| Upvotes | Comment on | Subreddit | Date (UTC) |
|---|---|---|---|
| 20 | What types of OLD websites or apps do you prefer?real life | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 19/02/22 04:03 PM |
| 10 | Text: I have a few minutes, Do you want to talk on phone?🏆 | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 13/01/22 03:32 AM |
| 8 | What do members of FDS think of the idea of love at first sight?🏆 | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 13/01/22 03:24 AM |
| 2 | More Women Should Snoop. : "Ex-wife found out husband had secret life when he was arrested for fiancee's murder"🏆 | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 09/01/22 02:54 PM |
| 72 | Why I have trust issues and why we should be guarded.This is a huge disrespect. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 27/12/21 08:08 AM |
| 2 | Update on kicking out an abusive Ex (Narcissist). **Law & Order** episodeThis is just awesome ! Congrats and I wish you the best ! | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 15/12/21 04:19 AM |
| 13 | A message to male lurkers: So what exactly is it about FDS that triggers you?😍 🏆🎉🏆 | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 15/12/21 04:03 AM |
| 7 | Yes queens👏. 🏆 | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 13/12/21 07:51 PM |
| 2 | Stop referring violent men to marriage counselling, GPs toldlet’s start referring them to the trash | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 03/12/21 06:17 AM |
| 5 | "Let's see where things go..."Preach ! Here’s an award 🥇 | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 03/12/21 06:06 AM |
| 3 | LVM blocked by ex decides to plaster self-indulgent hoover letter all over her new neighbourhood (French)Let’s bring the violin 🎻🎶. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 20/11/21 02:17 PM |
| 2 | Dating When You’re Young/Not Intending to Marry YET?In my opinion the hope is what fuels any date. I'd rather spend my time and money with my family, friends and pets or taking care of myself instead of someone that does not value me. I have the same motto for my friendships as well. Life is so short and you are worth the best! | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 02/11/21 02:28 PM |
| 1 | What are your ladies’ opinions on finances when moving in with a boyfriend/fiancé/husband?Omg it looks like a poem Here's my award for you 🥇 | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 02/11/21 02:25 PM |
| 20 | You should have a “hoe phase!”Take my award please 🏆 | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 29/10/21 11:52 PM |
| 12 | For women in relationships with men working in corporate, what is it like?No problem, it is a choice and they will get to face the consequences. A HVW would leave this situation in a split second. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 07/07/21 03:17 PM |
| 1 | As someone who’s writing a story that young girls and women are likely to read, what are some helpful lessons/themes I can integrate?.Women get gaslighted very often, do not know how to recognize it and make a plan to leave the situation. You have lots of examples on r/narcissisticabuse And it is also abusive to get provoked and to have your rights to get mad and denied as a response. this is abuse. This and the Cassandra myth : the women that knew the future but was never believed, because she refused to sleep with a god. I face this daily at work. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 07/07/21 03:15 PM |
| 39 | Please share stories of some weirdly specific rules you set after *that* one guySo true. Also, nowadays you can even get that help for free. There are no excuses. Taking care o a sick person makes us sick. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 29/06/21 05:43 PM |
| 13 | Subtle signs of manipulation and psychological abuseGo for /narcissisticabuse | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 29/06/21 05:09 PM |
| 3 | Quote: Ladies always empower yourself.I don’ t like this suffering thing. We don’t need to suffer. Vet, vet and leave. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 09/06/21 08:05 PM |
| 7 | Don't be Barb the builderLet’s test and compare ! | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 23/05/21 05:19 AM |
| 3 | Bullet Dodging Chronicles: Where Are They Now?After +10 years of graduating HS, he is still in college, has not even finished a master’s. Got very fat and ugly, is single and has no job. I wouldn’t look at him twice today if I saw him on the streets. No regrets ✨ | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 15/05/21 04:00 AM |
| 16 | 5 bucks says he’s never made a woman orgasmhe can get himself a vag!na | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 23/04/21 11:30 AM |
| 6 | FDS PODCAST FIRST 30 DAYS RESULTS: we literally DOUBLED our goal of hitting 15k downloads in the first month. 🥳🎊🥂 Such a strong start, and a sign of a promising future! Special thanks to all you ladies who listened and shared!!! 💗💜💗💜💗💜💗💜I listened ! Congrats ! Put more girls to talk ! Be a voice for ALL women. 💕✨🎀 | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 18/04/21 02:27 PM |
| 42 | A few days ago someone posted a tiktok with the first verse and the full song was finally released yesterday!! I’ve been jamming all day! I’d Rather Die - TRAMP STAMPSLove the song and the vibe ! They could make an anthem with the FDS principles. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 15/04/21 07:52 PM |
| 44 | Yeah sure let's put the blame on a girl and victimize a man who in 99% of cases was the pursuer. Funny how people don't even get enraged that hard at raped victims who had their lives ruined. Omg.Does not really matter. If you feel your age , they’ll go for the girl a few years younger. There’s no limit | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 15/04/21 04:05 PM |
| 116 | Online “radical” FDS-style feminist groups got banned in China. It could happen here too.They can ban us all they want , our minds are set and we will stay here | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 15/04/21 04:03 PM |
| 187 | Men just can't be single for a minuteThe free labor is too good. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 15/04/21 04:03 PM |
| 1 | ✩ FDS FOR TEENS ✩ PART 1: LITTERALLY ANYTHING ELSE > MENAsk to put it in the handbook ! | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 11/04/21 09:40 PM |
| 67 | Never under any circumstances become financially dependent on any man no matter how long he has been "HVM"My mother taught me this since my childhood, yes around 10 years old. The more I grow up, I’ve seen so many sad cases of women being cheated on, abandoned or ignored. Some left to die because the partner did not want to pay for treatment... It’s a matter of survival. I need a roof over my head, food, health and transportation no matter what happens in my life. And I’ll add that if you want to have kids you better have some cash to help pay the expenses, because there is always a chance you might… | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 22/03/21 02:20 AM |
| 36 | This trend where women are showing how happy they are single, is everythingGreat ! | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 22/03/21 02:16 AM |
| 112 | What are some of the most difficult realizations you’ve had about men ?I can’t rely on men for my life. It has to be mine from the beginning to the end. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 06/02/21 02:20 AM |
| 28 | Woman asks for the nicest way to approach asking her husband to stop leaving poop crumbs in their bed... RUN ! | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 06/02/21 02:19 AM |
| 38 | And then they proceed to tell the woman to 'smile more'They feel attacked | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 10/01/21 11:38 PM |
| 20 | FDS saved me big timeCongrats! Lots of love | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 10/01/21 11:37 PM |
| 14 | Weekly FDS Chat, Check-In, Quick Questions Answered December 20 2020Some orbiters tried to come after me after the funeral of our young friend and I’ve been abused. I said too bad and took the courage to leave this situation. I do have some self respect and will not allow these situations anymore. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 21/12/20 12:42 PM |
| 5 | This is why you should never lower your standardsTrue queen | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 21/12/20 12:32 PM |
| 7 | Narcissistic Abuse Documentary - a really educational documentary about what this kind of abuse entails and how to break free, with personal stories.I really recommend r narcissisticabuse for more experiences. You have so many familiar traits showed there, 🚩🚩🚩 | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 17/12/20 10:55 PM |
| 16 | Share FDS with your girlfriends today!I do it all the time when they need it or show some FDS in them | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 17/12/20 10:51 PM |
| 6 | Narcissistic Abuse Documentary - a really educational documentary about what this kind of abuse entails and how to break free, with personal stories.Love it ! Let’s get educated and grow 🥰 | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 17/12/20 10:48 PM |
| 29 | Cycle of abuseMy dear ladies with lots of psychological education and subs like narcissisticabuse we can understand and free ourselves from abuse. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 15/12/20 04:43 PM |
| 2 | Choose wiselyYou could also take the "sickness" part. It works only is HE is sick. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 03/10/20 07:54 PM |
| 53 | Why do men generalise women based on nationality?Being a south american is horrible as well. You are seen as a sex object. It's a bbig challenge to be taken seriously. Why ? Tribal and colonial culture, ingrained with a very steong catholic background. The heat and the fact that we spend more time outside and less covered. Dancing as well. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 13/09/20 08:49 PM |
| 3 | You’ll meet the most HVM IRL.Gym, game glubs. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 08/09/20 03:36 PM |
| 9 | How long should I wait to block him?3 seconds. And please block him everywhere : Facebook, Instagram, WhatsApp, messenger, phone, netflix, LinkedIn, telegram, email, snapchat and your real life. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 08/09/20 03:34 PM |
| 4 | I’d like you to consider making a dating handbook for pre-teen and teenaged girls🎶 Financial independence all the way 🎶 That saves women from - physical abuse - power balance abuse (work, relationships) - dependence -that always gives the woman the opportunity to leave | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 08/09/20 06:47 AM |
| 19 | Blocked my lvm ex on seemingly everything and now he is getting creative.Just say or text him : please do never contact me again. Otherwise I'll go to the police. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 06/09/20 01:56 PM |
| 29 | Question: while our assumption may be that "everyone" is looking for a partner to love, do you think many men are actually looking for a partner to hate?Well, sems like they want to prove to themselves and others that they are "powerful" enough to crush someone. The thing is that is not seen as a bad action in this society. The woman is to blame because she chose the wrong guy, got pregnant... | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 06/09/20 11:47 AM |
| 46 | Question: while our assumption may be that "everyone" is looking for a partner to love, do you think many men are actually looking for a partner to hate?That seems benign for them. The question is : is it benign for you ? | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 06/09/20 11:44 AM |
| 79 | Question: while our assumption may be that "everyone" is looking for a partner to love, do you think many men are actually looking for a partner to hate?No, just to get the benefits. Not everyone wants to degrade. But many people would never refuse to have someone do the domestical work for them for free for a lifetime. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 06/09/20 10:32 AM |
| 139 | Question: while our assumption may be that "everyone" is looking for a partner to love, do you think many men are actually looking for a partner to hate?To sleep with, cook and clean for them, for sure. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 06/09/20 09:58 AM |
| 3 | How many dates in should you expect him to stop seeing other people?Never, I don't value people that don't value me too. If you have to ask for it it's not the best sign. My mother always said that to my father and it showed he was the one who was scared to lose her. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 03/09/20 03:34 PM |
| 1 | How can I be/look as high maintenance as possible? What screams “pick me energy”?Just look at the Housewifes of someplace series. It's very cringe to watch these grown woman be so insecure by lack of personal, financial development talk about little shallow incidents and not support each other. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 01/09/20 05:57 PM |
| -3 | but seriously... how do i befriend other women. :/Pordcasting ! Super duper cool ! | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 26/08/20 04:38 PM |
| 3 | Nobody said following FDS would be easy.Well this is another insteresting topic. As for me, I used to do the first moves on guys that were never reciprocated.. So after a short while trying I'd just give up and move on. A relationship with someone who makes as much if not effort as you do is so much pleasurable and easier. Oh and many people seem to think that FDS is a "let's be single" mouvement. It's not. It's just for you to have boundaries, healthy relationships and to not forget about your personal interests. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 21/08/20 04:49 PM |
| 8 | Nobody said following FDS would be easy.You can still have crushes ! Just don't forget about you, your health, safety and boundaries. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 21/08/20 06:09 AM |
| 1 | Disrespects her during live Q&A multiple times + doesn't want to marry or have kids with her. And she continues to date him???Just watched it. I used to like him, but I don't think she has to pay for all of his personal traumas. I believe he has to make an effort, big time. If I was her, I'd leave. This video is deeply disrespectable. If a guy justs wants me to put on a video, and make money from it where he is telling me how much he does not want to construct anything with me in my face. Of course.. And then say he won't pay anything for me... I mean, I'd rather be using this time for people who actually care about me… | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 13/08/20 06:28 AM |
| 8 | Men want women to EAT but also stay ‘tiny.’ How Does that work?They want the perfect face, and then complain when some women get olastic surgery. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 19/07/20 09:47 AM |
| 14 | Just thought we all deserved a good chuckle this July 4th. Woke up this morning to this from a 7 year abusive ex.Block block block | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 04/07/20 05:44 PM |
| 1 | Block, block, blockSo poetic | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 04/07/20 05:34 PM |
| 2 | Removing NVM / LVM FriendsYes ! The same. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 30/06/20 06:16 AM |
| 6 | He wasted 2 years of my lifeIt happens to the best of us. It's ok. Just move on. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 30/06/20 06:15 AM |
| 6 | Dude dumped his girlfriend after she helped HIM get more self confidence 😐Look at Anna Faris and Chris Pratt | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 24/06/20 04:11 PM |
| 24 | I just can't anymore.In hispanic culture you get 2 last names : one from each parent. And in portugues speaking coutries the mother's name go first. Since I am closer to my mother and her family, I use her last name more. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 11/06/20 06:10 AM |
| 8 | Boyfriend isn’t supporting me going back to universityThr fact that he does not let you go back to uni is a straight insult to your intellect, capacity and future. Your bf does no believe or want you to do better than this. Save your dignity and move on please. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 10/06/20 04:59 PM |
| 10 | Get commitment or get movingYep, when you start feeling it's the case for you prepare your bags ladies ! | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 23/04/20 07:56 AM |
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