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| 2 | Your advice worked, what do you guys think the next step should be ?Some people just take a minute to warm up, at least she didn’t flinch or try to brush it off nicely. Next time continue the lil touches and try to check out her body language, also be aware of urs. Make sure u face her and turn ur body in towards her when ur out- this is easy at a bar and a chill bar is a great place to relax and talk and try little techniques for obvious reasons lol. Make sure she’s reciprocating the body langage. if she’s not turning towards u esp with ransoms on either side t… | /r/seduction | 15/10/18 03:28 AM |
| 1 | I have an issue when girls come up to me at bars/clubsThe fact that this is about the club and they make the first move BUT don't text back the next day means u seem like a fun one night stand to girls. I'm sure ur attractive and have great energy, that's why they would go for u. U trying to text them the next day is forsure a turn off to them. So are u trying to sleep with them or find a girlfriend? Ur probably treating them like u want to get to know them because u think thats how u do it, but don't do that at the club lol. thats the vibe a girl … | /r/seduction | 14/10/18 11:52 PM |
| – | Your advice worked, what do you guys think the next step should be ?Was she reacting when u tried to touch her arm or whatever other moves u tried? | /r/seduction | 14/10/18 11:37 PM |
| 3 | If you want to learn how to finger a girl, watch amateur videos of them masturbating.as a girl- no lol. there isnt 1 right way but theres definitely wrong ways and ur body language is not going to make me cum. watching these kinds of videos and picking up on some technique can only help | /r/seduction | 14/10/18 11:30 PM |
| 1 | Making plans, girl wants to invite friends.Either she’s not into u in that way or she’s nervous and wants her friends there for support. I think u should do the group thing one night, ur friends can make u look better too if they’re good friends lol, and then try again for the alone vibe. If she does this group thing again though, walk lol | /r/seduction | 12/10/18 05:10 AM |
| 1 | Assuming attractionUr absolutely right. I didn’t realize that I used to have to put way more effort into “effortless” flirting lol. I guess I did fake it and finally did become it so I forgot about that phase being valid too. My bad but good insight | /r/seduction | 11/10/18 09:54 AM |
| – | Assuming attractionYea I agree except I don’t think assuming every girl likes u without even talking to them shows actual confidence, seems forced like he has to trick himself into being confident. To me real confidence would be assuming there’s no reason for them not to like u but it’s cool if they don’t because there’s a million other girls to vibe with. Now that I typed that all out though it seems like we’re basically saying the same thing with different words lol. Because I think a big benefit of real confide… | /r/seduction | 11/10/18 07:04 AM |
| 2 | How do you be confident when you don’t have any positive refinforcement?May help if u set goals for urself, I just read about a 30 day challenge in another post on here and that would probably really help u. U will gain positive reinforcement as u push urself out the comfort zone with a 30 day challenge and get good reactions from girls. Plus if the 30 day challenge forum gets made, u could pick to try something someone else reports doing- it sounds like coming up with the next move can be challenging for u so this would give u something to model after. | /r/seduction | 11/10/18 03:06 AM |
| – | Assuming attractionI guess it depends on ur personality and whether ur ok with being the cocky dick who gets what he wants or being the irresistible one. Even if I only want to sleep with someone, I want them to be genuinely into me ...even if I know I’m not going to continue with it after lol. Assuming u’ve got IT when it comes to charm is super attractive to the other person. Assuming they like me sounds delusional to myself and I wouldn’t do that because, even if I am successful with her, she’s not going to hav… | /r/seduction | 11/10/18 02:49 AM |
| 2 | Would you guys be interested in a 2018 30-day challenge thread?I wanna do this for sure | /r/seduction | 11/10/18 02:31 AM |
| 2 | More knowledge isn't the answerYeah count agree more! There’s a vibe when ur doing it right that u should be able to sense and if u can’t then work on that instead of gimmicky moves | /r/seduction | 11/10/18 02:28 AM |
| 1 | When cold approaching, girls will usually give me their number, but never text me backOk from a girl- cold approaching is more of an ego boost than it is an opportunity for girls. I’ve been approached the same exact way u have described doing and it’s always nice to have someone do that, but there’s something about the formality of it that’s not very exciting. Give a girl some foreplay when u flirt. | /r/seduction | 11/10/18 02:20 AM |
| 1 | She didn't respond a text after saying "please, now we'll have to meet"Tbh I’d make it look like a coincidence lol. A coincidence turned into an opportunity, since it’s a popular place u and some friends just happen to be making a last minute road trip down there for no reason. lol setting shit up then acting clueless like “damn I guess the universe is in our favor” 😂. I’ve done this. I slept with a girl while she was visiting her friend at my college and it was casual, I saw some potential in her and wanted to test the waters for more but she lived 2 hours away so… | /r/seduction | 11/10/18 01:57 AM |
| 4 | How true is it that women will push for a date if she likes you?When I first started dating girls and only had experience with guys I had to learn what I could do to set the right environment for a girl to feel confident being blunt with me- u need to do this! Girls are not a formula, only solid thing that doesn’t change in this equation as u flirt with different girls is U, figure out what U do well that makes girls want to go on that initial date. She may not change her schedule around the FIRST time because typical girls often make u prove urself first, e… | /r/seduction | 11/10/18 01:49 AM |
| 1 | If ur a bi girl in this subreddit- pls read this!! Do u relate?To be fair I rly haven’t gotten hostile responses but I’m new to using reddit as a whole lol this post was more about seeing if other bi girls were in here like me and none have said anything so ok whatever!! I’ll only share the playbook with u guys since the girls are nowhere to be found | /r/seduction | 11/10/18 01:15 AM |
| 10 | If ur a bi girl in this subreddit- pls read this!! Do u relate?Yea I sense that in here sometimes, that some guys are a bit calculated and dont want to hear advice from a girl that contradicts what other guys (who couldnt possibly know what girls feel either) have told them. I don't mean calculated in a bad way, I can be the same way and they are just trying to master their game and i respect that. In real life, my guy friends and i dont run into this problem because vibes are simpler in person- they can feel i obviously am just like them so its no problem.… | /r/seduction | 10/10/18 08:44 AM |
| 1 | How to sweep a girl off her feet on a first dateThe advantage to postponing dates and continuing to talk is that she's thought about u more than u realize and (overly)romanticized u these past few weeks because u've been a mystery. Don't ruin the mystery right away, let her get butterflies in person too!! I was conscious about playing it cool on the date while also showing I remembered all the little random things I learned about her during the few weeks we just talked. I was actively reminding myself not to act too eager and to let her feel … | /r/seduction | 10/10/18 08:30 AM |
| – | She didn't respond a text after saying "please, now we'll have to meet"How far does she live? | /r/seduction | 10/10/18 07:07 AM |
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