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5

Part of that confidence is experience with logistics/pipeline. Not only am I not stressing because I'm confident in who I am, but I also know that I've got 1-3 potential other girls in the wings, so if this date goes to shit it's not the end of the world.
/r/seduction29/11/20 02:19 AM
226

Sub'd to her OnlyFans Missed one
/r/seduction24/11/20 12:11 AM
3

"They say money can't buy happiness, but I've never seen someone sad riding a jetski." - Daniel Tosh
/r/seduction23/11/20 05:47 AM
7

I disagree. Knowledge of how much bullshit a substandard female will introduce into your life, how much inane conversation, of how many petty feuds with her friends you will hear about, of how many secret grudges, of how many passive aggressive slights she will throw at you, will only make your appreciation of your "forever lady" even greater. Because at that point you will know and appreciate how rare she is. To use your food metaphor, the best flavor on earth will only be enhanced by the previ…
/r/seduction21/11/20 05:39 PM
6

You can cash them in at the Chuck E Cheese prize counter on BooHoo Street in Whogivesafuckville.
/r/seduction19/11/20 06:50 PM
14

Do you know what makes people serious about gaming? I thought you meant World of Warcraft or similar for a good 5 minutes.
/r/seduction19/11/20 06:48 PM
19

"A woman should not be forced to be an active participant in her own seduction" - some dating coach Edit: it was Nick Savoy on some youtube video from 10 years ago, talking about logistics
/r/seduction22/10/20 03:08 AM
15

jerk off with her vagina for 3.14 minutes Cream pi
/r/seduction14/10/20 06:21 PM
0

"That is a beautiful blouse. It would look even better on my bedroom floor."
/r/seduction15/09/20 04:47 AM
2

If a girl asks what your hobbies are, just say "magnets".
/r/seduction01/09/20 05:13 AM
8

They both mean "come talk to me".
/r/seduction29/08/20 01:57 AM
1

Jean Paul Gaultier Le Male, Abercrombie Fierce, Tom Ford Ould Wood, and Versace Light Blue have all worked great for me. Pair your scent to the season. Light and citrus-y in the spring/summer, dark and musky in the fall/winter.
/r/seduction30/07/20 07:29 AM
0

Don't be a pussy.
/r/seduction25/07/20 06:19 PM
6

No line IMO. The product you are selling is yourself. You have leads (which can be hot or cold), opportunities, repeat business, accounts that need servicing to be maintained, etc. Most salespeople are good with the opposite sex and it's not rocket surgery to see why.
/r/seduction24/07/20 12:38 PM
93

I know if I met this chick irl I can get her! Sounds like your time would be better spent approaching girls in real life rather than Tinder.
/r/seduction07/07/20 03:50 PM
2

That's why it's hard to be an attractive male.
/r/seduction07/07/20 03:00 PM
10

In the shower I use a water activated gel cleanser, then a honey almond body scrub, and on the face an exfoliating gel scrub. Then I apply an herb-mint facial masque which I leave on for 10 minutes while I prepare the rest of my routine. I always use an after shave lotion with little or no alcohol, because alcohol dries your face out and makes you look older. Then moisturizer, then an anti-aging eye balm followed by a final moisturizing protective lotion. It's lethal.
/r/seduction04/07/20 06:05 AM
3

Tried this. I'm now making naked sangria for 1.
/r/seduction25/06/20 07:28 PM
1

Have a laugh and shake it off. That's pretty funny.
/r/seduction24/06/20 06:13 AM
1

Don't wait until the end of the date. Here's a simple setup/move: when you're sitting next to her on a bench or whatever and there's a pause in conversation, let that pause draw out a little bit to build tension, then say "hey, come a bit closer" while you scooch her hips closer with your arm around her. Then look her in in the eyes, then look at her lips, then back at her eyes, then go in for the kiss. Go in decisively, but slowly enough to allow her to gracefully turn away/reject you if she's …
/r/seduction12/05/20 09:32 PM
3

whips out penis w0t
/r/seduction12/05/20 08:46 PM
21

Voice is a huge part of it too. Speak slow and low, be measured in your words. Don't contradict yourself.
/r/seduction24/04/20 08:56 PM
1

Thanks man! Looking forward to that detailed response. I will say though, I've never been an intensely analytic person when it comes to dating. I feel that by being hyper-analytic with dating, it can actually stop you from building an organic chemistry with women, because the "data" side of dating paralyses your mind. I agree for in-person interactions, but I disagree with this sentiment for setting up a profile. I'd prefer to optimize the sh*t out of my profile on the front end, and then set it…
/r/seduction15/04/20 10:00 PM
1

Fuck all these haters. Don't understand the "you're 6'2 therefore I can't get laid" logic. Good on you if you're killing it. Some questions: Care to share pictures of your profile? (feel free to blur out your name/face) What apps are you using? Are you paying? If so, which app is most bang (heh) for you buck? Do you have more success with the fast swiping apps (Tinder/Bumble) or the slower more messaged based apps (CmB/Hinge)? For your profile text, is it more informative (hobbies, likes/dislike…
/r/seduction09/04/20 10:59 PM
2

I kind of agree with OP here. Don't "be yourself" if your current self is unattractive. But also OP, don't try to be something you aren't. If you were born in rural West Texas and ride a horse to work, you might have trouble relating to/hitting on a goth chick who spends nights raving in warehouse basements. Take a good hard look, define yourself, and then go hang out with your tribe. At least then you will have some common ground, and you can interact with girls like they are fucking human bein…
/r/seduction07/04/20 06:11 PM
9

Girls peak hard and fast. The naked truth is that our male reptilian brains want the physical specimen most likely and able to bear our physical offspring. Females hit physical maturity sooner and faster, but the downside is that they regress more quickly. Attributes that can offset physical decline be earned over time (money, status, etc), but although they are nice they simply are not 1:1 replacements for raw physical attraction. The attributes that define attraction are not symmetrical regard…
/r/seduction14/03/20 11:46 AM
5

It's more like ordering a cheeseburger and then In-n-Out responds "I think giving you a hamburger is more in line with my headspace at this time in my life" and you responding "NO give me a damn cheeseburger. This is not a negotiation; I know you have them and I want one so give it to me or I'll gladly go to Five Guys or Culvers or Shake Shack. I might even be a huge slut and go pick up a crave case of 20 sliders at White Castle. Either way i'll be gone and you're gonna feel like a fool for havi…
/r/seduction13/03/20 07:17 PM
1

Jesus. Ok, you’ve got a lot to deal with. But break it down and make your problems manageable. Take a page from Maslow’s hierarchy of needs and start with the basic physical needs first. I assume you are going to sleep at weird hours, eating like shit, and boozing heavily. I know it’s college, but take a break and get your body and your mind right. Maybe throw some workouts in. Then get your grades straight. You are ultimately in college to get good grades and graduate with a degree (notice how …
/r/seduction12/11/19 06:50 PM
6

Make “no girl is out of my league” your platform and jump off from there
/r/seduction22/10/19 05:21 PM
7

If it’s a one-off, ignore it. People can be assholes at any given moment for a multitude of reasons. If it becomes a habit, then address it.
/r/seduction26/09/19 11:22 PM
4

If you mean “cute” guys get “cute” girls, and “hot” guys get “hot girls, I think there is merit there (ex: Joseph Gordon Levitts get Zoey Deschanels , and Dan Bilzerians get Kim Kardashians). The phrase “opposites attract” is BS imo; people are much more like to attract and be attracted to someone who is in sync with their core interests and values.
/r/seduction26/09/19 11:17 PM
5

Use the back of your hand. Touch her over her clothes where she can’t feel your swear. Offer your arm and walk arm in arm. Pat the top of her head like she a good puppy. Guide her through the door you opened for her with your forearm on the small of her back there’s a million ways of touching her and not using your open palm. But make no mistake; physical contact is essential.
/r/seduction18/09/19 04:51 PM
-1

“Let’s not make this transactional... yet 😏” “You look like I need a drink 😏” “No. Anyways what we’re saying about ... (continue conversation)”
/r/seduction23/08/19 07:24 PM
1

Because you can’t want for what you already have.
/r/seduction21/08/19 12:28 PM
2

At night the rejections seem to happen "with prejudice", so to speak. But I feel daytime rejection are harsher. You are out in the openfor all to see. At night at least I fee like I can slink back into the shadows haha.
/r/seduction22/06/19 11:56 PM
2

“Is it true the peaches are juicier in Georgia?”
/r/seduction03/06/19 04:03 AM
3

Edit: why am I being downvoted? Because haters
/r/seduction11/04/19 08:19 PM
2

You don't need a club. All you need is a sack
/r/seduction11/02/19 09:19 AM
44

OP at the club
/r/seduction13/12/18 11:09 PM
2

Do more drugs. Sketchy friends will appear in droves.
/r/seduction26/11/18 09:18 AM
2

dude get the fuck off reddit lol go live in real life BE FREE LIVE FOR THE REST OF US
/r/seduction31/10/18 03:34 AM
9

Bounce around until you find someone whose acquaintance you could benefit from. Don’t be a dick, normal social convention still applies, but eject yourself gracefully from a conversation with individual that you have zero overlap with. When you do find someone who you want to talk to, make sure you bring up early and explicitly how you might be useful to them. Don’t just blurt it out, but make it unambiguous as to how your relationship could be mutually beneficial. And worse case, just be genuin…
/r/seduction16/10/18 09:03 PM
2

Movie dates are horrible. Can't see one another, can't talk, can't gauge her body language, bascially you're handcuffed to another person in a dark room for 2 hours. If you absolutely must, meet up and do something beforehand. Get drinks, grab a snowcone, whatever. Have the movie cap off the date, not be the date.
/r/seduction10/08/18 05:43 PM
4

She could be angling to get some free dinner and drinks off you, and using this disclosure as a mental justification ("Well, I did warn him!") Proceed as normal.
/r/seduction10/08/18 05:24 PM
66

"My penis is but my tongue isn't"
/r/seduction09/07/18 12:20 AM
1

What parade? Maybe I need to mix up my usual rotation of shiksas
/r/seduction02/06/18 05:47 AM
1

Don Draper, you have the floor: https://youtu.be/fjg5TuXV09U
/r/seduction01/06/18 11:55 PM
11

It's not a shit test, but she's trying to figure out what your motives and endgame are. For example, if she's looking for a serious relationship and your response implies you are just trying to keep things casual, then she might decide to devote more time to other prospects. The best answer I can think of is: "Well, I just haven't found the right girl yet."
/r/seduction22/05/18 06:48 PM
45

"Being introverted" is the excuse. Social competency is not the sole domain of extroverts.
/r/seduction21/05/18 12:13 AM
2

Or just bathe in Nair.
/r/seduction17/05/18 01:48 AM
3

Dog parks
/r/seduction03/05/18 09:53 PM
3

I remember someone describing female perception of attractiveness as a point system. Looks: maximum 10 points, style: maximum 5 points, monetary worth: maximum 10 points, etc. Every girl has a different minimum threshold to be attracted, and every girl gives different weights to different criteria: one girl could score money out of 50 points, another could score it out of 5 points. It's possible to be really wealthy and have that overcome low scores in the rest of the criteria (again, depending …
/r/seduction29/04/18 12:19 AM
7

I think this is the case for most people. It's really easy to blame circumstance for the unhappiness in your life, but it's hard to ask "what actions can I take to make my life better".
/r/seduction16/04/18 06:00 AM
4

This is real life. Not some fairy tale 16 Candles world where cutesy shit like hand written notes from some dude she's never met will win her over. My mind wants to write this letter because it could potentially be romantic and set me apart. Romance?? You've never even spoken to her! Out of all your options, a note is literally the weakest, lowest probability of success move possible. Just go fucking talk to her. Don't be the guy in the PG-13 movie everyone is really hoping makes it happen. Be t…
/r/seduction13/04/18 10:47 AM
2

Go become proficient in other aspects of your life. Confidence in those successes will spill over into your confidence with women.
/r/seduction06/04/18 10:35 PM
4

Initially read this and thought you coded an app for left/right swiping fecal matter.
/r/seduction06/04/18 10:33 PM
18

There is a difference between being funny and being a "clown". A clown is funny for the sake of amusing others; you should be funny for the sake of amusing yourself. A clown willingly jettisons his own self respect for a laugh; your self respect should be unquestionable. No girl is going to kiss or have sex with you if they don't respect you, and no one will respect you if you don't respect yourself.
/r/seduction05/04/18 10:33 PM
1

I became successful in life. First you get the money, then you get the power, then you get the women (seriously).
/r/seduction20/03/18 08:53 AM
3

Do or do not. There is no try.
/r/seduction16/03/18 02:20 AM
11

Simple: if you see her studying something similar, ask for help. Especially if you recognize her from class. When you're finishing up, say something along the lines of "Hey that was really helpful, lets get together and study for the midterm next week. Whats your #?" or something similar. Steadily escalate intimacy of location from there; study over coffee, meet up and get a private study room in the library, study at her house or yours. Continue to charm and be flirty all the while. Important: …
/r/seduction09/03/18 03:35 AM
-2

"Me too. I employ a few to [guard my art collection / break the legs of people who owe me money / handle my luggage / guard my unicorn stable]" "You've never seen me kill a spider, have you?" "Bars always need bouncers" [after striking a kung-fu pose]: "Bruce Lee could still kick Arnold's ass ;)"
/r/seduction20/02/18 08:19 PM
3

Dude, no. What you do is set up logistics that make it natural and easy to end the date at your place. Examples: having her meet you at the beginning of the date at your place, then head out. She will at some point have to come back to pick up her car ending the date at a bar/cafe/whatever close to your place Theres a great video by Savoy of Lovesystems that outlines this. The video is super old and I can't find it, but one line that stood out is: "a girl wants to be seduced, but doesn't want to…
/r/seduction18/01/18 09:30 PM
2

There is some good advice floating around in this thread, but I'll just add this tangent : I've been set up more than a few times in college (mostly last minute dates for fraternity formals), and from my experience, it is more than likely that she is not going to be overwhelmingly attractive (there's a reason she is getting set up). This may not be the case, but you should be aware and prepared for the possibility. Obviously, if this is the case, you should still absolutely act like a perfect ge…
/r/seduction18/01/18 08:32 PM
2

I try to be flirty and charming with every female I talk to. I don't think it should be something you can turn on or off. Old grandmas while I'm in line at the bank, grocery cashiers, coworkers, moms in my yoga class, etc. If you aren't a creep, it's fun for everyone and good practice. It turns into seduction when you start escalating; more sexual talk, kino in more erogenous zones, etc.
/r/seduction15/01/18 06:55 PM
4

As a sidebar to this; if you are in a big/destination city, look up the schedule at the convention center. Industry conferences are superb opportunities to go hunting.
/r/seduction11/01/18 05:23 PM
5

I put on my robe and wizard hat...
/r/seduction03/01/18 11:16 PM
6

R and K women? please explain this terminology
/r/seduction23/12/17 01:54 AM
5

Tinder is dirty trash water. Get Bumble or Hinge or CmB.
/r/seduction21/12/17 08:37 AM
2

Dope home theater system (sound system most importantly). Comfy couch. Full bar. Some classy art (paintings and sculpture). A proper set of cook ware (nice knives, a full set of pans). A stocked bar + glassware. A lighting system that be turned down to set a romantic mood.
/r/seduction13/12/17 10:52 PM
1

Just be a normal courteous person: "hey I'm just getting to the gym so I'll be out of contact. I'll hit you up closer to our date night, later ;) "
/r/seduction09/12/17 08:27 AM
1

Smart girls are best in bed
/r/seduction09/12/17 08:02 AM
2

Dude go to a speech therapist or similar professional. Should be covered through your university health insurance. Fix that shit before you get thrown out into the real world.
/r/seduction09/12/17 07:51 AM
3

Yea stupid, yes too pushy. Cheek peck is fine as a greeting. Don't push too hard too fast, if the first date was successful use that as a source of confidence and build off that.
/r/seduction09/12/17 06:02 AM
3

Like everything, it's a work in progress
/r/seduction28/11/17 02:00 AM
65

I work a 9-5. I rock climb/yoga/lift weights immediately after work every day. I'll spend my lunch hour researching a new meal to learn to cook for dinner that night. On weekends I'll ride my motorcycle, go to concerts, or surf. Most nights I'll read a book of my choice for ~45 min to put me to sleep. I don't watch TV, I only go to the movies unless something really spectacular is in theatres (Last thing I saw was blade runner 2049 in 70mm), I do my best to stay off Reddit and Facebook, I don't …
/r/seduction27/11/17 07:21 PM
1

Like if I opened direct ''Hey, you're cute'' and she's like 'thanks;, then what? Proceed with having a normal conversation. The only purpose of an opener (canned, direct, whatever) is to get you talking. It should not form the backbone of your conversation, but should be more or less discarded immediately after.
/r/seduction20/11/17 09:00 PM
3

I have a very simple move that I use when its difficult to get the "perfect moment", or if shes really talkative. Assuming you've laid all the groundwork (good vibes, lots of physical touch already), I'll gently grab her arm right above her elbow, and say "Stop." Then I'll make about 1 second of eye contact, and then gently spin her towards me while I lean in for the kiss. Simple right? This sequence accomplishes several things: 1) By saying "stop" you create the moment at your choosing, rather …
/r/seduction20/11/17 08:40 PM
0

Canned openers are the worst. Only use as a last resort. There are 2 types of openers: indirect and direct. Indirect uses something as an excuse to talk to her. For example: "Do you know what time it is?" A direct opener would be something along the lines of "Hi, I saw you from across the bar and thought you were pretty. I'm ghlibisk." You have to use the right one as the situation dictates. If you two have been making flirty eyes at one another all night, use a direct approach. It would be pret…
/r/seduction20/11/17 07:49 PM
1

Context? Source?
/r/seduction26/07/17 05:10 PM
3

Meeting people is not the primary goal. Having fun is. Why the fuck would you go if it to have a fun time? Meeting people will be a side effect of that.
/r/seduction20/07/17 09:22 PM
1

Dude, I love Tim Ferris, but a lot of things in 4HB are totally whack
/r/seduction12/07/17 05:51 PM
1

Be consistent. Stick with it for months and years
/r/seduction19/06/17 09:10 PM
72

Dude, remember it's fucking INSTAGRAM. People take dozens of photos to get the perfect angle, then use filters or outright photoshop to make them look better. I've seen girls who are 10's on ig, only to be average at best IRL. Obviously she's only posting pictures of interesting shit on ig, but remember 99% of the rest of her time she's just like you. She has to wait in line at the grocery store too, she gets stuck in traffic too, she has taken at least 1 giant disgusting shit in the past week j…
/r/seduction04/05/17 06:25 PM
0

Looks like someone had their Trollolo-O's for breakfast today
/r/seduction25/04/17 09:13 PM
4

This will not work
/r/seduction25/04/17 07:50 PM
2

You've got claws and fangs, and you're wondering "how do I kill this bunny??" https://m.youtube.com/watch?v=oUa2atNxhfg
/r/seduction25/04/17 07:45 PM
2

...Said no one ever
/r/seduction18/04/17 06:27 AM
1

Dog parks. Running trails. Malls.
/r/seduction11/04/17 11:22 PM
1

The first picture st the very least. If it's a sick action shot of you on your motorcycle as the 3rd or 4th pic, I'd say go for it. She already knows what you look like
/r/seduction07/04/17 11:03 PM
5

TL;DR I always assumed I only like her and need to convince her to like me, like I was brute forcing my way to her affection. But the reality is much more liberating. Why wouldn't she like me back? And if she doesn't, why would I take it so personally? She just doesn't, it's her choice to make. When I started thinking like this, the puzzle solved itself.
/r/seduction27/03/17 06:41 AM
1

Well said. Do things because you enjoy them; getting girls is just a side effect.
/r/seduction26/03/17 07:57 PM
47

Its more about not forcing it into conversation, rather than hiding it. For instance, I recently got a motorcycle, and for a while I was so excited I couldn't shut the fuck up about it. I would insert it into any conversation, and even though its definitely a cool thing and makes me more interesting, it is WAY more effective if the other party learns about it organically. It creates a mystique; "omg what other awesomeness is he hiding?" This will never happen if you carpet bomb her with all the …
/r/seduction25/03/17 03:31 AM
2

Tinder is a dumpster fire of dashed hope and wasted time. Bumble. Coffee Meets Bagel. Hinge (if you pay). I've gotten the most success with these.
/r/seduction20/03/17 06:33 AM
11

Is her name Alice?
/r/seduction15/03/17 11:54 PM
2

Don't understand why OP is catching so much flak. You don't have to mirror his entire lifestyle; apply what is useful, and disregard the rest. Personally, the real takeaway is having quantitative measures of your success to ensure you aren't doing the same thing over and over again, and having actionable metrics to improve on.
/r/seduction20/02/17 12:17 AM
3

I use Salesforce. . . . . ok just kidding. But seriously, going into sales has really given me an entirely new perspective of game. The numbers game of mining leads, mustering up the courage to reach out to them, always possessing tangible utility to your target, knowing when to take your time with the seduction or to move quickly, and then the thrill of the close. Sales = seduction, seduction = sales. And the best part, is that because it's your job, your are forced to get better. Approach anxi…
/r/seduction10/02/17 06:26 AM
1

Stoic philosophy helps too.
/r/seduction09/02/17 05:09 AM
3

I've noticed (anecdotally) that my success rate is much higher if I get the number of the less attractive of the duo. Sometimes it's due to personality, other times it's due to circumstance, but I swear every time I get the less attractive girls #, she is over the moon, whereas in the opposite situation I can just tell im DOA because the shunned party is going to talk a bunch of shit once I leave.
/r/seduction07/02/17 01:13 AM
38

Europe.
/r/seduction06/02/17 03:46 AM
2

Ya the one in the light blue crystal? That's the one. It's light and pretty subtle.
/r/seduction06/02/17 12:20 AM
8

Aque di Gio Tom Ford anything Abercrombie Fierce (seriously) Versace Eau Fraiche I only wear it for going out. 1 spritz on my inner wrist, rub them together, then rub my wrists on by neck below my jaw. Less is more.
/r/seduction05/02/17 06:52 PM
1

TRT
/r/seduction16/01/17 07:55 PM
7

I've had a sales job for the past 6 months, and I'm learning that there is almost 100% crossover between those skills and "game". Regarding persistence, your attempts to reach out can't be smothering (too often), and you can't make it weird (message is too strange/overt/etc). However, if you are coming to the table with a positive value proposition from their point of view, eventually they are going to accept. No does not mean "no", it means "not right now". There are literally infinite valid re…
/r/seduction14/01/17 03:56 AM
22

In your late 20's.
/r/seduction10/01/17 08:30 PM
1

You care because it doesn't exist.
/r/seduction10/01/17 08:29 PM
2

I don't think this works anymore . I've heard your account is now tied to your phone number, so you can't reset your rank.
/r/seduction07/12/16 03:50 AM
2

No idea. I'm not aware if it was ever a vibrant scene, and if it was it was before my time.
/r/seduction02/12/16 08:26 PM
3

Same. Sub is dead, but I'm sure there are like minds locally. San Diego checking in!
/r/seduction01/12/16 11:51 PM
5

Take a bunch of ecstasy and have fun.
/r/seduction01/12/16 01:25 AM
1

Ok I'll check it out. Also, the almond flavored stuff is amazing, and cheap as well.
/r/seduction22/11/16 10:25 PM
2

Didn't know this existed. Good call
/r/seduction22/11/16 08:47 PM
1

Also, if one can afford it it's definitely worth investing in better booze. Like your shoes, girls WILL judge you on what's in your bar. Gotta step your game up from the college days. My bar ideally looks like this: Milagro (tequila) Belvedere (vodka) Jaegermeister MacCallan 12 (scotch) Beer (if I haven't drank it), 1 red and 1 white wine (usually a Malbec and a chardonnay), triple sec, lime juice, cheap champagne
/r/seduction22/11/16 08:23 PM
4

Korbel is like $10? I'm okay with that sunk cost. Also, I've only seen very low quality champagne (cooks, Andre) come in 4 packs. Korbel is no Veuve Cliquot, but it's passable.
/r/seduction22/11/16 08:15 PM
3

Yes, I am aware. Champagne, cognac, whisky/whiskey, etc etc.
/r/seduction22/11/16 08:12 PM
19

Your missing something: Champagne is key. I'd say 50% of the time, any girl I bring back will turn down a mixed drink in lieu of champagne. I always have a bottle of Korbel or similar stocked; they know it's not gonna break the bank, so they can spring for it guilt free.
/r/seduction22/11/16 06:20 PM
1

Not Israeli, but a fellow member of the tribe. Cohen at me bro
/r/seduction22/11/16 06:09 PM
36

it's like paying for porn. There is SO much good content for free, I can't imagine why you would pay out a single shekel anywhere.
/r/seduction22/11/16 03:46 AM
2

Be overt. Sarcrasm/irony/subtlety do NOT really translate over text. Emojis help; almost anything sarcastic gets the winky ;) so that it doesn't get lost in translation. Be brief. Shoot the shit for a bit (4-5 texts back and forth), but texting is really just a means to an end. Don't overdo the "wait to reply" thing. Yes, it looks desperate if you always respond within 5 seconds of her text, but error on the side of promptness. Just remember texting is still a conversation; for it to be engaging…
/r/seduction20/11/16 08:24 PM
1

This book had a lot of good in it, but it also has a LOT of bullshit (especially in the later chapters). The main good points are the ones covered in the video.
/r/seduction07/11/16 03:24 AM
2

Happens to me all the time. "Were you hitting on my wife?" "Yea man I was. Sorry bruh. But can you really blame me?"
/r/seduction13/10/16 05:17 AM
2

Tinder is trash. Switch to Bumble or Hinge.
/r/seduction11/10/16 04:52 PM
3

Le Male by Jean Paul Gaultier Anything Tom Ford and yes, Fierce by A&F
/r/seduction01/09/16 06:27 AM
14

Well, if you were wearing other clothes on top of them, I can't really blame him.
/r/seduction12/08/16 07:10 AM
1

Go on YouTube and search "how to kiss". There's a million videos, and surprisingly they're not usually off point.
/r/seduction22/07/16 07:42 PM
0

Shes would have to have good posture. Girls who slouch and make themselves look small is really unattractive, and this behavior is rampant in tall girls.
/r/seduction13/07/16 07:24 AM
2

When lone wolfing downtown, I find much more success on the streets, rather than actually inside the clubs or bars.
/r/seduction21/05/16 10:08 AM
1

All ye, behold the tao of the COBRA COMMANDER
/r/seduction09/05/16 12:49 AM
1

Somewhere with less people around. Like a secluded park bench
/r/seduction08/05/16 09:56 PM
2

No you aren't. What you are likely describing is in part due to the Dunning-Kruger effect. You have acquired a small bit of experience, so your confidence has skyrocketed. Congrats! However, in the grand scheme of things, you are still a n00b. Keep working, self improvement is like yoga or dancing, where the joy is in the process itself. It's not a process where you arrive at certain place and go "Yep! I made it. Now I'm done."
/r/seduction20/04/16 06:32 AM
1

If possible, have her meet you at your place. Fantastic short video on the subject: http://youtu.be/BXORo0WB-uw Do lots of foreplay. Get her to cum at least once using your fingers or by going down on her BEFORE you stick it in. That way, even if you cum in two thrusts, you both still feel at least somewhat satisfied.
/r/seduction18/04/16 05:08 PM
3

They did it at Hogwarts
/r/seduction17/04/16 03:49 AM
3

"Trying online" is a fucking cop out amigo. Sack up your testicles, and go approach in three dimensions. If seduction is like working out, then online game is equivalent to taking BCAAs or creatine. They are fucking supplements! Real life approach is your gym time, your workout. And there is no substitute for minutes pounding the pavement, both in seduction and in the gym.
/r/seduction29/03/16 09:02 AM
2

CS, shared room, or private room airbnb i agree. But if you have the whole place to yourself I don't think it's a requisite to ask permission.
/r/seduction21/03/16 10:41 PM
0

Airbnb? Couch surfing if your super broke? But I agree with the others here. Just get a hotel homie
/r/seduction21/03/16 07:12 PM
4

Where are you located at?
/r/seduction15/03/16 08:37 PM
1

Isn't it an ad for one of the PUA/dating coach services?
/r/seduction15/03/16 09:56 AM
4

And believe it or not -- a relationship or even a fucking fuck-buddy is a mini-negotiation. It's all about each party getting exactly what they want and knowing what they want and also having something to offer the other party. Love is no different. And you want to be a decent negotiator in love. And that takes not feeling powerless at the negotiating table and having the other party's respect preach. Never thought of it like this before, excellent points
/r/seduction12/03/16 01:41 PM
4

Dude, people are people. She probably thinks "what the hell, who is this creep leering at me from across the restaurant". Everyone has their own narrative, their own baggage, their own pet peeves, their own triumphs. She's just another human being bro. What you're doing is projecting your frustrations onto this person who really has no connection to you. In all likelihood, she's prolly a nice gal. Go say whats up.
/r/seduction10/03/16 05:41 AM
1

Nice
/r/seduction23/02/16 10:29 PM
5

No dude, just no. Just talk to her like a normal human being. If your frame is solid, then your "opener line" is literally the least important aspect of the entire encounter
/r/seduction23/02/16 08:39 PM
2

Easy version; do this with non females as well
/r/seduction23/02/16 08:44 AM
5

Bad idea to retaliate physically. Personally, my philosophy is that if you hit someone, regardless of gender, you should expect to get hit back. However, if you even look like you're going to hit her, every white knight within 10 miles is going to show up in about 5 seconds, and you'll probably get your ass beat, in addition to possible being detained and thrown in jail. Best case scenario, keep her beyond arms reach, enlist others to get her the fuck away from you, and make damn sure everyone k…
/r/seduction22/02/16 09:30 AM
19

"Pick Up Artists" and not "Pick Up Scientists" haha nice
/r/seduction19/02/16 09:14 PM
1

"Only on the pretty ones" "Only if they're not already in my bed" "Only if I feel like starting a conversation before our clothes are off" "If youre lucky, you're the last girl I'll ever use it on"
/r/seduction19/02/16 08:33 PM
1

Consistency. Going out more often, having a diet plan and sticking to it for 30+ days. I have every advantage (tall, dress well, funny, educated, etc), but the work ethic lacks miserably. Having positive attributes that you were born with but didn't have to work for has made it difficult to learn and embrace grinding out something like pickup, hour by hour, day by day, month by month.
/r/seduction19/02/16 08:02 PM
1

So, who did she go home with at the end of the night?
/r/seduction19/02/16 08:07 AM
2

I had just entered the gym and signed in. The front desk guy was chatting with this bombshell of a girl, skintight Lulus and everything. Me: "Hey bro, can I check out an elastic band?" Him: "Naw sorry, some other guy just checked it out before you." Me, trying to be smooth and funny: "Thats cool, I'll just murder him and take it off his warm corpse." The worst part was that I said it in a total deadpan. I have no idea where this came from (maybe because I had been watching Rick and Morty beforeh…
/r/seduction13/02/16 12:37 PM
13

In my book, if it doesn't involve genitalia it's not a hookup
/r/seduction30/01/16 12:30 AM
1

Depending on how much she likes it, not too much IMO. It's a really popular book. It's kinda like saying "what does it tell about this girl who likes Harry Potter?" Well, those books are everywhere, spanning every demographic and personal predilection, so jack shit. But, it gives you an opportunity to broach the question of some sort of BDSM play, which is good.
/r/seduction29/01/16 12:54 AM
1

Have a nine digit balance in your bank account
/r/seduction28/01/16 01:55 AM
1

Tell her your wife will be home any minute now
/r/seduction03/01/16 11:28 PM
3

If the girl is a lost cause, what's the harm in asking?
/r/seduction28/12/15 08:09 PM
6

Stop breathing with your mouth. Lose body fat.
/r/seduction28/12/15 08:06 PM
7

Try using the women's bathroom
/r/seduction28/12/15 12:45 AM
-1

Go abroad. Seriously. I'm guessing you're from the US, or Canada , or Australia. Modern feminism in our western countries has produced the worst ball busting miserable shrews of women. Go to Latin America, or eastern Europe.
/r/seduction18/12/15 04:50 PM
2

Don't. Have the date start at your place https://m.youtube.com/watch?v=BXORo0WB-uw
/r/seduction18/12/15 03:01 AM
1

Ask your aunt
/r/seduction18/12/15 02:56 AM
5

Dude one month is WAY too long from now. Especially on tinder, where instant gratification is the name of the game. One week, tops. You can find an hour to grab a coffee with this girl in the next week
/r/seduction17/12/15 05:55 PM
7

Plant the seed. Wait for it to turn into a plant. Then you fuck the plant.
/r/seduction17/12/15 11:45 AM
1

The confidence and self image problems will be there long after the weight leaves.
/r/seduction16/12/15 04:50 PM
1

Stop getting knocked out by the boyfriend! On a serious note, it definitely wont hurt to keep practicing. You'll recover more quickly if you do
/r/seduction12/12/15 04:50 PM
1

Friends who have prescriptions
/r/seduction10/12/15 07:52 AM
1

Yes, and you build up a tolerance quickly. So i wouldnt advise it as an every day thing. But if we disregard side effects and, in terms of what helps me the most, xanax is definitely it.
/r/seduction10/12/15 07:50 AM
1

Xanax. General anxiety is/has always been my biggest hurdle.
/r/seduction10/12/15 07:42 AM
2

If you build it, they will come
/r/seduction10/12/15 07:26 AM
8

...and my name's Larry even though Chinese people can't pronounce it for shit fucking lol'd hard
/r/seduction09/12/15 04:10 AM
4

"If I'm a fuckboy, then you can be my fuck-toy" ;)
/r/seduction18/11/15 04:25 AM
1

Her panties are soaking wet.
/r/seduction13/11/15 09:19 AM
13

Found a video how to guide
/r/seduction12/11/15 02:26 AM
1

Day game is hard because you're doing it sober
/r/seduction11/11/15 11:14 AM
2

Don't make it weird then. You're just a dude feeling particularly chatty that particular day
/r/seduction11/11/15 10:24 AM
28

Also, I'm 100% definitely beyond a shadow of a doubt going to cheat on you at some point during our marriage.
/r/seduction21/10/15 07:49 AM
1

Are you aware that there are people in this world that have a severe medical condition which causes them to be that way? My mother for instance is one of those people. She is a truck driver that has bad knees and a bad back from driving the truck but you probably do not care about that case either. Oh well I am not one of those people I am 6'4" 245lbs and I exercise every day. I would love to see you say something like to my mother in front of me. Probably never happen though you are probably ju…
/r/seduction26/09/15 05:52 AM
0

Too late to join a frat ? From what I understand, fraternities reign supreme at SEC schools. You'd be around a bunch of other like minded guys who are want to self improve and get as much pussy as possible. Also, a frat is excellent social proof
/r/seduction16/09/15 06:27 AM
2

Are you the guest, and shes your +1? Or vice versa? If she's your +1, she might not know ANYONE at the wedding. So, don't spend every moment doting on her, but still make sure she isn't sulking alone because she doesn't know anyone. Will ruin her mood, and your chances. Take her around, introduce her to people. Show her that you are the shit, that you know and are liked by everyone. Dance with her, casually at first. If things are going well, a slow dance will be lethally effective in escalation…
/r/seduction16/09/15 02:10 AM
1

Looks matter. Everything matters. Less than optimal looks can be offset by decent game/confidence/whatever, and shitty looks can be offset by phenomenal game, but realize that EVERYTHING matters, and you might as well stack the deck in your favor in whatever way possible.
/r/seduction16/09/15 02:04 AM
2

These sort of one time "point" experiences or transitions are rarely as life changing as people make them out to be. I thought I would be a totally different person after 1) losing my virginity 2) being able to drive 3) going to college 4) getting a real job and 5) getting my own place. But after every transition, I was fundamentally the same person. Real change in your life is made inch by inch, every single day, not by these superficial milestones.
/r/seduction06/09/15 12:50 AM
26

I studied in the library once and BOOM got a PhD.
/r/seduction08/07/15 07:08 PM
1

What is it like overseas?
/r/seduction06/07/15 08:21 PM
1

Your friend's coworkers are fair game. Assuming something were to happen, there would be little to no blowback on your professional life (unless they work in the same field, or a company that you have close relations to). Regarding your coworkers, I would advise against gaming them aggressively. Even if you don't close, you could develop a reputation that would hurt you at the office. However, if you must, game subtly. Target selection is important too; you don't want to fuck some girl who is go…
/r/seduction02/07/15 08:41 AM
4

Hopefully OP means its too late for him with that girl in particular.
/r/seduction25/06/15 02:11 AM
25

Standing with someone uglier than you in a group makes YOU look more attractive. OP, if hes better looking than you are, it helps him. However, it may work out that due to your friend, you end up getting to hang out with attractive females more often. So the net effect of your better looking wingman might be a wash.
/r/seduction14/06/15 05:40 AM
10

Seduction techniques/mindset help even if you are already in a relationship
/r/seduction09/06/15 11:32 PM
4

Why Austria? What it like there? I 'm looking for destinations for my euro trip this summer
/r/seduction09/06/15 11:30 PM
2

Good advice. I've heard the local German girls tend to be on the chubby side.
/r/seduction09/06/15 11:28 PM
1

Looks dont matter homie
/r/seduction08/06/15 06:27 PM
2

You can't just propose a FWB arrangement. Seduce as normal, keep it casual, and pump the brakes if she tries to escalate the seriousness of your acquaintance.
/r/seduction19/05/15 10:37 PM
1

New app called Hinge I downloaded recently. Mostly quality girls
/r/seduction28/04/15 06:03 PM
1

There really is no instance in which the Pareto principal isn't mostly true.
/r/seduction06/04/15 07:17 PM
1

If she asks you not to wear one, DEFINITELY wear one If she asks you to put one on, you're prolly safe to raw dog it
/r/seduction25/03/15 07:57 PM
3

Travelling to Berlin, Prague and Croatia this summer. This is relevant to my interests...
/r/seduction19/03/15 04:59 AM
2

I think there is an evolutionary basis to attraction based on looks. Certain proportions in your facial features correlate to higher testosterone, which in turn correlate to increased social dominance, and a greater ability to hunt, provide, and protect. Not that being able to spear a buffalo is of great importance in today's society, but one should note that many biological bases of attraction are a holdover from a much more primitive time.
/r/seduction26/02/15 10:10 PM
0

Video of Advice for "hard case" newbies: https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=5OVZ9xk1B-o
/r/seduction06/02/15 02:53 AM
1

Not all three, and in one case I closed the friend of the girl I said it to. But it certainly didn't hurt me in any instance. In all three cases, one of the running themes of the conversation was light-heartedly throwing out the most horrible insults we could think of. So yea, like I said, given the right context, you can say ANYthing.
/r/seduction04/02/15 07:28 PM
2

http://www.cajunsblog.com/posts/advanced-body-language/ http://cajunsspice.blogspot.com/2008/01/advanced-body-language-part-2.html http://www.cajunsblog.com/posts/advanced-body-language-part-3/ I dont know why the fuck it is on 2 separage websites, but I think they are still contiguous
/r/seduction04/02/15 01:44 AM
2

Lol nope, not those words exactly. But my vocal tone was really terrible, which made even a gentle tease come off really vicious. With the right tone and context, you COULD actually say those words verbatim and get away with it. Things I've said recently to great effect: "You look like you crawled out a dumpster behind Red Lobster" "You look like Jack Sparrow on estrogen therapy" "Your outfit looks like you just came from a Warcraft themed orgy" etc etc
/r/seduction04/02/15 01:41 AM
1

As someone who fell off the wagon and is just now getting reliably decent again, one of the things I noticed the most was how off color my negs were. Trying to gently tease their hair color or outfit would somehow come out as "You look like Dennis Rodman after 4 quarters and double OT" So yes, negging is one thing that is very easy to misjudge. And because it's one of the techniques people hear about first, it's one of the most misused.
/r/seduction04/02/15 12:10 AM
1

Does he still write/post content? I used to browse his blog (cajunsblog.com), but that shit hasn't been updated in a half decade. His entry on body language though is still money.
/r/seduction03/02/15 09:02 PM
1

+1 to this. Even one of the judges starts off hating on Cajun, and by the end of the show he pretty much says "Damn, this guy is smooth"
/r/seduction03/02/15 08:42 PM
2

I was channeling my inner Sterling Archer. Also, waiting for an update on your night, OP
/r/seduction22/01/15 10:49 PM
10

I blew my best chance at a menange a trois by getting shitfaced and yelling "THREEESOME!!!" while they were both sitting on my lap in the middle of a party. Don't do that.
/r/seduction22/01/15 02:54 AM
1

Tapas bar for first date = lethal
/r/seduction08/01/15 07:51 PM
4

I have to respectfully disagree. I don't have the time, money, or energy to go out in person as much as I want to. Without solid non-verbal text game, I feel like the opportunities afforded by online dating or tinder or whatever are being squandered.
/r/seduction26/12/14 06:32 AM
12

"Hey, it says on your profile you're into fitness," "How bout fitness dick in your mouth?" 30% positive response rate (srs)
/r/seduction17/12/14 08:33 PM
2

The mall, the beach, +18 clubs. Most yoga studios offer a free trial week. Sign up, go a bunch, meet girls in your classes. Hell, do the same for a Crossfit gym (I refuse to call them "boxes"), or a dance studio.
/r/seduction28/11/14 10:25 PM
4

I'm not sure the carrot tanning thing holds water. The source paper digitally manipulated pictures to give what they thought would look like a "carotenoid" tan. The study did not involve anyone eating or getting a tan from said foods, so I don't trust it.
/r/seduction21/11/14 07:32 PM
1

Titles like this are the reason travel visas get revoked
/r/seduction20/11/14 05:46 AM
14

Clubbing is decent for meeting girls. But clubbing is fucking DYNAMITE for closing girls you've met previously and brought there.
/r/seduction16/11/14 02:43 AM
1

Explain these terms? Never heard them before
/r/seduction07/11/14 11:37 PM
2

I used to follow a guy named Cajun ( was associated with RSD for a while). Saw him on an episode of Keys to the VIP. Had some really good insights on body language
/r/seduction07/11/14 11:07 AM
3

Could you explain what this has to do with seduction?
/r/seduction04/11/14 10:20 PM
2

Just start talking to everyone. People in line at Starbucks, people sharing an elevator, people waiting for the crosswalk to turn green. Get comfortable talking to people, it translates to talking to less anxiety talking to girls (whether you realize you have it or not). As your anxiety level wanes, more of your natural wit will shine through.
/r/seduction20/10/14 12:43 AM
2

Lower body fat = better facial aesthetics. Less jowel, more defined jawline, etc.
/r/seduction20/10/14 12:20 AM
3

Good on you for being open about it, that's the first step. But what are you saying exactly? Is it "yea I'm seeing girls other than you", or is it "I'm at a point in my life where I don't want to be in an exclusive relationship". A girl might interpret the former as you suggesting you are looking for something serious, but that she doesn't fit the bill. Any chick who feels likes she's being used as a placeholder until Ms. Right shows up would understandably leave. And yea, definitely don't leave…
/r/seduction20/10/14 12:18 AM
1

Join a yoga class at your CC.
/r/seduction19/10/14 11:53 PM
0

The real question is.... DO you have an Afro on your dick?
/r/seduction17/10/14 06:06 PM
5

I've found that using the word "cheat" is a strong turn off. They'll see you and associate your face with the thought of "I'm cheating". You can't allow her to think of herself as a cheater before you actually seal the deal, it had to just "happen". Here's how I deflect the boyfriend statement. "I have a boyfriend." "Don't you wish your boyfriend was hot like me?" "Ohmygawd shut up he totally is, and.." "Don't you wish your boyfriend was a freak like me?" "Well....." Boom. Boyfriend issue deflec…
/r/seduction15/10/14 06:16 PM
-1

Ignore it. Just pretend it's her inner monologue, and keep doing what you're doing. Don't allow the conversation to drift towards the topic of "omg I'm cheating on my bf". There's no way you will rationally convince her that cheating is a solid move (if you've learned anything in seduction it's that being rational seldom helps), so if you can, just sidestep that land mine entirely.
/r/seduction01/10/14 07:01 AM
5

If you haven't won her over, she won't follow you to your room even if you have the best reason in the world. "Hey come to my room, I have an Iron Maiden and Justin Bieber drugged and tied up" "Ehhh I think my friend just called for me..."
/r/seduction26/09/14 06:31 PM
10

Cal tech and Harvey Mudd (along with MIT and Guantanamo Bay) could quite possibly be the worst places on earth to meet women.
/r/seduction23/09/14 08:47 AM
0

"Sorry, but I don't think we can ever be 'just friends'. With the sexual tension between us, it would make a fraud of any forced platonic relationship we might have." Boom, ultimatum. Politely put; fuck me, or fuck off and stop wasting my time.
/r/seduction15/09/14 02:56 AM
1

No hard alcohol. Drink beer only. I had the same problem, and this cleared it right up
/r/seduction14/09/14 11:40 PM
1

Don't make a "thing" of it. You really aren't that much older than everyone else; yea sure they'll be some 18 year old kids dragging umbilical cords around, but chances are they'll be a solid number of people who transferred from community college too, and they're all at least 21. One of my fraternity pledge brothers was 25 at the start of school (I was 21). I kicked it with him a lot, and (other than asking where his grandkids were every so often) his age never really got brought up. You actual…
/r/seduction08/09/14 07:50 AM
1

Did you even watch any of the videos? You can't compare yourself to him now; he started as a guy with crippling anxiety and a while host of other social problems. I'm sure he's fun to chill with now, but back then? No way It's a matter of putting in the work. Realize you have a ton of work to do, fixing your social problems and approaching thousands of girls, and then go fucking DO IT. Or don't, and proceed to live and die a pariah.
/r/seduction04/09/14 01:44 AM
2

Go watch Owen from RSD's videos on being a "hard case". There's always hope, no matter how undesirable you think you might be.
/r/seduction04/09/14 01:17 AM
5

Also, don't piss people off. Yes I know this sounds obvious, but having just finished college, one of my biggest regrets is acting like a Tucker Max style dickhead and burning lots of bridges with girls. Especially in the Greek system, it's a smaller world than you think, and word gets around.
/r/seduction22/08/14 05:28 AM
-2

"Younger, hotter, tighter" is a terrible slogan..
/r/seduction14/08/14 08:31 AM
18

Literally with every person I walk past on he street. Great confidence booster
/r/seduction10/08/14 03:47 AM
1

Target selection is important. Pay attention to the guys who are paying attention to you.
/r/seduction27/07/14 02:57 AM
2

Noice
/r/seduction06/05/14 07:00 AM
23

Corollary to this; having a juggernaut mindset is essential, but one must be aware of what they look like. I remember doing the for a while and getting horrible feedback, and not knowing the reason. Well, I flashed the face I had been making in the mirror one day, and realized I looked like a fucking rapist! It's a fine art to get your face to say "I'm going to fuck you through the headboard" and not look like a creep. So, practice in the mirror. A lot.
/r/seduction05/05/14 05:45 PM
3

My experience talking to my female friends suggests that girls go to gay clubs to hang out with and grind up on guys, but in a set and setting that has virtually zero sexual connotation. Ive been in a similar situation myself; the set will be going well, very flirtatious, but the moment they find out my end goal is to get in their pants, all bets are off. So yea, gay clubs are not worth the time and effort in my experience
/r/seduction04/05/14 06:33 AM
1

What town is this? BRB roadtrip
/r/seduction27/04/14 01:26 AM
3

Don't put up with unnecessary shit out of love, or whatever. Don't out up with annoyances or things that bother you, thinking that you will learn to eventually dismiss them. Get things out in the open, and don't let resentment build.
/r/seduction26/04/14 05:50 PM
8

Her penis will be erect.
/r/seduction09/04/14 05:51 PM
6

Like I own the fucking place.
/r/seduction12/03/14 12:55 AM
4

1) Throw party 2) Talk to cute girl 3) "hey I have some grey goose in my room. Wanna take some shots in private" 4) lead her to room. Take shots 5) sex Same something like "these shots would taste way better out of your belly button" or "I want to chase this next shot with your tongue". If she's agreed to drink with you alone, at a party, in YOUR room, she prolly has a reasonable expectation that you want to fuck. You have a pretty big license to be aggressive; you already know she's down, and s…
/r/seduction19/02/14 07:19 AM
3

Never take a serious tone. You will almost always come off sounding like a rapist.
/r/seduction17/01/14 02:13 AM
6

OP's answer only works if you are looking for a relationship as well (or if you proposed it in the first place). I've been in situations where a casual hookup will say "oh, I don't think this relationship will work long term" or something to that effect, either to bait me into reaching for her or for whatever other reason (but usually the former). My preferred response is usually something along the lines of: "That's ok, and I agree. I don't think this would work if we were more serious. It woul…
/r/seduction11/01/14 04:37 AM
2

No. If you can't see worth in your own life and the value in improving it, I certainly won't be able to convince you otherwise.
/r/seduction30/12/13 02:23 AM
1

The Irish joint in gaslamp? I only get Guinness and car bombs at that locale. There's a place called Tap Room in Pacific Beach that's my favorite for copious amounts of IPA ingestion. Or I just go to the tasting rooms of the breweries themselves. Green Flash, Ballast Point, and Rough Draft are all within a couple of miles of one another, and Stone isn't that far off either.
/r/seduction28/12/13 02:46 AM
4

I live in San Diego, where the 7-10% IPA is king. Short of drinking 2+ pitchers to the dome (a feat that ranks somewhere between slaying the Nemean tabby cat and stealing Hippolyta's g-string), I can hold it together. I don't know what kind of lizard brew you've got in the Lone Star state, but it can't be much more potent than what we have here.
/r/seduction27/12/13 09:51 PM
63

Switch to beer. I find it incredibly hard to black out drinking just beer in a given night; the sheer physics of forcing that much liquid into my gullet prevents it from happening.
/r/seduction27/12/13 02:31 PM
1

+1 to this. Thizz showers ftw
/r/seduction23/12/13 03:41 PM
-1

If you make a move and she stops you. If she doesn't, then who cares??
/r/seduction10/12/13 04:17 PM
1

Not until she asks if you are seeing other girls.
/r/seduction02/12/13 01:32 PM
7

Practice eye contact in the mirror. I had a similar problem; I had no problems holding eye contact, but for some reason girls were unreceptive. I realized after practicing in the mirror that I looked like a fucking creeper! I've changed my look to be more playful and suggestive, and not as intense. Maybe this is your problem?
/r/seduction25/11/13 12:07 AM
8

"I definitely won't rape you. Tonight."
/r/seduction06/11/13 11:24 PM
71

Procrastination is like masturbation. Fun while it lasts, but in the end you realize you just fucked yourself.
/r/seduction02/11/13 11:52 PM
8

"First love is magical because it usually ends abruptly and dramatically". Lol ok I changed my mind. I don't think you are an idiot anymore. You are probably pretty bright. And good looking too! I bet you're a lovely broad to look at. But I do think you are bitter, because you are getting on in years, you aren't as beautiful as you used to be, and you haven't locked down a husband yet. You wouldn't refer to the internet as the echo chambers of a younger generation otherwise. You wouldn't be craw…
/r/seduction22/10/13 10:21 AM
-5

Idiot
/r/seduction22/10/13 07:31 AM
3

I think you would be surprised. I would guess there's a lot of pent up sexuality brooding beneath the surface of the girls at schools like yours. I remember in high school, some of the dirtiest skanks were the girls who hung out in the observant Mormon clique. My advice would be to go for it; don't let any perceived reputation of prudishness get in your way. Check out the massive amounts of seduction info on the interwebs. And don't get a reputation as a player who fucks a lot of girls; it will …
/r/seduction02/10/13 08:56 AM
2

I consider opening much easier to learn/improve than mid or late game. So that's good for you. Opening is much easier to practice because you get so many more reps; you could open a 100 times in a night and even if you get blown out in every one, that's still 100 sets you attempted to open. But for you to even be able to break out your mid to late game, everything previously has to go well, the logistics of which limit you to at most a few per night. So yea, keep grinding out those openers and b…
/r/seduction08/09/13 06:20 AM
7

The more aggressively you set the sexual frame, the more it implies that you aren't looking for anything serious.
/r/seduction07/09/13 07:49 AM
4

Do they not pre-game in the UK? If your only problem is needing together a drink or two in your system, buy a flask.
/r/seduction04/09/13 05:32 PM
2

Ahahahahahahahahahahahahah "they like me for my personality"
/r/seduction26/08/13 10:07 PM
1

"It could be worse. You could have no tits like that girl over there ;) " or something to that effect. His does two things; strokes her ego by insulting another girl, and diverts attention from the flaw of her own that she brought up.
/r/seduction26/07/13 08:03 AM
1

I feel you bro. I got the reputation of being a shitshow (well deserved looking back) and a bit of a creep my first two years of college. I would usually be the drunkest guy at the party, and this would result in nights ending either spectacularly well or in catastrophe. However, I have since managed to rehabilitate my image in the greek community and at large, and I'll share with you what I've seen and experienced that has helped. To start, the bad news; sororistitutes have a LONG memory for th…
/r/seduction20/02/13 04:56 AM
1

His entries on body language are some of the best Ive ever read.
/r/seduction08/12/12 12:12 PM
1

Well played fellow San Diego brah.
/r/seduction08/11/12 11:15 AM
6

http://www.cajunsblog.com/posts/advanced-body-language/ This guy has some of my favorite insights on body language and how it relates to seduction. There are also parts 2 and 3 on his blog, which are just as good.
/r/seduction30/10/12 06:34 AM
1

If you want to fuck a girl, she better be ok with more than a handshake from you.
/r/seduction09/10/12 11:07 PM
1

This sounds like it was written by a Buddhist; the last paragraph very closely mirrors the third noble truth, which deals with the relinquishment of Taṇhā (thirst or desire).
/r/seduction07/10/12 08:57 PM
2

U mirin ?
/r/seduction18/07/12 11:15 AM
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