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| 105 | "What if men aren’t lonely in defiance of their status as oppressors – what if they’re lonely because of that status?" -Joseph Earp | General | gettin_paid_to_poop | /r/MensRights | 13/06/23 11:01 PM |
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| 1 | Selfish ??https://youtube.com/shorts/ZhxqK1vVE18?si=hYXiQ8-kAY4GfsXQ | /r/MensRights | 11/09/24 11:32 PM |
| 30 | Female teachers discriminate against boys when grading, give girls unfairly higher grades than boys.less tolerant More like your life is going terribly because of your horrible personality | /r/MensRights | 02/09/24 10:38 PM |
| 5 | UK: I raised my son Winston as a feminist. It breaks my heart that today's young women treat him as toxic for just being male - while men are cancelled and belittledThat's the part I most wanted to respond too as well. It's mad they've repeated this lie until it has become a fact for them. | /r/MensRights | 01/08/24 07:45 PM |
| 36 | Women to be able to avoid sitting next to men, on IndiGo flights.*anyone who identifies as a woman Which is a different conversation in itself | /r/MensRights | 31/07/24 02:16 PM |
| 2 | What are some examples of feminine manipulation that you know of?That is the problem yeah. At least the initial one. The larger problem is that those irrational feelings/actions are then validated somehow. Either by her online audience or (imo worse) people she's close to IRL. And the reason for that larger problem should be studied & understood. IMO it's because of something like- the current culture does not allow us to push back and say "hey, no that's wrong", because the past decade or so has been all about validating their feelings without taking the tim… | /r/MensRights | 29/07/24 08:13 PM |
| 4 | What are some examples of feminine manipulation that you know of?Yeah it sucks. The idea of being 5 years into marriage with kids, and finding out my wife has one of those parent shaming tok tok account sharing very personal and one sided takes of my behaviour is pretty scary to me. Not just because of the disrespect from her (and probable consequences of that- divorce), but also the reputation destruction. Specifically regarding the example I gave in #2, I can think of examples of my sister acting this way when we were very young... She would be the last rea… | /r/MensRights | 29/07/24 11:54 AM |
| 3 | What are some examples of feminine manipulation that you know of?You've really nailed it lol that's exactly my experience... Recently I managed to make progress in that I tried to collate all the things they did that upset me and I was able to see that I was valid in being upset by these things... I had internalised that the problem was my anger/reaction to their behaviour. Having that feeling really helped me to be more at peace. One part I'm still stuck on is working out if I can call it manipulation... I think because initially I thought manipulation requi… | /r/MensRights | 29/07/24 11:46 AM |
| 2 | What are some examples of feminine manipulation that you know of?Yeah it's a real problem for me, one of many situations that happen regularly in my family and has contributed to me considering going no contact. | /r/MensRights | 29/07/24 11:28 AM |
| 15 | What are some examples of feminine manipulation that you know of?Some examples from my personal experience with family members... 1) They will offer you a choice, but secretly want/expect you to pick one specific option (usually because they want the other one)... When you don't pick the one they expect, their desire to get what they want trumps their need to play these games. And you asking them to not do this is apparently more rude than their behaviour. Example: Her: "We have 2, would you like red or blue?" Me: "Red please" Her: "... actually... I'd quite … | /r/MensRights | 29/07/24 10:17 AM |
| 6 | Role modelDo you have a link to that? I'd heard about the original but not that error | /r/MensRights | 19/07/24 05:46 PM |
| 2 | The Gendered Killing of Men and the Double Standard of itI read this in a Charlie the unicorn voice 😂 | /r/MensRights | 12/07/24 10:28 AM |
| 1 | The most toxic form of femininity is women’s refusal to acknowledge or call out poor behavior from their own genderI've seen many cases online and a few irl where there were very obvious signs that a certain guy wasn't going to treat them well. Does he regularly gets into fights and seems to pick weaker people to physically intimate/bully? Then he'll probably do the same to a girlfriend... Does he openly admit to cheating on his last few partners and seems to not really show remorse for it? Then he'll probably cheat again... Does he have 2 or more kids by different mothers? Then he'll probably pressure you i… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 10/07/24 09:46 PM |
| 3 | When did you realize that you aren't the problem?First of all I'm very sorry to hear about your friend. It really sucks to lose someone and I sincerely hope you're doing OK. I'm also glad that you got some kind words from a colleague. It can make a huge difference to know someone both doesn't judge you and wishes you well, and thinks you're doing a good job. To answer the title question - when did you realise you aren't the problem - I think I first realised there was a problem with the "feminist agenda" a few months after I was exposed to fem… | /r/MensRights | 05/07/24 07:52 PM |
| 7 | The rage gap. Women repressing their rage is ruining their lives.I won't deny that. But in my experience it's more likely to be women doing this, or at least it's more likely for others to tell her she does nothing wrong when she does this. Whereas if it's a guy doing it people will tell him he isn't communicating well. | /r/MensRights | 05/07/24 05:17 PM |
| 13 | The rage gap. Women repressing their rage is ruining their lives.The examples I can think of include women in relationships who will hold their tongue when something bothers them, so they don't communicate their wants or issues clearly. This then becomes anger which they vent to their friends, colleagues & family (even online- see partner shaming videos), and they also seem to think somehow this should be solving the problem... So inevitably when it does not cause their partner to change they repeat the cycle and get more and more worked up in the process... … | /r/MensRights | 05/07/24 05:04 PM |
| 2 | I guess it's becoming openly acceptable now to list jobs looking only for womenThe CIA | /r/MensRights | 20/06/24 08:28 AM |
| -1 | Why don't woman call each other out more?Close social circles tend to have people who have some shared values, so there are high chances that they do agree with their delusional friends. The same goes to online communities. Agreed Although, depending on the content I can see quite a lot of negative comments from women towards other women. ...but the post was about "why don't women call each other out?", not "why aren't women mean to each other?". Women don't call each other out/hold each other accountable because they don't want the sa… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 17/06/24 09:55 AM |
| 8 | CMV: Mandatory paternity tests are a bad ideaExactly lol. How tf can any "empathetic" person have OP's opinion on 2) and 3)... Smh | /r/PurplePillDebate | 16/06/24 09:53 PM |
| 1 | How are you guys? I feel like someone should check in.Thanks buddy 🙂 | /r/MensRights | 14/06/24 03:15 PM |
| 12 | How are you guys? I feel like someone should check in.A mixture. Realising I'm making progress but also that I still have a long way to go. My main current goal is to try to have more consistency in terms of healthy/productive habits. And that in turn helps me reach all my secondary goals, so I'm trying to keep that up. Compared to where I was 4-5 years ago I'm doing so much better (in terms of mental health, emotionally, socially, financially, etc). I am probably not as good physically but it's a work in progress and that's on my list. :) Thanks f… | /r/MensRights | 13/06/24 06:17 PM |
| 3 | Is Dating Really Hard? Or Are People Not Trying Hard Enough and Unwilling to Compromise on Their Standards?Can confirm, I am getting fat and do not approach | /r/PurplePillDebate | 03/06/24 09:55 PM |
| 1 | Can someone neutrally explain the pill ideologies?Yeah true. It's hard to navigate imo because lots of people just take the mainstream narrative (blue pill) of feminist ideas/talking points, and will shut down any conversation attempts to discuss men's issues. | /r/MensRights | 31/05/24 11:26 AM |
| 1 | "Whats going on with emerging white males between the ages of 18-30? They are sleeping all day, gaming all night, hiding from their parents and the world, smoking weed. They don't want to grow up."I'd be interested in any you wanna share | /r/MensRights | 29/05/24 12:05 PM |
| 2 | Can someone neutrally explain the pill ideologies?More examples/notes on red pill below. One of the first examples of incorrect advice guys tend to notice is in dating. Guys are told "just be nice & be yourself", though lots quickly see this does not work and that actually the assholes have more success. They hear women say they can't find a man who earns enough for them, or that isn't educated enough/tall enough/other for them. They find out about hypergamy. They find out about how most marriages end in divorce and that most divorces are initi… | /r/MensRights | 28/05/24 12:15 PM |
| 2 | Can someone neutrally explain the pill ideologies?So most of it has been covered already but I thought I'd add a little bit of my own opinions. Blue pill- is the view that most of us are taught growing up. It's an acceptance of mainstream narratives, and is either ignorant or refuses to acknowledge complex issues where men at victims/have unfair standards forced upon them. It portrays women as victims (both historically and at present), and says men need to change their behaviour to not fall into their toxic masculine behaviours. As with the ma… | /r/MensRights | 28/05/24 12:15 PM |
| 11 | UK: I'm a single, childless and alone female. Feminism has failed me and my generation.Refreshing somewhat, but to me it still felt like it still hasn't quite sunk in for her... My friend Sally, a lovely 55-year-old with eyes the colour of Eau de Nil, once said to me: constantly feel unwanted as a woman because feminism taught us that the traditional female was a stereotype invented by men to keep us down. Accordingly, was anti-men to the point of driving them away. Now, I'm paying for this! Her friend Sally is lovely! Just so lovely she is. Let me describe the colour of her eyes … | /r/MensRights | 20/05/24 11:53 PM |
| 1 | UK: I'm a single, childless and alone female. Feminism has failed me and my generation.Brainwashed maybe but she absolutely had choices. Being single (when she clearly doesn't want to be) at 30, then 35, then 40, then 45, then 50... All of those years she could have taken the time to reflect on her world view, her choices, and whether she should change something about herself... But she never did. She has to take responsibility for that, don't allow her to pass the blame onto her "brainwashing" when it's convenient for her. | /r/MensRights | 20/05/24 11:27 PM |
| 3 | The idea that women put in more effort later on in the relationship isn't true.One case I can think of is where there's a high amount of effort but it's applied to the wrong place. A case where a woman & man are dating, and the man is either not doing something that she wants or is doing something that she doesn't like. I've seen many cases where she hides her feelings on this, then speaks to lots of people about it to vent her feelings & ask for solutions (including her friends, family, coworkers, etc). She gets more and more frustrated by the issue not being resolved, an… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 15/05/24 03:29 PM |
| 1 | Society doesn't seem to care about violence against menThe other response I've heard is: "well you only seem to care about male victims when I bring women who are victims so you're just shooting down an important discussion by saying wHaT aBoUT mEn..." Which is also imo tied for most bs answer. They bring up female victims to support their arguments, with the implication that it is a gendered issue that men don't suffer from... when you try to show them that that is not correct and that this affects men too, they dismiss it. | /r/MensRights | 15/05/24 11:54 AM |
| 1 | When it comes to dating, what's the worst thing about women?You did imply it was about me because you vaguely said "a man", and you were replying to my comment... And I still don't know for sure which comment you mean... Is it this one? https://np.reddit.com/r/PurplePillDebate/s/D2e3YWWQgu You could make it easier for discussion by being more clear | /r/PurplePillDebate | 13/05/24 04:41 PM |
| 1 | When it comes to dating, what's the worst thing about women?Who called who batshit crazy? I didn't | /r/PurplePillDebate | 13/05/24 04:19 PM |
| 1 | When it comes to dating, what's the worst thing about women?I had some thoughts about this question but can't answer at the top level so hope you don't mind if I dunno then here. I have met a number of women (also some men but mostly women) who seem to have managed to go through life without being challenged on their beliefs or held accountable for holding contradictory views/double standards. This makes communications with them incredibly difficult, almost impossible. I feel like I was either taught or intuitively worked out that the above things are wr… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 13/05/24 11:50 AM |
| 3 | When it comes to dating, what's the worst thing about women?Ironically I'm seeing a pattern in these replies 😂 | /r/PurplePillDebate | 13/05/24 12:00 AM |
| 0 | Why women in the U.S. are less satisfied with their jobs than menTrue he didn't say 100%, I could've worded my comment better. The point I was trying to make is saying "women dominate" those fields isn't going to help convince people that articles/attitudes like this are an issue... Instead they'll just say/think mens rights guys over generalise and that we think women are only intelligent enough to have dumb jobs. I push back because I want to be able to call out something I disagree with no matter which side it's on. Supporting someone or a movement isn't a… | /r/MensRights | 09/05/24 05:24 PM |
| -4 | Why women in the U.S. are less satisfied with their jobs than menDude I don't think it's helpful to generalise that much. It might be true for a certain % of the population but it's definitely not true for all women, and phrasing arguments that way will just make the discussion confrontational. Personally I think a better argument would be that the articles like this are biased in that they see any stat like this as an issue that needs to be fixed, but if it were reversed (i.e. men were less satisfied) then they'd call it a win for women (and either imply or … | /r/MensRights | 09/05/24 03:55 PM |
| 9 | Why women in the U.S. are less satisfied with their jobs than menAgreed, I'm not a fan of articles like this that clearly show bias but I'm also not a fan of people saying that most/all women do XYZ or whatever. It makes it so much harder to have important conversations when they start being confrontational with over-generalisations. They should make a case better and not generalise so much. | /r/MensRights | 09/05/24 03:50 PM |
| 23 | Why women in the U.S. are less satisfied with their jobs than menYou can see patterns with these types of articles. If women are perceived as worse off by a certain metric it is deemed to be a problem that needs to be fixed. Whereas if women do better by a certain metric (i.e. meaning men do worse) then it is deemed as a win for "equality"... The double standards are showing. Also is a 5% difference really that significant that it warrants an article/ government funding /initiatives/changes to workplace policies in order to correct it? (Or whatever they're ar… | /r/MensRights | 09/05/24 03:42 PM |
| 5 | Fellow men: why and when did you realize feminists and society are against us?Because they witness this injustice and somehow it's still an uphill battle to convince the average woman that family courts are discriminatory against men... | /r/MensRights | 01/05/24 04:50 PM |
| 1 | Q4Men: what will you do if your daughter is 32 and unmarried and single?Where is that figure from lol. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 27/04/24 04:52 PM |
| 18 | Megan Fox offers her best advice to single women: Don't waste your energy on menWhat was? | /r/MensRights | 16/04/24 02:12 PM |
| 1 | Women’s only parking spacesAccidentally for the boyss | /r/MensRights | 15/04/24 02:20 PM |
| 8 | Women on this sub apply the just world fallacy far too often when it comes to sexThis reads like an AI generated car ad | /r/PurplePillDebate | 12/04/24 10:31 AM |
| 1 | "Whats going on with emerging white males between the ages of 18-30? They are sleeping all day, gaming all night, hiding from their parents and the world, smoking weed. They don't want to grow up."That sounds frustrating. What are the managers/decision makers like? If you were able to demonstrate that certain colleagues weren't pulling their weight or even causing more problems than they fixed... What would be their response do you think? | /r/MensRights | 20/03/24 01:29 PM |
| 6 | "Whats going on with emerging white males between the ages of 18-30? They are sleeping all day, gaming all night, hiding from their parents and the world, smoking weed. They don't want to grow up."Are you US based? I'm in the UK and luckily haven't experienced this at my workplace... We do have some out spoken feminists but (very luckily) they seem to be semi decent in that when they've argued for changes they've actually done a decent job of being equal. E.g. when they campaigned to upper management to improve the maturity policy they also got them to improve the paternity policy. I'd be interested to hear any stories you can share from your job | /r/MensRights | 20/03/24 12:37 PM |
| 2 | Are Situationships for the most part, a result of women not being able to secure men they wish to date?It depends, I don't think you can say it's likely to be as you outlined but that is one of the possible scenarios. Another scenario is that she is in the situation-ship because either she doesn't want to commit to a proper relationship, or because she doesn't want to have the conversation about committing to a proper relationship. I feel your post only outlined the case where a woman is trying to secure the guy as she perceives him as worthy of a relationship. And while that does exist, I believ… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 18/03/24 10:48 PM |
| 4 | Men, how are your emotions used against you?Personally I wouldn't say never show my emotions/open up, as I do believe that in order to have a deep connection you do need to be vulnerable. I'm just very careful about who I do open up to. I've had ex's complain that I didn't share things with them, then when I did they would be supportive at the time... Then next time I made a mistake/we were arguing, they would use what I had shared against me. E.g. I shared an insecurity about {something} and a few days later she was mad at me for being l… | /r/MensRights | 14/03/24 12:30 AM |
| 17 | Reddit's hatred of men makes it so difficult to get relationship adviceAny chance you have a link or can remember more so I could do a search? No worries if not | /r/MensRights | 03/03/24 08:31 PM |
| 2 | Immaturity is a bigger problem with guys than they think.P.S, are you secretly hoe_math? Shh don't tell anyone. Lol nah but I do watch his videos, and part of my previous comment (final paragraph) was referencing one of his videos. My problem is that people pretend that its a global pandemic of these social occurrences all the time due to them being chronically online. Well maybe not a global pandemic but it is a problem spanning multiple countries... more guys than ever are depressed and lonely and that study (admittedly on US data) said something li… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 22/02/24 07:03 AM |
| 5 | Immaturity is a bigger problem with guys than they think.Yeah, it's frustrating for sure. I think part of the issue is that there are no consequences if they (either people here on IRL) choose to dismiss your point of view. They can just glance at each other with a look of "oh boyyy... Didn't realise this guy was a {loser/misogynist/MRA/incel/ insert other name here}... It doesn't even seem to bother most people even given the stats that came out saying something like 60% + of men are not in relationships, which is double the number of women that are … | /r/PurplePillDebate | 22/02/24 06:46 AM |
| – | Immaturity is a bigger problem with guys than they think.The red pill only makes sense if you live in a city where dating is shallow and harsh, like Miami or something. If someone was to tell you that they've experienced this would you believe them or deny it? I have many examples of things like this happening to me, and that's not just for one city or even country. For example I had a "relationship" with this girl (when we were both late teens/early 20s), which was more of a: we hang out all the time, do all the things that couples would do including… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 21/02/24 06:15 PM |
| 1 | Why do women seem to get "the ick" over the most innocuous things these days?It's a combination of things. The main one imo is that the idea of committing to one guy is scary for them (understandably to some extent). Not just because theres a lot of anxiety about picking the wrong person, but also because the dopamine hit you get from someone you've been dating for a few weeks will dwindle compared to the hit you get from the dating apps or Instagram DMs... So this cycle of matching, dating, getting bored and getting on the apps again continues round and round. And inste… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 29/01/24 02:44 AM |
| 10 | "False rape alligations are not real" Oh yeah?What was the mattress girl? | /r/MensRights | 24/12/23 01:49 PM |
| 1 | "No one owes you anything" is another battle women are going to loseSo if I call you a racist but refuse to provide any proof does the accusation stand? | /r/PurplePillDebate | 19/12/23 11:10 AM |
| 1 | "No one owes you anything" is another battle women are going to loseIf I said "your last comment was racist" but there wasn't anything racist in it and then couldn't back it up with any reasons why it was then the accusation can be dismissed. uh no Uh yes... Specifically because of this part: but there wasn't anything racist in it... ...because there wasn't anything attacking her in my comment... but the person calling you out not being able to make a whole argument about why its racist on command thats why i said the best arguer is not necessarily the person wi… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 18/12/23 11:41 PM |
| 1 | "No one owes you anything" is another battle women are going to loseWhere's the logic in accusing me of something that you can't back up? You say it's a personal attack but when asked "which part" you dodge the question or just repeat yourself. That's not logic. assuming that the best arguer = the Truth) I'm not saying this at all. I'm saying you accused me of something and now can't say why you believe that. If I said "your last comment was racist" but there wasn't anything racist in it and then couldn't back it up with any reasons why it was then the accusatio… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 18/12/23 10:59 PM |
| 1 | "No one owes you anything" is another battle women are going to loseI'm critiquing the way she argues... That is critiquing the argument. Once again: which part of my comment was a "personal attack"? If you can't answer the question then just admit you're wrong. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 18/12/23 10:33 PM |
| 1 | "No one owes you anything" is another battle women are going to loseHow? Genuinely, which part is attacking the person? She keeps asking questions that she doesn't actually want to know the answer to. Because when you provide one she is condescending or passive aggressive Can you highlight for me which part is attacking the person? Because I see 1) She keeps asking questions that she doesn't actually want to know the answer to That's attacking the way she argues... Nothing personal. 2) Because when you provide one she is condescending or passive aggressive That … | /r/PurplePillDebate | 18/12/23 08:56 PM |
| 2 | If men want societal safety nets, they need to band together and weather the storm to get them.So you're openly admitting that men have problems but that feminism isn't about to help men, i.e. it isn't about equality... At least we've reached that milestone I guess. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 17/12/23 01:10 AM |
| 1 | "No one owes you anything" is another battle women are going to loseMy comment did attack her argument She keeps asking questions that she doesn't actually want to know the answer to. Because when you provide one she is condescending or passive aggressive That's clearly criticising the way she argues... It's in no way a personal attack (e.g. calling her names) | /r/PurplePillDebate | 16/12/23 10:34 PM |
| 2 | "No one owes you anything" is another battle women are going to loseShe keeps asking questions that she doesn't actually want to know the answer to. Because when you provide one she is condescending or passive aggressive 🤷🏻 #feminism | /r/PurplePillDebate | 12/12/23 04:35 PM |
| – | "No one owes you anything" is another battle women are going to loseCap | /r/PurplePillDebate | 12/12/23 04:33 PM |
| 1 | It doesn’t matter how interested a girl is, they can and will lose interest at the drop of a hat over the most minor thing or sometimes nothing at all. This is the biggest problem in dating that doesn’t receive nearly enough attention.https://youtu.be/KnF4lLWFLmo?si=znFh7rV-vVpzWudl This video discusses a related issue. Most people know how social media is addictive but don't realise dating apps are similar. So that dopamine hit they get from the new match/new conversation can hit harder than the same match irl ... Driving then back to the app to repeat the cycle | /r/PurplePillDebate | 04/12/23 04:46 PM |
| 4 | Why do women get angry at NO?It's the same as when guys get mad when they are told no. Reality didn't match their expectations, rejection stings, and they aren't emotionally healthy enough to deal with their anger in a mature way. I do think there's been a big push in the last 10 years or so to tell men how bad it is to do this... Unfortunately these messages have almost exclusively been aimed at men so lots of women now are unaware that they can/do act in the same way and that they shouldn't do that. | /r/MensRights | 03/12/23 10:34 AM |
| 1 | Found another band that I won't listen to: New Years Day. (Long) Any bands/celebrities do the same to you?Can you point out a song in particular that does that? I haven't listened to it for years & don't remember it too well | /r/MensRights | 02/12/23 09:52 AM |
| – | I think many men want single women to be miserable because it gives them a sense of importance.So your pov seems to be that this content is made for men because there is an audience of men who will watch it because it plays into their "revenge" fantasy that women actually want them and will be sorry when they hit "the wall". I will agree that in some cases they jump to conclusions, e.g. the case where the woman was actually married with kids and uses the filter to see what she looked like as a teenager. However I think you're mistaken to imply that they are wrong/that the guys who watch a… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 29/11/23 12:13 PM |
| – | I think many men want single women to be miserable because it gives them a sense of importance.I strongly disagree. Women cannot sense anything, especially if a guy is toxic and tries to put on a front. That why almost every girl has a “toxic ex” but then after that they get another. Lol gottem. They can't claim both to have "a women's intuition" and also a string of toxic exs. TBF if we think about the audience of these types of videos in OP, I do think that some of those men will be affected by them to the point that they become more outwardly toxic... But that won't be everyone. And wo… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 29/11/23 09:35 AM |
| 2 | Why do so many women think all men want is sex?https://youtu.be/lL13EeEhgag?si=LgFfpEoQEe_xkeYf | /r/MensRights | 24/11/23 07:46 PM |
| 9 | How many of you left the west due to feminism and misandry?Can you give some examples of the kind of things in Australia? | /r/MensRights | 21/11/23 10:09 AM |
| – | The relationship zones video explains why women are self-sabotagingOk that's fair enough, and I'm sure that contributes to the rise in women in that age group taking antidepressants | /r/PurplePillDebate | 18/11/23 10:06 PM |
| – | Do you think there’s a lack of good men?I know right lol. Despite the name he does give criticism of both men and women. ...well, TBF mostly women but he does do both | /r/PurplePillDebate | 18/11/23 05:59 PM |
| – | The relationship zones video explains why women are self-sabotagingNo I was aware of that, but your comment was so vague and incoherent that I couldn't tell you were referencing that study. You clearly have no interest in a good faith discussion, you don't respond to the majority of my points, you just dismiss them or falsely claim you've disproved them. You're a troll. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 18/11/23 05:15 PM |
| – | The relationship zones video explains why women are self-sabotagingYour whole thing is assuming antidepressant No not the whole argument, just one part of it. And it's not that big of an assumption to say relationships and family are some of the biggest sources of long term happiness for people. It also follows that if less people have those things they are missing out on a major source of life's happiness. What you're doing is called backwards rationalisation. You decided initially you don't want to admit anything I'm saying is true, despite how much sense it … | /r/PurplePillDebate | 18/11/23 04:39 PM |
| – | The relationship zones video explains why women are self-sabotagingVery ignorant to assume all cases of depression are due to loneliness. I never said all...? I said a huge cause. I.e. a significant %. This is why looking at the cause is important. You’re sitting here assuming its involuntarily. What if theyre not ready to commit? You didn't "look at/prove the cause", you just suggested another different cause. Then this was a horrible point to make. Why even make it? Just because not everyone wants kids doesn't mean that a significant % do... And an even bigge… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 18/11/23 04:08 PM |
| – | The relationship zones video explains why women are self-sabotagingYou didn't make it initially but you did add to it to try to further your own point | /r/PurplePillDebate | 18/11/23 03:38 PM |
| – | The relationship zones video explains why women are self-sabotagingTl:dr: you can't, shouldn't, and I personally will not rehab frogs. And I do not recommend anyone (man or woman) do so. Personally I would not ask you or other women to "rehab frogs". If a guy is not able to function as the bare minimum as an adult (hold down a job, take care of himself, keep his environment clean, etc) then I would 100% point the finger at him and say he needs to take responsibility & get his shit together. However... My issue is that myself and lots of other men feel they are … | /r/PurplePillDebate | 18/11/23 03:37 PM |
| – | The relationship zones video explains why women are self-sabotagingThey do when they're older and they realise they are getting less attention | /r/PurplePillDebate | 18/11/23 03:18 PM |
| – | The relationship zones video explains why women are self-sabotagingExactly. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 18/11/23 03:17 PM |
| – | The relationship zones video explains why women are self-sabotagingLoneliness is a huge cause of depression... I didn't think that had to be stated. Why? Because if a large majority of men are not able to get into a relationship, that will be very bad for society. The main reasons people find happiness in life are family, i.e. having a long term partner and children. Ofc not everyone wants kids, I'm not saying they do. If men cannot get a long term partner or have a family they will become disaffected & unmotivated to contribute to society, I.e. to work. And li… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 18/11/23 03:15 PM |
| – | The relationship zones video explains why women are self-sabotagingThat doesn't hold in the analogy because you don't "buy" a long term partner... (Well some people do but that's a whole other can of worms). The point is: 1) no one is perfect, everyone has flaws. 2) some flaws can be worked on and improved 3) the bar for calling men "a project" has been lowered and lowered until it's hypothetical & not reasonable. Women have most of the power earlier on in dating to choose their partners and they reject men who have very normal level of flaws, which not acknowl… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 18/11/23 03:05 PM |
| – | The relationship zones video explains why women are self-sabotagingIt’s not women complaining about lonliness They don't in their 20s when they have all the attention irl & online that satisfies them, but there are many instances of older women complaining they are lonely because they no longer get the attention they used to get. So they waste the opportunities they had because of all the bad advice they give each other (don't settle, you have time, you're a queen, he should make $X, be 6ft, etc). Then at some point the attention dies down, they slowly realise … | /r/PurplePillDebate | 18/11/23 02:56 PM |
| – | Do you think there’s a lack of good men?No problem :) he has some good videos & I feel that summary is one of the best out there | /r/PurplePillDebate | 18/11/23 09:15 AM |
| 1 | CMV: There are plenty of good men out there, but there’s a shortage of high value good men which are the men women actually wantYeah agreed. In my experience (both for myself and for my friends) they are not willing to teach a guy what he's doing wrong... Instead any time they realise the guy "doesn't get it" they get the ick and move on. It's like the difference between the man and woman being on a team together, vs the guy having the work/hoops to jump through and the woman being the referee/judge. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 18/11/23 09:10 AM |
| 1 | CMV: There are plenty of good men out there, but there’s a shortage of high value good men which are the men women actually wanthttps://youtu.be/lL13EeEhgag?si=aAlfTxyvfA-tMg9i I found this helped to understand the complexities of modern dating. Not saying that every single person falls into this model. But it does describe a majority of behaviours. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 18/11/23 02:37 AM |
| 6 | Do you think there’s a lack of good men?https://youtu.be/lL13EeEhgag?si=aAlfTxyvfA-tMg9i I found this helped to understand the complexities of modern dating. Not saying that every single person falls into this model. But it does describe a majority of behaviours. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 18/11/23 02:27 AM |
| 1 | Do you think there’s a lack of good men?https://youtu.be/lL13EeEhgag?si=aAlfTxyvfA-tMg9i I found this helped to understand the complexities of modern dating. Not saying that every single person falls into this model. But it does describe a majority of behaviours. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 18/11/23 02:27 AM |
| 1 | Do you think there’s a lack of good men?https://youtu.be/lL13EeEhgag?si=aAlfTxyvfA-tMg9i I found this helped to understand the complexities of modern dating. Not saying that every single person falls into this model. But it does describe a majority of behaviours. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 18/11/23 02:26 AM |
| 3 | Why are only women allowed to set boundaries?Personally I feel it's important because a lot of current issues we have boil down to double standards & hypocrisy. If we are able to give clear examples of double standards- and particularly where these examples are "every day"/common scenarios, and not things that only happen once in a blue moon- then there's a chance more people will start to realise that: 1) this is wrong 2) this is more common than they think ...which hopefully should lead to less of this behaviour | /r/MensRights | 16/11/23 01:05 PM |
| 2 | CMV „As a Man you should never be emotional/weak infront off you‘re Girl“ is one of the most brutal reality’s that a Man has to accept.How vague | /r/PurplePillDebate | 03/11/23 07:25 PM |
| 2 | CMV „As a Man you should never be emotional/weak infront off you‘re Girl“ is one of the most brutal reality’s that a Man has to accept.Which video? Do you have a link? | /r/PurplePillDebate | 03/11/23 10:17 AM |
| 2 | Question: if only around 17% of US males make at least 100k, are the remaining 83% percent doomed ?When I've seen videos of women saying they need a guy to make 100k or some other ridiculous number, I kinda always assumed that either 1) they have no idea what the average salary is or how unreasonable it is to expect a 20-25yr old to earn that (and that once they get into the real world & start work themselves their expectations will be checked by reality) Or 2) they were born into money and expect that because that's what their family & family's friends make. Even if that isn't the case and a… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 03/11/23 09:48 AM |
| 2 | I am still trying to figure out what "emotional labor" means.We know he is asking what it means in the post but in his comment he gives examples of it... So it seems between making the post and writing the comment he's gotten at least one example... And you won't address that point for some reason... Maybe because you can't...? | /r/MensRights | 16/08/23 12:43 AM |
| 6 | I am still trying to figure out what "emotional labor" means.Definition from Google: 1) The mental activity required to manage or perform the routine tasks necessary for maintaining relationships and ensuring smooth running of a household or process, typically regarded as an unappreciated or unacknowledged burden borne disproportionately by women. "she wondered what would happen in a household where nobody did the emotional labour" 2) The management of one's emotions in order to present oneself and interact with other people in a certain way while doing a… | /r/MensRights | 15/08/23 10:33 PM |
| 1 | Women can easily find a yielding, nice guy if that's what they truly want. If women continuously date assholes it's because they have a preference for assholesMaybe but I doubt it. To my knowledge those types tend to go the extra mile and start relationships with people in prison they've never met. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 15/08/23 05:46 PM |
| 3 | Women can easily find a yielding, nice guy if that's what they truly want. If women continuously date assholes it's because they have a preference for assholesI don't even think she'd been treated badly by the "pheasants". It was a status trip for her, and she valued that more than whether he would treat her well. Either because she was short sighted or because she knew she could cry victim afterwards. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 15/08/23 02:08 PM |
| 5 | Women can easily find a yielding, nice guy if that's what they truly want. If women continuously date assholes it's because they have a preference for assholesSometimes, but some are definitely not junkies, and instead just like the "lifestyle" of money and "status". One girl told me she was out with her bf and other guys were obviously scared of him & moved out of his way. In her words: "...it was like really hot..." She enjoyed that she'd got the baddest man in the area. And surprise surprise it didn't end well. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 15/08/23 08:58 AM |
| 7 | Women can easily find a yielding, nice guy if that's what they truly want. If women continuously date assholes it's because they have a preference for assholesAgreed. However I do see not infrequent cases of women saying "Why can't I find a nice gentleman??" When their last X boyfriends have been gangsters with a history of being toxic. Maybe the equivalent happens with women hearing men make the same mistake... but since I date only women I mainly hear this from women. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 14/08/23 03:49 PM |
| 2 | I often hear women say "I have attractive male friends with awesome personalities, but I don't like them that way." If they're attractive, why aren't they attracted to them?It could be that this lady (like many other women I've met) has to connect with someone on a personal level before she is attracted to them. Attraction can be very different between men and women, men tend to be more simple and "linear"/consistent in their attraction. Women can be much more complex and their attraction to someone can be fleeting or easily lost due to a small thing that a man wouldn't realise. Or it could be that she doesn't find you attractive and wanted to try to let you down g… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 05/08/23 01:06 AM |
| 11 | My sister is a toxic feminist and I have reached my breaking point. No idea what to do.Dat like to dislike ratio tho | /r/MensRights | 21/07/23 03:36 PM |
| 1 | Men who envy women dont appreciate what they haveBut some might not transition because they know it'll make their life harder | /r/PurplePillDebate | 24/06/23 09:22 AM |
| 4 | Karens are just common women that feel angry they lost the pretty privilegeKaren: a pejorative term used as a slang insult for a woman (stereotypically white & middle aged, but not exclusively) who acts entitled and/or demanding beyond the scope of what is normal. I agree it has been overused or misapplied but so does any new slang word | /r/PurplePillDebate | 21/06/23 04:12 PM |
| 1 | We as men should be thankful that the goddesses known as women participate in this sub with us.are_there_any_women_here.monty_python.gif | /r/PurplePillDebate | 16/06/23 09:37 AM |
| 3 | Being unsuccessful with women doesn't mean someone is a misogynistWell shit | /r/PurplePillDebate | 15/06/23 02:56 PM |
| 3 | Being unsuccessful with women doesn't mean someone is a misogynistDo you have a link to any of those experiments? | /r/PurplePillDebate | 15/06/23 11:42 AM |
| 2 | "What if men aren’t lonely in defiance of their status as oppressors – what if they’re lonely because of that status?" -Joseph EarpI'm lonely, Same dude, hope you're doing ok | /r/MensRights | 14/06/23 09:52 AM |
| 1 | "What if men aren’t lonely in defiance of their status as oppressors – what if they’re lonely because of that status?" -Joseph EarpI agree they are a different category as they'll have different needs & experiences, the main reason I included that example is as a trans man they have a unique perspective as they've experienced the social aspects of being a woman & then transitioning to a man they see the other side of the fence, and how hard & miserable it can be. Personally I don't know any trans people, but I wouldn't rule out being friends with them just for being trans... I would rule people out though if they subscribed… | /r/MensRights | 14/06/23 09:49 AM |
| 2 | "What if men aren’t lonely in defiance of their status as oppressors – what if they’re lonely because of that status?" -Joseph EarpGood bot | /r/MensRights | 14/06/23 12:47 AM |
| 3 | "What if men aren’t lonely in defiance of their status as oppressors – what if they’re lonely because of that status?" -Joseph EarpYeah I think you'll get some people realising that they can reach a new audience if they say some men's rights talking points, whether they believe it or not is another thing... But if they've found a way to monitise their YouTube/other social media accounts then it's just like any other company pivoting their "core values" when they realise there's another demographic that they aren't currently catering to. I couldn't say if that applies to the trans coach though, so I'd give him the benefit of… | /r/MensRights | 14/06/23 12:44 AM |
| 10 | "What if men aren’t lonely in defiance of their status as oppressors – what if they’re lonely because of that status?" -Joseph EarpWhat kind of fucking world does this guy live in? Glad I'm not the only one who felt like that. A quick Google showed me he's a blue haired, and seemingly blue pilled, guy | /r/MensRights | 14/06/23 12:16 AM |
| 9 | "What if men aren’t lonely in defiance of their status as oppressors – what if they’re lonely because of that status?" -Joseph EarpAgreed. This is one of many articles I see bashing men and tbh it gets to me sometimes. | /r/MensRights | 13/06/23 11:19 PM |
| 9 | One in four young men agree with misogynistic influencer's views on women, poll findsI agree Tate does with his hustlers university, and his videos describing how he manipulates women into be cam girls and then teaches them to take money from "loser men" who pay the cam girls... but JP does not use young men for financial gain. They should not be lumped into the same category as they are so completely different. I don't agree with everything JP says (especially post his recent medical issues) but the original Peterson view points and videos still hold up as valid criticism of th… | /r/MensRights | 06/06/23 12:13 AM |
| 1 | Most women's gendered expectations of men are toxic, and it helped to form the manosphere into what it is today.Yeah. It sucks because I feel both men and women enforce the stereotypes/roles in toxic ways, but the feminist side only calls out the men who do so. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 04/06/23 07:52 PM |
| 2 | Most women's gendered expectations of men are toxic, and it helped to form the manosphere into what it is today.Yikes, that sounds so obnoxious to deal with! I'm sorry you get so many bullshit comments like that. Very frustrating. Thanks. Tbf half of those quotes came from just 2 people - a rather chavvy looking couple who had a pitbull... I was a little wary of their dog at first but he just touched Jose's with my dog then ran off. It's weird because it's an asinine thing to think to begin with, but even if you did think it, why would you say that? Like what compels you to criticize some random person fo… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 04/06/23 07:48 PM |
| 1 | Shaming men for being virgins or not getting women is cruel, mentally damaging and by far way worst than slut shaming is for women, in fact it severly affects women more than slut shaming doesOn the contrary. I'm commenting how this is usually said under the guise of a lighthearted joke and people think it's ok but can be just as offensive as calling a woman a slut. Oh ok... I took your comment to mean the opposite. I.e. when you said: Virgin shaming men though is totally fine and can be seen as a friendly way to rib on someone and bust their chops. I thought you were saying that it is light hearted & fine... Were you meaning the opposite? I.e. that [Some people think] Virgin shaming… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 04/06/23 07:23 PM |
| 6 | Shaming men for being virgins or not getting women is cruel, mentally damaging and by far way worst than slut shaming is for women, in fact it severly affects women more than slut shaming doesI completely disagree, I think you're minimising the impact virgin shaming can have on men. It can significantly contribute to feelings of worthlessness, poor self esteem, depression... And given how the numbers on male suicide are increasing, while at the same time the numbers on men under 30 having less/no sex... Speaking from experience it has a direct link to mental health, and your view that "well it's fine because we used to just do it for laughs at school" isn't really valid as a fair sum… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 03/06/23 08:25 AM |
| – | CMV: Many acts that would get a man labled as "Toxic" are tolerated when women do it.Do you have a link to the original post? | /r/PurplePillDebate | 03/06/23 08:00 AM |
| 1 | Most women's gendered expectations of men are toxic, and it helped to form the manosphere into what it is today.That sucks. And also it's worth talking about how that experience will be one of many she uses to justify "most men are creepy online". When the reality may be that she reads into things too much, and she lets any minor discomfort make a knee jerk decision for her that she never questions or looks back on. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 28/05/23 08:09 AM |
| 5 | Most women's gendered expectations of men are toxic, and it helped to form the manosphere into what it is today.Who have you seen this attitude from? Do they just dislike cats themselves? I am honestly shocked that anyone would think this. Not a cat owner myself but I am a man that owns a smaller dog... I have encountered a few people (men and women) who would make comments... Ranging from slightly off: "oh don't see many men with small dogs do you" with a pointed eyebrow raise that indicates there's more they'd like to say ...to more blunt comments: "why've you got such a small dog? My dog'd fuck yours u… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 28/05/23 08:02 AM |
| 1 | Are women actually attracted to toxic men?If one defines success with women as sleeping around of course a toxic hot guy has more success than a nice one. But that’s because sleeping around is a qualifier for being toxic in the first place. You think sleeping around is inherently toxic? Do you think someone has to be toxic to have multiple short term relationships/FWBs? Because I disagree with that completely. It entirely depends on how they treat the other person, how they communicate their wants/needs/expectations/boundaries, and don'… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 26/05/23 03:56 PM |
| 10 | Your 'standards' are irrelevant. The dating market tells you what you're worthWomen can fuck above their level because guys will fuck them but then they get surprise Pickachu face when they’re pumped and dumped. This is something women have to figure out. I don't know why men in the red pill make fun of women for thinking this though. If you're willing to get intimate with someone, call them beautiful and spend time on them why is it so laughable for them to think you like them? Personally I wouldn't want to make fun of someone for being in that situation - i.e. where the… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 26/05/23 10:28 AM |
| – | Women hate to be treated as they treat average menbut some of them were badly humiliated and made fun of. Assuming the stories happened as these women said then yes I agree, there was some horrible behaviour described here. Especially the one where the guy made a social media post about how unattractive she was because other people were teasing him for being friends with her. But tbh I would doubt that all of the stories happened exactly as they described... Is that because I hate women and think they're all liars? No. It's because I've met typ… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 25/05/23 04:10 PM |
| 1 | Are women actually attracted to toxic men?I agree & disagree in a similar way, although I use the lens of halo effect: Ugly people are almost always described as having a ugly personality, but hot people are 50/50. I agree with both of these... Thus, for one to be successful at dating, you must have a good personality, and a good look to them. ...but I don't see how this follows... If hot people are "50/50" as you put it, then by your comment's logic, 50% of the time people will find them attractive regardless of how good their personal… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 25/05/23 01:04 PM |
| 1 | Are women actually attracted to toxic men?Sometimes, just setting strong boundaries, and sticking to them, will give you a "bad boy" image for some women. Tbh I hadn't really experienced this so I was confused what you meant until I read your example. That's really interesting, particularly because seeing her 1-2 nights a week- I've had full on relationships where we only saw each other that often 😅 made me wonder if I was not putting enough effort in... but then I looked back and thought nah there was just other things to do over the w… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 25/05/23 01:01 PM |
| 1 | Are women actually attracted to toxic men?Bit of a random reference but it reminds me of a movie quote from The Perks of Being a Wallflower: "We accept the love we think we deserve." I heard that when I was a teen and it stuck with me because I see examples of that in my friend's relationships (+ friends of friends & strangers sometimes) with accepting/putting up with bad or toxic behaviour from others. Clip below. It's a bit of a cliché but I think it has some truth to it: https://youtu.be/b10LyOeq5Hs It also shows another key aspect t… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 25/05/23 12:47 PM |
| 1 | Are women actually attracted to toxic men?Being toxic is only a positive modifier if you're hot Agreed No but I do believe a handsome toxic guy will have better luck than a handsome nice guy. I would sort of agree. Maybe more so for younger women given that a person usually needs the experience of being with a toxic person before they are able to recognise the signs and avoid them in future. But I feel as they get older they're more likely to avoid toxic people, unless they have issues which attract them to toxic guys continually | /r/PurplePillDebate | 25/05/23 10:39 AM |
| 1 | Are women actually attracted to toxic men?The question was about women in general not women with attachment issues. True, I guess I should've stated in my comment that I believe this doesn't just happen to women with attachment issues. Some have just never encountered a person who is malicious/manipulative and go along with it because it is attractive to them to have a partner who "takes charge". In hindsight they can realise that it wasn't that their partner was "taking charge" in a way that was respectful of their boundaries. E.g. a g… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 25/05/23 09:23 AM |
| 15 | Are women actually attracted to toxic men?Women are attracted to handsome masculine men. Agreed Doesn’t matter if they are toxic or not. I disagree. Some aren't attracted to toxic guys, but some are specifically attracted to toxic men because of psychological reasons/issues. Acting in some toxic ways can set up a dynamic where she wants to win the approval of the guy who treats her badly. This is actually a documented manipulation tactic used by toxic people (from bad guys who want to control women they date all the way up to pimps) whe… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 24/05/23 06:23 PM |
| – | Pretty much every advice targeted at men is to make them to wait until they are too old to do anythingThe problem is that the majority of guys seem not to be attractive to the majority of women. Are you saying each guy individually isn't attracted to the majority of women. Or that the collective that is the majority of men are not attracted to the majority of women. Neither... They are saying that women are not attracted to the majority of men. I.e. that the majority of guys are not attractive to the majority of women... Feels like you might have accidentally read this as "...not attracted to th… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 24/05/23 06:07 PM |
| 1 | Are women actually attracted to toxic men?Are women actually attracted to toxic men? Yes and no. Some are, some aren't. Women in general are attracted to men who are handsome, tall and confident. Men who behave in toxic ways can be very confident, but not in healthy ways. E.g. a guy who interrupts people and belittles others can dominate conversations. This may be attractive to some women but not others. There can also be a psychological aspect to it. Imagine you're an incredibly attractive women, you are used to getting compliments by … | /r/PurplePillDebate | 24/05/23 06:01 PM |
| 1 | CMV: There is nothing that women are, say, or do that makes a man more or less masculine.There is nothing that women are, say, or do that makes a man more or less masculine. ...I mean, that's a little strangely worked but I guess that's mostly true. In that a woman's behaviour doesn't inherently make a man more masculine. Except in the sense that a woman who is showing that she is attracted to a man is signalling that she picked him and that can certainly raise his social status. There have been studies to show that a man is rated as more attractive when he is desired by other women… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 09/05/23 08:07 AM |
| 13 | Adin Ross is the perfect example of what happens when young impressionable men take the red pillThirdly the red pill doesn’t advocate for being against the lgbt or women. It depends on which redpill channel you're listening to.. Some do. Hell tate says women are the most precious thing in the world He also says they shouldn't be allowed to drive and should clean up unprompted. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 18/04/23 10:17 AM |
| 7 | Adin Ross is the perfect example of what happens when young impressionable men take the red pillI don't know Admin Ross, I did a quick Google and watched a short video or 2 of him on YouTube and from that brief look I'm not a fan of him. TBH anyone who hangs out with the Tate's is a clown in my book. So while I'm not defending him or his actions, I think it is disingenuous to say all young men who watch red pill content will follow in those steps. Or to paint them all with the same brush as Adin Ross. Some of them are experiencing real world injustices and don't find any/many are willing t… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 17/04/23 07:00 PM |
| 45 | Just spoke at a Human Rights Consultation.Great stuff, well done buddy | /r/MensRights | 04/04/23 10:10 AM |
| 110 | Just spoke at a Human Rights Consultation.Good for you! What kind of issues did you bring up? | /r/MensRights | 04/04/23 08:53 AM |
| 1 | Young men should gravitate to aba and preach/Destiny if they are so desperate for a father figure online....what? That's makes no sense and Selena Gomez isn't relevant to what we were talking about. Young men are seeking advice and guidance from Tate when they pay for his "hustlers university", or when they parrot his views on women. How can you disagree with that? Why would it matter how many followers Selena has? Are you saying because she has more followers then he can't have anyone seeking his guidance? That makes no sense. Is the only person who has their advice sought after the person with th… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 17/03/23 09:28 PM |
| 3 | Young men should gravitate to aba and preach/Destiny if they are so desperate for a father figure online.The father figure is immensely helpful, but not absolutely critical That's absolutely BS. Have a look at the stats in "The Boy Crisis" and you'll see how much the father figure impacts both boys and girls. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 17/03/23 08:42 PM |
| 1 | Young men should gravitate to aba and preach/Destiny if they are so desperate for a father figure online.If "coaching and membership" includes donations via discord/other streaming platforms then no that's not true. There are many streams who are toxic in their views that make their entire income off of their viewers, and some are/were millionaires. Andrew Tate for example. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 17/03/23 08:41 PM |
| 1 | Young men should gravitate to aba and preach/Destiny if they are so desperate for a father figure online.Agreed. But if they do venture into online content, Aba and Preach are one of the more reasonable channels. They preach integrity/accountability and call out both sides. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 17/03/23 08:34 PM |
| 2 | Young men should gravitate to aba and preach/Destiny if they are so desperate for a father figure online.Aba and preach aren't grifting. Aba was in the military and raised in family where respect was important . I never said they were grifting...? And I know about his background. You can watch this video of him going after Donovan sharp who loves to attack other men wives Yeah I've seen that one. And the ones with beef with Fresh and Fit. I know they go after clowns and that's why I said they have the best takes out of the other channels that have large male audiences. They value integrity & taking… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 17/03/23 07:01 PM |
| 1 | Young men should gravitate to aba and preach/Destiny if they are so desperate for a father figure online.They do both. They don't do specific videos to give tips on getting girls, but they do a mixture of reacting to stupid stuff and also social commentary. And for a lot of the social commentary stuff they give alternative opinions on the views of the people in the videos they react to... And some of those are very well thought out & good advice for guys, girls and people in general. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 17/03/23 06:48 PM |
| 3 | Young men should gravitate to aba and preach/Destiny if they are so desperate for a father figure online.I don't know much about Destiny but I would agree that Aba and Preach seem to have the most reasonable & non-toxic advice compared to many other channels that have large male audiences (e.g. compared to Fresh and Fit, Andrew Tate, Sneako, etc). | /r/PurplePillDebate | 17/03/23 06:42 PM |
| 1 | Now imagine if this was the other way aroundSeems I was downvoted for asking this exact thing | /r/MensRights | 09/12/22 06:37 PM |
| 1 | Now imagine if this was the other way aroundWait does it actually say that Brad Pitt was asked permission? I couldn't see that bit (but then again it was taking so long to load through the ads) | /r/MensRights | 09/12/22 03:44 PM |
| -3 | Now imagine if this was the other way aroundI doubt there would be worldwide outrage. This kind of issue is something I don't condone, and yes is a double standard, but in the scale of things there are more important issues to talk about first. The men's rights movement has enough trouble getting people to listen, so maybe one tactic for that is to talk more about the more egregious issues, like this one: https://www.reddit.com/r/MensRights/comments/zgdsa9/uk_cocainecrazed_girlfriend_22_launched_frenzied/?utm_source=share&utm_medium=andro… | /r/MensRights | 09/12/22 03:42 PM |
| -6 | Now imagine if this was the other way aroundYeah let's not make a mountain out of a molehill | /r/MensRights | 09/12/22 03:23 PM |
| 1 | Is it “woke” to care about men’s issues?I don't understand, who calls them anti woke if they only care about women's issues? | /r/MensRights | 09/12/22 03:15 PM |
| 4 | Do you think men today need therapy?Personally I don't know any guys like that but the first guy definitely needs therapy. To answer the general question: Do men need therapy- yes, but not specifically men. Everyone needs therapy. We're growing up forming bad habits, experiencing varying degrees of trauma and not having the right tools to make sense of it or deal with it in a healthy way. On top of that because of the prevalence of social media and the internet in general, the punishment for making mistakes has become so much more… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 13/11/22 01:29 PM |
| 4 | Help I think my mum is a feministHow would she react if you stated your views? Do you think she would punish you in an unfair way? My advice would be try not to get into arguments with her. You probably won't change her mind, and she might decide to punish you if she doesn't like the things you are saying. Some parents are able to have discussions/disagreements without acting irrationally or over stepping their marks, but a lot are not able to. And someone who is unable to admit some basic facts about men's issues (i.e. that me… | /r/MensRights | 17/10/22 11:07 AM |
| 17 | CMV: Regardless of the type of relationship you 100%, always, every single time need to tell someone when you are sleeping with other people point blank periodSo sex has to be (when women find it convenient) simultaneously ‘no big deal’ and ‘meaningless’ (when she’s discussing her previous one night stands in which she was happy to go to bed with someone she just met) but then somehow magically ‘special’ when they desire exclusivity. Damn. Agreed | /r/PurplePillDebate | 11/10/22 07:25 PM |
| 3 | Why should I self improve is many guys who don't seem to add any value to a woman's life, still able to attract women.I'll start with an assumption: you were previously at a point in life where you were not attracting women, correct? There's no shame in that, many if not all people have been there or can relate. So you started working on yourself, I imagine in a few ways e.g. your physique, your mental, education, your career, etc. Then you got to a point where you improved so much that you were able to get the attention you wanted. That's a great achievement for you and you should be proud. The issue is that y… | /r/seduction | 16/09/22 10:42 PM |
| 1 | What's your unpopular opinion about women? Something you truly believe based on lived experience, but would get down voted to all hellWhat a rarely positive outcome to an initial disagreement. Good for you | /r/PurplePillDebate | 11/09/22 02:29 PM |
| 2 | What's your unpopular opinion about women? Something you truly believe based on lived experience, but would get down voted to all hellThanks for this btw. Also I'm only not friends with 3-4 of the women in that group now- the one I argued with and her closest supporters (not surprisingly they are also the most politically outspoken too). This just helped me with my entry for the thread: women don't care about what men have to say. Sometimes they'll JAQ off for a bit and then turn it into some finger-wagging exercise. Truth (for a good portion of women, not all) | /r/PurplePillDebate | 11/09/22 01:46 PM |
| 1 | What's your unpopular opinion about women? Something you truly believe based on lived experience, but would get down voted to all hellFacts | /r/PurplePillDebate | 11/09/22 01:42 PM |
| 2 | Q4RP: If women are only attracted to hot and/or wealthy men then why are the majority of men still able to find relationships?How is it success to have to wade through 399 unsuitable men who I have exactly zero interest in to find one that I can relate to? Seriously...? You can't work that out yourself? Ok well it's because compare that to the alternative for guys where they get 1 or 2 matches a week... And most of those matches aren't even "valid" because they can be anything from girls just using tinder to promote their onlyFans pages to scam profiles trying to sell you bitcoin from China**. But boohoo poor little yo… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 09/09/22 09:38 AM |
| 3 | Q4RP: If women are only attracted to hot and/or wealthy men then why are the majority of men still able to find relationships?And that ‘something’ does not have to be height, a big dick, wallet or abs, Ok So when I look at the apps, I’m looking for a man with a professional job/income, a similar fit and healthy lifestyle and is at least my height. Umm... Feels like you're contradicting yourself no? 😂 I am very tall, and don’t want to date a man shorter than me (been there, never again). ...so because you had a bad experience with a short man in the past you've set a new standard that you don't date them? Is that not pr… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 08/09/22 09:14 AM |
| 0 | Q4RP: If women are only attracted to hot and/or wealthy men then why are the majority of men still able to find relationships?That's a fair point. Out of interest how do you feel about the other aspects of this post? What's your opinion on TRP vs men's issues? My stance would be that there are legitimate men's issues of ways things (particularly dating and some legal issues) that are stacked against men, and while communities like TRP do talk about those and validate men's experiences, they also can have toxic sides to them. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 08/09/22 08:51 AM |
| 3 | What's your unpopular opinion about women? Something you truly believe based on lived experience, but would get down voted to all hellLolll so being able to communicate well is gay now? 😂 As well as being to difficult for them? You're a real slimey snake you know that? Your other comments tell women what you think they want to hear but dig a lot deeper and it's clear you think they're incapable of it | /r/PurplePillDebate | 08/09/22 08:26 AM |
| 1 | Q4RP: If women are only attracted to hot and/or wealthy men then why are the majority of men still able to find relationships?I recognise that men don’t have much success on dating apps, but neither do women. Ok Last time I used them I set up accounts on two, got over 400 likes in 24 hours on each (lots of double up) and dozens of inboxes. ...that's not success to you...? 😂 Jesus your whole comment is a (not so) humble brag. You immediately contradict yourself, saying you don't have success but then you have 400 options in 24 hrs... Ok some were doubled up, so let's say 200... Or even 100... Some guys don't get that ma… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 08/09/22 08:22 AM |
| 1 | What's your unpopular opinion about women? Something you truly believe based on lived experience, but would get down voted to all hellTHANK YOU. Christ can you try telling that to these two uppity morons? They suggest that men should just learn these non-verbal communication methods 🤦♂️ as if that's not ambiguous...or even unnecessary when they could just verbalise their communications. https://www.reddit.com/r/PurplePillDebate/comments/x7al4r/whats_your_unpopular_opinion_about_women/inckix2?utm_medium=android_app&utm_source=share&context=3 | /r/PurplePillDebate | 07/09/22 10:41 PM |
| 2 | What's your unpopular opinion about women? Something you truly believe based on lived experience, but would get down voted to all hellAre you saying this non-verbal communication that women do is acceptable and that men should just learn it then ta-dah that will solve communication issues between men and women? That's such BS 😂 why not just be clear and both verbalise the communication? The only reason I see not is that it's difficult as it opens up the possibility of rejection. And that's not a good enough reason to suggest "maybe men should just learn this non-verbal communication" | /r/PurplePillDebate | 07/09/22 10:18 PM |
| 2 | What's your unpopular opinion about women? Something you truly believe based on lived experience, but would get down voted to all hellSo why not just use your words and make it clear? Why put all the responsibility on men to both initiate and read all these "non verbal" signs, which btw are definitely not clear. And the evidence for that is how many men are confused over them. And you think women are the only ones who get confused and hurt by these interactions? Men are the ones who experience most rejection and put themselves out there more than women, that hurts a lot when it goes wrong. Women are communicating what they wan… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 07/09/22 10:12 PM |
| 4 | Q4RP: If women are only attracted to hot and/or wealthy men then why are the majority of men still able to find relationships?There's some truth that it can be a self fulfilling prophecy, in that if they are moody and angry because they believe they can't get women, then women won't want them... However that's not the whole picture. There is a truth to some of TRP views, and we can show this with data from dating apps. Something like the top 80% of women only swipe right on the top 20% of men. So most men get very little from dating apps and it massively affects their self esteem. They turn to things like TRP because t… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 07/09/22 08:33 PM |
| 2 | Age Gap Relationships/Leonardo DiCaprio Mega-ThreadI would agree if the number were slightly higher. Going for <20 each time might have to do with more than just looks, it might be because they're less experienced and less mature, so easier to manipulate. Late teens to early 20s is when most adults (particularly women) experiment with dating and part of that experience allows you to know what you want and what you find acceptable. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 07/09/22 07:27 PM |
| 2 | What's your unpopular opinion about women? Something you truly believe based on lived experience, but would get down voted to all hellI don’t know. It jus seems to me that you’re taking her dating philosophy (with regards to asking people out at work) to heart way too much. She and others can believe what they believe and you can believe what you believe. No harm done. Maybe I am. But I also wonder if you'd feel that way if you continuously saw this kind of thing happen. Like I think the first time I was in this sort of situation I noticed the hypocrisy but didn't say anything as it didn't seem worth it. However when it keeps … | /r/PurplePillDebate | 07/09/22 07:16 PM |
| 9 | What's your unpopular opinion about women? Something you truly believe based on lived experience, but would get down voted to all hellWomen don’t just cry because you call them a hypocrite. Yeah, some do. It’s clear he said some stupid disrespect shit and that’s why she cried. Nope. Nothing other than what I wrote I had said in another comment. Your assumption of this is very telling, and quite frankly another thing to add to this list of OPs thread: Women (and men tbf) will listen to what you say, then make up their own extra details of what happened so suit whichever side they wanted to believe. Sometimes they fill in the bl… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 07/09/22 05:04 PM |
| 2 | What's your unpopular opinion about women? Something you truly believe based on lived experience, but would get down voted to all hellI completely get hearing someone preach non-stop about one thing and then turn around and make “exceptions” to do another. That can be annoying and frankly, tiring after a while. So I understand your frustration. I appreciate you saying this She’s not the queen of the world here, dude. Her word isn’t bond. I know lol You called my example about dieting different because it doesn’t affect you. Newsflash: neither do her “insights” about dating. I disagree. If it was just her then yeah I'd agree, b… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 07/09/22 04:44 PM |
| 7 | What's your unpopular opinion about women? Something you truly believe based on lived experience, but would get down voted to all hellSee my other comment on this thread with more info. I get it might have sounded like I badgered her and was rude until she got upset but in reality it was only 2 comments from me and then she wound herself up and got herself upset. It would be like if a friend said “I’m going to start a strict vegan diet from now on.” and a few weeks later, you all meet up and they’re eating a steak dinner. Then you start badgering them “Oh, what happened to the diet? Couldn’t take that vegan lifestyle, huh?” Th… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 07/09/22 12:32 PM |
| 8 | What's your unpopular opinion about women? Something you truly believe based on lived experience, but would get down voted to all hellI’ll be honest. You were rude to her. Making someone cry to prove a point is… not a good look to say the least. I’m not surprised they excluded you. You assuming I'm in the wrong just because she's crying is exactly my point. We only had about 2-3 exchanges, 1st me reminding what she said earlier, her claiming that it was different, me asking how it was different when she'd said it's never ok to do that even though that's exactly how she met her bf, then her getting shrill and going off at me be… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 07/09/22 12:13 PM |
| 1 | What's your unpopular opinion about women? Something you truly believe based on lived experience, but would get down voted to all hellA few more I thought of 1) They will ask questions and get upset when you don't give the answer they wanted you to give. "Ok we have 2 leftover choices for dinner, pizza or chicken, which so you want?" "Oo pizza please" "..." "...what?" "...that's what I wanted" "...then why did you offer it?? You have words, use them and say what you want! I'm fine with chicken, but what you're doing is crazy" 2) They learn a new fad term and overuse it. Example from another comment: "Oh you had sex with him an… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 06/09/22 10:36 PM |
| 1 | What's your unpopular opinion about women? Something you truly believe based on lived experience, but would get down voted to all hellTrue | /r/PurplePillDebate | 06/09/22 10:17 PM |
| 20 | What's your unpopular opinion about women? Something you truly believe based on lived experience, but would get down voted to all hellAn example of holding hypocritical views: I had a discussion/debate with a friend recently (well, maybe a year ago). She maintained it was never OK to ask a woman out while at work (didn't matter if the guy who was asking was a customer or a colleague). I tried to empathise that I get it could be annoying/harassment to bother someone who's at work but it felt too absolute to say it's absolutely never ok. She was adamant that it was never OK and said I was being creepy/inappropriate if I had aske… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 06/09/22 10:02 PM |
| 87 | What's your unpopular opinion about women? Something you truly believe based on lived experience, but would get down voted to all hellThat for various reasons (including the dating culture of men usually being the ones to pursue women & women being the selectors), women do not get called out on bad behaviour or incorrect/hypocritical/contradictory opinions as much as they should. Obvs a generalisation and it does not apply to all women, but overall if most guys want to have sex with a woman they will let her say opinions that don't make sense without pushing back or pointing out that it contradicts other thing she said earlier… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 06/09/22 01:37 PM |
| 4 | As a guy Imma be honest, I think more guys should really work on self-establishment and self-actualization before getting into any relationship, even if it isn't seriousThe wisdom of people not in relationships vs of those in relationships would tell me otherwise You got any examples of what you mean by that? Feels like you're looking at some dumb things guys did in relationships and concluding that they'd be better off single. But being single won't necessarily guide them to not do those dumb things, where as being in a relationship that fails because they did a dumb thing is much more likely to get them to change their behaviour. The problem is humans have a … | /r/PurplePillDebate | 04/06/22 10:51 AM |
| 15 | As a guy Imma be honest, I think more guys should really work on self-establishment and self-actualization before getting into any relationship, even if it isn't seriousYou still mischaracterised why men want to be in relationships. You said it was because other men around them are in them, and that's not true. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 04/06/22 10:44 AM |
| 10 | As a guy Imma be honest, I think more guys should really work on self-establishment and self-actualization before getting into any relationship, even if it isn't seriousI agree that working on establishing one's self is beneficial, and even essential to being a fully competent adult, but I disagree that a celibate person will be able to learn what they need to about relationships within being in one. I think you learn more about yourself from trying & failing at relationships, then having a period of being single to reflect & work ok yourself. You (can/should) learn what you are doing wrong, compare what you are looking for vs what you should value for a long t… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 04/06/22 09:57 AM |
| 2 | 18 in 25 men have had suicidal thoughts including me at one point in my life 😕Yeah I knew it was higher, not the exact figure though. I heard that women attempt it more often but succeed less often | /r/MensRights | 01/05/22 02:00 PM |
| 16 | 18 in 25 men have had suicidal thoughts including me at one point in my life 😕Tbf I would imagine it's a lot higher. I'd be interested how much it is for women, I imagine it's higher than expected too | /r/MensRights | 01/05/22 12:58 PM |
| 5 | People should not be called red pill if they believe that cheating for man is unacceptableYes, men being more aggressive does excuse being violent in part, Nah that's ridiculous. the difference is that being violent has actual physical and possibly legal repercussions. Cheating is pretty much victimless. Cheating is definitely not victimless. I hope you get treated the way you treat people, then maybe you won't do that as you'll see it's better to give what you want to get back | /r/PurplePillDebate | 21/04/22 04:37 PM |
| 10 | People should not be called red pill if they believe that cheating for man is unacceptableRight. And differences in biology shouldn't be used to excuse bad behaviour. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 21/04/22 02:53 PM |
| 6 | People should not be called red pill if they believe that cheating for man is unacceptableAt best that's flawed logic, at worst you're being deliberately obtuse to excuse your own or other's bad behaviour. Double standards are acceptable if they make sense Can you give an example? men and women are biologically not the same so it kind of makes sense ...are you saying because men and women are not biologically the same it makes sense that it's OK for men to cheat? No it doesn't, both men and women have sexual desires, just because men's sexual drive might be higher on average doesn't … | /r/PurplePillDebate | 21/04/22 02:50 PM |
| 2 | People should not be called red pill if they believe that cheating for man is unacceptableAgain you can believe in your feminist religion of gender equality, but you don't call yourself red pill? I never said which way I believed, so why did you assume? I'm not a feminist. In fact when I said "certain toxic ideologies" I was including parts of feminism... I agree with some red pill messages but it is filled with dumb takes like yours so I don't subscribe to all red pill ideologies. Right, so I have a problem to call yourself red pill therefor believe in double standards ...wut? | /r/PurplePillDebate | 21/04/22 02:42 PM |
| 3 | People should not be called red pill if they believe that cheating for man is unacceptableAgreed. Majority had one partner. Or none. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 21/04/22 02:07 PM |
| 34 | People should not be called red pill if they believe that cheating for man is unacceptableWhat a ridiculous take. Cheating both for men and women is unacceptable. Part of the biggest issue I have with certain popular toxic ideologies is how often they promote or excuse double standards. And this OP falls directly into this category. It doesn't help and tbh this post is probably a troll | /r/PurplePillDebate | 21/04/22 02:05 PM |
| 10 | Asking for references to informationNot sure if this counts as an example but a friend's workplace named their company charity to be an anti-domestic violence charity that solely helped female victims (not against that in principle, it is a worthwhile cause, and though male victims get less help you could make that argument that different genders of victims have different needs, so specifically catering to one gender isn't necessarily a bad thing). However, he was asked by his work (along with all other male employees) if they wou… | /r/MensRights | 05/04/22 09:36 PM |
| 4 | I'm here because I'm tired of seeing good men get shit on.Sorry to hear you've have had bad experiences here. Unfortunately these types of places do attract people who are more into shouting down people they perceive to be against them, even if those people are trying to understand/don't disagree with them. The same is true for many similar spaces of political or related topics. My message would be to accept that when you come to those places there will most likely be people here who disagree with you, and even hurl abuse at you. Not much can be done a… | /r/MensRights | 08/02/22 06:00 PM |
| 4 | Is it even worth it anymore?If thinking about approaching women is damaging your self esteem and mental health then IMO your priority should be to improve those things before you go back to approaching women. Yes those things you mentioned do happen (false accusations etc) and you should do you best to reduce the risk of that happening but they are not as common as the internet makes them out to be. There are many legitimate issues facing men today, but let us not get to the point where we are creating narratives in our he… | /r/MensRights | 15/12/21 02:23 AM |
| 1 | Why do you think men aren’t listening to or following your dating advice?Ok TY | /r/PurplePillDebate | 04/02/21 03:56 PM |
| 1 | Why do you think men aren’t listening to or following your dating advice?Ok, thanks | /r/PurplePillDebate | 04/02/21 03:56 PM |
| 3 | Why do you think men aren’t listening to or following your dating advice?Dude you're not helping us make a case 😂 | /r/PurplePillDebate | 04/02/21 03:12 PM |
| 1 | Why do you think men aren’t listening to or following your dating advice?(comment recreated after being deleted by mods) Can you (OP) give an example on the kind of advice you are talking about? In my experience women don't give good dating advice (that's anecdotal though, so not saying all of them don't), but there is a clear reason as to why they wouldn't be able to- they don't have experience flirting/talking to women as men. Most don't have to try to women, and certainly not from the perspective of a man. Women will give each other more time/patience because they… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 04/02/21 02:24 PM |
| 1 | Why do you think men aren’t listening to or following your dating advice?What does you comment mean? Are you saying they should delete my comment? I didn't try to answer the question, I asked for more info then gave my opinion on a related point. Is that not allowed? | /r/PurplePillDebate | 04/02/21 01:27 PM |
| 9 | Mothers of Sons: Women unite in defence of men, but website blasted as anti-feminist in #MeToo worldI disagree. I think not all police are part of the problem, and they definitely have an incredibly difficult job to do. However there are so many examples of times where justice was not served because of a police officer's negligence, bias or malicious behaviour. Saying "they only enforce laws" is a bit of a cop out (excuse the pun), as some are too keen to arrest without evidence, or fail to pursue legitimate suspects because of laziness or bias. | /r/MensRights | 30/01/21 12:25 PM |
| 4 | Apartments want to ban men from the pool. The law says otherwise."In this case calling the woman management dumb is ad hominen." -Maybe you could look at it that way. For the sake of discussion if we assume they are not dumb then in OP's post they have displayed carefully thought out discrimination against men... Which makes their actions even more malicious. However it is very easy to argue that they are dumb, or at least have acted stupidly in this case, by pointing out that they have sent this out in writing when it is clearly discrimination. From a legal … | /r/MensRights | 25/01/21 10:46 PM |
| 6 | Apartments want to ban men from the pool. The law says otherwise.Your comment reads like a low budget AI read half a law textbook then was assigned to answer the question. Why are you talking about liberty? The question was "why are people calling management dumb instead of sexist?" | /r/MensRights | 25/01/21 09:01 PM |
| 4 | I see the average kid knows that the wage gap is fake...I don't agree with your points. I do think that the stats that are normally touted on the wage gap are incorrect, and as a whole I don't believe that women are paid less than men, however this video doesn't really add anything. This video is just an adult putting a mic in kids' faces and asking them a leading question. If you ask a kid "why is {statement X} true?" ...then of course they'll assume it is and come up with anything as a suggested reason. My point is let's not sensationalise kids' an… | /r/MensRights | 13/01/21 11:48 AM |
| 1 | Disney Fired Johnny Depp And Hired His AbuserAhh my bad | /r/MensRights | 26/12/20 10:13 AM |
| 1 | Disney Fired Johnny Depp And Hired His AbuserNothing haha, just an account replying with cucumber emojis and me being sarcastic | /r/MensRights | 26/12/20 10:09 AM |
| 5 | Disney Fired Johnny Depp And Hired His AbuserIs this a have a word reference? | /r/MensRights | 26/12/20 12:05 AM |
| 1 | Disney Fired Johnny Depp And Hired His AbuserOnce again you leave speechless. Bravo | /r/MensRights | 26/12/20 12:04 AM |
| 1 | Disney Fired Johnny Depp And Hired His AbuserAn invaluable contribution to a complex and difficult topic. Thank you | /r/MensRights | 26/12/20 12:02 AM |
| 1 | Disney Fired Johnny Depp And Hired His AbuserWell said | /r/MensRights | 26/12/20 12:02 AM |
| 8 | Let's turn the mirrorPersonally I am against toxic behaviour regardless of gender. Part of the issue is that the phrase toxic masculinity is used very frequently, and applied incorrectly in many cases. Sure there is toxic behaviour that is more frequently exhibited by males, but the same is true for females. Both happen, both are a problem, so why is there push back to calling out one while calling out and demonising the other is praised? The real question is, if someone is happy to call out/reduce any bad/toxic par… | /r/MensRights | 15/12/20 06:58 PM |
| 22 | Here’s why 90% of girls use dating apps. They are fun, but don’t take them seriously for your own sanity lol.Jesus that's depressing | /r/seduction | 12/10/20 05:35 PM |
| 1 | Why is ageism considered to be less shallow than height-ism?To me, the part in your post about dating preferences of height/age are exactly that: preferences. People are allowed (and should continue to be allowed) to have preferences because the alternative is restrictive laws on who people can or cannot date... Which is immoral and crazy. The part I question is you saying you don't want your children to be short... If you did marry a guy > 1.9m, but you child still happened to be short, would you not love them anyway? | /r/PurplePillDebate | 19/03/20 01:19 AM |
| 2 | Instagram stories..Happy cake day :) | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 21/01/20 11:27 AM |
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