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But if i text a guy and he takes 10 hours to send a one word response, and I keep trouble texting or if someone tries to set me up with someone else 3-4 times and it still doesn’t pan out, I am not going to keep putting in effort.
/r/PurplePillDebate06/10/17 07:51 PM
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There’s only so much business that you can be empathetic towards before you realize that someone is just saying they are busy but actually are not interested. After age like 17 you should be mature enough to communicate clearly and indicate interest if you are interested, and not ignore texts for days on end because you’re too busy.
/r/PurplePillDebate06/10/17 05:33 PM
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Ahh so you can screw her over if you get tired of her and she had been a housewife for like 30 years. I am not even trying to be mean I just am terrified of marrying and putting my career on hold to help my family and then ending up abandoned and poor
/r/PurplePillDebate06/10/17 05:31 PM
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I am in a 99% Women industry and they don’t go te extra mile because they have kids and husbands. It’s not a bad thing.
/r/PurplePillDebate06/10/17 05:29 PM
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Wrong. She has asked out guys and got rejected several times in the past. You really don’t know what the life of average looking women is like. You only notice the top 20% of women.
/r/PurplePillDebate06/10/17 02:10 PM
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This is stupid. It’s not weak and stupid to love someone more. What you need to protect yourself is self respect. My friend asked out a guy twice. He told her he doesn’t want a relationship. She was crushed for several weeks. She was the one who likes him more, but that’s not what scared him off. If a guy truly likes you, he will be happy that you asked him out twice, and say he is interested in a relationship. Her problem wasn’t that she asked him out. Her problem was that after he turned her d…
/r/PurplePillDebate06/10/17 01:03 PM
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Well there was someone who lived in China who has a Chinese housewife and he kept talking about how he won’t give her anything after a divorce, as if he was a planning to divorce her and leave her with nothing.
/r/PurplePillDebate06/10/17 12:54 PM
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Yeah women get paid less if they focus more on their family, it doesn’t indicate laziness
/r/PurplePillDebate06/10/17 12:52 PM
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Yes. Other Indian men who insist on having a blonde side chick.
/r/PurplePillDebate05/10/17 11:31 PM
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Ah you are the guy who oppresses your Chinese girlfriend who isn’t your wife. Yay for purge week
/r/PurplePillDebate05/10/17 11:30 PM
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Yes focusing on your family is a sign of laziness and not enough effort. Thank you smokingmonkey420, it’s good to hear that motherhood is not effort. No, I am not saying that women should be paid for motherhood. I am saying that spending time with your family, raising your kids, etc. isn’t a low effort task and women who do so aren’t lazy gold diggers.
/r/PurplePillDebate05/10/17 11:28 PM
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Yes they do get penalized. Men shame them and call them gold diggers if they make less money.
/r/PurplePillDebate05/10/17 11:25 PM
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But they aren’t Indian
/r/PurplePillDebate05/10/17 10:47 PM
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Because Indian men, like middle eastern men (I am middle eastern so I am not racist) have a tendency to treat their wives like shit. This is why they have a hard time getting western women. They only have their own men to blame for generations of child brides, polygamy, cheating, mistresses, and domineering men.
/r/PurplePillDebate05/10/17 10:47 PM
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wtf I know a ton of Indian people and the majority of them are not obese. Maybe chubby, but far from MASSIVE.
/r/PurplePillDebate05/10/17 10:45 PM
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For once, I agree with atlas.
/r/PurplePillDebate05/10/17 10:44 PM
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I get it, you like to beat women
/r/PurplePillDebate05/10/17 10:43 PM
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Why
/r/PurplePillDebate05/10/17 03:21 PM
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And every time they post a comment about it, they get like 10-30 upvotes
/r/PurplePillDebate05/10/17 01:04 PM
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I am in a nerd circle. I just have to meet someone through church.
/r/PurplePillDebate05/10/17 01:03 PM
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They act like in the OP. I even read about a guy who wished he could hit women.
/r/PurplePillDebate05/10/17 01:03 PM
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It’s funny how men in the manosphere act like this all the time and are praised as wise alphas
/r/PurplePillDebate05/10/17 06:18 AM
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This is how men on TRP act
/r/PurplePillDebate05/10/17 06:15 AM
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I will only do online dating as a last resort lol I don’t trust it
/r/PurplePillDebate05/10/17 06:14 AM
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So I should quit my job and get a stem degree to meet a husband?
/r/PurplePillDebate05/10/17 05:58 AM
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Where do I find a nice upper middle class beta who is well off but only a little bit not a lot so that other women don’t grab him?
/r/PurplePillDebate05/10/17 05:57 AM
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What are you trying to say?
/r/PurplePillDebate05/10/17 05:56 AM
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I don’t but I also am aware of the sentiment
/r/PurplePillDebate05/10/17 05:04 AM
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But then you get called a gold digger and an entitled spoiled brat by MGTOW’s.
/r/PurplePillDebate05/10/17 12:44 AM
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That’s vague be specific.
/r/PurplePillDebate05/10/17 12:42 AM
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What do you have in mind? Maybe she can quit and focus on getting fit and on the family and he can foam with rage and resent her. I honestly don’t know what you would do in that situation.
/r/PurplePillDebate05/10/17 12:41 AM
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Golden truths in comedy.
/r/PurplePillDebate04/10/17 02:58 PM
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I don’t have any specific articles, but I know there was a study done that women are unhappier than ever before. I also know a lot of families where the wife makes $80-100k and the husband makes $40-50k and the wife is always exhausted and overwhelmed and gets fat and is expected to do all the homemaking duties in addition to making the main income.
/r/PurplePillDebate04/10/17 02:57 PM
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I don’t care if men get angry. Marriages are happier when women focus on the home and men are the main breadwinners.
/r/PurplePillDebate04/10/17 01:40 PM
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Not sure if serious
/r/PurplePillDebate04/10/17 01:40 PM
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/u/theiamsamurai look you’re famous
/r/PurplePillDebate04/10/17 01:23 AM
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Good because I find anal sex disgusting and will never do it.
/r/PurplePillDebate03/10/17 02:56 PM
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Ooh, what an exposé. You truly figured out my secret.
/r/PurplePillDebate03/10/17 02:22 PM
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Neither do I, but if a woman says she doesn’t want anal sex, men circlejerk complaining that she is an entitled and spoiled brat and she is withholding pleasure and joy from her husband and that now he is going to cheat on her.
/r/PurplePillDebate03/10/17 02:21 PM
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No, I only date guys below 5’2.
/r/PurplePillDebate01/10/17 11:21 PM
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Not the girl you’re answering but I would go with a black guy but I don’t math with Filipino guys. Filipino/ Asian guys tend to strongly prefer and be compatible with other Asian women, and their parents tend to strongly dislike any girl who isn’t of the same race. There are exceptions but it’s generally what i see
/r/PurplePillDebate01/10/17 11:17 PM
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PM me if you know lol I will confirm if you’re right!! And also what is better? No I haven’t travelled enough but I visited some “flyover states” and find that the suburban areas are pretty nice and close enough to the city to drive but also private enough.
/r/PurplePillDebate01/10/17 10:09 PM
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If I don’t get married by the time I am 30, I am going to leave the state and get a house and car cash. Right now I live with my parents and am saving 80% of what I make. I want to capitalize on this (and my parents want me to take advantage too, they don’t want me in debt).
/r/PurplePillDebate01/10/17 09:59 PM
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I am a woman. My family is UMC and I am Middle middle class. My dad works and my mom is a SAHM. I want to become UMC one day because I live in a cripplingly expensive area No pill, I agree and disagree with aspects of both. Lower class: a little lower yes, but I couldn’t be with someone significantly lower. Inb4 people get mad: I spent a few years going to LMC churches and whatnot and I have learned that even if a guy is from a lower class it doesn’t mean he will be more eager to marry you or da…
/r/PurplePillDebate01/10/17 09:32 PM
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Hiring a maid is fine what bothers me is when men just expect women to do everything including work full time and do the housework
/r/PurplePillDebate30/09/17 11:00 PM
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wtf does this comment have to do with anything
/r/PurplePillDebate30/09/17 07:50 PM
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But most men expect women to work and bring home a substantial income, which isn’t feminine, but since men want women to work then they should be willing to help with the housework.
/r/PurplePillDebate30/09/17 02:06 PM
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Do you work full time?!
/r/PurplePillDebate30/09/17 01:44 PM
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How often do you clean your toilet bowl?
/r/PurplePillDebate30/09/17 03:47 AM
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Oh ok lol sorry then ;) to you too haha
/r/PurplePillDebate30/09/17 02:53 AM
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I see
/r/PurplePillDebate30/09/17 01:36 AM
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That’s such a random niche.
/r/PurplePillDebate30/09/17 01:12 AM
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Wtf is this question I would be happy and love him and congratulate him on not being a degenerate. Edit he is the female version of me and my friends.
/r/PurplePillDebate30/09/17 01:10 AM
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So you wouldn’t get married or would live separately from your wife?
/r/PurplePillDebate30/09/17 01:08 AM
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People think being a SAHM is easy but it’s not. My mom is one and works harder than me and I work full time.
/r/PurplePillDebate30/09/17 01:07 AM
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I included yard work as housework. And in my area no one has actual yards.
/r/PurplePillDebate30/09/17 12:57 AM
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So you want to replace your wife because she hired a cleaning crew?
/r/PurplePillDebate30/09/17 12:57 AM
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We’ll see that’s one problem. You probably think scrubbing the toilet twice a week is prissy and would get annoyed if your wife asked you to scrub it once a week and she scrubs it once a week. I think it’s gross to let more than a week go by without scrubbing it.
/r/PurplePillDebate30/09/17 12:56 AM
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But what about the little poop particles that stick on there? It doesn’t disgust you?
/r/PurplePillDebate30/09/17 12:54 AM
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Wait so how often do you clean your toilet?
/r/PurplePillDebate30/09/17 12:53 AM
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But what if she works 60 hours a week but makes only 60k a year while you work 40 hours a week and make $100k a year?
/r/PurplePillDebate30/09/17 12:52 AM
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You insinuate that I am making a business proposition, then you yourself make a business proposition.
/r/PurplePillDebate30/09/17 12:51 AM
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Do your standards include scrubbing the toilet at minimum once a week
/r/PurplePillDebate30/09/17 12:49 AM
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I live in Los Angeles, we just have a tiny patio with some small plants. It’s like 5% or something tiny like that.
/r/PurplePillDebate30/09/17 12:48 AM
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The problem with this “to her own standard” thing is that many men are okay with a slovenly mess and then just say “oh! It’s to your own standard!!” When a woman asks him to clean it up.
/r/PurplePillDebate30/09/17 12:47 AM
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But I want to vacuum once a week and someone may be like “ooh we don’t need to vacuum once a week!!!” Or I want to clean the toilet every 3-4 days and someone may say “ooh that is excessive!!”
/r/PurplePillDebate29/09/17 02:58 PM
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So your wife is a SAHM? Just wondering, my mom is too.
/r/PurplePillDebate29/09/17 02:57 PM
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I want to do the physical labor, I am a restless person and I hate sitting and I want to get land one day. You can cook and clean lol.
/r/PurplePillDebate29/09/17 02:56 PM
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Me too with my room and bathroom
/r/PurplePillDebate29/09/17 01:16 PM
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They may message a ton of women but how many will they marry?
/r/PurplePillDebate29/09/17 02:03 AM
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But you’re an exception, not the rule. Most women I know have only have had sex with men they are in love with.
/r/PurplePillDebate29/09/17 02:01 AM
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What I mean is that sex is emotional for women and only truly pleasurable if true love is involved.
/r/PurplePillDebate29/09/17 02:00 AM
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Exactly why women should save sex for marriage. Women now days don’t have sex for pleasure. They get absolutely nothing from sex. Women only have sex hoping it will keep a man around. Men don’t even care if a woman has an orgasm. It’s just all about the man.
/r/PurplePillDebate28/09/17 09:58 PM
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Good lord.
/r/PurplePillDebate28/09/17 09:55 PM
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Exactly. So he shouldn’t imply that men are the only ones who are expected to slave away at soul sucking jobs all the time.
/r/PurplePillDebate28/09/17 09:55 PM
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It’s ok
/r/PurplePillDebate28/09/17 09:54 PM
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This woman literally did nothing to humiliate her ex. His identity is private and she got over him. How is this any different from what men do???
/r/PurplePillDebate28/09/17 07:47 PM
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What if she works 60 hours a week but only makes $50k a year while you make $80k and Work 40 hours a week?
/r/PurplePillDebate28/09/17 07:42 PM
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By having sex with men. That’s what it says. BY HAVING SEX WITH MEN.
/r/PurplePillDebate28/09/17 07:41 PM
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Or you could just have sex with women who are unmarried or at least their husbands consent to an open relationship.
/r/PurplePillDebate28/09/17 07:39 PM
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Men get mad when you say cook dinner together. They expect women to do everything. Someone told me I am demanding and rigid when I said if both people work full time and a woman cooks then the man should wash the dishes.
/r/PurplePillDebate28/09/17 07:34 PM
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Yes they are more picky.
/r/PurplePillDebate28/09/17 05:28 PM
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WOMEN ARE EXPECTED TO HAVE A CAREER TOO. ITS NOT LIKE MEN WANT A WOMAN WITHOUT A CAREER.
/r/PurplePillDebate28/09/17 05:27 PM
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Men call any woman who isn’t a smart and educated career woman a lazy whore.
/r/PurplePillDebate28/09/17 04:23 PM
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Because you know her husband would be devastated if he found out, but you just don’t care.
/r/PurplePillDebate28/09/17 04:23 PM
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The vast majority of women would prefer to save sex for marriage, but don’t because they know many men will leave them and will call them prudes.
/r/PurplePillDebate28/09/17 04:22 PM
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I disagree. AngryMGTOW made a big proclamation that women who are dentists are dentists because they aren’t smart enough to be doctors. Arguably, men feel that women who are nurses are only Nurses because they aren’t smart enough to be medical doctors. Only women who are in the top and elite career paths gain love and respect from men.
/r/PurplePillDebate28/09/17 04:21 PM
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She is doing more wrong, but you are still doing wrong.
/r/PurplePillDebate28/09/17 04:19 PM
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Especially since men don’t bother to worry about a woman’s sexual pleasure or giving her an orgasm.
/r/PurplePillDebate28/09/17 04:16 PM
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I didn’t say that, I didn’t even quote that. You quoted it in your imagination as a false quote. I never ever quoted that. I did quote that a guy should pay when sex is on the table. Which is true. Who is more likely to find a good, solid husband who is beta bux and loves her very much? A 30 year old woman who has had 10 serious relationships and 15?sexual partners over the course of 10 years? A 30 year old woman who has had 3 sexual partners over the course of 10 years? Or a 30 year old who had…
/r/PurplePillDebate28/09/17 04:15 PM
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You’re knowingly hurting her husband. Keep telling yourself you have no responsibility whatsoever. It’s fine.
/r/PurplePillDebate28/09/17 04:11 PM
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You deliberately left out the part which says if you’re having sex And it’s true. Every sexual partner a single woman has knocks down her SMV. And for men, they gain SMV. I am saving sex for marriage, so I don’t expect men to pay. But if I was sleeping with someone, I would expect them to pay more often. Why? Because I am giving him my youth and a piece of my SMV.
/r/PurplePillDebate28/09/17 03:02 PM
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What specific shitty behavior? Show me in quotes.
/r/PurplePillDebate28/09/17 02:18 PM
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Because you know you’re doing wrong but you are trying to rationalize it.
/r/PurplePillDebate28/09/17 02:17 PM
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I still do, too, and I am a woman. Men even ask me that.
/r/PurplePillDebate28/09/17 01:06 PM
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No. I haven’t dated much, but while not every guy who has liked me has been “model material” they have all been “good enough”. I find lots of men attractive, like I would consider the YouTuber LeafyIsHere attractive if we were compatible
/r/PurplePillDebate28/09/17 04:27 AM
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No one else is going to water everything and maintain the yard. She cooks a full meal from scratch nearly every day, cleans, runs errands, organizes the home, etc. It’s a ton of “small jobs” that add up and she works a lot.
/r/PurplePillDebate28/09/17 03:52 AM
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It’s not like people will throw money at you, but It’s very doable. The ADN is phasing out, but jobs still exist and things like psych and nursing homes are always hiring.
/r/PurplePillDebate28/09/17 02:50 AM
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Or if you’re insane and work 2 jobs in the Bay Area, 72 hours a week, 7p-7a you can make $200k with just an ADN
/r/PurplePillDebate28/09/17 02:38 AM
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Also if you work 5 days a week in psych at $35 an hour and 1 night a week in another psych unit at $40 an hour and occasionally you will make very good money.
/r/PurplePillDebate28/09/17 02:37 AM
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Yes: get an associates degree in nursing. Work in a psych unit in Los Angeles/ San Diego California You will make at minimum $30 an hour with $1-3 extra if you work nights Establish yourself and make your way up to like $40 an hour, switch jobs if you need to Also work some of overtime or doubles
/r/PurplePillDebate28/09/17 02:35 AM
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But what if you do housework and raise the kids
/r/PurplePillDebate28/09/17 01:54 AM
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California!
/r/PurplePillDebate28/09/17 01:54 AM
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My mom is a SAHM and all her kids are adults and she works harder than me and I work full time. She spent all day gardening our backyard.
/r/PurplePillDebate28/09/17 01:53 AM
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billionaires marry strippers Example? And good for your friend but average women can’t anticipate that. Only modelesque Stacie’s can afford to neglect their career
/r/PurplePillDebate28/09/17 01:53 AM
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By many men’s logic, they do expect women to have sex with them if they don’t have sex. Many men take women to small claims court demanding the money back from dinner.
/r/PurplePillDebate28/09/17 01:51 AM
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Yeah as someone said, there is a certain population of men who complain when women work less and/ or make more money
/r/PurplePillDebate28/09/17 01:50 AM
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But their SMV is more valuable than that of a “spoiled western whore”
/r/PurplePillDebate28/09/17 01:45 AM
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Oh no I don’t expect anything. But men call it freeloading.
/r/PurplePillDebate28/09/17 01:45 AM
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Keep hamstering 🐹
/r/PurplePillDebate28/09/17 01:44 AM
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Why would I want to be with a man who is just tolerating me?
/r/PurplePillDebate27/09/17 07:25 PM
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I would rather work less hours and be with my family, but men consider that freeloading
/r/PurplePillDebate27/09/17 07:24 PM
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Uhhh I think the female doctor will be more wanted and men will figure they can use her for more money.
/r/PurplePillDebate27/09/17 07:22 PM
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No. It’s southern California and you would need 2 good jobs to survive.
/r/PurplePillDebate27/09/17 07:21 PM
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A lot of people do. It has reverse affirmative action male Nurses advance further and faster than female.
/r/PurplePillDebate27/09/17 07:16 PM
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And my classmates married EMT’s (~half of RN salary) and teachers (~2/3)
/r/PurplePillDebate27/09/17 07:15 PM
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Why? In my area you need to make $100k just to afford a studio
/r/PurplePillDebate27/09/17 07:13 PM
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Tolerate implies you don’t like something but you put up with it
/r/PurplePillDebate27/09/17 07:12 PM
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Men with good jobs don’t marry women who work fast food or retail, either. Unless she is like 20 years old.
/r/PurplePillDebate27/09/17 07:11 PM
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Ok I get it, you don’t believe in marriage.
/r/PurplePillDebate27/09/17 07:10 PM
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In terms of dating, women have more to lose by having sex with men so men should pay more often.
/r/PurplePillDebate27/09/17 07:09 PM
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Not really. You can make like $80-100k with less than a bachelors
/r/PurplePillDebate27/09/17 07:08 PM
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I am a nurse and I know of 3 men who are also Nurses who were married or in relationships to doctors (well one was a dentist) edit: four
/r/PurplePillDebate27/09/17 07:07 PM
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Not really unless he is hot, but unless he has a good job. No woman gets pissed off when a man with a good job says he wants a woman with a good job. However, the genders reversed sends people into rage.
/r/PurplePillDebate27/09/17 07:06 PM
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How awful, women should just be like men.
/r/PurplePillDebate27/09/17 04:37 PM
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Yeah my dad has a temper tantrum every day and it’s very annoying.
/r/PurplePillDebate27/09/17 04:37 PM
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If a woman rejects a man with a lack of career ambition, she is called a gold digger.
/r/PurplePillDebate27/09/17 04:36 PM
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But men consider women who are stay at home moms to be free loaders, and they also consider women who don’t pay 50% of everything freeloaders.
/r/PurplePillDebate27/09/17 04:36 PM
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Ehhhhh I don’t see men who have good jobs dating women with dead end jobs. Men who are dead end will date women with dead end jobs but not men who are in any way successful.
/r/PurplePillDebate27/09/17 04:35 PM
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Marriage (according to Bing): the legally or formally recognized union of a man and a woman (or, in some jurisdictions, two people of the same sex) as partners in a relationship The implication is a romantic and familial relationship. You guys aren’t partners in a romantic relationship if you are marrying simply for a tax break There’s a reason why the government cracks down on people who marry just to get a visa.
/r/PurplePillDebate27/09/17 04:26 PM
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Woman: "I love this man. I will do anything for him. I want to spend the rest of my life with him. He is the best man I have ever seen in my life. I love this man so much". Man: "Fuck this bitch, she's saving sex for marriage, what a disgusting prude. Maybe if I am persistent enough she will sleep with me and then I can dump her." Obviously less exaggerated, but that's how it is.
/r/PurplePillDebate27/09/17 04:10 AM
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-___- Obviously if you are doing a sham marriage for a tax break, and you both don't care, then sleeping around is fine.
/r/PurplePillDebate27/09/17 03:59 AM
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It’s ok no worries
/r/PurplePillDebate25/09/17 01:16 PM
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In fact, the tenth commandment also says not to cover someone else’s wife.
/r/PurplePillDebate25/09/17 01:01 PM
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No, it applies to both people. If you know someone is married and yet you willingly sleep with them, God (or whatever you believe in) isn’t going to say “well, it’s okay that you slept with him/ her!!! You’re not the one who is married!!!!” Good grief.
/r/PurplePillDebate25/09/17 01:00 PM
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The same reason a woman who deliberately looks for married men to sleep with is a bad person. When you knowingly sleep with someone who is married, you are knowingly interfering with their marriage and are committing adultery. Saying “oooh I didn’t make any promises, he/she did” doesn’t absolve you from guilt. The cheater did a greater wrong, yes, but the “other man/ woman” also is doing wrong.
/r/PurplePillDebate25/09/17 05:36 AM
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well enjoy being a bad person, and justifying it in your head "well she was okay with it!" isn't enough, it's still adultery.
/r/PurplePillDebate25/09/17 04:13 AM
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This is so dumb, you could just sleep with random single women.
/r/PurplePillDebate25/09/17 03:54 AM
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I guarantee you that any attractive married woman who posts on Reddit/ tinder/ okcupid/ PoF/ craigslist/ etc. who posts “I am married and am looking for a man to sleep with because my husband just isn’t enough for me” will get a large number of replies. By your logic, why would this be bad?
/r/PurplePillDebate25/09/17 03:52 AM
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No, it’s not as bad as murder or rape. BUT it is still bad enough for me to end a relationship or to at least make me seriously consider divorce. Oh and men should not cheat either. Don’t bullshit me with your lock and key analogy.
/r/PurplePillDebate25/09/17 03:50 AM
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“Women should approach more men!!” “But if she does, she is a slut and has approached other men before!!”
/r/PurplePillDebate24/09/17 04:12 PM
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But there’s a limit to when you should assume he is shy vs not interested. Example: my mom tried to set me up with someone’s son, who was supposedly shy. I am open to meeting a man this way. For 2-3 months we would try to make plans, and they would flake out with a weak excuse. At a certain point, shy or not, we decided it was clear that he wasn’t interrelated and we stopped trying. I wish they just said “I am sorry, he isn’t interested”.
/r/PurplePillDebate24/09/17 04:07 PM
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You posted the exact same thing like a week or two ago, and I agree with most of it except for the infidelity. No one should cheat on anyone. If a man is so desperate to cheat, then he should 100% allow his wife to cheat, too.
/r/PurplePillDebate24/09/17 12:11 AM
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Not in my experiences. Fat men are the meanest towards fat women.
/r/PurplePillDebate22/09/17 01:38 PM
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My best friend from high school was like 30 lbs overweight and liked an obese ugly guy. He turned her down for being too fat, even though he was much fatter than her. She longed for love and would go after the betas and omegas: obese middle eastern and Indian teenagers. A lot of them didn’t want her for being too fat, even though they were fat themselves. She eventually found someone but a lot of guys HATED her. So I think fat men need to get a grip and date fat women.
/r/PurplePillDebate22/09/17 01:15 PM
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Because everyone needs encouragement. I listened to a podcast about trade school and this lady who founded a women’s auto shop. I wish I took auto shop in high school, but it was the class for boys who got bad grades. I really wish I took it, because I know nothing about how to fix a broken car. Now I feel encouraged to maybe look for classes or something and learn how to make basic repairs when SHTF. BUT I think men need inspiration and encouragement too, and we don’t do it at all. Men on TV ne…
/r/PurplePillDebate22/09/17 01:11 PM
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I’m such a nice guy! Women don’t appreciate me! They should be raped for not appreciating how nice of a guy I am!!
/r/PurplePillDebate21/09/17 01:39 PM
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Hypergamy: for example, if you're a man who is married to a doctor and are making less than $150k a year, she is the one with a higher SMV. Branch swinging: examples include "practice girlfriends" and messaging hundreds of girls then settling for one who accepts your advances and keeping her around because you don't think you can do better. As soon as someone more beautiful comes in, leave. Longing for Stacy when all you have is Beth Using women for money Alpha bucks beta bucks. I would be hella…
/r/PurplePillDebate19/09/17 07:47 PM
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Commitment = dedication You're not dedicated if you cheat.
/r/PurplePillDebate19/09/17 02:17 PM
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I am the one who said if a man cheats, he shouldn't complain if his woman cheats too, and that while I disagree it's only fair. Then you went on a long ass rant.
/r/PurplePillDebate19/09/17 12:59 PM
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You're the one talking about marriage.
/r/PurplePillDebate19/09/17 12:53 PM
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You don't consider love and service and loyalty to be good enough to warrant your own love and service and loyalty. It's just not good enough. It's just a trap to you. A woman loving you isn't a good enough reason to love her back. Have fun.
/r/PurplePillDebate18/09/17 09:29 PM
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Ok. Have fun with your girlfriend.
/r/PurplePillDebate18/09/17 09:27 PM
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If you really want to cheat so badly, then at least have the consideration to let your spouse cheat and make an open relationship. Let her have her own freedoms too. Don't be the selfish one hogging all the "fun".
/r/PurplePillDebate18/09/17 09:27 PM
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What does anything you said have to do with cheating? You made a huge ass rant and it doesn't appear to have anything to do with my comment on cheating.
/r/PurplePillDebate18/09/17 09:26 PM
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I don't have time to read everything. I am not a feminist, and never claimed to be Don't marry based on sex I would rather not have children then go through hell and have my kids end up drug addicts I don't want "guys like you" to commit, you obviously have a lot of rage and anger towards women and that is a big pain in the ass to deal with. Sorry.
/r/PurplePillDebate18/09/17 09:25 PM
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It's sad that committing to a relationship is considered a trap. You would think that a guy would be happy to have a woman love him and serve him and be loyal to him, but it's just not good enough because he has to commit and be loving and good. Too much work.
/r/PurplePillDebate18/09/17 07:42 PM
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I mean, what are our options now? Do you really believe the majority of young women have the opportunity to be upper middle class stay at home moms?
/r/PurplePillDebate18/09/17 04:11 PM
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But it nullifies the claim that women have absolutely no options once they're over 30. My only options now, in my early 20's, are random guys on the internet. Why would I want that now instead of 30 years from now as a last resort?
/r/PurplePillDebate18/09/17 02:59 PM
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If you did have tons of sex in the past it's not something to worry excessively about. But for future relationships, you have to be willing to wait to have sex, explain that you're serious now, etc.
/r/PurplePillDebate18/09/17 01:22 PM
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Eh I don't pick the most attractive ones. I don't even date much. I am writing based off of what I see here, and I was told I am entitled and demanding on here.
/r/PurplePillDebate18/09/17 01:21 PM
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Most men don't want to take care of women. They either can't afford to support a family or consider SAHM's and housewives to be gold diggers.
/r/PurplePillDebate17/09/17 03:03 PM
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The equivalent of a "nice guy" is "men only want bitches". There is a whole sub, /r/nicegirls dedicated to that sort of stuff. The equivalent of "where have all the good men gone?" is the guy past his physical prime who spend years having casual sex saying "why can't I find a good girl?" Believe it or not, most women don't want a guy who had sex with tons of random women either. I know if a guy told me he had sex with a 100 women in the past and was now ready to settle down, I would be a hell of…
/r/PurplePillDebate17/09/17 02:47 PM
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Where are good men? I am not asking "where have all the good men gone"? I am saying "where are they in the first place?" On here, I was told that men consider me expecting them to help with the housework if we are both working full time makes me bossy, entitled, insufferable, etc. If the average good male can't be bothered to even help with the housework, and doesn't contribute anything besides companionship, why even bother? I know women who work 2-3 jobs then come home and spend hours doing ho…
/r/PurplePillDebate17/09/17 02:42 PM
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But even an older woman in her 50's can find some random guy on the internet if she really wanted to.
/r/PurplePillDebate17/09/17 02:37 PM
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Ok good
/r/PurplePillDebate17/09/17 12:59 AM
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I wish lol
/r/PurplePillDebate17/09/17 12:58 AM
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Yeah I will probably move out of state.
/r/PurplePillDebate17/09/17 12:58 AM
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For me it does. I don't know if you consider vacuuming weekly, doing laundry biweekly, taking out the trash daily washing the dishes daily, washing sheets weekly, scrubbing toilets biweekly (or more if someone has diarrhea lol), getting gas, wiping all surfaces weekly, dusting regularly, and generally keeping things organized as being a neat freak but I consider it the bare minimum.
/r/PurplePillDebate16/09/17 11:46 PM
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Then I am not either. We can live in filth together or hire a maid.
/r/PurplePillDebate16/09/17 11:44 PM
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You don't address my point because it's true. I hit a spot that you don't want to address. Show me one man that legitimately wants a housewife, and doesn't consider her lady or a gold digger.
/r/PurplePillDebate16/09/17 11:41 PM
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I mean, I am talking about an actual house. Not a studio apartment.
/r/PurplePillDebate16/09/17 11:40 PM
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Plus I am sick of the cities. It costs $800k for a house where I live, and it takes 45 minutes just to drive 7-8 miles. I want out. I hate it here. I hate the crowds, expensiveness, and intense competition. Even ghettos are incredibly high priced, and I don't live in San Francisco.
/r/PurplePillDebate16/09/17 11:37 PM
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If you want to know, you can message me. I don't want to be screwed over when society collapses but be married. I would rather be alone and alive than married and screwed.
/r/PurplePillDebate16/09/17 11:35 PM
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Woman: "I cook, you wash the dishes. Afterwards, we do a little bit of light housework every day and then we get a good 2.5-4 hours to do whatever we want." You: WHAT A RIGID AND BOSSY AND CONTROLLING CHORE SCHEDULE!!! Man: "I cannot marry a woman who doesn't cook and clean. Western women are so lazy. They should contribute to the home. I expect my wife to cook and clean AND not be a lazy leech. She must make a good $50-60k+ and if she doesn't, she is a gold digger. You: yes! I agree! What man w…
/r/PurplePillDebate16/09/17 11:32 PM
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Well, would you be happy with a housewife who did all the housework while you made the money?
/r/PurplePillDebate16/09/17 11:21 PM
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Because the Bible says we will not be able to buy or sell. Which means homelessness. Unless we grow our own food.
/r/PurplePillDebate16/09/17 11:21 PM
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Tell me what specifically is rigid. In quotes.
/r/PurplePillDebate16/09/17 11:20 PM
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It doesn't need to be fully off the grid, but when the nuclear war happens I'll appreciate having off grid capabilities.
/r/PurplePillDebate16/09/17 11:12 PM
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If he wants me to make good money and be a breadwinner (the vast majority of men expect a woman who is a successful contributor to finances and who brings in 50-60k+ per year) then he can contribute to the housework. I am not going to join the plantation that MGTOW like to talk about constantly. You wanted a breadwinner, you have to split the housework. I am not even a feminist. Ideally I would be a housewife. But men asked for women to work, and make good money, so they get what they want and t…
/r/PurplePillDebate16/09/17 11:11 PM
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Why such a response? Do you believe that it is fair for a man to expect his wife to do all the housework and for him to do none when his wife and him both work equal hours?
/r/PurplePillDebate16/09/17 10:58 PM
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If he wants to, then fine. But if we are both working 40 hours a week full time, then we both have to split housework as evenly as we can (also based on what we like such as I like laundry you like vacuuming) or we hire someone. I wouldn't tolerate a man expecting me to do everything.
/r/PurplePillDebate16/09/17 10:13 PM
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No, i am not against him working, but hobbies can wait. Why should I clean? Do my hobbies and work not matter? Why is it a "demand" when a woman asks you to contribute to housework? Most people have about 4-5 hours of time after work before bed. If both partners spend 30 minutes cooking/ washing dishes every day and 30-60 minutes doing moderate housework, then they can both get 2.5-4 hours to do whatever they want. If one person has to do all the housework after work, then one person gets 4-5 ho…
/r/PurplePillDebate16/09/17 09:51 PM
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I am serious about my denomination and it's doctrines. I have tried bringing a guy to my church but he didn't understand and kept saying "why not just go to both churches?"
/r/PurplePillDebate16/09/17 03:25 PM
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This lady tried to set me up with her grandson but every time I tried to meet him his grandma would be like "oh there's an event on this day, can you come another day?" And it's been dragging on for months now.
/r/PurplePillDebate16/09/17 02:30 PM
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Yes but I don't meet anyone at my church. It's all old people or married people.
/r/PurplePillDebate16/09/17 02:28 PM
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Hi do you also want to convert to my denomination and live off the grid? If so then PM me.
/r/PurplePillDebate16/09/17 02:16 PM
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After work, I get home at 6 pm. I have to wake up at 5:30 am to get ready. If he plays video games for 4 hours a day, then he is going to be playing video games the entire time we are home together, with a 30 minute exception for rating. If he is also working 8-5, then the entire time he is home will be spent on video games. He won't help out with any housework. I need a man who will help out with housework, especially after work when we are both exhausted. For example, if one of us cooks, the o…
/r/PurplePillDebate16/09/17 02:15 PM
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If he's religious and in my denomination then it's a green flag.
/r/PurplePillDebate16/09/17 02:11 PM
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Where do I meet these guys, because that's literally my ideal, and I am saving my first kiss for marriage.
/r/PurplePillDebate16/09/17 02:10 PM
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To find a bunch of men and live an easy life.
/r/PurplePillDebate16/09/17 02:05 PM
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Maybe I should move to the rural midwest or something
/r/PurplePillDebate16/09/17 04:13 AM
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But it is true. This is the typical RP man. This is eye opening.
/r/PurplePillDebate14/09/17 01:28 PM
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Ok. You're free to have contempt, but I am pretty traditional myself and I wouldn't tolerate cheating. Not only that, the vast majority of men wouldn't tolerate their wife cheating either. It's your personal view to hold contempt against people who wouldn't tolerate cheating.
/r/PurplePillDebate11/09/17 01:25 PM
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Good point.
/r/PurplePillDebate11/09/17 02:11 AM
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It's not keeping your word when someone cheats. Cheating and abuse are literally the only two things that people have absolutely no obligation to keep their word over, at all. Most marriage vows include never ever cheating, and once that contract has been broken, it becomes NULL. Some people choose to stay with someone who cheated on them, but that doesn't make someone who didn't choose to stay morally inferior or bad at keeping promises or breaking a vow or whatever you are trying to say. You s…
/r/PurplePillDebate11/09/17 01:40 AM
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Leaving someone who cheated on you doesn't mean you don't have grit or substance. I'm happy you are okay that your spouse cheated on you. Most women are not okay.
/r/PurplePillDebate11/09/17 12:47 AM
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I agree with everything except for cheating. No one should cheat on anyone in a marriage. I don't even agree with open marriages, but that is besides the point. I do think if the man says he cannot control himself and has desired and whatnot that he cannot control, then he needs to be 100% okay with his wife cheating, too. If he wants to sleep with other people, he needs to be okay with his wife doing the same. If he's not okay, then it becomes oppression, and unfair. Some people do this and are…
/r/PurplePillDebate10/09/17 06:04 PM
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You told me you didn't answer because you thought it was a trick question literally 1 comment ago. I didn't know you were a female, and you insulted me for not knowing. The question still applies, you can simply answer "I am a female. I think it's okay for women to cheat, too" or "i am a female. I think it's not okay for women to cheat, and this is my explanation why". Then I can agree or disagree. Because this is purple pill DEBATE. And then we move on. But your initial response was accusatory …
/r/PurplePillDebate10/09/17 05:55 PM
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admits to dodging the question because she considered it a "trick question" repeatedly told me she isn't dodging the question. still doesn't answer. Hmmmmmmmmmmmmmm
/r/PurplePillDebate10/09/17 05:47 PM
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I brought it up as a sin in a previous comment discussing my own personal opinion. You still didn't answer the question. You just said "women stay with men who cheat all the time", which is not an answer again, and is still seemingly dodging the question I asked. You should answer if you don't want me to assume you are dodging the question. I asked you: is it okay for a man to cheat on his wife? Is it okay for a woman to cheat on her husband? What is the difference. I am middle eastern, and I kn…
/r/PurplePillDebate10/09/17 05:44 PM
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You are dodging the point of my question. Is it okay for a woman to cheat on her husband? Is it okay for a man to cheat on his wife? What is the difference, besides "it's easier for a woman to get sex"?
/r/PurplePillDebate10/09/17 05:36 PM
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No it's not. It's worse. It's betraying your spouse. It's saying "you're not good enough for me". What would you do if you married a woman and she cheated on you?
/r/PurplePillDebate10/09/17 05:32 PM
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Women should be allowed to cheat too then.
/r/PurplePillDebate10/09/17 05:31 PM
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I would expect 100% fidelity and I would not tolerate infidelity at all.
/r/PurplePillDebate10/09/17 05:31 PM
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Because their culture tells them it's ok, all those women are whores.
/r/PurplePillDebate10/09/17 05:29 PM
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Well that's why I pretty much only date American born white, black, or second/ third generation Hispanic men. I am middle eastern and my culture says that it is ok for a man to cheat. I say no, no, no, no way and that is why my dating choices exclude people from these kinds of cultures.
/r/PurplePillDebate10/09/17 05:28 PM
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Cheating is not a "hard time" it's a betrayal of trust. It's not "sacrifice and pride and grit" to tolerate someone cheating on you. Cheating is disgusting, and a sin.
/r/PurplePillDebate10/09/17 05:27 PM
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You have to be extremely retarded to have unprotected sex with a woman you don't trust just because your desire is too high.
/r/PurplePillDebate10/09/17 05:21 PM
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Both people should be picky and only have sex within the confines of marriage.
/r/PurplePillDebate10/09/17 05:20 PM
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Either we would come up with ways to have sexy fun that doesn't make him sicker, or I simply wouldn't have sex at all.
/r/PurplePillDebate09/09/17 05:56 AM
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What's so bad about wanting commitment and a stable job? Why would I want someone incredibly handsome who works as a cashier at Walgreen's and wants to have an open relationship when I can be with a 6/10 nurse or accountant who wants to be with me exclusively? And we would still have sex in a marriage.
/r/PurplePillDebate08/09/17 01:22 PM
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If a guy cheated on me, I would leave him. PERIOD.
/r/PurplePillDebate08/09/17 01:59 AM
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Imagine if the genders were reversed. TRP would be foaming at the mouth about how women branch swing and aren't loyal or capable of love. I would never ever EVER let a guy cheat, even if I was too sick to have sex. Marriage vows are for SICKNESS AND HEALTH. Not just when you can have fun.
/r/PurplePillDebate08/09/17 12:56 AM
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That's not the rule for walking though. I don't even count calories burned when exercising when I try to lose weight. It's a losing battle.
/r/PurplePillDebate08/09/17 12:51 AM
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No I use MFP and I burn maybe 250 calories and walk 20-30k steps a day.
/r/PurplePillDebate06/09/17 03:37 AM
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I think I got ENTJ once and INFJ another time.
/r/PurplePillDebate05/09/17 02:40 AM
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INFJ or ENFJ I think, but it depends on when I take it. Sometimes I am introverted and sometimes I am extroverted.
/r/PurplePillDebate05/09/17 02:39 AM
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I drink a ton of green juice [no fruits. JUST GREENS] and I am low carb and vegetarian. I am very careful.
/r/PurplePillDebate04/09/17 07:32 PM
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Oh I exercise a lot. I walk 8-10 miles per day and strength train daily. I watch what I eat and I am still fat. When I ran I would wake up at 3 am STARVING, and even when I didn't eat I would retain water and bloat up like 4-5 lbs the next day. I don't run anymore, just walk, and I am still fat. (Not obese. Men have a higher standard for women. My BMI is like 26-27 and men are absolutely repulsed by anything over like 22)
/r/PurplePillDebate04/09/17 07:11 PM
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Also: my mom tried to set me up with a guy. His relative organized for us to meet somewhere. It doesn't seem like he is interested because he hasn't asked to see a picture, to talk on the phone, etc. I am going to go through the humiliation of dressing up nicely, doing my hair and makeup, going through a 12 hour day, meeting this guy, most likely having a rejection or something, all with the hope that maybe maybe he may like me. Another thing is my grandma tried to set me up with someone and he …
/r/PurplePillDebate04/09/17 07:09 PM
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I blew $300 to permanently straighten my hair. I also go on starvation diets. I have tried just eating less, but I am short and always hungry, so losing weight is suffering through hunger pangs for me.
/r/PurplePillDebate04/09/17 07:02 PM
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But he would be using her for the same things.
/r/PurplePillDebate01/09/17 11:02 PM
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Yeah but she wouldn't be using him. I am not arguing that men don't want a younger woman, but that men generally want their equals.
/r/PurplePillDebate01/09/17 10:59 PM
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Yeah but objectively she is more desirable
/r/PurplePillDebate01/09/17 10:19 PM
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So why wouldn't he be more peaceful with a girl who is his equal rather than using him for money?
/r/PurplePillDebate01/09/17 10:17 PM
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But what makes you think men don't keep score? Yes, I know we shouldn't take what is said here fully seriously, but when you constantly read that men feel that their wife/ girlfriend isn't good enough, makes less than them, etc. it kind of reflects reality.
/r/PurplePillDebate01/09/17 09:58 PM
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And he is constantly going to suspect her of using him for money.
/r/PurplePillDebate01/09/17 09:39 PM
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Yeah she has to be a 10/10 sorority girl model type, not an average cute girl.
/r/PurplePillDebate01/09/17 09:39 PM
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Yes but objectively a higher paycheck means a woman has more to offer. Source: multiple people here who insist that a woman who makes less offers way less, even if she is hot and an excellent homemaker.
/r/PurplePillDebate01/09/17 09:38 PM
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Because it has to do with dating down. Do men date down? Not to a dramatic extent.
/r/PurplePillDebate01/09/17 04:03 PM
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I don't know, Middle Aged men look pretty crappy unless they are models or something.
/r/PurplePillDebate01/09/17 03:00 PM
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Who is more likely to marry a man who is a 40 year old urologist (doctor)? a 33 year old geneticist (doctor) or a 23 year old student working at Starbucks who is majoring in history at her local community college and doesn't know what to do with her life a 21 year old hair stylist
/r/PurplePillDebate01/09/17 02:59 PM
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Yes but a 33 year old doctor is much more likely to marry a 40 year old doctor than a 23 year old barista majoring in history at her local community college who still is figuring out what she wants to do with her life.
/r/PurplePillDebate01/09/17 02:55 PM
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I don't care if a guy is still a virgin into his thirties. In fact, I am happier that way. I don't want someone with sexual experience. It's not a deal breaker, though. I am not ashamed to say money matters to me. I would not feel comfortable being the breadwinner in a marriage. You don't need to be a millionaire or rich though. I don't think close and platonic male and female friendships are possible between two people of the same age group and both people are healthy and heterosexual. I don't …
/r/PurplePillDebate31/08/17 05:46 AM
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Why wouldn't I want a selfless engineer? This is bullshit. And I am not blue or red.
/r/PurplePillDebate30/08/17 02:59 AM
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For casual sex. Not for love. Men would prefer a sexbot for love.
/r/PurplePillDebate29/08/17 07:56 PM
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Only in terms of getting recreational sex
/r/PurplePillDebate29/08/17 12:45 PM
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I am saying that men only notice the top 20% of women.
/r/PurplePillDebate29/08/17 12:45 PM
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-______- No. The point is that average women are not running around getting multitudes of rich beta orbiters to throw everything they have at them. Most women would be extremely lucky to marry someone who can afford to support a family, and most just want guy with a decent job.
/r/PurplePillDebate29/08/17 04:33 AM
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What about grandmothers, mothers, wives, sistersC aunts, girlfriends, or working women who pay taxes?
/r/PurplePillDebate29/08/17 01:21 AM
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I am not trying to say women have it harder. But we don't have a life of ease. But you're exaggerating on a number of things. Sex is literally the only true pro here. I applied to over 100 jobs to get what I have now, most men I know had similar experiences I walked away from a job because I got injured and I wasn't safe If you want to marry a hot young woman, don't complain that she makes less money than an older woman She works 40-60 hours a week, he works 40-60 hours a week, he dumps most of …
/r/PurplePillDebate29/08/17 01:13 AM
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She is saying they only pay attention to the top 20% of women.
/r/PurplePillDebate29/08/17 01:05 AM
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They provide entertainment in exchange for money. A woman just sitting at home or on a bench in the park isn't going to get anything handed to her.
/r/PurplePillDebate29/08/17 01:04 AM
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Yeah but would a man want to protect and take care of an ugly woman?
/r/PurplePillDebate29/08/17 01:02 AM
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Same here.
/r/PurplePillDebate29/08/17 12:43 AM
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Like what? For an average looking middle to lower middle class woman. Not a modelesque woman.
/r/PurplePillDebate29/08/17 12:42 AM
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Who is rich and possibly a sex worker I am from the west coast.
/r/PurplePillDebate28/08/17 07:23 PM
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The average woman's life isn't charmed. It's not a life of challenge and suffering in the western world like someone in Calcutta, but that's the same for men. Literally the only advantage women have is that they get more sex, and will make more money if they are sex workers.
/r/PurplePillDebate28/08/17 07:20 PM
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I think it's wrong, but that wasn't my point. My point is that it is invalid to count sex workers as getting stuff for free just by being pretty because it's not what they do. They do things for that money, such as show off their body, sell nude photos, etc. they don't just sit there and do nothing and have people throw money at them.
/r/PurplePillDebate28/08/17 04:09 PM
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Financially unstable Mental illness Resentful Uses drugs or alcohol Difficulty showing affection or interest Mean/ Rude Poor communication skills Poor hygiene Impulsive Extremely high expectations out of me.
/r/PurplePillDebate28/08/17 02:18 PM
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I got the idea by spending excessive amounts of time on 4chan and the Mano sphere in my formative years.
/r/PurplePillDebate28/08/17 12:53 AM
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No I don't, I am saying men do
/r/PurplePillDebate27/08/17 11:55 PM
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Yes! They complain about how they are alone but nothing is good enough for them.
/r/PurplePillDebate27/08/17 03:46 PM
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Nothing a woman offers is "of value" enough to men. Cook? I can go to a restaurant. Make money? I make enough, thank you. (Or I just want to use you, thank you). Clean? I can hire a maid. Conversation? Women are such a pain in the ass to talk to! Companionship? My dog can keep me company. Sex? I have porn! Love? My dog loves me. These are answers I see every day when a man asks what a woman has to offer online, he shoots down anything she says she can offer. Nothing is good enough for men.
/r/PurplePillDebate27/08/17 03:34 PM
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Yeah but if someone resents you, it will put a humongous strain on the marriage.
/r/PurplePillDebate27/08/17 01:09 AM
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And will resent her
/r/PurplePillDebate26/08/17 11:09 PM
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Many men, like the majority.
/r/PurplePillDebate26/08/17 10:05 PM
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Of course you would want more expensive real estate if you are married. Buying a 1-bedroom condo for yourself is different from buying a 3-bedroom house for a family of 5.
/r/PurplePillDebate26/08/17 10:04 PM
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Aww 😭
/r/PurplePillDebate26/08/17 10:03 PM
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Because if she doesn't, and works part time and stays home with the kids, she is called a gold digger, lazy, etc.
/r/PurplePillDebate26/08/17 09:22 PM
3

Men hate older women.
/r/PurplePillDebate26/08/17 07:31 PM
2

Many men see supporting a child as being beta bux for the kid.
/r/PurplePillDebate26/08/17 07:27 PM
3

It's less shitty than for the woman in the OP. That's the point.
/r/PurplePillDebate26/08/17 07:26 PM
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I don't see any statistics that women initiate DV on men. Feminist forums are a response to the anger that men have had against women. I dont go on those forums, but I have been on 4chan and Reddit and PUA sites for like 8 years now and I only see men who hate women on a daily basis and that is pretty much all I see.
/r/PurplePillDebate26/08/17 07:26 PM
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Lol it's not like men don't say that SAHM's are lazy gold diggers, and expect a woman to work long hours and put the kids in daycare all day. You expect your wife to only see your kids for an hour or two after work on weekdays, then you should be very happy to only see them on weekends.
/r/PurplePillDebate26/08/17 07:19 PM
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No one wants an angry man with anger problems. If a man hits me, I'm going to fight back and then run away. I am not talking about lesbians The majority of men have anger problems and have a HUGE RESENTMENT towards women, see mgtow and TRP
/r/PurplePillDebate26/08/17 07:14 PM
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It doesn't. It sounds like men have a dramatically easier time after a divorce.
/r/PurplePillDebate26/08/17 07:11 PM
1

No. But MEN getting angry is the reason why women don't want to be with them. I am scared of marrying someone angry and rage filled and petty.
/r/PurplePillDebate26/08/17 07:09 PM
1

No. I just know men are very flighty and get mad and bitter easily. I know I have to find someone I agree with 100% on important things like child rearing or religion because if I disagree with him, he will be very resentful and angry.
/r/PurplePillDebate26/08/17 07:01 PM
1

So if a woman disagrees with you, and you allow her to, you are a doormat, self loathing white knight?
/r/PurplePillDebate26/08/17 06:56 PM
1

It represents the underlying sentiment that men have
/r/PurplePillDebate26/08/17 02:16 PM
1

Why wouldn't I want a beta bux? Why would I want a poor man who is sexy? I don't want that. I want a simple life outside of poverty.
/r/PurplePillDebate26/08/17 02:33 AM
1

It's not some, it's the vast majority. Look at the red pill and MGTOW PGA.
/r/PurplePillDebate26/08/17 02:12 AM
2

I thought men DESPISED women who dared speak any word against them in any way, shape, or form.
/r/PurplePillDebate26/08/17 02:10 AM
4

So...WGTOW
/r/PurplePillDebate24/08/17 02:51 AM
1

Tl dr: women are better off waiting until after they hit the wall to secure a life partner so that they know for sure the man isn't using them for sex and will dispose of them when they reach a certain age.
/r/PurplePillDebate24/08/17 12:43 AM
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It's depressing that men become repulsed by you after you have a baby with them. Women are safer being alone than spending years loving someone only to have him dispose of you when you reach a certain age.
/r/PurplePillDebate24/08/17 12:42 AM
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Yes but taking care of an entire family of 5 with young children and 3- bedroom house is dramatically more difficult than taking care of just yourself and living in a studio apartment. Living by yourself, no one cares if all you cook is quinoa, beans, and vegetables all the time. No one cares if your food is bland and dull. You can just add sricacha or something for flavor and no one judges you. You can eat the healthiest foods out there (boiled artichokes, salad without dressing, etc) and no on…
/r/MGTOW23/08/17 11:24 PM
1

But you have to also slave away and work full time, too. Women are expected to do everything. You have to be a successful homemaker and bring in good money.
/r/MGTOW23/08/17 01:35 AM
3

All my coworkers are women, and besides the ones trying to have children who just say "I am trying to have kids! It's hard work!", I don't know anything about their sex life.
/r/PurplePillDebate20/08/17 06:24 PM
0

I probably wouldn't even want to date him anymore if he did that aside from very specific contexts, and it wouldn't lead to marriage.
/r/PurplePillDebate20/08/17 02:06 AM
2

I wouldn't want him to tell me details about what he did with other women. Maybe "we had sex" and that is it.
/r/PurplePillDebate20/08/17 01:56 AM
2

Well I would be pissed off and I wouldn't divorce right away but I would seriously reconsider the marriage if a guy told others what we did together when having sex. I would be livid.
/r/PurplePillDebate20/08/17 01:32 AM
2

Thank you! 😊
/r/PurplePillDebate20/08/17 01:29 AM
3

Not really. Would you stay married to someone who told people your intimate family secrets?
/r/PurplePillDebate20/08/17 01:29 AM
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Why would you talk about having sex with your wife with your friends? That's nasty and personal. I would consider divorce if my husband talked about my dec life with his friends. I would never disclose my own private sex life with anyone.
/r/PurplePillDebate20/08/17 01:04 AM
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My mom is a SAHM and I wish my dad appreciated her the way you do ;_; i mean he does love her but he doesn't show it. I bet there's going to be a ton of comments saying that SAHM's are lazy gold diggers. I work full time at a good job, and I can proudly say that my mom who is a SAHM works harder than me. I don't want to give up working entirely when I have kids, but I want to work part time for 5-10 years until they get older.
/r/PurplePillDebate20/08/17 12:51 AM
1

But I thought women should lower their standards and settle before they hit the wall!
/r/PurplePillDebate19/08/17 01:15 AM
1

Because women are told constantly on RP forums: you must settle before you hit the wall and become too old!
/r/PurplePillDebate19/08/17 01:14 AM
1

So you would be happy she settled for you, because she wasn't worth any better.
/r/PurplePillDebate19/08/17 01:14 AM
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You're the first one here who clearly says "Red Pill Man" in your title, so I will ask you: I CONSTANTLY see that women are told that their standards are too high and that they should settle before they hit the wall. Why do you complain when they actually heed this advice?
/r/PurplePillDebate19/08/17 01:13 AM
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I am a nurse and I ended up in a job working Mon-Fri. I was offered a position as a school nurse, and it's a lot of work. You're expected to take masters level coursework while you work full time to get a school nurse certification. No, it's not the most difficult thing in the world and it's doable, but you also won't be a SAHM. The one good thing with nursing though is that it is easy to get part time work.
/r/RedPillWomen14/08/17 02:06 AM
1

People almost universally agree that skirts are feminine. Not having roaches and washing your dishes after use (not weeks after use) is almost universally a standard of hygiene.
/r/PurplePillDebate10/08/17 05:12 AM
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Why do you keep antagonizing me when I say wanting someone hygienic isn't a standard that is high (aka picky)?
/r/PurplePillDebate09/08/17 01:10 PM
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Why do you keep pushing on about this? I decide this, but it's also common sense. Living hygienically is a standard that most people should look for in order to prevent infection and vermin.
/r/PurplePillDebate09/08/17 01:09 PM
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So you agree it's a dick move then. Which is what I am trying to say.
/r/PurplePillDebate09/08/17 05:28 AM
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Because, as stated by someone's example who I don't even remember who it was, many men are happy living in disgusting conditions. And it isn't a high standard to not want a man who lives in that. Furthermore, many men are okay with disgusting conditions but will expect a woman to clean up after them if she comes along.
/r/PurplePillDebate09/08/17 05:27 AM
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Yeah but then it is not a high standard. It's higher and more reasonable. A man who is okay marrying a woman who lives in squalor is just as dumb as a woman who is okay marrying a man who is okay with squalor.
/r/PurplePillDebate09/08/17 05:26 AM
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It's not unimportant, but when you're both married and work full time, you have to have sympathy. Yes, objectively speaking, you make a larger contribution. But it's a HUGE dick move to be like "well now YOU have to do all the housework!!" When you're both equally tired and fed up after work.
/r/PurplePillDebate09/08/17 05:03 AM
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And I don't quit because you're arguing that helping in the house is an unfairly high expectation when it's literally just spending 30 mins to 1 hour or so on weekdays and 2-4 hours on weekends doing tasks like vacuuming and laundry. You're acting as if it is a high standard and a burden and that if a man makes more money he should make his wife do everything.
/r/PurplePillDebate09/08/17 05:02 AM
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Infection. If you keep getting sick and have lice and scabies, then you're doing something wrong. Both the husband and wife. If you're a filthy frat boy then be upfront from day one and don't be surprised when she doesn't want to marry you.
/r/PurplePillDebate09/08/17 05:00 AM
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But if they are both working full time, you argue that the housework shouldn't be split. I am arguing that it should if both are working full time. Obviously someone working part time should do more housework. If you're working full time and cleaning full time, is your lifestyle really happy? I would rather live alone in a small apartment and just take care of myself than work full time, cook, clean, raise kids, run errands, etc. while my husband just works and says "lol I make more money!!" In …
/r/PurplePillDebate09/08/17 04:58 AM
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Down voting is against the sidebar rules.
/r/PurplePillDebate09/08/17 04:44 AM
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Clean floors free from excessive amounts of dust. Usually achieved by vacuuming every 1-2 weeks. Trash cans with food or toilet paper emptied every night. Dishes washed every day after being used. All trash thrown away Everything put back where it belongs after use. Scrubbing toilets, sinks, and showers at least once a week, more if poop marks are on the toilet. Doing laundry at least once a week and putting it away after washing. Washing dirty clothes and towels. Throwing away moldy and expired…
/r/PurplePillDebate09/08/17 04:41 AM
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Then he shouldn't call her lazy and complain when she says she is overwhelmed and wants to be a housewife or SAHM, or if she wants to go part time. If I married someone and we both worked M-F 8-5 and he demanded that I do all the housework because he makes more money, I would either go part time, demand a maid, or break down and just not do anything. One could also argue that without her housework, they would lead a gross lifestyle with cockroaches. Once again, it's not about money. It's about t…
/r/PurplePillDebate09/08/17 04:37 AM
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No. Because it's comparing a filthy bachelor pad to a minimum hygiene level. High standards are wanting pristine Conditions.
/r/PurplePillDebate09/08/17 03:52 AM
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Well when you get your own laundry machine just separate them. It helps keep things fresh longer. You can wash the whites with bleach so they don't discolor.
/r/PurplePillDebate09/08/17 03:52 AM
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But if they're both working M-F 8-5, it's not fair. Either he has to let her work less hours, or contribute equally to the housework. Is not just about money.
/r/PurplePillDebate09/08/17 03:51 AM
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I don't insist people should clean the kitchen before they eat, but they should clean it after. If one person cooks dinner, the other person should wash the dishes and clean up. And the only two cleanliness preferences presented here are a minimal standard of hygiene and absolute filth. And it looks like you are apt to defend filth by arguing that it is domineering and wrong to demand cleanliness.
/r/PurplePillDebate09/08/17 12:50 AM
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But it's interesting you don't deny that you don't wash the dishes for 2 weeks.
/r/PurplePillDebate08/08/17 09:44 PM
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No, BUT KEEPING A HYGENIC HOME IS VERY DIFFERENT FROM GETTING A PUPPY. I say "don't leave the dishes in the sink for 2 weeks" and you call this "sterile" and "spotless" and compare doing the dishes on a regular basis to putting a home to be "in a condition that is real estate ready". You compare me saying "do the laundry" and "vacuum" to being a "domestic dictator" This is incredibly stupid and gross. You lack hygiene. If you think expecting your partner to maintain a minimal level of cleanlines…
/r/PurplePillDebate08/08/17 08:54 PM
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You're gaslighting. I never said that my imaginary couple had a maid or gets takeout. You did.
/r/PurplePillDebate08/08/17 07:24 PM
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Why would you not wash the dishes for weeks? Why wouldn't you vacuum or do laundry? Don't marry someone (aka get a puppy) and not expect to do work because you don't care. You clean up your dog poop, you help your wife clean the house
/r/PurplePillDebate08/08/17 07:20 PM
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Because it's a waste of money.
/r/PurplePillDebate08/08/17 07:18 PM
1

So do you do laundry and sort it between lights and darks?
/r/PurplePillDebate08/08/17 07:18 PM
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Yeah what do you do
/r/PurplePillDebate08/08/17 07:17 PM
1

So you're dumping the housework onto your wife. Because you just don't care. Good job.
/r/PurplePillDebate08/08/17 04:39 PM
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Just because you can't be bothered.
/r/PurplePillDebate08/08/17 04:38 PM
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Separating laundry into whites and colors is piss easy and a simple way to make clothes last longer. Of course she gets annoyed that you can't even be bothered to do it. Just put laundry in 2 baskets: light and dark. Big deal.
/r/PurplePillDebate08/08/17 04:38 PM
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So you nickle and dime her over the last hour.
/r/PurplePillDebate08/08/17 04:37 PM
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No. You just offer two options: live in filth or clean. And you don't want to clean. So the woman is stuck doing all the work because "my standards aren't high" and "I just don't care!!!" Don't be filthy!! Damnit just clean!! Why is it so hard for you to do it? You shouldn't be married if you would rather be in filth than clean up.
/r/PurplePillDebate08/08/17 04:36 PM
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Where did I say that? I didn't. You did.
/r/PurplePillDebate08/08/17 04:30 PM
2

And let's say at the same time, she makes $60k and you make $120k.
/r/PurplePillDebate08/08/17 03:00 PM
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So if your wife said to you "darling, please wash the dishes every day for the rest of our lives because I cook every day" would you say "yes" or "it's ok, in my bachelor pad I just let the dishes rot in the sink for a week"? Then complain that her cleaning standards are too high? If she said "darling you have to vacuum every week for the rest of our married lives because I scrub all the bathrooms every week all the time", will you say "nah, it's fine, it's just dust."? And complain that she exp…
/r/PurplePillDebate08/08/17 02:55 PM
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Not really. Living in filth in your bachelor pad because no woman is there to clean it doesn't mean you aren't picky. It just means you're lazy and dump work onto the woman. If she doesn't clean, you complain.
/r/PurplePillDebate08/08/17 02:52 PM
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And that just illustrates my point even more. "It's fine if you don't clean! We can just fester in filth instead!" It proves men don't bother cleaning and dump that chore onto women, even to the point that they will live in disgusting conditions. But heaven help her if a woman cleans the wrong way!
/r/PurplePillDebate08/08/17 02:18 PM
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Because men lack hygiene and don't bother to clean. Meanwhile, they expect women to do everything.
/r/PurplePillDebate08/08/17 02:11 PM
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If you order pizza, he says "why don't women cook anymore?" And "why can't you cook? cooking is easy!" And men are much prissier. Didn't vacuum right? "You don't clean well! You missed so many spots!!"
/r/PurplePillDebate08/08/17 01:25 PM
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Both partners work full time, M-F 8-5, leave at 7, come home at 6. Wife makes $60k and husband makes $90k After work, husband is tired, and he just watches TV. But how will dinner manage? Wife wants to just watch TV, too, but they have to eat. The burden of cooking falls onto her. Because wife makes less money, she is obligated to take more time off to run errands and manage the kids. If she doesn't, husband gets upset and complains. "You make less money! It's not my problem!" She tells him she …
/r/PurplePillDebate08/08/17 01:08 PM
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Do you realize that if CalPers and other government programs fall apart, literally everything else is going to fall apart? I am here because I saw nurses be insulted when it oftentimes pays better than engineering. And also, it is not superior. It should get paid better because the Hours are longer and the work is unpleasant, but it is not superior. School nurses get everything. Their office is essentially a mini ER at times. It is intense work. Literally every branch of nursing deals with psych…
/r/MGTOW30/07/17 10:24 PM
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And getting an ADN then BSN may not be the most financially sound option, but for some people, that is the best choice for them. My coworker applied for nursing school with her friends, didn't think much about it, got a biology degree, then got an acceptance letter to the ADN program she applied to 2 years before. She had a seat in a nursing program, so she took it. Another coworker paid cash for her entire education. She got an ADN in cash, worked at a SNF, then paid for her BSN cash while work…
/r/MGTOW30/07/17 08:21 PM
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And I only ever want public health. I have spoken with NP's without hospital experience and one works for the government, another works for the homeless, and another is a school nurse. These are all jobs that I want. I also would want to eventually go more rural so I can buy a house in cash. I would have gotten hospital experience, and I would go out and get it if I didn't have good options open to me. But right now, I have a very good job with top notch benefits. I could quit and work for some …
/r/MGTOW30/07/17 08:08 PM
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Nice assumptions there. Congratulations on your degree. I don't plan to go to an online masters program. I plan to go to a well respected institution. I don't want to specify where I work for anonymity's sake, but I have good experience. I was hired into a very respectable job where I will be handling emergencies, doing practical skills, etc. Reasons why I didn't get any hospital jobs: 1. I rushed into a non acute care job where I had to work 11pm to 7:30 am 80 miles from home. 2. I have always …
/r/MGTOW30/07/17 07:27 PM
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Most of my classmates were studious second generation Filipino kids or UMC white kids. There wasn't the weird stereotype you describe. Some nursing students are single moms and nursing assistants aiming for a better life, but that's not a reason to be judgmental and weird. I got my BSN from a solid university, and I don't look down on ADN recipients the way you do. ADN is still very competitive to get into, and, surprise! They still make the same amount of money. I went to nursing school with th…
/r/MGTOW30/07/17 02:35 PM
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What's wrong with nursing? I live in Los Angeles area. I made $80k straight out of college, on night shift, and I hated night shift so I took another job making around $65k on days. I got offered a PART TIME job making $48k a year. PART TIME. I want to get a masters degree eventually, and would be looking at $70k (for a teaching position) -150k (CRNA [or more] or Nurse Practitioner). What's wrong with that?
/r/MGTOW30/07/17 01:16 AM
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$15/ hr is $31,200 a year. $31,200 a year is about $800 biweekly, or $1600 a month. Renting a ROOM in SF is $1300 a month. He would just be able to get food and housing and that's absolutely it.
/r/PurplePillDebate29/07/17 01:44 AM
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When I was a kid, my parents would lock the bedroom door and my dad told us he was helping my mom fix something in the shower, and would get mad if we banged on it. It didn't dawn on me until college that they were probably having sex. My brain didn't put that together until I was 18-20 years old. The day it dawned on me, my mom asked me to be out of the house for an hour or two, please. I got annoyed and said I wanted to stay home. "No please! Just go for an hour." At that moment, I understood.…
/r/PurplePillDebate09/07/17 05:25 AM
1

I am not anti vaxx. I am educated enough to teach up to middle school. And even after, i know many homeschooled teenagers who use online or alternative programs. All the homeschooled kids I know are better educated, more mature, more independent, gifted, and more sociable. It doesn't work if you oppress the kid.
/r/PurplePillDebate09/07/17 05:05 AM
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Hence why I am willing to not have kids. I don't consider parenting a couple hours a day. I want to homeschool and teach them survival skills. I don't want my husband to work 2 jobs, so if on one job it is not possible, then I won't have kids. Why would I want to leave my kids at school all day, especially a boy, and only spend 1-2 hours with my kid each day?
/r/PurplePillDebate08/07/17 07:56 PM
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No. But if you get naked with someone and kiss them and stuff then don't expect him to get an erection and have sex with you, you're dumb. Obviously if you push the guy away and say "I no longer want to have sex with you anymore" it's a completely different situation from getting naked and making out and then not saying anything. Don't get accusatory about stupid things.
/r/PurplePillDebate08/07/17 07:33 PM
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No. That's what I want in order to have kids. I acknowledge that it may not be possible and in that case, if it is not, I don't want kids.
/r/PurplePillDebate08/07/17 07:30 PM
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Contributing to the family is not being a workhorse Don't pretend women don't work anymore. The days of a single income family are dead now.
/r/PurplePillDebate08/07/17 05:51 PM
1

So now you're saying "women have more conditions than men", implying that men have conditions. But before you were saying REKT for having any conditions at all.
/r/PurplePillDebate08/07/17 04:21 PM
1

So idk why they left you.
/r/PurplePillDebate08/07/17 04:09 PM
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No I am not. You mentioned a guy who lost his job and became very lazy so I am mentioning the female version. You are implying that there are no conditions whatsoever to attraction and using that as a way to say "woman just randomly lose attraction!"
/r/PurplePillDebate08/07/17 04:09 PM
1

So what would you do Mr samurai if your gf became domineering and controlling?
/r/PurplePillDebate08/07/17 04:04 PM
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Well you're old enough to decide what you want but personally I would consider it abuse.
/r/RedPillWomen08/07/17 03:12 PM
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Why resort to name calling? What is your problem? Read "postcapitalism: a guide to our future" by Paul Mason and learn to think for yourself. The birth rate is declining, the cost of living is crippling ($2,000 a month for a studio apartment, $3,000 a month for a 2-bedroom, $3500 a month for a house, no i do not live in the Bay Area), and people are afraid and unhappy and under debt. 2 middle income jobs is just barely enough to scrape by. $100k a year for a family of 5 is struggling, $84k is "l…
/r/PurplePillDebate08/07/17 03:08 PM
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Your spouse smacks you?
/r/RedPillWomen08/07/17 02:42 PM
1

No but I didn't say anything was justified.
/r/PurplePillDebate08/07/17 02:05 PM
1

In the past, one minimum wage income got you a shitty studio apartment. Now you need two minimum wage incomes to get a studio apartment with roommates! A teacher was able to support a family comfortably. Now two teachers live paycheck to paycheck.
/r/PurplePillDebate08/07/17 02:04 PM
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No response after a string of fast responses. REKD.
/r/PurplePillDebate08/07/17 02:23 AM
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No it's not. Would you stay with a lady if she started telling you repeatedly that she is SUPERIOR to you and bosses you around and is domineering?
/r/PurplePillDebate08/07/17 01:52 AM
1

Did you complain that they just wanted you for your resources?
/r/PurplePillDebate08/07/17 01:51 AM
1

You're turning things around. Did you say REKT!!!!! To them?
/r/PurplePillDebate08/07/17 01:30 AM
1

What sort of crap happened to him? Unless it is a truly traumatic thing, like war, I would probably lose attraction. REKT, right? I would lose attraction if a guy stopped working and became a full on dependent on me, the same way a man would lose attraction if his wife became obese.
/r/PurplePillDebate08/07/17 01:29 AM
1

I would bother him to shape up and get out there and work.
/r/PurplePillDebate08/07/17 01:17 AM
2

Maybe you were mean to them, like you are on here.
/r/PurplePillDebate08/07/17 12:48 AM
1

I think that's bullshit. I would never lose attraction.
/r/PurplePillDebate08/07/17 12:47 AM
2

Mini skirts are like $8-10 and I can find them for even cheaper. Just go to forever 21 stores and similar and look in the sale section.
/r/PurplePillDebate07/07/17 07:14 PM
1

What's in Seattle
/r/PurplePillDebate07/07/17 07:10 PM
1

Just be a leader of your family you don't need to be a business man or politician.
/r/PurplePillDebate07/07/17 07:08 PM
1

Is that possible though?
/r/PurplePillDebate07/07/17 07:07 PM
1

Out of 100 married people, 10-20 are stay at home moms and they are not American. 1-2 are SAHD's.
/r/PurplePillDebate07/07/17 07:06 PM
2

Because of abuse.
/r/PurplePillDebate07/07/17 07:06 PM
1

How do you know?
/r/PurplePillDebate07/07/17 07:05 PM
2

Most female feminists want male feminists
/r/PurplePillDebate07/07/17 07:05 PM
0

Yeah because the economy sucks and you need to pull in a high income to support a family. Feminism has split wages in half. I would just marry and not have kids if I find a great guy who cannot support a family. And he can't be insecure and weird about it. It's just the way things are.
/r/PurplePillDebate07/07/17 04:24 PM
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Just admit that you think SAHM is lazy and stupid and bad. I admit that I don't want a SAHD. I want to be at home with the babies. I have wanted this since I was a kid. My dad was a breadwinner and my mom stayed at home. My dad always taught me that any man I Marry should be able to provide. And I go out and see women who work 2-3 jobs snd only see their kids a few hours a week, and are exhausted and fat and unhappy. And I don't want their life. If a man wants to be a SAHD he can find a doctor t…
/r/PurplePillDebate07/07/17 04:23 PM
2

So why didn't you marry any of them?
/r/PurplePillDebate07/07/17 04:21 PM
2

They are. Look at refinery 29.
/r/PurplePillDebate07/07/17 04:20 PM
1

And why are they ex's?
/r/PurplePillDebate07/07/17 04:20 PM
1

Well even men aren't atttacted to SAHM's and like you, think it's due to infantilism and laziness. As indicated by your other comment. They complain about feminism but don't truly want traditional gender roles. They want their wife to work long hours, make a good income, submit, and do the housework.
/r/PurplePillDebate07/07/17 04:20 PM
1

Exactly. And women are naturally followers. If it disturbs you so much either go with a strong woman and don't complain or go mgtow.
/r/PurplePillDebate07/07/17 04:16 PM
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Then why did he marry me in the first place? It could easily be avoided with this conversation: "I want to eventually be a stay at home mom" "Well I want to be a stay at home dad" "Ok well are we fabulously wealthy and able to both stay at home?" "no" "Okay then it's not really possible" "Yeah. Carry on and good luck in your spouse search" "Yes. Good luck to you. Carry on" Years of drama averted.
/r/PurplePillDebate07/07/17 04:15 PM
1

*fat girl
/r/PurplePillDebate07/07/17 04:13 PM
2

Because that's not what I want. Why don't you date a fat girl?
/r/PurplePillDebate07/07/17 04:12 PM
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GOD O D
/r/PurplePillDebate07/07/17 04:12 PM
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Sheep my ass. Men are natural leaders. If I am going to marry someone, he has to be a good leader.
/r/PurplePillDebate07/07/17 04:12 PM
1

What. No it's not. You can easily find a feminist woman who wants a SAHD.
/r/PurplePillDebate07/07/17 04:11 PM
2

No. I don't think they deserve to get raped, but you're dumb if you get naked and don't expect sex. I think that men deserve divorce rape when they purposefully are hypergamous and don't want to date someone equal to them. If you are old and ugly and poor you're going to get an ugly, old and poor woman. STFU and deal with it.
/r/PurplePillDebate07/07/17 04:10 PM
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You don't have to be a leader. Just date feminists. It's not robotic. It's the way nature has created men and women. Men and women aren't happy now because society has challenged the natural order.
/r/PurplePillDebate07/07/17 04:08 PM
1

It's funny though that you equate women with unattractive losers.
/r/PurplePillDebate07/07/17 04:07 PM
1

If he gets a better job and gets his shit together then yes.
/r/PurplePillDebate07/07/17 04:06 PM
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Yes I do. It's not necessarily all their fault, but I do. The economy is collapsing, and men are no longer the main breadwinners for families. That is not their fault. But they can step up and be leaders and choose useful degrees and whatnot.
/r/PurplePillDebate07/07/17 01:16 PM
1

Let's see how you feel about women: Would you marry a woman who loved you and wanted to have kids with you?
/r/PurplePillDebate07/07/17 01:06 PM
1

Google angry mgtow. Men hate women.
/r/PurplePillDebate07/07/17 05:49 AM
3

Until he finds a newer and prettier model
/r/PurplePillDebate07/07/17 02:04 AM
5

Because men do it all the time. A woman turns 30, he replaces her with a sex bot.
/r/PurplePillDebate07/07/17 01:57 AM
6

He deserved it. I have no sympathy for old men who think a much younger woman wants them for their personality.
/r/PurplePillDebate07/07/17 01:52 AM
67

The only inaccurate thing is the $400,000 figure for engineers. In my area, at least, the salary is $60-80k for entry level, and maybe $80-100k after established. Some can make $150k-300k but it's not the norm, it's more for exceptional people. I am in Los Angeles.
/r/MensRights04/07/17 01:20 AM
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It took me a long time because I had to sit down and think about every person I have ever slept with before. Don't judge me. It's a little embarrassing. I don't want men to think I am a whore. ZERO.
/r/PurplePillDebate03/07/17 08:51 PM
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Lol ok good thanks
/r/PurplePillDebate02/07/17 05:49 PM
1

I wouldn't do that. But I would work part time so I can easily get a job.
/r/PurplePillDebate02/07/17 05:48 PM
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I do admit it. But I wouldn't be happy if the guy was resentful and angry.
/r/PurplePillDebate02/07/17 05:44 PM
1

I would say thank you dear for working long and hard so I can raise the kids and manage the home half the day, but it wouldn't be happy if the guy was constantly saying "you're so lazy!!!" And "you do nothing all day" and "you lazy childish bitch!!! I resent you and hate you!!!! Reeee!!!!"
/r/PurplePillDebate02/07/17 05:41 PM
1

If you do all the housework, and it's so easy, then why would you want to stay at home? Very rarely do men split the housework. I am a neat freak. I want things CLEAN. And I eat healthy. I eat lots of salads and raw fruits and vegetables they take a good amount of time to wash, cut, and prepare. If we split things 50/50 he's going to do the laundry and wash the dishes and call it a day. Meanwhile I'll be stuck picking up and dropping off the kids, and only get 1-2 hours a day with them. I want t…
/r/PurplePillDebate02/07/17 05:35 PM
1

If I married a man who thought like you I would make him do all the housework. No joke. I would. Since it's so easy. You can do it, i prefer it. And why would I want my kids to be away from me at school all day? Whose values are they getting? Mine or the teachers'? I'm away from the house 11 hours a day. Add 8 hours for sleep, 2 hours for cooking and housework, and 2 hours to get ready in the morning and that leaves you with 2 hours of time to spend with kids. Assuming they're doing homework and…
/r/PurplePillDebate02/07/17 05:25 PM
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Why do you imply that being a stay at home mom is not adult? If I have more than 1 kid, I would work part time and mostly stay home.
/r/PurplePillDebate02/07/17 05:19 PM
1

So you would rather women just constantly walk around super aroused and eager and willing to have sex with any man that walks by??
/r/PurplePillDebate02/07/17 12:36 AM
3

So what happens if she becomes a SAHM for 15 years and you decide you want a 19 year old to replace her?
/r/PurplePillDebate02/07/17 12:25 AM
1

I want to cook and do housework. I don't know how to use a skillet but I want to learn. And before you judge me, I work full time and volunteer too. I eat simply and my mom cooks for me. I practice cooking like once a week or so, but I always make healthy simple food.
/r/PurplePillDebate30/06/17 05:41 AM
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If a woman is supposed to cook, clean, etc. then it makes sense for her to marry a guy who can financially provide for her and makes more money.
/r/PurplePillDebate29/06/17 07:12 PM
2

After 3 dates you better start being monogamous with me or I will move on. I wouldn't even feel comfortable dating multiple men at once beyond a first date. Don't we all work full time? One or two dates a week is already a lot of free time. If I am seeing you more than 2 times, I like you a lot.
/r/PurplePillDebate29/06/17 03:15 PM
3

I'm 23 and a KHV and a woman and SOMEHOW I DON'T FEEL INSECURE ABOUT IT. And don't say "you're a girl!" 23 is an age where it starts to stop being cute.
/r/PurplePillDebate29/06/17 02:53 PM
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Money is a big deal in marriage. People call me a gold digger when I say having a good paying job is important to me in finding a future husband. But it's not like I want a rich millionaire to spoil me. I want someone who makes at least $60-80k a year( which is where my salary falls) and is willing to become the main breadwinner for a family eventually. A marriage cannot be happy if you don't know how you're going to make rent, pay for groceries, and pay for gas and utilities. My area is crippli…
/r/PurplePillDebate26/06/17 06:23 PM
2

He's not a poor little sick puppy. He is a jerk.
/r/PurplePillDebate26/06/17 05:36 PM
3

Not really. Imagine a guy who's a doctor. Maybe he will date and marry a woman who's a nurse, but how about a medical assistant? A hairstylist? A caregiver? Maybe, but it's incredibly rare.
/r/PurplePillDebate26/06/17 05:30 PM
1

My friends and I have a guy friend who drives us long distances to fun places and we always pay him. And he has fun hanging out with us too.
/r/PurplePillDebate26/06/17 04:51 PM
3

I don't know why you're implying that it's wrong to feel pissed off if your partner chooses to sleep with a robot instead of you. I would be pissed if my husband decided to have sex with a robot instead of me. Especially if he felt that the robot had "nicer tits and a flat stomach". And I would fully expect my husband to feel weird about me choosing to sleep with a robot instead of him. Especially if I felt that the robot had "a bigger dick and a 6-pack".
/r/PurplePillDebate26/06/17 04:48 PM
1

Lol ok
/r/PurplePillDebate15/06/17 02:23 AM
1

How is that justification?
/r/PurplePillDebate15/06/17 02:06 AM
3

Why do you assume women are lying about sex?
/r/PurplePillDebate15/06/17 02:06 AM
1

Lol. I know a guy who has slept with a ton of women, and guess what? He is low value to me. He doesn't have a good job, he does drugs, and is uneducated. Plus, as someone said earlier, I am relationship minded. A guy with several partners says to me "I want casual sex". It means we have fundamentally different values.
/r/PurplePillDebate29/05/17 03:53 PM
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No. I want to get married, have a family, have kids, and raise our kids Christian. So no, a MGTOW and me wouldn't match.
/r/PurplePillDebate29/05/17 03:45 PM
1

BS. What kind of lifestyle do you think you can get on $120k in Southern California? Go on zillow and look at the cost of rent. $2803 + for a 2 bedroom in Huntington Beach. $2970 + for one in Newport Beach. $3700 a month for a house in Trabuco Canyon. $2485 + for an apartment in Irvine (all are 2 bedroom and the house is 4 bedroom) $1455 for a 1 bedroom in Santa Ana! And I know where this is, and it's not somewhere I would want to raise my family. Never mind stuff everyone into a 1 bedroom. Ther…
/r/PurplePillDebate14/05/17 03:18 PM
1

$110k. After taxes is like $66k take home. $66k divided by 26 is $2538 biweekly. Rent is going to be at least $2538 lol so there goes 1 paycheck. $2538 per month left over. 2 reliable cars: $600 a month. That leaves you with $1938. Gas: $200 a month. That leaves you with $1738. Utilities and water: $200 a month. Now you have $1578. Food: $400 a month $1178. Life expenses: $150 a month. $1028 That leaves you with $17412 in savings after you add the two paychecks I missed Now since both parents ar…
/r/PurplePillDebate14/05/17 02:59 PM
1

Why?
/r/PurplePillDebate14/05/17 02:47 PM
1

OP should say "since men cannot support a family anymore thanks to feminism and men who require their wives to work full time, and most decent women want a man who can support a family, most men should give up.
/r/PurplePillDebate13/05/17 11:24 PM
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What is choreplay? Oh yeah I don't support feminism but men played a huge part.
/r/PurplePillDebate13/05/17 11:23 PM
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I don't think he is wrong. But I am saying from a woman's standpoint that most successful women don't want an unemployed Chad. Most successful women would rather be stay at home moms. Jobs suck and are soul crushing and annoying. Families love you and kids are your genes and blood.
/r/PurplePillDebate13/05/17 11:23 PM
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It wouldn't be that way if men didn't expect women to work in addition to running a family and maintaining the home and the cost of living didn't skyrocket to depend on dual income homes.
/r/PurplePillDebate13/05/17 11:11 PM
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http://www.ocregister.com/2017/05/03/84000-a-year-now-qualifies-as-low-income-in-high-cost-orange-county/ If $84 k is low income in Orange County, $110 k is definitely low income in San Jose. The averse family in San Jose and in most areas. Most average families are 1-2 missed paychecks from disaster. Yeah but that 6 month nest egg goes away right when something happens. Like a car accident or lost job. Then what do you do? 20% of your take home income should be put into savings, but now days mo…
/r/PurplePillDebate13/05/17 10:51 PM
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Yeah because they expect women to be breadwinners.
/r/PurplePillDebate13/05/17 10:47 PM
1

http://www.ocregister.com/2017/05/03/84000-a-year-now-qualifies-as-low-income-in-high-cost-orange-county/ Not really. My cousin is a biomedical engineer and makes only like $56k a year. It's blue collar when it is dual income. You are forgetting that most families are dual income now days. An electrician makes like $60k in my area, and most people will agree that an electrician is blue collar. A medical assistant makes like $40k in my area. $100k. Then let's say the electrician works some overti…
/r/PurplePillDebate13/05/17 10:47 PM
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Yeah it's plenty for me but it's low income for a family of 4 in my area. $84k is considered low income for a family of 4 in my area.
/r/PurplePillDebate13/05/17 10:43 PM
1

Yeah, no. Assuming an apartment is $3000 a month in San Jose (more expensive where I live), you would need to take home $9k a month after taxes so rent is 1/3 of your take home income. That's $108k a year after taxes which translates to like $180k a year before taxes. Assuming 40% gets taken away by taxes in SJ area, out of $108k, $64800 to take home. 648000 / 26 = $2492 biweekly. Rent is $3000 a month. Which is more than you take home. You get left with $1984. Then take into factor the cost of …
/r/PurplePillDebate13/05/17 10:42 PM
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$110k isn't rich in my area. $110k is barely surviving if it is a family income in my area. If I married a guy who made $110k, we would need to spend a few years saving for kids, and after a few years I would go straight back to full time work ASAP and pull at least $50-60k so the kids get fed and housed and we have savings. $110k is like a blue collar family in my area.
/r/PurplePillDebate13/05/17 10:30 PM
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I couldn't be attracted to a man who couldn't support a family. I would never even think about having sex with someone unless a relationship was a possibility.
/r/PurplePillDebate13/05/17 10:26 PM
1

Men wanted a dual income family and complain that women who stay at home are lazy. Now men cannot complain if a woman wants to marry someone who makes good money so staying at home is an option.
/r/PurplePillDebate13/05/17 10:24 PM
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In my area, you need a family income of at least $120k a year not to be living paycheck to paycheck. I don't want to work full time if/when I have kids. I want to work part time for at least a few years until the kids get older. I don't live in the Bay Area, BTW most major coastal metropolitan areas are becoming cripplingly expensive. A home is at least $700k in my city. Some condos may be $500k and you can maybe find a 1-bedroom studio for like $400k. Rent is going to be over $2200 if you have …
/r/PurplePillDebate13/05/17 10:23 PM
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It's just impossible to support a family unless you make good money nowadays. Furthermore, men complain that women are gold diggers, then complain that women study useless degrees and should get STEM degrees and joke around about her early childhood education degree and how she should be ashamed for getting it. I am not a doctor or engineer but I make $70k a year.
/r/PurplePillDebate13/05/17 10:15 PM
2

Yeah but if a woman likes that a man has a stable job the guy calls her beta bux and rages.
/r/PurplePillDebate13/05/17 08:41 PM
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Wait wait wait when I say I want a stable guy with a good job, I get called a gold digger. But then when a woman wants a loser, she is told she is just wanting Chad?? I want to marry a guy who is a doctor or engineer. I don't want a flaky guy.
/r/PurplePillDebate13/05/17 08:38 PM
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