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0	Men who have been in many relationships, would you say most women have anger issues? The idea that women are more emotional is rooted in prejudice, not evidence. It reinforces your worldview and the place women take in it. And yes, it is a sexist notion.	/r/seduction	26/01/25 12:51 PM
3	It took me a long time to realise this, but women actually like to be approached. They also respect guys more who do. Guilty 😔💔 I also like nerdy boys with capacity for reason and a vast knowledge of history, literature or philosophy 🤓	/r/seduction	10/04/23 06:58 PM
3	It took me a long time to realise this, but women actually like to be approached. They also respect guys more who do. I agree with this. The root of the problem can begin with a disorganized set of priorities. It's good to be introspective and ask ourselves honestly what stories we're telling ourselves that are keeping us in a loop, without attaching any feelings to the ideas of failure or success, only hoping that by looking within ourselves we will fin an answer to overcome our struggles. This is part of what “overcoming the ego” means. It's not easy at all; it takes hard work, disposition, and a lot of love …	/r/seduction	09/04/23 04:42 PM
3	It took me a long time to realise this, but women actually like to be approached. They also respect guys more who do. I understand, and I'm really sorry that you experienced that. People can be really cruel with those they perceive as somehow inadequate in any aspect. My best advice is for you to relearn everything that you have been taught. Define yourself in your own terms and rebuild your self-esteem. You don't have to conform yourself with who others tell you you are; hell, you don't even have to conform with who your own thoughts tell you you are. As a girl who is also lonely and has gone through her fair …	/r/seduction	09/04/23 04:38 PM
1	It took me a long time to realise this, but women actually like to be approached. They also respect guys more who do. What do you understand as chivalry? Asking genuinely :)	/r/seduction	09/04/23 04:32 PM
1	It took me a long time to realise this, but women actually like to be approached. They also respect guys more who do. As a woman, I sympathize with you. I'm considered good looking and smart. However, because I'm autistic, sometimes I come off as weird. The guys I like rarely approach me. Actually, men in general rarely flirt with me (besides only looking at me). So rest assured this can also be a general issue, it's not just you or a problem with men. Our generation is really lacking in social skills.	/r/seduction	09/04/23 04:31 PM
38	It took me a long time to realise this, but women actually like to be approached. They also respect guys more who do. What a girl considers “good looking” changes from one to another. The guys I find incredibly attractive, my bestie finds “too feminine” and the guys she's head over heels for I find pretty mid. However, mostly “good looking” means showering, knowing how to dress well, and being charming (these skills are learned). Also, trust me, I have seen the ugliest guys have the most play. And I have met very handsome guys who end up being incels. I feel like y'all need to do a ton of self reflection and st…	/r/seduction	07/04/23 04:29 PM
1	It took me a long time to realise this, but women actually like to be approached. They also respect guys more who do. Not really. I mean, how would you feel if someone you're not attracted to approached you and insistently tried to pressure you to flirt with them? It's uncomfortable, right? As I've stated in other comments, body language is important. Learn to read her body language and the cues she's giving. Saying the right thing and having the right timing are not entirely “chance”, these conditions can be created.	/r/seduction	07/04/23 04:23 PM
1	It took me a long time to realise this, but women actually like to be approached. They also respect guys more who do. Of course there are techniques and social rituals that have to be followed in order to be successful at this. This happens within every mammal species, not just humans. Male birds have established rituals they perform in front of a female in order to seduce her. The same happens with other types of mammals. This is just nature. The thing is, biologically speaking the rule in every species is that the females of the species are in control of what's called the sexual selection. This rule is also t…	/r/seduction	07/04/23 04:18 PM
18	It took me a long time to realise this, but women actually like to be approached. They also respect guys more who do. This is true as well. However, as a girl who grew up very girly and surrounded by other girls, I can tell you that politeness and a genuine disposition can win you almost anyone over. I say “almost” because, of course, this is a generalization. Women are not a monolith. Practice and confidence are good assets. Chivalry used to be an art; this means it was learned. Women are very attracted to chivalry (defined as mature, responsible, considerate and polite men...)	/r/seduction	07/04/23 04:06 PM
3	It took me a long time to realise this, but women actually like to be approached. They also respect guys more who do. I feel like there's a cautious way to do it. Has she given you any cues that she wants to be approached? Look at her body language from afar. Does she seem open or rushed? Do her eyes suddenly fall on you? Do you cross glances? Does she smile at you? If she's not giving you any signs that she's opened to be approached by a complete stranger, then perhaps she's not going to like it if you come up and interrupt her with pretensions of your own... that's only human, I mean. At that point you just h…	/r/seduction	07/04/23 04:03 PM
0	It took me a long time to realise this, but women actually like to be approached. They also respect guys more who do. As a woman, yes. There is a right way of doing it though, having the right energy and body language that wouldn't send her running. Also being mature if she rejects you. Flirting is an art, my dudes.	/r/seduction	07/04/23 03:58 PM