ggirlNC Archive

Upvotes	Title	Category	Author	Subreddit	Date (UTC)
1	How can someone of the opposite gender emotionally invest in you? How important is that to the longevity of your relationship?	Discussion	ggirlNC	/r/PurplePillDebate	20/08/20 11:16 PM

Upvotes	Comment on	Subreddit	Date (UTC)
0	When dating women, it’s all about how a man makes her feel in his presence- looks matter, but they aren’t a woman’s top priority! Meh. Not necessarily.	/r/PurplePillDebate	06/09/20 11:31 PM
5	When dating women, it’s all about how a man makes her feel in his presence- looks matter, but they aren’t a woman’s top priority! This! Some people like to think that JUST being a 10 is what gets women going (it can, so I won’t deny it). I’ve been seeing more posts about men who treated women like normal people and didn’t try to sleep with them on dates 1-3,4,5 were more successful with low n count and “high value” women. Edit: This isn’t just reddit post related, I know this to be true in real life for myself and women that I know	/r/PurplePillDebate	06/09/20 09:47 PM
22	How do you ladies feel about being told you are "intelligent" or "competent" by a male colleague or superior? I always took it as a compliment, then I realized I've NEVER heard that said man-to-man. As if it's assumed, and intelligent women are unicorns...? It felt sooooo good lol	/r/FemaleDatingStrategy	05/09/20 10:31 PM
167	How do you ladies feel about being told you are "intelligent" or "competent" by a male colleague or superior? I always took it as a compliment, then I realized I've NEVER heard that said man-to-man. As if it's assumed, and intelligent women are unicorns...? When I was 6 weeks into my new job, I delivered a detailed analysis that surprised everyone. There was one guy who had interviewed for my job who kept trying to interrupt me to ask questions, “play devil’s advocate”, and just rattle me but I shut him down at every turn. At the end, he said that he was soooo surprised how calm I was, how well I handled myself, and how smart & prepared I was for someone so new.. I smiled at him and said “thanks, that’s why I got the job” he hates me 🙃	/r/FemaleDatingStrategy	05/09/20 09:26 PM
1	How many guys get literally 0 or very little real matches on Dating Apps? The best photos that you have might not be the pictures that women like. In some dating app subs, people do profile reviews, have you considered that? Some people have reported almost immediate success	/r/PurplePillDebate	03/09/20 09:47 PM
13	Do you want to be loved for your abilities, accomplishments, and achievements by someone you're dating? I think personality can relate to a woman’s ability. Example- I don’t want a man to love me because I have degrees from a prestigious university, I want him to love me because I am dedicated & passionate about my job industry and enjoy learning. I could rattle off many examples but the premise is, it’s not the ability/action/skill that’s important, but the energy and passion behind it.	/r/PurplePillDebate	30/08/20 06:00 PM
6	Roommate “lost a date” when she offered to split the check and he agreed F. I’m on the fence, honestly. I personally do not offer to pay on first dates BUT if I like the guy and actively want a second date, I’ll usually say something like “there’s a great place I want to take you next time” or “Thank you for paying, do you want dessert? My treat” In my experience, this interrupts that awkward next chat of “so did you enjoy yourself?” while encouraging him that the date (including paying) wasn’t in vain. I’ve only had 2-3 second dates where I’ve paid after saying that…	/r/PurplePillDebate	29/08/20 05:17 PM
6	Be honest: Males and females with no kids do you automatically disqualify someone if you find out they have a kid? This would be great if their child was also childfree because I do not think I want to be a grandparent either.	/r/PurplePillDebate	28/08/20 04:36 PM
8	Be honest: Males and females with no kids do you automatically disqualify someone if you find out they have a kid? Ah yes... the grandchild. That’s a great point. Don’t want it. Don’t need it	/r/PurplePillDebate	28/08/20 03:54 PM
3	Be honest: Males and females with no kids do you automatically disqualify someone if you find out they have a kid? I don’t think I can say yes. Mainly because we see how many adult children can/do still rely on their parents for support well into their 20s reaching into their 30s. If the adult child(ren) were fully independent, it would open up the possibility.	/r/PurplePillDebate	28/08/20 03:13 PM
36	Be honest: Males and females with no kids do you automatically disqualify someone if you find out they have a kid? 28F who is childfree by choice. I have dated single fathers because I thought I just didn’t want to birth my own children. I realized that I don’t want children period. Now I automatically swipe left or IRL end the relationship if I hear the person I’m interested has kids or wants kids in the future. Lol it’s tough.	/r/PurplePillDebate	28/08/20 02:40 PM
0	CMV: If most men just took care of themselves/lookmaxxed, they would by physically attractibe to a decent set of women Not to me. And a lot of women I know.	/r/PurplePillDebate	26/08/20 08:42 PM
-1	CMV: If most men just took care of themselves/lookmaxxed, they would by physically attractibe to a decent set of women A lot of men are not ugly, they are just unkempt. Women like men who TRY. Men demand women be supermodels but some refuse to try themselves. I agree with this post.	/r/PurplePillDebate	26/08/20 08:26 PM
2	Physically, what is your type and how easily have you been able to get into STR/LTR with those men? Thanks for the reply! For me, black men look great with hair but good/ok bald. However, black men also REFUSE to go bald when their hairlines start receding and that’s why I generally just say no. Everyone else definitely needs a full head of hair for me to be attracted.	/r/PurplePillDebate	25/08/20 04:28 PM
4	Physically, what is your type and how easily have you been able to get into STR/LTR with those men? I’ve had the most luck with 3rd generations. all the ambition without the religious ideologyo	/r/PurplePillDebate	25/08/20 04:25 PM
1	Physically, what is your type and how easily have you been able to get into STR/LTR with those men? Thankfully none lol.	/r/PurplePillDebate	25/08/20 04:23 PM
1	Physically, what is your type and how easily have you been able to get into STR/LTR with those men? Yes	/r/PurplePillDebate	24/08/20 08:44 PM
11	Physically, what is your type and how easily have you been able to get into STR/LTR with those men? My preferences: Black or Latino men, 5’9-6’2, Built well, Nice smiles (currently or in progress), Not bald As a southern black woman, getting black men in that category is easy; HOWEVER, since this is only based on physical- they’re usually not who I end up in LTR with. For LTR, Latino and Middle Eastern men are usually my jam. Physically, they’re usually shorter but they exceed the rest of my physical preferences. And then some non-physically.	/r/PurplePillDebate	24/08/20 08:04 PM
5	Transgenderism: What causes it? Is it bad for society? How can transgender people best be helped to have the fullest and happiest lives? I relate to the temporary FtM dynamic so much! I was uncomfortable with my changing female body, the male attention, and wanted to hide. So I thought male = safety. Glad I got out of that quickly lol	/r/PurplePillDebate	21/08/20 03:25 PM
3	CMV: Dating advice should only come from well-adjusted, mentally healthy, secure, mature, and high-value people Yes.	/r/PurplePillDebate	21/08/20 12:08 AM
5	CMV: Dating advice should only come from well-adjusted, mentally healthy, secure, mature, and high-value people My question is- how do we quantify that? EDIT: Quantify well adjusted, mentally healthy, secure and mature people to give solid advice	/r/PurplePillDebate	20/08/20 11:42 PM
3	Why do women lose attraction to men who show their feelings, even though men are told to show their feelings more? THIS!! It’s so confusing when someone basically brags about not having feelings and not caring .... then has a full and long lasting 180 meltdown. I don’t like being confused and thrown off like that.	/r/PurplePillDebate	19/08/20 08:18 PM
1	Do American women feel betrayed by the Sexual Revolution and Feminism? Yes! This!	/r/PurplePillDebate	15/08/20 01:29 PM
2	Do American women feel betrayed by the Sexual Revolution and Feminism? Exactly. 3rd and 4th may have brought women together but totally wrecked themselves in the collective process of man hate. I don’t agree with it.	/r/PurplePillDebate	15/08/20 01:29 PM
4	Do American women feel betrayed by the Sexual Revolution and Feminism? No, men can’t MAKE me do anything but they can encourage or like @rightmeow6 said, promise you the world. It would be idiotic to say that men do not take advantage of women, especially young women who don’t have much real life experience. But like I also said, if you weren’t too busy cherry-picking, is that I blame myself because society said it would be awesome and I wanted awesome. Then it wasn’t, so I changed. But that was young and dumb days. Oh well	/r/PurplePillDebate	15/08/20 01:28 PM
42	Do American women feel betrayed by the Sexual Revolution and Feminism? Yes and no. Yes- I engaged in casual sex/love whatever because I thought it would make me feel like a young beautiful qween goddess who could literally do no wrong. I, in fact, did many things wrong and it took me awhile to figure out that those attempts were what was wrong. It took longer for me to forgive myself for them, seek therapy, and find my core values again. I was finally ready to begin dating but covid 🙄 I blame myself, SOME elements of modern feminism, and the men who profited/encour…	/r/PurplePillDebate	14/08/20 07:27 PM
3	Please share your list of deal-breakers and must haves in terms of values, career, physical, etc. Age range: 26-38 Lifestyle: -Does not have or want children. Ever. -Fit and works out at least 4-5 times weekly -Doesn’t smoke or do any drugs, including weed -Little to no drinking -Income in the six figures Values: -Educated (bachelors a must, graduate a bonus) -Well read -Not an alpha male strategy, MGTOW, Jordan Peterson, Joe Rogan, Ben Shapiro wannabe -Honest -Great conversationalist -Genuinely finds pleasure in taking care of his girlfriend/wife -Reliable -Porn free -Monogamous -Friendly &…	/r/FemaleDatingStrategy	12/08/20 08:01 PM
5	Does this seem controlling? I’m no longer dating this guy, but he would tell me I couldn’t wear certain things or make any new guy friends and if I objected, he said that I didn’t give a fuck about him. If I thought he was being controlling he frequently called me crazy and irrational My friend had an ex like this. She thought it was fun that he would take her shopping, nevermind that the clothes he bought didn’t reflect her usual style (she didn’t dress overly promiscuous, but wasn’t peak modesty either). She thought it was sweet that he would show up at the clubs we were at saying things like “he missed her” or “wanted to meet her friends”. He was kind to us, bought us drinks, but would be so glued with her that we (her friends) could barely dance with her. Slowly she stopp…	/r/FemaleDatingStrategy	09/08/20 10:19 PM
1	What can a single girl do? I also really love reading so I’ve been reading through sooo many books.	/r/FemaleDatingStrategy	03/08/20 08:37 PM
2	What can a single girl do? Clearing up acne scars + hyperpigmentation, figuring out my belief system/ moral code, losing inches off my waist, learning how to cook, picking up an adult league sport (pre-covid). My current favorite project is mapping out, selling/donating, and redoing my ENTIRE wardrobe for more feminine styles (skirts & dresses).. silks and other natural fibers. Flowy. Great for my body type - hourglass. I won’t buy all the clothes I want right now but I have all the clothes I want saved in their appropria…	/r/FemaleDatingStrategy	03/08/20 08:37 PM