the more fit one, and the one who will be making more $$ than her. She's a PA student (I'm a med student), so she's smart enough to know where I will be in the "hierarchy" of society. And she STILL denied me. I'm confused because my ot… | /r/askTRP | 15/05/18 10:26 PM |
| 1 | Ex-girlfriend said that "I'm a great guy and any girl will be lucky to have me"...Hmm that could be it. She shouldn't be fucking asking me out to dinner than if she has another man back at her school. What the fuck is she thinking asking an EX out to dinner LMAO. Whoever he is, I hope he follows TRP cause I would be pissed if my girl would went to dinner with her EX. | /r/askTRP | 15/05/18 10:14 PM |
| -6 | Ex-girlfriend said that "I'm a great guy and any girl will be lucky to have me"...It's not scarcity. I have dated a few other girls since we broke up last year and I went into that relationship knowing it was temporary for religious reasons anyways. I'm more concerned with the TRP principals of "SMV" and hypergamy, and AWALT NOT being true in this case. Figured I'd ask and learn what I can since I was caught off guard on her denying me. lol | /r/askTRP | 15/05/18 10:10 PM |
| 1 | Need help. Extremely depressed. Not suicidal but close. Anyone have advice on how I can pick up the pieces and move on.I went through this once. All the symptoms too. I literally could NOT sleep, skipped gym, cried a lil in the shower (lol). Anyways, you're gonna be depressed for at least a couple of months. That's just normal. Take it a day at a time. I have a theory as to what happened (since it happened to me). Is she muslim, mormon, or from some other strict cult-like religion? If not her, than her family? Or is she some type of south asian or middle easterner? | /r/askTRP | 09/05/18 04:02 PM |
| 1 | WOW! I accidentally saw an instagram story that contained my ex and her new guy and it actually bummed me out...LOL. Naw I'm not the least bit intimidated by him. I've got at least 15 lbs of muscle on him (he's a skinny stereotypical med school nerd that doesn't lift) and I would say I'm more conventionally attractive than him. I know damn well she won't think he's more manly than me. I know this girl. He must be the same religion as her so she's settling because it's either that or her parents will arrange her. | /r/askTRP | 09/05/18 03:53 PM |
| 1 | Getting insulted/comments the more I try to improve myself. What does it mean? Also, advice on growing thicker skin is appreciatedStrangers don't just insult people at random like that. lol Are you sure you heard them right or were they even talking to you? | /r/askTRP | 09/05/18 03:47 PM |
| 2 | adding girls "Snapchats" from bios. A creepy or easy way in?It's literally human-nature to care what people think. You have to care what people think. Everything in the world (business, advertisement, relationships, fitness, education, literally everything) would stop functioning if a DGAF attitude was universal. | /r/askTRP | 08/05/18 04:23 PM |
| 2 | adding girls "Snapchats" from bios. A creepy or easy way in?What do you mean gay? hhahahha you can't just "turn" gay LMAO | /r/askTRP | 08/05/18 03:47 PM |
| 1 | Getting insulted/comments the more I try to improve myself. What does it mean? Also, advice on growing thicker skin is appreciatedUmmmm dude. This is a good thing. They are teasing you like children tease their crushes. Also, they are trying to "bring you down to their level" in a sense, which is basically "negging". Meaning, she thinks you are better looking than her. These are all good things. If girls are straight up making fun of you, in a derogatory manner, you will know. Think of these as a form of "You're not as charming as you think you are" type of comments. It means you're charming. hahha | /r/askTRP | 08/05/18 03:35 PM |
| 5 | adding girls "Snapchats" from bios. A creepy or easy way in?This is why social media sucks for everyone around. Even the girls, they just don't realize it. Their brains are literally changing and getting addicted to the dopamine hits from new notifications and compliments that they get on just one app. Then they get addicted and need ANOTHER app to get even more validation. After that, who knows what could happen. We are just in the beginning stages of this new connected world and the final outcomes are just unknown. Not to mention it makes average and s… | /r/askTRP | 08/05/18 03:20 PM |
| 1 | Dealing with racist jokes and breaking frameHow bad are these jokes? I'm not gonna lie, I always make racially-based / stereo-typed based jokes on my black friends, indian, arab, muslim, white, it doesn't really matter. Even new people I meet, I'll tease them on shit. It's never malicious and they know that. It's how you say it vs what you say when your messing around with other dudes your age. | /r/askTRP | 08/05/18 03:09 PM |
| 1 | WOW! I accidentally saw an instagram story that contained my ex and her new guy and it actually bummed me out...I'm not even gonna disagree. | /r/askTRP | 06/05/18 09:29 PM |
| 1 | WOW! I accidentally saw an instagram story that contained my ex and her new guy and it actually bummed me out...hahahaahah I'll give you the first 3. But in regards to the last one, she doesn't have social media AT ALL so theres nothing to really block other than her phone number. But we don't talk all that much. Which actually makes me curious as to why she would hit me up to say hello and how my application is going when she is dating another dude. She literally hit me up out of the blue after 9 months NC as if we were just the same old buddies lol. | /r/askTRP | 06/05/18 09:03 PM |
| 1 | WOW! I accidentally saw an instagram story that contained my ex and her new guy and it actually bummed me out...YES!!! Exactly. It doesn't even matter how many other girls I am seeing or hooked up with. It's the fact that I had a taste of a decent relationship as you say that makes it harder to move on. I feel like I have moved on, but I guess not. | /r/askTRP | 06/05/18 08:22 PM |
| 1 | WOW! I accidentally saw an instagram story that contained my ex and her new guy and it actually bummed me out...Well I do that with most flings. But I've been friends (I was friend zoned like a motherfucker with her lol) with this chick for 4 years. We just started hooking up one night out in summer of 2016, and then LTR'd until summer 2017. And it wasn't a "bad" breakup or the usual cheating, lying, stealing BS that occurs with women a lot. She just moved for med school and was part of a religion that doesn't allow her to date or marry men from other religions....So we just ended it like adults and decid… | /r/askTRP | 06/05/18 08:21 PM |
| 1 | WOW! I accidentally saw an instagram story that contained my ex and her new guy and it actually bummed me out...She doesn't have social media. It's her friends that became my friends whom i have on insta and facebook. But yeah, I'm thinking if its bugging me this much now, I can't even imagine how its gonna be when I am there, with her and him everyday. lol I really thought I was over the whole thing. Like not even a little bit vested, that's why it's so confusing as to why I am affected by it. You seem to understand though. It's shitty. haha | /r/askTRP | 06/05/18 08:12 PM |
| 1 | Where do you find feminine women?Mormon girls and muslim girls fit your criteria. It's just hard to sleep with them and ESPECIALLY hard to LTR/wife them up due to their fear of family. But they definitely fit the bill. | /r/askTRP | 06/05/18 06:29 AM |
| 1 | Things to focus on as a bald 20 year oldAre you saying that being bulky is more beneficial for bald men (soon to be me) than having decent muscle AND being lean as fuck? | /r/askTRP | 06/05/18 06:27 AM |
| 1 | Should I go to law school?You make more now than most lawyers so.... Shit, you make more than most doctors and they are like 30-35 when they START their first attending gig. | /r/askTRP | 06/05/18 01:15 AM |
| 1 | For muslim trpers what have you done in regards to marriage?Yeah, some muslims don't take the Quran/Hadiths to heart. They are smart enough to just use them as a guideline or just as a cultural identity. Real religious, practicing muslims are usually assholes who read the verses in the Quran that say you can beat your wife (Surah An Nisa [4:34] google it if you don't believe me), or hadiths that say you can keep sex slaves as long they are not muslims, or how about killing their daughters for dating (look up fbi top ten most wanted and the arab dude Yase… | /r/askTRP | 04/05/18 05:05 PM |
| 3 | For muslim trpers what have you done in regards to marriage?And where do you think those parents got their ideas of parenting from? Unlike other religions (which are also whack btw), Islam uses the Quran and the Hadiths to a literal level, instead of just interpretations of them, or just using them as guidelines. Arab and Pakistani culture is VERY VERY heavily influenced by islam. Those kids are being mistreated because of Islams influence on the culture. It's not just cultural, or else the Christian Lebanese and the Coptic Egyptians would also be pissed… | /r/askTRP | 04/05/18 04:55 PM |
| 5 | For muslim trpers what have you done in regards to marriage?Cause islam is whack. And it's got too many rules and has to much negativity attached to it nowadays. Check out r/exmuslim. How can anyone stand behind a religion that still has female clit removals in some parts of the world, or a religions that doesn't allow its women to date or marry non-muslims. How about the girls dating non-muslims who are terrified of their parents beating the shit out of them or their fathers killing them. It's just too much and not worth it. | /r/askTRP | 04/05/18 06:13 AM |
| 1 | Making a girl that's been travelling a LTRI know you were exaggerating some. lol I just don't ask. I don't wanna know that shit. hahaha I would say the only ones where your last statement does not apply is muslim and south asian women that actually LIVE IN their own countries. They are super duper sheltered 99.9% of the time. I've been to India, Dubai, and Qatar many many times. Those girls aint doing shit. lol | /r/askTRP | 02/05/18 08:09 PM |
| 1 | Making a girl that's been travelling a LTRYes. My family has businesses in a couple African countries, Dubai, and London. I've been to all of them multiple times for work and to hang out after I finish my shit. I get that girls like to let loose on vacation, but it ain't spring break every vacation. lol | /r/askTRP | 02/05/18 08:00 PM |
| 1 | Making a girl that's been travelling a LTR27 You're describing hood rat, ratchet chicks. lol yeah a lot of girls have a slutty side to them, but it's not "hundreds of loads of cum, since 15, etc." LOL And that slutty side only comes out for certain men. Like maybe 5 in their lifetime if they grew up in a normal home without daddy issues. I feel like you and other dudes who say shit like this about women ONLY go after the ratchet hoes and that's why y'all views are warped. In a normal middle class and up community, it ain't like this hah… | /r/askTRP | 02/05/18 07:57 PM |
| 1 | Dating a muslim girl?I would ask if she is willing to leave the religion altogether just as a test to see how serious she is about you. Obviously she will say no but it might make her see how ridiculous she sounds if she ever asks you to convert. HOWEVER, Non-muslims fake convert all the time. It's just a prayer at the mosque and then they get married and the guy goes back to being a normal Westerner. Doesn't pray or stop drinking or eating pork or anything. He just acts respectful around her family. She has to be c… | /r/askTRP | 02/05/18 07:52 PM |
| 1 | Making a girl that's been travelling a LTRNone of this is true. Y'all tripping. | /r/askTRP | 02/05/18 07:31 PM |
| 1 | Making a girl that's been travelling a LTRWhy do y'all assume girls are just going around fucking everyone? hahah | /r/askTRP | 02/05/18 07:30 PM |
| 1 | Dating a muslim girl?I dated a muslim girl for 7 months. She was not experienced with anything sexual at all even at 25 years old. lol I had to talk her through how to suck my dick LMAO. But anyways, I really really liked her but she said we could never be anything real because she's not willing to leave her family, which would be required if she were to date or marry a non-muslim man. We also couldn't tell anyone about our relationship, even our own friends, although they figured it out when we started showing up e… | /r/askTRP | 02/05/18 07:26 PM |
| 1 | How do I stop looking needy when girls are around?What if he himself is a 5/10. lol Then your plan won't work. He just needs to go down a couple of points compared to him. That could be 3's or 7's, just depends on him. | /r/askTRP | 02/05/18 04:48 AM |
| 1 | How life changed after growing muscles and getting bigger. A lesson for everyone swallowing the pilloh hell no. People that are that big look weird as hell. hahah. 180 at 10% BF is probably the most aesthetically pleasing look I want to aim for. Think soccer player bod, not bradley martyn lol. | /r/TheRedPill | 30/04/18 04:21 PM |
| 5 | How life changed after growing muscles and getting bigger. A lesson for everyone swallowing the pillALL my friends began lifting at like 17. I didn't start til I was 24. They all have been getting girls, having fun at day clubs in Vegas and shit for years now, while I was the 130 lbs 6' guy that was too embarrassed to go to any pool party because I was so skinny. I was also scared of going to the gym for a long long time because I don't know what I was doing and felt like people would laugh at me. Now I weight 164 lbs at about 14% BF and I feel so much better mentally, let alone physically. | /r/TheRedPill | 29/04/18 05:29 PM |
| 1 | Advice for a dude that basically has no real friends to do "nothing" with anymore.Yeah that actually makes a lot of sense. It seems like alot of people lost their core group after graduation. I'll be at a school with 20,000 students in August so I'll make more friends there but for now, I'm stuck here still. lol | /r/askTRP | 28/04/18 08:01 PM |
| 1 | Advice for a dude that basically has no real friends to do "nothing" with anymore.I don't get invited because they all closer to LA and I'm about 40 minutes east. I have met a ton of there frat friends and regular friends and we all get along and have a great time when the big events like parties and birthdays come around. I even used to go to their frat houses at 3 different schools around socal and hang to. It's just that once they all graduated, they tend to do there own thing only with their local friends. | /r/askTRP | 28/04/18 08:00 PM |
| 4 | Sick of shit friends, how do I make decent friends?Do people actually use it and show up and all that good stuff? And is it usually socially awkward people only or ? | /r/askTRP | 28/04/18 07:47 PM |
| 2 | I just read this story about a man losing his wife and it made me think about how TRP may not be the way I want to live my life...Well from the sounds of it, she is NOT doing anything at all for him. He is being a real man on his own and not expecting a single thing in return. She is bed-ridden and I'm assuming incontinent too if its gotten to this point. That's why I respect the hell out of him for staying. It's not a fairy tale. People don't have terminal tumors in fairy tales. | /r/askTRP | 24/04/18 09:31 PM |
| 1 | I'm seeing alot of super hot middle eastern chicks on instagram married to fat, ugly, and/or balding men.I know what your talking about. tagthesponsor. I'm talking about married women. not insta hoes. Those are just rich arabs dudes flying american chicks over to fuck | /r/askTRP | 15/04/18 01:51 AM |
| 1 | I'm seeing alot of super hot middle eastern chicks on instagram married to fat, ugly, and/or balding men.These women are American though. Just ethnically ME. American Arabs are usually rich as fuck already so I don't think money is a factor. In basically all cultures except Western, it's not uncommon for mommy and daddy to take care of you indefinitely. | /r/askTRP | 14/04/18 09:14 PM |
| 1 | Has anyone here ever not gotten over their ex-girl/fling/fwb????Not crazy at all. She's muslim and I think since she's getting older, she's becoming more religious. Dating is super forbidden in islam, let alone kissing, sex, etc. It's weird because we did all of those "forbidden" things but I highly doubt it'll happen again. She starting consistently going to mosque now from what I have been told by mutual friends, and she completely stopped drinking alcohol or eating at any place that serves pork. I must've had her when she was going through a rebellious ph… | /r/askTRP | 13/04/18 04:55 PM |
| 2 | Has anyone here ever not gotten over their ex-girl/fling/fwb????Y'all hang out that much still and don't hookup or go do "date"-like activities? lol Me and my ex are both moving to the same grad school out of state and she hit me up after 8 months no-contact to say she wants to hang out and go exploring/sight-seeing there. I can't get away from her even if I am literally moving out of state. hahahahah. | /r/askTRP | 12/04/18 11:46 PM |
| 1 | Has anyone here ever not gotten over their ex-girl/fling/fwb????You're probably like 15. You will one day want to settle down and live a "normal" married life too. It's just the next step. I'm also and only child and only grandchild so I want to have kids soon too or else my blood line will die off lol. | /r/askTRP | 12/04/18 10:16 PM |
| 1 | Has anyone here ever not gotten over their ex-girl/fling/fwb????WE were 110% compatible. It's her religion and family that isn't compatible with us. lol Here's the kicker, we are both starting at the same grad school this summer (sheer coincidence) so I will have no choice but to see her EVERYDAY hahahaha. We have been no-contact for these 8 months, but she found out that I am going to her school too and she's been hitting up wanting to get dinner and go sight-seeing when we move there. I don't think she is over it either because it's weird for her to hit me… | /r/askTRP | 12/04/18 07:02 PM |
| 1 | Has anyone here ever not gotten over their ex-girl/fling/fwb????lol lowkey me too. But I'm at that age where every girl is a potential wife and not just a girl to date or fuck around with. I'm trying to get that dual income household damn it. hahahah | /r/askTRP | 12/04/18 06:57 PM |
| 7 | Has anyone here ever not gotten over their ex-girl/fling/fwb????hahaha I know AWALT is a HUGE aspect of TRP. But, I really think cultural and/or religious backgrounds HAVE to be taken into account. Muslim girls (atleast the ones who are semi-to-full on followers) are a little bit different. Everything I've read over the years on here about women and shit tests and everything else never happened with her. It's weird, but it's true haha. I think that's what got me. It something different that I never experienced before. | /r/askTRP | 12/04/18 05:34 PM |
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