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You need to relax and focus on making a connection. You're so hyperfixated on doing things "by the book" and that is only ever going to get in your way. From your other comments it sounds like you may have some social anxiety that causes insecurity especially while dating. Consider finding a good therapist to help you work through that because these books and grifter gurus are never the answer. From what I read you seem like an interesting dude, embrace that and stop focusing on potential outcom…
/r/ExRedPill24/01/22 08:03 PM
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Hey dude, sorry I have no good advice for you because the only ideas I would've had have been covered but I did want to say HELL YEAH GOOD ON YOU!! I'm sorry you're having to deal with some of those shitty commenters, but you're 100% right in that us women are getting tons of "reclaim your sexuality" support with very little to none being given to men. Exploring your sexuality on your own is awesome and is a very valid form of self-care that men should have a lot more comfort and support doing s…
/r/ExRedPill24/01/22 07:38 PM
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Except, despite fight or flight, I love haunted houses. Of course some of our behaviors are impacted by our animalistic natures, but it's to a much smaller degree than many people want to admit because the idea that humans are too complex to be truly predictable is scary. If any of that stuff was as valid as TRP believes, we'd have cracked social behaviors by now but they're not and we haven't. Humans are too complex and are increasing so, it's one of the main reasons why criminal profiling, whi…
/r/ExRedPill24/01/22 07:25 PM
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100% accurate. I don't want to be dominated by anything ever except in the bedroom and even then it's not real domination it's just fun roleplaying, I still have control over my body and myself. If any dude tries to "dominate" me or play those TRP games I'm out the door faster than if someone yelled "fire".
/r/ExRedPill24/01/22 07:18 PM
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You're mixing up two separate things. There's a huge difference between not wanting to date a single parent and hating single parents. TRP is/was full of pure hatred for single moms. I don't necessarily want to date a single dad, but I'm not going to go posting a long rant about how much I hate them either. It's the latter part that is immature.
/r/ExRedPill24/01/22 07:12 PM
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This is one of the biggest things I hate about TRP. As a chick, I love sex. It is so much fun and I enjoy it a lot. TRP turns it into transactions. For some reason, to them, me enjoying sex and having had a lot of it means I don't have self respect and I am more likely to cheat in monogamous relationships. Neither of those are remotely true, but it is seen as pure fact in the eyes of most every RedPiller. The only good things about TRP is stuff you can find in any other self improvement communit…
/r/ExRedPill24/01/22 07:09 PM
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Here's the flaw in your logic: during my, what you would call, " hoe phase" I wasn't "giving my body away" dude, I was having sex. Sex I wanted with people I wanted to have sex with. I enjoyed it, I wanted to do it, everyone had a good time. I wasn't "giving myself away", sex isn't and shouldn't be treated as some big gift that dudes enjoy more than women. It's a fun activity that is had between two consenting individuals. I wasn't insecure, I didn't need validation or any of that other bullshit…
/r/ExRedPill24/01/22 06:52 PM
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I never saw them specify one gender doing this and the other not. Because you're right, many women absolutely do it too and I (F) am equally disgusted by FDS as I am with RP. I think you'll see a lot of people quickly coming to women's defence because we are still in the phase of rebalancing power structures and when you consider things like how women got the right to vote only 100 years ago, it makes sense. Is it right? Not necessarily, but it's not a mindless reaction. It's frustrating and dep…
/r/ExRedPill24/01/22 06:04 PM
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To start, I'm really sorry that no one gave you guidance or focus in your young life to help encourage your growth. It's sadly way too common, especially amongst young men, and is entirely the fault of older people/generations. We have to give our youths the attention and help they need and deserve. That being said, the parts of RedPill that you've seemed to agree with and benefit from are just good overall rules for life that can be found in healthier communities. Making one thing (ex: women, s…
/r/ExRedPill24/01/22 05:46 PM
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I think there is some validity in what they said, however blaming the youths for falling prey to aggressive marketing is definitely wrong. It's not so much "they are what they eat" as it is "they are what they're being force fed." I think the element of truth that is often overlooked is how significantly society and thus the individual is affected by marketing. Marketing is often so effective because it's predatory across all ages but in this case it's preying on young, developing minds that are…
/r/ExRedPill24/01/22 05:21 PM
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I feel so sorry for men like you and other RedPillers, same as I feel sorry for women in FDS and other bullshit like that. It's unfortunate that your experiences in life and with women and other men have lead you down this path of hyperfixation on a mythological idea of an overarching "female nature" that isn't applicable to numerous women (those women being the type that would often be an ideal partner too). It makes me even more appreciative of my incredible boyfriend who sees and treats me li…
/r/ExRedPill24/01/22 05:05 PM
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