gggemma Archive

Upvotes	Title	Category	Author	Subreddit	Date (UTC)
21	No regard for partners safety	MALE DEPRAVITY	gggemma	/r/FemaleDatingStrategy	21/02/20 04:07 PM
20	How do I accept being childless	SEEKING ADVICE	gggemma	/r/FemaleDatingStrategy	30/12/19 06:03 PM

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19	🚩 RED FLAGS 🚩 Career edition 🤭😳 (psychopath edition 🥲🧛‍♂️) I once dated a CEO of a law firm (in my pre-fds days). The guy was an extreme narcissist and psychopath. I think psychopaths are naturally attracted to careers that bring money and status. In the UK doctors don't earn much, I would switch 'surgeon' for 'banker' for a UK-specific list.	/r/FemaleDatingStrategy	07/06/21 12:28 PM
2	How many ladies here hang out / go out alone ? I do this a lot, including travelling abroad alone, im in my 30s now. I was too a anxious in my 20s. I still get anxious. Certain things I still wouldn’t do alone. It depends a lot on the location. Some places I just wouldnt do it, as I know it would result in looks and unwanted attention from men.	/r/FemaleDatingStrategy	16/08/20 12:16 PM
5	Am I right ? Or am I right? 🙌🏼	/r/FemaleDatingStrategy	08/01/20 10:33 AM
2	Should I wait to find a HVM to have a Baby at 35 years old? I decided to do it in greece, as it was very expensive in the uk. Which means ill have to go to Greece if i want to use them. The procedure was very straightforward and simple, the medication had some not so great side effects. It gets more difficult as you get older as you dont produce as many eggs, you may have to do it twice to harvest the amount of eggs required which is double the cost. Freezing my eggs took a great deal of my mind and allowed me to focus on other areas of my life. Its not …	/r/FemaleDatingStrategy	05/01/20 12:41 PM
7	Today is a Good Day. Just Found Out My Evil Time Wasting Ex Got Deported. Congrats	/r/FemaleDatingStrategy	04/01/20 02:59 PM
24	Should I wait to find a HVM to have a Baby at 35 years old? Im 34 in the same situation, i havnt come close to meeting a hvm. I froze my eggs, i feel a little less pressured. Ive found that most of the men in our age bracket already have kids.	/r/FemaleDatingStrategy	03/01/20 08:16 AM
6	His profile said he was 40 (too bad he was very good looking) Ive been in this situation too many times. So many sleazy older men out there on dating apps.	/r/FemaleDatingStrategy	02/01/20 04:40 PM
18	Older men who pursue girls in their late teens and early 20s are predatory I recently met a 47 year old (im 34f). I found out after a couple dates he was previously with a 23 year old. This was a major red flag, very creepy and manipulative guy, and would have been totally incapable of having a normal relationship with any female.	/r/FemaleDatingStrategy	02/01/20 08:35 AM
2	How do I accept being childless Thanks i will give that a read. I did get some eggs frozen a couple of years ago, it only amounted to 6 eggs. I am thinking about going through the process again. Adoption and fostering are not an option for me where i live, and i think i would struggle financially as a single parent. I have been hesitating to freeze more eggs as it feels like im throwing more money at something in the hope i meet a hvm - which seems very slim.	/r/FemaleDatingStrategy	31/12/19 10:17 AM
1	Broke up with my HVM who turned out to be such low value. Why am I feeling sad even though I know better ? I really needed to hear this today	/r/FemaleDatingStrategy	30/12/19 05:51 PM
2	Made me chuckle. Accurate! So true	/r/FemaleDatingStrategy	30/12/19 05:27 PM
68	New job? New city? Recent breakup? DO NOT SHARE WITH MEN. GUARD YOUR HEART. I always seemed to attract sociopaths and narciassist’s. I think being a single female with no family and not many close friends nearby makes me a target.	/r/FemaleDatingStrategy	02/12/19 08:41 PM
5	Is there any hope for me? Theres hope for all of us. Im 34f, no kids Im starting over also. My last two relationships deeply affected my mental health, I’ve barely left the house for the past year except to go to my dead end job. I have no friends and have let myself go. Im starting school in Jan, im working on my mental health and I know slowly things will get better. Think about yourself not another man.	/r/FemaleDatingStrategy	27/11/19 06:52 AM
17	Money money money Completely agree. I wish I had thought more like this when i was younger. Ive just come out of a relationship with someone that earned twice what i do and was 12 years older than me, but wanted me to pay for half of everything, Ive never done this before, but i thought maybe thats what people do now- as id been out of the dating scene for a while. Looking back I feel stupid for doing this.	/r/FemaleDatingStrategy	26/11/19 04:24 PM