ghostglasses Archive

Upvotes	Title	Category	Author	Subreddit	Date (UTC)

Upvotes	Comment on	Subreddit	Date (UTC)
12	I hooked up with a woman that started my ex red pill journey. (Long Read) When I think of "masculine" traits, I think capable, self-sufficient, confident, reliable, and composed or even stoic. Being aggressive and emotionally volatile are childish traits to me, not masculine ones. I think men and women are socialized with somewhat different ideas about ideal masculine and feminine traits that causes this type of disconnect.	/r/ExRedPill	10/01/25 05:29 AM
19	I hooked up with a woman that started my ex red pill journey. (Long Read) It's so common that people won't understand that most people who are abusive will come off as perfectly normal to everyone around them. They might be charming and quiet and good natured in public then once they feel like you're stuck with them, that's when they start showing who they are. I'm sorry you went through this. I have had a really similar experience as well but it was not physically abusive as it was emotionally and sexually abusive.	/r/ExRedPill	10/01/25 05:19 AM
2	What do you think about r/seduction? Most of the advice there is from people who have never tried doing the things they're suggesting and they're just going off their pop evo psych YouTube influencer role models. A lot of it is really cringe, you'll very frequently see men fumble situations with girls who are into them because they're trying to take bad advice. Also the misogyny is rampant but that's to be expected.	/r/ExRedPill	28/09/24 12:43 AM
4	Why is there always so much pushback to young men who claim that the reason they can’t get a date is 100% the way they look? The reason that people say that looks are not the only issue is that almost everyone knows a guy who looks like a troll who is happily married. Women are attracted to other qualities besides looks	/r/ExRedPill	04/08/24 04:26 PM
40	According to a software engineer working with dating apps, women are absolutely much more picky than men are I know a few guys who will swipe on every single woman on a dating app, hoping to hook up with ANYONE on the platform. Of course women are pickier than that. Women have a lot to lose meeting up with a stranger.	/r/ExRedPill	07/06/24 03:08 PM
24	How do I not get frustrated when I see guys who exhibit the qualities I constantly see women here say women don't like doing well with women? This isn't really a crazy concept. Most men are willing to sleep with a woman that they find attractive even if she says things that they think are stupid or disagreeable. But not every man will have sex with a woman he dislikes, and not every woman will have sex with a guy just because she thinks he's attractive. Plus guys tend to pursue the same type of women that they have success with because the odds of getting laid are higher when you have a general idea of what is going to work.	/r/ExRedPill	14/05/24 03:14 AM
5	Is it weird that one of my best friend’s girlfriend won’t set me up with any of her friends and she’s ok with her friends slightly bashing me? She won't set you up with her friends because she doesn't think you'd be a good boyfriend. Could be personality, looks, stability, even political ideology. It's not weird at all. She knows what her friends are into better than you would.	/r/seduction	19/04/24 02:50 AM
5	Never compliment her looks Nah if a woman likes you she wants to hear that you think she looks good, just don't let that be the only thing that you compliment her on. In your case, I think your responses here were just a bit awkward. I don't know how I would be expected to respond either.	/r/seduction	06/04/24 06:44 PM
2	I need help having empathy for women I think it's difficult to have empathy for people who you don't feel like you can relate to. If something bad happens to a woman, can you sympathize? Can you say "oh that sucks, that's too bad she has to deal with that?" If not, maybe a way you can try to approach it is to remove the person who is being affected and only consider the situation. You don't really have to put yourself in someone's shoes and empathize with them when something is wrong if you're not being antagonistic about the situa…	/r/ExRedPill	25/02/24 05:13 AM
1	My bf broke up with me because of my body count I'm 28, people used this term commonly when I was in high school. Could be that it's just not common where you live.	/r/ExRedPill	08/01/24 10:02 PM